My best friend is straight and sometimes she makes my heart melt in a way that simultaneously breaks it. Then I have to remind myself that I’m fortunate to be loved by her in any form, even if it’s platonic.
Ya see the thing is. . . I thought the same thing yet ended up making out with her (started the new year with a bang)... We didn't really label it cause she has commitment issues and technically a BF (boyfriend)... We said it was fun but idk if anything else will come of it. If anything I'm glad she was my first kiss and even though she "doesn't" leave marks she left a few on my collarbone and neck. So I have some hope if anything... That was like 2 days ago too. We're texting like normal and I get the feeling she doesn't wanna go back to that subject even if I am moving in with my aunt who leaves about 6 hours away (Texas is huge guys)... regardless I know I have some growing up to do in order to be a good match for her or anyone else. I still don't have my driver's license and other adult stuff that is needed to feel like a responsible adult. But I did surprise her with how affectionate I was XD Kissed her so hard her lips got bruised and swollen (she didn't mind) and left a few live bites on her too. If we hadn't been tipsy who knows what else would've happened XD Even sober we made out. So yeah I do have some hope if anything.... 😁😆😁
My grandmas funeral was last night. Everything is hard right now. Today we lay her to rest and in really sad. But Abbey your music is that Ray of sunshine I needed today, thank you
this is amazing. I just cut off ties with my best friend who I am in love with because it was becoming toxic. Then this popped up and I started crying... I’ll miss him.
Its Nashii I’m so sorry you are going through that! I can understand your pain and I pray your heart will heal quickly. “One of the hardest things you will ever have to do, my dear, is to grieve the loss of a person who is still alive” ~ Unknown
I dont know if i should feel happy or sad. For 4 years, i was the boyfriend of my best friend. We were best friends for like 3 years before that.... and i can say, we did had a PERFECT relationship... like seriously, at this age (21) i would guess the mature thing is to accept “Perfect relationships doesnt exist...” but i had one. No fights, no arguments. Sometimes we disagree in a couple of stuffs but never ended in a fight or ANYTHING.... I guess that was because she was my first relationship, i was her first relationship, both had an irreal image of what a relationship was.... both tried our best to get that irreal relationship.... and i think, thats why we made it. With any other girl it could had ended in a toxic relationship because i was willing l give EVERYTHING to her... but she did the same for me, so it was a circle where i was always there for her and her for me... It makes me happy to remember those times. But a the same time, it makes me sad.... it have beeing 3 years since we broke up because my dad was transfered to another country. We tried, but the distance was too much... and we both got different personal troubles, and so we didn’t had time anymore to keep talking more than 10 minutes a day, then 5, then a couple of messages.... Idk, i already let her go. A year ago i was still thinking about her every single night, but even if i moved on.... im scared i will never have something like that again. Because, i mean.... how many chances someone have to get into a perfect relationship? Im aware that was one in a million.... and i dont think i will be that lucky again
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you know what to look for, better than most, intuitively, having seen the signs yourself firsthand if anybody can hit the jackpot just going with the flow, its you
@ Thanks a lot!!! I mean a lot. I have been in a similar kind of situation and naturally i was afraid of the same thing and then i read your reply. It so makes sense. Thank you random stranger.
Reach out to her what do you have to lose ? But stalk her social media first to make sure she’s nit dating . I don’t think you get that lucky twice . I mean you can but it won’t be the same it’ll be a different love.. not bad just different
@@weekendnomad5038 Last time i hear from her around 6 months after our break up, she was indeed dating someone. And, welp, it has been almost 4 years know.... it wouldnt be quite awkward? She is not the type of girl who actually uses social media. I mean she have, in private, but is most likely she dont use them to upload something.
It’s currently 12:45 am and I’m crying because of all these problems in my life, but the one thing that brought me happiness on this lonely Saturday night is seeing abbey post :)
I Met my best friend in kindergarten/preK and I started having feelings for her in 6th grade but Moved across the country in 7th grade So I Gave up on ever being with her. I Suddenly decide to ask her out because what did I have to lose, I had had a bad relationship a year before and had finally moved on and realized I still wanted to be with her. She tells me She's liked me back the whole time and now I'm now the happiest I've ever been and get to listen to this song with her ♥️ Sadly we still live on the opposite side of the country but for only a few more years luckily! Love you so much Maddie if you ever see this
“Can we float like feathers falling softly towards one another?” I fricken love this line.. this whole song is amazing, as are all the other ones. Keep it up!! You’re amazing!!
I was secretly in love with my best friend, and it’s funny that I’m now listening to this, because story time: the best friend that I was in love with died of suicide, and the date that this video was released was literally a day before he left... except it was the one year anniversary. He passed 18/8/2018 I never told him how I felt..sometimes i wonder what if I did...but he’s gone now and I feel like my heart will always regret not telling him. He died in silence and somehow, so did I... I really appreciate you Abbey for singing your heart out for us. To me. Because this song, the lyrics are what my heart was trying to tell him the whole time I was with him. When he was still here. Thank you💙so much.
I have been going through the toughest emotional rollercoaster since I didn't get the chance to say anything to the mother of my children and It's taken me so long just to be able to go through all of our old pictures of it s
I hope you shall meet again on the other side, whatever that would mean, love you both, even though I know neither of you two. Love is pure. Love is endless. Love is eternal.
Yo I got shivering down my back because I've never heard a story similar to mine before. I fell in love with my best friend 2 years ago. We had a secret relationship because I grew up in a homophobic school & family. After 4 months in a relationship, I couldn't take all this stress. She began to become such an abusive partner. At the time, I already had a therapist because I've been suffering from depression and social anxiety for years. All she did was making my life worse and I decided to leave her. It was very fucked up, because somehow, I still loved her so much more than just a best friend. Well, and right after I left her, a few days later, I went to my first concert ever. Felt like I was away from all the troubles for just one night. I felt so happy and free. For just one night tho. Because.. 2 days after the concert, she commited suicide and told every one in school that I'm the reason if she dies soon. She deleted all her WhatsApp chats except mine and hung herself right at that place, where I decided to break up with her. The police was in front of my door while I was in school recieving the message she passed away by the school therapist and that I have to go to the police station in a few days because they thought I helped her with her suicide plan (?) (Idk how to say it in English, I apologize, I'm from Germany). But I didn't do anything ofc and there are enough proofs for that. I was only 14 years old when all of this happened and I still had to go to that exact same school. The bullying got worse and people started calling me murder, spittin on me, judging me, etc. I had to go to the psychiatry a few months later and I wanted to fuckin die and get away from my depression, post-traumatic stress, anxiety, panic attacks, etc. But in the psychiatry, I met the love of my life. Prolly the most fucked up love story you've ever heard, ain't it? After all the shit I've been through, I thought I'll never be able to fall in love again. But then I met her and she proved me wrong.. I've never been this happy in my life and I'm so fuckin proud of myself. This showed me that love can heal anything. I had the urge to share my story with you guys. Especially when I heard your story. That's so heart-breaking and I'm soso sorry for you. :( If you need someone to talk to, you can contact me. I think we can understand each others perspective pretty well.
