@@Tammyaway I feel like these two quotes contradict each other, no? If you know who you are, but no one else does, what is there to stop you from behaving like Monica and Rachel in this scene? They think they know who they are and refuse to acknowledge the dissenting opinion. If you accept what others think of you or judge yourself based on how you are with others, then you are like Phoebe. Which sends the message that our locus of self comes from external factors. You can’t be flakey if you’re just by yourself right.
I literally just watched a video on stoicism about how not to get easily offended, and I totally see that representation in Phoebe. Words simply can't offend her, she's unconquerable. I aspire to be like her.
Well in the girls defense, they only called her one word. Calling somebody one word once won’t really offend them. If they kept going (like I would) she probably would’ve gotten upset
@@peterlin5032 I think everyone would be jealous! Remember the time, when Chandler got jealous by thinking Joey preferred Ross over Chandler when Joey actually tried to protect the sandwich!
@@peterlin5032 Ross gets jealous because he’s used to getting all the attention, and Monica is jealous because she gets none of it. Their parents were toxic AF.
Imo she got way worse. She used to be nice and sweet and truthful (remember season one where she says she never lies?), but on the second half of the series she's becomes manipulating, lies all the time to get her way, and is a hypocrite who will say something (and sometimes guilt-trip the others into something) but then turn around and do exactly the opposite the moment it's convenient to her. Plus, she becomes nasty to Chandler for no reason, constantly putting him down and even telling him that no one has a lower opinion of him than she does.
@@firespawnie537 yeah that's a good point too but joey also told Chandler that he would never pick Ross over Chandler when he was trying to save his sandwich 😂😜😉
Phoebe has a strange yet strong character, and I love that about her. This scene is probably one of my favourites involving Phoebe. She accepts herself and her flaws, which presents her as a mature person. The way she handled this situation was genius, love her ❤
2:51 When Rachel wants to go to the Japanese place but Monica doesn't and Rachel agrees to go wherever Monica wants. Really proving Phoebe's point lol.
And here's one more reason for me to love Phoebe more than any other character, even when they refused to take Phoebe for the lunch she was ok with that
Another reason why Phoebe is my favorite of the girls. She’s not perfect by any means and people think bad things about her but she doesn’t care and doesn’t focus on superficial things.
I can't believe they went for lunch without Phoebe,that punishment for the remarks was unfair since they still called her 'flaky',and Monica made her write the points to justify she was 'high maintenance'.
Honestly, I can relate with Rachel to being treated like a pushover and being hurt by it. In college, there were people that treated me the same way. One person even said to me “You agree to anything.” That is not true. I have limits.
Funny how the show present Phoebe as the most eccentric and neurotic character but she's the most matured out of them when it comes to situations like this. Monica is presented as the most matured but she's the most insecure in situations like this.
Yes, I love the episode when she disagrees with Ross on science versus belief. Even though Ross is very intelligent, she made him look very childish. She was more interested in being open minded than appearing right.
T C- i love that episode too. And how she also was just kinda messing with him the whole time. There's a whole lot to phoebe. I love all the friends, but personally my favorites are chandler and phoebe.
Phoebe wasn't flaky... She was original. She was the only one that on the worst situations never made a drama, she was stable emotionally, even in her decisions...Even whit her negative familiar past she was always positive
I'd have picked Monica because I like routine and structure. But Phoebe is free-spirited and likes spontaneity, so it's understandable she picked Rachel XD
The level of immaturity in Monica is astounding. Wanting to be number one at everything is one of the definitions of childishness that must be outgrown. It’s annoying that she never outgrew this in 10 seasons.
Phoebe is probably the friend that I'd actually enjoy spending time with. She's generally able to find some contentment in any situation, and she's confident and accepts herself, and she's not afraid of being who she really is.
"Once you've accepted your flaws, no one can use them against you" - Tyrion Lannister GoT
Phoebe proves it.
Except for Cersei. She can use your flaws against you really hard.
"Never forget what you are, the rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you" - Tyrion Lannister.
Once you've accepted your flaws no one can use them against you Tyrion lannister Go T phoebe proves it
@@Tammyaway this is the real quote..
@@Tammyaway I feel like these two quotes contradict each other, no? If you know who you are, but no one else does, what is there to stop you from behaving like Monica and Rachel in this scene? They think they know who they are and refuse to acknowledge the dissenting opinion.
If you accept what others think of you or judge yourself based on how you are with others, then you are like Phoebe. Which sends the message that our locus of self comes from external factors. You can’t be flakey if you’re just by yourself right.
