Why NICE GUYS Always Get GHOSTED ?

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  • In this video you will see why do nice guys end up being ghosted and how to prevent it from happening.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 908

  • @Levi-1992
    @Levi-1992 2 роки тому +806

    Coming from a former nice guy: I will NEVER settle for anything less than high interest from a woman EVER again!!

    • @danielsea6479
      @danielsea6479 2 роки тому +14

      👍 yep

    • @yassinaberra9743
      @yassinaberra9743 2 роки тому +9

      Yup!!!!!

    • @gianbisagas1739
      @gianbisagas1739 2 роки тому +8

      👑👑

    • @lordkent8143
      @lordkent8143 2 роки тому +59

      Sad but kinda true. If the girl doesn't show any initiative to want to make time for you, it's not worth your time and chasing. And that's most girls.

    • @antonioabrazo5339
      @antonioabrazo5339 2 роки тому +15

      I've learned my lesson. Never again for me.

  • @googleuser8740
    @googleuser8740 Рік тому +102

    Her tone of voice alone tells you everything you need to know. Best gift ever was to be ghosted. She converts men from happy to suicidal.

    • @bassguitarislife3419
      @bassguitarislife3419 Рік тому +3

      FR, I’ll bet it wasn’t THAT early in the morning for her to sound like that.

    • @carloferretti8956
      @carloferretti8956 4 місяці тому +1

      It not her fault dude was simped out. Dude was pathetic

  • @stevenebesni2432
    @stevenebesni2432 2 роки тому +730

    She sounds like a great girl. She’s going to make some guy’s life a living hell in a few years.

    • @ivanlebedinskiy4145
      @ivanlebedinskiy4145 2 роки тому +97

      This guy just like survived a nuclear explosion. But he doesn’t understand it.

    • @23ofSeptember
      @23ofSeptember 2 роки тому +25

      @@ivanlebedinskiy4145 Women think sex is all they need to give a guy. So they just look for the guy they want sex with, that has the most to give. Usually its money.

    • @anthonyshaw8698
      @anthonyshaw8698 2 роки тому +14

      Ain't that the truth.
      I pity the guy she's with. It's gonna be a nitemare.

    • @PGO_Gaming
      @PGO_Gaming 2 роки тому +6

      @@anthonyshaw8698 Why pity him? Once she opens her mouth, one should be exiting stage left. If he is still with her, then he is a Simp as well. There is no time to have pity for Simps.

    • @Tangwich522
      @Tangwich522 2 роки тому +9

      She did him a favor and dodged a major bullet.

  • @Peteristrate
    @Peteristrate 2 роки тому +614

    In fact, let's not shame this guy for embarrassing himself on the radio.
    Let's thank him for giving all men out there a good lesson :)

    • @mikebingham9700
      @mikebingham9700 2 роки тому +17

      Exactely!

    • @gregthompson8062
      @gregthompson8062 2 роки тому +7

      Amen

    • @timothygibney159
      @timothygibney159 2 роки тому +24

      She deserved to be embarrassed too. What a freaken heartless !?!😡

    • @robertmendick3195
      @robertmendick3195 2 роки тому +30

      Good cautionary tale. Many men are better off hearing these accounts and not condemning these guys. Their experiences are valuable learning tools.

    • @sergiogonzalesYT
      @sergiogonzalesYT 2 роки тому +3

      +

  • @joebravetti3023
    @joebravetti3023 2 роки тому +314

    Never underestimate a woman's power to justify anything.

  • @rustymertz
    @rustymertz 2 роки тому +184

    If you’re a male calling a radio station to find out why you were ghosted that should be enough of an answer right there.

    • @KNByam
      @KNByam 2 роки тому +14

      In fairness everyone has a learning curve. Maybe he's not experienced with women. It took me until I was 35 sadly to realize how to play the game. Its an eye opener for him. He'll be a better man for it going forward.

    • @rustymertz
      @rustymertz 2 роки тому +5

      @@KNByam late bloomer myself.

    • @williamwallace410
      @williamwallace410 2 роки тому +17

      It’s society’s fault for misinforming young men about women. This guy did nothing wrong, she simply conned him out of resources, which to me is a crime and should be prosecuted.

    • @HalfGodHalfManYourWelcome
      @HalfGodHalfManYourWelcome 2 роки тому +2

      Facts!

    • @aleshapaustin4492
      @aleshapaustin4492 2 роки тому +2

      Excellent observation...

  • @WBMservices
    @WBMservices 2 роки тому +234

    This call was literally the best day of that simp's life. When people treat you badly, thank them for showing you who they really are and making you stronger.

    • @FaisalAdvising
      @FaisalAdvising 2 роки тому +2

      Very true

    • @maxstone9999
      @maxstone9999 2 роки тому +4

      Yeah I think he at least took it well and was like ok fine then see you.

    • @muskokamike127
      @muskokamike127 2 роки тому +9

      I said the same: she did him a favour by ghosting him....He dodged a bullet fired from a .50 cal anti tank weapon.

    • @EllionTy
      @EllionTy 2 роки тому +1

      This was the origin of another super villain 🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @BryanPablo6270
      @BryanPablo6270 Рік тому +1

      @@muskokamike127 more like a barrage of artillery from my opinion, well done good lad 👍👍

  • @kurt6410
    @kurt6410 2 роки тому +336

    I love how that chick says that she's direct but she let a guy give her attention and spend money on her for 4 months knowing full well that she was not sexually attracted to him but knowing that he was

    • @jayrollo1352
      @jayrollo1352 2 роки тому +21

      Well, it's not like her new guy is gona last long anyway. Baby mama in the making.

    • @anonemus5174
      @anonemus5174 2 роки тому +61

      She used him, despite being repulsed by him, then got mad that she was exposed.

    • @causinstatic
      @causinstatic 2 роки тому +13

      @@anonemus5174 relax with this "used" terminology, shits feminine thinking. Cat let himself get used and is salty, good on this girl for slapping sense in him. Don't get bitter, get better.

    • @MrAdeljas
      @MrAdeljas 2 роки тому +17

      its direct only when it serves her

    • @jayrollo1352
      @jayrollo1352 2 роки тому +22

      @@causinstatic True, but where's the humanity? We need understanding from both sides. Can't let people prance around like animals. She needs to check her shitty attitude as well.