Same !! More to see how it goes! lol I shot my shot w my best friend of 4 years .. 3 weeks later we were dating. It’s been two months now and I’m praying for the best :/
@@connorcountryman4178 i- bruh why are you so negative? they just wanted to share a cute thing, why do you automatically assume they're lying, even if they ARE there's no point in saying it? this isn't a far out thing
Can you please release the chords? I wanna play this live for my best friend. Update: It didn't work out. 😓 I'm sorry if I'm disappointing y'all. I'm upset, too. They said they see me too much as a friend.
I really enjoy the vibe of this song and would like to use it in some of my art projects (I will give credit of course), would that be alright with you?
My chest hurts over someone I cant have.. She knows how I feel, and she feels the same, but her bf on the other hand.. Watching her just get ready for a tiktok is enough to make me smile so much I cry, just blown away by how amazing she is- her creativity, her sense of humor, the confidence and sass, her gorgeous self all wrapped up in the moment of being her.. I dont wanna take her time, i just want to be apart of it..
I finally confessed to my best friend of 8 years and she said she felt the same way.. I can finally listen to this song without my heart aching :')) ❤️
not enough people are pointing out that while yes the song itself is beautiful, you can see the years of characterization. You can see the happiness and and sorrow in just the littlest ways abbeys eyes twitch
Oh my lord your voice make me so happy and sad at the same time because it's so pretty and way better than mine and i just- i love you, Abbey. Please accept my love because you're precious and deserve it
Moria HIHIHI I like my best friend, I told her and she said she felt the same way but 1 she wasn’t ready for another relationship, 2 she didn’t wanna ruin our friendship but I can’t help but get butterflies and blush when I think of her
Fuckkkkk! After what happened I never felt the same excitement of having a crush or falling in love. I have a friend and I told him that I have a crush to someone. After a few weeks they started dating each other.
48yr old northern Brit, looking around UA-cam to find tunes that even begin to express the connection I have to a dear friend, one I love very much. This song is perfect, just perfect. Thank you, you special Cupid pixie xx
There are no words I can say to you to bring them back, but I can tell you... I know it hurts... I know it feels like the pain never will end, but I swear to you, if you fight through the pain there will always be better days I promise. I know it hurts... I know, I hope you see this. I promise the pain ends, it will get better, you were made to love and be loved
I always had a hard life. I grew up in a toxic place, but every once in a while I would have happy and good days. Those good memories kept me going. As I got older, the worse it got. Even with everything going on, I was still able to keep going. I was pretty strong willed, but as I left to college, I found myself lost. I fell into this hole that I cannot come out of. Every day, I wake up only to fight against this war that is going on inside me, but lately I keep getting defeated. I feel like it's impossible for me to keep fighting anymore, but what helps me keep going these days is your music. It calms me down and brings me happiness, which is what I need. Thank you Abbey, from the bottom of my heart♡
I'm in similar situation, i used to always have really challenging and difficult problems, now my life is 10 times better than ever, but I'm not, it's like I'm used to problems that i can't feel simple life anymore and I'm always analyzing everything cz now i have time, and it's getting worse and worse
@@a_lesbian_feminist147 yes, actually. Me and her are a couple now... I miss her, actually... But tomorrow we both have school so, we can't see each other... T_T
You put so much emotion and passion into your songs. Your songs have so much meaning than most genres i listen too, i relate to your songs so much. you're the light we need in our lives , you brighten my heart and life up when im upset or depressed of something that i have been through and i can't thank you enough for not making me feel alone when i need someone. You're always there for anyone and i love that. I cannot thank you enough for what you do and how much impacted you have put in my life. Thank you abbey! ❤
For the past 7 years I've been In love with my best friend, he knows it but he doesn't love me back... Sometimes I wish he would and cry, I've wrote songs and poems for him, I've been there for him thought the good and bad and I always will. 'cause he means everything to me.
That thing ate me down to the bone marrow, still hurt me through my very soul because I still have those genuine feelings about her even if years have passed I'm still here for her, but I feel pretty much like dead now, I tried to change but... I think I will be forever in pain depression and obsession
Somtimes, you need to look for yourself. If u cant keep him as a friend... the best choice its to let him go, try to move on, and when u think u already are free of that feeling, recover the relationship. Is not a bad thing, yes you will miss your friend.... buts thats the best way to move on, and to be happy with a love that wasn’t made for you
@@sunmal1599 thank you. I'm trying to let go what I feel. It's been 8 months since he got away, I miss him lots but I'm trying to give him his space, if he wants to recover the friendship I'll be here. But first I have to heal and learn to let go. Thank you so much for your advice.
@@pHantompOeta You are welcome. We I can say i've beeing if both sides of the story... so i know how it feels. Just remember, take as much time as u need before come back to that friendship. Even if it takes a couple of months more, its worth so both can keep being happy without troubles! ^^
I reunited with my best friend from 20 years ago. We refuse to lose each other again and this song perfectly encapsulates all the strong feelings that have come. Absolutely beautiful and this song always brings a smile to my face.
I know dude, I'm only 13 but when my bestfriend broke up with me that was by far the worst pain iv ever felt inside. I try to convince myself I dont need him but in all reality I fucking miss him 😔💔
Chestnutty me too ... it hurts so much cause I pictured my whole life , being with her and just caring for her and sharing memories Maybe even a home someday ... :( it’ll get better. Keep your head up. We got this.
