To clarify - we are not leaving New Zealand right now due to changes at the border. We were packed and ready to go but the border status changed due to the new variant and our plans have been put on hold. It’s been hectic. Luckily my family members health has stabilized for the time being. We will probably go over for a while in a few months. Lots of feelings right now. Thank you all for your kindness and support. It’s been a crazy year, with so many ups and downs but throughout it all you’ve been here. So I want to say a heartfelt thank you. Sending you all good vibes and lots of love. See you in 2022.
I hope you find solace in whats about to come and that you dont change your optimism. That's the best part of you and your wife, the optimism in hardships, so stay strong buddy and sending love to that loved one and you guys to get through this
When we made the decision to move to New Zealand, we realised that at times loved ones will become ill and die. We reached the conclusion that we were only ever a flight away. Inevitably we will miss events, but with enough will we could still be there for most of the critical moments. That was pre-covid, and it's a lot harder now. But we can only do what we can do, and we should not feel ashamed about what we can't do.
What a worrying time for you both and your family. Peace to you both over this special time of year. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Breathe in all that beautiful nature we are surrounded with, it is indeed life giving x
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It’s tough when a family member is ill and you are so far away. This Covid life is certainly putting everyone in a spin right now. Rest assured that your wider NZ community is prepared to step up when needed, so if we can do anything at all to help, just say the word. Take care and stay safe. 🌻🌹🌼🌺🌸
Hi Alex, My heart goes out to you and Carrie and your extended family. Sending healing prayers to your loved one. It’s good you are able to go away in your caravan and both have a little time out to relax and look after yourselves. Lots of love.
Alex, heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. I can't even begin to imagine how traumatizing and disruptive this turn of events must be in light of the fact that you've just recently finally settled into your new home in NZ. But, family comes first. Always. So, I understand and, under similar circumstances, would make the exact same decision. Godspeed, my friend! Take good care of yourself, your wife and your pup while back in the States. All the best, brother!!!
Alex, sending prayers, positive thoughts, and good vibes to you and your family. I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. Please take as much time as you and Carrie need to focus on yourselves and your families. Wishing you guys a happy holiday season.
Hi Alex, sorry to hear you are going through a lot right now. I honestly am here to help if you ever need anything at your homestead. I am a dairy farmer so use to animals and things and house sitting. Just incase you need anyone as a back up i am here for you guys. Sending you and your family a lot of prayers. Since I lost my brother a few years ago i really value the importance of time in life and how we spend it. When times are good really enjoy it and when bad times are hard sit, learn and feel it. Really hope everything works out for you guys. Take care. Amy x
The ups and downs of living across countries.... The heart strings get pulled, and pulled hard in times like these. I feel for you both. We all want to be near the ones we love in sad times. My mum was a wise woman. She taught me to accept that, when you can't be there, you just can't be there, and that's all there is to it You're a wise man Alex, you speak wise words in every vlog. You know that love is the greatest power there is, and that power is energy. Energy that can be directed to be with whomever needs it. You don't need to be present to send your love. Yes being present helps US feel better, but the most important person is the one in need. Send your love, the love of compassion, the love of healing, the love of pure unconditional love. Love is all things. It can be everywhere and anywhere. Direct your love to your family member and rest assured in the knowledge that.... It Is Done. Have a great rest and time with the family you can be with. 💖🎶
So sorry for your bad news about your fam, hope they are doing OK. If MIQ is your worry (if you decided to go down that route), anti govt talking heads often spout about how it's overwhelmed, but the latest statement from the head of MIQ Chris Bunny on 16/12 indicates otherwise: ""After 1.5 hours, there was no one left in the queue and there were still 1,000 rooms remaining. ... The room release ended after 4 hours 10 minutes with 838 rooms still left for December and March dates." If it's of any help, friends who had to go back to the UK booked their MIQ spots first, before confirming their flights. A big thank you to both you and Carrie as well, Alex. You're kind of part of the fabric of NZ life here now. Enjoy your downtime. 😄 Finally, as an old karate master used to say, keep your vibration high and "be as a leaf on a river". See you in 22. 💖
❤️ I have been through being far away when there’s a family crisis and every emotion you’re feeling is valid. You and Carrie are in my thoughts and praying your family member continues to be stable.
After this watching this video... "He aha te mea nui o te ao He tangata, he tangata, he tangata" - WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN THE WORLD? IT IS THE PEOPLE, IT IS THE PEOPLE, IT IS THE PEOPLE! definitely my favourite quote from Maori language.
I hope that your family member is going to be better. It's not easy right now to do what we want with the pandemic. I send you positive vibes and courage from France to go through this rough period.