  • @OnderHassan
    @OnderHassan 2 роки тому +280

    Never buy girls stuff or pay for dates. That stuff should only be reserved for girlfriends who have proven their love and loyalty.

    • @gosling4391
      @gosling4391 2 роки тому +20

      Yep. I'm not paying for dinner or buying gifts for anyone who hasn't deserved it.

    • @misutasutanto6312
      @misutasutanto6312 2 роки тому +10

      Good luck !

    • @hmhm856
      @hmhm856 2 роки тому +10

      If you plan to make a girl your girlfriend or friends with benefits, make sure that its minimum one date and maximum three dates, and then afterwards is when you ask her if she wants to make it official or when you just go in for a kiss after a date. IF AFTER THREE DATES you still havent gone in for a kiss or try to make it official, then she has every right to see you as a friend and nothing more.
      He messed up by taking her on so many dates, waiting four months, and not making a move or making it official, thus she then assumed that he just wants to be friends. This was not a long distance relationship or some sort of taboo thing going on for him to wait so long to go in for a kiss or make it official.
      He just never had the guts to talk to her to make it official or to go in for a kiss, and he just decided to let things assume. NEVER ASSUME ANYTHING, ALWAYS TALK IT OUT.
      Also, NEVER buy gifts to woman, unless its your mom (birthday, mother's day, Christmas), sister, or your girlfriend/wife.
      And what exactly did he see in that woman, with her attitude in her voice, which would turn off strong man in this planet? The caller is clearly a weak man when it comes to woman, especially with the constant texting with a woman who is not his girlfriend.
      Thats one of the problem with many man: They act like they are already in a relationship with a woman without first entering the relationship, thus those man then act needy, possessive, creepy, and wondering what went wrong.

    • @maciejnowak666
      @maciejnowak666 2 роки тому +5

      yes, exactly. First date to test the waters, keep it a low investment.

    • @OnderHassan
      @OnderHassan 2 роки тому +4

      @@hmhm856 Exactly, a lot of guys make the mistake of thinking they need to sleep with her fast in order to not get put in the friend zone. But that only increases the possibility of failure.
      As long as you demonstrate your confidence and set the frame early that you prefer to wait and get to know someone to see if you're compatible before getting intimate, it will ironically speed up the process and make you more attractive.

  • @mattt9187
    @mattt9187 2 роки тому +203

    She wasn't direct. She led him on and on and on for resources and attention. Then, she dropped him for Chad or Tyrone. Once she is dumped, she will call him back and plead that she made a mistake.

    • @royj8549
      @royj8549 2 роки тому +13

      Hopefully our guy has learned to grow a pair and say: if you want me back, get the radio station to call!

    • @alanguages
      @alanguages 2 роки тому +12

      Unless Luke learned from this hard lesson, then it is likely he will take the bitch back and be used all over again.

    • @bhwillis1048
      @bhwillis1048 2 роки тому +9

      No she won't. She has options better than Luke.

    • @hebanker3372
      @hebanker3372 2 роки тому +3

      @eblman If you haven't fucked within the first three dates, move on.

    • @KNByam
      @KNByam 2 роки тому +6

      Eventually they all call on their low moments they remember, hey this guy treated me well, let me call him to make me feel good until I find someone else.

  • @No-handleneeded1
    @No-handleneeded1 2 роки тому +86

    If she isn’t calling or texting you just keep it moving fellas!
    And don’t let oneitis get in the way either. That shit made me miss out on many options with genuine desire…

    • @FatherAndTeacherTV
      @FatherAndTeacherTV 2 роки тому +1

      Amen!

    • @KNByam
      @KNByam 2 роки тому +5

      Amen. I was talking to one chick, I called her and we had not spoken for 3 days. She said, now you decide to call me. That was the last time we spoke. Apparently I'm the only one with a cell phone. lol

    • @GBU61
      @GBU61 2 роки тому +2

      The trick is to find a girl that cares more than you do. If she consistently shows the effort you reward her behavior. I always drop comments indirectly of things that I value. Women are very astute and will pick up on it. As soon as the effort drops, take a break and wait till she contacts you. That will keep her in line and you in control.

  • @lto2048
    @lto2048 2 роки тому +318

    This clip just got me so worked up from remembering all the times I simped HARD for the women I had a high interest in. I wish I could undo all that shit..

    • @bretsandoval4789
      @bretsandoval4789 2 роки тому +20

      Me too

    • @Corey-gb1rx
      @Corey-gb1rx 2 роки тому +65

      undo???? Those sht experiences were the force that turned you onto the path of liberation and into your own true masculinity. It was a gift to free you from the hell of codependency

    • @nj-kh5vw
      @nj-kh5vw 2 роки тому +20

      Why undo bro i revel in those im glad they happened its because of them im here. Theres no loss or rejection in the game bro just “oh i guess not for me”

    • @mgtowsoldier8673
      @mgtowsoldier8673 2 роки тому +34

      A man forged in fire may complain about the heat but will emerge as steel....

    • @moveadvisor3580
      @moveadvisor3580 2 роки тому +16

      Bro you are 1 of millions! It happens to all of us. The best lessons come with pain.

  • @michaeloud6044
    @michaeloud6044 2 роки тому +18

    He dodged a bullet in a way. That toxic chick is a nightmare. Luke, take the red pill bro.

  • @zito34
    @zito34 2 роки тому +125

    Don't buy women anything. Unless you have significant time with them. This chick just proved it. Totally unnapreciative and the guy got zero in return

    • @nikolairose2739
      @nikolairose2739 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah the only girls I've ever bought things were girlfriends or ex's. And only bought things for the ex's because I end my relationships really amicably and know if they are single they'd be very likely to reciprocate my gift with some sexual energy. It's sort of activates like some backdoor code in her programming to come and see me.

    • @williamwallace410
      @williamwallace410 2 роки тому +1

      He was conned. She is a fraud.