Abbey, I discovered your music on UA-cam a year or two ago and I can honestly say, you offer an immeasurable amount of comfort with your magically soothing voice and moving lyrics. Thank you for sharing your talent with so many of us who appreciate what you do.
I just discovered your music today... It made me cry if I'm being honest. I've never listened to any song before and went wow. She really puts her all into her music, and uses her life choices and events to influence that. I've never in my life listened to an artist and went wow, she really understands me. She really understands how I'm feeling. Until I heard you sing. So thank you.
We were best friends, shared our deepest pains... Then we became lovers... We broke up, I don't even remember why... But we remained best friends... She started dating someone else, I don't want to know who it is or how.... All I know is I still love her and it sucks... 💔
Plot twist, we are now best friends. She knows I still love her and she loves me too, we are in this weird situation where we can't date each other but still close as ever. What's worse is that she sometimes posts the dudes pics on her status sometimes, they broke up some months ago. Though it still makes me jealous, but I shouldn't be
So I recently lost my best friend of 6 years. I have loved her for the 4 years. She never noticed. She left me because I knew her and who she truly was. She did like that. She doesn't see that for the past for years her words were my Bible. She doesn't see that I would take a bullet for her. Hell I would allow her to pull the trigger and not be mad. She doesn't see that I love her and know who she is by herself and with others. She doesn't see that I love her with my entire being. She doesn't see that she is literally ripping my heart out and stomping it on the ground. She doesn't see that I just wanted to hold her, kiss her, make her feel like she is the queen of the world. She doesn't notice anything of that. And it kills me everyday. I love her so much and she doesn't love me back.
I am going through the same thing my dude. It makes me sad to see that others go through this too. I am so sorry. If u want someone to talk to about that can relate or is going through the same thing I am here.
You have to realize in life, you have to let things do it's course, Even though you may or may not make it apparently obvious that you are willing to do anything for her, you can't make people love you, and they certainly don't owe you anything, you're a great friend and you may always be in that position, if you are in a friendship and are thinking " I'm doing all of these great things for her, she owes me love as well for these things" then I have some bad news for you my friend. My ex girlfriend who I still love very much, a month ago said to me "I love you but I'm not in love with you" and it tore my fucking heart out. But I realized that in the longrun and this can apply to anyone is that if you truly care and love someone its not so much about when/what can I get in return its all about loving them enough to let them go and see them happy, even if its without you. It's life. You'll learn. Cheers
If she didn't like you seeing her for who she truly was .... possibly she didn't like you telling her who she is or should be. It's Not your place to tell someone who they are, and never will be. That's not friendship, that's control. Maybe she left because she just wanted a friend, not a lover or a correction. Be more accepting of who she wants to be and she may return. She didn't rip your heart out, you did, and she did what she felt was right for her and by doing that you felt hurt because she didn't want that control. Things have to run their course. Like water takes that path of least resistance she also did such. You resisted and she went with a smoother path. Be you and let her be her. If she liked you for you then like her for who ever she wants and desires to be. You can't tell someone who they are. You like them for who ever they are. But you seem very young. Use this as a learning experience and be better for the experience.
Your music always makes me cry in a good way. I also love your aesthetic sm. I can't wait to hear more, and I wish you the best of luck with your music
Ohhhh my god , other music ahhhhhh my heart ♥️♥️♥️♥️ I love you Abbey ♥️💚💚♥️ I love your's Music's Ahhh😍♥️ Sorry my english again , I From The Brazil , Sorry repeat .
i just woke up and?? my heart is fluttering? oh abbey, how did u know that i'm... kinda liking.. one of my best friends...? we're going out on the tuesday, and i hope that i can kiss her... thank you for this song, you look stunningly beautiful, and so does your voice! 💖💓💗
I know this song was written for another person, but when I listen to it, I just imagine loving myself and growing old with myself and protecting her and giving her the world. To me, this song feels like falling in love with yourself.
i just recently found your channel and i'm already in love with your music and voice, i especially love this song the tune is just so relaxing and makes my heart flutter. In other words keep doing what you do and make some more amazing music! :)
i want to send this amazing song to my best friend but i am also afraid i can ruin our friendship ;~; but i've never felt so much love towards anyone , i want her to know about it. what am i supposed to do ;~;
just read the other comments saying that they lost their friend before they can say so what im trying to say is that don't be afraid go and tell her or him
When she smiled at me I fell straight to my knees Begging, please be my baby tonight Can I hold your hand? As we walk down the beach On the soft, soft, soft, soft sand Can we be best friends in love, dear? Can we grow old together? I wanna be by your side For the years and years to come Can we fall like feathers? Falling softly for one another I wanna be here for you Through the good and the bad, my love When she first kissed me I felt my heart beat And I thought that my heart was broken You must've fixed it Show me what true love is And I'll never let you down Can we be best friends in love, dear? Can we grow old together? I wanna be by your side For the years and years to come Can we fall like feathers? Falling softly for one another I wanna be here for you Through the good and the bad, my love I'll lift you up so high That for the first time in your life You'll feel like You'll feel like you can touch the sky I'll lift you up so high That for the first time in your life You'll feel like You'll feel like you can touch the sky Can we be best friends in love, dear? Can we grow old together? I wanna be by your side For the years and years to come Can we fall like feathers? Falling softly for one another I wanna be here for you Through the good and the bad, my love I wanna be here for you Through the good and the bad, my love 💕
you really made me cry but in a good way because now i have the confidence to tell my parents im lesbian yet im scared but im going to do it i love you and who ever is lucky enough to date you i have something to tell them please protect her with all you have and never make her sad ok love you
I've listened to a lot of good songs tonight, but this is the most honest and uplifting. What a voice! And great ukulele. Beautiful song and performance. Totes impressed.
I risked it all confessing my love to my best friend a year ago, and now I’m the moments that I feel sad the most and miserable she still here by my side....comforting me I couldn’t ask for more..
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Perfect song for someone in love with their best friend, thank you❤️✨ Please pin me, love you lots❤️
i feel you :((💗
I love ur tattoos
Chords ?
I fell in love with my best friend... and after a year, he fell in love with me too! (I wish you all the best, and good patience and LUCK)
I totally agree with you this would probably be something that I'd play to my best friend.
My best friend is straight and sometimes she makes my heart melt in a way that simultaneously breaks it. Then I have to remind myself that I’m fortunate to be loved by her in any form, even if it’s platonic.
