TINDER Romance Turns Sour: Love or Romance Scam?

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  • @CatfishedOnline
    @CatfishedOnline  7 місяців тому +155

    Hello everyone! Great to see everyone in the premiere this morning! What did everyone think of our Saturday retro video? ~ Breanne❤

    • @Mara-d2x
      @Mara-d2x 7 місяців тому +6

      I never saw this one!

    • @SunShinyDaysPlease
      @SunShinyDaysPlease 7 місяців тому +8

      I had missed this one. I hope she found someone real in her city to actually date. She seems nice.

    • @Tim.Weaver
      @Tim.Weaver 7 місяців тому +10

      Nice to see a victim who used some commonsense and reached out to you before they lost all their money!
      👍BTW Breanne - it would be a good idea to "pin" your comment so it stays at the top and everyone can see it

    • @tmcurly
      @tmcurly 7 місяців тому +3

      This is the third repost in the last 1-2 months what’s going on??
      I have seen them all 😲😲

    • @michelleroberts6597
      @michelleroberts6597 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@Tim.Weaver totally!

  • @BeautifulLife000H
    @BeautifulLife000H 7 місяців тому +1569

    $200. was her limit before getting disillusioned. Good for her.

    • @veronicababy7959
      @veronicababy7959 7 місяців тому +83

      It only took her $200 to get rid of him.

    • @TheFakeyCakeMaker
      @TheFakeyCakeMaker 7 місяців тому +44

      Yes. That's exactly right. Sometimes there is a genuine need but it's shouldn't be regular or constant.

    • @matchhunter7012
      @matchhunter7012 7 місяців тому

      Still stupidity from her😂

    • @LucyAmberon
      @LucyAmberon 7 місяців тому +132

      She’s not punching above her weight so hard that she can’t see the wood for the trees… she’s beautiful herself

    • @sapphire22011
      @sapphire22011 7 місяців тому +83

      Shes 100% mote sensible and switched on than most of the people we see on this. Even that she was suspicious of his declarations of undying love from the start. The scammer must have been LIVID 😂😂😂

  • @kenbob1071
    @kenbob1071 7 місяців тому +1429

    Hmmm....he's built, knows how to dress, has a lot of shirtless photos, and hangs out with his "business partner"....the gaydar is off the charts with this one.

    • @monikavarro2020
      @monikavarro2020 7 місяців тому +22

      😂😂😂😂

    • @Danfail100
      @Danfail100 7 місяців тому +46

      🛎 Ding ding ding

    • @mariusvanc
      @mariusvanc 7 місяців тому +53

      I know! My gaydar was pinned to 11!

    • @hannakinn
      @hannakinn 7 місяців тому +1

      Yah 2 pics in I thought he's gay

    • @carolinapaige253
      @carolinapaige253 7 місяців тому +8

      😂😂

  • @AlexRockPower
    @AlexRockPower 7 місяців тому +751

    These scammers sure love to use gay men to lure all the women 😅

    • @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
      @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living 7 місяців тому +69

      Yes they do. A lot of gay men on social media make a nice appearance.

    • @LauraJdogmom
      @LauraJdogmom 7 місяців тому +64

      @@Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living Yeah. They take care of themselves.

    • @Veracityseeker7
      @Veracityseeker7 7 місяців тому +35

      It's really weird to me. I never find any of these guys to be attractive. A little too feminine itself absorbed for my liking.

    • @Veracityseeker7
      @Veracityseeker7 7 місяців тому +36

      ​@@LauraJdogmomRight which is good, but they're a little too narcissistically into their own image which is a red flag to me. I want a guy to take care of himself but I don't want him posing for pictures the way these dudes always do.

    • @Mara-d2x
      @Mara-d2x 7 місяців тому +26

      @@Veracityseeker7 I have never found overly muscled guys who look like they spend all their time in a gym staring into a mirror attractive. I like natural, myself.

  • @simguns8388
    @simguns8388 7 місяців тому +630

    Architect, fancy car and he needs to borrow $300? Yeah, right

    • @kenbob1071
      @kenbob1071 7 місяців тому +43

      How else is he gonna get off the oil rig?

    • @Stumper007
      @Stumper007 7 місяців тому +9

      It's not uncommon for an architect to mooch $300. Fancy car is totally unrealistic.

    • @repentjesusiscomingsoon1529
      @repentjesusiscomingsoon1529 7 місяців тому +8

      @@kenbob1071 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Lol, pay attention, it was for the sick dog.

    • @JalanJalanAjah
      @JalanJalanAjah 7 місяців тому +4

      😁haha yeah

    • @LostSoulsmusic22
      @LostSoulsmusic22 7 місяців тому +1

      Johnny Depp has needed to borrow money from these dimwits before. So anything is possible.

  • @caroleckstein3541
    @caroleckstein3541 7 місяців тому +618

    Luckily she only sent 200.00. The younger ones seem to be smarter than the older victims. They are not desperate.

    • @stj971
      @stj971 7 місяців тому +48

      They are also A LOT more familiar w how the net works.

    • @cherryhazard8002
      @cherryhazard8002 7 місяців тому +73

      She is still young and relatively attractive, she isn't gonna be desperate lol.

    • @StrangeFacinations
      @StrangeFacinations 7 місяців тому +52

      That's why they go for older women who have accumulated wealth and don't know computers as well.

    • @Dodogssaywooforruff
      @Dodogssaywooforruff 7 місяців тому +30

      Even so she had the feeling something was up, but the scammer brought the damn dog in.
      They really know how to manipulate people.

    • @ericah1898
      @ericah1898 7 місяців тому +51

      And she did it for the dog, not so much for him. She’s a good person

  • @Coffeeislife33
    @Coffeeislife33 7 місяців тому +129

    Finally there’s someone not cheating on their spouse

    • @MilotLLC
      @MilotLLC 7 місяців тому

      He took too little though

    • @deenad3562
      @deenad3562 5 місяців тому +2

      ​@Milotdife he'll be back....and she'll entertain him too.😏

  • @Stumper007
    @Stumper007 7 місяців тому +139

    That 'business partner" walking in his kitchen may be a different kind of "partner".