    • @muskokamike127
      @muskokamike127 2 роки тому

      Now, that is true for women you are "interested" in, but if you've got female friends who you exchange christmas gifts with, that's a little different if you've got no interest in them.
      I've had a couple of women in my life that I'd smash, but a relationship? NO no no no no nooooo lol.....
      I recently moved to a small town and 2 blocks away from a woman I've known going on 30 years......no romantic interest at all. She likes to do home projects so I had an old mitre saw that I wasn't using so I "loaned" it to her......This is 100% platonic and on that note, if a male buddy needed it, I would have given it to him as well. She's a buddy that just so happens to be female.
      If you're interested in her romantically? Then yeah, defiinitely don't buy her anything, except maybe an ice cream and then only if she's reciprocating some attraction.

    • @Goorney
      @Goorney 2 роки тому +1

      True. Why buy the girl things if there is no reciprocation, maybe it comes across as desperation.

    • @max_rove
      @max_rove 11 місяців тому

      @@williamwallace410 He conned himself. Only himself to blame. Don't be a whiny man.

  • @chad1405
    @chad1405 2 роки тому +84

    This was so cringe, I had to pause the video multiple times to scream. Rich is a hero for listening to the whole thing without any interruptions

    • @jankucera8505
      @jankucera8505 2 роки тому

      you let a woman move your emotions?

    • @chad1405
      @chad1405 2 роки тому

      @@jankucera8505 you sound like an incel bro, chill and get out there, try to approach at least one woman in your life

  • @Rey-fm6pi
    @Rey-fm6pi 2 роки тому +149

    I feel like when it comes to dating women that are Neutral, us men have a small window of increasing their interest, especially if they’re not interested. If after date 2 (Sometimes after date 1) her interest hasn’t increased, (Initiating text messages/calls from her, dropping hints of wanting to see you again) get the hell out of there.

    • @RJavier007
      @RJavier007 2 роки тому +6

      You get very phsyical on day 1 or is going nowhere

    • @casalaguna22
      @casalaguna22 2 роки тому +24

      They have a window with you before you shut it down. You're the prize. If you try and win their interest they can smell it a mile off

    • @anthonyshaw8698
      @anthonyshaw8698 2 роки тому +2

      I totally agree!!!

    • @alihusssin4060
      @alihusssin4060 2 роки тому +12

      @@casalaguna22 absolutely true. Men are the prize. There's a reason women wear makeup

    • @thedevilsadvocate3710
      @thedevilsadvocate3710 2 роки тому +3

      If after the first meeting she isn't giving me obvious signs we're gonna fuck on the 2nd date, she's left on read cause she knows how to play the game, and so do I.

  • @wilyumfalcon4802
    @wilyumfalcon4802 2 роки тому +10

    Boy that girl is a MONSTER.

    • @carloferretti8956
      @carloferretti8956 4 місяці тому

      They are all like that, he’s was a weak man. We all get spun through the wringer.

  • @xcryosonx
    @xcryosonx 2 роки тому +52

    It blows my mind that us as men are tolerating this behaviour in 2021, absolutely appalling.

    • @hebanker3372
      @hebanker3372 2 роки тому +1

      Yeah, that type of behaviour should be rewarded with two black eyes. Or a cut tongue.

    • @Erfan
      @Erfan Рік тому

      this is the result of decades of ‘feminism’ run amok. Look closer, and the term is misleading - feminism is a disgust of traditional gender roles.
      In its 2nd or 3rd morph and now beyond, It is an attack on actual woman hood, and has become an amplification of the darker aspects of female behavior.
      Men are forced to tolerate this as there is little recourse for us in the West. Aside from
      the catch all advice from coaches like Mike Peterson or Chris Canwell or Rich to walk away in this situation. not easy to do when you actually have feelings. Either way, gotta tame these sort of women .. what a bitch.
      Niagara on the Lake is fun to visit !!

  • @SpookyGhost999
    @SpookyGhost999 2 роки тому +72

    Ghosted so hard people use a Ouija table to call.

  • @patrusso7278
    @patrusso7278 2 роки тому +18

    Lesson : Don't be too nice. NO flowers or candy.. NO FANCY Restaurants. Stop with the birthday dinner for a girl you just met. No presents the 1st 6 months. Stop complimenting girls all the time. DONT call or text EVERYDAY! DONT take being disrespected! DONT be afraid to walk away. If after 3 dates there is No action. ABORT the mission. Move on. the girl was just a miserable user. But it's his fault for allowing it. He dodged a bullet!! She would be a lousy girlfriend anyway!!

    • @hebanker3372
      @hebanker3372 2 роки тому +1

      True lesson:Don't be nice at all.

  • @specialk8300
    @specialk8300 2 роки тому +56

    He showed her with too much stuff. She isn't worth any of the gifts or the trouble. Seeing her personality, catwoman will end up old and alone.

    • @baenbaen7398
      @baenbaen7398 Рік тому

      Nah bro she gonna be a single mom making videos on TikTok 😂😂

  • @bhwillis1048
    @bhwillis1048 2 роки тому +24

    All people, men and woman, act in their own self interest.
    It makes everything make sense. Never forget it.

    • @prashanthb6521
      @prashanthb6521 2 роки тому +2

      True point. We should have our ears up to listen for the signals else it is our fault.

  • @DejiDigital
    @DejiDigital 2 роки тому +36

    This guy did more for basically a complete stranger than some guys even do for their wives.

    • @aleshapaustin4492
      @aleshapaustin4492 2 роки тому +3

      I noticed that too...

    • @jlcarlson9203
      @jlcarlson9203 7 місяців тому

      He made the classic mistake that a lot of younger/inexperienced/afraid of rejection guys make which is trying to use the nice guy routine to get into a woman's pants. This almost never works and instead tends to have the opposite effect because it causes a girl to lose respect. You have to make a move and make it sooner rather than later.
      This is a classic case of he who hesitates masturbates (and gets ghosted).

  • @robertmendick3195
    @robertmendick3195 2 роки тому +22

    Buying the gold jewelry on her birthday, crossed the line, made her uncomfortable, and pushed her hand to dissolve the friend zone connection.... The only value of a friend zone connection is to use her to demonstrate social proof and to get into her social circles to meet her girl friends... The trick is to let her think she's the one using you....Player principles 101

  • @SDtraining627
    @SDtraining627 2 роки тому +33

    I always been (as they say) a bad boy, but once i was in a 3 year of relationship, where i made a big mistake and became a good guy, never again.