Same
Mmhmm
So relatable . Made my day . Thanks.
Ya see the thing is. . . I thought the same thing yet ended up making out with her (started the new year with a bang)... We didn't really label it cause she has commitment issues and technically a BF (boyfriend)... We said it was fun but idk if anything else will come of it. If anything I'm glad she was my first kiss and even though she "doesn't" leave marks she left a few on my collarbone and neck. So I have some hope if anything... That was like 2 days ago too. We're texting like normal and I get the feeling she doesn't wanna go back to that subject even if I am moving in with my aunt who leaves about 6 hours away (Texas is huge guys)... regardless I know I have some growing up to do in order to be a good match for her or anyone else. I still don't have my driver's license and other adult stuff that is needed to feel like a responsible adult. But I did surprise her with how affectionate I was XD Kissed her so hard her lips got bruised and swollen (she didn't mind) and left a few live bites on her too. If we hadn't been tipsy who knows what else would've happened XD Even sober we made out.
So yeah I do have some hope if anything.... 😁😆😁
i felt that in my soul
My grandmas funeral was last night. Everything is hard right now. Today we lay her to rest and in really sad. But Abbey your music is that Ray of sunshine I needed today, thank you
Winter Luna I am so sorry for your loss!
"When you lose someone you love, you gain an angel you know." - Unknown
Sorry for your loss Luna
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I’m so very sorry for your loss. R.I.P. to your grandma. I hope you’re ok. Sending love and hugs.❤️
I feel you my grandms died too and I'm sorry for your loss
It’s crazy how one song can instantly make you feel some kind of way. This is beautiful.
Yes
Goosebumps😘
The nostalgia I felt listening to this is enough to make me cry honestly I love her. I hope she doesn't stop creating
Best songs are found by accident, this was one of those accidents
accidents happen in the heat of passion jimbo
One of those "happy little accidents"
🖤Can't agree more
A Beautiful accident 🌸
There are no accidents - Oogway, Master
@@vitormatheus7183 there are no accidents
Just woke up from a bad night and omg thanks :)
Michael Bernal I’m sorry for ur bad night :( hope u have a wonderful day u deserve it x
Michael Bernal same!!
Same Here...What A Bad Damn Freaking Night 😔
I hope all of you have a better day and night.
I hope all of you have Better nights
this is amazing. I just cut off ties with my best friend who I am in love with because it was becoming toxic. Then this popped up and I started crying... I’ll miss him.
Its Nashii
DONT BE FUQING SAAAAAAAD
SAD HOOMANS ARENT ALLOWED
IN
THIS
PLACE
I am your depressed child 🥺🥺♥️♥️
Its Nashii I’m so sorry you are going through that! I can understand your pain and I pray your heart will heal quickly.
“One of the hardest things you will ever have to do, my dear, is to grieve the loss of a person who is still alive” ~ Unknown
I can relate here. I got cut off. It was toxic because I love her and she doesn’t love me and I can’t let it go.
❤❤
YES I CAN FINALLY LISTEN TO THIS WITHOUT HEARTACHE BC I FINALLY AM TOGETHER WITH THIS AWESOME BEAUTIFUL BEST FRIEND OF MINE
That’s amazing! I hope I can say that soon😢
Edit: she’s aromantic, I’m asexual. That means I still cry when I hear this song.
@pajamas you've done it, my hats of to your mighty achievement
Lol can't relate
Lotte Vos update?
OMG YAYYYY
so i told my best friend that this song was for her and now we're together.. literally crying rn i haven't been able to cry for years
"And she smiled at me" *GOD MY HEART MELTS*
She smiled at me muthafu...ka
@@charlieharjo5268 but she smiled at me at first! XD
We've left the bathroom, I repeat, we have left the bathroom.
You just dont see it
Why do I understand this?
Such a good one.. U got meee :D
HAHAHAHHA thanks for the laugh
ua-cam.com/video/65GxQ5lCl5U/v-deo.html this is indian love song with English translation.... You gon like it❤❤
my girlfriend just broke up with me recently and we are still bestfriend’s, i’m still in love with her, this song is perfect
liLy same but my boyfriend broke up with me 😭
I'm in the same situation buddy 💜 except she's got a boyfriend now too lmao I'm now the weirdo friend who still has feelings :'/
♪ Ebony Rose ♪ omgmetoo lol
I’m in the same situation rn
I dont know if i should feel happy or sad.
For 4 years, i was the boyfriend of my best friend. We were best friends for like 3 years before that.... and i can say, we did had a PERFECT relationship... like seriously, at this age (21) i would guess the mature thing is to accept “Perfect relationships doesnt exist...” but i had one. No fights, no arguments. Sometimes we disagree in a couple of stuffs but never ended in a fight or ANYTHING....
I guess that was because she was my first relationship, i was her first relationship, both had an irreal image of what a relationship was.... both tried our best to get that irreal relationship.... and i think, thats why we made it. With any other girl it could had ended in a toxic relationship because i was willing l give EVERYTHING to her... but she did the same for me, so it was a circle where i was always there for her and her for me...
It makes me happy to remember those times. But a the same time, it makes me sad.... it have beeing 3 years since we broke up because my dad was transfered to another country. We tried, but the distance was too much... and we both got different personal troubles, and so we didn’t had time anymore to keep talking more than 10 minutes a day, then 5, then a couple of messages....
Idk, i already let her go. A year ago i was still thinking about her every single night, but even if i moved on.... im scared i will never have something like that again. Because, i mean.... how many chances someone have to get into a perfect relationship? Im aware that was one in a million.... and i dont think i will be that lucky again
you know what to look for, better than most, intuitively, having seen the signs yourself firsthand
if anybody can hit the jackpot just going with the flow, its you
@ Thanks a lot!!! I mean a lot. I have been in a similar kind of situation and naturally i was afraid of the same thing and then i read your reply. It so makes sense. Thank you random stranger.
Reach out to her what do you have to lose ? But stalk her social media first to make sure she’s nit dating . I don’t think you get that lucky twice . I mean you can but it won’t be the same it’ll be a different love.. not bad just different
@@weekendnomad5038 Last time i hear from her around 6 months after our break up, she was indeed dating someone. And, welp, it has been almost 4 years know.... it wouldnt be quite awkward?
