I want to thank everyone who stopped to answer this question... this episode wouldn't be possible without YOU. Thank you for your kindness in stopping to hear me out and your braveness in answering the question. I try to put as many answers as I can in the episode, however, not every answer goes on the page. Please know that if your answer is not in the episode, it does not take away from the importance of your story. There are many outside variables that determine the order and answers that go in the episode. Things like duration, flow, variety in answers, ensuring a diverse range of voices, overall feel of an episode, and sometimes background noise, or other audio and visual problems. I love you all. Thank you ❤
''When you see the sun in the morning and you don't see any clouds and you know it's gonna be a good day, that's how I feel.'' Damn, is that a powerful quote.
I just heard this had to pause it and look in the comments for someone who got sucker punched in the gut like I did. Here I am single, eating my goldfish and tearing up at his genuine and lovely description
I like that she zooms into their face, theres just something about people’s smiles, their face structure their eyes or even the things they may consider as flaws.
Repent , the kingdom of God is at hand , read your bible for yourself, and pray , there is nothing our there in the world ,as God to guide and protect you ,if you have any question please ask me.
My first love: I was 21, she was 20. I was in my penultimate year in college. She was in her first year of seven in college. I saw this tall brunette in a crowd exiting a building. My heart missed a beat as I stared. I was not in her line of sight, yet she sensed my presence and briefly turned and glanced at me with a concealed smile. I knew instantly that somehow I would spend my life with her. (This is a long story, so if you're easily bored, leave now). Some weeks later, I saw her walking on a path parallel to mine near the college campus. I crossed over so that we had to pass each other. I smiled, she smiled back. This happened several times as her accommodation was close to mine. In the evenings I would search the floors of the college library. Then one evening I found her. I sat in a nearby cubicle, not having the courage to approach her. I saw her several times subsequently in the library. Each time she was totally focused on her study materials, but she would nod and acknowledge my presence as I pretended to casually whizz by. One evening, close to the end of the college year, I decided to overcome my shyness and seize the moment. The library was nearly empty, and she was alone at a large table for four. I pretended to be on my way out, then suddenly see her and swing by. I sat at the empty space at her table, my heart pounding. Her face turned multiple colours. I introduced myself. She did the same. We talked for 30 minutes or so about our families and college. We had much in common. Then, the college year ended. The next college year was my last. I saw her again in the library from time to time and we talked. Our total focus was our studies. We were both from humble backgrounds and a lot of sacrifices were being made to put us through college. Exam failure was not an option. We did not have the money, time or indeed the energy to date. As that year ended, I was finished college but she had five more years to do. A relationship was out of the question for her. I started work. Over the next five years, I had several girls in what we would now call the friend zone, but none who were special to me. I dated a few other girls, but my heart did not seem to be in it. It is only now, many years later, that I realise I was subconsciously running down the five year clock until her college was finished. I was never in contact with her. This was the '80s. There were no cell phones, there was no Internet. At the end of her final college year, I drove to the college in my newly acquired car and searched for her. No luck. I knew the tiny town of a few hundred she was from so I drove there, made some inquiries and also drew a blank. Finally, as she had an unusual surname, I decided to search the local telephone directry. There were five entries with that name. I called the one I thought was the best match. It was her cousins who gave me her family address. Heart racing and hands shaking, I called her number. Her late mother answered; she saw through my cover story and could tell I was a suitor. She giggled as she uncovered my true objective, told me her daughter was now working as an intern in the nearby city, and she promised to pass on my telephone number. A few days later, I got a call at work. It was my tall brunette from college asking how I was. I knew from the tone of her voice that my life was about to change forever. We talked for three hours straight. I asked her for a date for the following weekend. That weekend, I drove to her city, a little nervous and very excited; it was the best journey of my life. When I picked her up, she was wearing a floral patterned dress in turquoise green and maroon. She looked and acted exactly as I remembered her five years earlier. I noticed she was tense in our car ride to the restaurant I had booked. She was very nervous at dinner and hardly ate. Before I returned home, she asked me in for coffee. There, she stood over me in her little kitchen, as I sat and drank her coffee. She relaxed, standing and talking for four hours until I had to plead to drive home. As I left, I reached out to shake her hand. She pulled me in and kissed me. She had taken control of our relationship and has not relinquished it since. We married two years later and will be 30 years married next summer. We have two adult children. She told me years later the reason she was so nervous on our first date. She was shocked at how much I had matured physically and in self confidence from when she knew me in college. She feared I had outgrown her. She still has the turquoise green and maroon dress in her wardrobe and occasionally wears it. I love her more than ever and more than she will ever know. She went to bed two hours ago and will be wondering what the hell is keeping me awake.
@@yasmineghriss2247 Thank you so much. All the best to you too. I hope someone who is shy, and lacking in confidence, as I was when young, will take inspiration from this. Follow your heart, follow your dreams, be courageous but patient, sacrifice, persist and endure. It's worth it.
Same he just broke up with me 2 days ago bc he told me he didn't know how he felt about me after 2years together he told me that he wanted to know himself better and said that it would be best for both of us...i hope ill heal and im hoping that ill find myself again. I have a hard time imagine myself without him but i have to respect hes wish...😭
I paused this video because I felt like I needed to say something out loud and ended up talking to an imaginary interviewer for 20 minutes, answering the question in the title... Thank you, Thoraya! :)
"I thought I could save him from his issues and he thought he could save me from mine, but we just kind of dug graves for each other". So real and poetic.
"When I see a sunset, I think of God's creation. When I think of God's creation, I think of beautiful. But God created her more beautifully than the sunset. And I thank her for being her, because as beautiful as she is on the outside, she's even more beautiful on the inside. Especially to me".
My dad (who's around 55 today) told me about his first love and heart break recently and it's really stuck with me. I believe it was in middle school. He and this girl really liked each other, so he bought her a pretty necklace. However, the next day the girl returned it and told him that her parents didn't approve because he was black. It really broke his heart and stuck with him to this day.
Aww sweetheart, some peoples parents are just nasty. All he has to be happy with is the fact the girl accepted it. That's all. Doesn't matter about the parents. She accepted his necklace first time. They made her return it. Best wishes.
the guy with the seaweed story touched my heart ughh :((( the innocence and purity of his first love affected him his whole life ughhh that's a first love for me too :((
The first cut is the deepest. There's a lot of truth to that and I can definately relate.. I even thought of him this morning and its been 15 years lol
I'm 21 years old and never had a boyfriend. I've had crushes but never fell in love. So just by listening to their stories I'm excited for that one day that I'll experience what they had.
'When you see the sun in the morning and you don't see any clouds and you know it's gonna be a good day" hits hard. that's how she makes me feel every time I see her. I hope one day I can tell her that I love her.
