Understanding The Authentic Self - Discovering Who You Really Are

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  • Understanding The Authentic Self - An explanation of what your authentic self is on 3 different levels.
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  • @ActualizedOrg
    @ActualizedOrg  10 років тому +77

    If you liked this video, I recommend you watch these related videos too:
    1) Self Actualization - The Most Inspiring Self-Help Concept Of All Time
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  • @Jivanmukta84
    @Jivanmukta84 8 років тому +163

    SUMMARY - Actualized - Understanding The Authentic Self - Discovering Who You Really Are
    ego defense mechanism is to say doing certain things is not me
    eg. leading is not me, being creative is not me, talking dirty in bed is not me, having strong work ethic is not me, etc.
    is it me or is it not me - game is a dangerous thing
    you have to get over this game
    whatever you think is authentically not you cuts the possibility to be this off
    ---> self image video
    your authentic you is what you become when you are fully actualized, its an ideal you never 100% become it
    2. Level
    who you are is constantly changing
    in a real sense there is no real you
    3.
    there is no such thing that is scientifically you
    ---> enlightenment videos
    The authentic you is the self actualized you
    lazy self vs. best self
    Till your 20s you naturally grow, get ideas, get adjusted to the world, after that many people decide to stuck in comfort not taking no aditional labor, pushing comfort zones, no additional labor
    people saying its not notural for them to do something us this as excuse to stay in comfort
    self actualization is not a luxury but it is required to develop your psyche 15:30
    Once you grew up You know that you have so much more potential, that you can have so much impact on people
    To live a self actualized life you have to work on yourself, challenging yourself
    The greatest fullfillment you get from life are not low level pleassures like food but high level pleasures of self actualization work like growing yourself, pushing yourself and conquering obstacles, being on a heros journey, helping other people, living your passion, sharing your gifts
    you are growing into your authentic self when you push yourself every day
    19:00
    Your authentic self would be confident, assertive, disciplined, internally grounded, emotionally stable, on purpose in life, deeply passionate about everything you do, having zero limiting beliefs, knowing you can achieve everything, having a strong sense of power, having a strong self esteem and success, ,knowing you deserve it, having the desire to explore all in life, being fully self expressive, not holding back for anyone, having zero fears, tackling any kind of challenge in life without fears, being 100% positive, having no negative thoughts, seeing the world as a beatiful amazing positive place and wanting to make it even better,
    being social and outgoing, being generous to yourself with your time and the work you are doing, doing work that promotes you and other people, it means being selfless, being value driven, by higher consciousness,, being in high consciousness state like fullfilling your dreams, being idealistic driven
    being authentic mean being healthy, sober, fit, lean, energetic, full of vitality, muscular, sexual, highly sexual, comftable with your sexuality,
    accepting the opposite sex, and also being able to changing sides (feminine - masculine) and you are comftable with that,
    it means being completely minded and nothing offends you, you are open to be wrong,
    having ability of how you approach life, having noble thoughts, not patty thoughts 24:00
    If you cant imagine being your authentic self this is because you have lots of social conditioning
    You still are unique, having unique strenths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes as your authentic self
    you are not you, you are being you. you are not a noun, you are a verb. You are a process always evolving
    Realize that the self image you have consisting of a bunch of beliefs like how good you think you are in business, in realtionships, as a human being, how much value you have in society these are all beliefs#
    your self image has been shaped by random influences from outside, by books, shows, family, friends etc.
    People are attached to their self image, proud of it, this limits their potential
    When you do enlightenment work you realize that your identity is just concept, a figmentt of your imagination
    everything that is a thought in your brain is conceptualization of reality 35:00
    its a fiction of what is out there
    !who you think you really are is fiction created by your brain, your ego
    you will discover that there is no authentic self just live living itself and you are pure awareness of life
    this leads to the idea of no-self
    you are none of what you think you are
    its makes you tensioned, selfish, petty, blocks you to preserve, fight for your self image 37:00
    If you let go of your selfish desires, fears etc. you expand out, you flow with life, being productive
    Whipe of the grime bit by bit until you can trully shine
    Thanks Leo

    • @05KawBoy700
      @05KawBoy700 6 років тому +10

      Sebastian thank you for taking the time to type this post. Priceless!

    • @spencerfried8622
      @spencerfried8622 5 років тому +3

      Adderall?

    • @momentswithmoska5243
      @momentswithmoska5243 5 років тому

      Thank you so much 🙏

    • @DayDreamerbyDhang
      @DayDreamerbyDhang 5 років тому

      Thank you

    • @brantrichardson1949
      @brantrichardson1949 4 роки тому

      Thank you for taking the time to write that summary. It is a long video, full of important points which I had forgotten by the end. Reading the summary helped reinforce the info.

  • @claudialopez6757
    @claudialopez6757 9 років тому +39

    Detaching from ego has been one of the major challenges for me. It's scary to let go of ego even though I know I will be much happier. I like how you explained that we are just awareness living a life experience. Great video!

  • @firedegree1812
    @firedegree1812 2 роки тому +11

    "The past self is not the authentic self, the past you is the weaker version of who you are right now. Everyone is bound to surpass their past self."