She is not the type of girl who actually uses social media. I mean she have, in private, but is most likely she dont use them to upload something.
Work your ass off. Go back to the country she is, cause you don't fall in love everyday. Do whatever you can to make it worthy.
It’s currently 12:45 am and I’m crying because of all these problems in my life, but the one thing that brought me happiness on this lonely Saturday night is seeing abbey post :)
Same
12:59 am two days later, same boat. Hope you're doing alright, and that things get better for you.
Sometimes, i think that I wouldn't mind being single forever, but this song makes me wanna get married someday.
Catie Pacheco right?
NOOOO...!!! DON'T issa scam
@@charlieharjo5268 i literally said this earlier today
U should check out dodie, I felt the same then I realized how lonely I am
Your music unlocks emotions I’m to scared to admit I have.
I wish I could like this comment more than once cuz it's wayyyyyy too accurate 😂
Yeah when i Listen to her music i actually feel something
Damn so accurate
I Met my best friend in kindergarten/preK and I started having feelings for her in 6th grade but Moved across the country in 7th grade So I Gave up on ever being with her. I Suddenly decide to ask her out because what did I have to lose, I had had a bad relationship a year before and had finally moved on and realized I still wanted to be with her. She tells me She's liked me back the whole time and now I'm now the happiest I've ever been and get to listen to this song with her ♥️ Sadly we still live on the opposite side of the country but for only a few more years luckily!
Love you so much Maddie if you ever see this
wow this gave me courage to ask my best friend . wish me luck.
@@NehaSingh-ty2vk good luck!
@Vedant Kumar thanks! I appreciate it
❤️
@@NehaSingh-ty2vk so how did it went? Are you together now?:))
“Can we float like feathers falling softly towards one another?”
I fricken love this line.. this whole song is amazing, as are all the other ones. Keep it up!! You’re amazing!!
I’ll forever hear this and think of her, but I know it just makes her think of them..
What does S.A.D.B.O.Y. stand for??
Damn I felt that on such a personal level, currently going through that right now
I was secretly in love with my best friend, and it’s funny that I’m now listening to this, because story time: the best friend that I was in love with died of suicide, and the date that this video was released was literally a day before he left... except it was the one year anniversary. He passed 18/8/2018
I never told him how I felt..sometimes i wonder what if I did...but he’s gone now and I feel like my heart will always regret not telling him. He died in silence and somehow, so did I...
I really appreciate you Abbey for singing your heart out for us. To me. Because this song, the lyrics are what my heart was trying to tell him the whole time I was with him. When he was still here. Thank you💙so much.
Denisha Crow im so sorry for your loss, always here if you need to talk
I have been going through the toughest emotional rollercoaster since I didn't get the chance to say anything to the mother of my children and It's taken me so long just to be able to go through all of our old pictures of it s
im deeply sorry for your loss
I hope you shall meet again on the other side, whatever that would mean, love you both, even though I know neither of you two.
Love is pure. Love is endless. Love is eternal.
Yo I got shivering down my back because I've never heard a story similar to mine before. I fell in love with my best friend 2 years ago. We had a secret relationship because I grew up in a homophobic school & family.
After 4 months in a relationship, I couldn't take all this stress. She began to become such an abusive partner. At the time, I already had a therapist because I've been suffering from depression and social anxiety for years. All she did was making my life worse and I decided to leave her. It was very fucked up, because somehow, I still loved her so much more than just a best friend.
Well, and right after I left her, a few days later, I went to my first concert ever. Felt like I was away from all the troubles for just one night. I felt so happy and free. For just one night tho.
Because..
2 days after the concert, she commited suicide and told every one in school that I'm the reason if she dies soon. She deleted all her WhatsApp chats except mine and hung herself right at that place, where I decided to break up with her. The police was in front of my door while I was in school recieving the message she passed away by the school therapist and that I have to go to the police station in a few days because they thought I helped her with her suicide plan (?) (Idk how to say it in English, I apologize, I'm from Germany). But I didn't do anything ofc and there are enough proofs for that.
I was only 14 years old when all of this happened and I still had to go to that exact same school. The bullying got worse and people started calling me murder, spittin on me, judging me, etc.
I had to go to the psychiatry a few months later and I wanted to fuckin die and get away from my depression, post-traumatic stress, anxiety, panic attacks, etc.
But in the psychiatry, I met the love of my life. Prolly the most fucked up love story you've ever heard, ain't it? After all the shit I've been through, I thought I'll never be able to fall in love again. But then I met her and she proved me wrong.. I've never been this happy in my life and I'm so fuckin proud of myself. This showed me that love can heal anything.
I had the urge to share my story with you guys. Especially when I heard your story. That's so heart-breaking and I'm soso sorry for you. :( If you need someone to talk to, you can contact me. I think we can understand each others perspective pretty well.
I'm watching this video every few months just to see the updates on the people confessing to their besties lol
LoL indeed
Same !! More to see how it goes! lol I shot my shot w my best friend of 4 years .. 3 weeks later we were dating. It’s been two months now and I’m praying for the best :/
My best friend (and girlfriend) sent me this right now ahh-
She’s so sweet I’m crying shsbs
r/thathappened
@@connorcountryman4178 i- bruh why are you so negative? they just wanted to share a cute thing, why do you automatically assume they're lying, even if they ARE there's no point in saying it? this isn't a far out thing
@@Ghostlyasmr12 I'm not being negative? Clearly we have different views on what is and isn't negative.
So cute😍✨
Must be nice
still can't get over how satisfying the "soft, soft, soft, soft sand" is.
Yes, soft sand is pretty cool
Keep em originals coming. I love em. It feels nice listening to songs the first time.
She has the most crushingly beautiful voice. Like being knocked flat by a summer rain. Utterly amazing.
Can you please release the chords? I wanna play this live for my best friend.
Update: It didn't work out. 😓 I'm sorry if I'm disappointing y'all. I'm upset, too. They said they see me too much as a friend.
Good luck!!
I'm rootin for ya 👍
best of luckkkkk
@ .
UPDATE US WHEN IT HAPPENS
yei another song to dedicate to my crush haha
pls love me :'((
Smar😔
fresh avocado Awh it’s okay! All my crushes have never felt the same way about me so I relate, but it’s okay you’ll find someone soon unlike me :,)
@@trickyfanclub
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😥😞
@@trickyfanclub i hope you can find too :,)
Same here.