Or you could just tell her exactly what you told us : that seeing her makes you feel '' like a morning blue sky with no clouds ... '' :-) it's a little bit intriguing, and it just says she has a good effect on you, and that you like to be in her presence. '' i love you '' is a big statement ! Especially if you are still getting to know each other ! But maybe you are together already ? Or maybe she is one of your friends ? (I don't know !)
i fell in love with this boy when I was 15 and he was 18 then we broke up and 3 years later we met back up again and we’ve been together again for 2 years. he never dated anybody for those 3 years because he was waiting for me. that’s real true love.
I am going through something like that and I am wondering something...What was your breakup reason?Like did you feel that it is over forever or did you see hope ?I just want to know that if I lost my first love forever...
@@jocimar1625 don't, you'll eventually meet someone I promise! You won't get anywhere by giving up, keep hope and there may be chance to meet someone! There's still posibility!
I wanted to say that I’m glad you included people that have never been in love. I’m 38 years old and have never been in love, and hearing there are other people that are in the same situation as I am, it makes me feel not so alone.
Hi! Don't want to push any labels on you, but I just wanted to let you know that there is type of romantic orientation that's literally called being "aromantic", as in just not being interested in people romantically (it's independent from one's sexual orientation, someone might be aromantic or "aro", which means the same, and being able to feel sexual attraction or aromantic and also asexual, which means not feeling sexual attraction). Just wanted to leave it here because using and knowing specific terms like these can allow you to look for and find people with similar experience to yours, in my experience it can really help feeling seen and validated and better about one's self! Of course, this might not be true for anyone but it was for me, so maybe this might help you or someone happening to share you feeling. Anyway, whish you every happiness 💛
My first love died a year ago, during the funeral I wept like I had never done in my entire life. He suffered from a terminal illness yet I don’t regret loving him, at all. I miss him but knowing that he isn’t in pain anymore soothes me
My boyfriend told me that too, one evening when we were watching the sky togehter. We would always send pictures of beautiful sunsets and look at it when we were together. We broke up a week ago, so it feels weird to call him my ex, he's my first love, the first one who kissed me and the first one to truly know me, we met when I was 18 and he was 24. I am the first one he ever truly loved. We were together for 13 months. We're still friendly and I'm sure we'll stay close friends, but God has plans for us that mean we can't be in a relationship, at least for a long while. I'll always love him.
@@miaumiau675 no problem my friend! I'm glad it brought you something. I hope I won't crush it by saying that we're not staying friends after all, at least for a long while
I was 12 he was 14, I'm now 22 and he's still 14. I loved him more than anything, I just wished he knew that before he went... Nearly a decade later and I still wonder if he'd still be alive if I had let him know he meant more to me than he thought.
Dr Frank can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him....
@@dangerousateveryspeed When the right person comes you'll appreciate it But for now, guard your heart and never second guess what you deserve. Never compromise and always trust your instincts, no matter what. Sometimes the "idea of love" can blind us from what it really is. You deserve the absolute best. WAIT sweetie. It will come. Trust me. 🖤
Brooklynite C oh my god that’s the sweetest possible reply ! And I really hope that someone who is as kind-hearted as you have been are too - especially given your initial comment. I could feel the hurt in that, and I hope you receive something that can heal that. Love to you x
@@dangerousateveryspeed Thank you for the kind response! I'm glad that it had a positive impact. But I'm really happy. My heart is mended. I learned from my past mistakes and I just want other ppl to see past the present hurt and make decisions that are going to better thier lives for the future. Always think about your future, guys🖤
"When I see the sunset, I think of God's creation. When I think of God's creation, it's beautiful. But God created her more beautifully than the sunset... and as beautiful as she is on the outside, she's even more beautiful on the inside." 💜 that is the most beautiful thing I've ever heard 😭
I went to Indonesia , Bali,really recently and I wasn't excepting the beauty that people have there. They have such a unique beauty and it was so natural
I fell in love for the first time at 19 years old. It’s been 8 years & I’ve never felt the same way about another man. He’s been in contact with me and realizes I’m “the one that got away”. My heart still gets butterflies when I see his name pop up but I’ll never forget the years of sickness and depression I had afterwards. I don’t think you ever really get over or forget about your first love, but you learn to cope & live again.
Love is like cocaine, once you try it for the first time its the best thing ever. You chase that feeling for the rest of your life but it will never amount to the euphoria of the first time.
“and she claimed to be an indonesian princess and she introduced me to seaweed” as an indonesian girl, this was a beautiful saying. one day i hope to introduce someone to seaweed and they’ll eat it ever since :)
i met someone that finally helped/made me get over the girl i couldn't get over before. of course, i lost her too, and don't know if i'll ever fall in love again. still have the engagement ring for the most recent girl in my wallet that i'll never be able to give her..:
I think you first need to love yourself then you'll be able to love others. Nowadays people love for attention. Like if I love someone I want his attention which is a false perception of love. If I love someone Ill give them the best version of myself
I was super young when I feel in love with my boyfriend, bestfriend and soul mate but 2 years into the relationship he passed away in a motorcycle accident in Mexico. I'll never forget him. I may have met someone new but noone can take the place of my bestfriend. He meant the world to me.
My dear, I know how you feel about that.. I was so sad when my ex leave me for the past 6 years... Then on this faithful day I came across a video on UA-cam there was this friend of mine that drop a message on my email, and she explained perfectly well to me that there is this great powerful man that can help me with my situation.. Then for that moment I was doubting her but I was having these mind set let me try if it is going to work for me know then and I message him on his WhatsApp number Low and behold the man told me that I should give him only three days that my ex is going to come back to me.. On that faithful day my ex text me on first place I was so very excited and now my ex is with me now i am so great full to him. You can text him on his WhatsApp +2349058821669 Greetings from Italy 🇮🇹🤝
I had my first love at age 16. It lasted for two long years. I'm 24 now. We were on good terms, friends even. We went to parties together, spent nights dancing, talking. It could have been magical. But I never told him how i felt. He had no clue because I have never even gave him the slightest hint. Months passed and I just suffered quietly in the inside. Still haven't told him. As I got older, I realised that I had to move on, so I did, but it killed me. I got into a relationship, that lasted for 4 years and I slowly forgot abut him. Never even saw him. It no longer had any affect on me. At least I thought. A few months ago we accidentally met at an event and he approached to me immediately. Asked me out for a date and I said yes. We went out and as the hours passed, somewhere deep down i felt like that feeling never really went away. We talked until the morning, laughed, told each other stories. Now we are together. It strange how it all happened I still can't really belive it. He had no idea how i felt back than, maybe it would all happened differently if I would stand up for myself. Maybe not. Who knows. The only thing that is important is to always live for the moment and don't think that your happiness depends on an other person. It is all in you! :)
I am 16 and I feel like I am in the exact situation! I don't want to have any regrets and it is just so hard to get him out of my head. Do you have any advice?😅
@@elissao.6585I will be honest here, nothing really helped me but time and living my feelings. You will get through this, but please try to enjoy your youth and laugh, go out, have fun. These times will never ever come back. Maybe him seeing you happy and independent will give him a little push ;)
Enjoy it. Love every second. I was in the SAME boat and we just hit our year of reuniting and he hit me with a blindsided break up this week. Something doesn’t feel fully real about it but I have to start moving on because he doesn’t want to fight. But, I enjoyed every moment of our reunited time. I truly loved being with him, I loved him completely. I thanked God every day for bringing us together again so at least I believe and feel as though I loved fully. I appreciated every second together/
My first love was literally my childhood dentist. When I was little, I used to tell him that I wanted to marry him every time I came to get my teeth cleaned😂
I learned so much about love on this day of filming. Something I cherish most about this project is the conversations I have off camera.. and this day was extra special. This will never get old to me and I hope it never gets old for you all. Thank you again for everything. I love you guys
Thoraya this is amazing!!! Thank you for everything you do. It would be great if you could show us some behind the scenes, I've always been curious about it. Sending you a lot of love.
