I'm bawling my eyes out during this song. I'm a 30-something year old person who just started working in a Senior Care Community as a caregiver. All the elderly residences are so sweet. On my third shift, an elderly gentlemen who liked to joke around with me told me he was off to visit his wife at another building. She was suffering with Alzheimer's and they haven't seen each other since before christmas because of Covid. He was so excited. Then when I came back, I asked how it went, and while helping him get ready for bed, he couldn't keep his brave face on anymore. He broke down crying saying 'She just smiled at me.'. She didn't remember who he was. He went on talking about how he loved her, she was his life, if she left he wanted to go too all while crying. I couldn't help but tear up and hold him. I can't imagine being elderly, and many of my friends, family, pets, places, associates, all slowly disappearing from me. ...idk, just wanted to say that. Please treat everyone with respect, because we are all hurting and many feel so lonely, but there are those out there who are willing to talk to you and understand.
@@pierrebalandras6320 I am the solo dancer in this video (mamacharblessed) and we enjoyed filming this video very much. As seniors, who have loved and lost, it was a perfect song for each of us! Thanks for listening and commenting! ✌️🎶💃
When my grandpa died we were so scared that it would kill my grandma. They were married for over 60 years. They had 3 beautiful daughters and tons of grandchildren. They travelled the whole world many times with their van and dogs together. The goodbye was hard for all of us. But they spend their whole life with each other. Every day for this entire time. And now after his death she retain the van to travel again. To visit all the places they both liked the most. She is such a strong person and I am so proud of her for not giving up on life ♥️
Such a beautiful yet heartbreaking story. Your grandparents sound to be awesome! I'm glad your grandma didn't give up despite the huge pain she must be feeling. I wish you and your family the best! Take care :)
So many of us abandon ourselves for those we love, then when it crumbles we’re left with that broken abandoned person. That’s what this song speaks to in me. It’s really a beautiful song.
I am one of these people. I tend to lose myself in relationships. The last one was really bad. I was also dealing with a narcissist though but that one damaged me so deeply. 5 years later and I’m still trying to heal. I’ve remained single. I need and want to learn how to love myself first before I can love another. I often wonder about what love used to be like back in the day…..when people stayed married and stayed together thru the ups and downs in life. That doesn’t seem to exist anymore.
@@sari5045 The first verse really hit me. Dealing with a narcissist is the worst. 4 years alone next week for me. After 18 years with her I was left with no friends, no self esteem, a huge empty void in my heart, and hardest of all, questions that will never be answered. Discarded with no discussion and no warning. I thought we had made it. I was so wrong. Sucker punched. I hope that love of which you speak still exists. It's probably just a little harder to find with all the noise in the world. I don't seek it. I seek my self now. Perhaps that love will find me of its own accord. Perhaps it will find you. Keep on keepin' on. You still have you. Peace.
If you‘re going through Depression Abuse Heart break Or just have a bad time Remember there is somebody on this world who loves you and you make them smile.
it takes a lot of untapped courage to admit to yourself that you have to choose you, and to free your heart from the burden of knowing that you were not chosen by the person you would always choose in a heartbeat is a great form of bravery- much more, to leave no grudge to the person who did not choose you, I think, is the greatest gift you can give yourself. It's hard to admit that we can not amount to the person they need but it is always necessary. There is a great relief that with everything that has been said and done, you can still find it in your heart to be yourself, to choose yourself and to love yourself.
Time flies so fast, I remember I was listening to this song back in 2018 when I was 22 and now i'm 28, this song brings so much memories I thought I will not get over it.
I'm dead inside. No friends. No family. All alone at 25. I've been trying to hold in my pain so I wouldn't have to feel much... But then UA-cam recommend this song.. It hurts so much..
She's literally the message of the song. --- "If I don't have you, at least I'll still have me" She's an older woman, on her own, presumably thinking about the one she doesn't have anymore...
I’ve interpreted this song is so many different ways in so many different circumstances, it’s such a beautifully universal heartbreaking moment. I love it. I will always come back here to mourn or rejoice with her voice. 🖤
lana winters yes. It really helps deliver the song I sad to say. Beautiful voice beautiful face beautiful song . I’m sad to say because beauty isn’t given to everyone although people can be beautiful in different ways.... but what she’s been blessed with.... kinda not fair but we get to enjoy it
It's do-able if it's true love. It happened to me. I can; but unfortunately, he can't. Love is unconditional, so it's worth fighting for; but he always gave up whenever things went down without putting a 100% effort in it. In the end, it hurts when i was the only one who's holding at the end of the rope for us. He has a choice, either to move forward for the betterment, or to stay the same. He chose the later. It's sad.
The video is a nice commentary on how in earlier generations - in my generation, in fact - people felt that they were not whole people without a mate. For my own part, I feel like it's a shame it took me til I was in my late fifties to figure that out. Now I'm sixty-four, I'm alone, and I'm reasonably happy. And that brings me to the fact that happiness is vastly overrated - in the sense that in the world today, and this began in my generation, I guess, everyone started chasing this illusion that they could be happy all the time - but that's just not possible. All kinds of things come into our lives: illness, heartache from the loss of loved ones, and it can be possible to attain some kind of superficial happiness "all the time" when you're younger, but as you get older, it's harder and harder to hang onto that kind of happiness all the time, until at last (if you're lucky!) you realize how hollow it is. There is another kind of positivity that one can have, that acknowledges sadness as well as joy, and embraces all that life has to bring, changes what needs to be changed and can be, and accepts what can't, and looks for a greater sense of meaning, in whatever form that sense comes. The ability to be content on one's own is part of that kind of adjustment, and the consequent inner wholeness.
I broke my back cause I thought you would too I'd run in circles I thought you would too Maybe in another life Everything worked out alright And things that made this harder passed us by But there's no bad dream to wake up from Know I got it bad when It's the morning and you're all that's on my mind If I don't have you At least I still have me And if I don't have you At least I still have me I never thought twice Cause you were my number one I put you first cause you were my only thought No more riding on the train No more smoking in the ally Now my secrets only stay with me Everybody knows I'm upset They don't even have to ask it They know I believed in us last week And if I don't have you At least I still have me And if I don't have you At least I still have me There's no reason to speak badly We just reached our end I will see you in parts of me In who I was back then If I don't have you At least I still have me And if I don't have you At least I still have me Me Me
Dear Cyn, Thank you for making this song, back in 2018 I was at the lowest point of my life, I was at my freshmen year in College and struggling to figure out my life. Now I’m at my senior year and I am a candidate for Cum Laude, this song had an integral role in my life journey. I’m still figuring out my life and I just want to tell you that this song became my friend when i had no one else. ❤️ If you’re still at this part of my comment, just want to say thanks for having time to read!
Lyrics: [Verse 1] I broke my back 'cause I thought you would too I'd run in circles I thought you would too [Pre-Chorus 1] Maybe in another life Everything worked out alright And things that made this harder Passed us by But there's no bad dream to wake up from Now I got it bad when it's the morning And you're all that's on my mind [Chorus] If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me [Verse 2] I never thought twice 'Cause you were my number one I put you first 'cause You were my only song [Pre-Chorus 2] No more riding on the train No more smoking in the air Now my secrets only stay with me Everybody knows I'm upset They don't even have to ask it They know I believed in us last week [Chorus] And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me [Bridge] And there's no reason to speak badly We just reached our end I will see you in parts of me If you are wise back then [Chorus] If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me, me, me
I remembered I first found this song from when I was thinking I would be single forever, and now coming back to it again for strength after losing the love of my life suddenly after a year and a half of being together. 3/18/21. He was 31 and died in his sleep. Life is so unfair. Kaitis was my everything and we thought we would be together our whole lives. Now I must live my life for us both. I love you so much honey. I will never forget you.
wow your comment. I send you my comfort. You see this song from a different lens. And that lens is the lens I'd love for everyone to look through. That although the love of their lives passed away you know you still have you. The strength it took you to come back and make a comment. To share it with us. My heart. My spirit. My soul. I send it over to you. I send you over my love and comfort. You are needed. You are divine. You are a blessing to have come across.