I really enjoy the vibe of this song and would like to use it in some of my art projects (I will give credit of course), would that be alright with you?
My chest hurts over someone I cant have..
She knows how I feel, and she feels the same, but her bf on the other hand..
Watching her just get ready for a tiktok is enough to make me smile so much I cry, just blown away by how amazing she is- her creativity, her sense of humor, the confidence and sass, her gorgeous self all wrapped up in the moment of being her..
I dont wanna take her time, i just want to be apart of it..
DARLING,
WHEN YOU'RE LONELY OR DOWN
REMEMBER YOU'RE NOT ALONE
YOU CAN ALWAYS COME HOME
RIGHT HERE
IN MY ARMS
🏡
I love how you put a home emoji. Made me feel happy. Thanks!
S t a r Dust 💕
@@babiefanai1017 thanks again :) made me feel like i was at home!😊
I wasn’t ready to cry this morning but here I am.. this song felt so tender ❤️
I finally confessed to my best friend of 8 years and she said she felt the same way.. I can finally listen to this song without my heart aching :')) ❤️
I'm very happy for you, even if I don't know you. Sorry for my English. Greetings from Russia
this makes me so happy
❤️❤️❤️
I hope I too have a luch like yours
Wwhhhhooooo! I am so excited even though I know nothing abt you, just cuz your best friend said they feel the same way!
Cuz, aah, that's just so rare!
not enough people are pointing out that while yes the song itself is beautiful, you can see the years of characterization. You can see the happiness and and sorrow in just the littlest ways abbeys eyes twitch
"Can we be best friends in love dear,
can we grow old together?"
...well can we?
he said no :(
@@disaster3718 because of his shitty stupid gf or crush
Oh my lord your voice make me so happy and sad at the same time because it's so pretty and way better than mine and i just- i love you, Abbey. Please accept my love because you're precious and deserve it
This is so deep... we love you so much abbey ❤️❤️
How to kill someone:
1. Fill them with love
I can actually listen to this without crying and heartache :,) it shows how bubbly and happy this song really is I love it
Well I wasn’t expecting to cry today but here I am...
Might as well just listen to every song again and cry even more
im crying secretly cause i like my best friend but he likes my other friend. This hurts so bad but i enjoyed listening to it LOVELOTS Abbey❤️
😭😭😭i can relate
Felt that... T_T
Moria HIHIHI I like my best friend, I told her and she said she felt the same way but 1 she wasn’t ready for another relationship, 2 she didn’t wanna ruin our friendship but I can’t help but get butterflies and blush when I think of her
Same ☹️
Fuckkkkk! After what happened I never felt the same excitement of having a crush or falling in love.
I have a friend and I told him that I have a crush to someone. After a few weeks they started dating each other.
This song is how I feel about my friend who passed away
I'm so sorry, may they rest in peace, stay strong 💖
Aw, poor guy.
I feel you... I was in crazy love with a guy that commited suicide and even now it haunts me how happy he seemed when he was dying inside.
C'mon guys let's not get all sentimental on each other, you gotta learn to move learn...
💜💜💜
this popped up on my feed after years.
Who’s elses screen broke because of clicking on it too fast?
me brobro
Hm...
Thought i was alone
Meee
Seriously its shattered right now. She is gonna be so famous!!! I'm going to share this one with friends on Facebook.💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Literally
This makes me feel so happy it makes me want to dance and sing while running through a field of Lavender 💞💓
I don't know why but I'm tearing.
Even this is not a full sad song but it's just straight into my heart.
48yr old northern Brit, looking around UA-cam to find tunes that even begin to express the connection I have to a dear friend, one I love very much. This song is perfect, just perfect. Thank you, you special Cupid pixie xx
Does anyone else just wish they could go back in time to when life was good?
This makes me think of this word- Anemoia :a nostalgic sense of longing for a past you yourself have never lived
@@mollymcfadden8613 so true
yes badly
Imagine 20 years from now, and saying the same thing
Life will always be good. Perspective.
I've lost my best friend, who I was in love with
This song hurts so bad
I'm so sorry :( ❤️
I'm really sorry for you 🙁 I'm afraid that this'll happen to me too 😥
My heart aches for one of my best friends, I never thought I'd lose her friendship. It's gone forever. ♡ I'm trying to be ok with it.
There are no words I can say to you to bring them back, but I can tell you... I know it hurts... I know it feels like the pain never will end, but I swear to you, if you fight through the pain there will always be better days I promise. I know it hurts... I know, I hope you see this. I promise the pain ends, it will get better, you were made to love and be loved
Oh I'm really sorry 😩❤️but I can tell you that you are not alone 👋🏻🙁❤️
#knowyourpaine😔💔
I always had a hard life. I grew up in a toxic place, but every once in a while I would have happy and good days. Those good memories kept me going. As I got older, the worse it got. Even with everything going on, I was still able to keep going. I was pretty strong willed, but as I left to college, I found myself lost. I fell into this hole that I cannot come out of. Every day, I wake up only to fight against this war that is going on inside me, but lately I keep getting defeated. I feel like it's impossible for me to keep fighting anymore, but what helps me keep going these days is your music. It calms me down and brings me happiness, which is what I need. Thank you Abbey, from the bottom of my heart♡
I'm in similar situation, i used to always have really challenging and difficult problems, now my life is 10 times better than ever, but I'm not, it's like I'm used to problems that i can't feel simple life anymore and I'm always analyzing everything cz now i have time, and it's getting worse and worse
The most intense part of this video is seeing the struggle to fight back tears while singing. Truly moving.
My best friend sent this to me...
I'm crying
And? Are you together now? 🙃❤️
@@a_lesbian_feminist147 yes, actually.
Me and her are a couple now... I miss her, actually... But tomorrow we both have school so, we can't see each other... T_T
@@DaveTheOrderly are you still together?...
@@VitorSilva-ez5up yeah. We still talk and see one another. She has depressive fits but I'm always there to help her through..
@@DaveTheOrderly be sure to keep us updated, Im emotionally invested now.