Would absolutely love to see some of the stuff off-camera, or probably recordings, if possible! We always want more of your work =) We love you and your constant amazing stuff!♥
@@kaj0t yeah for me i think wheter it hurts because you think it will last a long time or you in so much pain because you are not used to say good bye
None gonna feel bad with me about that guy who got chested on by his love who were together for 4 years then she married the guy she cheated on with him
My first love was when I was 18 and he was 20. He died of a fentanyl overdose almost 3 years ago on October 21st 2018 when he just turned 23. I held his hand and kissed him goodbye in his casket. What bugs me is he always told me he was surprised he made it as far as he did and knew he would die young. I got a tattoo in his memory months after. Rest in paradise Matt, I miss you I love you, I’m grateful you were apart of my life and my first love. 💗
If the world was filled with more viral content that humanizes people instead of demonizing. Your channel high lights humanity at its best and it’s so easy to forget. Always a good cry
This episode starts with a sunrise and ends with a sunset... comment below if you get what I'm saying!!! And let me know if you find any other hidden/deeper meanings in the episode/edit 🙃
I know this idea is a little more depressing, but can you do a ‘first time you had your heart broken’ video. Bc heartbreak isn’t just in terms of being in love, boyfriend girlfriend, husband wife, unrequited love etc. Heartbreak can be caused by a family member, by being bereaved etc. So might be more varied
"When you find that person that's your first love, nothing else is the same. Nothing else compares to that. How do you get that same thing with somebody else that you had, that almost seemed unmeasurable. Being with her, being around her, being in her company, was like the light in the darkness of my life that made everything ok" damn
Z Xtraterrestrial She was my first ever love. I’ve dumped so many girls because of my own issues and insecurities. Was so fucking scared of commitment... Got called a fuck boy for it, how cliche that sounds... karma fucks me back, i’m guessing.
She wasn't my first love, but she was the deepest love I ever felt. Now I understand why people call it "falling" in love; I couldn't help it, all I knew was that I was crazy about her and wanted to be with her. Over the years, she became home to me. Whenever we were apart, it felt like I was missing part of myself, and when we could finally see each other, I felt whole again. I never thought I would get to experience such a pure, unconditional, selfless love as the love I felt (and still feel) for her. I'll always be grateful for that experience.
I was crying too!!! And idk why but I immediately thought of my first true love and he’s actually “the one that got away”. But he’s told me he loves me and I just wish I had the courage to tell him I felt the same lol.
My first love was someone I met in middle school. (Roughly six years ago now, and I still love her.) she was so kind and hard working and talented, and thought no one saw her. She’s like finding an old castle and realizing it’s filled with magic and wanting to stay there in the sun the rest of your life. Looking at her and hearing her be happy is like waking up to clouds and rain and knowing you can stay inside with your favorite song or show and just love life. She’s amazing, but she’s moved on. Maybe I will one day too.
We are living the same life !!! Im surprised I thought I’d be the only one! I too met my first love in middle school. We dated for 11months and then called it … we had agreed that we would date again when we were older , then came freshman year he asked me out but I said no bc I was healing . When I told him we would date again , I meant it as in when we become adults… fast forward two years after hs he’s in the military and has a gf too :) I’m happy he’s happy and I hope I can move on some day as well
He's been my best friend since I was 18 and we've done 4 years long distance, Scotland to Colorado. Next year we're getting married and he's the best thing to ever happen to me. My first everything & my forever. ❤️
@@luluchannel3999 I understand but everything in life is a risk and you have to decide if that love is strong enough and worth it to take such a huge risk.. sadly, there is always a possibility of getting hurt 😞
He was like a breath of fresh air, a true gentleman, a really smart and funny guy and I was insecure about myself.... I ruined everything, he is now engaged and I'm just thinking about him and about how great it would be if I believe more in myself and didn't care about what society thinks...
@@ziondaughter5331 if you consider the fact that he knew how to speak and when is the proper time to say certain things then yes he was a breath of fresh air because that's really rare to find. It might seem funny when you read it, but 5 years have passed and that person still has a special place in my heart.
@@YouFeelinItNowMrKrabs I'm doing fine, focusing on money and working and hopefully one day I'll meet someone that will make me feel again that peace and love I'm seeking for. But honestly great, experiences if taken the right way they make us better. Thank you for asking ❤️
I want to thank everyone who stopped to answer this question... this episode wouldn't be possible without YOU. Thank you for your kindness in stopping to hear me out and your braveness in answering the question. I try to put as many answers as I can in the episode, however, not every answer goes on the page. Please know that if your answer is not in the episode, it does not take away from the importance of your story. There are many outside variables that determine the order and answers that go in the episode. Things like duration, flow, variety in answers, ensuring a diverse range of voices, overall feel of an episode, and sometimes background noise, or other audio and visual problems. I love you all. Thank you ❤
''When you see the sun in the morning and you don't see any clouds and you know it's gonna be a good day, that's how I feel.'' Damn, is that a powerful quote.
Ikr!?
Absolutely!!
Well i love the clouds though
But I love seeing clouds, which is why I hate winter so much😕
not really because the sun is going to god damn melt me
notice that every single person is smiling when they talk about their person ... the power of a first love
Yeah.. I noticed that too- even if it ended bad they still smiled! Like you said, it truly shows the power of #LOVE
I wouldn't smile about mine :(
I wouldn't have smiled
Nice observation I started smiling too just thinking about my first love and all those good times
@@Taylormane Me too
"God created her more beautiful than a sunset" man that got me right in the heart.
Ashley Moe 😭
"my personal sunset" Miles carter, Idk if his quote is related to the song but there is the exact same sentence
Made me cry 😭
I just heard this had to pause it and look in the comments for someone who got sucker punched in the gut like I did. Here I am single, eating my goldfish and tearing up at his genuine and lovely description
Yes so beautiful
I wonder what that feels like to be loved like that
#brokenhearted 💔
I like that she zooms into their face, theres just something about people’s smiles, their face structure their eyes or even the things they may consider as flaws.
