"Watch Yourselves With These Women ..." (Black in Japan) | MFiles

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 5 січ 2019
  • In this episode of The Melanated Files (MFiles) we introduce Ashley Wallace, a HR professional living in Japan. Listen as Ashley shares his experience living in Japan as a black man for the past seven years. Watch to hear his story.
    You can find Ashley on Instagram here: @ashley_beu4evr
    SUBSCRIBE to our channel: goo.gl/BToqWv
    The Melanated Files or the MFiles is a Black Experience in Japan's series that highlights black people living in Japan. It focuses on sharing the story of the individual; who they are; what they do; what they are passionate about; and what their experience has been so far, as a black person living in Japan.
    Melanated is a word that is regularly used in the black community. It means “full of melanin.” Files is in reference to the collection of stories of black people in Japan that will be shared in this series.
    If you would like to be featured or know a black person living in Japan, who would like to be featured, please send us a message on our Facebook page: / theblackexjp Or tweet us @theblackexjp
    Visit our website: www.blackexjp.com
    Also remember to subscribe for weekly videos on the black experience in Japan.
    Music Provided by NoCopyrightSounds:
    Itro & Tobu - Cloud 9 [NCS Release]
    Tobu:
    ➞ Spotify smarturl.it/Tobu_Spotify
    ➞ SoundCloud / 7obu
    ➞ Facebook / tobuofficial
    ➞ Twitter / tobuofficial
    ➞ UA-cam / tobuoffi. .
    Itro:
    ➞ Spotify open.spotify.com/artist/6fEZj...
    ➞ Facebook / officialitro
    ➞ Twitter / itromsc
    ➞ UA-cam / official. .
    ➞ SoundCloud / itro
    -------------------------------------------------
    Thank you for watching!
    #blackinjapan #mfiles #ashleywallace

КОМЕНТАРІ • 6 тис.

  • @TheBlackExJp
    @TheBlackExJp  5 років тому +487

    Thank you for watching! New episodes are released every Sunday. Remember to subscribe and hit the bell icon to be notified when a new episode is available.

    • @iamwaffles965
      @iamwaffles965 5 років тому +9

      Hi, I really appreciate all of your hard work and content. I would love to travel to Japan one. Could you please ask what this man did to learn how to speak Japanese fluenty or what course you would recommend to learn Japanese fluenty? Thanks

    • @Shaxs
      @Shaxs 5 років тому +2

    • @TheBlackExJp
      @TheBlackExJp  5 років тому +5

      For everyone who is asking, the police wasn’t there for us. Apparently he was there for the guy that was sitting a few feet away from us. He eventually left and the guy seem unbothered.

    • @TheBlackExJp
      @TheBlackExJp  5 років тому

      Darius Harper I’ll ask him to respond to your comment. Also watch about two interviews back, the one that’s entitled, “Don’t Come to Tokyo ...” Jason shared some really good tips on learning Japanese.

    • @TheBlackExJp
      @TheBlackExJp  5 років тому +1

      Shaxs Thanks for watching, and for the comment. We appreciate it 🙏🏿

  • @ghost23661
    @ghost23661 4 роки тому +1377

    bruh if you can speak Japanese at a level where people mistake you for being half Japanese...that's impressive big ups.

    • @koul.383
      @koul.383 4 роки тому +78

      Could be his eyes tho but if not hes vibing

    • @kevincharlesmcmahon
      @kevincharlesmcmahon 4 роки тому +11

      I lived in Japan for a year. My Japanese accent with Japanese words is far superior to this brother. I say he speaks conversational Japanese at best. No way, no how near fluent . .

    • @koul.383
      @koul.383 4 роки тому +15

      Being fluent is impossible most people think fluency is being = to native speakers and thats impossibe

    • @phillypheeling
      @phillypheeling 3 роки тому +61

      @@kevincharlesmcmahon you don't know that man smh....he said a couple words in Japanese and you have him all figured out huh

    • @ESFDragxnFistEntertainment
      @ESFDragxnFistEntertainment 3 роки тому +14

      I literally thought he was half Japanese or some other ethic Asian. He most likely has Asian heritage that he's not too aware of.

  • @on2wheels378
    @on2wheels378 5 років тому +2017

    12:40, he starts about the women... If that's what you wanted to see..

  • @Blackloverbest
    @Blackloverbest 4 роки тому +903

    Just the sample fact that he did this entire interview in front of an active police vehicle without being approached sold it for me.

    • @zee_lolaj7382
      @zee_lolaj7382 4 роки тому +28

      🤣🤣Yeen Neva lied

    • @elitebeing21
      @elitebeing21 4 роки тому +6

      You got to be fucking stupid... Just to go off that.. Without trying to find out more

    • @tramarthomas6105
      @tramarthomas6105 4 роки тому +47

      @@elitebeing21 why not instead of living in America with niggas like you? I'd bounce too

    • @mondenkuna6841
      @mondenkuna6841 4 роки тому +39

      Wow, is it that bad in America??😔

    • @Vanereall
      @Vanereall 4 роки тому +59

      Monde Nkuna yeah if you get shot and live, you gotta worry about how you’re gonna pay for the hospital bill.

  • @jermainegaines9972
    @jermainegaines9972 4 роки тому +2574

    So basically it's like being in America, but without the killing...

    • @jermells
      @jermells 4 роки тому +59

      Jermaine Gaines Facts💯💯💯

    • @vnonymous824
      @vnonymous824 4 роки тому +392

      America is run by pedophiles, child traffickers, organ harvesters, etc. Our leaders are shit so the country is shit.

    • @isaiahpadilla3588
      @isaiahpadilla3588 4 роки тому +20

      Or the rights and freedoms

    • @johnLennon255
      @johnLennon255 4 роки тому +34

      @@vnonymous824 true

    • @vnonymous824
      @vnonymous824 4 роки тому +201

      @John T You're insecure lol. That's why you left that hateful ass comment. You saw a black guy's face and typed up that bs. I can't even see yours. Mine must look nice? Did it intimidate you? Why did you even comment? Why couldn't you just read it and go about your life?

  • @shinlanten
    @shinlanten 5 років тому +1809

    Several interviewees from various countries have stated how they generally *_"feel safer"_* in Japan than in their home countries. Such a sad reality.