You put so much emotion and passion into your songs. Your songs have so much meaning than most genres i listen too, i relate to your songs so much. you're the light we need in our lives , you brighten my heart and life up when im upset or depressed of something that i have been through and i can't thank you enough for not making me feel alone when i need someone. You're always there for anyone and i love that. I cannot thank you enough for what you do and how much impacted you have put in my life. Thank you abbey! ❤
For the past 7 years I've been In love with my best friend, he knows it but he doesn't love me back... Sometimes I wish he would and cry, I've wrote songs and poems for him, I've been there for him thought the good and bad and I always will. 'cause he means everything to me.
I can’t really think what to say besides is to do it and get it off your chest because it’s gonna eat you up like crazy if you don’t
That thing ate me down to the bone marrow, still hurt me through my very soul because I still have those genuine feelings about her even if years have passed I'm still here for her, but I feel pretty much like dead now, I tried to change but... I think I will be forever in pain depression and obsession
Somtimes, you need to look for yourself. If u cant keep him as a friend... the best choice its to let him go, try to move on, and when u think u already are free of that feeling, recover the relationship. Is not a bad thing, yes you will miss your friend.... buts thats the best way to move on, and to be happy with a love that wasn’t made for you
@@sunmal1599 thank you. I'm trying to let go what I feel. It's been 8 months since he got away, I miss him lots but I'm trying to give him his space, if he wants to recover the friendship I'll be here. But first I have to heal and learn to let go. Thank you so much for your advice.
@@pHantompOeta You are welcome. We I can say i've beeing if both sides of the story... so i know how it feels. Just remember, take as much time as u need before come back to that friendship. Even if it takes a couple of months more, its worth so both can keep being happy without troubles! ^^
The fact that this was recommended to me while I’m in this situation is so surprising and made me feel upset that I don’t have the balls to confess.
Good luck !,play Smart
same man same
same .
Your voice, your smile, those lyrics, this melody... I fell in love with this
This is getting like kinda creepy cause it's the 4th tims you wrote a song that exactly describes the situation I'm in😶
mysterylama SAME
Goes to show we all aren't much different at all love everyone cuz they might just be going through the same thing
Same
It's all the same. So don't act special. Everyone goes through the same thing
@@The-Azure-Knight that's not true though but go off i guess
*LETS BE HONEST THIS SONG HAD HELPED SO MANY PEOPLE*
Yeah... 😁👍🏻😊❤️ (😩)
no I'm still depressed
Or ruined...it depends
I cried like a b*tch so no :D
I reunited with my best friend from 20 years ago. We refuse to lose each other again and this song perfectly encapsulates all the strong feelings that have come.
Absolutely beautiful and this song always brings a smile to my face.
Never fell in love with a best friend but damn im guessing that it feels kinda like the mellow heart ache i feel while listening to this song
Lmao it sucks ass pls dont do it lol
This is so beautiful ! Keep up the good work
seeing her smiling while singing makes me think that she was thinking about her best friend and that just melt my heart
also her smile in the begining aaaaaaaaaahhhhhh so pretttyyy
you are really AESTHETICALLY PLEASING from your beauty down to your music! 😍 soo mesmerizing 💕
AAAAAAHHH!! Senpai noticed meee 💓😍😳
Im a pretty tough guy but she broke me man SERIOUSLY
deadass dude
I know dude, I'm only 13 but when my bestfriend broke up with me that was by far the worst pain iv ever felt inside. I try to convince myself I dont need him but in all reality I fucking miss him 😔💔
its natural dude. its apart of life, time heals pain
You're human, man or woman, your heart is made the same, of course you'll feel broken, question is, is she broken as well?
@Enniovativ Not the point of the comment but ok
My best friend and I both love eachother but recently everything has just gone so downhill and I don't know what to do because she was my everything.
Chestnutty me too ... it hurts so much cause I pictured my whole life , being with her and just caring for her and sharing memories Maybe even a home someday ... :( it’ll get better. Keep your head up. We got this.
@@drod1373
Abbey, I discovered your music on UA-cam a year or two ago and I can honestly say, you offer an immeasurable amount of comfort with your magically soothing voice and moving lyrics. Thank you for sharing your talent with so many of us who appreciate what you do.
This is precious and adorable and it made me cry like, whoa. I’m not falling for one of my best friends at all, nope not me
**shifty eyes**
straight girl lead me on for a whole year, and here i am
niva almstedt well heck! I know exactly how you feel
@@LiloCreatesArt it do b like that
:c
i read this and i said "damn, bitch..." out loud. rip my guy.
i feel this in my soul.. hurts so bad, doesn't it..
I just discovered your music today...
It made me cry if I'm being honest. I've never listened to any song before and went wow. She really puts her all into her music, and uses her life choices and events to influence that. I've never in my life listened to an artist and went wow, she really understands me. She really understands how I'm feeling.
Until I heard you sing. So thank you.
This song makes me vibe so different. I feel so much love just listening to it.
We were best friends, shared our deepest pains... Then we became lovers... We broke up, I don't even remember why... But we remained best friends...
She started dating someone else, I don't want to know who it is or how.... All I know is I still love her and it sucks... 💔
this happen to me and now my heart is dead inside and she moved on its just fuk...
Im in this situation too and im now very scared by story, i don't wanna loose her
Plot twist, we are now best friends. She knows I still love her and she loves me too, we are in this weird situation where we can't date each other but still close as ever.
What's worse is that she sometimes posts the dudes pics on her status sometimes, they broke up some months ago. Though it still makes me jealous, but I shouldn't be
this is such a cute song im in love with everything you do 💖💗💕
Samezies.
Your songs really hit me hard and that’s why I’m sitting my car in the middle of a empty parking lot crying 💕
I don't even need to be in the mood for feelings... when I hear your voice, it just wanders straight to my heart and soul.
Absolutely beautiful as usual Abbey! I absolutely love your sunflower tattoo I’ll have to include that in my fan art I’m warming on
So I recently lost my best friend of 6 years. I have loved her for the 4 years. She never noticed. She left me because I knew her and who she truly was. She did like that. She doesn't see that for the past for years her words were my Bible. She doesn't see that I would take a bullet for her. Hell I would allow her to pull the trigger and not be mad. She doesn't see that I love her and know who she is by herself and with others. She doesn't see that I love her with my entire being. She doesn't see that she is literally ripping my heart out and stomping it on the ground. She doesn't see that I just wanted to hold her, kiss her, make her feel like she is the queen of the world. She doesn't notice anything of that. And it kills me everyday. I love her so much and she doesn't love me back.
