Understanding Charisma & The IT Factor | Mel Robbins Podcast Clips
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- Опубліковано 4 вер 2024
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Mel, you’re the best host I’ve ever seen. You prompt, back-off and support the collaborator to bring up their best and their message to the podcast without interrupting. Love your work and this is not the first time I’m saying this. You’ve got a big fan here. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
To me it's being genuine, displaying openness, thoughtful, not overly serious or emotional, having a bit of fun, but also knowing when to be knowledge and insightful. Building others up and recognizing their contributions, and being humble.
Vanessa is always so interesting and informative!!
Thank you ❤ So glad you liked this one!
Yes, I think so too, she’s soo interesting and uplifting 😊
You've got the IT factor Mel. Keeping IT real. 😊
Yes!!! 100%Mel you’re very Charismatic!!! You care about helping people, and you Definitely know what you’re talking about and I Always want to listen to what you have to say!!! You Have IT!!! ❤❤❤
It is a shame this skill is not taught in school. Such life-changing content! I cannot thank you guys enough for undressing this topic.
What is Vanessa Last name does she have IG to be able to follow her?
Yes please
Mel -you have the IT factor- big time 🙏
You are Charismatic for me😊😊
Mel, this is one of my favorites! I appreciate how you clarify and repeat, it really helps me remember. And you look so adorable!
You have the total IT factor!!!! 🥰
Yes Mel!!!!! I'm here from LAUNCH babyyyy!!!!!!
Hello from Russia! 😊Mel, you are sooooo inspiring, helpful and awesome! Thank you❤
Loved it, thanks!
Ah look two of my favorite people
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Love steve Jobs. That is it. That is the movie I am going to watch tonight.
Ok. Charisma = Competence + WARMTH. not one or the other. A healthy balance between the two.
Essentially what she is saying it's having high emotional intelligence and interpersonal skills. That is key for those who want to be charismatic when it is not natural. When we are living in the integrity of who we are, it will come natural. Most people who are charismatic naturally have no idea what it is that make them so and are often surprised at how influential they are without trying. They are not giving their time to how to be charismatic or how to influence. The less calculated it is the more authentic we come across to people. Just be a person of integrity and show consideration for others.
And I will add that not ALL people who are very warm are motivated by being people pleasers because they need to be accepted or liked. Some people actually are wired to be altruistic and to benefit the lives of others without the agenda of doing good for others because of some sort of need for validation. but there does need to be some balance in this like the woman says. There are people who are givers because they know how to LOVE and it is not dependent on reciprocation. I was very warm at work and actually it got me promoted not less respected. It depends on the line of work you are in.
Vanessa you are great
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LOVE VvE! Currently reading Captivate. As soon as you said her name I was like YES! 🎉
When I was young I would watch and listen. I had great fear of being condemned for what I said. Now I fear silence, I could talk forever, when I’m home and only the cat is with me, I’m sure he wishes I’d go mute. So when I moved into my first apartment, I’d leave the radio on, so when I got home there would be sound in my apartment.😢
Yes, yes, yes!
When are you going to do a live q and a?
I always tilt when I should withdraw
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Charisma is dangerous. I want to be dangerous.✌️☮️
Ma'am I don't know why do I take a lot of time to carry out an action. How can I overcome this situation
What are the signals?? She never told us.
Thank you that saved me time. I'm like where is the practical application lady? She likes blah blah blah.....tool belt empty.
@@Newlaw289 exactly! She didn't prepare for this interview at all. Not only makes her look bad but Makes Mel look bad as well.
Negative and Positive ques!
So , I think I’m charismatic, /warm and competent-but my last boss didn’t like it. I couldn’t be myself. What do you do about people who see your charisma and can’t be that way and seek to undo you because of envy?
Listened to the podcast on this but as a third culture adult and having observed different cultures, social norms and cues differ across cultures so charisma is not a universal trait. It must be intentionally learned and practiced. Being warm and trustable yet also credible - thats the jackpot
I don't care what any of those people have to say. The Rock? Oprah? Taylor Swift?
Why???
Charisma is overblown. It is short term nonsense.
Don't seek charisma, first.
Be honest and caring and charisma will follow.
I agree, I hope Mel reads this.
Agreed
I dont trust Oprah as far as I can throw her. And I would love to throw her far far away.
Why does this end so abruptly at the really crucial bit!??
¿Hello Mel what is her full name Vanessa...what?
Vanessa Van Edwards. It's a clip from a longer episode.
And nobody likes crunchy rolls when couldvhave sweet buns😉😘
15:45 really just sounding like a male/female or masculine/feminine character thing... the competence part.
Sorry but this dialogue looks fake because of the delay probably :) but anyway, nice topic :) I have charisma when I’m in a good mood, so I’m confident. That’s charisma :)
she lost me at Oprah, the Rock...
You lost me at the cat pic
yea considering the evil they stand for its so disappointing, but a lot of people are unaware of it sadly :(
Love everything about it. The Oprah reference was a turn-off. She lost credibility after the interview with prince Harry's wife.
I often wonder if she knows how lucky she is to be with a man who's never been wrong
Bards always have high charisma. And like to drink and steal and make all the ladies howl.
When. My soon to be ex wife would go out. Every single time we went into Manhattan.. before the night was over , I’d have at least -2-3 people walk up and tell me that I’m letting off an insane energy “… she absolutely hated when this happened
I am sending this video to all my Millennial children and friends. My only advice for the speaker is that her background set looks like she is in a tent and her extra long hair drags her down.
Thanks Mel for trying to get your guest to present relevant information in a graceful manner But she was so scattered and Sounded like she had 100 cups of coffee And all of her references were completely inappropriate And some were just wrong. I won't be wasting my time going to her website
Interesting that Vanessa doesn't have any personality and tell us, what to do. Mel has cool personality and I like her.
Vanessa is cool. You are wrong.