This gives me a calming sensation as in if I lose a partner. Whether they pass away, break up with me etc. I’ll still have me to pick myself up and think of the good times.
Used to listen this a lot during the end of an abusive relationship, always felt so lonely. This song really gave me perspective and strength to see myself being independent and alone. I come back occasionally, life is very different now, and I feel like I made it out of that dark place, this song really has helped me. Thank you Cyn for making something so moving and relatable. You're a beautiful soul
This song resonates me so much.. i gave in so much in my previous relationship. I put him first without ever thinking twice.. and when he left, it felt like i was breathing under water. Barely alive barely living. Everyone knew I was upset and no one dared ask me. It felt very lonely being in that place.. but slowly, things did get better. And now, I know we have reached our end and there's no point in speaking badly about each other. Thanks for being a huge part of my life once. Thank you CYN for this beautiful song! I'll keep on supporting you!! If I don't have you, at least I'll still have me 💖
Stay strong! Is your name a reference to the Big Lebowski censoring on cable TV? I remember the first time watching it on cable and that just cracked me up!
Maybe you won't. Depending on your story, you won't forget him or stop loving him. But you'll (and I can assure it) leave it in the past and move on, so when you look back you'll feel the love, but know it was the best to just leave it behind. Maybe you wont stop loving him, maybe you will, but you love yourself in the first place :)
actually, you can never stop loving someone. if you truly loved them. if it was actual love, you cannot. how can your heart forget about something that once made you so happy? it can't. you may find other loves. greater loves, that will lessen the sting of your past heartbreaks, but no, you can never stop loving someone. once you love them. it's there for good.
I'm having the best relationship I've ever had and I truly love him. I know that cause I've never felt the same with anyone else. Unfortunately, distance at some point of the next year will tear us apart. We don't know for how long. We promised to enjoy the time we have, but I want a whole life with him. I'll keep in mind that we found each other for a reason.
Lyrics... "I'll Still Have Me" I broke my back 'cause I thought you would too I'd run in circles I thought you would too Maybe in another life Everything worked out alright And things that made this harder passed us by But there's no bad dream to wake up from Know I got it bad when it's the morning And you're all that's on my mind If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me I never thought twice 'Cause you were my number one I put you first 'cause You were my only thought No more riding on the train No more smoking in the alley Now my secrets only stay with me Everybody knows I'm upset They don't even have to ask it They know I believed in us last week And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me And there's no reason to speak badly We just reached our end I will see you in parts of me In who I was back then If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me, me, me 2:03
hhn2002 I hope she get what she really deserves. It's obviously happening right now too. I'll look forward to her in the near future. I would love to hear more songs from her.
This lady, dancing alone, she reminded me of one very good friend of our family. She died from cancer, but there was one last party, organized for her by friends. She was already in a wheelchair, not being able to walk or even to breathe without an oxygen. But she wanted to dance and she was dancing, in the wheelchair alone. She was a great woman, very kind and very generous and smart. We were not that close, but I often remember her and miss her
Even seeing this comment ahead of time while listening to the song, I stilled teared up when that lady started dancing alone. All I could do was wonder about her loves lost and life lived.
You know, one thing I really noticed was her smile at the end. That smile alone tells a whole story full of bittersweetness, peacefulness, and acceptance. You can tell whoever she’s singing about still is part of her, but she finally accepts that that person’s gone and I think that’s beautiful. Because I’ve felt that before, had that same smile before….
This makes me smile and cry at the same time I’m 40 and sick and this touched my heart ♥️ I have 5 daughters and 4 grand babies from 25 yrs to 3 yrs 😢😭and finally found my soulmate after abuse for 22 yrs
This woman is so beautiful... not only physically, but she also strikes me as someone with a great depth of emotional understanding that makes her wise beyond her years. Very pure & unique vocal style complete with vulnerable sincerity
I'm listening to this song a year and half after leaving an abusive relationship. I remember when I first heard it I began to cry, I kept reminding myself that I still had myself. I had completely lost myself in the relationship. It took me so long to heal from those wounds.
I’m in the midst of leaving an abusive relationship…. I had been trying so hard to tell myself that I haven’t lost who I was… this song gave me the clarity to realize that I am unrecognizable now, four years later.
To all ppl struggling in different kinds of abusive relationships, I want to remind u all that u are precious. You love somebody so much and maybe you don’t get what you contributed in the same way in return. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve it or your love is not valuable. YOU ARE PRECIOUS. And your ability to love somebody is wonderful. Things just sometimes don’t work out. You still have you, a precious you.
To me it speaks of moving forward whilst leaving someone in the past, even with all the mistakes that person made you are able to forgive, "not speak badly", and still carry that love with you
I'm going through a hard time now with my relationships and I've decided to have more alone time by myself. I love the title of this song, "I'll Still Have Me". It reminds me that it's okay to be alone or single. I still have someone special, myself. If I can be happy with my own company, I won't depend on others too much for love. If I'm happy on my own, it doesn't matter if people are around me or not, if I many or less friends. People come and go. Those who truly cherish you will stay. So, I'm stopping chasing the love of others.
Agree. We need to love ourselves first, and once we do that we will know how much we're worth and stop loosing ourselves in others :$ Everything will be okay in the end, I'm sure :$
Recently kinda 'lost' someone really close myself, but one has to follow your last two statements for being happy on his own. I've discovered this a long time ago. One should always focus on themselves, this way you can't get hurt as much. Maybe... some time in the future, there'll be the one, but if not "I'll still have me" and you'll still have you, just remember that :)
I have come back to this song again & again- and right now I am listening to it after a period of releasing someone who was very bad for me & I feel hopeful & renewed- I no longer feel alone or as though I have nobody- because I learned, I have me
[Verse 1] I broke my back 'cause I thought you would too I'd run in circles I thought you would too [Pre-Chorus 1] Maybe in another life Everything worked out alright And things that made this harder passed us by But there's no bad dream to wake up from Know I got it bad when it's the morning And you're all that's on my mind [Chorus] If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me [Verse 2] I never thought twice 'Cause you were my number one I put you first 'cause You were my only thought [Pre-Chorus 2] No more riding on the train No more smoking in the alley Now my secrets only stay with me Everybody knows I'm upset They don't even have to ask it They know I believed in us last week [Chorus] And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me [Bridge] There's no reason to speak badly We just reached our end I will see you in parts of me In who I was back then [Chorus] If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me, me, me
this randomly appeared on recommendations today. been years since i last listened to this song. ahh the memories of the time i listened to this on repeat 😢❤ must add to my current playlist again
It's been 20yrs since my dad passed away. I was only 11 months old. Growing up I saw my mom avoiding parties she never went to any party unless if it was with her friends. Now I understand why.. Wish I could show this to my mom but she doesn't speak English 😅
This reminded me of my mom as well. It's been 15 years for my dad. And this just broke my heart thinking of her. How she must deal with it. And It's so bad we can't even talk about it. ❤️
I was at a friend of the familys wedding reception. I was 16 years old. I didn't have a very good home life back then, and I had zero confidence, kind of an ugly duckling and even at such an early age was extremely depressed, hopelessl and very alone. I was dancing by myself just like the old woman in the video and I heard a voice say " Why are you dancing by yourself? Let me cut in." And it was a handsome guy around the same age, with a pretty smile and an earring. I d danced with him and I just laid my head on his shoulder like I knew him forever hahaha*cringe* but it meant so much to me. Afterwards he asked to kiss me and I had my first kiss. I never saw him again but his name was Brandon and I smile wherever I hear that name. Never be afraid to dance alone, because you never know who is out there that will want to cut in.