  • @neurostyling940
    @neurostyling940 8 років тому +22

    Truth is what never change!! Your thoughts change, your emotions change, your circumstances change, your Body change, everything is changing except one thing, the observer in you. Thanks LEO you're work change the World, please go on.

    • @princesslacson6291
      @princesslacson6291 3 роки тому

      i get emotional. Leo has really a power to chabge the world

  • @shukreshshelke6302
    @shukreshshelke6302 8 років тому +14

    Woah Leo, that was one of the best videos I ever saw in my life.Your Definition of the "Authentic Self" is just spot on.. I actually can feel what you mean by what you meant by being the "Actualized self" its like higher consciousness, its like being aware of your actions, every minute every second..The Example of "Sun with Grime" is just so perfect.. thank you so much... makes me realize that I have been soo stupid all my life.. and post watching this video its like how much better it could have been... but its never too late.. from this point on I realized that your life can actually go to soo many different directions...Cant thank you enough.. cheers buddy.. many thanks.

  • @davidstretch8837
    @davidstretch8837 8 років тому +16

    Thank you so much. I thought I was having a middle age crisis before 40. But I realize I'm starting to become my true self and getting a better or higher state of conscious . Man,... thank you !

  • @spoot3724
    @spoot3724 8 років тому +6

    I just discovered you, already overwhelmed with trying to see what was missing in my life, and I think you really hit the nail on the head. I'm addicted. I listen to you all night before I go to sleep and it's really been touching my soul. Thank you so much for existing. 😌

  • @yvonne820
    @yvonne820 8 років тому +4

    Thanks, Leo! Lately I've been depending on 'friends' when I've been feeling low, and it resulted in feelings of betrayal, miscommunication and being misread. Listening to your videos is like listening to advice from an authentic friend. Thank you for helping me find the strength to find my center again.

  • @Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52
    @Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52 8 років тому +35

    Leo speaks the truth in this video. After working a job that provided a "comfortable" life for over a decade I started to suffer debilitating headaches. I started hating the job before the headaches, but I was earning more money than I ever believed I could. The money forced me to stay as long as I could. After about 26 months of pure hell from headaches I threw in the towel. Point is I forced myself to continue doing something I didn't want to be doing just for money.
    My body began to break down (headaches). At the time I didn't realize where the headaches were coming from, but I know now that it was my body's way of saying this is not what you are supposed to be doing. Leo explains that your mind and soul start to rot from the inside out. Unfortunately I believe a lot of people will not learn this from this video, they will probably have to live through it to realize how much of a reality this truly is. Trust me, it's real. Best advice is do what you want to do. There's gotta be something you always wanted to do but EVERYONE told you it will not pay the bills. Screw it! Live YOUR life! DO THAT! Go for it!

  • @kittttygirl5
    @kittttygirl5 7 років тому +21

    This is so profound. One of the most eye opening and mind boggling videos I've watched on you. You're amazing, Leo :)

  • @TheEdK
    @TheEdK 6 років тому +17

    One of the few channels that actually promotes self-improvement. Good job man!

  • @1212zeek1212
    @1212zeek1212 9 років тому +5

    Leo, I relate to you a lot. I've been calling it "studying happiness" for a while, what I've been doing, but I see now that it could also be called "studying enlightenment". I feel that... what you are trying to achieve by making these videos is very similar to what I want to achieve. Helping people live happier, more fulfilling lives. Helping people break out, break free, and reach their "highest" (though as you mentioned, unlimited) potential. I'm still traveling on a path I made for myself, and taking care of some things I really want to do, but this is the kind of stuff I think and write about all the time. I think I've written more essays now, than I ever wrote in school. This is the kind of work I envision myself doing. Thanks for sharing your thoughts in all these videos.

  • @ActualizedOrg
    @ActualizedOrg  9 років тому +25

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    • @lordmetroid
      @lordmetroid 9 років тому +1

      Actualized.org Thank you for your enlightenment. I shall try to find me.

    • @kareembrooks178
      @kareembrooks178 8 років тому

      I'm a little lost with the thought that true self is being assertive, but if your feminine accept it. Can you be feminine and assertive

    • @YouStartedForaReason
      @YouStartedForaReason 8 років тому +3

      +Actualized.org - One thing I've found....it's kinda "lonely" being my "authentic self"....but I'm sure that it's for very good reason. Eventually, the Universe will bring me those that compliment my "authentic self" all in due time. For now, I'm enjoying ME and getting to know, rediscover and reinvent my SELF.

    • @YouStartedForaReason
      @YouStartedForaReason 8 років тому +1

      Gogeta SSGOD - Thank you for your reply. When a caterpillar makes it's transformation into the butterfly...it is in it's own personal space alone for which the magic takes place. In my life, it isn't that I don't express my authentic self...i do. I just notice that it isn't an ear, here and there or a camera to stare back and talk to for you...rather it's possible I need an audience. This is my personal-inner-vision-quest. Making money...not so good. Making certain people feel awesome. Not so bad. The caterpillar has spoken. ; -)> (peace)

    • @daseinbellen
      @daseinbellen 8 років тому

      +Gogeta SSGOD Read Martin Heidegger's Being and Time

  • @natethegreat2857
    @natethegreat2857 3 роки тому

    I love hearing him speak about so many things that I go through day to day and just hearing him talk about literally everything that I struggle with makes me feel good that I’m not the only one.