God has honestly given us all something perfect. One person may have the perfect nose,someone else may have the perfect face structure etc
I feel like it could make me uncomfortable but you are absolutely right, it brings a certain feeling of intimacy
meanwhile I would HATE it, I hate that she zooms into their face because I just picture my face being zoomed into lol
Repent , the kingdom of God is at hand , read your bible for yourself, and pray , there is nothing our there in the world ,as God to guide and protect you ,if you have any question please ask me.
@@Ayveh I know, I can’t concentrate on what they’re saying because I’m thinking “jeez would my teeth look that bad!?”
“And she claimed to be an Indonesian princess, and she introduced me to seaweed♥️”
what a great sentence! haha..
Thoraya Maronesy i bet if we worked hard enough we could find her
Itu cewenya namanya siapa ya? Jadi kepo, ngomong nya kurang jelas
Sekar Langit timestamp?
@@esthernahon bukanya cowonya tadi ngomonh dejaymi?
"are you over him?"
"nah"
feel u sis
Lol
I've been heartbroken 7 times dude being cheated on hurts
gacha girl I’m sorry:(
when she was like “my first love was my best friend”
“are u over him?”
“na”
As a broken guy that ends a lot of relationships, its not you. If a guy leaves, you would have never been happy long term.
imagine being compared to the sunset. Damn. I’m not crying i swear.
Mine was the sun too, only way to describe the feeling.
i am crying too
Watch my personal sunset by miles Carter, he's a poet, and in his poem he explains it like that, he's on you tube
Me neither 😢
If that makes you feel special then I got some news for you, you need some players/fuckboys in your life
My first love: I was 21, she was 20. I was in my penultimate year in college. She was in her first year of seven in college. I saw this tall brunette in a crowd exiting a building. My heart missed a beat as I stared. I was not in her line of sight, yet she sensed my presence and briefly turned and glanced at me with a concealed smile. I knew instantly that somehow I would spend my life with her. (This is a long story, so if you're easily bored, leave now).
Some weeks later, I saw her walking on a path parallel to mine near the college campus. I crossed over so that we had to pass each other. I smiled, she smiled back. This happened several times as her accommodation was close to mine. In the evenings I would search the floors of the college library. Then one evening I found her. I sat in a nearby cubicle, not having the courage to approach her.
I saw her several times subsequently in the library. Each time she was totally focused on her study materials, but she would nod and acknowledge my presence as I pretended to casually whizz by. One evening, close to the end of the college year, I decided to overcome my shyness and seize the moment. The library was nearly empty, and she was alone at a large table for four. I pretended to be on my way out, then suddenly see her and swing by. I sat at the empty space at her table, my heart pounding. Her face turned multiple colours. I introduced myself. She did the same. We talked for 30 minutes or so about our families and college. We had much in common. Then, the college year ended.
The next college year was my last. I saw her again in the library from time to time and we talked. Our total focus was our studies. We were both from humble backgrounds and a lot of sacrifices were being made to put us through college. Exam failure was not an option. We did not have the money, time or indeed the energy to date. As that year ended, I was finished college but she had five more years to do. A relationship was out of the question for her.
I started work. Over the next five years, I had several girls in what we would now call the friend zone, but none who were special to me. I dated a few other girls, but my heart did not seem to be in it. It is only now, many years later, that I realise I was subconsciously running down the five year clock until her college was finished. I was never in contact with her. This was the '80s. There were no cell phones, there was no Internet.
At the end of her final college year, I drove to the college in my newly acquired car and searched for her. No luck. I knew the tiny town of a few hundred she was from so I drove there, made some inquiries and also drew a blank. Finally, as she had an unusual surname, I decided to search the local telephone directry. There were five entries with that name. I called the one I thought was the best match. It was her cousins who gave me her family address. Heart racing and hands shaking, I called her number. Her late mother answered; she saw through my cover story and could tell I was a suitor. She giggled as she uncovered my true objective, told me her daughter was now working as an intern in the nearby city, and she promised to pass on my telephone number.
A few days later, I got a call at work. It was my tall brunette from college asking how I was. I knew from the tone of her voice that my life was about to change forever. We talked for three hours straight. I asked her for a date for the following weekend. That weekend, I drove to her city, a little nervous and very excited; it was the best journey of my life. When I picked her up, she was wearing a floral patterned dress in turquoise green and maroon. She looked and acted exactly as I remembered her five years earlier.
I noticed she was tense in our car ride to the restaurant I had booked. She was very nervous at dinner and hardly ate. Before I returned home, she asked me in for coffee. There, she stood over me in her little kitchen, as I sat and drank her coffee. She relaxed, standing and talking for four hours until I had to plead to drive home. As I left, I reached out to shake her hand. She pulled me in and kissed me. She had taken control of our relationship and has not relinquished it since.
We married two years later and will be 30 years married next summer. We have two adult children. She told me years later the reason she was so nervous on our first date. She was shocked at how much I had matured physically and in self confidence from when she knew me in college. She feared I had outgrown her. She still has the turquoise green and maroon dress in her wardrobe and occasionally wears it. I love her more than ever and more than she will ever know. She went to bed two hours ago and will be wondering what the hell is keeping me awake.
Thank you for sharing your story, I really enjoyed reading it and wish your family all the best :)
@@yasmineghriss2247 Thank you so much. All the best to you too. I hope someone who is shy, and lacking in confidence, as I was when young, will take inspiration from this. Follow your heart, follow your dreams, be courageous but patient, sacrifice, persist and endure. It's worth it.
My goodness!! This is the purest thing ever🥺🥺🥺
@@JoanneCheptoo Thank you Joanne. Happy 2021.
I loved reading this, it’s truly beautiful and pure. I wish you all the best!
“I loved him but he didn’t love me as much as he said he did” I felt that
That happened to me 😢
Same he just broke up with me 2 days ago bc he told me he didn't know how he felt about me after 2years together he told me that he wanted to know himself better and said that it would be best for both of us...i hope ill heal and im hoping that ill find myself again. I have a hard time imagine myself without him but i have to respect hes wish...😭
@@izzytoastydino1561 i hope you feel better soon❤️
gabriella 7 thanks :,)
Destro Kitty19 hey!! Just wanted to know how you’ve been now, are you okay?😘
“she claimed to be an Indonesian princess and introduced me to seaweed” wow. if that isn’t love idk what is
Lol
“HE WAS NARCISSISTIC AND VERY TOXIC, BUT I WAS BLIND.” I FEEL YOU.
She still is, calling him her best friend...
I really feel THAT TOO
I don't, having a narcissistic father taught me what to look out for.
same
my situation
why is no one speaking about first 2 girls who are clearly still in love?
fr thats the type of love i want
I think they’re together. She said that she’s right over there in the yellow shirt
I ship them
they are together
what's their name?