My boyfriend of over a year broke up with me recently. A little while ago I would’ve done absolutely anything to get him back, but now I’m not so sure. I saw so much with him, but I want to be with someone who loves me without a second thought. It hurts, but I know I’ll heal.
Lyrics- "I'll Still Have Me" I broke my back 'cause I thought you would too I'd run in circles I thought you would too Maybe in another life Everything worked out alright And things that made this harder passed us by But there's no bad dream to wake up from Know I got it bad when it's the morning And you're all that's on my mind If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me I never thought twice 'Cause you were my number one I put you first 'cause You were my only thought No more riding on the train No more smoking in the alley Now my secrets only stay with me Everybody knows I'm upset They don't even have to ask it They know I believed in us last week And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me And there's no reason to speak badly We just reached our end I will see you in parts of me In who I was back then If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me, me, me
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Its just brings back so much memories ,such a great lyrics and such a great voice
Damn that last part... it hurts at times to remember the person we were in the past with someone else, and that that person will never come back save in memories.
When my grandmother died my grandfather went down hill. There are times when he improves. But i think it’s still killing him that she isn’t around anymore. They were married 43 years when she died and this year would have been 50 years. The pure love he had and still has for him is beautiful but so heart breaking at the same time.
Skylark it all comes down to everyone being there for him. I’ve lived with my grandfather since i was 6 months old along with my mother and sister. I’m 21 now. He has always had us around for him. I think if we weren’t, he would’ve died a while ago just from heart break alone. Just make sure you spend time with him and that he knows he’s loved no matter what. A relationship with your grandparents and parents are so important and can be so amazing. They have stories that you wouldn’t believe.
best thing you can do for a a widowed person is to say "tell me a story about them". Allow them to reminisce. Stories told are a way of celebrating a lost loved one's worth. There may be a few sentimental tears, but don't allow that to keep you from asking.
@@sarah_siki were you not paying attention to the story the song gave? "if I don't have you then at least I still have me" widow grief pain loneliness envy that Lone woman dancing by herself is the main character of the video. its talking about losing your married other half like halfway through the marriage or somethin, an when it comes to times both is required (dancing) at least she still has herself. so its comin to terms with it
@e Yes, she's not dancing because she 'loves herself', and she did lose someone. But she's dancing DESPITE losing someone, and that shows some self-love manifesting there. Hope.
This song hits differently for different age of people, to be honest. When you have walked a long way, this song just hits those memories back. It feels like home...
My youngest son and I are at odds. Even for Moms this song could have meaning. Letting go of adult kids...we forget as parents, we are more than just that.
i wish my mom would realize that she and i are both just human and she is a daughter like i am a son, being a parent doesn't have to mean she is bigger and better than me
This song represents so perfectly what I'm going through now, there's no way I can't cry. I try to seek support in my self-love because not having him hurts too bad, I just want to be well again.
Me too. Lost my bf and bff to each other in the same week, it really hurts, but im really glad i found this song. Good luck and good thoughts from me to you
i got recommended this a few months back, when i was two months into a relationship. i cried at the thought of it applying. the day i was going to tell her i’m in love with her, she broke up with me. and she wants to keep talking about the breakup and drag it out, but i can’t. she said she had felt it for a while, while for christmas i’d been writing her “open when” letters. a breakup has never hurt this much. she was different than anyone else.
It's weird that I love this song before because it just so beautiful. Now I come back here, and I relate to it now with my recent break up. God, I hate how I love too much. That's there's nothing left to me only self-loathing. I hope when I come back here again in the future. I'm heal from all this pain.
I lost my grandfather 2 weeks back and watching my grandmother hurts because she feels helpless and lonely. She looks lost and in so much pain and I wish I could erase her pain and watch her smile again at my grandpa's silly jokes...😔 Life is unfair sometimes ... unpredictable too..
Bushra, I am so sorry for your loss. My mom passed away suddenly almost year ago and watching my dad go on without her has been simultaneously so painful and so very special. She was the love of his life and he always lights up when we say her name (which is still all the time). It sounds strange, but it's a truly beautiful thing to miss someone this much and to find pieces of them in yourself and others. I know you must do this already, but cherish your grandmother. Ask her about her love and her life; listen to her stories and write them down. You will carry your (grand)parents with you always.
The lyrics: I broke my back 'cause I thought you would too I'd run in circles I thought you would too Maybe in another life Everything worked out alright And things that made this harder Passed us by But there's no bad dream to wake up from Know I got it bad when it's the morning And you're all that's on my mind If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me I never thought twice 'Cause you were my number one I put you first 'cause You were my only thought No more riding on the train No more smoking in the ally Now my secrets only stay with me Everybody knows I'm upset They don't even have to ask it They know I believed in us last week And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me And there's no reason to speak badly We just reached our end I will see you in parts of me In who I was back then If I don't have you At least I'll still have me And if I don't have you At least I'll still have me, me, me
This song is both self-empowering and sad and I am not sure how exactly I am supposed to feel about it.
same
You can be sad and empowered at the same time!
I feel it tho, can relate :')
Both.
Okay but does anyone notice how she teared up at the very end??
I'm bawling my eyes out during this song. I'm a 30-something year old person who just started working in a Senior Care Community as a caregiver. All the elderly residences are so sweet. On my third shift, an elderly gentlemen who liked to joke around with me told me he was off to visit his wife at another building. She was suffering with Alzheimer's and they haven't seen each other since before christmas because of Covid. He was so excited. Then when I came back, I asked how it went, and while helping him get ready for bed, he couldn't keep his brave face on anymore. He broke down crying saying 'She just smiled at me.'. She didn't remember who he was. He went on talking about how he loved her, she was his life, if she left he wanted to go too all while crying. I couldn't help but tear up and hold him. I can't imagine being elderly, and many of my friends, family, pets, places, associates, all slowly disappearing from me. ...idk, just wanted to say that. Please treat everyone with respect, because we are all hurting and many feel so lonely, but there are those out there who are willing to talk to you and understand.
Beautiful! Stay strong beautiful soul
Thank you for this beautiful comment. I'm a doctor who works in palliative care and I see and feel this all the time.
and now I'm crying with this... 😭❤️
I am very sure this is not just a job to you.. Thank you for being his listening ear. You are really kind.
God love him poor thing. I also worked in a nursing home for for a few years. The residents have amazing stories both sad and good.
My grandparents are in this!! The first couple interviewd that’s them they are the best :)
oh wow !!!!
what did they think about the making of the video, and about the song ?