  • @BonnySaskia
    @BonnySaskia 4 роки тому

    Wow! I don’t usually comment on videos but I just discovered you and can’t stop myself from watching your videos one after another. The way you analyse everything and put it in to words is absolutely incredible and has really helped me view myself from a whole new perspective. For a while I’ve been really working on different aspects of my life and my personality unconsciously, but now I have realised that it all comes down to one simple yet very complex idea of finding “my authentic self”. Thankyou so much for opening my mind and inspiring me and many other people. I know this video is old but I am sooooooo happy to have come across them. Thankyou thankyou thankyou

  • @stevekim1755
    @stevekim1755 9 років тому +42

    This is by far the best video on personal development that I have seen

    • @dhaivat848
      @dhaivat848 3 роки тому

      I've been coming back to this video after so many years, realized it's so underrated and it's really freeing, this concept of an authentic self being a verb.

  • @Psychomech5
    @Psychomech5 8 років тому +4

    The end of this video was pretty awesome. When you imagine yourself as just more life in a world of life, cells living and the system of the body living through that everything, it makes it a lot more important and precious to want to help other life. Like, yes helping out friends, yes environmentalism, yes animal conservation. It makes it, to me, far more important to be a force for enrichment of the world around me,

  • @stephanievanderploeg7438
    @stephanievanderploeg7438 7 років тому +1

    Leo, this video has blown my mind. I love that after every video I watch, I have learned so many new things that I start researching even deeper and crave more.

  • @miked4125
    @miked4125 9 років тому +1

    I've been attracting these sort of videos for a while now but I've never come so close to holding the understanding of self until now. Thank you, with your help I now recognized that what I feel now is my capacity to self-actualize.

  • @gem632
    @gem632 9 років тому +116

    Hi Leo! Just wanted to say thank you so much for devoting your time and energy into sharing this information in such a clear, genuine and practical way. I am definitely at a stage in my life of personal growth and development and although there have been many awesome encounters with motivators and inspiring people on my journey, you have been by far the most influential for me on you tube. I watch a new video everyday and no matter what the topic is, I always walk away from my laptop feeling more empowered and confident than when I started. Wish you continued success in all of your current and future endeavors.

    • @ActualizedOrg
      @ActualizedOrg  9 років тому +29

      Great! That's what I'm talking about! :D

    • @Yousrittahanem
      @Yousrittahanem 9 років тому +2

      Deborah Otero Sorry but your pic drew my attention you are so beautiful! No worries I am a straight female :) I agree with you me too I am watching Leo's videos 'religiously'. All the best.

    • @jon8367
      @jon8367 6 років тому

      Did you keep with him until now?

  • @carlosgutierrez3402
    @carlosgutierrez3402 10 років тому +4

    It is just amazing how detailed my new vision for life starts to grow! Is like a black and white old blury and boring movie becoming a HD 3D interesting movie in a movie thearer.

  • @evieball4162
    @evieball4162 8 років тому +1

    A life lived with passion and authenticity is really the only true way of being. Thank you, Leo, for your amazing encouragement, selflessness, and for leading us toward our most enlightened presentation of our true purpose.

  • @robertporterfield1888
    @robertporterfield1888 7 років тому

    Worthy every penny of the max donation on your website. Thank you Leo for directing my mind to a route of 'enlightenment'. Your objectivity resonates, cultivating faith in the universal truths that you relay; your patience breeds confidence, in the midst of scepticism. Please keep up the good work - your efforts are invaluable.

  • @adrianbarba9118
    @adrianbarba9118 7 років тому +308

    how do you remember all of this at once

    • @sidsnake17
      @sidsnake17 4 роки тому +51

      He's Enlightened

    • @NickRyanBayon
      @NickRyanBayon 4 роки тому +58

      Once you reach enlightenment these things are clear to you. If you are on this video you are awakening and you are on the path to this enlightenment also and will see it in time. You can only perceive that if which you are the same vibration of.

    • @trustpinoy9891
      @trustpinoy9891 4 роки тому +11

      That’s not me!

    • @shouya4190
      @shouya4190 4 роки тому +2

      @@trustpinoy9891 haha

    •  4 роки тому +15

      You try to understand it. You build the understanding of the life, of yourself and the world around. Once that starts fit in like bricks do while you build the wall, it will stick for a very long time, because you have built a very solid foundation to lay it upon.

  • @mofooutdoors3773
    @mofooutdoors3773 8 років тому +4

    Great explanations , its just what I needed , intelligent and to the point. Love it

  • @janinebonilla1644
    @janinebonilla1644 7 років тому +1

    Leo, you're amazing! I listen to your videos as I get myself ready for my day, and it's honestly better than going to a shrink sometimes. So thank you for your words of wisdom, I can only speak for myself, but your words have had a massive effect on me.

