Not quite her decision. But I know exactly what you meant and Yes it was definitely a blessing in disguise. Because things could have went way worse. Hopefully she will get the help she needs and the kids will be safe and happy.
I seen a vid the other day the Mom was fleeing the cops w/her lil girl in the car.The lil girl was so smart to for her age she said I asked my Mom was she on Benadryl cus she was acting strange.I think it was meth&alcohol but it’s so sad to see such small kids having to grow up fast because of their irresponsible parent(s)
@TayZonday I think you're about as hooked as I am to watching these bodycam channels 😄 I always see you commenting on one's I've been watching. These are addicting lol
The sad thing about that irresponsible mother is that she’s a lot like how my childhood Friends mom used to be when I would hang out at his house during the 90’s and play Goldeneye in his basement living room in Utah and he was raised more by his older brothers and Dad than her sadly 😢
He didn't. I think those cops handled everything decently and with grace for the most part. They definitely didn't have to stand there holding the child in view of the mother being arrested.
@@ufogarage13 Yeah i was confused about that, thought they were taking him to "see Sawyer?" but then he's just there watching all this. I also never feel like it's appropriate for cops to pass moral judgment on people the way they did her ":You're embarrassing", and literally just throwing her into the back of the squad car. There's a way to get through to people, that's not it. Unfortunately cops don't seem to care about actually helping people
@@kmm4499 unless they are being verbally abusive and calling her profane names... i believe it is perfectly acceptable for them to make remarks such as "you're embarrassing". she is absolutely embarrassing and she should hear it from whoever is willing to tell her. obviously there isnt anyone in her life willing to so why not the officer? its not like he called her a piece of shit or a fucking worthless mother or something... which to be honest... worthless mother would have been what i would have called her since she would rather get trashed than be responsible for her childs wellbeing. and who are you to cast moral judgment on how the officer speaks to her? if she had picked up her kid from school she could have got into a accident and potentially killed her child in the process. now here is my moral judgment on you because i can... you speak of cops as though they are not human beings with families or children themselves. you act like there was actually a way to get through to this woman, like her son hasnt been dealing with her problem long enough to be indifferent while explaining her condition. the rudest thing they said was what you quoted which is nothing compared to what i had a cop say to me when he had me look at myself in the mirror when i was 17 (tx legal age of consent so treated as adult) and started belittling my appearance and my character which he had nothing to base on. during which i was completely respectful and cooperative with them not to mention honest about my situation. and who gives a shit if the kid watched... he is old enough to know his mom is a mess and a danger to his wellbeing... hell he probably stomps on the car floor often when she drives hoping for a magical break peddle when she drives. "Unfortunately cops dont seem to care about actually helping people."???? do you only watch videos where cops are being tyrants? have you never seen videos which there are so many more of than negative of officers doing anything and everything possible to help or save people from countless dangerous, horrific or deadly incidents? even when off duty they step up and take action when needed and are able. the fact that you believe (your generalized blanketing of cops) all cops are object/tools instead of human beings like we all are, and that they dont care about helping people just tells me you got caught at some point doing something stupid, didnt get away with it... subscribe to too many cop hating ideologies because its "cool" to be trendy... or you are just too ignorant to comprehend or understand that "helping people" isnt their primary job function but more oftan than not they are helping those who matter. i guess you dont see how they helped that little boy... i guess you probably dont think shooting an armed attacker is helping or perhaps rushing into a active shooting and not asking the gunman if he would like to speak with a licensed counselor while surrounded by numerous dead bodies man woman and child while others are still in danger... but instead ending the threat as soon as possible isnt helping people. cops arent social workers. social workers rarely save lives. in fact often times social workers destroy or end lives due to incompetence or just plain disregard of claims, indicators or potential of someone's capabilities. do you know how many children have been killed or physically assaulted (including sexually) due to child welfare workers failures at doing the bare minimum? even growing up being around drugs and crime and cop haters such as yourself. i am so glad i know how to evaluate a situation without automatically labelling a cop as a bad person or some dumb shit like that. i hope one day you grow up and realize how ignorant that type of ideology and attitude toward law enforcement is a huge problem. hell, it may even be why there are more cops acting like tyrants... because people such as yourself... think less of them and give them shit just for being cops. even cops have bad days... but at least as a whole... they do 100% more than you probably do for the community and will continue to do so even after dealing with fucking dipshits like you. try not being part of the problems in the country and open your fucking eyes for more than just negatives. ignorance should be painful maybe then more people would actually put effort into not being willfully stupid. cant wait for the day stupid stops being so trendy...
He's gonna grow up a fine republican. After all, the republicans voted to lower the age of marriage for children and remove child labor laws. It is high time this young man gets a job and takes care of the bills! Lazy kids these days.
I have had CSD come pick me up at school because my moms mental health and drinking I can really relate to this kid, Maybe I should have chose a career with DHS and became a case worker, I probably would have done really good in that field,
right? better this happens now before she continues to spiral with her child in her uncared care and something worse than not picking him up from school happens, if it hasn't already
Think about this.... a judge thought it was best she has custody because the child support system operates on the fact women get custody because men are capable of paying not them. And for every dollar payed into the system the feds match it to the county, the judges and cps work for the county. It's an illegal ponzi scheem. Now the county will receive another 10k from the feds for taking the child. Remember It's always about money at the end of the day.
This!!! even the meds I take I make sure don't affect my ability to care for my children!!! 😢 I wish I could hug that little guy so bad..... he knows how bad she gets!
Exactly 💯 she is dangerous and especially for the children. The officer said that she tried to get in a car to drive ? She is the problem and I don’t think we’re seeing the last of her on here 🤦♂️💯
The kid crying for his mama in the background tore my heart out of my chest. Poor baby- I hope he is thriving now. This was me as a child. Heart wrenching to watch as an adult and remember…and seeing the pain it caused her innocent baby. I hope the mom has done the work and has learned to show up for her son. Nobody made you have kids, I understand that life can be very hard, but you need to get your shit together. I hope you’ve woken up before you’ve furthered the damage. 😢
Yeah, when she's like that it's almost like they are raising themselves. It also really bothers me that they remind her of her kid and she was just going to get in her car, like she was fit to drive, and go get him. Absolutely wild.
I felt that too. Sadly, it's probably not their first time dealing with shit parents. Poor children, normalizing this behavior and associating it with love.
And then the cops ruined all that self assurance by their rough handling of the situation. Why didn't they leave the boy in the car if they knew exactly what they were going to discover????
THE FACT THAT A TEACHER NEEDS TO EVEN TELL A CHILD THAT WHEN THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO BE TEACHING ABCS AND 123S, SPELLING, BASIC MATH, BASIC SCIENCE, AND CRAP IS SICKENING!!! THEY SHOULD NOT NEED TO DO THIS, THIS PARENTING OF SOMEONE ELSE’S CHILD. PARENTS SHOULD KNOW BETTER TO KEEP ALCOHOL IN CONTROL AND MODERATION, OR NOT DRINK AT ALL! THANK THE LORD I DO NOT DRINK! THIS IS THE MAIN REASON WHY I *HATE* ALCOHOLIC DRINKS, ON TOP OF THE FACT THAT THEY JUST TASTE BLECHHH TO ME. AND I AM NOT EVEN A MOTHER, I DON’T EVEN HAVE ONE BOYFRIEND YET IN MY LIFE!
To hear the child cry for his neglectful mother shows how innocent and unconditional a child’s love is. She doesn’t deserve such a child unless she is willing to get some serious help
This is not talked about enough. Many people will say that a parent's love is unconditional, but really, it's the children's love that knows no limits. Even when being harmed, kids still love and rely on their parents. It's a very sad day when a child actually chooses to cut off their parents.
@@empyie666this, speaking from a boy abused by my father. I still loved him and always seen the good in him. Even when I was getting thrown down stairs.
She's probably a good and loving mother when she's not drinking... Alcoholism is a disease. No excuse, but it doesn't make a person ALL bad.... if she can stay sober then those kids should be best off with her. Of course if she can't stay sober, then the kids need to go.
true? its not true. hes a poor sad & scared kid but it does not make him right. that woman is at the end of her rope of “help”. this isn’t the first time this officer has found her in this state & had to deal with a situation like this, he said it for all of us to hear. i’m sure she’s had all the opportunity & resources one could possibly need for “help” in this scenario. even if she hasn’t, she clearly isn’t as hungry for it as a lot of people that are actively & actually trying to be sober are. until she finds that, she doesn’t deserve her kids. & really, it’s up to the kids & the state & her support team to decide IF she is EVER ready to deserve a chance at that again. this isn’t a person you trust to just find it & do it themselves while there’s innocent children actively suffering & being neglected. it’s about the kids. & that might not mean the kids getting what they want even. she isn’t gonna go clean being left to it, & she can’t just keep getting away with living like this & doing this to children consequentless.
@@waner17 ? They stated it is true that they are a bad mother. Also it is true that it is heartbreaking since no child deserves this. I would be surprised if anyone has sympathy for the horrid mother
@waner17 a woman who drink and leaves kids defenseless IS A BAD MOMMA!!! CPS needs to come check on your kids if you have any. Kids speak truth during trauma like this who knows what else she does tho those kids. People like you who don't believe kids are why they're dying in the hands of shi++y parents like this.
She's overweight, often a sign of being molested; survivors tend to sabotage their bodies to unconsciously feel safe from unwanted attention. She's a single mom and an alcoholic living in today's economy. This woman wants to escape her life. Her dying her hair multiple colors and plucking eyebrows, she's definitely in a war. She wants attention but she's destroying herself. My guess is she's been abused, and this raises into question who she had children with; survivors tend to enter into relationships with abusers because they can't understand healthy love.
Now she's going to turn her kids into a police hater😢 My mom had no feelings like that either only for herself , never heard I love you ever in my life from her. I hope this beast loses custody and gets that poor child somewhere what the father or a family member that will take proper care of him!
I grew up with an alcoholic father and an abusive mother. They were separated. No other family. Being with either one was horrible. Watching this is so painful. I hope the mother gets help.
