Basics for becoming a classy woman

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  • Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
  • What makes a woman classy? What does she wear and how does she act? What does it mean to be elegant? This is the number one question I get, so I’ve compiled thoughts spanning all of the different criteria including hair, makeup, clothes, and behavior. Obviously from a man’s perspective, ladies please add on in the comments along with any other questions or thoughts.
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  • @Pinotmissgrigiochichi
    @Pinotmissgrigiochichi 8 днів тому +4

    •Picking up your feet when walking & walking with purpose
    •Eye contact when crossing paths & when being spoken too.
    •Slower movements / stop rushing around everywhere. There’s a lot of power in being graceful.
    •NO neon colors EVER
    •If you’re over the age of 13, no fruit scented, cheap body products like lotion or hair care, please! You smell like a fruit bowl!
    •Accept all the compliments that are given to you. Never reject or downplay when someone says something positive about you, to you.Just simply, say thank you.

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  5 днів тому

      The fruit scented one is controversial now that everyone wants to wear gourmand fragrances that smell like sugar. But you’re 100% correct

  • @Kaceyylang
    @Kaceyylang Місяць тому +11

    I purchased a pocket book thesaurus and it has been a life saver

  • @quabrewton
    @quabrewton Місяць тому +7

    Congratulations on hitting over 1K subscribers!! 🎉

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you! I’ve been so focused on getting started over here that I hadn’t even realized.

  • @christinemanger
    @christinemanger 19 днів тому +2

    Love it love it love it! I’m so surprised you didn’t talk about nails! There’s a lot to discuss there! 💅🏻

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  19 днів тому +2

      Nails, BBLs…I think I missed a lot

    • @christinemanger
      @christinemanger 18 днів тому +1

      @@xavier.clb1 It's ok that leaves room for a part 2!

  • @VirgosGroove3
    @VirgosGroove3 Місяць тому +8

    I know the natural hair topic was hard to discuss. But I agree. I don’t do baby hair wigs, I wear my natural hair flat irons or in a blown out braid out.
    I do want honey blonde highlights on my real hair 👀😅😮‍💨

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  Місяць тому +2

      I went ginger for a while. Sometimes you just have to accept what it is and do it anyway lol

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  Місяць тому +2

      I don’t need to spoon feed, I trust my audience is intelligent enough to use common sense

    • @Lb-jm6wi
      @Lb-jm6wi Місяць тому +3

      @@xavier.clb11. “your audience” isn’t the only one on the internet. Be more careful when critiquing woc / black women’s hair & natural features- and I trust a black man understands the extensive history behind why it’s important to not publicly demonize black woman’s hair & natural features ❤️ It’s so easy to criticize when others haven’t had to have pass laws to prevent people from discriminating against you or firing you for your natural hair. 2. Plus You may not like the wigs, but what can happen to a black woman’s life when she takes it off can be even more devastating- career wise, financially, bw are forced to assimilate to ways their body doesn’t naturally conform. 3. I know you go by Mr Pretentious but I feel like there’s a lot more things to be learned about POLITE SOCIETY ❤️ 4. Not to mention, you must not have heard of “hard wig, soft life”. Caring about how laid somebody’s wig is, is very much a typical low class - blackistan talking point. The internet is FILLED to the brim with BM complaining about BW’s wigs and we are hoping your content isn’t stooping down to that black pill level. People in the upper echelon aren’t concerned about somebody’s edges or wigs . High class people, & those in other communities, don’t discuss the topic ad naseum like bm on the internet do; bm have developed the reputation of being known to have such an obsessed with downing women’s, esp black womens , hairstyles. We’re hoping your content is more elevated than that of a typical podcast bro! ❤️enjoy your day

    • @e.001_
      @e.001_ Місяць тому +2

      @@Lb-jm6wi I'm sorry, but the wigs don't even look natural. In real life, full wigs have tracks that are very visible which is why BM criticize it. Also, BW have an obsession with wearing wigs in general. If you truly care about black women's hair and the discrimination of their features, then why do you try to assimilate with white people by wearing straight wigs if you want to protect our identity? You just sound like a hypocrite with cognitive dissonance. In my personal opinion, if you truly care about the demonizing of out features then you should ENCOURAGE black women to wear their natural hair.

  • @Alexcatchh
    @Alexcatchh Місяць тому +4

    Informative thank you. I'll be sharing this with my sisters

  • @Lvndr_ro
    @Lvndr_ro Місяць тому +7

    thank you I definitely needed this! need to work on being entitled tho🤣 , big ppl pleaser lol

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  Місяць тому +3

      I’ll have to cover people pleasing. It’s very hard to get over but it’s so bad for you

  • @YoulineBlackLoveMJ
    @YoulineBlackLoveMJ Місяць тому +3

    Thank youuu

  • @CMac892
    @CMac892 7 днів тому +1

    “You only know 4 words” 😂😂😂 but seriously please read. Your vocabulary increases soooo quickly if you just read

  • @pulengmogale3453
    @pulengmogale3453 Місяць тому +2

    Profound 💯

  • @dbsk06
    @dbsk06 6 днів тому

    14:03 CONTROL AND EXPECTATION

  • @ILoveStemi
    @ILoveStemi Місяць тому +5

    I need to work on over explaining! I was about to comment why I do it so often, but then that in itself would be over explaining lol
    How do you feel about dreadlocks on women? They're currently shoulder length. Can they be considered classy if they're retwisted and styled? Or should I opt for a wig?