  • @everyonelovesmajima
    @everyonelovesmajima 7 місяців тому +999

    She’s easily the most likable person that’s ever been here.

    • @rebeccacall7348
      @rebeccacall7348 7 місяців тому +168

      I'll also give her this much. She looks like she could be in the guy's league, so she's not delusional about her chances.

    • @TheAshMcG
      @TheAshMcG 7 місяців тому +54

      Yes a nice lady but very naïve about online dating.

    • @adu1991
      @adu1991 7 місяців тому +54

      Yeah..."because she's hot". If it were an elderly person on here I'm sure that the comments would be different 😂🤣

    • @TheAshMcG
      @TheAshMcG 7 місяців тому

      @@rebeccacall7348 No, she is naive not delusional, which you can't be to weed out the scammers online. She needs to meet someone locally.

    • @TheAshMcG
      @TheAshMcG 7 місяців тому

      @@adu1991 And yet, she was still scammed out of coin. Delusion and the need to believe the web the scammer weaves has no age limits.

  • @michelestenberg8849
    @michelestenberg8849 7 місяців тому +782

    3 minutes in - Chris looks like he's batting for the home team. A guy that looks like that, doesn't need to look for relationships online. And immediately asks for money. Red flag anyone?

    • @youbetyourwrasse
      @youbetyourwrasse 7 місяців тому

      A man past the age of 22 does not take pics of his mostly nude self flaunting his obsessed physique unless he's gay. Or working in the porno industry, or some other biz that requires shamelessness. Lettuce sea if our Crystal Ball is correct ..

    • @totallytalia
      @totallytalia 7 місяців тому +51

      Do you think hot people don’t use tinder? 😭 They do, you just only see people the algorithm decides is in your league

    • @kavi212
      @kavi212 7 місяців тому +13

      Yep, they must specifically target people that are off mentally because how? Not trying to sound mean, it just makes no sense

    • @shawnvire4941
      @shawnvire4941 7 місяців тому +16

      People are not out of your league just your price.

    • @yourfuturewaifu9061
      @yourfuturewaifu9061 7 місяців тому +67

      Yup, a lot of these women need their gaydar recalibrated.

  • @relaunchinglife
    @relaunchinglife 7 місяців тому +265

    They always use gay profiles! They must assume these women, especially if they are older, would never be in the same algorithm on any platform.

    • @CountryLifeEngland
      @CountryLifeEngland 7 місяців тому +22

      I noticed that. Straight men don’t usually get an all over body wax.

    • @LoXena
      @LoXena 7 місяців тому +23

      Because those profiles have a lot of revealing pictures

    • @roseq3650
      @roseq3650 7 місяців тому +3

      If the scanners are dudes too, this says a lot about what they think a hot guy is

    • @therealmikebrown
      @therealmikebrown 7 місяців тому

      ​@roseq3650 It's more like they know middle-aged and old women love gay men. They use the pics that work best. You can just look at media to see that women of all ages look to gay men as sex symbols, they always have.

    • @cutebloons
      @cutebloons 7 місяців тому +19

      Gay guys are just attractive. More well groomed, better care for their appearance

  • @yvetanemec3193
    @yvetanemec3193 7 місяців тому +475

    Honestly if you can’t meet them in person within a short time Run like hell

    • @handsanitizer2457
      @handsanitizer2457 7 місяців тому +12

      Yup most men want to meet asap, if a man doesn't want to meet itssu😮

    • @LOLANIMELOLANIME
      @LOLANIMELOLANIME 7 місяців тому +21

      More like if you aren’t able to video call them…then run 🏃‍♀️

    • @TheAshMcG
      @TheAshMcG 7 місяців тому +9

      And when you meet someone in person, get a background check done as well.

    • @jessieb7290
      @jessieb7290 7 місяців тому

      Great advice for people 👍🏼🧡

    • @MsNoPixel
      @MsNoPixel 7 місяців тому +12

      That’s not true necessarily. Took me 6mons to meet my soulmate in person, we met online, mind you neither of us are scammers or catfishing lol but still just because the world is full of those things it doesn’t mean you can’t meet someone legit online.

  • @zy510
    @zy510 7 місяців тому +51

    It's nice to see someone take their feedback onboard without getting rude, angry, or blaming others for believing a catfish. Seems like she just took it in her stride, pitied the jerk behind the scam, and is ready to move on with her life. Good for her! I wish you the best, Yukari :)

  • @Rslurmoment
    @Rslurmoment 6 місяців тому +19

    Smartest person on catfished so far

  • @Mara-d2x
    @Mara-d2x 7 місяців тому +323

    She's young, pretty, and has a good job. Why is she so desperate she'll send money to some moocher who won't even meet her? At least she was smart enough to only send $200 instead of 50K. She's a sweet lady. I hope she finds someone who is real.

    • @rosalierowan
      @rosalierowan 7 місяців тому +93

      To be fair, to me it didn’t seem like she sent the money out of desperation. She sent it because she felt sorry for him and his situation. She was a bit too naive yes, but her heart seems to be in the right place. She’s definitely not like most victims on this channel.

    • @adu1991
      @adu1991 7 місяців тому +41

      ​@@ZelenoJabko She's probably the youngest female victim.
      Most female victims that are on here were of elderly age. Either the husband passed away, or they were married and divorced.
      This woman looks too young to be on here.

    • @mixandmatch5138
      @mixandmatch5138 7 місяців тому +56

      @@ZelenoJabko she is young where the hell are you looking?

    • @dr.drea2.0phm60
      @dr.drea2.0phm60 7 місяців тому +52

      You guys are acting like 30 is old.

    • @AlexRocks80s
      @AlexRocks80s 7 місяців тому +4

      40 isn’t young

  • @tiff965
    @tiff965 7 місяців тому +149

    That picture with the "business partner" had me 😂

    • @derekmahon1652
      @derekmahon1652 7 місяців тому +11

      Yeah, my immediate impression was that he was man-oriented

    • @SammiCurr
      @SammiCurr 7 місяців тому +9

      More like boyfriend.

