Miscarriage at 20 weeks|| My Pregnancy, labour & Breastfeeding Journey|| How I lost my baby|| TIFINE

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  • @paulinenderitu
    @paulinenderitu 2 роки тому +18

    May God graciously give you strength 🙏. This happened to me too in 2020. Painful journey, but with God, He is able to give is strength to push on. It is well mama, Joy comes in the morning. Love and light💕

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +1

      Sorry for your loss. 🥺Thank you 🙏❤️❤️ Indeed joy comes in the morning. 🥰🥰

  • @christinemunjiru1272
    @christinemunjiru1272 2 роки тому +4

    I had two miscarriages last year. The pain and suffering of hoping and losing vibrates through your soul to unimaginable depths but we are never arrested by the loss. We heal, we hope again, we live, we get ready to nourish our next blessing...I believe am still a mother, with my babies resting gracefully in heaven.

  • @annkangethe3943
    @annkangethe3943 2 роки тому +8

    Losing a baby is the worst nightmare every woman has to go through having lost my 7yr old boy in 2018, life has never been the same again for me. Kudos dear for speaking it out

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Sorry for your loss🥺Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @loisekarimi5103
    @loisekarimi5103 2 роки тому +4

    Sending you lots of hugs Mercy.This was quite insightful especially to all first time mothers.Its so unfortunate you had some nasty encounters during your pregnancy and I'm glad you're healing day in day out.Just a few highlights.1.Yes family planning fails at times and gets you off guard so noone has a right to judge any fellow woman.2.Just incase of any abnormal changes during your pregnancy such a reduced fetal movements,bleeding,drainage of liquor seek immediate medical care and avoid queing just like any other patients because even a second can save your baby.If in a place with lots of people you can just shout for help/call someone aside and explain your concerns and you'll get immediate attention if need be.3.Always brief your gynaecologist or anyone attending to you about your previous pregnancy/pregnancies, miscarriages,it can pave way for your current management to ensure a safe delivery.4.Yes,some mother's encounter breastfeeding issues and you should never hate your self for that.Glad you know your pattern hence will prepare you in the near future and should you happen to deliver in a different facility,notify your health providers early enough to ensure prompt feeding of your newborn should milk production fail.4.First and subsequent deliveries differs but each is different to each individual.NB.During labour,any drainage of liquor that's yellow/ greenish should be treated promptly as it's an obstetric emergency.Ideal liquor in labour should be clear or with traces of blood.Any drainage of liquor before term should also be treated promptly.Be blessed & shalom🙏🙏.

  • @marynjoroge2505
    @marynjoroge2505 2 роки тому +24

    Hugs mamaa😘🫂..am @20 weeks with first baby..hope it goes well

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you😊... congratulations mama 👏 ❤ 🎊 hope you learn something from the video.

    • @teresamboci744
      @teresamboci744 2 роки тому +1

      Wishing you all the best

    • @marynjoroge2505
      @marynjoroge2505 2 роки тому

      @@teresamboci744 thaanks

  • @marieeats254
    @marieeats254 2 роки тому +5

    I'm encouraged by this. Being a first time mum was so hard. I also didn't have breastmilk. The nurses were hard on me too doing everything including pulling my nipples using a syringe. It was a painful experience. My baby was being given formula from day one and that's what we have been on 4.5 months now. Family and friends were all against formula saying that I'm feeding chemicals to the baby. I was eating njahi and everything else kazi ni kunona tu yet nothing was coming out 😔 😢 😭

  • @lonaauka5406
    @lonaauka5406 2 роки тому +8

    So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story. It has helped a lot more people than you may think. I recently went through the same experience so I can totally understand you. Your story has encouraged me to try again. I was very scared to but you’ve given me some hope and courage to try.
    Keep being blessed 🙏🏽

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️Sorry mama 🥺🥺, it is well. God is faithful, im so happy to hear this 🤗🤗

  • @ruthwanjiru3833
    @ruthwanjiru3833 2 роки тому +10

    Im so encouraged by your story,,mine was post natal depression after giving birth...you are a motivational speaker.