Not to mention the father must not be great either because there is a PO (protective order) in place. That’s why they had to call DHS and send the kids to the neighbor instead of calling dad.
They caused so much more trauma by not isolating him so he didnt have to see that! Sickening. I blame her AND the idiot fuzz who didn't genuinely put the child 1st. This is all around heartbreaking.
Agree! This is wrong..I get proven a point but this child should not be involved. Especially since CPS would would take over the situation regardless. And take her to jail already they seem to really drag this out. Take her to the hospital she clearly needs help. It just keeps goes on and on..😢
So a little bit of a story: I grew up with a bit of a similar mother. There were many times where I'd take the bus home and have to ring the doorbell and pound on the door to wake her up to let me in. Other times I'd wait for her to pick me up only to have to have the office call her to pick me up. I guess the office was getting concerned and she picked up on that so she told me not to go to the office anymore. One day, she was supposed to pick me up but forgot again. I remembered her telling me not to go to the office, so I walked home alone at 8 years old. I got home, rang the doorbell and knocked on the door to no avail. Keep in mind, we live in the southwest, and in the late afternoon it gets to over 100F outside, and I just walked a good mile home with a heavy backpack on. Desperate to get inside, I climbed off some electrical boxes on the side of our house and hopped the wall to get into the backyard, hoping she forgot to lock the back door. Unfortunately it was locked so I went back around to the front and waited under a tree. Finally she came home and punished me pretty harshly for embarrassing her in front of the school staff. After that, I was sent to my room (wasn't even given water). A while later there were police in front of my house (my room oversaw the front yard) and my dad came home where there was a lot of shouting and arguing downstairs. About a month later my parents were divorced with my dad getting majority custody. Dad drank too, but he worked so he would drink in the evenings. I just learned to steer clear from him after 8pm and be extra quiet before noon. Apparently she got a DUI when I was in high-school and had to remain sober. I definitely noticed a change in her behavior, but didn't know what it was, only that she was grouchy and bossy. Looking back I think she just took that time to take her job as a mother seriously, but I just thought she was bullying me as I delt with a mother who was often negligent and overly emotional from her drinking for my entire childhood. To this day, my grandmother, sister, and uncle (her family) barely talk or visit with her. I visit occasionally, but it's difficult as every time I visit there's going to be an hour or so of her desperately apologizing for her actions when she drank, and it can be draining to endure. Dad never quit drinking and died of liver failure a few years back. When cleaning out his property, his house was full of hidden empty and partially empty liquor bottles and his truck had wine bottles hidden throughout. A takeaway from this is children have no frame of reference as to what's normal and what's not. If you grow up in a house of alcoholics, you assume that's just how things are. Loud fighting at night, parents forgetting obligations, having to repeat things over and over to them as they don't remember the first dozen times, having to be quiet early in the morning, learning to feed yourself before kindergarten, hiding things from police, teachers, and your friends' parents, all of that and more are normal when that's all you know. I remember sleeping over at a friend's house in 2nd grade and thinking his house was weird because not only did his mom make us breakfast, but we were allowed to talk at a normal volume and his dad was up and doing work on the pool *before* 10am. I was never allowed to have sleepovers at my house. Another takeaway is that when an alcoholic parent sobers up and stays sober later in life, they sometimes are filled with regret and shame for years after. Not always, but that's been my experience. Sorry for the long comment, just thought I should share. At the very least, it helps me to write it down.
It broke my heart hearing the kid cry. He's too young to fully understand his mom has issues and all he know is he loves her and cops are taking her away. A parent should never put their kids in any position like this. Its awful. He deserves a better mother.
The kid just got a dose of reality, that his cries are not going to be answered. When he gets a bit older, he will learn to be stoic, keep his emotions suppressed, and have no reactions to almost anything.
@@7eyesopenwide168 Yeah that is true, being as I was abused by my own mother since I was 4. I just don't wish upon a kid to grow up so fast knowing his mom can't care for him like she should because she's chosen to be a alcoholic.
I'm an alcoholic. And as much as I want children in the future, this is exactly why I don't have any now. I already know I can't be responsible for a child with how incredibly irresponsible I am with alcohol. I do want to get better. And I do seek help. Last time I was sober it was only 4 months and I relapsed. I need to get better, because of the damage to my liver and kidneys. My time is running out. Prayers for anyone else struggling with alcohol. Its one hell of a drug once you're hooked.
It hurts my heart to think about the poor child being in that home while his mother is either wasted or sleeping. He looked fairly skinny too, she probably forgets to feed him 😞
I absolutely thought the same thing. You know he’s seen this before to come to that conclusion. Poor little guy see seems to have more maturity than her.
That broke my heart when the little boy said that😢 The things he must have had to deal with when no one was there to help... It's absolutely heartbreaking 💔 I hope the mom gets the help she needs.
really needed to see this. just finished rehab and now I’m Ina. Halfway house for women with children. Gotta get clean and stay clean for myself and my little boy.
Good job being accountable for yourself and for your choices. I know firsthand how difficult the recovery journey can be, but for me, my worst day sober is better than my best day high. The memory of missing my sons 11th birthday because my foolish a$$ had to go to rehab is one of many things that keep me on the level.
She doesn't deserve custody of a dog, let alone a child. Poor little baby, it broke my heart completely when he explained "She doesn't know time right now.". What a terrible POS.
@BeauTIFFul22 My bearded dragons could crunch crunch, lol 😆 😋 😜 😅 poor kid though, l hope the mum gets the help she needs, for her children's sake and hers.
@PauloHernandezXDI'm so glad your mom is doing better now but it does like you said leave a lasting impact. That's the thing I struggle with the most since getting sober is what I put my child through when he was younger but I take accountability for it and I can't change the past I can only change right now and how I act going forward and show him that I've changed.
Yall are such space cadets. This is clearly a younger child who was already at home. She had no reaction to him cause she's seen his lil butt all day. He probably answered the door & stood by cops till mom came out.
Maybe maybe not. You can’t help what you’re exposed to, but how you prioritize it is def a choice. If he wants to be broken by this he will. If he wants to know all his school and community cared like this, he will. Hopefully even mom will get off the sauce. It’s not impossible. Quit writing little kids off this early in the game.
@@CR-xt2jj in mississippi it's around 5 calls and like 2-3 hours in mississippi. they gave her way TOO MUCH leniency. If I was a family member I would sue the fuck out of the school.
Ewww she is creepy, the police have been there before so it’s time to call cps. She’s so drunk or high she can’t even make dinner or breakfast for them. Dad needs to step up and do his job.
The fact that they already have a protective order against the father makes this even worse. These poor kids don't have one single parent that has it together.
I can bet the father left due to her alcoholism. Tried to take the kids and lost because from what I'm looking at. Is an entitled, self centered, liberal feminist, who most likely gets drunk and yells at her kids.
Exactly! Her voice reminded me of those dreams were i’m being chased by a murderer and I want to scream for help and I literally can’t speak loudly, emotions of frustration and anxiety take over and I make myself wake up.
@adostereohead That's happened to me in real life. I dreamt it was going to the week before. I was trying to scream in my sleep, and couldn't. A week later, I was running away from someone trying to scream for help, and couldn't. I was really trying, but man... being out of breath, running, and trying to scream at the same time is something else. I've never seen it portrayed in a movie either, where the person is running so hard, breathing so heavy that they can't run and scream at the same time, no matter how much they try. It sucks.
I was arrested last May for intoxication and I'm so glad my son or daughter wasn't there to see that, I'm now 143 days sober. Not going back to that crap!! So sad to see this happen.
My Grandpa quit drinking in 1953 and in doing so changed the entire trajectory of the lives for his kids & grandkids. You are making an incredibly positive choice. Always pick yourself up and stay the path. I quit drinking two years ago and it caused not a single ripple BECAUSE my Grandpa made the choice he did. He gave my Dad (his son) the example necessary for my Dad to quit drinking as well. And for me. And probably for my kids as well. Keep after it, sir ✊🏻
Not really. Services are usually very reluctant to just take kids and throw them in an already overcrowded and broken system. Their is a massive rabbit hole of crime cases where kids were beaten to death, starved to death, extreme sexual abuse, etc. where CPS visited 5+ times calls from basically everyone but the parent and they never remove them. This is actually the tamest push I’ve seen for it in a while
I can’t imagine forgetting to pick up your own kids. It’s not like forgetting to buy milk or pay a bill on time. That’s A LITERAL SMALL HUMAN SHE FORGOT Edit: I’m seeing a lot of comments from moms admitting to forgetting their kids because of a busy work schedule/early school release, etc. I just want to clarify and say I don’t fault those moms too much because those situations are a lot more understandable. I’m more upset with this woman in particular because she got sloshed for the whole day and forgot her kids.
my dad would get so drunk he would leave me locked in the car overnight at times like all night🤙🤙🤙🤙🤙🤙🤙🤙 We have such a healthy relationship now😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 *insert all the possible sarcasm in the world*
Many years ago my daughter's school kicked out at 3.30pm. I had worked 10 hours that day, got home around 2.30pm, figured I would have a quick nap for 30 minutes, so set an alarm....nope. I slept through and looked at the clock when the post man rattled my letter box, 3.20pm! To say I sprinted to the school is an understatement. Thankfully walking was about 10 minutes from the school, I arrived just as the doors opened. I felt so bad for days after. The idea I could have missed pick up is just to horrible :( They would have been so scared.
I have an alarm set in case I'm busy cleaning (or napping) and I still check the time 100 times in the last half hour of school because I'm scared I'll somehow miss pick up. I can't even imaging this.
How dare she act self righteous and be in disbelief. She takes zero accountability or responsibility. This is not the cops fault. It's yours. And sadly she'll blame her son.
I'll take him! I'd be waiting for him to get off the bus everyday and have a snack ready if he needed one. Then we would talk about his day, do homework and play until dinner. Then bath, bed and stories. I think I miss being a Mom.