Seaweed guy needs his Indonesian princess! Girl, FIND HIM!
Hahahaha I love your instruction!!!
Good luck
YASSS plsss bangettt
And then Disney makes a movie
I paused this video because I felt like I needed to say something out loud and ended up talking to an imaginary interviewer for 20 minutes, answering the question in the title...
Thank you, Thoraya! :)
I did the exact same😂
Hahahahaha this is the best comment. ❤😂
I just did the same lol
Haha I did that as well
haha I did the same
After your first love it feels like you’ll never love that deeply ever again.
aloha. aminah Very worried I never will.
aloha. aminah 😞
Feels like it, but believe it or not it can happen again:)) happened to me 5 years later
Trust me, you will.
u definitely can with the right person, trust me
"I thought I could save him from his issues and he thought he could save me from mine, but we just kind of dug graves for each other". So real and poetic.
"When I see a sunset, I think of God's creation. When I think of God's creation, I think of beautiful. But God created her more beautifully than the sunset. And I thank her for being her, because as beautiful as she is on the outside, she's even more beautiful on the inside. Especially to me".
Such a romantic
I almost cried when he said that
no joke cried when he said that
My heart swelled
Natilee Shock I did too🥺💜 like you could feel the love in his voice
Imagine watching this and finding your love on here talking about their love, and then you realize it isn't about you.
Wow...the thought of it is painful...
But I mean it’s first love so
this is funny
Shit.
That killed me
What hurts more is seeing them with someone else...
Imagine having people say you were their fist love and not even know it
It happens :(
mindfuCKED
I am your 1000th like. HAHA
I feel bad because I know I was/still am someone's first love, but I don't return his feelings.
@@theoneandonlydrowlf819 Don't feel bad. You did nothing wrong. Knowing that someone is/can be hurting because of you is sad but it is not your fault.
My dad (who's around 55 today) told me about his first love and heart break recently and it's really stuck with me. I believe it was in middle school. He and this girl really liked each other, so he bought her a pretty necklace. However, the next day the girl returned it and told him that her parents didn't approve because he was black. It really broke his heart and stuck with him to this day.
What you think about the questions I got in my channel? thanks
Ouch
@@shrutis may you get your love ❤️
I‘m so sorry for your father. This is not the way people should be treated.
Aww sweetheart, some peoples parents are just nasty. All he has to be happy with is the fact the girl accepted it. That's all. Doesn't matter about the parents. She accepted his necklace first time. They made her return it. Best wishes.
the guy with the seaweed story touched my heart ughh :((( the innocence and purity of his first love affected him his whole life ughhh that's a first love for me too :((
Gabrielle Marguerite Chelsey Quiambao timestamp
Yes and he's attractive 😍😭❤️
now you won't know what I said.
It be like that
Same.
Exactly
Thats very true
The first cut is the deepest. There's a lot of truth to that and I can definately relate.. I even thought of him this morning and its been 15 years lol
Anyone ever just mesmerized by each person's beauty in these vids?
yep
Yes.. I love how every single person is so beautiful in their own unique way. 💖
I just think they need to fix their teeth lmao
Yes me too
@@BruhMoment-kk2kb Reading this definitely was a bruh moment
I'm 21 years old and never had a boyfriend. I've had crushes but never fell in love. So just by listening to their stories I'm excited for that one day that I'll experience what they had.
aww excited for u
Mee too! 😊Hope for the best
omg same
literally same.. i can barely fall asleep
@@ciggss LMAOOO
3:10 “If it’s meant to be, it comes back”
This is what love is!
Mine never will 😔
Couceiro João hopefully that means the guy who had to split with the girl for college will have her come back if it was meant to be ☺️
"if you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it's yours, if it doesn't, it never was" let me fly by DMX
harshal jason dsouza One day it will! And if it didn’t come back then it wasn’t the right one.
He keeps coming back but he also keeps on leaving... Thats why i take these quotes with a grain of salt 💀
'When you see the sun in the morning and you don't see any clouds and you know it's gonna be a good day" hits hard. that's how she makes me feel every time I see her. I hope one day I can tell her that I love her.
Aawww dudette, I wish you good luck and a lot of courage 😁
Tell her right now!!
What’s stopping you? If you decide to tell her; good luck!!
Or you could just tell her exactly what you told us : that seeing her makes you feel '' like a morning blue sky with no clouds ... '' :-) it's a little bit intriguing, and it just says she has a good effect on you, and that you like to be in her presence. '' i love you '' is a big statement ! Especially if you are still getting to know each other ! But maybe you are together already ? Or maybe she is one of your friends ? (I don't know !)
do it!! I really wish u luck 😁😁
If my future man doesn’t talk about me the way the last guy talked about his gf then I don’t want him
J C Men never marry the woman he loves the most.
I don't want to marry someone I love the most tho
Flower Flo why not?
Flower Flo oof😕
I'm not sure you've grasped what love is
i fell in love with this boy when I was 15 and he was 18 then we broke up and 3 years later we met back up again and we’ve been together again for 2 years. he never dated anybody for those 3 years because he was waiting for me. that’s real true love.
😭😭😭
😭😭😭😭
😢😢😢😢
I am going through something like that and I am wondering something...What was your breakup reason?Like did you feel that it is over forever or did you see hope ?I just want to know that if I lost my first love forever...
@@aycasyn move on girl, some relationships are not worth it. focus on yourself rn
“It was kind of cringy looking back.”
Yea that’s my story.
Autumn West lmaooo that guy had the most realistic response to me
"Never been in love, never dated, never had a boyfriend" = me
Tiffany .971 there’s nothing wrong with that
Me too
Oh girl you're not alone on this one :/ I keep having crush on people who don't like me back. So I gave up
@@jocimar1625 don't, you'll eventually meet someone I promise! You won't get anywhere by giving up, keep hope and there may be chance to meet someone! There's still posibility!
She is the lucky one
Ask people about, self love. Have they found it? How did they get there?
ether stars YESSSSSS
Oooo this is a beautiful question
Oh yes!
Amazing
yes please!!!!!
I wanted to say that I’m glad you included people that have never been in love. I’m 38 years old and have never been in love, and hearing there are other people that are in the same situation as I am, it makes me feel not so alone.
You might in Love little may be with something in nature apart human or your own creation.
Hi! Don't want to push any labels on you, but I just wanted to let you know that there is type of romantic orientation that's literally called being "aromantic", as in just not being interested in people romantically (it's independent from one's sexual orientation, someone might be aromantic or "aro", which means the same, and being able to feel sexual attraction or aromantic and also asexual, which means not feeling sexual attraction).
Just wanted to leave it here because using and knowing specific terms like these can allow you to look for and find people with similar experience to yours, in my experience it can really help feeling seen and validated and better about one's self!
Of course, this might not be true for anyone but it was for me, so maybe this might help you or someone happening to share you feeling.