It must feel hard not to be close to your family member who is having hard days. The only thing we can do in that case is PRAYING. Think about good things. These moments test our durability and endurance. I hope everything will be fine with you and your close ones bro, take care.
hey Alex and Carrie this is a Protection karakia that I use to keep myself and my family safe and well . He Inoi - A Prayer Mā te rā e kawe mai te ngoi ia ra, ia ra Mā te marama e whakaora i a koe i waenga pō Mā te ua e horoi ou māharahara Mā te hau e pupuhi te pākahukahu ki roto i tō tinana, i roto i ōu hikoitanga i te ao Kia whakaaro rangimarie rangatira mō ake tonu atu I runga i te ngakau whakaiti, Kororia ki tou ingoa tapu Ko te Mangai hei tautoko mai, Aianei ake nei AE May the sun bring you energy by day May the moon softly restore you by night May the rain wash away your worries May the wind blow new strength into your being and in your daily walk. Have peace all the days of your life forever and ever, Always with a Humble Heart Glory to his Holy Name The Mangai Supports this now and forever.
My deepest sympathies on the health struggles your family’s facing right now. It can’t be easy to just sit tight and wait but it’s all you can do. Wishing you all the very best - cheers from your neighbour, Australia 🇦🇺
Heartfelt sympathies, Alex. I was in a somewhat similar situation a few years back, though it sadly didn‘t „end“ on a (at least comparatively) positive note as yours. I was on vacation in the US, staying with friends when my father passed away (after long illness). I had contemplated returning home early after his passing, but after talking extensively with my mother, as well as the friends I was staying with, we decided that it would be best for me to finish my vacation as planned. To this day I feel that it was the right decision, as it allowed me to keep my father in my memories like he was when I went on vacation, not how he was after his passing. My friends were also invaluable during that time. I hope you and Carrie can relax a little in the upcoming weeks over the new year, and I wish your family member a swift and steady recovery!
Covid, cancer, earthquakes, life in general has taught me that control is a mirage. You are right - connections with loved ones is meaningful and ultimately most important. Even before Covid, there was no guarantee of physically being with far away loved ones when they need you. Just know they will feel your support and whatever happens next, that love and connection will remain strong. I also hope the commitment to producing content doesn’t become too much. Take more time if that’s what you need.
I'm telling you from experience. You need to go. Period. You need to go. She can stay if someone needs to stay at the farm, but YOU need to go. You will not get this time back. Sick patients status changes quicker than you can get there. If you don't go now - you will regret it. 💕🙏💕 I'm so sorry.
Don’t put that on someone who is making difficult choices. Your opinion. And I have been in such a position. It’s part of international living and there is never a right answer
So sorry you are going through such a tough time. I pray God gives you the strength to get you through. Heartfelt warmth and kindness to you both and your family. Hopefully your family member is soon on the mend.
Prayers for your family member. Of course family comes first. If yall end up going safe travels. Luckily you will have your beautiful homestead to come back to. 🙏🏽❤️ For now, enjoy some relaxing time off 🌊
Thinking of you guys, Alex- I know how hard it must be to be so far away…but just know that your family member is feeling all the love. The love that no amount of miles or oceans can ever come between! Your online fam is right behind you all the way. Take time for you and all that keeps you grounded and serene. I’m sending love and light for a happy and healthy 2022.💗
I’m so sorry to hear about your family member, but I agree the best thing we can do is spend time with loved ones. I wish you all the best. The homestead will be there when you get back. Sending good vibes!
Awww I just got to the end of the video. :( That is such a tough situation! I’m glad you’re all figuring out what the best moves are. Best to you and your family.
🌺🌺🌺Much blessings to you and your whanau xxx. Wonderful you had the precious opportunity to affirm via ritual and community. Hari tau hou 2022 ki a koe me tou whanau hoki. Aroha atu xxx
I’m sorry that you and your family are going through such a hard time right now. I hope that you and Carrie are able to escape to a place of peace and calm during this time and make it back to America sometime soon. Thank you for sharing both the ups and downs of your life.