  • @pritigehlot4104
    @pritigehlot4104 7 років тому

    This is so incredible, I have been thinking of all these questions for past 1 year and here are the answers. Thank you Leon, you are extremely inspiring and now I am charged up to another level. Its difficult to express in words how grateful I am but all i can say is, I have been through tough times and sleepless nights. I did not know, whom to speak with and no one understood what the hell I was talking about. But today I am so relieved and thanks to you and this moment.

  • @00great226
    @00great226 7 років тому +45

    To me: authentic-self=present, ideal-self=future, conventional-self=past

  • @StandYourGrounds
    @StandYourGrounds 9 років тому +5

    I've been blind, but now I see. I've been enlightened. Thank you Leo. Can't wait to wipe off all that grime.

  • @Risingpresent
    @Risingpresent 6 років тому

    I was falling apart in being authentic to myself because I started feeling so guilty about it. Like I was doing something wrong for being me. You have given light to the darkest parts of my understanding. I've been binge watching your videos, rather then moping in depression and self-pity. Thank you. Thank you.

  • @brayanangulo8730
    @brayanangulo8730 5 років тому

    It’s so helpful to go back to these videos. Even though I watched them years ago, they strengthened my foundation, the kindle of my fire.

  • @S4n71a60
    @S4n71a60 9 років тому +108

    But Leo.. that's not me!

    • @rahmamonsef5851
      @rahmamonsef5851 4 роки тому +1

      yessss i swear , when he was talking about self actualization things i was sure that this is not the best version of me . if these things mean that i'm self actualized , so maybe i just dont want to

  • @wissabs5267
    @wissabs5267 9 років тому +19

    i think you are gifted to help people , even your voice is so relaxing . keep it up you got your self a new subscriber ♥

  • @kkunique1210
    @kkunique1210 2 роки тому

    I found these videos 7 years later and they are helping me today. You are very wise man, appreciate everything I learned from you in these videos

  • @nikosvas928
    @nikosvas928 4 роки тому

    Much love and respect leo your speeches are ahead of their time, i appreciate so much the inspiration you gave me and to many other people! Thank you again

  • @Luvie1980
    @Luvie1980 10 років тому +7

    Thank you for this video Leo. It was really helpful. I have been wondering more and more about why I am in the place that I am now. Why am I still single? Why do I attract the type of people in my life? Why am I in this country? Why do I sometimes feel stuck and alone? This really made me dive deep.

    • @GreggARoane
      @GreggARoane 7 років тому +1

      Hey Luvie1980, just curious, I know you posted ur comment a few years ago but have you been able to implement any changes as a result of watching this video. Personally I have watched this and I m trying to really put all of this into perspective. what you think?

  • @thomasparg1981
    @thomasparg1981 9 років тому +7

    16:53 Good one Leo ! Thanks again for all the help,you kickstarted my personal development 8 months ago.Since then ive gotten into best shape of my life,quit drinking and smoking payd off half of my debt and for the first time in my life i have savings in the bank.Still a lot to do though,for the last 16 years i really pushed myself to make a mess of my life :)

    • @SherifatSuliemon-lw6ls
      @SherifatSuliemon-lw6ls Рік тому

      8 years later? How are you!?

    • @thomasparg1981
      @thomasparg1981 Рік тому

      @@SherifatSuliemon-lw6ls It's Hard to give you a short answer. Still not drinking or smoking and still on my personal development journey. I guess it lasts a lifetime. What I find it hard (even at 41 years old) is to fully let go of my past. But I went the health and fitness way all these years back and stuck with it. Here where I live and I want to inspire other people to quit their addictions and to take care of themselves.

    • @SherifatSuliemon-lw6ls
      @SherifatSuliemon-lw6ls Рік тому +1

      @@thomasparg1981 Okay, you don't have to have an answer, my intention is to help you see if where you are right now align's with your commitments years ago.
      You are doing great bro, keep moving

    • @thomasparg1981
      @thomasparg1981 Рік тому +1

      @@SherifatSuliemon-lw6ls Thank you. I will do my best going forward. Good luck to you as well on your chosen path.

  • @jamiea8499
    @jamiea8499 8 років тому +1

    Leo, you are unbelievable, .I am hearing everything I need to hear. Your parents must be beside themselves for raising such an incredible human being. I have a son just like you. He is 35. I put so much work in my children, now I need to work on me. You have helped me so much. God bless you.

  • @heidilynnbuterbaugh3481
    @heidilynnbuterbaugh3481 5 років тому

    Dude!!! THANK YOU! I feel like "is this/that me" is my unique war. It is SO helpful to know other people struggle with their authentic "identity". My past had definitely become my "identity", and I do have a vision/ideal I wish to become, which almost has to include my past just because of the level of 'hell' it was. The idea that I am the one that is self actualizing my mind and body is fantastic, and (as difficult as it can be) the idea that "I" change is imperative to understand, I think. I recently heard a 'theory' that you cannot be what you believe as those beliefs are limiting and that has helped when I can remember that. I can totally agree by experience that stagnation is poison, and it truly does make you rot from the inside.