  • @alicenyakeri6425
    @alicenyakeri6425 2 роки тому +2

    Waaaa,cried my whole...sooo touching.Hugs sweetie...despite all these you r a strong lady...I love you and thanks to God for restoring you

  • @naomikera1560
    @naomikera1560 2 роки тому +1

    hugs mama thanks for this video its not easy to come out and speak. I have lost 4 pregnancies and a small bby. i have no child who is alive but i keep on pushing. i cry anyday anytime but what i said with or without a child i will prais my God. let Gods will be done. people will always talk sometimes even family but still God is God. at his time we will hold our babies. some humans are beasta agents of the devil let them be, God will judge. Would advice if u r pregnant seek medical attention from a good hospital. Currently pregnant, pray for me. kindly avoid consulting google or youtube or anyone who is not a medic, pregnancies are different so are our bodies. just get sth but dnt trust much it has costed me big time. be blessed

  • @barbarahandura5585
    @barbarahandura5585 2 роки тому +14

    Thank you for sharing. We are not able to have children but we accepted it. Hoping IVF will work one day.

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      🥺Thank you 🙏❤️❤️ There's still hope, with God anything is possible🙏

    • @teresamboci744
      @teresamboci744 2 роки тому

      Yes it will in Gods time.

    • @euniceatieno4681
      @euniceatieno4681 2 роки тому

      Mi 2.5yrs struggling to have a baby.

  • @sonnymor4031
    @sonnymor4031 2 роки тому +5

    In life we pass though alot but God is always there to make us stronger...I gave birth to a baby who was Dead at 36 weeks...but now am a happy Mum of a 5yr

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Sorry for your loss. 🥺Thank you 🙏❤️God is indeed good. ❤️

  • @njokiwabudest6411
    @njokiwabudest6411 2 роки тому +10

    Thank you for sharing this...you have shown that despite those painfull experience, there is hope one will smile again.
    I know this pain..in Jan 2020 i walked to hospital.. pregnant @38wks ready for my 2nd born, few hrs later the worst happened😭, i lost my girl before i even held her in my arms....my life was at risk..
    went for Cs the following day knowing very well my baby had no heartbeat
    The pain of staying in the wards without a baby, while other mums have theirs😪
    The pain of walking out of the hospital empty handed
    The pain of nursing a Cs wound without a baby
    The Leaking boobs...i had alot of milk🤦🏼‍♀️nilikua naikumulia kwa sink
    2yrs down the line, i still imagine how my house will be if she was here, milestones 😪...its painfull but am still gratefull to God for saving my life, that i can continue raising my first born.
    He is a faithfull God, and i have faith at his own time..he will restore🙏

    • @paulinewairimu2347
      @paulinewairimu2347 2 роки тому +1

      Hugs mum 🤗🤗.

    • @Estherwairimu05
      @Estherwairimu05 2 роки тому +1

      pole sana,It shall be well,God is still on the throne

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +1

      🥺🥺Thank you 🙏❤️❤️So sorry for your loss ❤️❤️ I cant imagine the pain

  • @emilymaingi
    @emilymaingi Рік тому +1

    I lost my baby at 29 weeks last month, and my world is still crumbling. thank you for sharing this. it gives so much hope.

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  Рік тому

      Sorry to hear that ... blessing to you 💛 🙏🙏

  • @marysmartkenya
    @marysmartkenya 2 роки тому +4

    Behind a beautiful smile there is a painful untold story. Kwa "friends " part i can relate 100%. Family is everything

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @musokiemily336
    @musokiemily336 2 роки тому +4

    This teaches me that everyone has their doze of problems. We should respect everyone and judge less and expectless. We are all the same.

  • @brendakamara7322
    @brendakamara7322 2 роки тому +3

    I agree, first time mothers go through a lot..... Any first time mum, you are not alone, there are numerous mum's groups nowadays... Please reach out and most importantly, learn to block the negativity. It's never worth it
    Thank you for your story.

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @itsneshonly
    @itsneshonly 2 роки тому +3

    True Mercy, people never understand. I carried my Adrian full term only to loose him after 7 days. I have never really fully recovered from it but God has been faithful to this day. It is well

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️Sorry mama, it is well. God is faithful.

