You have the social skills of a poor person | How to improve & talk to the wealthy
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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
- “What do I do when I talk to the upper class? What do they want to hear? How do I impress them” You are not ready. You will embarrass yourself, go nowhere, and eventually throw your hands up in exhaustion. If you have good social skills, you can navigate any space you want to.
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Communication is about staying curious.
Simple!
Clocked it within 1 minute....Basic social skills, the ability to effectively communicate...
Yes, my social skills suck. I don't like humans all that much. I do have my moments, but I think that's why UA-cam has me here. Being financially educated isn't enough.
Common thing. The genius of social skills is you don’t necessarily have to be overly friendly and chummy. Plenty of a-holes get what they want
I also found that having a wide repertoire was useful. In high-school I downloaded an app called famous people, and learned them all. It really has helped me in conversation, I at least have a point of reference for who they're talking about
Yes this is a great point. Vague familiarity is often all you need, the rest of the conversation can easily fill in any gaps.
Also know when to shut up when engaging
Stay Pretentious!! Don't mind if I do!! Great content I love your new channel. I'm a serial entrepreneur in Las Vegas. I will tell you from first hand experience, your network is worth more than your networth, by leaps and bounds. You cannot purchase a great network and when you're down and out these people who know you're sincere and know what you're about, will 100% step up to the plate and help you.
The last part is so important to understand. People are more than willing to step up when they can tell you’re authentic. Faking it is a repellent!
I swear to God I love this page. For a minute there I was looking for content to up level my life and I was past the trending topics and wanted material to enrich me. I find this channel enriching and providing what I was looking for.
I’m glad it’s resonating!
8:13 bahahaha I love your videos!!😂😂😂 so insightful
In general, it’s better to learn to ask intelligent questions, and be willing to listen and learn. The worst thing to do is to talk as if you’re knowledgeable about a topic when you aren’t. It makes a person sound like an idiot.
There is an excellent 3 hour movie from 1975 directed by Stanley Kubrick and starring Ryan O'Neal which effectively showcases the rise and fall of an 18th century social climber. It is filled with really interesting nuances, subtleties etc based on interactions of the upper classes of the day, those who serve them and those who attempt to interlope. It is a long movie which requires full attention and reading between the lines. However, if you are patient, it's a great movie which also doesn't take itself too seriously.
It's final message however rounds it off brilliantly -
"It was during the reign of George III that the aforesaid personages lived and quarrelled. Good or bad, handsome or ugly, rich or poor, they are all equal now".
Amazing content!
Well im in quite the predicament. My social skills are poor due to my speech impediment. Everyone on my father’s side has one, so we all have this burden lol. My whole life I’ve dealt with people in school thinking that I am illiterate or nervous when I am not. It isn’t too bad in the workplace, expect with presentations. Most people naturally try to avoid me since I am the “odd one out”, and do not want to be seen near me lol. I still try to interact with people, but the inevitable always occurs.
Have you tried letting people know that’s the case preemptively? It can often help to (confidently) own it upfront
By speech impediment do you mean something like stuttering or a lisp? I have come across many intellectual individuals who stutter and do just fine (I had a professor like this, super smart guy). Even in the political spaces, Joe Biden is a known stutterer and so was Winston Churchill and King George the VI. (Infact, I'll recommend 'The King's Speech', an award winning film that beautifully covers his struggles to sound eloquent with his speech therapist).
Please know you aren't any less, and some people are too crass for your attention but you might just have to put in extra effort or learn certain tricks to help.
@xavier.clb1 Yes I have, sometime that works, although usually they just say: “yea it’s fine”, then after our conversation they look at me like I am slow or mentally impaired.
@@SaffariRose I have both a stutter and a lisp. Yes I am well aware of all the impactful people throughout history who had a speech impediment. The thing people who do not stutter do not realize that there are different levels/types of stutters. Most people have a mild stutter so it’s no big deal. Other people like myself have heavier blocks/pauses in speech, therefore it’s more noticeable in conversation. I am not trying to be a victim or anything, I am just outlining a problem most people do not think of. At the end of the day, I just have to accept it and continue speech therapy.
@@SaffariRose I appreciate your kind words as well.
This is a Great Video !!
Thank you!
Can you recommend other influencers who make similar content to you
Depends on what you’re looking for - insight into upper class spaces? General self improvement? Understanding social systems? I don’t think there are many who combine all of it.
I don’t consume much content but when I do, I listen to Rom Wills Deep Thought, Karmalita Fox, and Jodie K Tay. They think very similarly to me.
I was literally at an AGM yesterday where nobility (not American) tried to talk to me and I was a bit (too) cold but that’s also because I genuinely wasn’t trying to impress him but I think he would definitely recognize me if he saw me on the street again since we live in the same neighborhood 😂
When I hear Frank Sinatra I just think 🎵Newww YORKKKK🎵
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
1:30 in, a mocha chai latte is not a thing lol
Jaeger-LeCoultre is literally impossible to say. I just say "J.L.C." and everyone knows.
Good to know I’m not insane
Sometimes im reluctant to socialize because some asshole is always by the side looking to come in and ruin our conversation by talking smack and a effing ego boost wtf … and wealthy people are soft hahahaaa
you will always be a slave to these people you are trying to impress you all are trapped
We are all slaves to something. You pick and choose, its your life. God has a plan for all of us.
Well done video.
Thank you!
I interact with both rich and poor people. Rich people are BORING. Without their money, no one would want to be around them.
If the people around you are boring, that is a reflection of the spaces you participate in. Rich, poor, or otherwise.
Ruch people tend to be guarded and reserved around people they neither know, know nothing of, or cannot place. Anyone with both reputations and resources to protect would do likewise. It might come across boring, however, is what it is.
I guess you can always join the poor, where space is plentiful and a welcome is guaranteed
@ poor people have better personalities and attitudes. And are more friendly. Rich people tend to be snobbish. That’s why you’ll find a chick from a good background dating the bad boy over the guy from a good background. That her parents want her to date🤷🏽♀️ The Bad Boy is interesting. The decent guy is boring and snobbish.
I disagree. Rich people often can discuss large and complex ideas in macro. Poor people often just repeat corporate or political propaganda while having strong opinions based on very little to no evidence.
You’re spoiling us with this long-form content!🙏🤍😊
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