  • @psychicmediumchrissybufali2889
    @psychicmediumchrissybufali2889 6 років тому +4

    I found out it's a BIG disservice not being your authentic self, not only a disservice to you, but them too. Plus it creates confusion for you and people you encounter.
    Be your authentic self. It is a gift to everyone

  • @narutomagic
    @narutomagic 9 років тому +5

    The problem I see in myself isn't a lack of understand or willingness to understand all the concepts you explain in your videos.. or even a lack of belief. It's more like a lack of motivation, how do I motivate myself to practice and implement your ideals more into my life? I know I want a better more positive mindset, I know I want to let go of my self image and realize that i am only pure awareness of a universal reality, but taking steps into that direction is always difficult for me! I'm introspective in the sense that I know my rationalizations, I can articulate and understand them.. I'm aware of the hidden thoughts I have on myself and know that they're having a negative impact on my mindset, but i'm refusing to "let go" i'm refusing to take away the power these thoughts have on me. I also struggle with impulse control! what actual non theatrical steps can I take to really force myself into getting the confidence and strength to adopt new ideals?

    • @ActualizedOrg
      @ActualizedOrg  9 років тому +2

      Your problem is that you haven't created a compelling enough vision and you have no life purpose. Once you get those two things, you will have lots of motivation.
      Life Purpose - Critical Points For Finding Your Life Purpose

  • @ShannaSpaldingPaul
    @ShannaSpaldingPaul 7 років тому

    I'm so grateful for you sharing these videos to the public!!!...I just discovered them and these lessons have easily become my *go-to* for each and every topic I'm seeking more clarity and insight on. Some people need to realize that no one agrees with everything another says all the time; you take away what rings true, what resonates with you. Disagree or agree, you are expanding yourself just by forming your own personal views....thanks, Leo

  • @Dulaynee
    @Dulaynee 8 років тому +1

    Thanks Leo for these videos. I'm watching one a day and layering the thoughts and advice you give. It's all giving me a lot to think about and to help me to get to the level in life that I desire.

  • @cxa011500
    @cxa011500 8 років тому +4

    Awesome vid! Very good stuff. I'm going to have to watch this again several times. I watched the other video about How To Be Yourself and it raised questions for me that I feel this video answered very well. I feel like I've heard these ideas before, but somehow I didn't understand. It seems like some ideas require repeated exposure to, in different ways in order to be fully understood. I've definitely been one of those who has said "that's not me" in reply to suggestions about how to improve myself. From now on, that won't be me. :)

  • @humanyoda
    @humanyoda 8 років тому +16

    Leo, do you prepare for your videos? Do you read your notes during recording or do you improvise the whole thing? It's hard to tell. You seem to be improvising, but you do it too well.

    • @hanshintermann1551
      @hanshintermann1551 7 років тому +1

      I am wondering, too, to be honest :D
      A lot of people just write down a rough outline of what they are going to speak about and improvise HOW they say it, so maybe that is what he does, too.

    • @ellesbells902
      @ellesbells902 6 років тому

      humanyoda
      A curious mind will wonder this! Maybe he wants to keep his secret. In the end I figure a deep understanding of something allows one to speak in a constant, passionate flow, as the topic becomes second nature. I could go on and on about what I'm passionate about, and my sister-in-law described me as someone who speaks in a way that reflects a stream of consciousness. It was kinda rude but hey thats her. She enjoys being the center of all attention.

    • @RyanMoran
      @RyanMoran 5 років тому

      Yeah, this is super hard to do... it's a mix between really knowing the topic and having produced 100s of videos over years.

    • @princesslacson6291
      @princesslacson6291 3 роки тому +1

      because he understands what he is saying that much. he is passionate about it. when you are passionate you just do.

  • @emeryfogg8313
    @emeryfogg8313 3 роки тому

    I've watched A LOT of self-help videos over the past month, and this is easily one of the best that I've seen.

  • @Joan542
    @Joan542 6 років тому

    this is truely enlightening, im glad there are very rare people like you who dedicate their time to helping other people know truth in very deep levels

  • @thrmove6915
    @thrmove6915 10 років тому +4

    Hey, I wanted to thank you, for every single video you uploaded. Thank you! From now on, I'll follow evvery your video, and thank god I accidently find you! :)

  • @craig7715
    @craig7715 5 років тому +74

    My ex called me crap in bed. I realise now that that's not me.

    • @AshleighP
      @AshleighP 4 роки тому +7

      Maybe that was you, but you know you can always grow better

    • @jiggyboy8558
      @jiggyboy8558 4 роки тому +2

      Lol 😂

  • @emilygazze1170
    @emilygazze1170 Рік тому

    this is incredible. i’ve been working on my self. and watching this video.. while you were listing your authentic self. i actually am all of it. and i’ll continue to be the best because there is no limit. but is really incredible of how i am all of them.