"im flaky ill say anything", Pheobes ability to get out of trouble is unmatched
What's flaky?
@@RoseRose-wf8co crazy or eccentric
I'm flaky ill say anything phoebes ability to get out of trouble is unmatched
Flakey means non commital
Yea, once she said "because I care enough to lie" 😂
Only Phoebe is emotionally stable and she accepts herself. 💛
Lol she's not stable but i love her
Only phoebe is emotionally stable and she accepts herself
@@WilliamZ92 Only Phoebe is emotionaly stable and she accepts herself.
Only Phoebe is emotionally stable and she accepts herself. 💛
Only Phoebe is emotionally stable and she accepts herself. 💛
Phoebe's self confidence and acceptance is so INSPIRING ✨
She could be an inspiration to anybody.
Even though she has "body dysmorphic disorder"
@@ahmedk5201 Huh? How??
@@propogandalfBecause she's authentic and you other sheep are putting on fronts to the world.
Acceptance? She's just smart. She found a way to get herself out of trouble, so she went along with being flaky. Still inspiring though
I literally just watched a video on stoicism about how not to get easily offended, and I totally see that representation in Phoebe. Words simply can't offend her, she's unconquerable. I aspire to be like her.
She's also an idiot and picks on her friends
@@shahd986 lol when?
@@Alt-yg5ng She thought a cat was her mom
Well in the girls defense, they only called her one word. Calling somebody one word once won’t really offend them. If they kept going (like I would) she probably would’ve gotten upset
@@justfassy1176 so you saying you are a really toxic person to be around?! Thanks for the warning!😂
At the end, they asked the guys a similar question, and Chandler says Joey. I can clearly see Ross being jealous lol
The gellers are a jealous family
@@peterlin5032 I think everyone would be jealous! Remember the time, when Chandler got jealous by thinking Joey preferred Ross over Chandler when Joey actually tried to protect the sandwich!
So all Gellers are left out
@@peterlin5032 Ross gets jealous because he’s used to getting all the attention, and Monica is jealous because she gets none of it. Their parents were toxic AF.
@Nathan Boyle No wonder there was something special about their chemistry.
"Write a list and we're going to go through it point by point."
"No you're right, you're easy going."
1:56 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
this is the best part 😂
Don't argue with Phoebe. She brings people to her level and win the arguement.
Her level?
@@Alt-yg5ng level of goofiness 😁
i remember the episode that she outsmart ross about evolution. she made ross bend his beliefs. haha
Ikr I love those moments
Never argue with fools they bring you down to their level and beat you with their experience.
Rachel's face when Phoebe calls Monica "high-maintenance" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
1:48😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
If you're a woman worried about a woman NOT picking you to date then you ARE high maintenance.
Phoebe just got better and better throughout this whole storyline!
I feel that way about Ross
Phoebe got meaner towards Chandler for no reason. She kept demeaning him.
Imo she got way worse. She used to be nice and sweet and truthful (remember season one where she says she never lies?), but on the second half of the series she's becomes manipulating, lies all the time to get her way, and is a hypocrite who will say something (and sometimes guilt-trip the others into something) but then turn around and do exactly the opposite the moment it's convenient to her. Plus, she becomes nasty to Chandler for no reason, constantly putting him down and even telling him that no one has a lower opinion of him than she does.
People here dont undersrand the comment is talking about this quick plot
@@gabrielmendes9744 thank you Sir 👌
Lisa's character is the most mature and maddest among all of them
I'm sorry you think she's mature?😭😂 you sir/ma'am are wrong
A truly mature person is considered 'mad' among people as most of the people around are actually immature.
@@nirupamasharma4389 absolutely
I like Lisa
But she is funny like Phoebe too
Rachel's reaction at 1:51 is so genuine 😂😂
This is my favorite Phoebe moment. She's so cool.
Imagine the reaction of the guys seeing the girls looking at the playboy magazine , especially Joey 😂
Oh my.., how you doing 😂😂😂
Imagine the reaction of the guys seeing the girls looking at the playboy magazine especially Joey
@Out Brake 🤣
Imagine the reaction of the guys seeing the girls looking at the playboy magazine especially Joey
😳
3:03 Phoebe really working on that list 😂😂😂🙏
lmao i just caught that
OMG, I JUST caught that after all these years! Can't believe I didn't realize that was what she was doing.
not flaky at all haha
😂😂😂
Ooowwwnt. I just noticed it. Hahahahah how sweet. She really loves her friends lol
I love the look on Rachel's face when Phoebe says Monica is high maintenance! LOL
1:48😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's strange how even with Phoebe's terrible upbringing, she's still somehow the least neurotic character on the show.