    • @irvine1933
      @irvine1933 2 роки тому +7

      Welcome back bro. Yes long term relationships will make you a BETA male by a thousand cuts. Did you also notice how you need to raise your feminine energy to keep the relationship alive?

    • @anthuanjm
      @anthuanjm 2 роки тому +2

      @@irvine1933 wow This is Facts.....You Know I Have Co-workers of mines that he been married for 18 Years and Sometimes he has to raise his Feminine Energy to keep his Relationship,,, He Even Told Me He Sometimes watches Lifetime stories TV Witch he hates but he only Does it To Please her 🤣

    • @TheHillrat4wd
      @TheHillrat4wd 2 роки тому +2

      33 years with my soon to be ex wife, I filed BTW, I could not do it anymore. My wife went completely cold on me, it did not make sense, I did everything for her, loved her more than myself, finally went to a counselor for myself and my female counselor told me I had been to good to her and she had lost respect for me,,,,,, I said what? ALL WOMEN are crazy you just Have to find one with the level of crazy you can deal with

    • @PoyTroy
      @PoyTroy Рік тому +2

      Eshhh that was me, I was always the Tyrone up until I was 28 and thought "I was missing out" decided to lock down the girl I was dating at that time and try the "nice guy" role. Boy did that end badly, started out with her all in my frame , natural burning desire. To death by a 1000 paper cuts as they say. 4 years later we broke it off. Never playing that role again. Lesson learned

  • @pacho640
    @pacho640 2 роки тому +60

    "Women will have a guy fully financially support them and then fuck the pool cleaning boy" is my favorite line ever

  • @mrgmhxha
    @mrgmhxha 2 роки тому +92

    First of all he should not care if he got ghosted or not in the first place just move on but the most important thing is RESPECT! You gotta get her to respect you first!! He's soft as hell!! She talked to him like he's a little boy. She didn't take him serious at all. She used him for attention, validation etc. He had to learn it the hard way. Hopefully he doesn't do this mistakes again.

    • @usman5140
      @usman5140 2 роки тому +12

      He doesn’t need to get her respect, she sounded like a demon and will make any mans life a living hell.

    • @Goorney
      @Goorney 2 роки тому +4

      He was upset because he had bought her all these gifts and was then ghosted. Don't buy women gifts, bad idea.

    • @callanc3925
      @callanc3925 2 роки тому +1

      @@Goorney Only woman you should buy a gift is a family member, girlfriend/wife, or in laws

  • @BrianPhobos
    @BrianPhobos 2 роки тому +13

    Rough stuff, and a tough lesson. That woman was a user. That woman was so abrasive.

    • @alanguages
      @alanguages 2 роки тому +2

      She became defensive of her shitty behavior, and justified it. She is an awful human being.

  • @SilientShadow
    @SilientShadow 2 роки тому +17

    Man got red-pilled in front of the whole radio.

    • @Peteristrate
      @Peteristrate 2 роки тому +5

      You think? I still doubt he learnt anything :))

  • @davidrivas6412
    @davidrivas6412 2 роки тому +57

    I think most of us men been that nice guy before until we learned the hard way of getting hurt and broken. The problem is we men nowadays care about the women we're with but these women don’t care about us and our feelings. They only care about our resources and move on to the next man that is better in her eyes. Females nowadays feel so entitled like goddess due to feminism and the praise, worship and attention they get from thirsty simps on social media. But one day they will get old, sad and lonely. The pet store companies will definitely maximize their profits and take advantage of this.

    • @timothygibney159
      @timothygibney159 2 роки тому +6

      This woman was so evil. I would love to see her 43 and crying in a future video on why men are sooo mean to me and I am a victim 😭😭. A good girl would at least say thanks but I told you we are just friends. I wish you the best of luck but I don't think it's appropriate we keep doing this and then ghost if he won't take no for an answer. A few told me this and were at least honest. This girl I know now I would never date even if this guy screwed up

    • @GBU61
      @GBU61 2 роки тому +1

      All men have been simps at least a few times before we finally wised up. The ones I feel sorry for are those that realize it after it is too late. The one thing we have in our favor is our prime lasts longer than a woman. By 30, her days are numbered while we are just warming up.

    • @tonyb76
      @tonyb76 2 роки тому +1

      I agree to a point but then its vital to make the right decision on which women you bring in. As Rich mentioned you need to vet and has more green flags then red. There is a women whom I am seeing who displays how she can add to my life as a solutions finder for problems and is into me. Shes not finincaially focused or is materialistic. Yes there is s till a long way to go in terms of learning more about one another but so far positive signs. Other women who I idolised and obsessed over were my learning mistakes.

  • @MrAdeljas
    @MrAdeljas 2 роки тому +50

    this woman felt power over him, most women these days "will" exploit that power, she feels better about herself by putting him down..

  • @Evenmixer
    @Evenmixer 2 роки тому +88

    Why am I not surprised that at the end this girl doesn't take any accountability and played the victim's card ?
    Just the way she talks is a pure red flag
    Women will always puts themselves first so men gotta do the same
    Don't invest in something you're not sure you'll have a return of investment

    • @wayneshawlinski4898
      @wayneshawlinski4898 2 роки тому +3

      In other words, don’t be a simp

    • @Mancer1980
      @Mancer1980 2 роки тому +9

      Shes fuming mad because she knows she did the guy wrong and NOW is being called out on it.

    • @Chris-ey7zy
      @Chris-ey7zy 2 роки тому +3

      @@Mancer1980 she can fume Every time. His is not a girl you want to be around

    • @A-Name-101
      @A-Name-101 2 роки тому +3

      I’d rather invest in the S&P500

    • @carloferretti8956
      @carloferretti8956 4 місяці тому

      Why all y’all blaming the chick when the dude was simped tf out? Let’s be honest it’s female nature.