hi Alex , I hope the health of your family member remains stable . Your outlook on life is good, human relations first. you enjoy a beautiful environment, that shows every day that there is a God who cares about us. we see his intelligence in creation, with that same intelligence, he helps us, how to deal with problems. so praying will help you and also read the beautiful letter (bible) to us ,for inner peace. The letter also mentions why there are so many problems and what God will do about them. Do not bear all worries alone, but with God. Stay positive and keep looking forward to the time when you can be together with your family again. All the best for you and Carrie 🤗😁🌺
Knew you were going to make me cry. Much aroha to you both. Your words were powerful and it hit home. Life was put on pause for me for the last year and a half. This video has made me realise its time to get reignited with life and start being me. Time to grab that wheelbarrow, spade and my rocks and spend time in my much neglected garden. Thank you and kia kaha 💕
Understand how you feel. In November last year, my mum was sick and was about to go home but was not able to come back from Malaysia because of the lockdown there. So we decided to stay and on 30 November 2020, she pass away. Sad but we, however, cannot do much then pray and remember our love for her
Blessings and best wishes to you and your wife and family member . Loved your vlog although sad it is very true .. Life is short ,Best wishes and Namaste
The solstice sounds really nice to do I can really use that right now. I hope your family member recovers. I know how you feel. My gf and I were planning to go to New zealand and I was telling important people to me about it and how it's such a wonderful place to be. But just last month my bestfriend and my grandpa passed away from covid.. even now I am still in shock. All those good memories hits me like a bulldozer everyday to my chest. We had a lot of dreams and passions and it is hard to carry on but we are doing our best to. Hang in there and I really hope they recover soon
You and Carrie feel like family to me, so take this virtual hug from me and my son and all our love and support for the challenges ahead. Don't feel pressured to provide content in order to keep us, we'll wait for you both. Xx
Alex and Carrie I am so sorry to hear this about your family member. Sending lots of love, good thoughts and prayers for you, Carrie and your family member.
I can't imagine how difficult this situation must be for you and your family. Sending you best wishes and I hope your family member makes a full recovery 🙏 All the best for 2022
Alex and Carrie my heart goes out to you both at this time. It's not easy as you mention so far away knowing you want to be there my prayers of comfort are with you and your whanau
Alex, I'd like to say that watching your videos isn't just to see your projects. I look forward to your "chats". I come away with such perspectives. As corny as it sounds you guys bring me joy...don't worry about content. I rather you be well, whole. Having traveled to see family I totally understand. Praying for you and sending positive prayers. Un fuerte abrazo.
Sending love, warmth and energy to this beloved person as well as to you, Alex, to your family and to Carrie ❤ Taking time for you while you wait for borders to set you free is a good idea. We wish that you'll be able to reach out California soon.
Steady on, Dear Ayling family. I've followed you for years, and I am rooting for you all, and sending positive vibes across the miles from Alberta, Canada. xo
Hi Alex, your words and thoughts are like you know alot about buddhism.. because the reality of the life and how to face challenges are clearly stated in theravada budhism..currently exist purely in Srilanka. Buddhism is not a religion its a philosophy. ( kind of a guidance to life) telling all these because i believe if you read more in theravada buddhism you will be more stronger to copeup with the current situation.Just a suggestion..Much love from Srilanka 🇱🇰
Wishing you andd your family all the best. It must be so agonising to be so far away from your loved ones when you want to be there to support them. Hope your family member continues to improve.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your Whanau during this time Alex and Carrie. It’s always so difficult to be away from family during times like this but know and understand we are with you in prayer standing in the gap for you. Stay safe and take care..❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
My hope is that everything works out for you and your family. Stay humble and positive as you are. We will be patient. Take care of yourself and your loved ones.
Oh Alex my heartfelt sympathies to you Carrie and your family. Life always brings us these curve balls to test us, but you are right loved ones are important in life as is time we spend with them. Sometimes in this materialistic world we forget what’s more important in life. I wish you and Carrie and of course little Lanka all the best and health to your loved one. Kindest Regards Afrodite.
Absolute best of luck. You guys share so much of your lives with honesty and venerability..that you feel like family members. Thank you both for that. Sending good thoughts and light to you….your not alone ever.
You are a breath of fresh air in the way you talk authentically and tell like it is Alex. Thank you.Im heartened that you are a good role model for other men, who are more used to bottling things up. Im very sorry to hear about your family member and understand the difficulty of being so far away at a time you want to be elsewhere. Sending you and Carrie much love. Enjoy your holiday break as best you can in the beauty of the water and nature, which will help you both nourish your wellbeing and souls during this challenging time
I have only just starting watching some of the awesome videos you and Carrie have been making. You are awesome people who share the best of yourselves. Life is always going to throw you curve balls and often it is not till years later that it make sense. Get to your family and trust that you will return. Take a little bit of Kiwi love with you there if you do go and don't feel guilt if you need to stay, You must feel so torn between staying and going. Kia Kaha
Sending you both lots of love and good thoughts ❤️ I also live far away from my home country and went through something similar a few months ago so I understand the heartache and I am so sorry you have to go through that! I will tell you what I have been telling myself over and over in the hardest moments : You can’t change the wind, so all you can do is adjust the sails, and have faith! ❤️
Hey Alex, sorry to hear about your family member. It’s really tough when that happens. I’m a kiwi living in the UAE since 2006, and I’ve experienced the same. The sense of helplessness can be overwhelming so it’s great you have the support of family and friends there. I hope your family member continues to improve. All the best for 2022.