    • @heidiheaux7007
      @heidiheaux7007 7 місяців тому +12

      Yes, between that and the picture in the restaurant with not one woman at the table, I was cracking up! Her gaydar is completely broken!

    • @repentjesusiscomingsoon1529
      @repentjesusiscomingsoon1529 7 місяців тому +10

      Yeah, the one of him in a Pride Parade was the tell, LOLOL!!!

    • @SammiCurr
      @SammiCurr 7 місяців тому

      @@repentjesusiscomingsoon1529 How can you see a guy in blue speedos and a sailor hat at a pride parade and think that guy is totally straight?

  • @versaceboi4762
    @versaceboi4762 7 місяців тому +157

    The moment I saw that handsome face and chiselled abs I knew he was celebrating pride this month.

    • @GG-EEK
      @GG-EEK 7 місяців тому +3

      HAHAHA

    • @cherrybarb4651
      @cherrybarb4651 7 місяців тому +8

      And shaved as smooth as a baby's bottom.

    • @Myglowtips
      @Myglowtips 6 місяців тому +1

      👍

    • @deenad3562
      @deenad3562 5 місяців тому +1

      🎉🥳🎊🧨

    • @alig-cc3st
      @alig-cc3st 5 місяців тому +1

      😂

  • @wrldtrvlr4vr
    @wrldtrvlr4vr 7 місяців тому +98

    As soon as I hear the person needs money he gets blocked. Period.

    • @MilotLLC
      @MilotLLC 7 місяців тому +3

      His bank account is frozen 😂😂😂

    • @josdav07
      @josdav07 6 місяців тому +3

      Come on, scammers need to feed their families.

    • @Atlantisheals
      @Atlantisheals 5 місяців тому +5

      That’s me or I flip it and tell them my bills and how can they help me….answer is crickets 🦗 lol

    • @jnoah7537
      @jnoah7537 4 місяці тому

      My queen, MY QUEEN have you ate?
      I need gift cards please sent to my crypto wallet. My accounts are frozen. I will pay you back I promise. 🤣🤣🤣

    • @NJDrewind
      @NJDrewind 2 місяці тому +3

      Hello, my turtle needs surgery. Can you send me $6,000?

  • @LvegasCupcake
    @LvegasCupcake 7 місяців тому +97

    The horrible photo shop pictures never get old! 😂

  • @josdav07
    @josdav07 6 місяців тому +18

    "He was very sweet"... If he didn't look like that she would be saying he was a creep.

  • @cj20080
    @cj20080 7 місяців тому +78

    $200 - Just consider that tuition at Scam U. She's a bright student, quick on the uptake. So many of these people keep flunking out and having to retake the course until they've lost everything, and/or wound up in jail for money laundering.

    • @carpediem4512
      @carpediem4512 7 місяців тому +1

      She’s lucky she’s broke.

    • @tigeruntamed6036
      @tigeruntamed6036 5 місяців тому

      @@carpediem4512😂

    • @CaffeinatedCutie
      @CaffeinatedCutie 4 місяці тому +2

      I was duped back when I was 19 and naive. Shelled out $250 earned from my minimum wage job to “get myself started” in an MLM scheme. I soon realized my mistake, and now consider myself lucky that I learned a lesson about sending money early in life.

  • @christinamiller710
    @christinamiller710 7 місяців тому +54

    “Business partner” lmao

  • @TCTCTCTCTC
    @TCTCTCTCTC 7 місяців тому +22

    Love this lady! Glad she shared her story to remind people that you can be smart and aware, but can still slip up with these scammers tactics

  • @claira8601
    @claira8601 7 місяців тому +23

    While I would never get caught in a romance scam because I don't trust anything a sweet word writing or talking man says, When the request for money started, I wish one of these victims would write back the same thing happened to them; like 'OMG, I got a letter from IRS too, and my bank account is locked too; I was going to ask you for money honey'

  • @LauraFrancis1952
    @LauraFrancis1952 7 місяців тому +47

    Kudos to you for contacting Social Catfish so soon. I wish I had been as suspicious as you were, but I had never even heard the word Catfish, so I was duped bigtime. I'm sorry you ran into Chris and had to have this awful experience, but I commend you for being so smart and realizing something was wrong rather than falling for the lies and listening to your heart which is what so many of us victims do. We begin to question ourselves rather than them and they have a great way of manipulating us into believing they are very real and truly in love with us. Whew....you did GREAT!!

  • @shanandananscoo
    @shanandananscoo 7 місяців тому +9

    Gotta love that photo of "Chris" with a sailor's hat LOL!!!!!!!!!

  • @mol588
    @mol588 7 місяців тому +117

    A sick dog ?
    Now that's one I've not heard before 🤔
    No stuck on an oil rig .. or in jail .. oh queen i need to eat 🙏

    • @lynn6221
      @lynn6221 7 місяців тому +4

      😂😂You're right

    • @Mara-d2x
      @Mara-d2x 7 місяців тому +1

      There was one posing as a super hot female who told her mark that her dog was sick.

    • @Czelonka
      @Czelonka 7 місяців тому +5

      "You want me to send you money for your business? Sorry, you sound like a scammer."
      "Oh, your dog is sick? Here you go."

    • @sarah-mariewhite6471
      @sarah-mariewhite6471 7 місяців тому +15

      “Babe my dog is stuck on an oil rig please send money”

    • @Mara-d2x
      @Mara-d2x 7 місяців тому +4

      @@sarah-mariewhite6471 "And he's staaaarving!" 😄🤣😆

  • @Doctor.Kästien.Louis.Rosenberg
    @Doctor.Kästien.Louis.Rosenberg 7 місяців тому +126

    My “ Gaydar” is going off with “ Chris” 😂

    • @SharonJacobs-r2h
      @SharonJacobs-r2h 20 днів тому

      🔊🔊🚩🔊🔊🚩🔊🔊🚩....🏳️‍🌈...🙄.....👍

  • @slfz
    @slfz 7 місяців тому +126

    If someone you don't know exactly who he /she is asking for Money while he is telling you he has millions in his account but currently his account locked up. or doing a million projects and he is short of few thousand dollars to finish it.
    THEY ARE SCAMMERS . Block them !