They are sooo adorable!! 💕
They are beautiful!! It was a pleasure working with them! Please give my regards!! ✌️💃🎶
@@pierrebalandras6320 I am the solo dancer in this video (mamacharblessed) and we enjoyed filming this video very much. As seniors, who have loved and lost, it was a perfect song for each of us! Thanks for listening and commenting! ✌️🎶💃
When my grandpa died we were so scared that it would kill my grandma. They were married for over 60 years. They had 3 beautiful daughters and tons of grandchildren. They travelled the whole world many times with their van and dogs together. The goodbye was hard for all of us. But they spend their whole life with each other. Every day for this entire time. And now after his death she retain the van to travel again. To visit all the places they both liked the most. She is such a strong person and I am so proud of her for not giving up on life ♥️
That's beautiful ❤️
This made me cry, very beautiful...give her a hug and kiss from me :)
Such a beautiful yet heartbreaking story. Your grandparents sound to be awesome! I'm glad your grandma didn't give up despite the huge pain she must be feeling. I wish you and your family the best! Take care :)
Your grandma sounds amazing, that's so hard to do. The person you love is gone, but very few people even want to keep going.
OMFG, You manage to bring tears to my eyes, the last time I felt wet in my eyes was 2013, honestly.
"Love requires the commitment to meet the challenge of dealing with another human being" ..too deep ❤️
I thought that was common knowledge and that's why no one want me....
Omar Ilias I liked his response so much! he seemed like a very wise person!
Alexandra 。 whats the meaning of that?
Omar Illias exactly wat I heard the loudest
tell me I'm not the only one who thought he was morgan freeman
Wow time to cry,,, that woman dancing alone at the end got me
milkteabae _ me too 😭
same here 😭
same😔
Me too 😭
Got me too...
So many of us abandon ourselves for those we love, then when it crumbles we’re left with that broken abandoned person. That’s what this song speaks to in me. It’s really a beautiful song.
Very true, wonderful comment.
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I am one of these people. I tend to lose myself in relationships. The last one was really bad. I was also dealing with a narcissist though but that one damaged me so deeply. 5 years later and I’m still trying to heal. I’ve remained single. I need and want to learn how to love myself first before I can love another. I often wonder about what love used to be like back in the day…..when people stayed married and stayed together thru the ups and downs in life. That doesn’t seem to exist anymore.
@@sari5045 The first verse really hit me. Dealing with a narcissist is the worst. 4 years alone next week for me. After 18 years with her I was left with no friends, no self esteem, a huge empty void in my heart, and hardest of all, questions that will never be answered. Discarded with no discussion and no warning. I thought we had made it. I was so wrong. Sucker punched. I hope that love of which you speak still exists. It's probably just a little harder to find with all the noise in the world. I don't seek it. I seek my self now. Perhaps that love will find me of its own accord. Perhaps it will find you. Keep on keepin' on. You still have you. Peace.
@@chaotic.interference.processor ❤️❤️❤️ hope is a beautiful thing!
this song made me feel sad but also calmed at the same time? Like it was saying," it's okay to be upset, I'm here. You're alright." I really like this
i feel the same way
Same here. I couldnt really find a way to describe the feeling it gave me, but you hit the nail on the head
*”Love requires a commitment to meet the challenge of dealing with another human being.”*
Strongest quote I’ve ever heard.💔
That was the one that grabbed me by the feels
I must requote, if you don't mind, especially these days
Yes! Agree 😁👍
Right?! Like how fucking perfect is that!
one of the most accurate quotes ever. right up there with Love your neighbor as you love yourself - Jesus Christ.
This is heartbreakingly beautiful
ua-cam.com/video/_qTr1_VASMw/v-deo.html
But confidence building at the same time, it’s crazy
Like u
yes
🔻 🎥私の個人的なビデオはここにあります🌺
shake-body.com/nobiella/?秘密のビデオ
💖 ここにビデオと写真 💞➖➖🔺🔺🇯🇵
ライブ配信の再編ありがとうです！この日のライブ配信は、かならりやばかったですね！１万人を超える人が見ていたもんね（笑）やっぱり人参最高！まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした！今後は気を付けないとね. .
! 💖🖤❤️#今後は気をライブ配信の再編あり
がとうです！#この日のライブ配信は、#かならりやばかったですね！#１万人を超える人が見ていたもん（#笑）#やっぱり人参最高！#まさかのカメラ切り忘れでやら1かしたのもドキドキでした,.💖🖤 #在整個人類歷史上，#強者，#富人和具有狡猾特質的人捕食部落，#氏族，#城鎮，#城市和鄉村中的弱者，#無`'#守和貧窮成員。#然而，#人類的生存意願迫使那些被拒絕，#被剝奪或摧毀的基本需求的人們找到了一種生活方式，#並繼續將其DNA融入不斷發展的人類社會。.#說到食物，#不要以為那些被拒絕的人只吃垃圾。#相反，#他們學會了在被忽視的肉類和蔬菜中尋找營養。#他們學會了清潔，#切塊，#調味和慢燉慢燉的野菜和肉類，#在食品市場上被忽略的部分家用蔬菜和肉類，#並且學會了使用芳香的木煙（#如山核桃，#山核桃和豆科灌木 #來調味食物煮的時候.
If you‘re going through
Depression
Abuse
Heart break
Or just have a bad time
Remember there is somebody on this world who loves you and you make them smile.
it takes a lot of untapped courage to admit to yourself that you have to choose you, and to free your heart from the burden of knowing that you were not chosen by the person you would always choose in a heartbeat is a great form of bravery- much more, to leave no grudge to the person who did not choose you, I think, is the greatest gift you can give yourself. It's hard to admit that we can not amount to the person they need but it is always necessary. There is a great relief that with everything that has been said and done, you can still find it in your heart to be yourself, to choose yourself and to love yourself.
Kenneth Magkasi perfectly worded
Thank you for that
the way you combine your words plays on the deepest strings of my consciousness. Thank you
p.s do you write?
Spot on!
beautifully expressed - both your words and Cyn's lyrics =)
This song makes me miss someone that doesn't even exist.
Me too! Didn't think I'd see this in the comments. But hey guess there's always someone else that could relate to something you feel.
Fucking same
Seriously wtf
Same :'(
Jesus?
Sometimes UA-cam recommends me the weirdest videos but today they got it so right and I’m so grateful!
Hey J Hope😎
Right? Same here, but I’m glad it did.
Time flies so fast, I remember I was listening to this song back in 2018 when I was 22 and now i'm 28, this song brings so much memories I thought I will not get over it.
Same, I'm here since it released. This song is important to me
Same ❤
Same here. I was going throught such heartbreak first time I heard this so the song really hit me hard.
@@csegovia8846 i feel you
First time listening too this the day when coldplays moon music came out october 4th
Songs like this help people get through things
Caleb Williams yes true ...try sasha sloan - the only ...its also just as beautiful as this one!
EXACTLY
That's the beautiful power of music... Being understood.
I'm dead inside. No friends. No family. All alone at 25. I've been trying to hold in my pain so I wouldn't have to feel much... But then UA-cam recommend this song..
It hurts so much..
Stay strong, it gets better ♡
Its going to get better, friend. Reach out to someone who cares. Not all ppl suck.
I'm here if you need to talk
same
I'm 25 and alone as well. So we are together in something...
I didn't think I'll be back here but here I am with memories old and new❤
"I will see you in parts of me In who I was back then" Amazing lyrics.
Okay, but seeing the woman dancing alone amid everyone with their spouses, like. That 100% broke my heart, wtf.
i keep wondering who that is?