  • @versus2687
    @versus2687 8 років тому

    I agree with you Leo. As I always like to say and remind my mind with these words: " No matter what you are, what really matters is what you'll be. Because what you're now has taken place of what you have been"

  • @reidkoburn
    @reidkoburn 8 років тому +20

    "ALL THOSE YEARS,LIVING THE LIFE OF SOMEONE,I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW"

  • @Mandy3141
    @Mandy3141 4 роки тому +25

    Take one shot everytime he says "that's not me"

  • @mackenzierivercasey6752
    @mackenzierivercasey6752 5 років тому

    I fRACKING love you! Lol....thanks for taking your time to share your in depth perceptions and ideologies! I really resonate with what you're saying. I've actually had a lot of these realizations myself, but I've never constructed such a strong and true concept the way you just have. You've really given me something solid for me to visualize and hold onto. You did a great job reiterating it also! I believe we all know this deep down. We all just get stuck....Live little leaves fallen from the tree of life...floating down a river...we get stuck in all of the snares that nature throws at us! We just need to learn how to ride the CORRECT currents!

  • @andyfenoglio4614
    @andyfenoglio4614 8 років тому

    Leo, thank you so much for these insights. You are really helping me understand myself at a deeper level and embrace my potential. Your message is a gift to me.

  • @trakba
    @trakba 7 років тому +5

    can anybody please explain this to me in a couple of sentences. I a running low on time.

  • @readingthroughhistor
    @readingthroughhistor 9 років тому +18

    How do you get your teeth to be so white?

    • @CandymanJrMint
      @CandymanJrMint 8 років тому +2

      1 tablespoon baking soda
      1 tablespoon hydrogen peroxide
      Splash of water
      Tube of fluoride toothpaste
      Mix that solution in a cup - brush teeth with fluoride until dissolved - then put your brush in the solution DONT RINSE WITH WATER - swirl in solution - then use more paste - continue & repeat for 10-15 minutes. Do that 2 times a week.

    • @CandymanJrMint
      @CandymanJrMint 8 років тому

      Also DONT SWALLOW SOLUTION

    • @hamilcarr4685
      @hamilcarr4685 6 років тому +12

      I swallowed the solution and died... what should I do pleaze ? :'(

  • @harrietparker2477
    @harrietparker2477 4 роки тому

    You’re brilliant this video is so helpful . I have struggled so much with trying to understand why my life feels so hard and I feel so stuck and this literally explains everything and just watching it made me feel so relieved. Thank you

  • @serhatezer7359
    @serhatezer7359 2 роки тому

    Cannot tell how I needed to watch this. Simply, THANK YOU, THANK YOU AND THAN YOU LEO!!!!

  • @tomasorama9102
    @tomasorama9102 4 роки тому +4

    2014 Leo: Don't do drugs
    2019 Leo: I'm gooooood...

  • @UltraGalacticSuperFantastic
    @UltraGalacticSuperFantastic 8 років тому +21

    Skip to 6:34 to get over his "thats not me" stuff

  • @jimenatroncoso9124
    @jimenatroncoso9124 11 місяців тому

    For me this is the best of your videos I ve seen. Thank you Leo, from Chile.

  • @mfortunatofilho
    @mfortunatofilho 10 років тому +1

    Dear Leo,
    This was an awsome video. I enjoyed a lot all the concepts on it. I feel like you are getting deeper as time goes by. I've been watching your videos for sometime and I feel very thankful because it really changed me, and made me a better person. I am a neurosurgeon, and in my Medical career I found out that most doctors don't realize how powerful the way you look to life is! Keep on track and congratulations! You are no doubt a bright mind out there!

  • @xxx4136
    @xxx4136 8 років тому +5

    I am afraid. If I always stare at u for some time every day,I will fall in love with u
    Just kidding,I read something similar thing about Authentic yourself ,which is easy to believe,bot not easy to be.

  • @ishma2100
    @ishma2100 8 років тому +6

    Leo. you should be president

    • @brayanangulo8730
      @brayanangulo8730 5 років тому

      Watch his new videos, you will feel like you Need him to be our next president

  • @JelitaSalon
    @JelitaSalon 7 років тому

    Leo thanks for quoting...."You only have that one life and it only last for so long, and that length of time isn't very long"....what a great reminder! enjoy your videos!! Thanks

  • @AndreiaSantos-eb1yp
    @AndreiaSantos-eb1yp 5 місяців тому

    I thought I was going through some sort of existential crisis but I realized that I’m finding my authentic self. And now I’m happy!

  • @Lemoygarys
    @Lemoygarys 8 років тому +18

    act like a wasteman? that's not me. sex any girl? nah that's not me. lips any girl? nah that's not me. i used to wear gucci, i put it all in the bin cause that's not me.

  • @Thundertimi
    @Thundertimi 8 років тому +17

    Leo, i truly find your videos helpful and stuff, but your videos should not be so long.
    Everyone gets the point with 3-4 examples, you don't have to make so many of them and get to the point faster.
    People with attention problems find it hard to focus that long. Just a tip to improve your videos!
    Thanks for help tho!