You think Phoebe is the least neurotic friend?😂
Ikr
It's chandler or joey
in what world is Phoebe the least neurotic lmao
Phoebe, Ross and Monica are the most neurotic characters
Phoebe chose Rachel over Monica and Chandler chose Joey over Ross 🤣
Poor Gellers
Their mon taught them to be good children, even they grow up they still want to ask their mon before playing games.
But Monica was more lucky than Ross atleast Rachel Picked Monica 😂
@@sabeehbutt543 Well Joey picked Ross too as the best sleeping partner haha!
@@firespawnie537 yeah that's a good point too but joey also told Chandler that he would never pick Ross over Chandler when he was trying to save his sandwich 😂😜😉
Phoebe wins this round. Hands down 🙌🏻
So true
1:52 lol Rachel’s expression 😂🤣
😂😂
Phoebe has a strange yet strong character, and I love that about her. This scene is probably one of my favourites involving Phoebe. She accepts herself and her flaws, which presents her as a mature person. The way she handled this situation was genius, love her ❤
*I love her too!!!* ❤️
That's why I love Phoebe! She always spits facts! Also she is self aware and admits that she might be crazy, which is really great!
The more I rewatch this show, the more I realize that Phoebe is the most sane and of stable mind out of the 6.
One of the reasons why Phoebe is my favorite between the girls
Man I need a person like Phoebe in my life 😆
Absolutely
Everyone should be like Phoebe.
I don't even know what flakey means?
@@torababdullah7952 It means being on and off and not making your mind up about things.
@@Zain-iv9yv ooohh noooo that means i am flakey 😳
@@torababdullah7952 flaky actually means weird Nd eccentric
Phoebe is so mature and immature at a same time. Tbh she switches personalities naturally, when it's needed. Truly amazing
2:51 When Rachel wants to go to the Japanese place but Monica doesn't and Rachel agrees to go wherever Monica wants. Really proving Phoebe's point lol.
yep you explained the joke
@@EOh-ew2qf exactly what I was about to say.
no shit, Sherlock
Yes that's y they came back to confess 😂
Yeah thats the whole point of that scene literally didnt need to explain it
I always love the fact that Phoebe is always herself, no matter the situation ❤️
LoL Rachel’s face when Phoebe says Monica’s High Maintenance
1:48😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Pheobe is just on a whole other level
That last line by Phoebe was hilarious.
Pheobe: You're kinda high maintenance
Rachel: 0_o
Yeah her face haha, she's like "Oh no, Phoebe's in for it now"
And here's one more reason for me to love Phoebe more than any other character, even when they refused to take Phoebe for the lunch she was ok with that
Phoebe really knows how to play the group lmao. She always does this to anyone, she's almost like a puppet master of the group.
She says exactly that at one point too :P Can't remember which episode, though
Only Monica would be obsessed with the fact that Phoebe preferred Rachel over her LOL
Ross.
i feel like a lot of ppl would be bothered?
@Nathan Boyle It’s pretty obvious it’s not something Monica can really control. OCD can make you do crazy things lol
Because her parents always prefered Ross over her. That's where all her issues and always needing to win came from.
I think it is in the genes of the whole Geller family 😂🙆♂️
It's really amazing how Rachel and Monica are both so jealous and unaccepting of their issues and still so adorable 😭❤
No they are so annoying especially monica
That "I Care a Damn" attitude of Phoebe... Awesome :) :). Love that Carefree, Live your Life attitude :)
I love how at 2:30 Phoebe just breaks character and starts laughing
Another reason why Phoebe is my favorite of the girls. She’s not perfect by any means and people think bad things about her but she doesn’t care and doesn’t focus on superficial things.
"Remember the days when we used to go out to the barn, lift up your shirt and bend over"- Pheobe buffay
EPIC😂😂😂😂
"OK LETS GO TO LUNCH"🤣🤣🤣
Phoebe ATE them at the end! No one beats her. No wonder she was my favourite although people found her weird. I think she was pretty amazing 👍🏻
Phoebe is really just the best!!
I love when she asked Rachel and Rachel looked right at Phoebe
For me this will always be the best show ever
i love the fact pheobe was actually making a list😭
That *What* by Monica cracks me up all the time !
😂😂😂
I just love phebo🤣🤣🤣
the confidence she have, the admiration😍😍😍
I can't believe they went for lunch without Phoebe,that punishment for the remarks was unfair since they still called her 'flaky',and Monica made her write the points to justify she was 'high maintenance'.