It broke my heart too 😢😢
Oh, i was flat out bawling.
She is not really alone. In her thoughts, the couple are leading the dance.
She's literally the message of the song.
--- "If I don't have you, at least I'll still have me"
She's an older woman, on her own, presumably thinking about the one she doesn't have anymore...
She looks like one of the digital drawings that hit the front page every day from r/art
Badguy Birdie Yes 😂
r/ihavereddit
Nitesh Kumar ??
@@NiteshKumar-ur3td okay nitesh
Oh my god perfect description
I’ve interpreted this song is so many different ways in so many different circumstances, it’s such a beautifully universal heartbreaking moment. I love it. I will always come back here to mourn or rejoice with her voice. 🖤
Hey you should come back and listen to this again =)
Burst into tears after opening a random song from recommendations?? Sure. Why not.
My same experience bahaha.
I think you're missing somebody.
Same happened to me f*k
Yep. Good to know it’s not just me.
😢😪😭
This song got me, but can we talk about how beautiful she is. Her face is like the prettiest thing ever.
lana winters yes. It really helps deliver the song I sad to say. Beautiful voice beautiful face beautiful song . I’m sad to say because beauty isn’t given to everyone although people can be beautiful in different ways.... but what she’s been blessed with.... kinda not fair but we get to enjoy it
You’re beautiful too I’m sure :)
“His name was Bruce and I just thought he was darling” honestly that was so cute, I want to know more about this women and Bruce
Mia E.G And her voice was so quaint.
Jimmy Bob ik, she seems so lovely
that's my grand ma
Sabreen Rezvie really?
@@haleshel2220 no ;(
After losing my parents I've been bawling like a baby to this song, "if I don't have you at least I have me" is a healing way to think about it though
Sorry dear. I lost my beloved mum last year and am looking for everything to keep me strong
"there's no reason to speak badly"
GROWTH
I want to give virtual hugs to someone who came here for the first time.. yes, we found the comfort place!!!
* hugs back*
Group hug!!!!!
free hugs for everyone...i just found this masterpiece
🥳❤
“Love requires a commitment to meet the challenge of dealing with another human being.” This one broke me, because I know I can't do it :(
Correct. I broke up like a week ago due to the same reason u mention. Still hurts like shit..
Me too 😏
Same
It's do-able if it's true love. It happened to me. I can; but unfortunately, he can't. Love is unconditional, so it's worth fighting for; but he always gave up whenever things went down without putting a 100% effort in it. In the end, it hurts when i was the only one who's holding at the end of the rope for us. He has a choice, either to move forward for the betterment, or to stay the same. He chose the later. It's sad.
J. V. The most unconditional love is the one you should have for yourself, because it’s the longest relationship you will ever have.
I swear discovering these kind of artists is what makes life soooo wonderful!
Listen to everything Laura Marling has released. Every song is different and a masterpiece.
The video is a nice commentary on how in earlier generations - in my generation, in fact - people felt that they were not whole people without a mate. For my own part, I feel like it's a shame it took me til I was in my late fifties to figure that out. Now I'm sixty-four, I'm alone, and I'm reasonably happy. And that brings me to the fact that happiness is vastly overrated - in the sense that in the world today, and this began in my generation, I guess, everyone started chasing this illusion that they could be happy all the time - but that's just not possible. All kinds of things come into our lives: illness, heartache from the loss of loved ones, and it can be possible to attain some kind of superficial happiness "all the time" when you're younger, but as you get older, it's harder and harder to hang onto that kind of happiness all the time, until at last (if you're lucky!) you realize how hollow it is. There is another kind of positivity that one can have, that acknowledges sadness as well as joy, and embraces all that life has to bring, changes what needs to be changed and can be, and accepts what can't, and looks for a greater sense of meaning, in whatever form that sense comes. The ability to be content on one's own is part of that kind of adjustment, and the consequent inner wholeness.
Thank you for sharing. I hope I can talk more about it with my grandmother, but we are far apart.
This is genius! Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
Thank u for sharing this
Your comment should be at the top of this comment section tbh
You're AMAZING sir. 💯💕💋
Can I also just point out that besides sounding like an angel, she also *looks* like one? How is she so perfect?
Mira Rose yesss hair goals voice goals basically everything goals lol
I broke my back cause
I thought you would too
I'd run in circles
I thought you would too
Maybe in another life
Everything worked out alright
And things that made this harder passed us by
But there's no bad dream to wake up from
Know I got it bad when
It's the morning and you're all that's on my mind
If I don't have you
At least I still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I still have me
I never thought twice
Cause you were my number one
I put you first cause you were my only thought
No more riding on the train
No more smoking in the ally
Now my secrets only stay with me
Everybody knows I'm upset
They don't even have to ask it
They know I believed in us last week
And if I don't have you
At least I still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I still have me
There's no reason to speak badly
We just reached our end
I will see you in parts of me
In who I was back then
If I don't have you
At least I still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I still have me
Me
Me
Thanks for the lyrics but it's ( every body knows I'm upset)
0Haseo thanks for the comment!
I LOST IT IN CLASS IM BAWLING
I'm crying lol
people like you are gold! thanks mate
Dear Cyn,
Thank you for making this song, back in 2018 I was at the lowest point of my life, I was at my freshmen year in College and struggling to figure out my life. Now I’m at my senior year and I am a candidate for Cum Laude, this song had an integral role in my life journey. I’m still figuring out my life and I just want to tell you that this song became my friend when i had no one else. ❤️
If you’re still at this part of my comment, just want to say thanks for having time to read!
❤
That's beautiful. I hope you're fine:).
Lyrics:
[Verse 1]
I broke my back 'cause
I thought you would too
I'd run in circles
I thought you would too
[Pre-Chorus 1]
Maybe in another life
Everything worked out alright
And things that made this harder
Passed us by
But there's no bad dream to wake up from
Now I got it bad when it's the morning
And you're all that's on my mind
[Chorus]
If I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
[Verse 2]
I never thought twice
'Cause you were my number one
I put you first 'cause
You were my only song
[Pre-Chorus 2]
No more riding on the train
No more smoking in the air
Now my secrets only stay with me
Everybody knows I'm upset
They don't even have to ask it
They know I believed in us last week
[Chorus]
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
[Bridge]
And there's no reason to speak badly
We just reached our end
I will see you in parts of me
If you are wise back then
[Chorus]
If I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me, me, me
In who i was back then * (last bridge)
' no more smoking in the Ally'
I put you first,
Cause you were my only thought
This song is totally what I am feeling. Thank you
Thank you Felipe
I remembered I first found this song from when I was thinking I would be single forever, and now coming back to it again for strength after losing the love of my life suddenly after a year and a half of being together. 3/18/21. He was 31 and died in his sleep. Life is so unfair. Kaitis was my everything and we thought we would be together our whole lives. Now I must live my life for us both. I love you so much honey. I will never forget you.
wow your comment. I send you my comfort. You see this song from a different lens. And that lens is the lens I'd love for everyone to look through. That although the love of their lives passed away you know you still have you. The strength it took you to come back and make a comment. To share it with us. My heart. My spirit. My soul. I send it over to you. I send you over my love and comfort. You are needed. You are divine. You are a blessing to have come across.
I wanna cry
youre so strong.
😥
May he Rest In Peace 🌹 stay strong hun hope you are doing okay.
This song hits you different when you're heart broken.
you mean hit you like a fucking truck
@@АндрейДвуличанский-я7е One made out of cement & solid steel.