    • @itsneshonly
      @itsneshonly 2 роки тому

      Thanks dear, only prayers can bring true healing

  • @cateambani7162
    @cateambani7162 2 роки тому +1

    It's so painful but we leave everything to God. I also lost mine 4 weeks this year I didn't know I was pregnant but the best this is to express yourself and keep praying

  • @bethmwangi4834
    @bethmwangi4834 2 роки тому +3

    Sorry i had two miscarriage in 2019 but the best thing trusting in God i then underwent Macdonald stitches and now am a Happy mom my son is two years now

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️ Indeed God is good.

  • @vanessa_m_mwangi
    @vanessa_m_mwangi 2 роки тому +5

    30 minutes in and I must comment. I remembered when I gave birth to my first. Milk was flowing until after some point it just stopped. The frustration😭hizo fenugreek nikakunywa n what not. But it refused. I literally used to cry coz people used to say I'm denying my child food as if any normal mother would. Thank God for formula. My son picked so well. He grew so well. I realized as a mum do what is best for your baby. All these noises can make you feel like shit

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️❤️ True 💯💯

  • @rachelngari6236
    @rachelngari6236 2 роки тому +5

    I just lost my baby at 36 weeks ,,😭😭iam still in hospital recovering seeing this you are giving me hope and strength to continue

    • @teresamboci744
      @teresamboci744 2 роки тому +1

      Hugs to you mummy. Wishing you quick recovery and God to come through and bless you again.

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️So sorry mama 🥺🥺, it is well. God is faithful, you will have your joy again.

    • @rachelngari6236
      @rachelngari6236 2 роки тому

      @@teresamboci744 Amen and Thankyou soo much

    • @rachelngari6236
      @rachelngari6236 2 роки тому

      @@tifinewise thankyou

    • @emyb5422
      @emyb5422 Рік тому

      mummy how are you

  • @prudencekinyua4313
    @prudencekinyua4313 2 роки тому

    This video is so educative. You really are a strong and beautiful woman. I am not a mum yet, but i know a thing or two about what comparison does to kids and it's not right. But it feels nice hearing you say, " don't compare your kids, they have different personalities and different milestones". All in all, God is faithful and in His own time, He makes everything beautiful. You have a beautiful family. Be blessed.

  • @anntheuri8138
    @anntheuri8138 2 роки тому +4

    This is quite a journey. Thanks for sharing this and encouraging other ladies in this journey. You are a strong woman and hugs to you. ❤️

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 😊 🥰🥰🙏

  • @veronicalumbasi
    @veronicalumbasi 2 роки тому +3

    Wow such an emotional vlog. Sending you love and a very big hug. May God bless you for talking about this sensitive issue. You story is a story of hope. I love you Mama!

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you dear🙏❤️❤️🥺🥺

  • @cartialove4554
    @cartialove4554 Рік тому

    Me tw I lost my baby first back 2016 same weeks like you, but after trusting God I have beautiful Dota. I got her in 2020.we are birthday mates o can say that. You truly an inspiration to the society. Kudos😍❤️❤️😘😘

  • @paulinemrekani7681
    @paulinemrekani7681 2 роки тому +9

    Take heart dear,I know the pain you're going through coz I've been there and I'm still healing from it,on February 21st this year I gave birth to a stillborn baby, it's painful to leave the hospital without a baby,so I totally understand what you went through,may God comfort you

    • @njokiwabudest6411
      @njokiwabudest6411 2 роки тому +2

      hugs and hugs

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +2

      🥺Thank you 🙏❤️❤️So sorry for your loss ❤️❤️

  • @joycejoyo254
    @joycejoyo254 2 роки тому +1

    It took you so much courage to share this. May God continue to heal you. This is so deep and encouraging. Our God is a God of restoration. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @yvonnekokonya3213
    @yvonnekokonya3213 2 роки тому +3

    My heart goes out to you Tifine❤️ I've cried with you...God always has the best plans for us no matter what happens...He will continue to bless you...hugs dear❤️❤️

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @orishabamariat124
    @orishabamariat124 2 роки тому +3

    Hugs🤗🤗🤗🤗
    Too sad but keep yo trust in the lord he is all wise n knows the reason why 🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🥺🙏❤️❤️

  • @gracemwangi8542
    @gracemwangi8542 2 роки тому +4

    "ladies"we are our own enemies 💯,, thankyou for sharing your journey,,Tifine wise, you are God's working miracle,💯,,,I love your content,,, tufike 30k 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤️❤️