    • @lmusima3275
      @lmusima3275 7 місяців тому +8

      He’s a millionaire yet needs a couple of hundred dollars 💵 to save his dog? Tell him to sell his assets

    • @SBF2025
      @SBF2025 7 місяців тому +2

      Nobody having millions will tell you that 😂 really Rich people don’t brag about their money

  • @yadusolparterre
    @yadusolparterre 7 місяців тому +229

    "I was attracted to Chris because he was very genuine and thoughtful, he put effort to communicate with me"
    Yeah that's exactly why you swiped right, lady.

    • @cherryhazard8002
      @cherryhazard8002 7 місяців тому +27

      Lol she wanted the top 1% guy like always.

    • @jessieb7290
      @jessieb7290 7 місяців тому +23

      Yeah nothing to do with the car and muscles 😂

    • @peekaboots01
      @peekaboots01 7 місяців тому +5

      ​@@ZelenoJabkonaive isn't the word I'd use.

    • @kenbob1071
      @kenbob1071 7 місяців тому +7

      Translation: "He's tall, built and rich!"

    • @meowmeow4803
      @meowmeow4803 7 місяців тому +27

      @@cherryhazard8002 uhh she's pretty tho? and lots of people look like him. i don't even find the guy attractive. At this point a bunch of jealous men are putting people down and trying to project onto other people that nobody wants them lol.

  • @ztomas1
    @ztomas1 7 місяців тому +449

    Sweetie the only thing you saw was a good looking muscular guy it had nothing about him being genuine.....let's keep it 💯

    • @Chorbus
      @Chorbus 7 місяців тому +43

      Don’t forget his nice car, she mentioned that too lol

    • @slinkiegirl2001
      @slinkiegirl2001 7 місяців тому +6

      Well he is hot

    • @slinkiegirl2001
      @slinkiegirl2001 7 місяців тому +5

      He is a hot dude

    • @donnahilton471
      @donnahilton471 7 місяців тому +19

      Nothing is genuine about a guy who calls you beautiful, without having met you!

    • @RoIIingStoned
      @RoIIingStoned 7 місяців тому

      Rich

  • @crochetingaroundnewzealand
    @crochetingaroundnewzealand 7 місяців тому +13

    When a guy told me he had unpaid bills I said "well pay them then!" 😂

  • @projectxs107
    @projectxs107 7 місяців тому +38

    "I can tell he was in love with me"
    Yes seeing "love you babe" in text really is poetry isnt it?😂

    • @ditzygypsy
      @ditzygypsy 6 місяців тому +1

      Yep. Shakespeare hasn’t got anything on these master wordsmiths!! 🤣

  • @lmusima3275
    @lmusima3275 7 місяців тому +66

    Strange how he needs money 💴 for his dog yet won’t sell his fancy car 🚗 plus he seems to look different in various photos

  • @seattlejayde
    @seattlejayde 7 місяців тому +18

    Fancy clothes and a Mercedes yet needs to borrow $200? Yeah right

  • @Scaad267
    @Scaad267 7 місяців тому +90

    “ I could tell he was in love with me…” Girl you can’t even tell that him and his dog are not real 😮

    • @junemarshall-kingsley566
      @junemarshall-kingsley566 7 місяців тому +11

      Very childish people use the word "love" loosely. They don't have the depth to feel it and think its just one fantasy experience after another.

    • @StargazerLily82
      @StargazerLily82 7 місяців тому +7

      Nor could she see the rampant typos in the agreement letter he wrote to her about the loan.

    • @carpediem4512
      @carpediem4512 7 місяців тому +9

      If he had paid her back the $200, he would have gotten her later for at least $20,000.

  • @ellenosceola5707
    @ellenosceola5707 7 місяців тому +33

    That’s unusual, most of the time they claim to have a child. I guess the dog is the child.

    • @terryKessler42719
      @terryKessler42719 7 місяців тому +7

      She also has a dog. So he thought if he said his dog was sick she’d send money. And she did..

  • @leir2005
    @leir2005 7 місяців тому +65

    Chris escalated that pretty quickly didn’t he? These scammers move fast!

    • @susaninika7552
      @susaninika7552 7 місяців тому +6

      They often start with smaller amounts early so they don't waste their time. Most scammers don't ask for $1000 up front. They start with amounts ranging from $25-200 to see if they have the person hooked. They assume if someone ponies up smaller amounts within the first few weeks, then they can invest in the long con to eventually get tens of thousands of dollars over the next months or even years. But if the person says no or blocks them when they ask, they cut off contact and move on to the next one

  • @jodeer3186
    @jodeer3186 Місяць тому +3

    You did forget to mention he was gay team haha but I am sure after looking at those photos she may have seen that haha, but she is lovely and sweet and positive and has such a good heart, she will not be alone for long. The world needs more beautiful, kind people like her in it! Great going team!

  • @w.urlitzer1869
    @w.urlitzer1869 7 місяців тому +91

    I met him on Grindr.

    • @FreeRadicals305
      @FreeRadicals305 7 місяців тому +15

      Yeah, way too many posed, shirtless pics : (

    • @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
      @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living 7 місяців тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @bratzboyz
      @bratzboyz 7 місяців тому

      I met him on 'Instagram' a few months ago (one of my many-many scammers). I guess he's cheating on me with all of you! 🥺

    • @dxtesen8380
      @dxtesen8380 7 місяців тому +1

      😮 😂😂😂

  • @SBF2025
    @SBF2025 7 місяців тому +25

    I don’t understand how this people doesn’t ask themselves a simple question: Why this person doesn’t have a friend or a family member to help him or her out?