@karenscoville6307 I wouldn't even let him go to any state school. What, so they can indoctrinate him with gender rubbish?? No, I would be his stay at home mother, homeschool him, cook him three hot from scratch meals every day. Because that's what I do with my children. I'm a stay at home, homeschooling mother.
@@ChicaPaquitoYou know what I can’t figure out? Why she didn’t comply knowing she was drunk as fuck AND had a young child in the house. Like the officer said, they had to do that because that grown ass trollazoid can’t take care of herself. Now her kids have to suffer. It’s not the fault of the cops.
@@ChicaPaquito Sometimes it can't be avoided. The mother was going to get in her car to drive drunk, they said, 'Nope sobriety test' and she tried to bail back into her house. At that point police weren't playing anymore and had to take her. Unfortunately young kids are usually up their parents butt and so he was RIGHT there. It is what it is. It's not the police's fault the mother did what she did and caused them to arrest her.
@@barneslatasha1923falling over everything, yes, but extensive alcohol abuse affects everything from your organs to your blood vessels (and how easily they can rupture or cause a bruise). Bruising is often seen with liver or kidney failure as well, often brought on by alcoholism.
It aggravates and grieves me to watch these types of videos where children are the ones who are hurt and traumatized at the hands of their parents’ direct negligence and irresponsibility. The only thing going for her, these officers and ppl watching this, is the fact that she has lost her voice. Thank GAAAWWDD
Every one of us can end up here. Try not to judge too harshly. You may be very surprised to find yourself here, at some point in your life. We are all one to two hardships away from slipping down this slope.
@@mr.blonde5344 not anyone. just people with no self control or discipline. Hardships? what are you talking about hardships? look at her big beautiful house and new car. I don't see any hardships there...
Her mother knows nothing but getting drunk. When you fall down the rabbit hole of alcoholism you can’t do anything. She needs support and detox. May this video be a lesson to look back and see how she hurts her children
No child should have to witness their parent being taken away. I blame all adults for traumatizing & putting the child last. What an idiotic member of the Blue Gang, for NOT isolating the poor child 1st. Sickening.
Why is she his only caregiver? They don't have family support, big chance she could be the last one in her Bloodline left. Or Nobody cared for her, so she doesn't know how to care for others.
Because the people they hang out with are just as bad a parent as they are if they have kids too or there are family members that don't know what's going on in the house.
I feel so bad for that boy. I can’t believe a mom would be drunk and not pick up her kid from school. Of course it may be a blessing that she didn’t show up as drunk as she is.
Hearing that poor babys cries just broke me. And you’re absolutely right, had she gotten into her car in her intoxicated state a lot worse could have happened to her, her child or someone else!
Even as an alcoholic I don't drink myself silly when I've got my kid. Congratulations on your sobriety, it shows you have the strength alot of people don't have when it comes to drink, if you can't handle or moderate your consumption, put the bottle down and walk away...stuff like this happens because people don't have the strength to admit that they're trapped or lack the self awareness to be responsible.
I'm starting over again. One of my new strategies is to watch videos like this to remind myself of why I want to be sober. I don't want to live like this anymore. I get secondhand embarrassment watching videos like this, thinking back on all the times I've acted like a complete idiot and made a fool of myself. It's not worth it.
I don't drink either, but not because I was an alcoholic. I just never cared for the feeling of alcohol. It's a miserable drug in my opinion, and I'm not at all sure why it's our society's legal drug of choice. It either makes people rowdy or depressed, it impairs your motor skills, tastes like garbage, you feel like shit the next day, and trouble follows it like the plague. I've always been thankful I don't like it.
personally, i don’t think they should’ve brought the child back home to witness them deal with his mom. he didn’t need that on top of every else he’s probably seen and been through
Where the ads go aren't chosen by the advertisers youtube chooses ads for you based on your online interactions. You got a Doordash ad because you order food, Doordash didn't "put an ad for alcohol on this vid"
@@love420smoke what do you not get ? You won't get ads for things you don't engage in. If you don't buy alcohol online or search for it you won't get alcohol related ads. It's not how ads work these days. It's a similar algorithm for how they choose what goes on YOUR homepage but they actually work with Google to include all your internet data when choosing ads. They do this because you are simply more likely to interact with an ad based on your interests. And advertisers pay youtube out more for clicks on their ad than they do for just showing it to someone. This is why it works that way. Doordash did not "put an ad" on this video. Not how it works
I know a woman who was arrested at her kids elementary school. She showed up wasted to pick her two sons up early to take them to a doctors appointment. Like wtf was her plan? She was slurring words, trouble with coordination and reeked of alcohol. Parents need to do better. I know life is hard, but if you have kids you’ve just got to deal.
I just don't get that. I was a n active alcoholic from my senior year of highschool all the way until I graduated from law school, but I never got sloppy like this. I drank enough to feel good and that was all I needed. I never blacked out or passed out in the middle day. I never even raised my voice to my wife or child. I think it helps that I my father was a happy drunk. He always had a bourbon in his hand but he was the nicest man I had ever met, and he provided his family with a life of leisure and luxury. People shouldn't be using alcohol as a way to wallow in their own misery and self-pity. Theres nothing sadder than a miserable drunk.
Pray the woman gets the help she needs. So sad that her son will be placed in foster care. I can’t imagine continuing this behavior and risking losing children
I don't know how she would forget to pick her child up from school. It's the highlight of my day. Sometimes the moms and I go out for a mimosa or 2 after we drop the kids off. We get breakfast and have mom social hour but 1-2 at most and done and it's only once a month. I could never get drunk and do this to my child.
Thank goodness, the kids were left with a trusted neighbor who was also a teacher at the school. Putting kids in the car of total strangers is very traumatic.
I hate this! I lost mine due to SUD and being late picking them up🥹grandma had em for too long. Mom guilt is so real and so hard 😢 We’re all together now! A grandma too:) live my granddaughter and grateful I’m sober to see her everyday!
Sure might have a bad cold. Or throat cancer. But because she's coughing I think she might be ill. That really can happen to all of us. And funny enough, alcohol desinfects the throat quite well.
The child saying “she doesn’t know time right now” is so heartbreaking 💔 They know when mom acts this way she doesn’t know how to act appropriately anymore 😢 What a crappy way to live. Poor kids
Unfortunately, this appears to be in BA, Oklahoma... Oklahoma has had horrrrrrrible child protective laws and they also said it was her second time being called for a similar incident... it's unfortunate for these kids who have to go through the system due to these negligent parents💔
Hey congratulations. I know it's not easy to make that life change, you are a better person for it. Good luck and there are always a lot of people rooting for you. ❤
This is the exact situation that happened to me as a child. My father was passed out drunk forgot us at school, police came to the house and seen the condition it was in and we got taken away and placed with new families, best thing that could have happened for me. I am grateful for my adoptive family
@@HernandezJanyeah from everyone i ever met that was in foster care said it ruined their lives forever. most still find contact w their original parents later in life. Still happy to hear a good outcome though.
@@cheetowtf3930 I definitely got lucky, my adoptive parents were really loving and somewhat well off, I was able to go to a good private school and had everything I ever wanted, I was definitely fortunate I had a good outcome because yes usually it doesn’t work out
Growing up with an alcoholic parent myself, I can vouch for how terrible of a life that child will have. Drunk driving, mean words constantly spewed bc they’re in their own world n it’s usually an angry world. Parent missing important milestones, child not supported at school bc school will report it, having to raise siblings, growing up at a bar stool or liquor store for memories. This lady truly has no clue of the longevity of harm she’s causing. That shit affects my life to this current day at 39 yrs old n bc of all this, I can’t go enjoy a glass of wine after work bc I absolutely despise alcohol 🤬🤬
Why would your imaginary God bless this principle but decide not bless any of the 1,000 children who will die today from starvation? Use your head before you say silly crap🤡
The school has been trying to reach her for 4HOURS! Twenty phone calls to her. It was after 4 when the officers showed up at her home that meant she was to pick him up around noon!!! And this was the second time that one officer had to go to her home for the same reason and he found her in the same condition!!! That PO, protection order against the father needs to be looked into and custody of those boys need to be reviewed based on her actions and self proclaimed “ I am an alcoholic, I own it. I have been in treatment several times. “ Hopefully the father is more stable than the mom and only has PO because of the anger or spite of mom about the separation/divorce. How she got custody of the children if she has a history of alcohol abuse with several failed rehabilitation attempts is beyond me.
This reminds me of the couple of times in junior high we got back late from a track meet, only to realize my parents were the only ones not in the school parking lot to pick me up with our home 20 miles away in a rural area. One of the times one of the coaches waited with me until about 3 a. m. when they finally answered the phone and came to get me, and lucky he did because we stayed warm sitting in his truck with the heater on as it was about 30-40 degrees outside. The other time, I sat out in the athletics parking lot until early hours of the morning until I saw our van pull into the parking lot. Growing up like this has made me the accountable father I am for my daughter today.
Yeah, same. Luckily my mom didnt have custody but did have visitation on Saturdays. I still remember having to be quiet till her 'headaches' stopped and she could wake up at noon and get some 'juice'. I'm 38 now and looking back I can see how bad this kind of thing affects your life. These types of parents really dont give af how they're impacting their kids lives
Imagine how neglected this poor boy is on a day to day basis. Nutrition, medical, dental, scholastics - I bet he absolutely fends for himself. Where's this boy's FATHER. That's what I want to know.
@@sharonrigs7999let's not make excuses for fathers. He's just as much a piece of $hit for letting this happen to his child. Y'all really make any and every excuse for the man EVERY TIME
@@ashleyadeline1537 first of all you have no idea what's going on. I have a 15 year old daughter whom right now I havent seen in almost a month because her mother brainwashed her. I'm in the process of taking her back to court
Not driving to pick the kids up was by far the best decision this mother has made in a long time.
Well it wasn't exactly a "decision" but yes so glad she "forgot"
Thank goodness, cause this is quite frightening.