    • @sagacioussage899
      @sagacioussage899 5 років тому +62

      That is right. No fear, 12 at night in Tokyo or Kyoto.

    • @alcfoxxy
      @alcfoxxy 5 років тому +25

      I was thinking the same thing. It's a shame, but it is what it is I guess.

    • @theBSisreal
      @theBSisreal 4 роки тому +79

      They guy that was beaten to death in Greece felt the same way. Never let your guard down IMO.

    • @shelsparkle2691
      @shelsparkle2691 4 роки тому +11

      jazzyjerome huh what guy? Maybe police aren’t so harsh to black ppl there

    • @theBSisreal
      @theBSisreal 4 роки тому +15

      @@shelsparkle2691 Bakari Henderson is was his name.

  • @eeshun7627
    @eeshun7627 5 років тому +894

    Dem, the dude can watch anime without subs

  • @malachiy13
    @malachiy13 4 роки тому +624

    Its good to see Black men leveling up.

    • @socialmedia3074
      @socialmedia3074 4 роки тому +46

      This is not necessarily leveling up more like travelling and learning about other places

    • @tramarthomas6105
      @tramarthomas6105 4 роки тому +105

      @@socialmedia3074 in other words leveling up, genius

    • @socialmedia3074
      @socialmedia3074 4 роки тому +40

      @@tramarthomas6105 if he wasn't a black man would you refer to it as leveling up? I think not no one would care

    • @STIR-FRIED-SUBWAY-RAT
      @STIR-FRIED-SUBWAY-RAT 4 роки тому +20

      @@socialmedia3074 lmao that's such a lame retort

    • @socialmedia3074
      @socialmedia3074 4 роки тому +51

      @@STIR-FRIED-SUBWAY-RAT may be lame to you but it's fact. I'm black and this is offensive to me. When I purchase a new home it's considered a leveling up when a white person does it it's considered the norm, same thing here.

  • @cekecekebambam9512
    @cekecekebambam9512 4 роки тому +639

    I lived in Korea 4 years. I regret having moved back to America. But I got my sight set on Ghana. Ill invest all my money there.

    • @cekecekebambam9512
      @cekecekebambam9512 4 роки тому +116

      Liam have you asked yourself why Europeans never left Africa ? America doesnt want Blacks to know the truth about Africa or they will leave. America has quantity but no quality life.

    • @Brocambro1
      @Brocambro1 4 роки тому +16

      @@cekecekebambam9512 true

    • @cekecekebambam9512
      @cekecekebambam9512 4 роки тому +68

      Liam dude. There is plenty of third world in america. You know most Americans are poor and dirt poor

    • @cekecekebambam9512
      @cekecekebambam9512 4 роки тому +42

      Jake McCoy is right but I am going to add this
      The American people are brainwashed. They still believe the maps they saw in their 45th world ranked school system. And they keep voting for conmen

    • @najahshikamaru620
      @najahshikamaru620 4 роки тому +10

      U can do it. I'm planning on visiting Sierra Leone

  • @kilosanders
    @kilosanders 5 років тому +1262

    12:38 women advice

    • @wtfsamusidk7574
      @wtfsamusidk7574 5 років тому +120

      Lords work

    • @Clluthu
      @Clluthu 5 років тому +123

      the japanese courts will side with the japanese side. you basically have no rights if she decides to take the kids etc.

    • @miamiwax5504
      @miamiwax5504 5 років тому +10

      Ty

    • @agbaya5314
      @agbaya5314 5 років тому +114

      The hero we needed but didn’t deserve

    • @Justamanliving
      @Justamanliving 5 років тому +26

      Bless you

  • @kylereese4542
    @kylereese4542 5 років тому +465

    This been poppin up in my feed for like a week now. Let me just go ahead and watch it.

  • @vikktor1
    @vikktor1 4 роки тому +938

    They think he is half Japanese, because he LOOKS half Japanese !!

    • @Smitty-op4ld
      @Smitty-op4ld 4 роки тому +106

      Right, then he starts speaking fluent Japanese, in Japan, with medium complexion, and partial Asian looking features, what are they supposed to think? I'm more bothered by the cop pulling up next to the two black guys talking making the video than those not thinking he's just a black guy who speaks Japanese.

    • @claireworrell4944
      @claireworrell4944 4 роки тому +16

      @SuperPunch76 Did you just assume his heritage?

    • @convict-itonalwisdom1539
      @convict-itonalwisdom1539 4 роки тому +6

      kayode dagbo I went to school with him for a year ... my homie like 5’6”

    • @MajinSektor
      @MajinSektor 4 роки тому +40

      He def looks half Japanese ....speaking the language would all but confirm it...in fact...I think he might need to question who his daddy really is

    • @convict-itonalwisdom1539
      @convict-itonalwisdom1539 4 роки тому +7

      MajinSektor look bro I’m pretty sure his people were in the military I damn sure he was mixed
      I run track and play football with him my senior year I moved out to the burbs he is from

  • @samanthawilliams1111
    @samanthawilliams1111 5 років тому +107

    Most of the time they try and act like they're scared or ask you stupid questions about why you are not acting like a typical stereotype of black people to make you feel inferior. You just have to ignore them and let them think what they want. Narcissists and prejudice people say things just to get a reaction out of you. Starve them. Dont feed the trolls.

    • @leofeza9325
      @leofeza9325 3 роки тому +8

      Nice assessment. Unless you really smell bad or something most behavior of racists is just to make you feel they are above you.

    • @serene5345
      @serene5345 3 роки тому +9

      Your own response and behavior toward them will serve as an example of how some stereotypes are just that, stereotypes. In other words, take the opportunity to show them you're not offended by questions by answering earnestly and calmly, without suggesting they're making you feel inferior. Your Light and Energy will increase when you do this.

  • @deekayk6299
    @deekayk6299 5 років тому +3672

    Wow..a cop just pulled up n he aint worried at all!!!! Lol..must be nice

    • @favouriwueke24
      @favouriwueke24 5 років тому +24

      What do you mean?

    • @Yup365
      @Yup365 5 років тому +142

      Boy

    • @chiaraippoliti
      @chiaraippoliti 5 років тому +485

      @@favouriwueke24 In the States, cops target Black people and can be scary. But in Japan, they can feel safe with the cops around.