Honestly, I can relate with Rachel to being treated like a pushover and being hurt by it. In college, there were people that treated me the same way. One person even said to me “You agree to anything.” That is not true. I have limits.
They didn't take Phoebe with them for dinner I feel bad for her. She is a preety strong woman. 😘
1:51 Rachel's reaction 😂
2:48 This is such a spot on moment between real life friends.
The character Phoebe is my inspiration or role model to deal with crazy or stupid people.
Hearing Rachel wanting to date a Playboy Playmate and then Phoebe wanting to date Rachel certainly made my day!
Why? How sad is your life?
Are you Joey?
I always admired Phoebe's Street smartness
Phoebs moved out of your apartment because you were a little bit Psycho Mon! Why would she wanna date you!?
what Phoebe did is short-circuiting Rachel's & Monica's brains 🤣
This flaky Phoebe also always wins arguments with Ross. Legend
I dont think Phoebe thought she was flaky she just loves trolling people 😆
How can Phoebe be so good😄😄😄
Phoebe is great. She has high self esteem and self acceptance.
This made me realise how great Phoebe is!
That purple top Monica is wearing is sooo cute tho
I'm flaky I'll say anything 😂
Funny how the show present Phoebe as the most eccentric and neurotic character but she's the most matured out of them when it comes to situations like this.
Monica is presented as the most matured but she's the most insecure in situations like this.
Yes, I love the episode when she disagrees with Ross on science versus belief. Even though Ross is very intelligent, she made him look very childish. She was more interested in being open minded than appearing right.
What this shows is that none of them are perfect and they all have their respective flaws.
T C- i love that episode too. And how she also was just kinda messing with him the whole time. There's a whole lot to phoebe. I love all the friends, but personally my favorites are chandler and phoebe.
They each have maturity in different areas:
- Monica is the most parental
- Phoebe is the most self assured
- Rachel is the most sophisticated
@@ennythinn what do you mean by sophisticated?
Phoebe handles every situation like boss 😂🙌.. She is the best 😎
1:51 The face Rachel makes when Phoebe says Monica is high maintenance 😂
This season these three looks really really pretty. with their hair and everything!!!!!
Me: I saw you eat a cheeseburger once
Phoebe: I’m flakey, I’ll eat a cheeseburger if I have to eat
Flakey meaning?
@@dawson6196 weird
Wtf is this?
@@MrBunny53 don’t be negative
1:55. YES. Yes. YES.
Sasha: Monica
Anne: Rachel
Marcy: Phoebe
Phoebe wasn't flaky... She was original. She was the only one that on the worst situations never made a drama, she was stable emotionally, even in her decisions...Even whit her negative familiar past she was always positive
I like Phoebe's character a lot 😄 i wish that i had her personallity ... easy going , fun ... she is just fun to be friend with 🥰
This scene I can relate to Phoebe; she accepts who she is and not ashame of herself
Phoebe won this 😄
I want Phoebe's level of confidence and wit .
Phoebe did this intentionally to resolve the conflict between them but by paying a price of left alone.. My phoebe❤
Phoebe is a jenius here! The puppet master 🤣
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I'd have picked Monica because I like routine and structure. But Phoebe is free-spirited and likes spontaneity, so it's understandable she picked Rachel XD
Phoebe is just so cool
"You started working on that list"- It's an underrated line 😂
1:47 rachel’s reaction hahaha
Shes like “ooooooohhhhhhh”
Holy deep seeded insecurity Monica
Phebe 😂....I'm flaky I'll say anything!!! Brilliant 👌
3:45 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ikr
Phoebe's place..they don't usually hang out in her place
Rachel’s face in min 1:52 lol
Phoebe: Life mastery level 1000000000
Phoebe is always brilliant in many situations ❤
Phoebe is badasssss🤣🤣🤣
Phoebe is such a chaos monster. 😂
Monica proved she IS high maintenance by demanding Phoebe write a list of things that make her a high maintenance woman. She is insufferable. 😂
The level of immaturity in Monica is astounding. Wanting to be number one at everything is one of the definitions of childishness that must be outgrown. It’s annoying that she never outgrew this in 10 seasons.
I love phoebe she is awesome in friends
reachel's face when phoebe said that to monica xDDDD
TBS is totally going to heaven because of making these clips!
I love Phoebe :))
Lol I agree lol “Rachel.” lol I love Phoebe.😂😂😂
Phoebe is probably the friend that I'd actually enjoy spending time with. She's generally able to find some contentment in any situation, and she's confident and accepts herself, and she's not afraid of being who she really is.