  • @kurt6410
    @kurt6410 2 роки тому +59

    i seen a episode of this where a chick called a guy who ghosted her after one date and it was because she had a tattoo of her ex boyfriend. LOL. Can't blame him there

    • @thrilla72
      @thrilla72 2 роки тому +4

      How she did not immediately realise that was an issue is worrying!!!

    • @SuccessfulM.D.
      @SuccessfulM.D. 2 роки тому +5

      That same tattoo is in her mind and body as a soul tie. There are so many damaged people out here because of the hookup culture. Don't let people convince that the more "notches" you have means you are more of a man. If you have to play games to reach a temporary goal, both are wasting time. Always be true to yourself. If a person can't respect you for who you are, let it be a loss for them.

    • @Chris-ey7zy
      @Chris-ey7zy 2 роки тому +3

      Maybe bf died

  • @C_Emilio757
    @C_Emilio757 2 роки тому +48

    Being too available will destroy a “connection” if you don’t have anything going for yourself, dating will be very difficult for you. 💯

  • @nickpantchev5154
    @nickpantchev5154 2 роки тому +20

    the moment the guy was describing texting everyday was foreshadowing all the things that came out later. Brutal, these are the guys that get angry and bitter at you when you point out what theyre doing wrong.

    • @timothygibney159
      @timothygibney159 2 роки тому +7

      He has every right to be pissed at her. She is a pure b****. A good girl would not accept gifts and let him know we are friends and this texting and paid dates are inappropriate and ghost him if he won't take no for an answer. She didn't and screwed a guy behind his back and verbally bullied him on the radio as a thank you for his effort. His biggest mistake was to date her in the first place

    • @nickpantchev5154
      @nickpantchev5154 2 роки тому +6

      @@timothygibney159 They where never dating in the first place. Girls will not tell you things directly, he should know the signs, if your not sleeping with her after a week at most then theres a problem. Yeah shes a horrible person but the way he describes things show me theres major red flags. Phones are not for writing pen pal letters theyre to set up dates and talk in person, the guy acted like her male gay girlfriend, he has some things to work on as well.

    • @timothygibney159
      @timothygibney159 2 роки тому +4

      @@nickpantchev5154 No kidding. He needs redpill and coach Corey Wayne and others fast! He made mistakes but all of his were like him early on not knowing any better. Women are a pita and I envy gay men at times. Seriously. I still hold entitled women and the simps who encourage this hypergamy and rude behavior out! You would not see this 2 decades ago. Yes she would still screw Chad and not take a guy who agreed to friendzone seriously but at least wouldn't turn the dagger after it's stabbed. I wonder if some chicks use the friendzone as a test? Either way I never accept it now hoping to score later like it shows in the movies written by the beta screen writers. It's rediculous and all the movies have the music changes and the girl falling in love with her friendzoned friends after he becomes beta and simping. Hollywood has a role in this as well

  • @DarkwaveDave
    @DarkwaveDave 2 роки тому +26

    Luke just got red-pilled live on air.

  • @AlexXanderMarketing
    @AlexXanderMarketing 2 роки тому +43

    Such a great lesson. Bitches are ruthless guys. They will drop you fast as you can blink no matter HOW much “love” you think you have with them or what you guys have shared together. Never forget that.

    • @stillkountin
      @stillkountin 2 роки тому

      Big fact's bro

    • @Lessk69
      @Lessk69 2 роки тому

      17 years and dropped like someone she didn't know.

    • @TheHillrat4wd
      @TheHillrat4wd 2 роки тому

      33 years and dropped stone cold.

  • @ryanh4775
    @ryanh4775 2 роки тому +6

    I can feel her frustration and rage over the phone.... She is mad because Chad will not commit. So she explored options to see what else she could get out of people.

  • @ThePatriots010304
    @ThePatriots010304 2 роки тому +19

    His manhood was reduced to the size of a pea. The secondhand cringe and embarrassment was off the charts.

    • @kaletovhangar
      @kaletovhangar 2 роки тому

      Unfortunately, too many guys weren't directed properly by their fathers so they stumble like this.

  • @benjamindoverr3455
    @benjamindoverr3455 Рік тому +6

    I think we've all effed-up and gotten ourselves stuck in the friend zone, hoping things would change. We eventually learn (hopefully sooner than later).

  • @mikebingham9700
    @mikebingham9700 2 роки тому +53

    If she was not really into the guy, why go out with him? She wasn't attracted to him. The way she sounded on the radio indicated she was absolutely repulsed by the guy. Just talking
    about the guy on the radio made her mad.

    • @Kanfachan
      @Kanfachan 2 роки тому +17

      She kept going out with him because she benefited from it. She was getting free gifts, attention, dinners and trips; wouldn't you sign up for that if you were in her shoes? The problem is that he didn't make her earn those things

    • @royj8549
      @royj8549 2 роки тому +5

      @@Kanfachan Exactly! Like saying: this company won't hire me, I volunteered day and night. 4 months later I asked to be recognized as an employee, they kicked me out and ghosted me...

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 2 роки тому +2

      Dunno...why do guys pump&dump women they're not interested in?

    • @mikebingham9700
      @mikebingham9700 2 роки тому +2

      @@wyleecoyotee4252 You've got a valid point!

    • @phillytheflyerable
      @phillytheflyerable 2 роки тому +4

      @@Kanfachan no. wtf do you think? if someone I couldn't stand would bring me to vegas I would rather stay home playing video games

  • @michaeltunstall3658
    @michaeltunstall3658 Рік тому +2

    Carmen’s voice tells the story.

  • @moneymatt4647
    @moneymatt4647 2 роки тому +8

    An important lesson for all men. DO NOT SIMP. 4.5 months, lord knows how much $$$ spent, and no sex.

  • @Dad_of_War
    @Dad_of_War 2 роки тому +3

    I've come to learn that no response, is the response. If they want to talk to you, they will.

  • @danielbright792
    @danielbright792 2 роки тому +30

    I like the fact that she called him out about not being direct then leading by example. She basically blatantly told him how he got played and why.
    If I learned anything at this point about women and life, it’s when to walk away. He should’ve bounced after the second date. He did this to himself.

    • @KNByam
      @KNByam 2 роки тому +2

      He should've bounced after the first date. Break that touch barrier, go in for a kiss, if she shows you the cheek keep it moving.