    • @nkreseknowledge2241
      @nkreseknowledge2241 5 років тому +9

      Lol

    • @MsKay726
      @MsKay726 5 років тому +285

      Yes, it takes years to not flinch when you see a Japanese police car. But after you don't get harrased, you no longer have the fear. I'm from NY , so it was a total difference.

  • @TheBlackExJp
    @TheBlackExJp  5 років тому +728

    For everyone who is asking, the police wasn’t there for us. Apparently he was there for the guy that was sitting a few feet away from us. He eventually left and the guy seemed unbothered.

    • @allgoo1964
      @allgoo1964 5 років тому +73

      The Black Experience Japan says:
      "For everyone who is asking, the police wasn’t there for us..."
      ==
      Policemen in Tokyo(警視庁) are very cautious about anybody around in the area with high concentration of foreigners such as near the embassies.
      Even if you are Japanese they would walk up to you and start asking questions in English.
      They are very polite though. They would explain why you are questioned in even apologetic way.

    • @veemon
      @veemon 5 років тому +61

      Pin this comment on top, so commenters can stop bitching about the cop car.

    • @trusttruth9916
      @trusttruth9916 5 років тому +8

      I know the Police car was in the shot because it pulled up! but people can't put 2n2 together and not keep mentioning it detracting from the video? good video by the way yet again a different insight from another Black individual, he seems to be making his way here in Japan Thanks

    • @o6ina
      @o6ina 5 років тому +13

      @@morrisonjonathan4313 I am white and I've been stopped, asked for ID and questioned. But that is their job.

    • @veemon
      @veemon 5 років тому +3

      morrison jonathan What video?

  • @Jxo901
    @Jxo901 4 роки тому +743

    It shouldn’t be this difficult being black

    • @katj4624
      @katj4624 4 роки тому +45

      It is this difficult because of our disobedience and rebellion against OUR LORD Yahawah. Ezekiel 5 KJV. But RESTORATION is coming and an Everlasting Righteous Kingdom is coming!!!! 2 Chronicles 7:14 KJV

    • @darrismith2066
      @darrismith2066 4 роки тому +155

      Kat J you sound soo dumb and brainwashed

    • @keemykeem4056
      @keemykeem4056 4 роки тому +31

      @@darrismith2066 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Mateus-tr4tn
      @Mateus-tr4tn 4 роки тому +2

      Fuck yahayaysjhs

    • @vnonymous824
      @vnonymous824 4 роки тому +44

      @@katj4624 Did you forget your Lord is allowing this? He has ALL power.. He can change this today if he existed..

  • @MichaelJohnson-kl7rf
    @MichaelJohnson-kl7rf 4 роки тому +191

    People all over the world have a stereotypical view of black Americans because Hollywood perpetuates these stereotypes constantly. You really can't blame them, it's bad marketing

    • @xdqueen9089
      @xdqueen9089 4 роки тому +23

      Also it's what black people put out on UA-cam and other social media, you forgot that bit.

    • @goddessshala
      @goddessshala 3 роки тому +18

      You can blame yourself because the same image is portrayed of whites, Asians, Mexican but people choose to judge and treat people how they want to. So it’s your fault and every other ignorant racist persons fault as well. You have to treat people how they show you. Not off of stereotypes..... that’s ignorant.

    • @goddessshala
      @goddessshala 3 роки тому +7

      @@xdqueen9089 not all.. just like the idiot above. You CHOOSE to be racist and ignorant and stereotypical

    • @MichaelJohnson-kl7rf
      @MichaelJohnson-kl7rf 3 роки тому +2

      @@goddessshala you're calling who an idiot? Me ?

    • @brettsmith8956
      @brettsmith8956 3 роки тому +1

      @@goddessshala "racist" and "ignorant" are oxymorons. The more you know about blacks, the more you realize all the stereotypes apply.

  • @HockeyPRO5000
    @HockeyPRO5000 5 років тому +157

    Glad this channel popped up in my recommendations. Its interesting hearing how its being black in other countries.

  • @kenwu7
    @kenwu7 5 років тому +463

    I think I've found the samurai that smells like sunflowers.
    (read the description) 100 points if you get the reference.

    • @unknownninja1
      @unknownninja1 5 років тому +108

      Samuria Champloo 😊👊.

    • @tachyontee3877
      @tachyontee3877 5 років тому +28

      Fuu looking for her pops in Samurai Champloo.

    • @georgeleslie7259
      @georgeleslie7259 5 років тому +19

      Samurai champloo???

    • @StudioArtFX
      @StudioArtFX 5 років тому +4

      Didn't even think about it until you said that! Now I get it!

    • @kenwu7
      @kenwu7 5 років тому +1

      excellent! 👏 🍭

  • @marcelgardner8497
    @marcelgardner8497 4 роки тому +449

    That women advice is universal for all people.

    • @xcalknight
      @xcalknight 4 роки тому +36

      Marcel Gardner I agree. This isn’t advice reserved for Japan. Kind of a waste of time... it would’ve been more accurate to title this “black guy talks about his experiences in Japan” or something to that nature rather than eluding towards this video talking entirely about women in Japan, which is what I assumed.

    • @red_pill_hebrew2073
      @red_pill_hebrew2073 4 роки тому +24

      If you're a Red Piller, you'll already know this.

    • @campkira
      @campkira 4 роки тому +12

      a lot of girl.... they only think what they get off the relationship.... they never care about their man...

    • @DigitalDezinesCEO
      @DigitalDezinesCEO 4 роки тому +38

      A love how men now feel like victims. Yes, there are some women who do fucked up things. But men are now starting to choke on their own patriarchy. So deal with the consequences. Dont "watch these women". Watch yourself and your own ideology. You are who you attract.

    • @sned_dunes
      @sned_dunes 4 роки тому +5

      @@DigitalDezinesCEO
      Yep, things have to change now, new players, new rules

  • @SunfireSol
    @SunfireSol 3 роки тому +232

    He's slightly losing his fluency in English. Probably loved having this interview to use his native language. Rightfully so.