True she doesn't belong on the road
Thank Jah she didn't
Not quite her decision. But I know exactly what you meant and Yes it was definitely a blessing in disguise. Because things could have went way worse. Hopefully she will get the help she needs and the kids will be safe and happy.
So sad. Especially to hear the child accustomed to explaining his mother’s compromised state - “she doesn’t know time right now” 😢
I seen a vid the other day the Mom was fleeing the cops w/her lil girl in the car.The lil girl was so smart to for her age she said I asked my Mom was she on Benadryl cus she was acting strange.I think it was meth&alcohol but it’s so sad to see such small kids having to grow up fast because of their irresponsible parent(s)
@TayZonday I think you're about as hooked as I am to watching these bodycam channels 😄 I always see you commenting on one's I've been watching. These are addicting lol
Nah tay another vid lmao I commented on another body cam video comment you made lol small ass world
The sad thing about that irresponsible mother is that she’s a lot like how my childhood Friends mom used to be when I would hang out at his house during the 90’s and play Goldeneye in his basement living room in Utah and he was raised more by his older brothers and Dad than her sadly 😢
I was thinking the same thing so I looked for this comment. Didn't expect the Chocolate Rain guy to be the voice of reason lol
I just wished the child didn't have to witness that
He didn't. I think those cops handled everything decently and with grace for the most part. They definitely didn't have to stand there holding the child in view of the mother being arrested.
@ufogarage13 he'll notice she's missing a whole 24 hours
@@ufogarage13 Yeah i was confused about that, thought they were taking him to "see Sawyer?" but then he's just there watching all this. I also never feel like it's appropriate for cops to pass moral judgment on people the way they did her ":You're embarrassing", and literally just throwing her into the back of the squad car. There's a way to get through to people, that's not it. Unfortunately cops don't seem to care about actually helping people
@@kmm4499 unless they are being verbally abusive and calling her profane names... i believe it is perfectly acceptable for them to make remarks such as "you're embarrassing". she is absolutely embarrassing and she should hear it from whoever is willing to tell her. obviously there isnt anyone in her life willing to so why not the officer? its not like he called her a piece of shit or a fucking worthless mother or something... which to be honest... worthless mother would have been what i would have called her since she would rather get trashed than be responsible for her childs wellbeing. and who are you to cast moral judgment on how the officer speaks to her? if she had picked up her kid from school she could have got into a accident and potentially killed her child in the process.
now here is my moral judgment on you because i can... you speak of cops as though they are not human beings with families or children themselves. you act like there was actually a way to get through to this woman, like her son hasnt been dealing with her problem long enough to be indifferent while explaining her condition. the rudest thing they said was what you quoted which is nothing compared to what i had a cop say to me when he had me look at myself in the mirror when i was 17 (tx legal age of consent so treated as adult) and started belittling my appearance and my character which he had nothing to base on. during which i was completely respectful and cooperative with them not to mention honest about my situation. and who gives a shit if the kid watched... he is old enough to know his mom is a mess and a danger to his wellbeing... hell he probably stomps on the car floor often when she drives hoping for a magical break peddle when she drives.
"Unfortunately cops dont seem to care about actually helping people."???? do you only watch videos where cops are being tyrants? have you never seen videos which there are so many more of than negative of officers doing anything and everything possible to help or save people from countless dangerous, horrific or deadly incidents? even when off duty they step up and take action when needed and are able.
the fact that you believe (your generalized blanketing of cops) all cops are object/tools instead of human beings like we all are, and that they dont care about helping people just tells me you got caught at some point doing something stupid, didnt get away with it... subscribe to too many cop hating ideologies because its "cool" to be trendy... or you are just too ignorant to comprehend or understand that "helping people" isnt their primary job function but more oftan than not they are helping those who matter. i guess you dont see how they helped that little boy... i guess you probably dont think shooting an armed attacker is helping or perhaps rushing into a active shooting and not asking the gunman if he would like to speak with a licensed counselor while surrounded by numerous dead bodies man woman and child while others are still in danger... but instead ending the threat as soon as possible isnt helping people.
cops arent social workers. social workers rarely save lives. in fact often times social workers destroy or end lives due to incompetence or just plain disregard of claims, indicators or potential of someone's capabilities. do you know how many children have been killed or physically assaulted (including sexually) due to child welfare workers failures at doing the bare minimum? even growing up being around drugs and crime and cop haters such as yourself. i am so glad i know how to evaluate a situation without automatically labelling a cop as a bad person or some dumb shit like that.
i hope one day you grow up and realize how ignorant that type of ideology and attitude toward law enforcement is a huge problem. hell, it may even be why there are more cops acting like tyrants... because people such as yourself... think less of them and give them shit just for being cops. even cops have bad days... but at least as a whole... they do 100% more than you probably do for the community and will continue to do so even after dealing with fucking dipshits like you. try not being part of the problems in the country and open your fucking eyes for more than just negatives. ignorance should be painful maybe then more people would actually put effort into not being willfully stupid.
cant wait for the day stupid stops being so trendy...
He's gonna grow up a fine republican. After all, the republicans voted to lower the age of marriage for children and remove child labor laws. It is high time this young man gets a job and takes care of the bills! Lazy kids these days.
i am 67 yrs old, i have lived through this as a child, the trauma of alcoholic parents is a lifetime of pain
I have had CSD come pick me up at school because my moms mental health and drinking I can really relate to this kid, Maybe I should have chose a career with DHS and became a case worker, I probably would have done really good in that field,
At 67, it is time to get over it.
@@VictorGianelli-d3e Give the guy a brake Vic....are you the child of an alcoholic mother?
Yep. It's lifelong.
@VictorGianelli maybe grow some compassion?
She drank a full bottle of vodka? So glad she forgot to pick her children up to be honest. Poor little kids deserve a heck of a lot better than that.
As do the motorists, cyclists & pedestrians of that particular region . . .
Poor kid..
right? better this happens now before she continues to spiral with her child in her uncared care and something worse than not picking him up from school happens, if it hasn't already
He deserves a sober mom !
Think about this.... a judge thought it was best she has custody because the child support system operates on the fact women get custody because men are capable of paying not them. And for every dollar payed into the system the feds match it to the county, the judges and cps work for the county. It's an illegal ponzi scheem. Now the county will receive another 10k from the feds for taking the child. Remember It's always about money at the end of the day.
You don't have the luxury of being incapacitated when you're a single parent, your kids could need you at any moment.
Amen
Exactly. I took my job as a parent very seriously.
This!!! even the meds I take I make sure don't affect my ability to care for my children!!! 😢 I wish I could hug that little guy so bad..... he knows how bad she gets!
That's why I don't have any! 🥳🥳🥳
“You let him hit it raw. You didn’t have second thoughts…”
Love this police officer. "How embarrassing for you" She's not only a problematic mess, she's dangerous.
Kid is sooooo adorable. " Mom doesn't know time,she doesn't" ❤
The real question is what dude was so sad and desperate and lonely he was willing to touch this thing I would rather f a deceased animal
Exactly 💯 she is dangerous and especially for the children. The officer said that she tried to get in a car to drive ? She is the problem and I don’t think we’re seeing the last of her on here 🤦♂️💯
How is she in charge of children at all?
Why can't she talk?
The kid crying for his mama in the background tore my heart out of my chest. Poor baby- I hope he is thriving now. This was me as a child. Heart wrenching to watch as an adult and remember…and seeing the pain it caused her innocent baby. I hope the mom has done the work and has learned to show up for her son.
Nobody made you have kids, I understand that life can be very hard, but you need to get your shit together. I hope you’ve woken up before you’ve furthered the damage. 😢
“She doesn’t know time right now..”. probably the saddest thing I’ve ever heard from a child. He knows how she’s behaves. Poor boy ☹️
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I just commented this. So sad!
Yeah, when she's like that it's almost like they are raising themselves. It also really bothers me that they remind her of her kid and she was just going to get in her car, like she was fit to drive, and go get him. Absolutely wild.
Was looking for this comment. That is crazy
Over half of adults on this planet couldnt tell you the time at any given moment lol
Someone needs to appreciate how well the teachers handled that. They never worried the kid, and just said “moms not feeling well,”
I felt that too. Sadly, it's probably not their first time dealing with shit parents. Poor children, normalizing this behavior and associating it with love.
And then the cops ruined all that self assurance by their rough handling of the situation. Why didn't they leave the boy in the car if they knew exactly what they were going to discover????
THE FACT THAT A TEACHER NEEDS TO EVEN TELL A CHILD THAT WHEN THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO BE TEACHING ABCS AND 123S, SPELLING, BASIC MATH, BASIC SCIENCE, AND CRAP IS SICKENING!!! THEY SHOULD NOT NEED TO DO THIS, THIS PARENTING OF SOMEONE ELSE’S CHILD. PARENTS SHOULD KNOW BETTER TO KEEP ALCOHOL IN CONTROL AND MODERATION, OR NOT DRINK AT ALL!
THANK THE LORD I DO NOT DRINK! THIS IS THE MAIN REASON WHY I *HATE* ALCOHOLIC DRINKS, ON TOP OF THE FACT THAT THEY JUST TASTE BLECHHH TO ME. AND I AM NOT EVEN A MOTHER, I DON’T EVEN HAVE ONE BOYFRIEND YET IN MY LIFE!
@@britbrat4559exactly. I was thinking why in the heck would the cops let the child witness all of that roughly handling of the mother.?!
@@miss-astronomikal-mcmxcvii I'm guessing that your teachers never taught you the correct use of capital letters in English.
To hear the child cry for his neglectful mother shows how innocent and unconditional a child’s love is. She doesn’t deserve such a child unless she is willing to get some serious help
This is not talked about enough. Many people will say that a parent's love is unconditional, but really, it's the children's love that knows no limits. Even when being harmed, kids still love and rely on their parents. It's a very sad day when a child actually chooses to cut off their parents.
Facts
This woman is annoying af
@@empyie666this, speaking from a boy abused by my father. I still loved him and always seen the good in him. Even when I was getting thrown down stairs.