Agreed
Every song hits you when your heart is broken.
Very much so.
I crank this whenever the homies ain't around
i have no idea how i found you, but holy shit. i'm so glad i did.
Dustin Kloeppel I found it for katy perry and shit, I'm in love of her music, is artttt
Dustin Kloeppel samee
Dustin Kloeppel samee
Same
SAME
found this in my recommendation. her music and her voice.... is a pop music timebomb. ticking its clock to explode anytime soon. watch out.
This gives me a calming sensation as in if I lose a partner. Whether they pass away, break up with me etc. I’ll still have me to pick myself up and think of the good times.
I feel the same way! It's sort of sad but more so about how you havent lost everything even though they will always be a part of your past.
Used to listen this a lot during the end of an abusive relationship, always felt so lonely. This song really gave me perspective and strength to see myself being independent and alone.
I come back occasionally, life is very different now, and I feel like I made it out of that dark place, this song really has helped me. Thank you Cyn for making something so moving and relatable. You're a beautiful soul
This song resonates me so much.. i gave in so much in my previous relationship. I put him first without ever thinking twice.. and when he left, it felt like i was breathing under water. Barely alive barely living. Everyone knew I was upset and no one dared ask me. It felt very lonely being in that place.. but slowly, things did get better. And now, I know we have reached our end and there's no point in speaking badly about each other.
Thanks for being a huge part of my life once. Thank you CYN for this beautiful song! I'll keep on supporting you!!
If I don't have you, at least I'll still have me 💖
I relate to every word you said! And, yeah.. things do get better. Wish you the best!
This happened to me too. It's always somehow comforting to see others relate to something sad so you know you're not the only one
Different nations, different people, same feelings. I feel you, dear💖
I had my breakup at this 1st of October and fortunately, at that day; I also had my birthday..!!
OMG same. But it's okay i already move on now 😅
If someone notices this, I’m still alive and fighting depression
i’m glad you’re still here
I noticed, and I'm glad you are still here as well 😘
Stay strong!
Is your name a reference to the Big Lebowski censoring on cable TV? I remember the first time watching it on cable and that just cracked me up!
@@Alan-cd9iv yes that is the reference, thank you for noticing
Hang on there buddy
I'm afraid I won't be able to stop loving him
Leticia M. you will. Take your time. Everything's gonna be alright.
Maybe you won't. Depending on your story, you won't forget him or stop loving him. But you'll (and I can assure it) leave it in the past and move on, so when you look back you'll feel the love, but know it was the best to just leave it behind. Maybe you wont stop loving him, maybe you will, but you love yourself in the first place :)
actually, you can never stop loving someone. if you truly loved them. if it was actual love, you cannot. how can your heart forget about something that once made you so happy? it can't. you may find other loves. greater loves, that will lessen the sting of your past heartbreaks, but no, you can never stop loving someone. once you love them. it's there for good.
I'm having the best relationship I've ever had and I truly love him. I know that cause I've never felt the same with anyone else. Unfortunately, distance at some point of the next year will tear us apart. We don't know for how long. We promised to enjoy the time we have, but I want a whole life with him. I'll keep in mind that we found each other for a reason.
You will
Lyrics...
"I'll Still Have Me"
I broke my back 'cause
I thought you would too
I'd run in circles
I thought you would too
Maybe in another life
Everything worked out alright
And things that made this harder passed us by
But there's no bad dream to wake up from
Know I got it bad when it's the morning
And you're all that's on my mind
If I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
I never thought twice
'Cause you were my number one
I put you first 'cause
You were my only thought
No more riding on the train
No more smoking in the alley
Now my secrets only stay with me
Everybody knows I'm upset
They don't even have to ask it
They know I believed in us last week
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And there's no reason to speak badly
We just reached our end
I will see you in parts of me
In who I was back then
If I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me, me, me
2:03
Deep pain in( your) Actions against innocent. Woman love is what's harmfully. 💋
Thank you x
Ty for this
3:10
Thanks
How can there be such a delicate song with such deep emotion? Love your sweet voice too.
BIG FAT TEARS ROLLING DOWN MY FACE RN. That lady dancing by herself just destroyed me.
You're not alone
I think I might have two tears stuck in my eyes.
Same
not joking at all, the best nose ive ever seen.
I know right?!
Its like her nose was made with the help of a 3d printer...
Mines like that
paola R. Your just beautiful
@Brenna loves llamas what
This is beautiful.
To the people struggling with anything. Here my prayer to you...
Hope you may be able to carry it lightly. ❤
this song makes me feel empowered and equivalently makes me feel vulnerable, all at the same time
I wonder why is this so underrated. This video deserves more views. She deserves more appreciation. This is amazing and heart warming.
아릭스 she is getting recognition, this is her most watched video and it was just released, it’s happening now.
hhn2002 I hope she get what she really deserves. It's obviously happening right now too. I'll look forward to her in the near future. I would love to hear more songs from her.
It just released a couple of weeks back. Give the UA-cam recommendation engines a few months. :-)
It’s not underrated, it’s getting a lot of views for being uploaded less than 2 weeks ago
this could be our secret from the world.
only the few us can appreciate songs like this
This lady, dancing alone, she reminded me of one very good friend of our family. She died from cancer, but there was one last party, organized for her by friends. She was already in a wheelchair, not being able to walk or even to breathe without an oxygen. But she wanted to dance and she was dancing, in the wheelchair alone. She was a great woman, very kind and very generous and smart. We were not that close, but I often remember her and miss her
I am the solo dancer (mamacharblessed) and I am so very sorry for your loss. Your friend is dancing in Heaven!! 🎶✌️💃
This comment made me cry. Thank you for remembering her that way. I'm sure she's with you still
Even seeing this comment ahead of time while listening to the song, I stilled teared up when that lady started dancing alone. All I could do was wonder about her loves lost and life lived.
You know, one thing I really noticed was her smile at the end. That smile alone tells a whole story full of bittersweetness, peacefulness, and acceptance. You can tell whoever she’s singing about still is part of her, but she finally accepts that that person’s gone and I think that’s beautiful. Because I’ve felt that before, had that same smile before….
If you made it here, you're the main character.
96 people liked this so far, that's a lot of main characters XD
Wow that's cool
someone told me i give off main character vibes today lol
11 million? nah.
That's one way of looking at my Murphy's Law of a life 😂
I’m mesmerized by this woman’s beauty. She’s one of the most beautiful people I’ve ever seen.
makeup and editing trick
To me she looks like a slightly prettier younger sister of Kiera Knightley.
TombSk8r Lol what's wrong with her ears??
@@cobaltgofast I thought she had gauges lmao. She doesn't, my bad.
me too :)
Me: DONT CRY IF YOU DO I-
*tears start rolling down*
Me : DAMN IT!
I feel u.
Christ you just read my mind
@me
SAMEEEE
I would've at a time. But there's none left..
This makes me smile and cry at the same time I’m 40 and sick and this touched my heart ♥️ I have 5 daughters and 4 grand babies from 25 yrs to 3 yrs 😢😭and finally found my soulmate after abuse for 22 yrs
Proud of you Queen 👑
This woman is so beautiful...
not only physically, but she also strikes me as someone with a great depth of emotional understanding that makes her wise beyond her years. Very pure & unique vocal style complete with vulnerable sincerity
Beautifully said. Very true.
Erika Mesa, Thank you
Can we have a moment of silence for the people that still can’t find this song.