    • @dalebills9470
      @dalebills9470 3 роки тому +21

      Hey I knew I wasn't tripping. I feel like he is starting to lose his ability to speak English LOL

    • @tris1339
      @tris1339 3 роки тому +11

      maybe he just has a speech impediment

    • @thepsalms2806
      @thepsalms2806 3 роки тому +5

      I think he has a stutter

    • @eddiewakes9425
      @eddiewakes9425 3 роки тому +1

      Yep, definitely losing his English. :)

    • @mrcoolchip2727
      @mrcoolchip2727 3 роки тому +15

      @Akira Aguilera what a loser man. Different is not always worse. African American Vernacular English has grammar rules and exceptions too and it doesn’t make it any less of a language than “correct” English. Dialects of different languages form all the time but somehow people still have this idea that black/southern accents are somehow incorrect when it’s just different.

  • @cookiebaby27
    @cookiebaby27 5 років тому +579

    Don't get into any relationship, anywhere, with people you have not connected with. That won't have your back.

    • @khiclark31
      @khiclark31 5 років тому +16

      Good point

    • @joesephmatthews235
      @joesephmatthews235 5 років тому +12

      Head ass

    • @snowstorm1956
      @snowstorm1956 5 років тому +29

      Cookie Baby
      This world is very disconnected.. Your fears will override ur limitations..Do the relationships u have " got ur back?".Black people most of all, have a Universal God given intuitive sense. Maybe we ought to spend some time trusting that man in the mirror..It saddens me greatly when we undervalued our ability to override the labels that are put forth out of fear and most of the time pure ignorance. Your ancestry speaks for itself..Never forget the inherent dignity that our leaders, many who died, instilled in our hearts and minds.Pass that on to the youth for this is the legacy they have left..The ability to "relate" and our own "self- respect" has surpassed many culturally indifferences. I do find that it is here in this country , where it is most likely to be challenged. Even amongst own people. I am my brother"s keeper..wherever I may go..

    • @last7509
      @last7509 5 років тому +60

      Learned that from marrying a white chick like a lot of stupid brothas lol. They have their own agenda and you both gonna wake up in a nightmare one day. I can only imagine the misery you would have in Japan cause they aint cute with their racism like over here lol.

    • @plipogamez3173
      @plipogamez3173 5 років тому +7

      @@last7509 Would you say all white women who get into relationships with black men, do not have the mans' best interest in mind?

  • @derrickbaustin
    @derrickbaustin 4 роки тому +44

    His candidness was truly eye opening and revealing. He presented a perspective that more Black Americans should consider deeply before going to Japan.
    Insightful video!

  • @rarebarney5681
    @rarebarney5681 4 роки тому +141

    I'm black and my five-year plan is to move to Japan.

    • @justkaizen1392
      @justkaizen1392 4 роки тому +21

      Hope to see you there bro 💪🏽

    • @STG6_Phearable
      @STG6_Phearable 4 роки тому +12

      Bro are we living in a parallel universe? Cause I am doing the same

    • @reginaldmitchell4448
      @reginaldmitchell4448 4 роки тому

      Me too.

    • @xan3267
      @xan3267 4 роки тому +2

      Princess J have you lived there long term? I’d love to ask a few questions if I can contact you on any socials. I’m a 16 year old extremely confused and puzzled as to what I want to pursue after high school here in the states. Hope I hear from you!

    • @pastordonkoh7692
      @pastordonkoh7692 4 роки тому +6

      I want to go to Bostwana

  • @ShimmyAkira
    @ShimmyAkira 5 років тому +39

    I'm going to Japan in 5months and these videos give me a great insight on what I may face in Japan as a African american man...I appreciate everyone you interview & appreciate them for sharing their experience.. thank you all...this channel is amazing

  • @iserved8840
    @iserved8840 5 років тому +77

    I was stationed in Okinawa Japan for a year and that was one of the best experiences in my life. Like Ashley saidi had no fear of being a victim of violence like in many other places and the younger generations were very welcoming. I was told that some older Japanese still have animosity from the war but overall it was a great year and would love to go back and visit.

    • @balojames1084
      @balojames1084 4 роки тому

      Okinawa is such a beautiful place! I was there last July and I saw a lot of Americans who work for the army.

    • @xiagm-kemasmfadlic150
      @xiagm-kemasmfadlic150 3 роки тому

      Tell your army to leave... Fuck immoral army... You guys rape woman... Look at iraq,afghanistan,syiria...look at what you done.... Just wait for destroy by china,russia,india

    • @godemperorletoatreidesii6971
      @godemperorletoatreidesii6971 2 роки тому +1

      @@xiagm-kemasmfadlic150 after what japan did during ww2 they are lucky not to be wiped off the face of the planet those bases are the only reason china doesnt claim revenge. Ofc there is no excuse for abuse.

    • @amosjohnson863
      @amosjohnson863 2 роки тому

      Stationed at camp Hansen for a year, and loved it

    • @amosjohnson863
      @amosjohnson863 2 роки тому +2

      Majority of the white military people i served with may be the problem they have with the military, white people in general refuse to accept others culture, they see it as a sign of losing there superiority

  • @AB-ed2be
    @AB-ed2be 5 років тому +59

    You can tell he don't use English as much but he can still speak it very well.

    • @elitebeing21
      @elitebeing21 4 роки тому +5

      Agree

    • @janedoes5903
      @janedoes5903 4 роки тому +2

      Reverse culture shock. I left for a few months and really struggled to communicate in English.

    • @zaytime4156
      @zaytime4156 4 роки тому +3

      Deadass you would’ve thought bro was slow or sum if you didn’t know his situation lol

  • @keydaniels
    @keydaniels 4 роки тому +60

    I'm 5'11", dark skinned and I lived in Misawa for two years and it's more rural there. I had a great time and was welcomed places that denied a white friend of mine access. People wanted to take pictures with me all the time. I think because we're so rarely seen in rural towns there that people are too surprised or intrigued to show bias. I never spent much time in the large cities.

    • @genotime9270
      @genotime9270 4 роки тому +1

      Did you tower over everyone?

    • @keydaniels
      @keydaniels 4 роки тому +1

      @@genotime9270 I was definitely taller than most people.

    • @keydaniels
      @keydaniels 3 роки тому +1

      @Akira Aguilera all facts. I wasn't denying the discrimination. Being from the south in the states. I'm very familiar with discrimination. My time spent in Japan I fortunately never had to face it.