She's probably a good and loving mother when she's not drinking... Alcoholism is a disease. No excuse, but it doesn't make a person ALL bad.... if she can stay sober then those kids should be best off with her. Of course if she can't stay sober, then the kids need to go.
"She doesn't know time right now" 😢 so so sad. He was trying to help out his mommy and the officers as best he knew how. What a sweet boy. ❤
"I have a bad mommy as a mommy but please don't take her to jail!" Heartbreakingly true but true none the less
true? its not true. hes a poor sad & scared kid but it does not make him right. that woman is at the end of her rope of “help”. this isn’t the first time this officer has found her in this state & had to deal with a situation like this, he said it for all of us to hear. i’m sure she’s had all the opportunity & resources one could possibly need for “help” in this scenario. even if she hasn’t, she clearly isn’t as hungry for it as a lot of people that are actively & actually trying to be sober are. until she finds that, she doesn’t deserve her kids. & really, it’s up to the kids & the state & her support team to decide IF she is EVER ready to deserve a chance at that again. this isn’t a person you trust to just find it & do it themselves while there’s innocent children actively suffering & being neglected. it’s about the kids. & that might not mean the kids getting what they want even. she isn’t gonna go clean being left to it, & she can’t just keep getting away with living like this & doing this to children consequentless.
@@waner17nigga she said it was true that that kid said she had a bad mommy. not bout nun else.
@@waner17 ? They stated it is true that they are a bad mother. Also it is true that it is heartbreaking since no child deserves this. I would be surprised if anyone has sympathy for the horrid mother
@@waner17Explain to me what he said that wasn't true?
@waner17 a woman who drink and leaves kids defenseless IS A BAD MOMMA!!! CPS needs to come check on your kids if you have any. Kids speak truth during trauma like this who knows what else she does tho those kids. People like you who don't believe kids are why they're dying in the hands of shi++y parents like this.
So sad. I’m glad she forgot the child instead of showing up drunk and driving him home. At least he was safe at school.
Very true.
So true.
She's overweight, often a sign of being molested; survivors tend to sabotage their bodies to unconsciously feel safe from unwanted attention. She's a single mom and an alcoholic living in today's economy. This woman wants to escape her life. Her dying her hair multiple colors and plucking eyebrows, she's definitely in a war. She wants attention but she's destroying herself. My guess is she's been abused, and this raises into question who she had children with; survivors tend to enter into relationships with abusers because they can't understand healthy love.
omg, thats so scary
She(prob got the pro noun wrong?)was too far under the rainbow!!!
she doesn’t even comfort her kid when he’s crying she’s just more concerned for herself. Poor kid.
Right. She should have told him it's ok.. mom is ok. 😢
Well, she’s absolutely plastered
Now she's going to turn her kids into a police hater😢
My mom had no feelings like that either only for herself , never heard I love you ever in my life from her.
I hope this beast loses custody and gets that poor child somewhere what the father or a family member that will take proper care of him!
@@walkinbeauty7273seems you turned out ok was your dad around
She is to drunk
I grew up with an alcoholic father and an abusive mother. They were separated. No other family. Being with either one was horrible. Watching this is so painful. I hope the mother gets help.
I'm so sorry that you had to grow up like that😢. I hope your life is happy now
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She clearly threw up up and passed out. The bile and alcohol from the vomit melted her throat and vocals. That’s why she’s croaking
So that's why she can't talk.
@W0nkaaa😂😂😂😂
I'm glad her voice was out of commission. I suspect that she would scream and holler if she could.
@@annjepsen1621oh you know she would. She was trying to. Lol
Haha DAAAAAAAAAYUM 😂
Hat's off to the school for calling police.
i think they have to by law .....Mandated reporters
They had no other choice. School was closed and there was a kid left there. What were they going to do with him?
They couldn’t leave him and all go home for the night.
Well who were they going to call?
They tried calling her 20 times.
An alcoholic mother is a burden no child should have to endure. It’s sad beyond belief.
Not to mention the father must not be great either because there is a PO (protective order) in place. That’s why they had to call DHS and send the kids to the neighbor instead of calling dad.
Alcoholic fathers FTW!!!
@@TeamLas3rI was raised buy 2 alcoholic parents. Shit sucks.
@@TeamLas3r i just noticed the kids mothers voice doesn't sound right after being intoxicated
It’s not like they woke up wanting to be alcoholics..
I love it when police officers are so kind to kids. They can be a really comforting presence during tragedy or confusion or painful times.
no, it's the fact he's a MAN. What the kid needs is a FATHER, not a useless, emotional, chaotic insane "Mother".
She literally drank away her vocal cords and is blacking out from her day drinking. I hope she gets help soon.
Okay so that is the alcohol? Ive never been around anyone that drinks enough to drink away their voice
I’m pretty sure she’s either sick or that’s how her voice is
@@tl1635it can happen from throwing up in your sleep or a lot of yelling, which a lot of folk that drink end up doing
@@tl1635 I’ve thrown up on my side while sleeping and woke up and my voice was like this before, was just my experience
@@tl1635 oh and don’t put it past an alcoholic to have a melt down and scream at the walls for a few hours
“She doesn’t know time right now…” 🤦♂️ the fact the kid says that is just so depressing
I think this will help the boy realize that the way his mom is, isn't normal, nor is it okay. Also that he deserves better.
I couldn't believe it when he said that, it broke my heart 😢
How did this women ever get custody of her child. Unbelievable
…and who was stupid enough to sleep with her?!?! 😱
@@martintrj5620another bridge troll!
Some dudes are down bad
Judges often blindly award custody to mothers.
How did she ever convince someone to hit it Raw. 😂 Or at all actually. Can you imagine what kind of man that must've been?
Poor kid witnessing this humiliation. Life is tough enough without your mom making a complete a** of herself
Yeah why didn’t they take him away immediately??? Wtf
They caused so much more trauma by not isolating him so he didnt have to see that! Sickening. I blame her AND the idiot fuzz who didn't genuinely put the child 1st. This is all around heartbreaking.
Agree! This is wrong..I get proven a point but this child should not be involved. Especially since CPS would would take over the situation regardless. And take her to jail already they seem to really drag this out. Take her to the hospital she clearly needs help. It just keeps goes on and on..😢
atleast they dont seem to be poor. it really sucks when this happens to you and you are borderline homeless
@@CherrrrBear She was a SNAPS card holder.
You couldn’t pick up your child in the condition you’re in. You shouldn’t have custody of any of your children.
this woman is beyond hope I think. hopefully the kid has better family that will care for him.
@@ataridc No one is beyond hope if they truly want to turn their life around. But for some, it is very difficult to convince them to do so.
So a little bit of a story:
I grew up with a bit of a similar mother. There were many times where I'd take the bus home and have to ring the doorbell and pound on the door to wake her up to let me in. Other times I'd wait for her to pick me up only to have to have the office call her to pick me up. I guess the office was getting concerned and she picked up on that so she told me not to go to the office anymore.
One day, she was supposed to pick me up but forgot again. I remembered her telling me not to go to the office, so I walked home alone at 8 years old. I got home, rang the doorbell and knocked on the door to no avail. Keep in mind, we live in the southwest, and in the late afternoon it gets to over 100F outside, and I just walked a good mile home with a heavy backpack on. Desperate to get inside, I climbed off some electrical boxes on the side of our house and hopped the wall to get into the backyard, hoping she forgot to lock the back door. Unfortunately it was locked so I went back around to the front and waited under a tree. Finally she came home and punished me pretty harshly for embarrassing her in front of the school staff. After that, I was sent to my room (wasn't even given water). A while later there were police in front of my house (my room oversaw the front yard) and my dad came home where there was a lot of shouting and arguing downstairs.
About a month later my parents were divorced with my dad getting majority custody. Dad drank too, but he worked so he would drink in the evenings. I just learned to steer clear from him after 8pm and be extra quiet before noon.
Apparently she got a DUI when I was in high-school and had to remain sober. I definitely noticed a change in her behavior, but didn't know what it was, only that she was grouchy and bossy. Looking back I think she just took that time to take her job as a mother seriously, but I just thought she was bullying me as I delt with a mother who was often negligent and overly emotional from her drinking for my entire childhood. To this day, my grandmother, sister, and uncle (her family) barely talk or visit with her. I visit occasionally, but it's difficult as every time I visit there's going to be an hour or so of her desperately apologizing for her actions when she drank, and it can be draining to endure. Dad never quit drinking and died of liver failure a few years back. When cleaning out his property, his house was full of hidden empty and partially empty liquor bottles and his truck had wine bottles hidden throughout.
A takeaway from this is children have no frame of reference as to what's normal and what's not. If you grow up in a house of alcoholics, you assume that's just how things are. Loud fighting at night, parents forgetting obligations, having to repeat things over and over to them as they don't remember the first dozen times, having to be quiet early in the morning, learning to feed yourself before kindergarten, hiding things from police, teachers, and your friends' parents, all of that and more are normal when that's all you know. I remember sleeping over at a friend's house in 2nd grade and thinking his house was weird because not only did his mom make us breakfast, but we were allowed to talk at a normal volume and his dad was up and doing work on the pool *before* 10am. I was never allowed to have sleepovers at my house.
Another takeaway is that when an alcoholic parent sobers up and stays sober later in life, they sometimes are filled with regret and shame for years after. Not always, but that's been my experience.
Sorry for the long comment, just thought I should share. At the very least, it helps me to write it down.
@@kingbadmovie Very good reply.
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It broke my heart hearing the kid cry. He's too young to fully understand his mom has issues and all he know is he loves her and cops are taking her away. A parent should never put their kids in any position like this. Its awful. He deserves a better mother.
Don’t underestimate kids. Me and my siblings knew our parents were addicts. We knew it wasn’t a good thing.
The kid just got a dose of reality, that his cries are not going to be answered. When he gets a bit older, he will learn to be stoic, keep his emotions suppressed, and have no reactions to almost anything.