    • @danielbright792
      @danielbright792 2 роки тому +3

      @@KNByam Thats honestly a solid point I’ve never thought about.

    • @chrisburns5691
      @chrisburns5691 2 роки тому +7

      Yep, I cringed when she stated they hadn't even banged, probably didn't even kiss. And he is taking her to wine country, dinner and necklaces? Wtf is wrong with you dude?
      Hopefully he got a reality check.

  • @sunnymagneti
    @sunnymagneti 2 роки тому +2

    The one that loves ALWAYS gets hurt the most

  • @swagsonville9675
    @swagsonville9675 2 роки тому +3

    Im on my way to the gym rn, Ill be hitting a few extra sets for Luke.

  • @jayg9732
    @jayg9732 Рік тому +6

    Usually girls like this always come back , I had girls treat me like shit and then beg me back and I left em on read . I got the last laugh in the end

  • @lawrencelawrence3920
    @lawrencelawrence3920 2 роки тому +47

    To be shot down in private is bad enough but on TV or radio is total humiliation. Cringe to these guys who get down on their knee in public in a stadium to propose, what are they thinking!

    • @voiceofreason1829
      @voiceofreason1829 2 роки тому

      Calm down lol, have fun

    • @gold707786
      @gold707786 2 роки тому +3

      I can never understand why guys propose marriage to their girlfriend on the court after their girlfriend's team won the championship of some sport. It's as if they need their girlfriend in a different state of mind so they say yes. Might as well ply them with booze. They must be insecure about the relationship imo.

  • @dagobaker
    @dagobaker 2 роки тому +14

    he dodged a major bullet....... its a lesson learned....... dont spend $$$$$$$$$$$ until u smash......keep the dates cheap
    imagine waking up next to that everyday...... having to listen to that daily

  • @WolvesBaseballNine
    @WolvesBaseballNine 2 роки тому +9

    He wished her well and she couldn't even reciprocate. Instead she continues to show the world her worst side. Luke got lucky to be honest. Hopefully he gets Red Pilled.

    • @elcoracer
      @elcoracer Рік тому +1

      thats what im sayin.. dude was cool said he'll take the L and wished her well and damn she slammed him at the end. cold ouch.

  • @AndreaSilva-zw9zx
    @AndreaSilva-zw9zx 2 роки тому +15

    If she doesn’t text you back within 5 minutes .. you’re not it🙌Actions not words

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 2 роки тому +4

      5 minutes,? Lol you're assuming she doesn't have a life and is always near her phone

    • @centripetal6157
      @centripetal6157 2 роки тому +4

      @@wyleecoyotee4252 All women - even surgeons and lawyers are attached to their phone.

    • @wyleecoyotee4252
      @wyleecoyotee4252 2 роки тому +1

      @@centripetal6157
      All women are NOT attached to their phones .
      Interestingly I see many men attached to their phones

    • @centripetal6157
      @centripetal6157 2 роки тому +4

      @@wyleecoyotee4252 The overwhelming majority of PEOPLE are. Not sure why you would believe otherwise.

    • @Erick-di9gm
      @Erick-di9gm Рік тому

      They're out there! Might be over 25-30 though.

  • @travelk927
    @travelk927 2 роки тому +9

    Always go for $10 coffee date and push for the bang. Accept nothing less.

  • @opaz6149
    @opaz6149 2 роки тому +15

    If anything good came from that experience, hopefully it helped to wake this guy up. The sooner he gets with it, the less of a fool he’ll be down the line

  • @mavrickwatts4030
    @mavrickwatts4030 2 роки тому +18

    We've all been burned before and Im glad this guy went through this experience to see that "nicing/buying your way to a GF" doesnt work and that it has to be genuine attraction and holding a masculine frame that gets/keeps her. Its unfortunate for him he had to learn this on a public platform but some have to learn the hard way, I did as well. From here I hope he slowly begins learning about female nature and consuming the red pill on the daily. It'll save him loads of time and money vetting women differently than whatever he was doing.

  • @JeffreyWillis800
    @JeffreyWillis800 11 місяців тому +1

    When I met my late wife over 22 years ago, things were very different. I didn't worry about this nonsense back then. She wasn't ruthless, I loved her to the day she died in my arms from breast cancer.

  • @YouDontKnowMebro69
    @YouDontKnowMebro69 2 роки тому +13

    That chicks voice is enough for me to never talk to her again

  • @sctm81
    @sctm81 2 роки тому +2

    He was trying too hard, failing to see that things were not reciprocated and she was just opportunistic and going along with it.

  • @markdrake2715
    @markdrake2715 2 роки тому +10

    I used to be a nice guy. You can do nice things for people, but can't be a door mat. Sometimes you have to be an asshole. Nothing wrong with torquing done every now and then.

  • @aldersonsanku34
    @aldersonsanku34 2 роки тому +1

    The moment she said "Just Friends" Yep. Definitely know the problem.

  • @jarroddavid8352
    @jarroddavid8352 2 роки тому +30

    After it doesn’t work out with Chad/Tyrone she’ll be texting him

    • @Peteristrate
      @Peteristrate 2 роки тому +17

      Exactly. And he'll take her back just so he eventually gets dumped again later :))

    • @royj8549
      @royj8549 2 роки тому +4

      @@Peteristrate Eventually even the radio station will get tired and ghost him :D

    • @mmbower1
      @mmbower1 2 роки тому +2

      This will happen only if he gains a large social media following or presence and she finds out

    • @timothygibney159
      @timothygibney159 2 роки тому +5

      I doubt it. She was obviously angry and apprehensive. She is repulsed by him

    • @fredjung
      @fredjung 2 роки тому +1

      He should block her number immediately.

  • @InfoSuperhighway
    @InfoSuperhighway Рік тому +2

    “Wine tasting back in October” lol. “Back in October” …. Ouch.

  • @RichardEhlinger
    @RichardEhlinger 2 роки тому +12

    Courting, complimenting, exaggerated niceness, chivalry in general - is all beta behavior and repulses women. Period.