    • @itsusi3259
      @itsusi3259 3 роки тому +1

      Bruh I just watched a documentary about Yasuke and this sounds like the exact same thing

    • @fr1way
      @fr1way 3 роки тому +1

      Japanese culture views Africans as gods disciples

  • @lamarc3184
    @lamarc3184 5 років тому +828

    I would expect a lot of black anime fans watched this.🙋🏿‍♂️

  • @fredvonhayek4762
    @fredvonhayek4762 5 років тому +113

    I went to college with Ashley....good guy, hasn't changed!

  • @syreeda1
    @syreeda1 4 роки тому +47

    He is cute!! So happy that you feel safe in Japan... 😍😍😘

    • @KazeDaFinest
      @KazeDaFinest 4 роки тому +2

      You too

    • @businessbuilding1
      @businessbuilding1 4 роки тому

      Even though I am a straight man, I have to agree with you. This guys is pretty cool!

    • @karlmarxwasright6006
      @karlmarxwasright6006 3 роки тому +2

      I'm asian live in asia I think black are super racist about their stereotypes, lot of asian different just brown peaple , Chinese, Japanese, thailand, south korea,Vietnam,Phillipine their ethnic Mongolian,so they don't like black

  • @allergictohumansnotanimals5671
    @allergictohumansnotanimals5671 4 роки тому +84

    When the cops pulled up behind him my heart stopped but then I realized he wasn't in America

    • @justinaturnbough2465
      @justinaturnbough2465 3 роки тому

      Yeah but he is on camera

    • @tyrant_tarantula
      @tyrant_tarantula 3 роки тому

      L

    • @wakazashi20
      @wakazashi20 3 роки тому

      I know right... All over Asia, cops never OUTRIGHT bothered me before. I'm mixed, so I can't speak for my darker brothers and sisters out there. OMG, when i did a homestay with my Jamaican friend in a small town in S. Korea, yes people stared at me a little bit when I was walking alone, but when he was around (he's dark btw), stares went up by 1000%. He was used to it, but I thought it was very annoying and outright disrespectful. Here in Bangkok when i spot someone that I don't know staring at me, I will stare right back, that usually gets them to stop or look somewhere else. Sometimes i found that it was just staring out of curiosity.

    • @SimplicityForGood
      @SimplicityForGood 3 роки тому

      You are really pathetic and your white hate is sickening, stop blaming them and grow up !

    • @TheCyberMantis
      @TheCyberMantis 3 роки тому +1

      Statistics don't lie. They hate to admit it. Easier to blame it on someone else.

  • @kingchuckish
    @kingchuckish 5 років тому +157

    Brother from Chicago, I love this video. i love languages but have not tried Japanese. My languages are are German, Spanish, Korean, & Tagalog. Great video!

    • @TheBlackExJp
      @TheBlackExJp  5 років тому

      Nice! Thanks for watching, we appreciate it!

    • @firestonehaku
      @firestonehaku 5 років тому +2

      That's very impressive to speak all those languages!

    • @lawcifer
      @lawcifer 5 років тому

      galing! paano ka natuto mag tagalog?

    • @ntr10me
      @ntr10me 5 років тому +1

      Welp...I'm jealous. What strategies do you employ with your language learning.

    • @nejitv5145
      @nejitv5145 5 років тому +4

      South Suburbs of Chicago

  • @lloid6619
    @lloid6619 5 років тому +64

    You have excellent channel sir; keep up the great work.

  • @waynefaust9607
    @waynefaust9607 4 роки тому +40

    You're a very bright young man, keep it goin, Bro

  • @marcellacamille-cep3475
    @marcellacamille-cep3475 3 роки тому +8

    4:29 Cop car pulls up and doesn't leave. Heavy side eye Japan love Black America and Beautiful Brown people.

  • @keiaskloset
    @keiaskloset 5 років тому +68

    Why do I feel like he's afraid to say what he REALLY feels when talking about the racial part. He is very very careful with his words to say the least. Overall great video!

    • @zacwoods
      @zacwoods 4 роки тому +40

      wfarley80 We must learn to be P.C when speaking publicly. As soon as he wouldve said something very true but harsh, i guarantee more than half the comment section would just be talking about that. We as people especially us as black people need to find better ways like he did in this video to convey our message to other races. We as black people know exactly what he really meant one way or another but he said it the way he did so that EVERYBODY can receive the message also and not be stuck on a blatantly racist encounter he may have had.

    • @WNCSuperNig
      @WNCSuperNig 4 роки тому +5

      I think sometimes it can be difficult to get across the exact extent of whatever it is you're trying to say. Sometimes it can feel like you're understating something or making an overstatement. I feel like he was trying to accurately depict his experience without overstating them.

    • @James-dg5xv
      @James-dg5xv 4 роки тому +2

      He's a developed habit of speaking japanese you tend to fancy your words alot

  • @alex2nybish
    @alex2nybish 5 років тому +31

    I love this brother, he has helped not only with the Japanese perspective but any country> Thanks Bro, God bless you.

    • @TheBlackExJp
      @TheBlackExJp  5 років тому

      Thanks for watching, we appreciate it!

  • @1mrdnewman
    @1mrdnewman 4 роки тому +79

    Yeah, people moving away when l come around happened a lot to me when I was younger. Now a days I-DO-NOT-CARE. Move, good more room for me. Don't have time to entertain ignorant people's pre-conceived notions. I don't require validation from anyone as I have my own internal reward system. It's so easy.

    • @stephenndego165
      @stephenndego165 3 роки тому

      Are you in Japan?

    • @1mrdnewman
      @1mrdnewman 3 роки тому +2

      @@stephenndego165 No I'm in the states.

    • @stephenndego165
      @stephenndego165 3 роки тому

      That's cool

    • @SammyPlayzRoblox
      @SammyPlayzRoblox 3 роки тому

      Squeeze was that sarcasm it sounded as if you live in Japan I ask since you know typing doesn’t show emotion very well

    • @1mrdnewman
      @1mrdnewman 3 роки тому

      ​@@SammyPlayzRoblox Wasn't being sarcastic. I'm in the states.

  • @eagillum
    @eagillum 4 роки тому +131

    I'm a white girl who did pretty decently at learning Korean and I could never just have a normal conversation with a Korean person. As soon as I'd speak, they'd be so surprised and blown away, we could never just have a normal conversation. Was invited to stuff because of my novelty, not because of an actual relationship.