Hi Alex, I’m so sad to hear that news and gutted for you that you can’t be with your family right now. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your unwell family member and wishing you all the best. I hope you and Carrie get that kiwi summer downtime you deserve x
So, so sorry for what you're going through. That's tough... really tough. Can see how much it's tearing you up inside. Good to hear you're taking a wee break away. You so deserve it. Appreciate your honesty, vulnerability & respect to your family member. So very refreshing. Wishing you both all the best for 2022.
Thinking of you guys and your family, hopefully the world can figure out this new variant soon and open up to allow you to visit back home. In the meantime I hope we can all be of some support to you through the comment section 😊
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To clarify - we are not leaving New Zealand right now due to changes at the border. We were packed and ready to go but the border status changed due to the new variant and our plans have been put on hold. It’s been hectic. Luckily my family members health has stabilized for the time being. We will probably go over for a while in a few months. Lots of feelings right now.
Thank you all for your kindness and support. It’s been a crazy year, with so many ups and downs but throughout it all you’ve been here. So I want to say a heartfelt thank you. Sending you all good vibes and lots of love. See you in 2022.
I hope you find solace in whats about to come and that you dont change your optimism. That's the best part of you and your wife, the optimism in hardships, so stay strong buddy and sending love to that loved one and you guys to get through this
Prayers and best wishes to your loved one Alex. 🙏😘
Best well wishes to your family members and you&Carrie… serious condolences 💐
When we made the decision to move to New Zealand, we realised that at times loved ones will become ill and die. We reached the conclusion that we were only ever a flight away. Inevitably we will miss events, but with enough will we could still be there for most of the critical moments. That was pre-covid, and it's a lot harder now. But we can only do what we can do, and we should not feel ashamed about what we can't do.
What a worrying time for you both and your family. Peace to you both over this special time of year. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Breathe in all that beautiful nature we are surrounded with, it is indeed life giving x
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It’s tough when a family member is ill and you are so far away. This Covid life is certainly putting everyone in a spin right now. Rest assured that your wider NZ community is prepared to step up when needed, so if we can do anything at all to help, just say the word. Take care and stay safe. 🌻🌹🌼🌺🌸
Hi Alex, My heart goes out to you and Carrie and your extended family. Sending healing prayers to your loved one. It’s good you are able to go away in your caravan and both have a little time out to relax and look after yourselves. Lots of love.
Alex, heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. I can't even begin to imagine how traumatizing and disruptive this turn of events must be in light of the fact that you've just recently finally settled into your new home in NZ. But, family comes first. Always. So, I understand and, under similar circumstances, would make the exact same decision. Godspeed, my friend! Take good care of yourself, your wife and your pup while back in the States. All the best, brother!!!
Thank you Terry
@@AlexanderAyling You're very welcome, mate. Hang tough.
Alex, sending prayers, positive thoughts, and good vibes to you and your family. I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. Please take as much time as you and Carrie need to focus on yourselves and your families. Wishing you guys a happy holiday season.
Sending love and light to you, your family and Carrie during what sounds like such a difficult time ♥️
Hi Alex, sorry to hear you are going through a lot right now. I honestly am here to help if you ever need anything at your homestead. I am a dairy farmer so use to animals and things and house sitting. Just incase you need anyone as a back up i am here for you guys. Sending you and your family a lot of prayers. Since I lost my brother a few years ago i really value the importance of time in life and how we spend it. When times are good really enjoy it and when bad times are hard sit, learn and feel it. Really hope everything works out for you guys. Take care. Amy x
Sorry to hear, but you never know what will happen from day to day take care
I liked your video! You talked about important things for our life! God bless you and your family!
Thank you Gizna!
The ups and downs of living across countries.... The heart strings get pulled, and pulled hard in times like these.
I feel for you both. We all want to be near the ones we love in sad times.
My mum was a wise woman. She taught me to accept that, when you can't be there, you just can't be there, and that's all there is to it
You're a wise man Alex, you speak wise words in every vlog. You know that love is the greatest power there is, and that power is energy. Energy that can be directed to be with whomever needs it.
You don't need to be present to send your love. Yes being present helps US feel better, but the most important person is the one in need.
Send your love, the love of compassion, the love of healing, the love of pure unconditional love. Love is all things. It can be everywhere and anywhere. Direct your love to your family member and rest assured in the knowledge that.... It Is Done.