    • @parkerhoff4774
      @parkerhoff4774 2 роки тому +6

      The horrible thing about this is that women talk about how these are the things they are looking for lmao

    • @RichardEhlinger
      @RichardEhlinger 2 роки тому +1

      @@parkerhoff4774 they say that to weed out the simps

  • @williamj.dovejr.8613
    @williamj.dovejr.8613 2 роки тому +5

    She led him on for her own ends...he learned the hard way. Now he can be cold. The minute she hinted at that necklace, ghost!

  • @evilchaperone
    @evilchaperone 2 роки тому +138

    Just legalize prostitution. Make dating more transparent.

    • @muskokamike127
      @muskokamike127 2 роки тому +1

      It's legal in Canada. 100% legal if they come to your place and you don't discuss the transaction in public.
      I tell you, I was growing my business and working all hours and didn't have time to go out to chase tail. I found out that a guy from my old neighbourhood, who I went to school with, ran an agency. He sent me the link to his site. I was stressed from working so hard and called him up, he sent over a 10/10, she banged my brains out, then left me to get back to work.
      I used his service and a couple of others numerous times just to bust a nut and get back to building my business.
      You know the saying: we don't pay them for sex, we pay em to leave afterwards.

    • @remc0s
      @remc0s 2 роки тому +8

      @@muskokamike127 Here in the Netherlands as well.
      There's a local brothel at walking distance from my house.
      Sometimes i go there to wind down, pick a girl from the line up and have some beers.
      No nagging wife or ungrateful girlfriends for me.
      They had their chance. Moving on.

    • @muskokamike127
      @muskokamike127 2 роки тому +1

      @@remc0s I don't find ANYTHING wrong with that. Sure guys like Fresh and Fit will dump on that, but they're young and inexperienced....(Myron has never and fresh went to a $20 whore house in columbia)......
      One thing I disagree with him on, he says "don't whack off" "don't hit on women until you up your game" and "don't go to hookers" so....guys should be freaking priests? GTFO of here with that nonsense.
      Funny story for you: there was this one agency girl who I used to see about once a month. It got to the point where she had her own towel at my place, she made me a mixed cd, she borrowed a book of mine, and she started leaving stuff at my place lol (hair clips, scrunchies etc). One time she goes to take a shower, I sit down at my desk to answer emails, I hear "hey where's my towel"!!!! I walk in, oh, sorry, it's in the laundry bag, it's clean, I just haven't folded it and put it away yet.
      We stopped. Looked at each other. Burst out laughing......"so is this what they mean about the girlfriend experience"? lololol.....

    • @GBU61
      @GBU61 2 роки тому +1

      Wait till you get older. Pros are the way to go when your only option is women 50+ who are done with sex, stopped caring years ago and let themselves go. You young guys can not understand the thrill of watching a young hottie take off her clothes knowing you get to have sex with her. That is the cure for viagra.

    • @user-oy9zy4ds9m
      @user-oy9zy4ds9m Рік тому

      This is why they don’t. So there’s always an endless sea of thirsty betas

  • @erictriplett33
    @erictriplett33 Рік тому +2

    The most important concepts I've learned from Rich: 1) you cannot negotiate genuine desire, 2) men compete, women choose. And wow, that chick was a real "prize"...

  • @vcme
    @vcme 2 роки тому +5

    People have to understand how Luke got himself into this situation. He was running a race that had no finish line and will never because of the way he approached it. In order for him to be successful in the future he must map out the trail and most importantly change his approach.

  • @derrickbonsell
    @derrickbonsell 6 місяців тому +1

    I love it. "No no no, you're not going to make me look bad," then shows the entire world how bad she looks.

  • @blogbybryan
    @blogbybryan 2 роки тому +8

    "talked almost every day?" - Ball game over. Being a simp.

  • @healingsounds8348
    @healingsounds8348 2 роки тому +2

    Luke needs to stop being such a nice guy, but honestly he should be happy, he dodged a bullet. What a detestable person.

  • @williambaldwin9346
    @williambaldwin9346 2 роки тому +9

    Why even bother? I mean really, who cares, they always will betray you. Either she is trying to be around you, calling you, etc or you don't pay an ounce of attention to her. She NEVER deserves it, hit the gym, make money, get skills and have fun.

  • @donniemoder1466
    @donniemoder1466 2 роки тому +21

    Not getting back to the guy for an extended period means that she is not into him and he is just not worth it for her to have contact with him. Her decision is final. She is playing with him in order to find someone else in the meantime. And the bitchy way she talks to the radio personality just shows how inconsiderate she is toward people in general. She's accusing him of "ambushing" her on the radio in order to misdirect the conversation from her bad behavior when she is the one who ghosted him and left him with no other way to contact her because she wasn't picking up his calls or texting him back. Just tell him "I am not interested" and everyone can move on. She says Luke is making her look bad, if she just said in a pleasant voice, "Oh Luke, sorry I didn't get back to you, but I am not interested," then she would have looked good.

    • @prashanthb6521
      @prashanthb6521 2 роки тому +3

      She not only monkey branched, but also accused him while she went to the next branch.

  • @josephmontezuma5089
    @josephmontezuma5089 2 роки тому +10

    One of Tom Leykis rule is NEVER spend more than $30 on a date $0 is optimum 😁

    • @mattmartini836
      @mattmartini836 2 роки тому +3

      100%! agree.
      I think dinner was over the top, then he goes and buys a necklace.. fuck that.

    • @timrankin8737
      @timrankin8737 2 роки тому +2

      A drink at best.

  • @mrjosecuervo1971
    @mrjosecuervo1971 2 роки тому +2

    This should open all our eyes kings. Don’t hate on female nature just understand it and use it to be your best self and live your best life. We all gonna make it! 🙏👑🤴

  • @maidenless2110
    @maidenless2110 2 роки тому +7

    Jesus Christ that was brutal. That was a grade A harlot and Luke was this oblivious? Thinking he had a girl like that all sorted out in his head with a middle school romance?

  • @jedisentinel1499
    @jedisentinel1499 Рік тому +2

    I got a feeling that girl was like that from the beginning, he didn’t recognize the red flags because he didn’t know better. Hopefully he does now!