    • @Mickeii617
      @Mickeii617 2 роки тому +16

      I hate that you experienced that crap. Like nobody wants to just be invited to something because of their race. Plus it's hella weird. I always wondered how they would feel if you turn around and did the same thing to them.

    • @zaikoreborn969
      @zaikoreborn969 Рік тому

      @NicoleB Jones if she did then they would blame it on her on a whole new level if there not a good person.

    • @eagillum
      @eagillum Рік тому

      @@zaikoreborn969 it's totally fine, I'm not damaged by it.

    • @zaikoreborn969
      @zaikoreborn969 Рік тому +1

      @Erin M that's good, it disappoints me to see anyone of any skin tone disrespected because of looks it's very childish in my opinion

  • @taylormoore2590
    @taylormoore2590 5 років тому +72

    Love how the police car just so happens to creep up behind this guy and chill there for pretty much the whole vid 😂😂😂

  • @thiosemicarbizidebenzoylal2921
    @thiosemicarbizidebenzoylal2921 5 років тому +7

    Awesome interview and analysis. Answered all my questions.

  • @ER_aka_RAM
    @ER_aka_RAM 4 роки тому +4

    The timing as he was explaining how he helps others with a good heart.. and then the police rolling up and sticking around for the remainder of the interview; EPIC!
    Great episode!

  • @Kingdmoney98
    @Kingdmoney98 4 роки тому +28

    It’s cool seeing a guy in a different country that come from the exact same neighborhood as u

  • @sophismith5855
    @sophismith5855 5 років тому +3

    I love this interview.. I think he being so truthful.. and ain’t sugarcoating anything.. love love this interview

  • @14omoon
    @14omoon 5 років тому +19

    I loved this interview! I got a little distracted by the kid throwing a tantrum in the background lol so cute how his mom calmed him down then the dad put his hat on

  • @connoisseur14
    @connoisseur14 5 років тому +11

    I grew up in CC Hills in the 80's and 90's and I'm still in the south suburbs. Happy to see a brother traveling and doing great things...Proud of you sir!

  • @funutation
    @funutation 4 роки тому +74

    I could see why someone would think he's half japanese

    • @sondersonics7534
      @sondersonics7534 4 роки тому +3

      Yeah some west africans have that east asian look with the eyes and stuff

    • @Gkg__sfgh__-fghf
      @Gkg__sfgh__-fghf 4 роки тому +4

      prodbysonder That’s because it all started in Africa.

    • @sondersonics7534
      @sondersonics7534 4 роки тому +5

      @Elena w That’s true but it’s not really how it works

    • @Gkg__sfgh__-fghf
      @Gkg__sfgh__-fghf 4 роки тому +2

      prodbysonder I’m just saying it’s genetic.

    • @mariai7649
      @mariai7649 4 роки тому +2

      I have met him at the party and he does sound like me as fluent Japanese speaker cuz I was born and raised in japan. I thought he was born and raised in japan also

  • @adrianm5382
    @adrianm5382 5 років тому +163

    I always wanted to visit japan. Salute from cali man.

    • @TheCoachRC
      @TheCoachRC 5 років тому +1

      You can still do that at a younger, healthier age. Regardless of the airfare, add this country and others you'd like to visit in the future on your bucket list. The experience is priceless.

    • @naeemrashada1009
      @naeemrashada1009 5 років тому

      @calitroit45 I with you! Lol
      I plan to relocate there in Japan 😍

    • @naeemrashada1009
      @naeemrashada1009 5 років тому

      Que pasa Cali curves! 😊

  • @thewatcher4552
    @thewatcher4552 5 років тому +74

    I lived in Japan for 6 years and I loved it over there seems like they want to know more about the American culture then their own culture overall it was a mostly 99.9% positive experience

  • @WalkRideFly
    @WalkRideFly 4 роки тому +1

    I am binge-watching your videos at 1am EST! I came across your channel a couple of weeks ago and did not watch the videos I saved until today. This is a real gem on UA-cam. Japan is my favourite country to visit and love almost everything about it. I am learning so much from your channel. Where have you been all my life bro?

  • @captauron4514
    @captauron4514 4 роки тому +267

    4:31 RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh wait, you’re in Japan. False Alarm.

  • @aeugnewtype
    @aeugnewtype 5 років тому +136

    This guy is awesome. So straight-forward and honest about Japanese society. Also, Chicagoland represent!

    • @catholiccrusader5328
      @catholiccrusader5328 2 роки тому +1

      Way to go fellow Chicagoan!

    • @canonlybeone5569
      @canonlybeone5569 2 роки тому +1

      I’m from country club hills myself and been living in japan for 15 years I understand everything you talking about but your head up bro

  • @natasharollerson8295
    @natasharollerson8295 5 років тому +7

    So proud of you best friend! Keep using your voice to spread positivity! Love you Ashley!!

    • @TheBlackExJp
      @TheBlackExJp  5 років тому +2

      Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts NaTasha, we appreciate it!

  • @sirkid8553
    @sirkid8553 5 років тому

    excellent video, thanks for sharing your experience in Japan Ashley.

  • @Pauline12365
    @Pauline12365 5 років тому +3

    Wow! Crazy seeing you on UA-cam. Glad to see you are good 🙌🏾. ✊🏾.

  • @BlessedDivinely
    @BlessedDivinely 5 років тому +6

    Loved his genuine & transparent feedback. 👍🏾👍🏾

  • @DJLoveNoise
    @DJLoveNoise 5 років тому +7

    Thanks For the Video and keep up the Good Work

  • @reykennedy5716
    @reykennedy5716 4 роки тому +8

    I've become addicted to watching these.

  • @Soulz2keys
    @Soulz2keys 4 роки тому +21

    When the police pulled up I got nervous he didn’t even flinch

  • @samroxeva
    @samroxeva 5 років тому +92

    13:02 Life advice, not only Japan...worldwide. Im all cool with interracial love, but that should come with DEEP conversation

    • @mexicool0486
      @mexicool0486 3 роки тому +2

      Shabazzrgt007 Bazz dumb dumb. It doesn’t matter where he is. What he is saying makes completely sense.

    • @LetThereBeLightxx
      @LetThereBeLightxx 3 роки тому

      Any love, you shouldn't be just a nice face and body to anyone.