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      True.. Thank you so much🙏❤️❤️

  • @margaretadhiambo6537
    @margaretadhiambo6537 2 роки тому +2

    Women are strong and courageous humans ,I remember how I also lost my 1month 6days old bubbly boy ,it's never easy to loose a child bcoz one will never forget ,you'll keep on comenting that at this time they could be this way ,but our strength is from the Lord ,am sending hugs and thanks for these encouraging sentiment ,much love💗

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      🥺Thank you 🙏❤️❤️So sorry for your loss ❤️❤️

    • @margaretadhiambo6537
      @margaretadhiambo6537 2 роки тому

      It is well dia and thank you

  • @lvanessalis
    @lvanessalis 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for sharing, It always easier when you do. Lost my pregnancy at 22 weeks in 2018 Dec as well,mine was due to high bp. My rainbow baby is turning two in two weeks now. For sure,God does restore completely. All glory unto Him!

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️ God is indeed good, it is well🙏

    • @ntombifikilemawela9601
      @ntombifikilemawela9601 2 роки тому

      I'm sorry for your loss sis. but how was the next pregnancy, did you have problems with BP again? I also lost my baby due to preeclampsia at 26 weeks. I would really love to try again, please tell me about your experience.😢

    • @lvanessalis
      @lvanessalis 2 роки тому +1

      @@ntombifikilemawela9601 Halo girl, sorry for your Loss too. I concieved 6 months later. Immediately after delivery of my lost baby. I was started on bp medication and Aspirin daily. After concieving, I was put on different bp drugs and my Aspirin dose increased,pregnancy went well and was induced at 37 weeks,though ended up in CS. My baby just turned two. ❤️ I thank God

    • @ntombifikilemawela9601
      @ntombifikilemawela9601 2 роки тому

      @@lvanessalis Thank you for your response. I was also told about the aspirin but I haven't started on it. It gives me hope hearing that you were able to carry full term.

    • @juddiestarnesh4520
      @juddiestarnesh4520 2 роки тому

      @@lvanessalis Sorry for the loss but am again happy God blessed you with another one. Am 20 weeks too when I went for my clinic my BP was high. The doctor prescribed BP drugs I'm so worried 😭😭😭 I just hope everything goes on well I trust in God

  • @esthermutua1287
    @esthermutua1287 2 роки тому +2

    Lesson learned ...today have cry 😭😭😭 with you too emotional can't believe woiyee 🥱🥱 gai God is great your strong woman mercy ..sending hugs and love mommy 💕💕 woiyee hata nguvu za kutype Leo zimenishinda soory tifine it's well dear God has a reason

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      🥺 🥺 🥺 Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @staicyakinyi5337
    @staicyakinyi5337 2 роки тому +3

    God bless that nurse that was bold enough to stop the CS from taking place. Thank you for sharing your experience with us. People will always tell others how to be the " best " mothers forgetting that every woman and every child is different. " Google also helped me a lot to figure out 'things during pregnancy and after delivery.

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +1

      True 💯💯🥺🥺🥺

  • @mourellemagina8086
    @mourellemagina8086 2 роки тому +2

    Weeeeh! Women go through alot 🤦‍♀️ hugs mommy....as a mom and a woman I feel your pain 💔... You are soo strong...

  • @charitymuthoni4614
    @charitymuthoni4614 2 роки тому +2

    Tif so sorry didn't see this 😢 coming your vlogs are always cheerful and inspiring...thanks Jesus He comforted you and restored you.

  • @louisaadrians155
    @louisaadrians155 2 роки тому +2

    This is me' my first pregnancy was very smooth.but now I had 2 miscarriages.which pains me todate.but I won't loose hope.God will surely wipe my tears one day .'

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      🥺 🙏❤️❤️ God is indeed good 😊 He will surely wipe your tears

  • @angelinebetty6511
    @angelinebetty6511 2 роки тому +5

    breast milk and natural sun helps prevent jaundice. the light is known as phototherapy. Also hugs ms Tiffine,

  • @marylinemboya319
    @marylinemboya319 2 роки тому +1

    may your baby rest in peace GOD knows the reason of that and thank GOD you are breathing and alive dont ever lost hope in your self you are a strong woman GOD BLESS YOU

  • @monics145
    @monics145 2 роки тому +2

    Hugs Tifine,Pole😢😭may God always give you peace 🕊️ and comfort you always, blessings.