@@7eyesopenwide168 Yeah that is true, being as I was abused by my own mother since I was 4. I just don't wish upon a kid to grow up so fast knowing his mom can't care for him like she should because she's chosen to be a alcoholic.
@@BlueSkyCountry Let's hope so but not everyone reacts and grows up from this the same way
Hurt me too hearing that sweet child crying and pleading 💔
Bravo to the officer for telling that "mother" what a POS she is for putting her child in that situation. Shame on her :(
Active, chronic alcoholism. Just heartbreaking for the children. I hope the mother gets the help she so clearly, desperately needs.
I lost my dad because of alcoholism he refused to get help
Heartbreaking for everyone.
My mother was an alcoholic. It wasn't so bad she was still my world until she drank herself to death at 44.
@@thebiggrouchlost my mom to alcoholism.
I'm an alcoholic. And as much as I want children in the future, this is exactly why I don't have any now. I already know I can't be responsible for a child with how incredibly irresponsible I am with alcohol. I do want to get better. And I do seek help. Last time I was sober it was only 4 months and I relapsed. I need to get better, because of the damage to my liver and kidneys. My time is running out. Prayers for anyone else struggling with alcohol. Its one hell of a drug once you're hooked.
Hearing the kid say "she doesn't know time right now" was heartbreaking...
At such a young age, he has had to figure that adult concept out??? So sad!!
It hurts my heart to think about the poor child being in that home while his mother is either wasted or sleeping. He looked fairly skinny too, she probably forgets to feed him 😞
I absolutely thought the same thing. You know he’s seen this before to come to that conclusion. Poor little guy see seems to have more maturity than her.
@@juliewyatt5876I think this was a child at home that was actually younger than the 5 year old. How sad and scary is that.
It was. Poor kids
“Mommy doesn’t know time right now…”
Poor kid…
She's going to know 2 to 3 years of time when she goes to court
That broke my heart when the little boy said that😢 The things he must have had to deal with when no one was there to help... It's absolutely heartbreaking 💔 I hope the mom gets the help she needs.
Always nice to hear a cop that cares.
really needed to see this. just finished rehab and now I’m Ina. Halfway house for women with children. Gotta get clean and stay clean for myself and my little boy.
Praying for you ❤
Congratulations. You've taken the 1st step. You're a strong woman and you can do this. Sending you & your son healing thoughts & virtual hugs.
@@jennilynmae thank yo so much! ❤️ 🙏
Good job being accountable for yourself and for your choices. I know firsthand how difficult the recovery journey can be, but for me, my worst day sober is better than my best day high. The memory of missing my sons 11th birthday because my foolish a$$ had to go to rehab is one of many things that keep me on the level.
fuck up
She doesn't deserve custody of a dog, let alone a child. Poor little baby, it broke my heart completely when he explained "She doesn't know time right now.". What a terrible POS.
This woman couldn't take care of a cockroach!
@BeauTIFFul22 My bearded dragons could crunch crunch, lol 😆 😋 😜 😅 poor kid though, l hope the mum gets the help she needs, for her children's sake and hers.
That wrecked me
@PauloHernandezXDI'm so glad your mom is doing better now but it does like you said leave a lasting impact. That's the thing I struggle with the most since getting sober is what I put my child through when he was younger but I take accountability for it and I can't change the past I can only change right now and how I act going forward and show him that I've changed.
She isn’t a POS, she has a problem and needs help
The saddest part is she didn’t even seem like she recognized or acknowledged her son, at all. 🥺
She was blacked out pretty bad. Bet she had no clue what was really going on
@@gordocarbo for sure, you’re probably right.
i didn’t even notice that at first… absolutely disgraceful. that poor little boy
Yall are such space cadets. This is clearly a younger child who was already at home. She had no reaction to him cause she's seen his lil butt all day. He probably answered the door & stood by cops till mom came out.
@@LivBlanks did you even watch this video?😂😂😂😂🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
She sounds like she’s about to tell me she’s always hated chocolate
Some people shouldn't be allowed to have kids.
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I am more confused with HOW? WHO? WHO WOULD EVER?
I forget the name but basically all the people who shouldn’t have kids have them at a exorbitant rate.
Most women shouldn't.
I’m shocked that anyone would even do her !,
The kid saying "she doesn't know time" shows this is a regular thing with her.
Exactly …poor kids who have bad parents just unfair for them
I agree. Devastating
So sad 😢
That’s probably the excuse she tells him when she’s drunk at home all the time.
Which is so f•••ing sad... That is that child's reality..
This is going to be a core memory for the little boy. Poor kid
Maybe maybe not. You can’t help what you’re exposed to, but how you prioritize it is def a choice. If he wants to be broken by this he will. If he wants to know all his school and community cared like this, he will. Hopefully even mom will get off the sauce. It’s not impossible. Quit writing little kids off this early in the game.
@@animula6908 true. But I was raised by an alcoholic. My life isn’t messed up because of it … but I remember EVERYTHING & so will this kid
I was raised in traumatic households.
It’s part of you.
I take better care of my dog than some do their kids.
She tried to drive off and abandon the boy
Today was the day he starts to become a man and not mamma boy to.. that
@@animula6908 no he will remember this forever it sucks. clearly you dont have such experiences so just keep your theories to yourself
Poor boy. Prayers for him.
I'm so happy the school district contacted the police, This woman needs Serious Help
What else were they supposed to do take the kid home? 😂
They should have called the police sooner. Calling mom 20 times is ridiculous.
@@CR-xt2jj in mississippi it's around 5 calls and like 2-3 hours in mississippi. they gave her way TOO MUCH leniency. If I was a family member I would sue the fuck out of the school.
Forget the female. Take care of the children.
The kid does. Couldn't care less about this 'mother'.
She’s yelling in lowercase
😂😂😂😂
lmfao💀
Screaming
😂
🤣🤣🤣
"How dare you do this, when you have a five year old kid crying because you cant not take care of yourself"
No better words spoken.
Ewww she is creepy, the police have been there before so it’s time to call cps. She’s so drunk or high she can’t even make dinner or breakfast for them. Dad needs to step up and do his job.
@@MarySmith-bc7mf
Sadly, the father is probably long gone.
Four year old was crying cause his mom was getting arrested. She did nothing wrong. Just napped. Fucked up video
@@TarynRMartin Probably. If he were in the picture, I can't imagine she'd still have full/primary custody unless he's somehow even worse.
I can't even begin to think how terrible it must be to be a kid with an alcoholic parent.
Wow! That kid saying she doesn't know time right now...he seen this so many times before. That's sad
Very sad...
That was truly heartbreaking. The little dude deserves so much better.
He said his brother couldn’t tell time. But that mom is a head case poor boys
For that kid its just a wednesday. Sad. Alcohol is brutal.
Pathetic excuse for a mother.
The fact that they already have a protective order against the father makes this even worse. These poor kids don't have one single parent that has it together.
I can bet the father left due to her alcoholism. Tried to take the kids and lost because from what I'm looking at. Is an entitled, self centered, liberal feminist, who most likely gets drunk and yells at her kids.
Looks like the mother was able to stay sober enough to get to a salon for that horrible dye job. Priorities are all messed up.
dont worry you and me (the productive taxpayer sheep) got their backs with our tax dollars their whole life.
@@cyan0xideAnd that's the argument for why abortion should be legal
@@JP-tt8gnA very uncomfortable truth. A world of wanted children would make a world of difference.
Her screams sound like how fighting in a dream feels like.
Perfect analogy 😂 Those weak noodle arm punches in dreams when you're trying so hard to generate power, so frustrating😂😂😂
Exactly! Her voice reminded me of those dreams were i’m being chased by a murderer and I want to scream for help and I literally can’t speak loudly, emotions of frustration and anxiety take over and I make myself wake up.
Perfect description of this. That's exactly what it was reminding me of.
@adostereohead That's happened to me in real life. I dreamt it was going to the week before. I was trying to scream in my sleep, and couldn't. A week later, I was running away from someone trying to scream for help, and couldn't. I was really trying, but man... being out of breath, running, and trying to scream at the same time is something else. I've never seen it portrayed in a movie either, where the person is running so hard, breathing so heavy that they can't run and scream at the same time, no matter how much they try. It sucks.
@@shae9364 omg thats horrible! I’m glad you escaped though! No one deserves anything like that.
Good for that officer for not coddling this terrible mother.
I was arrested last May for intoxication and I'm so glad my son or daughter wasn't there to see that, I'm now 143 days sober. Not going back to that crap!! So sad to see this happen.
Hey, just a stranger and fellow parent in recovery telling you that you're awesome and so proud of your sobriety. :)
My Grandpa quit drinking in 1953 and in doing so changed the entire trajectory of the lives for his kids & grandkids. You are making an incredibly positive choice. Always pick yourself up and stay the path.
I quit drinking two years ago and it caused not a single ripple BECAUSE my Grandpa made the choice he did. He gave my Dad (his son) the example necessary for my Dad to quit drinking as well. And for me. And probably for my kids as well. Keep after it, sir ✊🏻
👏👏👏.
Yay!! Congrats to you!! So proud of you!!! ❤❤❤
You were the worst type of person, and it takes strength to change that. I'm glad you were able to.
Ughh, the little boy is used to his mom's alcoholism. Feel so bad for this kid.
Exactly!!!!!
The kids probably have to put her to bed every night.
He will probably become an alcoholic. He thinks her behavior is normal.
“She doesn’t know time right now” sad
Poor kid. So sad. Where is his father and grandparents? Heard them mention "the dad" then a "PO" so is the dad on probation or parole or is she?
Second time they’ve been out for the same thing and she still has custody. Ain’t that amazing.
Privilege
Yet some families have their children taken off them for minor things, something seems off.
Not really. Services are usually very reluctant to just take kids and throw them in an already overcrowded and broken system.
Their is a massive rabbit hole of crime cases where kids were beaten to death, starved to death, extreme sexual abuse, etc. where CPS visited 5+ times calls from basically everyone but the parent and they never remove them.
This is actually the tamest push I’ve seen for it in a while
😢 No it's not amazing, it's so sad...