Have a great rest and time with the family you can be with. 💖🎶
Holding space for you, Carrie and your family right now. Thinking of you all!
I wish you and your family lots of peace, guidance and light during this difficult time! 🙏🏼💛
Thank you Anna - your light is appreciated
So sorry for your bad news about your fam, hope they are doing OK. If MIQ is your worry (if you decided to go down that route), anti govt talking heads often spout about how it's overwhelmed, but the latest statement from the head of MIQ Chris Bunny on 16/12 indicates otherwise: ""After 1.5 hours, there was no one left in the queue and there were still 1,000 rooms remaining. ... The room release ended after 4 hours 10 minutes with 838 rooms still left for December and March dates." If it's of any help, friends who had to go back to the UK booked their MIQ spots first, before confirming their flights. A big thank you to both you and Carrie as well, Alex. You're kind of part of the fabric of NZ life here now. Enjoy your downtime. 😄 Finally, as an old karate master used to say, keep your vibration high and "be as a leaf on a river". See you in 22. 💖
Thank you for that. We will look into MIQ again if we need to leave asap
Family first brother, Aotearoa will always be your other home apart from the US, I wish you and Kerry safe travels.
Fingers crossed for everything to calm down. I hope both of you have supportive people around 💕. Sending warm thoughts from Poland!
❤️ I have been through being far away when there’s a family crisis and every emotion you’re feeling is valid. You and Carrie are in my thoughts and praying your family member continues to be stable.
Sending you guys a big virtual hug…I know you want to get back to support your sick family member. Sending love for all . Stay safe and healthy ❤️
After this watching this video... "He aha te mea nui o te ao He tangata, he tangata, he tangata" - WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN THE WORLD? IT IS THE PEOPLE, IT IS THE PEOPLE, IT IS THE PEOPLE! definitely my favourite quote from Maori language.
Yes I love that Māori saying too. So true
I hope that your family member is going to be better. It's not easy right now to do what we want with the pandemic. I send you positive vibes and courage from France to go through this rough period.
It must feel hard not to be close to your family member who is having hard days. The only thing we can do in that case is PRAYING. Think about good things. These moments test our durability and endurance. I hope everything will be fine with you and your close ones bro, take care.
Thank you Hayitov
hey Alex and Carrie this is a Protection karakia that I use to keep myself and my family safe and well .
He Inoi - A Prayer
Mā te rā e kawe mai te ngoi ia ra, ia ra
Mā te marama e whakaora i a koe i waenga pō
Mā te ua e horoi ou māharahara
Mā te hau e pupuhi te pākahukahu ki roto i tō tinana, i roto i ōu hikoitanga i te ao
Kia whakaaro rangimarie rangatira mō ake tonu atu
I runga i te ngakau whakaiti,
Kororia ki tou ingoa tapu
Ko te Mangai hei tautoko mai, Aianei ake nei
AE
May the sun bring you energy by day
May the moon softly restore you by night
May the rain wash away your worries
May the wind blow new strength into your being and in your daily walk.
Have peace all the days of your life forever and ever,
Always with a Humble Heart
Glory to his Holy Name
The Mangai Supports this now and forever.
Kia Ora and thank you whanau for this beautiful karakia. We will be attending Te Reo classes in 2022.
My deepest sympathies on the health struggles your family’s facing right now. It can’t be easy to just sit tight and wait but it’s all you can do. Wishing you all the very best - cheers from your neighbour, Australia 🇦🇺
Heartfelt sympathies, Alex. I was in a somewhat similar situation a few years back, though it sadly didn‘t „end“ on a (at least comparatively) positive note as yours. I was on vacation in the US, staying with friends when my father passed away (after long illness).
I had contemplated returning home early after his passing, but after talking extensively with my mother, as well as the friends I was staying with, we decided that it would be best for me to finish my vacation as planned. To this day I feel that it was the right decision, as it allowed me to keep my father in my memories like he was when I went on vacation, not how he was after his passing. My friends were also invaluable during that time.
I hope you and Carrie can relax a little in the upcoming weeks over the new year, and I wish your family member a swift and steady recovery!
Hey Phil, I’m sorry to hear about your father. 🙏🏼
Mine is to spend more time with my kids. The most important gift you can give is time
So true! Make it happen, that is the thing they will remember most
Covid, cancer, earthquakes, life in general has taught me that control is a mirage. You are right - connections with loved ones is meaningful and ultimately most important. Even before Covid, there was no guarantee of physically being with far away loved ones when they need you. Just know they will feel your support and whatever happens next, that love and connection will remain strong. I also hope the commitment to producing content doesn’t become too much. Take more time if that’s what you need.