Tis was me 5 min ago and now I’m crying and so much happier although everything around be is gone
I was one of them till today.. Wow.. Ive been deprived.
Same
Underrated comment 👏🏾
yes sir
I'm listening to this song a year and half after leaving an abusive relationship. I remember when I first heard it I began to cry, I kept reminding myself that I still had myself. I had completely lost myself in the relationship. It took me so long to heal from those wounds.
So proud of you... you should talk more to others who may be in the situation you were in before you got away from it...
Know that you're not alone😢 because thanks to people like you, i know that i'm not alone too in this journey
I’m so proud of you
I’m in the midst of leaving an abusive relationship…. I had been trying so hard to tell myself that I haven’t lost who I was… this song gave me the clarity to realize that I am unrecognizable now, four years later.
To all ppl struggling in different kinds of abusive relationships, I want to remind u all that u are precious.
You love somebody so much and maybe you don’t get what you contributed in the same way in return. But that doesn’t mean you don’t deserve it or your love is not valuable. YOU ARE PRECIOUS. And your ability to love somebody is wonderful. Things just sometimes don’t work out. You still have you, a precious you.
To me it speaks of moving forward whilst leaving someone in the past, even with all the mistakes that person made you are able to forgive, "not speak badly", and still carry that love with you
I'm going through a hard time now with my relationships and I've decided to have more alone time by myself. I love the title of this song, "I'll Still Have Me". It reminds me that it's okay to be alone or single. I still have someone special, myself. If I can be happy with my own company, I won't depend on others too much for love. If I'm happy on my own, it doesn't matter if people are around me or not, if I many or less friends. People come and go. Those who truly cherish you will stay. So, I'm stopping chasing the love of others.
I feel you stay strong good days are coming
Agree. We need to love ourselves first, and once we do that we will know how much we're worth and stop loosing ourselves in others :$
Everything will be okay in the end, I'm sure :$
Recently kinda 'lost' someone really close myself, but one has to follow your last two statements for being happy on his own. I've discovered this a long time ago. One should always focus on themselves, this way you can't get hurt as much.
Maybe... some time in the future, there'll be the one, but if not "I'll still have me" and you'll still have you, just remember that :)
❤️🥺
ua-cam.com/video/guJErG6x644/v-deo.html🎶
I don't know wether I'm crying over the music video, the song or simply the people I'm thinking about while listening to this song
Thatonefriend That person on your profile. He's all I can think about. 🐳🌙️
me neither, friend
Struggling with that too
She's so fkng beautiful
im sorry you just wasted your precious minutes
I have come back to this song again & again- and right now I am listening to it after a period of releasing someone who was very bad for me & I feel hopeful & renewed- I no longer feel alone or as though I have nobody- because I learned, I have me
[Verse 1]
I broke my back 'cause
I thought you would too
I'd run in circles
I thought you would too
[Pre-Chorus 1]
Maybe in another life
Everything worked out alright
And things that made this harder passed us by
But there's no bad dream to wake up from
Know I got it bad when it's the morning
And you're all that's on my mind
[Chorus]
If I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
[Verse 2]
I never thought twice
'Cause you were my number one
I put you first 'cause
You were my only thought
[Pre-Chorus 2]
No more riding on the train
No more smoking in the alley
Now my secrets only stay with me
Everybody knows I'm upset
They don't even have to ask it
They know I believed in us last week
[Chorus]
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
[Bridge]
There's no reason to speak badly
We just reached our end
I will see you in parts of me
In who I was back then
[Chorus]
If I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me, me, me
Thank you!😊
This song only had me thinking of one person. From the song title, down to the lyrics. I will always love him.
That's a little too sad, but yet beautiful. I only want to say that I love your name.
@@franciscomiranda6066 aw thank you :) lol
this randomly appeared on recommendations today. been years since i last listened to this song. ahh the memories of the time i listened to this on repeat 😢❤ must add to my current playlist again
sammeee
Same!!! ❤ Have a good week
It's been 20yrs since my dad passed away. I was only 11 months old. Growing up I saw my mom avoiding parties she never went to any party unless if it was with her friends. Now I understand why.. Wish I could show this to my mom but she doesn't speak English 😅
you should show her and then translate it! If it's possible :) Or play pieces and translate bit by bit
This reminded me of my mom as well. It's been 15 years for my dad. And this just broke my heart thinking of her. How she must deal with it. And It's so bad we can't even talk about it. ❤️
Sesrch for a translate version! But dont stop yourself from showing it to her
i think she could still understand it without understanding the lyrics
Show her. She'll understand.
WHO ARE YOU AND WHY I'VE NEVER HEARD OF YOU UNTIL NOW?
She reminds me of that spider girl from undertale
My thoughts exactly. What a blessing. 💛
I was at a friend of the familys wedding reception. I was 16 years old. I didn't have a very good home life back then, and I had zero confidence, kind of an ugly duckling and even at such an early age was extremely depressed, hopelessl and very alone.
I was dancing by myself just like the old woman in the video and I heard a voice say " Why are you dancing by yourself? Let me cut in." And it was a handsome guy around the same age, with a pretty smile and an earring.
I d danced with him and I just laid my head on his shoulder like I knew him forever hahaha*cringe* but it meant so much to me. Afterwards he asked to kiss me and I had my first kiss.
I never saw him again but his name was Brandon and I smile wherever I hear that name. Never be afraid to dance alone, because you never know who is out there that will want to cut in.
Wow reading this made me start bawling 🖤
I love that song wrangles all my Sorrow and pulls it out of my soul.
The tears are healthy and I appreciate the help these days
My boyfriend of over a year broke up with me recently. A little while ago I would’ve done absolutely anything to get him back, but now I’m not so sure. I saw so much with him, but I want to be with someone who loves me without a second thought. It hurts, but I know I’ll heal.
Stay strong 🖤 All of us here too so u arent alone
Shadow Hunter thank you :’)
going through the exact same thing, and arriving at the same conclusions. we got this!
OMG
I got my heart broken just yesterday and TBH I have never felt more pain in my entire life.
The good news is, it's not over until it's over
Fact need 500 days for heal after broke up..
*this song made me feel sad over my nonexistent ex boyfriend*
Huhu same
G ABI I feel the same way :) !
SAME!!!
Sad😢
Aye
Her beautiful face and her jawline. Her beautiful lovely voice. And soft voice. Good song!
That's why ugly, but more talented musicians will never have a chance
Sad but true ....
if she wasn't that pretty she wouldn't be that popular
This song came to me during my darkest times, the lowest of lows. Times I didn’t think I’d make it through. Thank you for your music ❤️
Going through this right now. This song seems to find the ones hurting and struggling... 💔
@@cryptnick_I promise you it gets better, even though it may feel like it never will. There is light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there 🫂
@@MoonBirdsandMonsters Thank you. I'm hanging in there. 🙏🏻🫂
Lyrics- "I'll Still Have Me"
I broke my back 'cause
I thought you would too
I'd run in circles
I thought you would too
Maybe in another life
Everything worked out alright
And things that made this harder passed us by
But there's no bad dream to wake up from
Know I got it bad when it's the morning
And you're all that's on my mind
If I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
I never thought twice
'Cause you were my number one
I put you first 'cause
You were my only thought
No more riding on the train
No more smoking in the alley
Now my secrets only stay with me
Everybody knows I'm upset
They don't even have to ask it
They know I believed in us last week
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And there's no reason to speak badly
We just reached our end
I will see you in parts of me
In who I was back then
If I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me, me, me
Its just brings back so much memories ,such a great lyrics and such a great voice
@ It's works on me too! 💔 So much shit memories.