    • @shanandananscoo
      @shanandananscoo 7 місяців тому

      I think the usually do ask about that, but the scammer has a well thought out answer in advance 🙂

  • @chrthdestr
    @chrthdestr 7 місяців тому +15

    You know its bad when you start recognizing the people in the pictures from other scams

  • @TSimo113
    @TSimo113 7 місяців тому +18

    What Vet only charges $300 for a dog that is near death. I want to know his name. Every time I go to a Vet for a very sick pet I don't leave without spending at least $600

  • @coolaunt516
    @coolaunt516 7 місяців тому +66

    I saw on tv where a guy sent a 6K to a dating service for overseas brides. He couldn't understand why she didn't come to the USA to marry him. He wanted his money back. No can do.

    • @cherryhazard8002
      @cherryhazard8002 7 місяців тому +27

      Honestly, if you sent 6k for overseas brides from more than likely impoverished countries in the first place, you deserve everything that is coming for you lol.

    • @kavi212
      @kavi212 7 місяців тому +16

      What do you mean? You can’t buy people?? 😂 😂😂😂

    • @Mara-d2x
      @Mara-d2x 7 місяців тому

      I guess there wasn't one woman in his country who met his standards. I watched a docu about men who did go and get their Russian mail-order brides. I think they expected these women to be docile and subservient. Surprise! They're not.😆

    • @Chosen1only
      @Chosen1only 7 місяців тому +3

      90 day fiancé huh😂

    • @Mara-d2x
      @Mara-d2x 7 місяців тому

      I watched a docu about American men bringing their Russian mail-order brides home (I guess not one woman in their country was suitable). I think these insecure men expected subservient, docile women. Surprise! They're not! Disappointment ensued.

  • @clareshaughnessy2745
    @clareshaughnessy2745 7 місяців тому +13

    ‘I first felt a little suspicious when he held me at gunpoint and stole my purse’

  • @Ocyla
    @Ocyla 7 місяців тому +11

    That sailor suit outfit, I can't even 🤣So she saw that and didn't question it?

  • @BOND19951
    @BOND19951 7 місяців тому +88

    "My Queen did you eat today?"
    "My bank account is freezen!"
    "My Queen..Send me gift cards!"
    When you hear that...Runn.

    • @StrangeFacinations
      @StrangeFacinations 7 місяців тому +8

      That's when you shout 'BINGO'.

    • @szilardfineascovasa6144
      @szilardfineascovasa6144 7 місяців тому +4

      As a man, I'd run after reading "queen", boss.

    • @jessieb7290
      @jessieb7290 7 місяців тому +5

      The FBI will be involved, but don’t forget you have to pay them too. 😂

    • @eluniaa2044
      @eluniaa2044 7 місяців тому +2

      Let's not forget about "have you eaten" 🤷

    • @CountryLifeEngland
      @CountryLifeEngland 7 місяців тому

      My King, I love you. I can only run into your arms, my handsome King…❤❤❤PS I’m skint, you can’t send me a couple of quid through the post, can you?😅😅😅😅

  • @terryjackson8773
    @terryjackson8773 7 місяців тому +20

    They always call the women Babe or Baby because they can't remember their names. Once they ask for money, that should be a MASSIVE RED FLAG!

    • @RaShe105
      @RaShe105 4 місяці тому

      DON'T FORGET 'KWEEN' 🤪

  • @dukeagainsttheodds3170
    @dukeagainsttheodds3170 7 місяців тому +45

    FINALLY someone that has not been TAKEN for EVERYTHING! Bravo to her, I love this episode! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽💜☮️

    • @birdyfilovingheart6365
      @birdyfilovingheart6365 7 місяців тому +1

      What d'ya mean "Bravo to her"? She fell for a scammer! 😂

    • @ThirdEyeWize
      @ThirdEyeWize 7 місяців тому

      @@birdyfilovingheart6365 Yea…but not taken for EVERYTHING! I think was his point.

    • @same5952
      @same5952 2 місяці тому

      @@birdyfilovingheart6365 Not quite. She could afford to send him $200 and as she said maybe he needed money more than she did. She had a lurking suspicion that he was a scammer and stopped right there.

  • @dxcSOUL
    @dxcSOUL 7 місяців тому +40

    Since when they did start doing the, 'shocked face' youtube reaction video style thumbnails 😂😂

    • @totallytalia
      @totallytalia 7 місяців тому +5

      My thumbnail didn’t look like that. They probably have a/b tested thumbnails that change according to your audience info. I guess you click on those types of videos more often? 😭

    • @jessieb7290
      @jessieb7290 7 місяців тому +4

      Yeah the thumbnails are getting confusing cause it started with “guys don’t judge the victims” and yet they now do it just on the thumbnails.

    • @spiralsausage
      @spiralsausage 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@totallytalia that's crazy interesting - my thumbnail also doesn't have the shocked face. It's the black guy idk his name doing a confused face in the middle (wouldn't call it shocked) then the woman on the right and the fake catfish on the left

    • @dxcSOUL
      @dxcSOUL 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@totallytalia I try to actively avoid them, hence why I noticed it in the first place lol

  • @ImTaryn
    @ImTaryn 4 місяці тому +4

    Poor girl. She is one of those who smiles a lot when she is actually upset. One of my friends does that and it breaks my heart. It's just a reaction some people have. I'm glad she didn't lose too much. ❤❤

  • @jeannespuller742
    @jeannespuller742 5 місяців тому +2

    Very commendable attitude - to just forget it and move on (remembering the learned lesson). Confrontation would be meaningless, as the scammer could care less. What a smart, attractive young lady!

  • @catherinewilke5583
    @catherinewilke5583 7 місяців тому +41

    There is no such thing as an “online lover” what the heck messed up world is this 😂

    • @junemarshall-kingsley566
      @junemarshall-kingsley566 7 місяців тому +4

      The team needs to stop using words like "relationship", "lover," and "dating." They solidify the delusion. Also show more of what the actual Nigerian scammers look like and how they behave, rather than going into the history of the person whose picture was stolen.

    • @jeffro221
      @jeffro221 7 місяців тому

      @@junemarshall-kingsley566 Exactly. And they keep referring to the scammer by the phoney name even well after outing them. It is irritating.