@@default178stupidity of the courts !!!!!!!
“She doesn’t know time right now.” Absolutely heartbreaking.
I can’t imagine forgetting to pick up your own kids. It’s not like forgetting to buy milk or pay a bill on time. That’s A LITERAL SMALL HUMAN SHE FORGOT
Edit: I’m seeing a lot of comments from moms admitting to forgetting their kids because of a busy work schedule/early school release, etc. I just want to clarify and say I don’t fault those moms too much because those situations are a lot more understandable. I’m more upset with this woman in particular because she got sloshed for the whole day and forgot her kids.
my dad would get so drunk he would leave me locked in the car overnight at times like all night🤙🤙🤙🤙🤙🤙🤙🤙
We have such a healthy relationship now😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 *insert all the possible sarcasm in the world*
Many years ago my daughter's school kicked out at 3.30pm. I had worked 10 hours that day, got home around 2.30pm, figured I would have a quick nap for 30 minutes, so set an alarm....nope. I slept through and looked at the clock when the post man rattled my letter box, 3.20pm! To say I sprinted to the school is an understatement. Thankfully walking was about 10 minutes from the school, I arrived just as the doors opened. I felt so bad for days after. The idea I could have missed pick up is just to horrible :( They would have been so scared.
@@cn4936 at least you have an excuse as a working parent. This mom told the cops she started drinking after dropping the kids off
What's more shocking is school called her 20 times to pick up her kids. And she didn't want to do it or she was under the influence
I have an alarm set in case I'm busy cleaning (or napping) and I still check the time 100 times in the last half hour of school because I'm scared I'll somehow miss pick up. I can't even imaging this.
"She doesn't know time right now." This speaks volumes.
She talks like I talk in my dreams when I’m trying to ask for help or in danger 😂😂😂 the words won’t come out but I’m trying so hard to speak 🗣️
Omg perfect comparison.. truly my nightmare voice
Omg lol
Yes exactly !
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😂😂❤❤
Why’d they have to do that in front of the kid???
How dare she act self righteous and be in disbelief. She takes zero accountability or responsibility. This is not the cops fault. It's yours. And sadly she'll blame her son.
Imagine dinner time around there . Now I see why kids need free breakfast and lunches .
@@melindasmith3713Jesus Christ you had to see this to fathom why some kids might need free meals at school?
I truly hope she doesn't take this out on the child....
@@IH-wf4zb I mean some people are fortunate enough to not have horrible lives. It's depressing, but it's the truth. Sometimes ignorance is bliss.
When her child said “she doesn’t know time right now.” It literally broke me. 🙁
😢
Just like my childhood 😢 and i have not recovered im in my 40*s.
wow you break really easy. harden up pansy
@@rogerchristensen2741 Almost 60s same. Daily plague
@@gordocarbo Sorry man. It's fucking hard.
Poor nice little boy. He needs a loving family.
I can’t figure out why they’d let their other child see his mother being arrested. That was kinda sh!tty.
I'll take him! I'd be waiting for him to get off the bus everyday and have a snack ready if he needed one. Then we would talk about his day, do homework and play until dinner. Then bath, bed and stories. I think I miss being a Mom.
@karenscoville6307
I wouldn't even let him go to any state school. What, so they can indoctrinate him with gender rubbish?? No, I would be his stay at home mother, homeschool him, cook him three hot from scratch meals every day. Because that's what I do with my children. I'm a stay at home, homeschooling mother.
@@ChicaPaquitoYou know what I can’t figure out? Why she didn’t comply knowing she was drunk as fuck AND had a young child in the house. Like the officer said, they had to do that because that grown ass trollazoid can’t take care of herself. Now her kids have to suffer. It’s not the fault of the cops.
@@ChicaPaquito Sometimes it can't be avoided. The mother was going to get in her car to drive drunk, they said, 'Nope sobriety test' and she tried to bail back into her house. At that point police weren't playing anymore and had to take her. Unfortunately young kids are usually up their parents butt and so he was RIGHT there. It is what it is. It's not the police's fault the mother did what she did and caused them to arrest her.
Seeing the bruises covering her arms and legs shows the extent of her alcohol abuse.
Yes,I noticed that too.
Falling over everything
@@barneslatasha1923falling over everything, yes, but extensive alcohol abuse affects everything from your organs to your blood vessels (and how easily they can rupture or cause a bruise). Bruising is often seen with liver or kidney failure as well, often brought on by alcoholism.
Spills all over her shirt, hair a damn mess… I’m positive she hasn’t showered in days, if not weeks. She is a disaster
@@hyacinthmoon6289 wow, I learned something new today, thank you.
"She doesn't know time right now."
That's heartbreaking. 💔
It aggravates and grieves me to watch these types of videos where children are the ones who are hurt and traumatized at the hands of their parents’ direct negligence and irresponsibility.
The only thing going for her, these officers and ppl watching this, is the fact that she has lost her voice. Thank GAAAWWDD
This woman is a disgrace. It's absolutely disgusting that she did this in front of her child. Get that child out of that house!
She's just an average american woman, I don't see anything abnormal about her...
@@Alfred-Neumanyour stupidity is frightning
Every one of us can end up here. Try not to judge too harshly. You may be very surprised to find yourself here, at some point in your life. We are all one to two hardships away from slipping down this slope.
If the child walked home and took responsibilty for himself. None of this wouldve happened. Hope he survives the foster system lol
@@mr.blonde5344 not anyone. just people with no self control or discipline. Hardships? what are you talking about hardships? look at her big beautiful house and new car. I don't see any hardships there...
The faces she was making made me think of Nikocado avocado
I was laughing when she first came to the door she looks a hot mess… the situation not funny tho
EXACTLY even the mouth clicks
Totally! And the shape fits too + tantrum
nooo😂😂😂😂😂
STOP. I knew it looked familiar lmao I’m all trying to figure it out
Every child deserves parents, but not all parents deserve children.
Aint that the truth.
100 % !!!!
Well said
Facts!! 💯
Amen!!!!
"She doesn't know time right now" that kid is very bright and deserves better
I feel so horrible for that little boy. He has to suffer because his mother would rather get drunk. That child deserves better.
Her mother knows nothing but getting drunk. When you fall down the rabbit hole of alcoholism you can’t do anything. She needs support and detox. May this video be a lesson to look back and see how she hurts her children
I watched my drunk parent getting handcuffed too many times. He gave alcohol up completely when I was 10 and our family was so much better off
Asshole cops should not have brought him to the door without checking out the situation first.
No child should have to witness their parent being taken away. I blame all adults for traumatizing & putting the child last. What an idiotic member of the Blue Gang, for NOT isolating the poor child 1st. Sickening.
@eliz, Theres more then one kid
Why does someone like her still "take care" of a CHILD ??????
Exactly
I'd like to know the same thing, how do alcoholics and crack heads keep a decent house and take care/keep custody of their kids
Why is she his only caregiver? They don't have family support, big chance she could be the last one in her Bloodline left. Or Nobody cared for her, so she doesn't know how to care for others.
Because the people they hang out with are just as bad a parent as they are if they have kids too or there are family members that don't know what's going on in the house.
Because she's a woman. And they take it easy on women
Leaving the kids in her care would be child endangerment
Her voice keeps making me want to clear my throat lol 😂
I feel so bad for that boy. I can’t believe a mom would be drunk and not pick up her kid from school. Of course it may be a blessing that she didn’t show up as drunk as she is.
Hearing that poor babys cries just broke me.
And you’re absolutely right, had she gotten into her car in her intoxicated state a lot worse could have happened to her, her child or someone else!
I agree! Also when the kid said “she doesn’t know what time it is” that was also heartbreaking because this has probably happened before.
Your heart just breaks for the kids. What a rough start to life for them.
She isn't a " mom " ...
I'll just bet the school called because she had been to that school drunk before and they couldn't prove it.
As a now alcohol free person, this makes me so sad. I hope she truly makes an effort to get sober.
Me too addiction sucks. I hope for her and her children's sake she gets help congratulations on your sobriety 💪
Even as an alcoholic I don't drink myself silly when I've got my kid. Congratulations on your sobriety, it shows you have the strength alot of people don't have when it comes to drink, if you can't handle or moderate your consumption, put the bottle down and walk away...stuff like this happens because people don't have the strength to admit that they're trapped or lack the self awareness to be responsible.
I'm starting over again. One of my new strategies is to watch videos like this to remind myself of why I want to be sober. I don't want to live like this anymore. I get secondhand embarrassment watching videos like this, thinking back on all the times I've acted like a complete idiot and made a fool of myself. It's not worth it.
I don't drink either, but not because I was an alcoholic. I just never cared for the feeling of alcohol. It's a miserable drug in my opinion, and I'm not at all sure why it's our society's legal drug of choice. It either makes people rowdy or depressed, it impairs your motor skills, tastes like garbage, you feel like shit the next day, and trouble follows it like the plague.
I've always been thankful I don't like it.
@@chris101wardyes exactly!
personally, i don’t think they should’ve brought the child back home to witness them deal with his mom. he didn’t need that on top of every else he’s probably seen and been through
They didn't. It's not like they can control the fact that her other kid is at home with her.
I don't think they envisioned she would be this messed up.
I think she had one at home with her as well, the first child at school seemed older than 5
@@AParticularlyConcernedCitizenya the kid at school went to visit Sawyer.
how would they know that she’s drunk?? not the cops fault
Couldn't be worse. Appreciate the effort in this video. Tks guys.
Oh gosh... that poor child when she started to get arrested. Broke my heart.
DoorDash having an alcohol ad on this video is wild.
I wouldn't know, I don't have ads, UA-cam premium baby LOL.
Where the ads go aren't chosen by the advertisers youtube chooses ads for you based on your online interactions. You got a Doordash ad because you order food, Doordash didn't "put an ad for alcohol on this vid"
@@youngspaghettii I have never used doordash, I'm also a recovering alcoholic so they've clearly got it all wrong.