  • @codeninja100
    @codeninja100 5 років тому +4

    I love this one. He goes directly into the nuance. Real talk

  • @hustlehealththenwealth9966
    @hustlehealththenwealth9966 5 років тому +6

    ♨️I’m so glad he interviewed you, I’m glad you didn’t keep it PC 100%, I do see you still speaking in a way that was very conducive with still having to live in Japan 🇯🇵 lol but I can still read between the lines and this was the most REAL interview yet!!🌺

  • @chefathomas
    @chefathomas 3 роки тому +2

    The description of ramen was awesome!

  • @valerieg8874
    @valerieg8874 5 років тому +47

    I thank this brother for his knowledge and the level of intelligence that he has. The path that he is on right now is surely helping others looking for truth and guidance!

  • @mickyskickreviews4826
    @mickyskickreviews4826 5 років тому +3

    Great interview. I was able to understand a lot more about being black in Japan. I would love to go there one day.

  • @lukefoster6122
    @lukefoster6122 2 роки тому +3

    That fact Ashley speaks fluent Japanese is amazing and this was a very though provoking interview... God continue to please bless the BEJ Family Abundantly....

  • @SunkissFlower
    @SunkissFlower 5 років тому

    This was a balance interview. He did not sugar coat anything. Thamks for your honesty, guy.

  • @nicoleolloway
    @nicoleolloway 5 років тому +4

    This video was very informative so thank you for making it.

    • @TheBlackExJp
      @TheBlackExJp  5 років тому

      Thanks for watching, we appreciate it!

  • @aintthatthetruth5328
    @aintthatthetruth5328 5 років тому +26

    When the police van pulled up and you didn't even look at it or shift in any kind of way is why I believe you when said "It's safe here"💯

  • @Janeair41....
    @Janeair41.... 4 роки тому +3

    Respectfully, it 's spectacular to have learn your experiences in a mostly mono-being society. It's refreshing to obtain that you are being a catalysis for change in the world. The more you exchange, then the greater opportunity you have in breaking down barriers.

  • @dreal500
    @dreal500 4 роки тому +1

    Great video!!

  • @OsekahTikaani
    @OsekahTikaani 5 років тому +14

    😊very informative ! Thank you 💛🧡

  • @wzupppp
    @wzupppp 5 років тому +29

    Japan is my next far away destination.

  • @abigailr.7487
    @abigailr.7487 5 років тому

    Love this channel for sharing their stories. Currently in Central Asia and as a black women and MY experiences it’s not as face as Japan

  • @tankeryy1566
    @tankeryy1566 2 роки тому +1

    so found this video back on May 22, 2020 and this is the first video ive watched from this channel and honestly i dont know why i didnt subscribe back then so now im subscribing to this channel today!

  • @djbhe
    @djbhe 5 років тому +11

    Chi City is always in the house. Nice interview and info bro. I'm from the southside of Chicago now living in Tampa Florida since 2013. My uncle use to live in Country Club Hills off Vollmer Rd.

  • @germtts
    @germtts 5 років тому +211

    FINE UA-cam I’LL WATCH IT!

    • @TheBlackExJp
      @TheBlackExJp  5 років тому +3

      🙏🏿 Thanks for watching!

    • @larryjeremiah4321
      @larryjeremiah4321 5 років тому +13

      I said exactly the same fucking thing why is this always on my timeline

    • @Mi908Co
      @Mi908Co 5 років тому +4

      Swear to god 😭

    • @jellyg.8961
      @jellyg.8961 5 років тому

      I said "ok, I will watch it since you insist for more than a week". Along with a video of some guys playing pool on a championship...lol. Nice video btw and great insight on his living there.

    • @lamborgini86
      @lamborgini86 5 років тому

      You do know you can hide or tell youtube to stop recommending youtube ? Moron

  • @javonjohnson7291
    @javonjohnson7291 3 роки тому +9

    All my life... I have been exactly where he is at and have been... Its amazing to see truth on this level... The Japanese arenot seen as racist or biased because of their humble culture and nature... But in reality... He is not exposing what isnot already known... He is simply placing the pieces of the puzzle together... And in my opinion, he did a fine and masterful job... This was inspiring on levels you could never understand until you see you me in Tsubiki orTokyo for the simple fact that our image is tarnished because of Western culture... Blessedly a great nation... But like any other, FAR from perfect... Today is the start of our new beautiful future... Take advantage... Because its here now and gone tomorrow... Love this bro... Thank you so much for clearing the air...

  • @asaodo3686
    @asaodo3686 3 роки тому

    I liked his interview! Very honest and unrehearsed.

  • @CamdenReid
    @CamdenReid 5 років тому +56

    Bro I can not wait until I move to Japan in June.

  • @ThornQueenJunko
    @ThornQueenJunko 5 років тому +13

    Being African and raised in Asia for a little, I understand those stereotypes very well. But still living there for the time I did I loved it and do plan on going back one day. Love your videos and love the view your giving Africans and African Americans of Asia and Japan in general. And Happy New Year!

  • @ManPursueExcellence
    @ManPursueExcellence 5 років тому +35

    Honestly, I can see how they would think you’re half Japanese. It’s your eyes bruh, not just the fluency. For real 😂.

    • @shadreckdangaphotography
      @shadreckdangaphotography 4 роки тому +2

      Most Nguni Zimbabwens have eyes like that.

    • @serogolemogole2685
      @serogolemogole2685 3 роки тому +2

      South African Khoi San and Tswana people groups are quite phenotypicaly similar to Asians as well, and this is an observation coming from a black South African

    • @Ray-pp5qb
      @Ray-pp5qb 2 роки тому

      THOSE ARE AFRICAN EYES. its fuckd how AAs have been so cut off from our lineages that we dont know basic black phenotypes. so annoying.

  • @CamberRockerCamber
    @CamberRockerCamber 4 роки тому +36

    At 6:46 as an Asian person, we all have this same attitude. When someone of another ethnicity speaks our language our first reaction is "holy shit that's cool!" Because to us that's rare and we didn't expect that someone would want to learn our language.