    • @daysebatista
      @daysebatista 7 місяців тому +3

      I met my ex (father of my daughter) online when he was 24 and I was 32. We had a good relationship, until we decided to separate. Then I met a man 18 years younger than me who never asked anything from me, except love and time for him each time he came to visit me. It was beautiful, but being so much older than he was, I got tired of playing girlfriend. We remained friends and he is still wonderful. However... That was way before scammers were a common thing. Today, I am single, older, and I wouldn't risk anything for someone I have never seen in person. And I don't believe long-distance, no-contact romance.

  • @oh2sail
    @oh2sail 7 місяців тому +6

    Men who look like that don’t need to date online. They can simply walk out the door any single hour.

  • @africanbrowny
    @africanbrowny 6 місяців тому +6

    Trying to find love on dating sites is like trying to win the lotto. What are the odds😂😂😂 And there's always that one story about a couple who met on a dating site and are now blissfully happy🤔🤔🤔 And many people are chasing this type of ending but it's like searching for a needle in a haystack.

  • @anitaheart
    @anitaheart 6 місяців тому +5

    A man asking me for money would be the greatest turn-off ever…. It’s so emasculating.

  • @jeanblackburn8725
    @jeanblackburn8725 7 місяців тому +27

    Number #1 Tip: If anyone you are talking to wants to borrow 1 penny it is a SCAM!!!

    • @kaleidoscopesthirdeyevizions
      @kaleidoscopesthirdeyevizions 5 місяців тому

      It is a scam if you can't talk to them over the phone or video chat and most definitely if they ask to borrow money or need game cards ! I'm hoping these videos wake people up !

  • @CH-gc8hf
    @CH-gc8hf 7 місяців тому +11

    At least she found out before handing over thousands of dollars to a scammer. If someone won't meet a beautiful woman in person but asks for money, then that is all he wants is the money.

  • @Avalonkenton
    @Avalonkenton 7 місяців тому +20

    As soon as they say they don’t want to meet up block them they are either hiding something are not who they claim to be or they are not actually interested and are just leading you on to get cash

    • @susaninika7552
      @susaninika7552 7 місяців тому +1

      Exactly. A friend who is married next weekend to a guy she met online told me that her rule was that if they won't meet for a first date within a week of connecting online, she would not keep talking to them. If they said they were out of town or out of the country, she told them she was not interested in anything long-distance and not to contact her again until they were back in town and able to meet in person. She met some creeps in person, but avoided getting scammed online and they stopped targeting her because they knew she wouldn't keep talking to them if they couldn't meet.

  • @GonzaloLozano-mb2sr
    @GonzaloLozano-mb2sr 7 місяців тому +10

    She can smile when finding out because it was only 200 dollars

  • @Ronald_Raygun_Pewpew
    @Ronald_Raygun_Pewpew 7 місяців тому +124

    Incase youre wondering if your online “lover” is real, they aren’t. Here are the red flags, oil rig, bitcoin, no bank access.

    • @qdawg2565
      @qdawg2565 7 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @thespacesbetweenstudio3346
      @thespacesbetweenstudio3346 7 місяців тому +16

      Turkey, gold bars, engineer, doctor

    • @kajinsautumn9833
      @kajinsautumn9833 7 місяців тому +10

      "Yada, yada, yada." George Costanza.

    • @relaunchinglife
      @relaunchinglife 7 місяців тому +4

      Right! The minute you have to wonder, that's it - that is your intuition speaking up, you are choosing not to listen!

    • @MsLucyJayne
      @MsLucyJayne 7 місяців тому +8

      In the military, on a secret mission, a widower with a child in boarding school… 😅

  • @Bubblesbubble-m7p
    @Bubblesbubble-m7p 7 місяців тому +4

    Best looking Catfished person so far

  • @Tara_Masika
    @Tara_Masika 7 місяців тому +14

    I can't understand how these people are in positions of responsibility. It's very sad ❤

  • @danthebrave1701
    @danthebrave1701 7 місяців тому +173

    My gaydar is going off.

  • @meandu1512
    @meandu1512 7 місяців тому +36

    If they ask for money they are a scam. The End

  • @Kamas07
    @Kamas07 7 місяців тому +2

    Yukari has such a good outlook on what she experienced. You go Yukari!

  • @johnc.6645
    @johnc.6645 7 місяців тому +26

    Shes pretty. Why does she need to meet someone online anyway? She certainly doesn't need to send money. I wish the staff of catfish would quit referring to this online nonsense as relationships. Something odd about this episode.

    • @jackdanson2
      @jackdanson2 7 місяців тому

      Clearly she wants a dude that's conventionally hot AF. This woman would have 0 problem meeting a normal guy, probably a relatively attractive and successful one. But she wants that gay super model level of hot dude. Usually it's the men that fall for this, glad to see she's working for equality.

    • @trashyraccoon2615
      @trashyraccoon2615 7 місяців тому +9

      Most younger people meet online these days.

    • @ckhamlin2636
      @ckhamlin2636 7 місяців тому +1

      The “relationship “ thing is crazy. If you’ve never met someone face to face, you are not dating and you certainly aren’t in a relationship.

    • @mitch20003
      @mitch20003 7 місяців тому

      Many use online dating, unfortunately a lot of good avg or slightly avg guys never receive messages back .because women have unlimited options , so an avg looking women can receive messages from all sorts of guys daily. She's gonna weed out the guys that aren't as attractive

    • @mitch20003
      @mitch20003 7 місяців тому +1

      I gave up on dating years ago, I'm only 39, it's too much stress whether in person or online unless you're in the upper tier looks wise. It wasn't like this 10 years ago

  • @Dawn-g3q
    @Dawn-g3q 4 місяці тому +2

    Note to anyone looking for love online--- as soon as the person starts telling u about the first problem --BLOCK THEM

  • @kavi212
    @kavi212 7 місяців тому +13

    I wish people would spend the money on a good therapist or several before sending money to online pictures of people

  • @Out_on_a_Limb_Life
    @Out_on_a_Limb_Life 6 місяців тому +1

    Very refreshing to see someone who's clued in enough to say 'enough'. She's also very attractive & likeable so I'm sure that there's some real love in her future.