@@youngspaghettii as a recovering alcoholic who cooks at home, I can certainly say they got this one wrong.
@@love420smoke what do you not get ? You won't get ads for things you don't engage in. If you don't buy alcohol online or search for it you won't get alcohol related ads. It's not how ads work these days. It's a similar algorithm for how they choose what goes on YOUR homepage but they actually work with Google to include all your internet data when choosing ads. They do this because you are simply more likely to interact with an ad based on your interests. And advertisers pay youtube out more for clicks on their ad than they do for just showing it to someone. This is why it works that way. Doordash did not "put an ad" on this video. Not how it works
I know a woman who was arrested at her kids elementary school. She showed up wasted to pick her two sons up early to take them to a doctors appointment. Like wtf was her plan? She was slurring words, trouble with coordination and reeked of alcohol. Parents need to do better. I know life is hard, but if you have kids you’ve just got to deal.
You're so right.
I just don't get that. I was a n active alcoholic from my senior year of highschool all the way until I graduated from law school, but I never got sloppy like this. I drank enough to feel good and that was all I needed. I never blacked out or passed out in the middle day. I never even raised my voice to my wife or child.
I think it helps that I my father was a happy drunk. He always had a bourbon in his hand but he was the nicest man I had ever met, and he provided his family with a life of leisure and luxury. People shouldn't be using alcohol as a way to wallow in their own misery and self-pity. Theres nothing sadder than a miserable drunk.
I worked in the office when my son was in elementary school, and we had it happen a couple of times (that we knew of).
Pray the woman gets the help she needs. So sad that her son will be placed in foster care. I can’t imagine continuing this behavior and risking losing children
That’s Why there’s a Difference between Breeding and Parenting!!
Yes! Fantastic comment. 👏🏼
Lmao! So true
Yeah, every living thing breeds.. Looking at this mess here, animals birds and insects do a far better parenting job.
Facts
She's very hillbilly, so it's definitely "breeding."
As a fellow parent of a kid around the same age, hearing that young voice say "she doesnt know time right now" hurts so bad.
As a parent of five children this is just sicking and really hurts my soul. The kid crying for his mom made me so bad for that child
It really does
I agree my sons four and I could never 😭
It really is sad and heartbreaking 😢
I don't know how she would forget to pick her child up from school. It's the highlight of my day. Sometimes the moms and I go out for a mimosa or 2 after we drop the kids off. We get breakfast and have mom social hour but 1-2 at most and done and it's only once a month. I could never get drunk and do this to my child.
She's blaming everyone other than herself for this mess. "He needs to walk home" is horrible. Those poor kids.
That's what some kids would do. Just walk home. It's a sad reality for some kids.
It's hard to accept... that's why she needs help.
That's what addicts do! Blame everyone and anyone but themselves.
Walking towards a vehicle after the police say they can smell alcohol on you is ridiculous
After drinking a bottle of vodka, it's safe to say that you might not have your best thinking cap on.
Shout-out to Educators and School Staff. They definitely helped make this experience for this poor kid a bit less awful for him.
„She does not know time right now“ The boy knew exactly what state she was in. I hope that she gets and takes help and so does the boy!!
That poor child is way too used to this
We are all that way, until we are shown cifferemt.
Thank goodness, the kids were left with a trusted neighbor who was also a teacher at the school. Putting kids in the car of total strangers is very traumatic.
Oftentimes teachers or staff will take them if permitted. We had this sadly happen a lot at my school
I hate this! I lost mine due to SUD and being late picking them up🥹grandma had em for too long. Mom guilt is so real and so hard 😢 We’re all together now! A grandma too:) live my granddaughter and grateful I’m sober to see her everyday!
Kudos on the officer for saying “this is my second time dealing with you in this condition, HOW DARE YOU”
That voice is something out of a nightmare 🥴 those poor babies. I feel bad for her children!
Sure might have a bad cold. Or throat cancer. But because she's coughing I think she might be ill. That really can happen to all of us. And funny enough, alcohol desinfects the throat quite well.
I was thinking it might be from drinking alcohol but idk
Literal nightmare fuel
I think she's been drinking and singing all day and lost her voice
@@prunabluepepper thanks for this, her voice was actually pissing me off
The child saying “she doesn’t know time right now” is so heartbreaking 💔 They know when mom acts this way she doesn’t know how to act appropriately anymore 😢 What a crappy way to live. Poor kids
Really sad to arrest her in front of the child.
My God! How does she even have custody of a child?! She's a hot mess!
Yeah, i hope they take him away from her for good, she's not a fit person!!
Apparently,forgot her birthing control on occasion also. Poor kids.and,they are only the ones we See here. 😢
I'm stuck on how she ever got pregnant in the first place. I mean a man would have to mount her and she's not looking very "mountable" to me.
Unfortunately, this appears to be in BA, Oklahoma... Oklahoma has had horrrrrrrible child protective laws and they also said it was her second time being called for a similar incident... it's unfortunate for these kids who have to go through the system due to these negligent parents💔
Patriarchal male privilege strikes again 🤷♂️
Coming up on 1 year sober. Hopefully this is her wake-up call. Presence of Mind is so valuable.
Congratulations on your coming up on a year ! Its not easy.
@@mamaj6028 Thank you 👍
Congrats !!!!!! Keep fighting the good fight !!!😊
Hey congratulations. I know it's not easy to make that life change, you are a better person for it. Good luck and there are always a lot of people rooting for you. ❤
Great job! 🎉
This is the exact situation that happened to me as a child. My father was passed out drunk forgot us at school, police came to the house and seen the condition it was in and we got taken away and placed with new families, best thing that could have happened for me. I am grateful for my adoptive family
Placement doesn’t usually have a happy ending like that, unfortunately.
Other kids aren't so lucky foster care can be more abusive than the homes they come for.
@@HernandezJanyeah from everyone i ever met that was in foster care said it ruined their lives forever. most still find contact w their original parents later in life. Still happy to hear a good outcome though.
@@cheetowtf3930 I definitely got lucky, my adoptive parents were really loving and somewhat well off, I was able to go to a good private school and had everything I ever wanted, I was definitely fortunate I had a good outcome because yes usually it doesn’t work out
Cops took me from school too, went through so much abuse in care, saw so much and can never unsee it
Growing up with an alcoholic parent myself, I can vouch for how terrible of a life that child will have. Drunk driving, mean words constantly spewed bc they’re in their own world n it’s usually an angry world. Parent missing important milestones, child not supported at school bc school will report it, having to raise siblings, growing up at a bar stool or liquor store for memories. This lady truly has no clue of the longevity of harm she’s causing. That shit affects my life to this current day at 39 yrs old n bc of all this, I can’t go enjoy a glass of wine after work bc I absolutely despise alcohol 🤬🤬
Mannnn I hate to hear children go through this. Those cries should be a wake up call to leave the alcohol alone and be a mother.
This isn't the first rodeo according to the policeman. Maybe social services needs to step in to protect the kids.
She’s very far gone and needs to be in a rehab facility most likely.
She needs to go to rehab
I really hope that CPS gets involved with this family
Where is the dad ?
God bless the principal of that school for caring enough about her students to do the right thing.
Most schools are not allowed to close up and leave until every child is picked up.
Why would your imaginary God bless this principle but decide not bless any of the 1,000 children who will die today from starvation? Use your head before you say silly crap🤡
When they told the kid that his mom wasn't feeling good he didn't even question it at all. He knew exactly what that meant.
When they said Child Protective Service was on the way she said good when they said your are going to jail she said Why! A unfit mother 😢
The school has been trying to reach her for 4HOURS! Twenty phone calls to her. It was after 4 when the officers showed up at her home that meant she was to pick him up around noon!!! And this was the second time that one officer had to go to her home for the same reason and he found her in the same condition!!! That PO, protection order against the father needs to be looked into and custody of those boys need to be reviewed based on her actions and self proclaimed “ I am an alcoholic, I own it. I have been in treatment several times. “ Hopefully the father is more stable than the mom and only has PO because of the anger or spite of mom about the separation/divorce. How she got custody of the children if she has a history of alcohol abuse with several failed rehabilitation attempts is beyond me.
4 hours, or for hours?
This reminds me of the couple of times in junior high we got back late from a track meet, only to realize my parents were the only ones not in the school parking lot to pick me up with our home 20 miles away in a rural area. One of the times one of the coaches waited with me until about 3 a. m. when they finally answered the phone and came to get me, and lucky he did because we stayed warm sitting in his truck with the heater on as it was about 30-40 degrees outside. The other time, I sat out in the athletics parking lot until early hours of the morning until I saw our van pull into the parking lot. Growing up like this has made me the accountable father I am for my daughter today.
Yeah, same. Luckily my mom didnt have custody but did have visitation on Saturdays. I still remember having to be quiet till her 'headaches' stopped and she could wake up at noon and get some 'juice'. I'm 38 now and looking back I can see how bad this kind of thing affects your life. These types of parents really dont give af how they're impacting their kids lives
Why didn't he drive you home instead of sitting in the truck.
Congrats!!
Omg, your story just made me cry, how sad. I'm sorry, u had a childhood like that, u deserved better!!! Congrats 👏 on being a dependable parent!!!!
@@patriciasouthward8582 I guess due to the fear of pissing dad off, you didn’t dare do that or you payed for it.
Imagine how neglected this poor boy is on a day to day basis. Nutrition, medical, dental, scholastics - I bet he absolutely fends for himself. Where's this boy's FATHER. That's what I want to know.
She probably drove him off with her crazy and lied and cried to the family court judge
@@spicyavo3929 It's probably against her
@@sharonrigs7999Sharon, what the eff is wrong with you? You have a hateful soul.
@@sharonrigs7999let's not make excuses for fathers. He's just as much a piece of $hit for letting this happen to his child. Y'all really make any and every excuse for the man EVERY TIME
@@ashleyadeline1537 first of all you have no idea what's going on. I have a 15 year old daughter whom right now I havent seen in almost a month because her mother brainwashed her. I'm in the process of taking her back to court