Could you imagine whoever's she's talking about hearing this and seeing her and being shattered
@@AnonOE190 When I think about it, my fur stands out. There is no more heartache than this.
Damn that last part... it hurts at times to remember the person we were in the past with someone else, and that that person will never come back save in memories.
When my grandmother died my grandfather went down hill. There are times when he improves. But i think it’s still killing him that she isn’t around anymore. They were married 43 years when she died and this year would have been 50 years. The pure love he had and still has for him is beautiful but so heart breaking at the same time.
this describes my situation exactly, my grandmother and grandfather were so close. now she's gone, i'm scared that he won't be happy again.
Skylark it all comes down to everyone being there for him. I’ve lived with my grandfather since i was 6 months old along with my mother and sister. I’m 21 now. He has always had us around for him. I think if we weren’t, he would’ve died a while ago just from heart break alone. Just make sure you spend time with him and that he knows he’s loved no matter what. A relationship with your grandparents and parents are so important and can be so amazing. They have stories that you wouldn’t believe.
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After my grandma died, my grandpa didn't know what to do. I loved how he described caring for her as "a privilege".
best thing you can do for a a widowed person is to say "tell me a story about them". Allow them to reminisce. Stories told are a way of celebrating a lost loved one's worth. There may be a few sentimental tears, but don't allow that to keep you from asking.
"Love requires a commitment to meet the challenge of dealing with another human being"
I wonder if that's a quote from somewhere, or if it really is from this video or that guy. I would love to know who said it so I can quote them.
thank you @youtube for recommending me this video.
brought back a lot of memories :)
This makes me realize that after all my failed relationships all I ever had was me
Yes, You are the only person that You're gonna spend the whole life with.
try making better decision !
The woman dancing by herself just breaks me.
oh honey there is nothing better than realizing that you love yourself more than anyone else could ever love you. It's exhilarating
@@sarah_siki were you not paying attention to the story the song gave? "if I don't have you then at least I still have me"
widow
grief
pain
loneliness
envy
that Lone woman dancing by herself is the main character of the video. its talking about losing your married other half like halfway through the marriage or somethin, an when it comes to times both is required (dancing) at least she still has herself. so its comin to terms with it
@@sarah_siki i-
that statement is actually good but not in this context, not with this song. they're grieving.
@@sarah_siki wrong video.
@e Yes, she's not dancing because she 'loves herself', and she did lose someone. But she's dancing DESPITE losing someone, and that shows some self-love manifesting there. Hope.
"Love requires a commitment to meet the challenge of dealing with another human being." True words.
That quote has stuck with me since the first time I saw the music video.
It is a challenge and requires patience. Beautiful quote.
This song hits differently for different age of people, to be honest. When you have walked a long way, this song just hits those memories back. It feels like home...
👍😍@0:23 “Love requires a commitment to meet the challenge of dealing with another human being.” 💞
❤️this
but not gay love coz its not love but perversion
I'll tip my hat to that
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@@niggamaster9139 shut the fuck up idiot
Made sense
My youngest son and I are at odds. Even for Moms this song could have meaning. Letting go of adult kids...we forget as parents, we are more than just that.
wendy tise Things will get better Wendy. ❤️ sending you love
i wish my mom would realize that she and i are both just human and she is a daughter like i am a son, being a parent doesn't have to mean she is bigger and better than me
i wish you all the love wendy... Love will come through... Till then do us a favour and keep that chin up. It's a beautiful thing love... what a pill.
If I don't have you at least I'll still have memes
Hi Hello Annyeong 😂
I was about to cry then i read this 😂
👏👏👏😂
Memes save all.
Memes are love.
Memes are life
My spirit is awakened. You move me.. soothing my soul.. Thank you Ren ❤
To anyone who reads this, you don't need anyone to feel complete, and you never did
The great mister Suzuki took me 30 years to learn this
Thank you
This was all emotional. And thats what finally cracked me. Damn you. Thank you.
"I don't need a man to complete me" Miso - Take me, another great song
We are not born to be alone
@Jack Jones yes, completely agree
Does anyone else just cry Every time they hear this?
Me, but that's because I relate too much rn
Every. Single. Time.
F**kk!! How she do that!
Ruth Mann what are ya ... bout 3 weeks in to the break up.
I cried the ugly “Kim Kardashian cry”
“everybody knows I’m upset, they don’t even have to ask it. They know I believed in us last week”
Hits different.
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How time flies, just few years ago, this was my favourite.
This song represents so perfectly what I'm going through now, there's no way I can't cry. I try to seek support in my self-love because not having him hurts too bad, I just want to be well again.
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I can relate 💔 u aren’t alone
Me too. Lost my bf and bff to each other in the same week, it really hurts, but im really glad i found this song. Good luck and good thoughts from me to you
I I relate to this, ¹⁰⁰٪ !
You're not alone. Remember that.
i love that it feels like this was written for the older generation, but also ourselves as a message for when we get older. so beautiful
i got recommended this a few months back, when i was two months into a relationship. i cried at the thought of it applying. the day i was going to tell her i’m in love with her, she broke up with me. and she wants to keep talking about the breakup and drag it out, but i can’t. she said she had felt it for a while, while for christmas i’d been writing her “open when” letters. a breakup has never hurt this much. she was different than anyone else.
It's weird that I love this song before because it just so beautiful. Now I come back here, and I relate to it now with my recent break up.
God, I hate how I love too much. That's there's nothing left to me only self-loathing.
I hope when I come back here again in the future. I'm heal from all this pain.
I lost my grandfather 2 weeks back and watching my grandmother hurts because she feels helpless and lonely. She looks lost and in so much pain and I wish I could erase her pain and watch her smile again at my grandpa's silly jokes...😔
Life is unfair sometimes ... unpredictable too..
I'm so sorry for your loss ):
Bushra, I am so sorry for your loss. My mom passed away suddenly almost year ago and watching my dad go on without her has been simultaneously so painful and so very special. She was the love of his life and he always lights up when we say her name (which is still all the time). It sounds strange, but it's a truly beautiful thing to miss someone this much and to find pieces of them in yourself and others. I know you must do this already, but cherish your grandmother. Ask her about her love and her life; listen to her stories and write them down. You will carry your (grand)parents with you always.
bushra fatima hope you can no grands left for me.
Sorry for your loss.. songs like this seems always take to the good memories
If feel you, my grandmother died back in March. My grandfather is still hurting after everything we've tried
The lyrics:
I broke my back 'cause
I thought you would too
I'd run in circles
I thought you would too
Maybe in another life
Everything worked out alright
And things that made this harder
Passed us by
But there's no bad dream to wake up from
Know I got it bad when it's the morning
And you're all that's on my mind
If I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
I never thought twice
'Cause you were my number one
I put you first 'cause
You were my only thought
No more riding on the train
No more smoking in the ally
Now my secrets only stay with me
Everybody knows I'm upset
They don't even have to ask it
They know I believed in us last week
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And there's no reason to speak badly
We just reached our end
I will see you in parts of me
In who I was back then
If I don't have you
At least I'll still have me
And if I don't have you
At least I'll still have me, me, me
Thank you!!!!
Thank u
Thanks
I feel this song🤗 if I don’t have you I’ll still have me.
Thanks
I can't put in words how much emotions are rolling though my body right now