    • @2tephenson
      @2tephenson 7 років тому +7

      shut the fuck up

    • @TheTony1347
      @TheTony1347 7 років тому +1

      Somebody got triggered

    • @ZenCodeMonkey
      @ZenCodeMonkey 7 років тому +13

      Disagree... Expand your 10 sec ability to focus.

    • @Thundertimi
      @Thundertimi 7 років тому +1

      i'll work on it

    • @yamchathewolf7714
      @yamchathewolf7714 7 років тому +3

      Ukkostimi Watch his video "be fucking patient", anything that's worth learning is worth taking some time to learn it. And at least for me, I like when he goes in depth with these videos and doesn't just say the main points and that's it.

  • @carecree888
    @carecree888 9 років тому

    Hi Leo! I decided to check my UA-cam feed today and saw this video of yours. It's exactly what I needed to hear today. It's amazing when that happens. This definition of the authentic self is so spot on. So much of what we consider "us" as a personality, is just conditioned synaptic connections in our brains anyway. So we can truly be any self we put our habit of thought and action too. Thanks again for this insight and much needed reminder. You have a way with these points I find refreshing.

    • @ActualizedOrg
      @ActualizedOrg  9 років тому

      Check your feed in the future, more good things will come ;)

  • @frnsh9
    @frnsh9 7 років тому

    I love each and everyone of your videos. For me it is like my mind has been struggling with itself about random subjects and finding random clues all the time and when I watch one of your videos about one of those subjects, it just starts blinking.. like it has been having this deep hunger for hearing a deeper analysis about it. Of course it continues processing the ideas and clues, but I can easily say that your videos make remarkable pin points in my mind's process and I thank you for that. :)

  • @PaTZi300
    @PaTZi300 10 років тому +64

    Too... much... examples...

    • @PaTZi300
      @PaTZi300 10 років тому +2

      loved all the rest tho ^^

    • @Itshabbovidz
      @Itshabbovidz 10 років тому +1

      I am a super human, God has blessed me and I understood every phoneme that escaped this man's oral contraption.

    • @specieschild1
      @specieschild1 7 років тому +2

      the point is giving too much examples to understand and embrace deeply

    • @1316Salva
      @1316Salva 6 років тому +1

      When I was listening for the first time I thought the same but then I realised that it has a purpose: it's for people to identify, and it's important because if you don't hear something that relates then you might not think you're not in the same boat when you actually are. The more examples he gave the more I realised that I actually had this problem

  • @FlyinColorz
    @FlyinColorz 10 років тому +9

    These videos just make my head hurt. Too much analyzing and shit. Just be a simple man. Be who you are. Don't change because someone doesn't like you. Do what you want. Do what you love. And you will find the right people to love.

    • @ActualizedOrg
      @ActualizedOrg  9 років тому +7

      If you want to go really far in life, you will have to analyze your life a lot. Would you tell a NASA scientist that he's done too much analysis in planning a trip to Mars? No. Well, your life should be more important to you than a NASA mission to Mars.

    • @FlyinColorz
      @FlyinColorz 9 років тому +3

      Actualized.org what do you mean go really far in life? Of course life takes analyzing but this is over analyzing in my opinion. You don't have to over analyze everything to go far in life. You're right. You will have to analyze a lot but not too much. You will just drive yourself insane. Be authentic and real. Be who you are. And for some people a nasa mission to Mars is their whole life so that is very important to them. Others they could care less. I personally think that over time you will find who you are. Life will force you to be who you truly are. No video or another person is gonna to change that

    • @ActualizedOrg
      @ActualizedOrg  9 років тому +7

      ***** Without deliberately designing your life, you will get what most people get: which is a very shitty and miserable life. Far below your potential. Thought must be put into this endeavor.

    • @FlyinColorz
      @FlyinColorz 9 років тому +1

      Like I said before, I agree that life will take analyzing. For me this complicates the problem of finding yourself even more. Different strokes for different folks I suppose

    • @ZenCodeMonkey
      @ZenCodeMonkey 7 років тому +3

      What you are saying is its hard so you wont do it?

  • @Cindy-ee5ou
    @Cindy-ee5ou 7 років тому

    Thank you. This is what I was looking for to elevate life to the next level - so much more fun and satisfying . Greatly appreciate it.

  • @kendavocalist
    @kendavocalist 8 років тому

    And now i change every milliseconds literally, your videos are like a medication for awareness and enlightenment. Thank you so much Prof. Leo :) another wonderful piece of art. 💪👌🙌

  • @melissatillerson
    @melissatillerson 4 роки тому

    These videos have truly grounded me during some life changing and enriching thoughts provoked by these concepts. So excited to "level up"

  • @brianfreeman5880
    @brianfreeman5880 5 років тому

    Thank you Leo. This morning I've been thinking about the authentic self. I've always valued seeing somebody else come off as totally authentic. There have been moments in my life where i would do something, and i would feel 100% authentic... its hard to describe. I was wondering today if there really is such thing as a TRULY authentic self and how I can get there. This video was very insightful. Just one example, when you said that the truly authentic self isn't something that we can really achieve in totality, and that its something we have to constantly work towards. I think you're right about that. I saw that you have a second video on authenticity. I think I'll watch that too. Thanks again.