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @veronicamutio1712
    @veronicamutio1712 2 роки тому +1

    Hugs gal..losing a baby is the worst nightmare any mother can go through..Hugs

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you dear 🥺🙏❤

  • @seremonlyn
    @seremonlyn 2 роки тому +1

    I've crieddddddd😭😭😭😭😭 God made things beautiful at his own time

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Indeed He has, thank you🙏❤️❤️

  • @levinahachieng65
    @levinahachieng65 2 роки тому +1

    I understand you Dear I also had a miscarriage in 2019 but God is of many chances am now pregnant praying for the best.

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      🥺🥺Thank you 🙏❤️❤️So sorry for your loss ❤️❤️ Congratulations and all the best

    • @levinahachieng65
      @levinahachieng65 2 роки тому

      @@tifinewise thank you

  • @Maggie_ke
    @Maggie_ke 2 роки тому +4

    Sorry for your loss 😞 apart from that your story was so inspiring and informative.. Am not a mother yet but when I get there I will be informed

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @alicenjenga7381
    @alicenjenga7381 2 роки тому +4

    I am your silent follower, hugs Mama Hugs sending you lots of love

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @day2daylife739
    @day2daylife739 2 роки тому +2

    The ka string u are talking about it's called a McDonalds stitch done when one has a cervical incompetent . I had it during my pregnancy too since I used to have miscarriage I did have 3 miscarriage but I thank God today am a mom of 2 handsome boys...hugs dear and sorry for what u went through ❤️❤️❤️

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      🥺 🥺 Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @leeyankamau9820
    @leeyankamau9820 2 роки тому +2

    This video insipired me and it has given me alot of hope i can relate to wat uv gone thru n i believe that God will also bless me with my own babies soon

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +1

      🥺Thank you 🙏❤️❤️ He will🙏

  • @rachealkarimi4879
    @rachealkarimi4879 2 роки тому +5

    Hugs to you Mama. You are Blessed together with your Family.

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️Amen❤️

  • @rozzieshiru2764
    @rozzieshiru2764 2 роки тому +2

    You are a strong woman👏 thanks for encouraging many others who have gone through the same🙏

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @janemanyibe7376
    @janemanyibe7376 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks Mercy for the story.Happy ending though it was sad in the beginning.God bless your family

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️ Amen

  • @staciebreeOOO
    @staciebreeOOO 2 роки тому +2

    I just always love your content Tiff😘 I've just loved to know you're a twin cause it's one of my wishes to have. I believe in manifestation and when I followed you I didn't know you're a twin. Thankyou so much for sharing your experience continue being strong.hugs😍

  • @rahabwangari7564
    @rahabwangari7564 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks tifinewise for sharing your story.Yu are an inspiration to many.Thumbs up.It reminds me of my first pregnancy n was very naive when one night the amniotic fluid burst n I even didn't know about it.So I asked my hubby if heard something bursting n that time there was no electricity so he took a torch to check.He later called my mum in luv n...that how.Be blessed gal.

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much🙏❤️❤️

  • @christinekariu7761
    @christinekariu7761 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story. I also lost my baby in 2016 at 23 weeks due to pprom(premature rupture of membranes) which caused the mucus plug to come out and amniotic fluid to gush out unexpectedly..I was also told due to my history I might need the cervical cerclage. I can't wait to be a mother soon.

    • @lucykabu
      @lucykabu 2 роки тому

      All the best 🙏🏽❤️

  • @redemptormargaret9738
    @redemptormargaret9738 2 роки тому +3

    I'm so sorry about what you went through...may God heal you...I went through the same with my second born in 2019... I've never tried again,very scared of getting pregnant again infact🥺Hugs dear❤️

    • @consolataogola976
      @consolataogola976 2 роки тому

      I went through the same for my 3rd born baby...am terrified to even ever think about trying again.May God heal all women completely.