I sympathise a lot with what you are going through, with my whole family also out of New Zealand.
I wish you and all your family all the best 🙏
Praying for your family member's fast recovery. It's summer here.Relax, unwind, enjoy and please show us NZs beautiful beaches.
Thank you 🙏🏼
Yep, my flight back from San Francisco to NZ in April got cxld, goodness knows when they'll move me to
I'm telling you from experience. You need to go. Period. You need to go. She can stay if someone needs to stay at the farm, but YOU need to go.
You will not get this time back. Sick patients status changes quicker than you can get there. If you don't go now - you will regret it.
💕🙏💕 I'm so sorry.
Don’t put that on someone who is making difficult choices. Your opinion.
And I have been in such a position. It’s part of international living and there is never a right answer
So sorry you are going through such a tough time. I pray God gives you the strength to get you through. Heartfelt warmth and kindness to you both and your family. Hopefully your family member is soon on the mend.
Thank you Sarah
Prayers for your family member. Of course family comes first. If yall end up going safe travels. Luckily you will have your beautiful homestead to come back to. 🙏🏽❤️ For now, enjoy some relaxing time off 🌊
Thinking of you guys, Alex- I know how hard it must be to be so far away…but just know that your family member is feeling all the love. The love that no amount of miles or oceans can ever come between! Your online fam is right behind you all the way. Take time for you and all that keeps you grounded and serene. I’m sending love and light for a happy and healthy 2022.💗
Thank you for being here Dina 🙏🏼
I’m so sorry to hear about your family member, but I agree the best thing we can do is spend time with loved ones. I wish you all the best. The homestead will be there when you get back. Sending good vibes!
Thank you Ava 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Awww I just got to the end of the video. :( That is such a tough situation! I’m glad you’re all figuring out what the best moves are. Best to you and your family.
Happy New Year Dear to you and your wonderful family. Best wishes for a great 2022. Love your channel and find it inspirational and informative.
Kia kaha - stay strong - Alex and Carrie
Thank you Robert 🙏🏼
🌺🌺🌺Much blessings to you and your whanau xxx. Wonderful you had the precious opportunity to affirm via ritual and community. Hari tau hou 2022 ki a koe me tou whanau hoki. Aroha atu xxx
I’m sorry that you and your family are going through such a hard time right now. I hope that you and Carrie are able to escape to a place of peace and calm during this time and make it back to America sometime soon. Thank you for sharing both the ups and downs of your life.
Thank you Jasmine. We are taking the holidays to relax, unplug and recalibrate
Family first is always top priority. Best to you, Carrie and your family. Looking forward to your return whenever that is. Rest and rejuvenate.
Thank you David 🙏🏼 family is what truly matters
All the best for you and your family.
Thank you 🙏🏼
Hey really like your videos, I thought of a book you might like I read that was helpful for me, A Song For the River by Philip Connors
hi Alex , I hope the health of your family member remains stable .
Your outlook on life is good, human relations first.
you enjoy a beautiful environment, that shows every day
that there is a God who cares about us.
we see his intelligence in creation,
with that same intelligence, he helps us,
how to deal with problems.
so praying will help you and also read
the beautiful letter (bible) to us ,for inner peace.
The letter also mentions why there are so many problems
and what God will do about them. Do not bear all worries alone, but with God.
Stay positive and keep looking forward to the time when you can be together
with your family again. All the best for you and Carrie 🤗😁🌺
Knew you were going to make me cry. Much aroha to you both. Your words were powerful and it hit home. Life was put on pause for me for the last year and a half. This video has made me realise its time to get reignited with life and start being me. Time to grab that wheelbarrow, spade and my rocks and spend time in my much neglected garden. Thank you and kia kaha 💕
You don't like Kiwi Communism then. Communism here, Communism there. We all belong to the UN these days.