  • @henybeny334
    @henybeny334 6 років тому

    Wow. This is exactly what I needed. I have so much work to do, thank you for this. Incredible.

  • @bestihe
    @bestihe 10 років тому +1

    Thanks dude. Ive always had this yearning to be and to do something great although i took the easy confortable way so far and ive felt i lost myself but ive decided its time to stop believing all the ilusions about myself and start on the journey of finding my real self and be the best version of me that i can be.

  • @shaunharrisonpiano
    @shaunharrisonpiano 4 роки тому

    This video connected so many different ideas into a single truth, answering so many questions at once. Thank you!

  • @ancientdeeds6634
    @ancientdeeds6634 6 років тому

    WOW im definetly glad i started to watch your videos, i was sceptical of you, but you are a true inspiration my man, definetly the smartest selfimprovement channel on hear, can feel your honesty and friendliness, dang man, much thanks for doing what you are doing (i was sceptical because of the fact that most of the selfimpr. channels are like programs)

  • @TheFissionIsMailed
    @TheFissionIsMailed 7 років тому

    Definitely one of your best eps. Radically open constantly reborn Leo. Super clear.

  • @donna19891983
    @donna19891983 10 років тому

    Leo,
    I just wanted to tell you that I am so glad that I stumbled upon your channel.I have sent your link to my son, daughter and friends.I have always known being positive will bring positive results .But sometimes in life we allow our negative thoughts to take over.Thank you so much for taking time out of your day to share with us all these great videos.You are one of the best motivators I have watched.Please keep them coming.
    PS...I sent you a email a few months back ,asking a few questions about couching .It may have not reached you .Again thanks for the videos

  • @minilulucraft
    @minilulucraft 9 років тому

    Thanks for your videos. I started watching your video 1 month ago. It's very impressive how it changed so many aspect of my life in just a few weeks.

  • @nathannations8722
    @nathannations8722 3 роки тому

    This man along with 2 minor influences laid the path to show me how to work and become the person I wanted to be. Thank you for that Leo

  • @amooryha5060
    @amooryha5060 5 років тому

    I feel so good right now leo after watching this video, this video can change anyone's life if it is understood clearly.!! Good job Leo.

  • @jakubsebo4236
    @jakubsebo4236 5 років тому

    I am 15 and with many of these videos I find that I already know this.
    For example the third level of the self- the realization that there is nothing but your conscientiousness in the present moment, which is a little more generalized version of what Leo said but still applies here and everywhere else. I actually talked about it to my classmates today and the more I talk to people the more I realize that I am the only one who is thinking about this shit. I don´t really know what to do. I started watching Leo about a month ago and I believe he is the wisest person that makes content on youtube. I am lonely a lot of the time and I have no real friends. I don´t even know what I should talk to people about.

  • @ashewu4516
    @ashewu4516 8 років тому +2

    Thank you again!! I loved all the video you made,
    they are really amazing ! ❤️💖

  • @TheSway65
    @TheSway65 7 років тому +2

    This is unbelievably awesome, Leo! Thanks a ton.

  • @veniceroberson581
    @veniceroberson581 10 років тому

    Loved it...I love all your discoveries , and becoming more aware as each day passes.Thank you Leo

  • @darkmoonmandala
    @darkmoonmandala 10 років тому

    Everything on this video is so on point. Another excellent message! Thank you.

  • @eytschmaen
    @eytschmaen 3 місяці тому

    Wiping away the grime off the lens, so that the light can shine through fully and at it's full spectrum. I'm starting to get it. Thank you Leo!🙏

  • @jeezustheone
    @jeezustheone 9 років тому

    "Most evolved self " Loving your channel thank you so much for your time and knowledge.

  • @psychedguitar2716
    @psychedguitar2716 2 роки тому

    I like these videos where you went deep into the basics some times I forget these basic and important things.

  • @youtubecanal
    @youtubecanal 3 роки тому

    Thank you Leo. I like to think and put things this way (in a non dualistic way): I’m not sad, I am the sadness; I’m not happy, I’m the hapiness; I’m not violent, I’m the violence; I’m not in love with, I am the love… et cetera.

  • @joannegenie1994
    @joannegenie1994 6 років тому

    It's exactly what I think the authentic self would be like. Thank you for confirming it.

  • @sarahj4077
    @sarahj4077 8 років тому

    oh my god I'm all teared up! thank you for this beautiful video.

  • @eddieguz1
    @eddieguz1 9 років тому

    I not only get what you are saying, I've live this message and have been able to grow in a manner that I welcome all of life as it unfolds and bring me wonderful lessons in all. Be this all perceived as "negative" or "positive". At 57 I have decided to study another career, in addition to 3 others studied already, a masters degree in social work. Life's is a wonderful journey! Thank you for sharing this video!

  • @l.awaller1852
    @l.awaller1852 8 років тому

    Your videos really make sense man. Its funny how much the voice in your head has always known what is up, but did not know how to make sense of it and put it to use.