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +1

      🥺Thank you 🙏❤️❤️❤️ there's hope and you will get over it with time

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      @@consolataogola976 Sorry, there's hope and you will get over it with time🙏❤️

  • @Princes5362
    @Princes5362 2 роки тому +12

    I literally cried 😭😭 with you specifically the miscarriage part coz it reminds me of my experience. I lost my twins @ 15 weeks and 4 day on 25 march 2020. The reason was they didn't have hearts like they stopped growing at 7 weeks. That's the worse time of my life , I was to be a single mum coz the guy denied the pregnancy.guees what up to now I don't have a good relationship,I keep thinking of how old my babies could be and it hurts coz I'm not gonna conceive anytime soon but I believe one day I will have a beautiful family with beautiful children 😍 thanks for sharing your history 💖 hugs 🤗

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +1

      So sorry for what you went through 🥺🥺🥺 God is faithful 🙏 ❤ your blessings will come in doubles

  • @Nercy_k
    @Nercy_k 2 роки тому +3

    hugs tifine I'm still watching the video...you are strong❤️❤️

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🥺🙏❤️❤️

  • @marymike7379
    @marymike7379 2 роки тому +1

    I have reminded me of 2017 wen I lost my lovely princess....hugs mama but i thank God he didn't leave me I was later blessed with two beautiful and lovely babies aboy and agirl I thank u my lord...

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️ God is good.

  • @felisterwambui3075
    @felisterwambui3075 2 роки тому +1

    hugs ,i relate to your story because i have l had 2 miscarriages and 1 ectopic pregnancy and everytime i remember about it i cry

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +1

      So sorry for what you went through 🥺🥺🥺 God is faithful 🙏 ❤

  • @winniewangui9661
    @winniewangui9661 2 роки тому

    So sorry for your loss May God heal you I know it's not easy, and also about the breastfeeding issue I really fee you, people should stop putting pressure on new mums no one wants not to feed their baby let's be more sensitive when addressing new mothers. It shall be well dear, I've learnt a lot from your story thanx for sharing.

  • @lifeofsheila4041
    @lifeofsheila4041 2 роки тому +3

    Oh my goodness Tiff I feel the pain with you.... you're super strong 🥰💞

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +1

      🥺Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @sharlottehard1850
    @sharlottehard1850 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks Tifine for sharing your story,,, its so touching

  • @harrietwabiz
    @harrietwabiz 2 роки тому +5

    Hugs mum, miscarriages are so painful I honestly don't know if I will ever tell my own story

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      🥺Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @mutundumercy2675
    @mutundumercy2675 2 роки тому +1

    So sorry dear, God is our comforter..may he heal you completely.

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @dansaali5536
    @dansaali5536 2 роки тому

    😞😞 my heart. Sending virtual hugs
    You are a strong woman and I've just joined the family but you are a pure soul. Nothing but love your way

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      🥺🥺🥺🥰🥰🥰❤❤🙏

  • @rahabnyambura6823
    @rahabnyambura6823 2 роки тому +1

    Sorry dia 4 the lose . Nlipata 3 miscarriages en a dhank God cz last year July Nlipata mtoi very healthy en beautiful soo di God's tym is always the best

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      So sorry for what you went through 🥺🥺🥺 God is faithful 🙏❤

  • @teresiasyombua8625
    @teresiasyombua8625 2 роки тому +1

    May our good Lord continue strengthening you swee....indeed you are a strong woman......keep pressing on and always know that everything happens for a reason.....🤗🤗

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @dianahdianah641
    @dianahdianah641 2 роки тому +2

    Oooh Hugs swryy
    We as Tifine Wise team we are strong women
    In God's own time He wanna make it perfect

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +1

      🥺Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @ludfineoduor2313
    @ludfineoduor2313 2 роки тому +1

    Hugs mummy!!!so sorry for what you went through..may God strengthen you.