Understand how you feel. In November last year, my mum was sick and was about to go home but was not able to come back from Malaysia because of the lockdown there. So we decided to stay and on 30 November 2020, she pass away. Sad but we, however, cannot do much then pray and remember our love for her
Blessings and best wishes to you and your wife and family member . Loved your vlog although sad it is very true .. Life is short ,Best wishes and Namaste
The solstice sounds really nice to do I can really use that right now. I hope your family member recovers. I know how you feel. My gf and I were planning to go to New zealand and I was telling important people to me about it and how it's such a wonderful place to be. But just last month my bestfriend and my grandpa passed away from covid.. even now I am still in shock. All those good memories hits me like a bulldozer everyday to my chest. We had a lot of dreams and passions and it is hard to carry on but we are doing our best to. Hang in there and I really hope they recover soon
I hope your loved one has improved since you posted, sending hugs 🤗 and blessings for the new year and the remainder of 2021🥂🍾
You and Carrie feel like family to me, so take this virtual hug from me and my son and all our love and support for the challenges ahead. Don't feel pressured to provide content in order to keep us, we'll wait for you both. Xx
Thank you so much - we feel the family love from this community. Thank you
Kia ora Alex, hope things work out bro, many blessings from my whanau to yours🙏❤️
Kia Ora John. Thank you 🙏🏼
if you want to get good surf head to the east coast mahia & gisborne close to hawkes bay :)
Alex and Carrie I am so sorry to hear this about your family member. Sending lots of love, good thoughts and prayers for you, Carrie and your family member.
Thank you Effie 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Hello. Don't worry. God Bless you. You should know you cannot do anything so you can be happy is best way to do! by T.H.
Sorry to hear your sad news. I hope your family member is getting by now. Welcome to Wararapa!.
Hope your family member will get well. Best wishes for you and your wife for 2022!
Thank you for thinking and sharing and caring. You are helping us all. May good things come to you.
I can't imagine how difficult this situation must be for you and your family. Sending you best wishes and I hope your family member makes a full recovery 🙏 All the best for 2022
Thank you Natalie 🙏🏼
Come to North Carolina! We have the Blue Ridge Mountains and Asheville is a lot of fun. Its not too expensive here either!
Alex and Carrie my heart goes out to you both at this time. It's not easy as you mention so far away knowing you want to be there my prayers of comfort are with you and your whanau
Thank you Sharon 🙏🏼❤️
Alex, I'd like to say that watching your videos isn't just to see your projects. I look forward to your "chats". I come away with such perspectives. As corny as it sounds you guys bring me joy...don't worry about content. I rather you be well, whole. Having traveled to see family I totally understand. Praying for you and sending positive prayers. Un fuerte abrazo.
Thank you. I’m enjoying sharing more of my thoughts here and it’s nice to hear that you enjoy it too.
Sending love, warmth and energy to this beloved person as well as to you, Alex, to your family and to Carrie ❤ Taking time for you while you wait for borders to set you free is a good idea. We wish that you'll be able to reach out California soon.
Thank you Mariena. We sincerely appreciate your positive vibes
Tough dude, real tough. Kia kaha.
Thank you 🙏🏼
Steady on, Dear Ayling family. I've followed you for years, and I am rooting for you all, and sending positive vibes across the miles from Alberta, Canada. xo
Hi Alex, your words and thoughts are like you know alot about buddhism.. because the reality of the life and how to face challenges are clearly stated in theravada budhism..currently exist purely in Srilanka. Buddhism is not a religion its a philosophy. ( kind of a guidance to life) telling all these because i believe if you read more in theravada buddhism you will be more stronger to copeup with the current situation.Just a suggestion..Much love from Srilanka 🇱🇰
I’m a fan of much of Buddhism’s philosophies
Wishing you andd your family all the best. It must be so agonising to be so far away from your loved ones when you want to be there to support them. Hope your family member continues to improve.
Thank you for sharing this sad news! Sending lots of healing energy and love 🙏🏻
Interesting journey. I see your wife was a Utuber before you. Look forward to seeing your journey
Was looking for your newest vide as I sit down for Sunday morning breakfast and it came up right on time
Thank you for tuning in. Sending love ❤️
Send many blessings and love to you and your family❤️❤️❤️
Thanks for sharing Alex it's good to Talk I hope your family member is recovering very well Regards to Carrie and Lanka and your furry friends
Thanks Ann
You are going to California to support your loved one. New Zealand is a family of 5,000,000 so your family supports you.
Thank you Louie - so true! One big Whānau
Thanks Alex for Sharing your story. Much love and prayers to your whanau. God bless, and stay safe.
Thank you Sam 🙏🏼
Sending good vibes to you and your family! Covid sucks.
Thank you Catherine.
Sorry to hear about your news ….I hope 🤞 that it all works out for the best and pray for your family member, take care 🙏🏻and rest.
Thank you Shevel 🙏🏼
Remember to stay in your own lane. And to keep faith.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your Whanau during this time Alex and Carrie. It’s always so difficult to be away from family during times like this but know and understand we are with you in prayer standing in the gap for you. Stay safe and take care..❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you Patsy 🙏🏼
Hey Alex we understand, it's part of life. Just come back when you're ready. Got to take some time to heel dude. Peace mate
Thanks Russel 🙏🏼
Sorry to hear this. Relax, keep positive. Sending healing thoughts to your family.
