I am loving yall's videos! I was in a 2 year relationship with a partner I felt would be my always, but my own misunderstanding of how things should work caused so many issues. They were much older than me and kept trying to express that I was often acting unregulated and I took it so personally. We separated about a month ago and ive spent every day trying to learn about myself and how I show up in relationships. I've learned so much! I found your channel today and I've listened to atleast 5 videos already. I feel so comfortable listening to yall. I am gay and I don't get the sense that being gay is something yall aren't ok with. You both speak for couples regardless of preference and that is so important. I didnt feel like I could be open with my partner about s*x because they were older and it made me self-consious, but I see now that simply communicating about it could have changed so many things
I am loving yall's videos! I was in a 2 year relationship with a partner I felt would be my always, but my own misunderstanding of how things should work caused so many issues. They were much older than me and kept trying to express that I was often acting unregulated and I took it so personally. We separated about a month ago and ive spent every day trying to learn about myself and how I show up in relationships. I've learned so much! I found your channel today and I've listened to atleast 5 videos already. I feel so comfortable listening to yall. I am gay and I don't get the sense that being gay is something yall aren't ok with. You both speak for couples regardless of preference and that is so important. I didnt feel like I could be open with my partner about s*x because they were older and it made me self-consious, but I see now that simply communicating about it could have changed so many things
So what about in my case where I want zero sexual touch until we build back up trust?