Anyway, whish you every happiness 💛
Same
Same for me as well.
"we kind of just dug graves for each other but he is still my best friend" that hit hard
Me too
Leeny my crazy passionate love was like that
i fell for her instantly :( her story was beautiful tho
The last guy's gf is so lucky tho. He loves her dearly
You should do "tell me about your first heartbreak"
Edit: HOLY LIKES!! 1k??!!! Thank you guys so much❤️
Edit 2: YOU GUYS!!! 2k omggggggg
Are you ready for Love?, Elton John
i think she already did
@@miriecheltrueee!
Yasss
ua-cam.com/video/z9aXPAFHG_4/v-deo.html
almost the same
That “you don’t know whether to be miserable or happy” guy REALLY hit the nail on the head for me. I was/ am 25 tho.
Are we going to pretend like that one bearded guy didn't just steal his best friends girl?
Lol
man i was like watching that part like "huh interesting"
Right!?
I KNOW I GOT MAD😂😂😂 my best friend stole my man before so I was like oh NO he did not
LOL that bearded guy was my high school math teacher. It was a nice surprise while I watch videos at 1AM. 🥴
13:23 - 13:38 God created her more beautifully than the sunset 😭
💯👋👋
Can I cry?
Marcia Yolo i almost did. go ahead
I cried :,)))
My first love died a year ago, during the funeral I wept like I had never done in my entire life. He suffered from a terminal illness yet I don’t regret loving him, at all. I miss him but knowing that he isn’t in pain anymore soothes me
Thank you for sharing this with us. I'm really sorry that that happened and I'm happy that you found peace knowing that he is not in pain.
Aww I'm so soo sorry u went through that stay strong boo😭pray it will help
i love you i hope you’re okay
Im sorry💔
Keep strong🥺♥️
I’m actually married to my first love. ❤️ We’ve been together since I was 15 and I’m now 33. 😍
Any advice on how you kept it that way ?
@@nicholegonzalez2262 I'm curious too
May God bless you!
I hope all 🥺
you definetly won at life, how I wish mine would be the same😿
People live in different country, different culture.. But the feelings is same..
That is so true! We are all connected in so many ways despite our differences
Cuz we are all human
Love has no language. Love has no boundary. Love has no race.
😊😊✌️🇧🇩
@@tayeba8976 yes bdian😎
“but god created her more beautiful than the sunset”
damn i felt that
"God created her more beautiful than the sunset."
Incredible.
My boyfriend told me that too, one evening when we were watching the sky togehter. We would always send pictures of beautiful sunsets and look at it when we were together. We broke up a week ago, so it feels weird to call him my ex, he's my first love, the first one who kissed me and the first one to truly know me, we met when I was 18 and he was 24. I am the first one he ever truly loved. We were together for 13 months.
We're still friendly and I'm sure we'll stay close friends, but God has plans for us that mean we can't be in a relationship, at least for a long while. I'll always love him.
@@Jade.n. thank you for this coment.
@@miaumiau675 no problem my friend! I'm glad it brought you something. I hope I won't crush it by saying that we're not staying friends after all, at least for a long while
It sounds like miles carter “my personal sunset”
Haha I'd cringe if he said that
I was 12 he was 14, I'm now 22 and he's still 14. I loved him more than anything, I just wished he knew that before he went... Nearly a decade later and I still wonder if he'd still be alive if I had let him know he meant more to me than he thought.
Dr Frank can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him....
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@@myrna7665 its a bot
I'm kinda jealous of the people who have never been in love. They're pure and unbroken.
doesn’t always feel so good. pretty lonely.
I'm 19 and I have never been in love, it really doesn't feel that great
@@dangerousateveryspeed When the right person comes you'll appreciate it
But for now, guard your heart and never second guess what you deserve. Never compromise and always trust your instincts, no matter what. Sometimes the "idea of love" can blind us from what it really is. You deserve the absolute best. WAIT sweetie. It will come. Trust me. 🖤
Brooklynite C oh my god that’s the sweetest possible reply ! And I really hope that someone who is as kind-hearted as you have been are too - especially given your initial comment. I could feel the hurt in that, and I hope you receive something that can heal that. Love to you x
@@dangerousateveryspeed Thank you for the kind response! I'm glad that it had a positive impact. But I'm really happy. My heart is mended. I learned from my past mistakes and I just want other ppl to see past the present hurt and make decisions that are going to better thier lives for the future. Always think about your future, guys🖤
"He created her more beautifully than the sunset--"
STOP youre gonna make me cry
DUDE THIS GUY SO FSKDFJS ADORABLE he s over the top in love wonderful to see
Yeees.
That’s sweet
My eyes are sweating
That bilingual girl was sooo fireee and such a cool vibe
STK Black212 time stamp?
She’s from DC also, maybe I’ll run into her !
peppa pig @5:55
I found her so annoying haha
I was looking through the comments to see if anyone else found her annoying
"When I see the sunset, I think of God's creation. When I think of God's creation, it's beautiful. But God created her more beautifully than the sunset... and as beautiful as she is on the outside, she's even more beautiful on the inside." 💜 that is the most beautiful thing I've ever heard 😭
the way these people describe the first love actually makes me realize that I really never have been in love
This video made me realize I was in love
Same! At least we have something to look forward to :)
You’re so lucky. It can seem so beautiful, but be so hurtful.
And i am 43 and had many relationships, but it seems that I've never been in love
Same never have never will..
woah an Indonesian princess
Yassss
I'm Indonesian!
I went to Indonesia , Bali,really recently and I wasn't excepting the beauty that people have there. They have such a unique beauty and it was so natural
@@deasafira4129 same
@@javah2101 tinggal dimana?
I fell in love for the first time at 19 years old. It’s been 8 years & I’ve never felt the same way about another man. He’s been in contact with me and realizes I’m “the one that got away”. My heart still gets butterflies when I see his name pop up but I’ll never forget the years of sickness and depression I had afterwards. I don’t think you ever really get over or forget about your first love, but you learn to cope & live again.
Feel u siss
You will, if you allow it. So many deep people in this world following where life takes them and then they stumble upon you in a perfect harmony
Love is like cocaine, once you try it for the first time its the best thing ever. You chase that feeling for the rest of your life but it will never amount to the euphoria of the first time.
Wow.
EXACTLY
not true. oftentimes it's even better because the stuff is better quality than before
Pyongg you really think?
@@dysto__pia0 Yes but u never feel the same thing in the same way twice.