    • @uwanttono4012
      @uwanttono4012 3 роки тому +7

      Same in Beijing, China. On one occassion, the taxi driver almost had a heart attack when I asked him to pull over so as I could take a leak and then go to an atm before dropping me home. He was really friendly and amazed that I could speak Chinese. Another time the guy was surprised for the wrong reason! He tried to overcharge me by 150 kuai (RMB) and when I told him that I had been living in BJ for 10 years and so knew the route very well. He choked on his water bottle and was incapacitated with shock when I said to him he was only getting 70 kuai for his taxi fare while I jumped out and tossed the notes to him. You do meet all sorts!

  • @m4kaveli3
    @m4kaveli3 5 років тому +7

    Be careful this channel is so addictive lol. I only discovered yesterday after a video suggestion popped out. I didn’t even looked for any Japanese related topics. I myself African, lived in the UK and now living in Canada. I always was interested in Asian culture but never had the chance to to learn about it. I guess better late than never. Thanks again for those wonderful videos

  • @rin11bairborne
    @rin11bairborne 5 років тому +11

    You did it again brother👊🏽 awesome quality relevant information. Thank you.
    Please do a UA-cam livestream.

    • @TheBlackExJp
      @TheBlackExJp  5 років тому

      What would you like to see?

    • @rin11bairborne
      @rin11bairborne 5 років тому +1

      The Black Experience Japan I think it would be awesome to send out your interviewers to actually go out and do interviews with Japanese people regarding their impressions and interactions with people of color.
      This could serve a couple purposes, first to get a better understanding of their perceptions and secondly to help educate them. These interviews should extend to all segments of society i.e. store owners police educators restauranteurs etc.
      We are more than hip hop artist and athletes and your channel can help educate folks there.
      Consider setting up a PayPal account so we can support your channel directly.

  • @cater10
    @cater10 4 роки тому +15

    I lived in Japan for a short stint years ago, I've been all over, as a black person though, I can tell you out of all the places I've lived and worked, I've never felt more comfortable than in the Middle East, not only are we not judged almost at all, but we're actually admired. It's an amazing feeling, and if you look, lately there has been a great number of famous black people spending allot of time in one of my favorite places, Dubai.

    • @shayscott7498
      @shayscott7498 3 роки тому +2

      I feel the same way. I've seen them calling the average black man "Shiek" with much respect. Every time I talk about my time in the middle east, they seem to want me to say something negative, e.g., how they are oppressive towards women, but I was treated with much respect, dignity and admiration.

    • @Ray-pp5qb
      @Ray-pp5qb 2 роки тому

      The same Middle Easterns that enslaved and still enslave black men, and the word they use for black people literally means slave. Y'all are funny. They like celebs, people that can do skills for them, and tourist to spend their money. Don't no middle easterners like dark skin,please stop. idgaf how comfortable you felt. facts are facts.

  • @ARDG89
    @ARDG89 4 роки тому +3

    Funny how this one ended up on my recommendations again after watching it a year ago nice episode

  • @NewChicago
    @NewChicago 5 років тому +9

    Great to see an Illinoisan over there! Former Calumet City fellow saying "HI" and best to you.

  • @jeremiahotrill6421
    @jeremiahotrill6421 5 років тому +3

    Awesome vid!

  • @evagreen1477
    @evagreen1477 3 роки тому +1

    Very interesting interview. Love Japanese culture. Love this guys message.

  • @phallanop6047
    @phallanop6047 4 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing ❤️❤️

  • @PassportBrosBusinessClass
    @PassportBrosBusinessClass 5 років тому +372

    There are a lot of Black Africans in Asia speaking their languages.
    When I lived there, I met numerous African men.
    Thing is, I stood out because I was an African American.
    And cause I’m 6’7 350lbs+
    I had the opposite experience. Neither Chinese, Japanese or Koreans acted afraid of me.
    Either they looked curious or ignored (try to ignore).
    I totally agree that you should have some skills conversing, reading and writing the language before you live there.

    • @503zzach
      @503zzach 5 років тому +14

      If you want to live in other country. It's a smart thing you can do is to learn how to speak their native languages, cultures and know how to read in their writing scripts to fit in the local people.

    • @ThrdSonofSparda
      @ThrdSonofSparda 5 років тому +12

      I'm in the same boat with a few discrepancies, I'm 6'3" and 250 and have also just had more folks look at me with curiosity. That usually goes out the window when I speak Japanese, and I'm just considered one of the homie's at that point.
      I'll never go back to China though, I worked there for 4 years in post with the State Dept. and my experiences with the locals was one sided no matter how much I did to deflect a negative image.

    • @emmasandifer5976
      @emmasandifer5976 5 років тому

      @Forever Outraged is it culture?

    • @YoutubeOverTV
      @YoutubeOverTV 5 років тому +5

      @Forever Outraged Morroco is in Africa. Morrocans aren't black.

    • @emmasandifer5976
      @emmasandifer5976 5 років тому

      @Forever Outraged I understand

  • @alfredolopez9824
    @alfredolopez9824 5 років тому +4

    Great interview

  • @goldenheart751
    @goldenheart751 5 років тому +19

    I am from Lansing, Illinois. Not too far from country club hills. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @Cinemachoicefilms
    @Cinemachoicefilms 4 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing your experience.

  • @jamesnater1538
    @jamesnater1538 5 років тому +5

    Look at my cousin. Great interview. Love u bro.

  • @52dddful
    @52dddful 5 років тому +5

    @ The Black Experience Japan....Miss Japan was called everything under the sun except Japanese. My daughter is stationed there and plans on visiting some tourist traps on her down time. This video was very informative and I'll have her watch the series before she commits to an itinerary. Thanks for taking your time in doing the interviews.

  • @xyzidor1171
    @xyzidor1171 4 роки тому

    The Best ! Thank You Very Much !

  • @KingJhaBoy
    @KingJhaBoy 4 роки тому +174

    I ain't gonna lie most black people can pass for being mixed with Asian. A lot of black people have Asian looking eyes

    • @leigh5397
      @leigh5397 4 роки тому +17

      I get asked if I'm asian all the time oh my god at this point I just go with it

    • @kuniosaiki
      @kuniosaiki 4 роки тому +9

      It gets kinda annoying after a while

    • @KingJhaBoy
      @KingJhaBoy 4 роки тому +14

      @cockstrong3333 true

    • @GodIsGracious112
      @GodIsGracious112 4 роки тому

      Yes

    • @7DMEDIA1
      @7DMEDIA1 4 роки тому

      Lol