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  Місяць тому +2

      I’ve filmed a video about hair since it’s a common question. It’ll be up over the next few days

    • @EverythingAlana
      @EverythingAlana Місяць тому +1

      @@xavier.clb1I can’t wait

    • @90210Skye
      @90210Skye Місяць тому

      ​@EverythingAlana I love dreadlocks on women. Not all of see it as a negative.

  • @rdhfgfhghj
    @rdhfgfhghj Місяць тому +5

    Okay but what are your thoughts on the frequency upper class women say, pardon, please, excuse me, and sorry. I feel like a video on the mannerism would be more in depth, any thoughts?

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  Місяць тому +2

      Manners are different from appeasement behaviors. Manners are important but shouldn’t be confused with people pleasing

  • @ReGina-ez5us
    @ReGina-ez5us Місяць тому +1

    How about a pixie cut. I think it’s a sweet touch!

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  Місяць тому +4

      Never heard a man like a pixie cut, including myself. Might work for some people but I wouldn’t call it classy by any means

  • @Kaceyylang
    @Kaceyylang Місяць тому +1

    I definitely carry a huge bag to work 😂

  • @september_chill
    @september_chill Місяць тому +1

    Which Diptyque perfume is best?

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  Місяць тому +4

      They’re a “safe” brand - anything you like would be in the right realm. My top 3 would be L’eau Papier, Do Son, and Eau Duelle

    • @september_chill
      @september_chill Місяць тому

      @@xavier.clb1 Thank you

  • @JolieDea
    @JolieDea Місяць тому +3

    Great video!
    It’s pronounced she-inn tho

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  Місяць тому +11

      I’ll never learn the name of that place out of principle

    • @JolieDea
      @JolieDea Місяць тому +2

      @ and I respect that 😂😂

  • @HiHi-vf4zx
    @HiHi-vf4zx Місяць тому +1

    What do you think about Jane Birkin because your describing the opposite of even though I think she has a very beautiful style.I get that she didn’t have the most classy style,but do you think you can take inspiration.

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  Місяць тому +1

      Hmmm why do you think Jane Birkin doesn’t fit into my description? She was very chic.

  • @s.ymonesays
    @s.ymonesays 23 дні тому

    what do you think about women with microlocs?

  • @loveyhernandez5203
    @loveyhernandez5203 Місяць тому

    Is shopping at dillards and express okay?

  • @cheesypoofpoofs7700
    @cheesypoofpoofs7700 Місяць тому +2

    Why is natural hair down to lower back not classy?

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  Місяць тому +2

      Why would it be? Where have you seen that?

    • @cheesypoofpoofs7700
      @cheesypoofpoofs7700 Місяць тому +1

      @@xavier.clb1I thought long natural hair is considered more feminine. Would recommend some classy hairstyles?

    • @xavier.clb1
      @xavier.clb1  Місяць тому +3

      @@cheesypoofpoofs7700 Long yes, but around mid-back. Some women with naturally straight hair may have it longer but this is unusual (maybe because it is harder to keep up with, I'm not sure). I'll put together some hairstyles for reference

    • @cheesypoofpoofs7700
      @cheesypoofpoofs7700 Місяць тому +1

      @@xavier.clb1 thank you 😁

    • @EverythingAlana
      @EverythingAlana Місяць тому +5

      Indigenous long type hair looks so tacky and poor. It’s just long for no reason like one is scared of scissors or treasure hair too much as if they can’t grow it. Hair with a cut and styled with purpose looks very beautiful. Even if it’s somewhat long, layered or with nice waves rather than looking too long and straight like if you’re from an uncontacted tribe.

  • @neilwalkercomedy
    @neilwalkercomedy 5 днів тому

    I’ve met some women from powerful families. They do coke. Don’t leave that part out.

  • @SageJack87
    @SageJack87 Місяць тому +2

    I’m light skin and I think a honey blonde looks better on me. My natural dark is just too dark.

    • @90210Skye
      @90210Skye Місяць тому +3

      Dark hair looks stunning on all skin tones, imo.

  • @Ms.Delphine1204
    @Ms.Delphine1204 19 днів тому

    🤣🤣🤣

  • @kimberly9276
    @kimberly9276 Місяць тому +1

    Older women should not give advice. It's overbearing.