“and she claimed to be an indonesian princess and she introduced me to seaweed”
as an indonesian girl, this was a beautiful saying. one day i hope to introduce someone to seaweed and they’ll eat it ever since :)
I'm Indonesian too!!!:)
How tf do u fall in love with anyone else when u already loved someone so hard
Mlkyttt Symmy it’s hard.
i met someone that finally helped/made me get over the girl i couldn't get over before. of course, i lost her too, and don't know if i'll ever fall in love again. still have the engagement ring for the most recent girl in my wallet that i'll never be able to give her..:
I think you first need to love yourself then you'll be able to love others. Nowadays people love for attention. Like if I love someone I want his attention which is a false perception of love. If I love someone Ill give them the best version of myself
I loved my first love hard but I love my second love (husband) harder. Seeing his face in a crowd could make me cry lol
Andrew Noyes I hope you find love again
I was super young when I feel in love with my boyfriend, bestfriend and soul mate but 2 years into the relationship he passed away in a motorcycle accident in Mexico. I'll never forget him. I may have met someone new but noone can take the place of my bestfriend. He meant the world to me.
My dear, I know how you feel about that.. I was so sad when my ex leave me for the past 6 years... Then on this faithful day I came across a video on UA-cam there was this friend of mine that drop a message on my email, and she explained perfectly well to me that there is this great powerful man that can help me with my situation.. Then for that moment I was doubting her but I was having these mind set let me try if it is going to work for me know then and I message him on his WhatsApp number
Low and behold the man told me that I should give him only three days that my ex is going to come back to me.. On that faithful day my ex text me on first place I was so very excited and now my ex is with me now i am so great full to him.
You can text him on his WhatsApp
+2349058821669
Greetings from Italy 🇮🇹🤝
I'm so sorry. I hope you are healing ❤️
💖💖
I'm sorry babe.🥺
The ones who have never been in love are missing out on so many wonderful feelings but also are spared from so much hurt
💛
I’d rather be spared from being hurt I don’t think I’m missing out...after the first I don’t want to be in love ever again
Better to of loved and hurt, than to of never loved at all. ❤
Fax
The high is always worth the low.
I love how people’s faces brighten when they think about the people that are important to them
"I felt like I could save him from his issues and he felt like he could save mine but we kinda dug graves for each other." GIRL, I FEEL YOU!!!!!!!!
"I felt like I could save him from his issues and he felt like he could save mine"
This is all love has ever felt like for me
I keep getting distracted by these people's teeth ngl
Mariam Khan loool same there some interesting teeth going on here
i thought i was the only one -
Me too
Yess
idk why but same I wonder why that is 💭
I had my first love at age 16. It lasted for two long years. I'm 24 now. We were on good terms, friends even. We went to parties together, spent nights dancing, talking. It could have been magical. But I never told him how i felt. He had no clue because I have never even gave him the slightest hint. Months passed and I just suffered quietly in the inside. Still haven't told him.
As I got older, I realised that I had to move on, so I did, but it killed me. I got into a relationship, that lasted for 4 years and I slowly forgot abut him. Never even saw him. It no longer had any affect on me. At least I thought.
A few months ago we accidentally met at an event and he approached to me immediately. Asked me out for a date and I said yes. We went out and as the hours passed, somewhere deep down i felt like that feeling never really went away. We talked until the morning, laughed, told each other stories. Now we are together. It strange how it all happened I still can't really belive it. He had no idea how i felt back than, maybe it would all happened differently if I would stand up for myself. Maybe not. Who knows.
The only thing that is important is to always live for the moment and don't think that your happiness depends on an other person. It is all in you! :)
Wowww ! Great for you ❤️
I am 16 and I feel like I am in the exact situation! I don't want to have any regrets and it is just so hard to get him out of my head. Do you have any advice?😅
@@elissao.6585I will be honest here, nothing really helped me but time and living my feelings. You will get through this, but please try to enjoy your youth and laugh, go out, have fun. These times will never ever come back. Maybe him seeing you happy and independent will give him a little push ;)
Enjoy it. Love every second. I was in the SAME boat and we just hit our year of reuniting and he hit me with a blindsided break up this week. Something doesn’t feel fully real about it but I have to start moving on because he doesn’t want to fight.
But, I enjoyed every moment of our reunited time. I truly loved being with him, I loved him completely. I thanked God every day for bringing us together again so at least I believe and feel as though I loved fully. I appreciated every second together/
@@m.haynes I'm really sorry :( but at least you can think back positively!
My first love was literally my childhood dentist. When I was little, I used to tell him that I wanted to marry him every time I came to get my teeth cleaned😂
This is so cute omg😂💛
🤣🤣🤣
Aww😂
I just can’t imagine it. The amount of kids scared by dentists it’s hard to picture you “confessing” to him that you want to marry him. ICON👏
Lo, I love it ❤️❤️🥺🥺
boy if i ever get asked this question... i’ll spill my whole heart 🥺
I learned so much about love on this day of filming. Something I cherish most about this project is the conversations I have off camera.. and this day was extra special. This will never get old to me and I hope it never gets old for you all. Thank you again for everything. I love you guys
U are amazing
Thoraya this is amazing!!! Thank you for everything you do. It would be great if you could show us some behind the scenes, I've always been curious about it. Sending you a lot of love.
Thanks Thoraya ! We love you too!🤗
No keep doing you! I will always be here to support!
Would absolutely love to see some of the stuff off-camera, or probably recordings, if possible! We always want more of your work =) We love you and your constant amazing stuff!♥
I'd like to be interviewed like this one day. Man I've got stories.
Same, bro. I've so much i could tell.
Feel ya
Same, man. Same. Hahah
Same
Me too
“when he saw me he used to run away from me” me
Jozie Arnold tehe
For me, first love was so special because the fear of losing them wasn’t there.
but when it happened it hurt even more cuz you were not prepared
@@kaj0t yeah for me i think wheter it hurts because you think it will last a long time or you in so much pain because you are not used to say good bye
I fall in love every morning when I look in the mirror
Nick Tokar can’t relate
You're doing it right
Nick Tokar lmao I see a clown everytime I look in one 😂
relatable
Relatable
this made me realize i’m not in love with my boyfriend... yikes
Girl break up with him
U don't have to be in love straight away. It takes time. As long as there are strong feelings there, then it will eventually evolve.
Sometimes it takes a while to actually love someone unconditionally, but sometimes it just doesn’t get to that point.
why oh my god
Oof
None gonna feel bad with me about that guy who got chested on by his love who were together for 4 years then she married the guy she cheated on with him
That bitch I wish carma will come back to her
@Atb Illy she won't feel anything
She doesn't have a heart how can she feel anything?
Probably for the best tbh
@@luluchannel3999 هههههههه لاتعبري بالعربي يرحملي والديك ماحيفهمو
@@Bashayer18 no they will , I'm sure 😊
My first love was when I was 18 and he was 20. He died of a fentanyl overdose almost 3 years ago on October 21st 2018 when he just turned 23. I held his hand and kissed him goodbye in his casket. What bugs me is he always told me he was surprised he made it as far as he did and knew he would die young. I got a tattoo in his memory months after. Rest in paradise Matt, I miss you I love you, I’m grateful you were apart of my life and my first love. 💗
I love how the person just comes to mind immediately.