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @demtillahgesare8599
    @demtillahgesare8599 2 роки тому

    Take heart gal,all work for good. We thank God you are blessed with two beautiful princesses

  • @nanciesonique
    @nanciesonique 2 роки тому +1

    😭😭😭😭 strong woman you are💪 mungu akulipishie na double double,,,and we as your fun we give you our shoulders to cry on we are family and we love you and your family 😭💞💞💞

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +1

      🥺Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @teddybearthuo
    @teddybearthuo 2 роки тому +2

    Hugs hugs dear.
    You such an inspiration to us, especially we the upcoming youtubers. Be blessed

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @consolataogola976
    @consolataogola976 2 роки тому +8

    Hey gal....i am so sorry.I have a similar story too..it was soo painful
    .still is.May God give strength to all women we go thru a lot but we are strong .Lots of love .😋

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      🥺Thank you 🙏❤️❤️ God is indeed good 😊

  • @maryjabernyiri8497
    @maryjabernyiri8497 2 роки тому +1

    So sorry for your loss dear, May God grant you strength to carry on. It’s not easy but with God nothing is impossible. Hang in there and I wish you all the very best in your healing❤️‍🩹

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @shikovero5511
    @shikovero5511 2 роки тому +1

    Oh Lord today's video is soo emotional am very sorry for what you went through but thanks God you are strong Mama..hugs

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @ivywangui6130
    @ivywangui6130 2 роки тому +3

    Hugs sweetheart you such an inspiration and strong woman 🥰🥰

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you Ivy 😊❤❤❤🙏🙏

  • @liliankone8471
    @liliankone8471 2 роки тому +1

    Lots of hugs tifine.....God allows things to happen for a reason am glad hairely and ivanna are okey♥🫂....the most strong woman i have never seen....kim is lucky.....my favorite u tubers🔐🫂❤

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much 🙏❤️❤️

  • @colettasikota1692
    @colettasikota1692 2 роки тому +1

    Hugs love. May God continue to guide and protect your kids

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏 amen❤️❤️❤️

  • @gracesereyah7479
    @gracesereyah7479 Рік тому

    hugs mama..we love you and pray for Gods love and favour to follow you always❤

  • @pricsillahmurigi1442
    @pricsillahmurigi1442 2 роки тому +6

    Hugs dear God abave all🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🥺🙏❤️❤️

  • @elizabethmutinda2537
    @elizabethmutinda2537 2 роки тому

    Oooooh my goodness am in tears I lost my baby girl too bt yours was bad sorry everything happens with a reason it takes time to let it go bt be happy God blessed you with another kids.

  • @puritychebetq9041
    @puritychebetq9041 2 роки тому +2

    You are strong😍 team Novembers ...big up mama 😍

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @vayinteriors
    @vayinteriors 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks sweetie for sharing m really encouraged haki thanks in a special way

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @magdahkamunya8410
    @magdahkamunya8410 2 роки тому +2

    You have been one of my greatest sources of inspiration and this hit me hard...I really never saw this coming but I like the part you said everyone has their timeline and God is faithful...and after all it is darkest before dawn🙏 sorry for what you went through, we are greatful that God wiped your tears and showed you He wasn't done with you yet...May He continue blessing you and your family...🙏

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️God is indeed faithful

  • @Njeri-Healthy-Meals-Recipes
    @Njeri-Healthy-Meals-Recipes 2 роки тому +1

    It is well darling, much love and hugs to you ❤🙏. Thanks for sharing your story with us😘

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you dear🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @beatricewandiamomlife
    @beatricewandiamomlife 2 роки тому +2

    Hugs darling God has a reason for this

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @roselineauma1356
    @roselineauma1356 2 роки тому +1

    God is faithful Tifine. I feel inspired by you

    • @teddybearthuo
      @teddybearthuo 2 роки тому

      Roseline hae kindly fika kwangu pia please thank you

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @paulinawarinda124
    @paulinawarinda124 2 роки тому

    Hi,I just bumped into this video today. I am so sorry about the loss of your baby. However,I am so surprised I have found someone else who has ever had Mc Donald stitches. I had them too with my baby after a miscarriage.

  • @fancy3015
    @fancy3015 2 роки тому +2

    Mercy you are a strong woman..Hugs to you♥️♥️♥️

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @irinewangila8524
    @irinewangila8524 2 роки тому +1

    loosing my baby gal was the highest pain av ever felt till now, that shit hurts but God gives us the strength to keep going

    • @consolataogola976
      @consolataogola976 2 роки тому

      Lost my sweet little angle too...born prematurely.God gives us strength daily.Take heart.