I am going through the same thing my dude. It makes me sad to see that others go through this too. I am so sorry. If u want someone to talk to about that can relate or is going through the same thing I am here.
You have to realize in life, you have to let things do it's course, Even though you may or may not make it apparently obvious that you are willing to do anything for her, you can't make people love you, and they certainly don't owe you anything, you're a great friend and you may always be in that position, if you are in a friendship and are thinking " I'm doing all of these great things for her, she owes me love as well for these things" then I have some bad news for you my friend. My ex girlfriend who I still love very much, a month ago said to me "I love you but I'm not in love with you" and it tore my fucking heart out. But I realized that in the longrun and this can apply to anyone is that if you truly care and love someone its not so much about when/what can I get in return its all about loving them enough to let them go and see them happy, even if its without you. It's life. You'll learn. Cheers
@@danielabrams7962 I needed this
Thanks
If she didn't like you seeing her for who she truly was .... possibly she didn't like you telling her who she is or should be. It's Not your place to tell someone who they are, and never will be. That's not friendship, that's control. Maybe she left because she just wanted a friend, not a lover or a correction. Be more accepting of who she wants to be and she may return. She didn't rip your heart out, you did, and she did what she felt was right for her and by doing that you felt hurt because she didn't want that control. Things have to run their course. Like water takes that path of least resistance she also did such. You resisted and she went with a smoother path. Be you and let her be her. If she liked you for you then like her for who ever she wants and desires to be. You can't tell someone who they are. You like them for who ever they are. But you seem very young. Use this as a learning experience and be better for the experience.
I have a similar situation I have a crush on my childhood friend I've known her since I was 6 and I hate it that she only sees me as a brother
Your music always makes me cry in a good way. I also love your aesthetic sm. I can't wait to hear more, and I wish you the best of luck with your music
So cute song and performance! In love with it!
I honestly cried hearing this song the first time because this is the perfect song to my best friend. I sent it to her ☺️
Ohhhh my god , other music ahhhhhh my heart ♥️♥️♥️♥️
I love you Abbey ♥️💚💚♥️
I love your's Music's
Ahhh😍♥️
Sorry my english again , I From The Brazil , Sorry repeat .
i just woke up and?? my heart is fluttering?
oh abbey, how did u know that i'm... kinda liking.. one of my best friends...? we're going out on the tuesday, and i hope that i can kiss her...
thank you for this song, you look stunningly beautiful, and so does your voice! 💖💓💗
I know this song was written for another person, but when I listen to it, I just imagine loving myself and growing old with myself and protecting her and giving her the world. To me, this song feels like falling in love with yourself.
i just recently found your channel and i'm already in love with your music and voice, i especially love this song the tune is just so relaxing and makes my heart flutter. In other words keep doing what you do and make some more amazing music! :)
I just thought id let you know, your beauty is exactly what i strive to put in all my drawings. Youre so gorgeous and your voice is 😍😍😍
i want to send this amazing song to my best friend but i am also afraid i can ruin our friendship ;~; but i've never felt so much love towards anyone , i want her to know about it. what am i supposed to do ;~;
just read the other comments saying that they lost their friend before they can say so what im trying to say is that don't be afraid go and tell her or him
Did you tell her?
Did you tell her??
i sent it to her- i wouldn’t take that moment back for the world
Say what you feel before it's too late
i dont know why but at 0:10 the smile she gives when she looks at the camera warms my hart
When she smiled at me
I fell straight to my knees
Begging, please be my baby tonight
Can I hold your hand?
As we walk down the beach
On the soft, soft, soft, soft sand
Can we be best friends in love, dear?
Can we grow old together?
I wanna be by your side
For the years and years to come
Can we fall like feathers?
Falling softly for one another
I wanna be here for you
Through the good and the bad, my love
When she first kissed me
I felt my heart beat
And I thought that my heart was broken
You must've fixed it
Show me what true love is
And I'll never let you down
Can we be best friends in love, dear?
Can we grow old together?
I wanna be by your side
For the years and years to come
Can we fall like feathers?
Falling softly for one another
I wanna be here for you
Through the good and the bad, my love
I'll lift you up so high
That for the first time in your life
You'll feel like
You'll feel like you can touch the sky
I'll lift you up so high
That for the first time in your life
You'll feel like
You'll feel like you can touch the sky
Can we be best friends in love, dear?
Can we grow old together?
I wanna be by your side
For the years and years to come
Can we fall like feathers?
Falling softly for one another
I wanna be here for you
Through the good and the bad, my love
I wanna be here for you
Through the good and the bad, my love 💕
THANK YOU 🙇🏽
you really made me cry but in a good way because now i have the confidence to tell my parents im lesbian yet im scared but im going to do it i love you and who ever is lucky enough to date you i have something to tell them please protect her with all you have and never make her sad ok love you
IM IN ABSOLUTE LOVE WITH THIS SONG. 💗❤️💖💜 I mean all your music is amazing but this is beautifullll
When you get old enough, experienced enough, hurt enough... this song hits harder and harder. Well done little one, looking forward to more.
Anyone who falls in love with you will be the luckiest person in the world 💕❤ bless you and your beautiful voice
And now im have tears in my eyes thinking about how much I love my girlfriend. Thank you
0:09 WTF CUTEST LITTLE THING-
This song made me Happy...
i'll think of her whenever i hear this.
Such talent, and beautifuly excuted. I love all your music, keep it going
I was in love with my best friend
I still am
Only now she’s not just my best friend
She’s my girlfriend too💕
At least one was lucky... 😊😁
Hope you will be happy 👍🏻❤️
I've listened to a lot of good songs tonight, but this is the most honest and uplifting. What a voice! And great ukulele. Beautiful song and performance. Totes impressed.
You remind me so much of a girl I fell in love with two years ago. My heart aches listening to this.
I risked it all confessing my love to my best friend a year ago, and now I’m the moments that I feel sad the most and miserable she still here by my side....comforting me I couldn’t ask for more..
Yyaaayyyy a success story!!! I’m on month 2 with my best friend of 4 years dating
Awe this song is wonderful it made me tear up:( this reminds me of the girl I love🥺