  • @jaymywills
    @jaymywills 2 роки тому +3

    Beta-Broski REALLY took one for the team, because this broad literally destroyed every fiber of his dignity ON AIR….
    You’ll loose alot of money chasing women, but you’ll NEVER loose women chasing money! 💪🏾

    • @elcoracer
      @elcoracer Рік тому

      ya she murdered him bad

  • @orwell_fan
    @orwell_fan 2 роки тому +2

    Someone please play this on schools, boys need to know this info.

  • @CamdenMcInnis
    @CamdenMcInnis 2 роки тому +3

    It's simple, she used him.
    Women are ruthless but atleast their behavior is the rawest form of honesty.

  • @SenorGrandePP
    @SenorGrandePP 8 місяців тому +1

    Cover more of these ghosted radio station episodes, that was brutal 🔥

  • @ZMondoHype
    @ZMondoHype 2 роки тому +10

    Haha no way her “alpha seed” guy has seen this side of her 😂

  • @10Cnote
    @10Cnote Рік тому +1

    This was a train wreck and I didn’t even need a heads up but the tone of your voice said it all Rich.

  • @sidoniomarscalle9828
    @sidoniomarscalle9828 2 роки тому +8

    She’s from Toronto and that’s about 50% of the women here and that’s how they talk too, with that annoying California sounding valley voice. It’s incredibly annoying

  • @joevigilante2073
    @joevigilante2073 2 місяці тому

    He should be thankful and he avoided future problems

  • @HalfGodHalfManYourWelcome
    @HalfGodHalfManYourWelcome 2 роки тому +19

    She "owes me a response." 😅 The men in his life failed him. No one. Owes. You. Anything. Rule number one of living in the world that doesn't revolve around you.

    • @Midnight_Metro
      @Midnight_Metro 2 роки тому +2

      You owe lots of people lots of things, don't be silly.

    • @HalfGodHalfManYourWelcome
      @HalfGodHalfManYourWelcome 2 роки тому +5

      @@Midnight_Metro - You. Owe. No. One. Anything. Ever. The sooner you learn that, the better off you'll be. Love, given. Money, earned or given. Happiness, earned or given. Respect, earned or given. Compassion, earned or given. Success, earned or given. Shelter, earned or given. Etc. Etc. Etc.
      So, what's owed? Anything?
      Nothing makes you strong as a man than erasing how you feel as motivation. Erase how you feel. Men, earn. Period.
      I'm a black man in a nation designed for me to fail and others to always win. Trust me. Nothing is owed. You earn or take, everything else is how stay a Beta. Lol, who wants a Trophy when they didn't win? Betas.

    • @centripetal6157
      @centripetal6157 2 роки тому +4

      This is the truth. No one owes you anything.

  • @banksthemicrobully8478
    @banksthemicrobully8478 2 роки тому +2

    The entitlement is staggering. I don't even like my mother buying me stuff. We fight over who's going to pay for coffee when we go out. How could you just let a stranger spend money on you?

  • @PABeaulieu
    @PABeaulieu 2 роки тому +4

    I guess the vast majority among us got played at least once. Some guys need more bad lessons to learn than other, and a few never understand.

  • @jkow814
    @jkow814 2 роки тому +2

    I have to say, his book has been sitting in my Amazon cart for a while now, but after this video. I am buying it

  • @rodneykingston6420
    @rodneykingston6420 2 роки тому +3

    Wow, fascinating. Imagine if a man ever displayed such cruel disregard for a woman's feelings. I mean, there is NO WAY a woman doesn't know that a man she's communicating with is interested in her romantically. She KNOWS. Most guys are desperate for a girl just to talk to them, and when one does, esp. a pretty one, he's thinking he has a chance with her. If she were a decent person, she would have told him when he asked to take her out for her birthday, "Look, I only see us being friends." Instead, she let him take her out and even told him what present to buy her! There is no way she didn't use him. If the sexes were reversed, no one would be chuckling about it, they'd be screaming that he was an a__hole.

    • @johnnythekid4601
      @johnnythekid4601 Рік тому

      Only if the man was unattractive though would there be hell to pay... he would get blackballed from every dating app or any kind of dating ever again. Women have a very large network guys

  • @papinoo1159
    @papinoo1159 2 роки тому +5

    This guy has nothing to be ashamed of or be embarrassed about. He is like Johnny Depp showing the world who the real abuser is!

    • @max_rove
      @max_rove 11 місяців тому

      He should be ashamed of being a simp. What are you on about you wuss?

  • @melenico4512
    @melenico4512 Рік тому +4

    Well she sounds wonderful 😆. Luke was simping pretty badly.

  • @paulatreides0777
    @paulatreides0777 2 роки тому +2

    That voice is like Freddie Kruger scraping a chalkboard I don’t know how any guy could put up with that for more than a minute 🤣🤣🤣

  • @dmaverick2396
    @dmaverick2396 2 роки тому +4

    4 months of chasing this girl .... wow!!! Girl was truly entitled.... very common.

  • @drip369
    @drip369 2 роки тому +1

    She said she will be direct with anybody but didn't answer the question because she wasn't direct with him because if she was, he likely would have taken off running

  • @timsci21
    @timsci21 2 роки тому +9

    Nice guy is a misleading term, call it what it is, weak guys.

    • @MrAdeljas
      @MrAdeljas 2 роки тому +7

      its not weak, its expecting good by doing good, its naïve id say
      he said in the end good luck with your new man, she was manipulating him and he was gullible

  • @Johnny_Utah
    @Johnny_Utah 2 роки тому +2

    One thing you didn't mention is that he actually got off (relatively) lucky. Even a nice necklace and wine tasting is nothing compared to the cost of antimony, child support, divorce, ...

  • @pittrollmosh7572
    @pittrollmosh7572 2 роки тому +3

    Hopefully he realises he actually dodged a bullet there.

  • @posest
    @posest 2 роки тому +1

    The problem with 'genuine burning desire' is that I NEVER get that.

  • @sali32123
    @sali32123 2 роки тому +3

    I think the most important thing that dude lost was not a money but time.

  • @mattacosta4802
    @mattacosta4802 4 місяці тому

    Even Richie knew. Laughed at em. 😂😂 💯
    Called this shyt from 100 miles away. So funny to see