    • @teddybearthuo
      @teddybearthuo 2 роки тому +1

      @@consolataogola976 hugs

    • @teddybearthuo
      @teddybearthuo 2 роки тому

      Higs irine

    • @irinewangila8524
      @irinewangila8524 2 роки тому

      @@consolataogola976 hugs dear

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Indeed He does 🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @anastasiawambui1557
    @anastasiawambui1557 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for informing young mothers all is well God bless you

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      🥰😊😊😊❤❤🙏🥺

  • @gladwelchannel8177
    @gladwelchannel8177 2 роки тому +2

    Sorry 😔 me too I lost 2 baby's 2019 and 2021 November,,but I know everything happens for a reason

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      So sorry for what you went through 🥺🥺🥺 God is faithful 🙏 ❤ your blessings will come in doubles

  • @jacquedeenjiruh5554
    @jacquedeenjiruh5554 2 роки тому +2

    So sorry sweetheart. Lots of hugs❤❤❤

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you dear🙏❤️❤️

  • @roxyshee7970
    @roxyshee7970 2 роки тому +4

    U are a supper woman✨💃💃💃 may u keep shinning🌟🌟🌟

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️❤️

  • @oliviasspace1461
    @oliviasspace1461 2 роки тому +6

    Thanks for sharing your story Tiffine. I went through a miscarriage in 2020 at 20 weeks also. Now I’m pregnant and my next appointment with the doctor is in some days. He is saying that we will do a cervical cerclage to avoid any surprise.
    Just want to ask if that procedure is painful ?
    Thanks for answering me 🙏🏽

    • @fibiwachira747
      @fibiwachira747 2 роки тому +1

      It's not... Utaekwa Anastasia... U won't feel it

    • @fibiwachira747
      @fibiwachira747 2 роки тому

      Then u avoid doing lots of job... Good thing is u will make it to term...

    • @cynyagz2473
      @cynyagz2473 2 роки тому +1

      I got my cerclage last year gave birth this February at 37 weeks ...no pain after the surgery... bleed for 2 days and my pregnancy was smooth through out ..I also worked a 9-5 mon-sat...also worked till the end ...we never had sex as adviced by doc ...all the best mama...God bless you ..you got this

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you and congratulations🙏❤️❤️ its not painful at all... you will be totally out from Anesthesia.. all the best mama.

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +2

      @@cynyagz2473 i started having sex after about 2 weeks, though its okay to follow your docs advise

  • @paulinewairimu2347
    @paulinewairimu2347 2 роки тому +1

    I don't get milk until the 3rd/4th day. I feel your pain dear, it's not your fault.

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️

  • @catherinewambui5415
    @catherinewambui5415 2 роки тому +1

    Im a mum of 4 and they all have had to use formula coz i also have no milk… my 1st born lost weight he also looked like a new born on our 1st anti natal.. the same thing the doctor told you was what i was told… and trust human beings 😩😩 its my 4th child and they still think i refuse to breastfeed… but they are my kids and i love them.. and i only have 1 gal born in 2016 and she is Hailey… all the best 🥰

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      The things new moms go through 🥺😥😥😥 it's only God. But we get through it all. Congrats on your bubdles

    • @lizyodhiambo1550
      @lizyodhiambo1550 Рік тому

      Am here a year later ... i had such stress with my 2nd born unlike my 1st born... who i had exess milk. Nobody helps😑.... i wish all women should see this video. I wish i had seen it b4 i went through the struggle.

  • @lenahnjoki9911
    @lenahnjoki9911 2 роки тому +4

    Aaaw mercy, thanks to God that he gave you strength and peace am a woman bt mm nilisalitiwa n someone I called a friend bt all in all trust issues is a thing,but when chosing friends b very wise ,the one that supports you in trouble and defends you is a true friend ,lkn kukaa maisha Yako ndo poa.God bless you 😊

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you 🙏❤️❤️❤️ True 💯💯

  • @sapato9905
    @sapato9905 Рік тому

    I went through the same but I was lucky the nurses told me to give my baby formula.

  • @norahwaeni7296
    @norahwaeni7296 2 роки тому +2

    Wuuueh your story is touching..but God is there for you ...but some friends are so evil .

    • @tifinewise
      @tifinewise  2 роки тому

      🥺Thank you 🙏❤️❤️ true