Yeah. An that is over the last years only one (my "family" and cat, too)
awww... the Indonesian princess thing was soooo cute
Video idea: what song got you through a bad time the most?
(Maybe ask street musicians )
life is strange before the storm soundtrack.
@@ivetteo woops ty
Famous last words by My Chemical Romance
You can‘t rush your healing -Trevor Hall
Hanging tree (from hunger games) *ya I was sad*
If the world was filled with more viral content that humanizes people instead of demonizing. Your channel high lights humanity at its best and it’s so easy to forget. Always a good cry
Definatly
“God created her more beautifully than the sunset” my whole heart
I've had many crushs but never had a first Love, i hate being single :(
lol same
You are not obliged to accept that perception. Try to see the benefits and pros of single life.
Same how old are u
@@Concatenate Exactly
Being single is freeing a lot of the time
This episode starts with a sunrise and ends with a sunset... comment below if you get what I'm saying!!! And let me know if you find any other hidden/deeper meanings in the episode/edit 🙃
I like to think this is just as Chemistry. Rise, decay then transformation. Love you Thoraya! U are incredible.
@@felipemagdalena3040 damn. That's deep. AF.
Best editing ever!
@@crystalcrystal1829 Thanks mate
This channel overall is some of the most human stuff I've seen in a raw form. So so beautiful. Thank you Thoraya.
They all told their stories with a smiling face ; choking their tears
“We’re just scrawny little Mexican kids out here” 🤣🤣 love that and I love how she talks!!
that last person, whoever he is dating is probably the luckiest person in the world
if i were asked about my first love, i’d be smiling too.
but that smile would be a smile of sadness
What you think about the questions I got in my channel? thanks
Id be smiling because id be nervous
Same
even if their first love ended badly, they have this smile that come to their face that just lights them up and thats so beautiful
I lost him almost 40 years ago and remembering him still brings smiles and tears.
I still dream about my first love almost 30 years later, even though he has a wife and a family and lives far away from me.
"God created her more beautiful then the sunset" wow that dude made me tear up so sweet
I was 20 when I fell in love for the first time. How about you?
14 And still
13.. 21 now and I’ve never felt that kind of love since.
Allison it'll happen
13
I think, I'm in the process of it.Idk but I've been thinking about this person more lately.
I still feel like my first love is the loml. Maybe life will bring us together one day again.
Sofia Flores same here
I wish
Same!
i don’t have a first love💀
same..
"God created her more beautifully than the sunset." 🥺
I know this idea is a little more depressing, but can you do a ‘first time you had your heart broken’ video.
Bc heartbreak isn’t just in terms of being in love, boyfriend girlfriend, husband wife, unrequited love etc. Heartbreak can be caused by a family member, by being bereaved etc.
So might be more varied
She posted a video 8 months ago with that subject I believe
Sometimes I break my own heart
"When you find that person that's your first love, nothing else is the same. Nothing else compares to that. How do you get that same thing with somebody else that you had, that almost seemed unmeasurable. Being with her, being around her, being in her company, was like the light in the darkness of my life that made everything ok" damn
Right?! That hit straight to my core man
This made me lose hope of finding anyone like my ex ever agian.
OPPSATO you‘ll find someone better, trust and believe💫
Z Xtraterrestrial She was my first ever love. I’ve dumped so many girls because of my own issues and insecurities. Was so fucking scared of commitment... Got called a fuck boy for it, how cliche that sounds... karma fucks me back, i’m guessing.
I was waiting for someone to say "my first love was learning how to love myself"
She wasn't my first love, but she was the deepest love I ever felt. Now I understand why people call it "falling" in love; I couldn't help it, all I knew was that I was crazy about her and wanted to be with her. Over the years, she became home to me. Whenever we were apart, it felt like I was missing part of myself, and when we could finally see each other, I felt whole again. I never thought I would get to experience such a pure, unconditional, selfless love as the love I felt (and still feel) for her. I'll always be grateful for that experience.
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What the hell I'm crying now 😢 the last one got me good
right!!! it got me too haha
I was crying too!!! And idk why but I immediately thought of my first true love and he’s actually “the one that got away”. But he’s told me he loves me and I just wish I had the courage to tell him I felt the same lol.
Me too OMG he's so in love with his gf
The last one made me cry so hard. Seeing how much that girl means to him is so beautiful
‘i love the spring, i’m in love with the summer, i’m infatuated with fall and i don’t like the winter.’ 6:43
so beautiful wow
My first love was someone I met in middle school. (Roughly six years ago now, and I still love her.) she was so kind and hard working and talented, and thought no one saw her. She’s like finding an old castle and realizing it’s filled with magic and wanting to stay there in the sun the rest of your life. Looking at her and hearing her be happy is like waking up to clouds and rain and knowing you can stay inside with your favorite song or show and just love life. She’s amazing, but she’s moved on. Maybe I will one day too.
We are living the same life !!! Im surprised I thought I’d be the only one! I too met my first love in middle school. We dated for 11months and then called it … we had agreed that we would date again when we were older , then came freshman year he asked me out but I said no bc I was healing . When I told him we would date again , I meant it as in when we become adults… fast forward two years after hs he’s in the military and has a gf too :) I’m happy he’s happy and I hope I can move on some day as well
WHO ELSE WAITED FOR THIS
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Meeee
I’m still dating my first love. I will marry him
Sadie Putnam good luck
I’m jealous of that 😭😭
Everyone's Dream
Lucky you
Wish u all the best together!
He's been my best friend since I was 18 and we've done 4 years long distance, Scotland to Colorado. Next year we're getting married and he's the best thing to ever happen to me. My first everything & my forever. ❤️
My lover is 7700km away from me.. I just leave everything it hurts me so much , am I wrong?
@@luluchannel3999 go with your 💖
@@merncat75 I love him but I'm afraid it won't work that's why I break up with him
@@luluchannel3999 I understand but everything in life is a risk and you have to decide if that love is strong enough and worth it to take such a huge risk.. sadly, there is always a possibility of getting hurt 😞
@@merncat75 I'll give myself a chance , and I hope it will work ..thank you ❤️
He was like a breath of fresh air, a true gentleman, a really smart and funny guy and I was insecure about myself.... I ruined everything, he is now engaged and I'm just thinking about him and about how great it would be if I believe more in myself and didn't care about what society thinks...
How are you now
Breath of fresh air. Yes.
@@ziondaughter5331 if you consider the fact that he knew how to speak and when is the proper time to say certain things then yes he was a breath of fresh air because that's really rare to find. It might seem funny when you read it, but 5 years have passed and that person still has a special place in my heart.
@@YouFeelinItNowMrKrabs I'm doing fine, focusing on money and working and hopefully one day I'll meet someone that will make me feel again that peace and love I'm seeking for. But honestly great, experiences if taken the right way they make us better. Thank you for asking ❤️
@@nilaanila3232 i know what you mean. 😀😀