  • @justmee2477
    @justmee2477 7 місяців тому +5

    Yucari is a change from the usual Catfished client. She’s not the sad, lonely, older woman who believes anything for the affirmation of a good looking stranger. She never totally abandoned her suspicions and only sent money when he found her soft spot, animals. Even then she only dipped her toe in the water rather than diving in completely. This woman is young, beautiful, and intelligent. She’s living proof at anyone is potential scam material. It’s too bad. He didn’t send her the picture of him in the sailor outfit. That pretty much said it all.

  • @oh2sail
    @oh2sail 7 місяців тому +28

    How could you feel that someone who is “genuine” and a “good person” doesn’t have a single, solitary friend irl to ask for money if he’s in a tough place?

  • @angeliamedina9178
    @angeliamedina9178 7 місяців тому +4

    Soon as these men start asking for money block them
    NO REAL MAN WILL ASK YOU FOR MONEY OR LET YOU KNOW THEY BROKE

  • @thaveesh
    @thaveesh 7 місяців тому +7

    he didn't wanna video call because he doesn't wanna show his true face

  • @johnm2739
    @johnm2739 7 місяців тому +55

    My former girlfriend fell for a overseas military man.. I tried telling her it wasn't real.. she ended up hating me, stole money from me to send gift cards and kicked me out of our house(in her name).. she then sold the house I remodeled to send the equity in gift cards.. currently sleeps at a relatives house waiting for "James" to be released from the military. Sh turned into a really bad person and took a knife to her wrist when he didnt show up for Christmas due to the fantasy they created.. KARMA is laughing at her..

    • @grreeeeee
      @grreeeeee 7 місяців тому +19

      who the f remodels a house that their name isn't on

    • @hoosierbaddy3052
      @hoosierbaddy3052 7 місяців тому

      Johnm; and I’m laughing at you. So, lots of loling going on huh?

    • @happyhermit3141
      @happyhermit3141 7 місяців тому +7

      I'm sorry you went through this but in the end you didn't dodge a bullet but a SCUD missle.

    • @happyhermit3141
      @happyhermit3141 7 місяців тому +1

      @@grreeeeee I'm sure he didn't anticipate being kicked curbside for the Invisible Gigolo. He should have had his tarot cards read....

    • @marthas.4456
      @marthas.4456 7 місяців тому

      Your ex is a mentally ill woman.... While I feel bit sorry for her, you should count yourself lucky for having an escape.

  • @Juanita-gf4te
    @Juanita-gf4te 7 місяців тому +3

    The biggest red flag to me is that all these scammers are not looking for partners in their own country, state or town. I have had hundreds contact me on FB and I always ask them why they are not looking for someone locally.......they have no answer for that. A genuine person would be looking locally where they could meet up in person and go from there. I'm now 66 years old and I meet guys all the time, my age and younger, who flirt with me and want to date but I'm happy on my own and not looking for a relationship. My point is that we can find someone locally no matter our age or life circumstances. So beware those contacting you from other countries or too far away to visit you.

  • @geoffgoodman-qb2ng
    @geoffgoodman-qb2ng 7 місяців тому +51

    She almost got away but she trusted the fantasy instead

    • @DanMeyer80
      @DanMeyer80 7 місяців тому +11

      it was the sick dog that got her. At least she only lost $200 where these old geezers on here send thousands and bankrupt themselves

    • @Juanita-gf4te
      @Juanita-gf4te 7 місяців тому +3

      She didn't trust anything and refused to send him money until the dog issue came up.

  • @SatanSpawn801
    @SatanSpawn801 7 місяців тому +4

    A lot of the people that come here for help are people that generally struggle finding love. This girl is a beautiful young woman. She’s definitely not your typical client.

    • @susaninika7552
      @susaninika7552 7 місяців тому +2

      Being young and beautiful doesn't mean it's easy to find love. Look at the pretty young women who fell for the Tinder Swindler. Cecile had been single for years and doing online dating. You'd think a pretty young woman in London would have no problem finding a boyfriend but she still fell victim

  • @tims4502
    @tims4502 7 місяців тому +15

    “How do you feel about online dating?”
    Online dating is supposed to be a way for people to meet each other in person. If you’re not in person, it’s not dating.
    Find someone online, talk a bit, then meet up for a drink in a public area or something.
    This isn’t that difficult

    • @TheTwilightBong
      @TheTwilightBong 5 місяців тому +1

      Spot on 👌

    • @Etrielle
      @Etrielle 5 місяців тому

      Online dating worked for me. What I did was when I matched someone and was intrigued during the first days of writing, I'd soon schedule an online video date with them. That already saved me from some weirdos. If the video chat went well then I'd next date them in real life. Which worked so well that we're now engaged and planning our wedding 😂

  • @avishill8613
    @avishill8613 6 місяців тому +5

    He travels all around the world and cannot afford to pay for his dogs vet bills.🙄

  • @ashleythibert6849
    @ashleythibert6849 7 місяців тому +42

    I love how her response to an internet stranger saying he loved her was a heart emoji and a misspelling of his first name! That is the first time I have seen a normal response to something like that.

    • @repentjesusiscomingsoon1529
      @repentjesusiscomingsoon1529 7 місяців тому +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @saranexie7809
      @saranexie7809 7 місяців тому +3

      I'm sure that was edited by the catfished team, not the real response from their conversations.

  • @SubliminalJunky
    @SubliminalJunky 7 місяців тому +2

    Well done for realising quickly gurl! YES! kudos.

  • @Indygrandma56
    @Indygrandma56 7 місяців тому +3

    I'm a senior citizen but I think I have enough smarts to know anyone who ask for money are scammers

  • @RickCollier-yb2st
    @RickCollier-yb2st 7 місяців тому +3

    If someone doesn't want to be seen on video that's a red flag! And remember, photos and videos can be altered also! If you're suspicious of the video link ask the person to wave at you! Do reverse image searches of photos! Most scammers use the same photos of the same person over and over usually of minor influencers and porn actors!