Thank you Tashie
Hope things work out for you guys, & your able to be with your whanau soon.
My hope is that everything works out for you and your family. Stay humble and positive as you are. We will be patient. Take care of yourself and your loved ones.
Thank you Elaine 🙏🏼
reality of new Zealand right now many of us have not seen love ones and all due to the nz boarder or top have never left due to the miq system
Oh Alex my heartfelt sympathies to you Carrie and your family. Life always brings us these curve balls to test us, but you are right loved ones are important in life as is time we spend with them. Sometimes in this materialistic world we forget what’s more important in life. I wish you and Carrie and of course little Lanka all the best and health to your loved one. Kindest Regards Afrodite.
Thank you Afrodite ❤️❤️
Absolute best of luck. You guys share so much of your lives with honesty and venerability..that you feel like family members. Thank you both for that. Sending good thoughts and light to you….your not alone ever.
Thank you Eddie - we feel blessed to have such a big supportive family in this community.
Safe travels alex when you finally get out of the country.
Really tough times mate, and I'm sorry you're going through this. Fingers crossed things calm soon
Thank you 🙏🏼
You are a breath of fresh air in the way you talk authentically and tell like it is Alex. Thank you.Im heartened that you are a good role model for other men, who are more used to bottling things up. Im very sorry to hear about your family member and understand the difficulty of being so far away at a time you want to be elsewhere. Sending you and Carrie much love. Enjoy your holiday break as best you can in the beauty of the water and nature, which will help you both nourish your wellbeing and souls during this challenging time
Thank you Helen 🙏🏼❤️
I have only just starting watching some of the awesome videos you and Carrie have been making. You are awesome people who share the best of yourselves. Life is always going to throw you curve balls and often it is not till years later that it make sense. Get to your family and trust that you will return. Take a little bit of Kiwi love with you there if you do go and don't feel guilt if you need to stay, You must feel so torn between staying and going. Kia Kaha
Thank you Trish - yeah it was a tough call to stay but for now it’s the right one
Sending you both lots of love and good thoughts ❤️ I also live far away from my home country and went through something similar a few months ago so I understand the heartache and I am so sorry you have to go through that! I will tell you what I have been telling myself over and over in the hardest moments : You can’t change the wind, so all you can do is adjust the sails, and have faith! ❤️
So sorry to hear about the health issue in your family. Hope things improve. I admire your attitude through this. Happy holidays.
wow, that's a lot. hang on in there and fingers crossed for your family member's health!
Thank you 🙏🏼
Prayers and hugs to you and your families for only better things. Enjoy your well deserved hiatus. A chance to refresh.
Thank you Lynne 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Ngaa Mihi o te tau hou Happy New Year to you and yr Whaanau....xx
Hey Alex, sorry to hear about your family member. It’s really tough when that happens. I’m a kiwi living in the UAE since 2006, and I’ve experienced the same. The sense of helplessness can be overwhelming so it’s great you have the support of family and friends there. I hope your family member continues to improve. All the best for 2022.
Thank you Zakaia - 🙏🏼❤️
Hi Alex, I’m so sad to hear that news and gutted for you that you can’t be with your family right now. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your unwell family member and wishing you all the best. I hope you and Carrie get that kiwi summer downtime you deserve x
Thank you Kirstin 🙏🏼 we are grateful
So, so sorry for what you're going through. That's tough... really tough. Can see how much it's tearing you up inside. Good to hear you're taking a wee break away. You so deserve it. Appreciate your honesty, vulnerability & respect to your family member. So very refreshing. Wishing you both all the best for 2022.
Thank you Jo 🙏🏼
Thinking of you guys and your family, hopefully the world can figure out this new variant soon and open up to allow you to visit back home. In the meantime I hope we can all be of some support to you through the comment section 😊
Thank you Michelle - we are feeling the love and support of this community in comments like these. Thank you
Positive vibes to you and your fam. Keep on keepin on!
Hey Alex. Sorry to hear that. Hope your family member continues to stay stable and gets better soon. Good luck with the border situation
Thank you Dave 🙏🏼
Alex and Carrie, so sorry to hear that your plans have been delayed. Sending love and best wishes. Catch up soon, Love Ian & Raewyn
Thank you! We will catch up soon 🙏🏼
Just so sorry Alex that you can’t go just yet and hopefully your family will get through the treatment so you get to be together sometime soon🥰🥰
Thank you Christine 🙏🏼
Sorry to hear this sad news. Travel safe , take care.
Prayer went up for you and your family! hope to hear good news in the next video. Take care!
Thank you! We know the one upstairs is listening and hearing the prayers from this community. Thanks for sending one for us