  • @romy8661
    @romy8661 7 місяців тому +9

    Anyone else notice her name changed to Kristine a few times on the “chat” shot bits?

    • @Savannah-9800
      @Savannah-9800 7 місяців тому +3

      6:20... You beat me to the comment 😅

    • @Etrielle
      @Etrielle 5 місяців тому +2

      Yup and I find it super weird

  • @patricianolan5053
    @patricianolan5053 7 місяців тому +4

    He obviously needed a few bucks to buy himself a shirt 😂

  • @BRIDGETTattoo
    @BRIDGETTattoo 7 місяців тому +5

    Thank you guys! ❤

  • @dakotasky7092
    @dakotasky7092 7 місяців тому +3

    He knew that saying his dog was sick would soften her. He wasn’t getting anywhere until he claimed he needed the money for his “sick dog”. No one can turn down helping when a sick pet is involved. These scammers know all the tricks.

  • @jaimemontaner3801
    @jaimemontaner3801 7 місяців тому +64

    That girl is gorgeous. She does not need tinder to meet a good man.

    • @user-rz9rq7pp2b
      @user-rz9rq7pp2b 7 місяців тому +27

      Dating apps are for everyone, not just ugly desperate people lol

    • @john2510
      @john2510 7 місяців тому +5

      I was thinking the same thing. What a beautiful smile. Someone that lovely and charming should find someone great. Dating apps do help, even then.

    • @centurione6489
      @centurione6489 7 місяців тому +9

      C'mon, don't simp!
      She's on the low end of "cute" and she chases a high-end Mercedes Chad.

    • @Moon_Presence
      @Moon_Presence 7 місяців тому +16

      ​@@centurione6489Looks are subjective. Not that you would even know what that means.

    • @centurione6489
      @centurione6489 7 місяців тому +2

      @@Moon_Presence To a point. If she's over 5, then the host Breanna is 19, at least,

  • @keylacmckemp1309
    @keylacmckemp1309 7 місяців тому +24

    I know this is a repeat, but finally, a victim that was not punching way out of their weight class. She can meet someone in real life.

  • @GhostDraggon_
    @GhostDraggon_ 7 місяців тому +26

    Honestly it only took about $200 for her to stop. That's MUCH better than most of the others where it takes 100k or more and they still keep doing it. She's also young and good looking so she'll be fine as far as finding dates. Just gotta be a bit smarter in the future lol

  • @КатеринаЧеркасова-б8и
    @КатеринаЧеркасова-б8и 7 місяців тому +1

    She’s so sweet, especially when she talked about helping him with his dog…❤

  • @arkansasgreg
    @arkansasgreg 7 місяців тому +6

    "What attracted me to him was he was genuine. " 🤔🤭

    • @rachelw882
      @rachelw882 7 місяців тому +1

      A genuine hunk

  • @cheetoesgal5229
    @cheetoesgal5229 7 місяців тому +2

    "Chris" is not only an obvious scammer; he also prefers men to women. This lady seems nice. I'm sorry she got scammed but glad she set a limit of $200.

  • @MagisterialVoyager
    @MagisterialVoyager 7 місяців тому +10

    I wonder why they didn't immediately meet/arrange an offline meeting after several chats on Tinder. I'd give a match roughly a fortnight to meet up before I'd just unmatch if we didn't manage to meet offline.

    • @MagisterialVoyager
      @MagisterialVoyager 7 місяців тому

      @@tina_b13 hahaha, that's fair! i only use Tinder when i'm not busy, like in the summer break, so it's always Meet ASAP or We Won't Progress.

    • @biancaluedeker
      @biancaluedeker 7 місяців тому

      Y give video game?

  • @michaelboerlage7988
    @michaelboerlage7988 7 місяців тому +4

    Back in the day I also fell in love with my poster of shakira.

  • @JustMe99999
    @JustMe99999 7 місяців тому +62

    Well at least this one is attractive. Usually it's a "1" or a "2" going for a "10"

    • @babysinclairfan
      @babysinclairfan 7 місяців тому

      Somehow, I feel like that makes it worse. Odds are Yukari probably turned down some real men while chasing this Arnold Schwarzenegger wannabe. The regret must be painful.
      Then again, she's Japanese so 90% of her matches are probably weirdos asking if she likes anime.

    • @TheFenrirulfr
      @TheFenrirulfr 7 місяців тому +3

      I agree.
      Shes very attractive and got high score on the "Visual beauty" scale.
      I cant understand why people like this seem so desperate soemtimes.

    • @centurione6489
      @centurione6489 7 місяців тому +4

      She is a 5 going for Chad.

    • @SBandana-uw9ed
      @SBandana-uw9ed 7 місяців тому

      @@centurione6489you probably have never touched a woman in your life

    • @segfault_000
      @segfault_000 7 місяців тому +13

      ​@@centurione6489your incel is showing

  • @tonecapone8426
    @tonecapone8426 7 місяців тому +58

    Can someone send me $200 for my gold fish doctor bill. These people believe anything

    • @Gooner333333333
      @Gooner333333333 7 місяців тому +4

      A guy in England spent £300 on his goldfish to have surgery on it.

    • @nikkilengyel
      @nikkilengyel 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@Gooner333333333I'd have flushed the fish down the toilet 😂

    • @fidelk.5066
      @fidelk.5066 7 місяців тому

      Is your dog sick?

  • @UsernameUnkwn21
    @UsernameUnkwn21 7 місяців тому +3

    The architect couldn't pay a vet bill 😅😅 ohhh kay

  • @energydoesntlie
    @energydoesntlie 7 місяців тому +15

    Is this an old episode? I’ve already watched this before

    • @atolm1
      @atolm1 7 місяців тому +7

      Yes, I wish they'd label them as such, get the og fans excited for nothing

    • @FreeRadicals305
      @FreeRadicals305 7 місяців тому +2

      They've had to redo prior videos to stay within TOS.

    • @mixandmatch5138
      @mixandmatch5138 7 місяців тому

      @@atolm1 you get excited at these videos?