Going through a Miscarriage is never easy. I had a Miscarriage at 6 weeks, my friend has had 16 Miscarriages and 1 still birth and last year she was blessed with a baby girl 2 days after ramadan. May Allah bless you with good health and iman and may all your dua's come true.xx
Cousins baby died 8 months full formed in belly, heart sudden stoped few months before they had a gender reveal party for the baby boy next they were planning a funeral
you’re a beautiful couple, inside and out Allahuma Baarik. may Allah ease the pain of your loss and allow you both to continue to hope and pray for a family of your own, Aamiin! AND MAY HE PROVIDE YOU WITH AS MANY BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN AS YOU WANT IN THIS LIFE AND REUNITE YOU ALL IN THE NEXT, AAMIIN! thank you for sharing your story with us, i’m certain it is appreciated more than you know❤️🔥
25 years ago I had a miscarriage and never spoke of it. Later in group therapy I spoke of the shame I felt that it was somehow my fault. It is important to talk about this.
Your story resonates so much with my first pregnancy. I ended up flushing what I passed too and initially regret played in my mind but time heals. And I saw my husband cry for the first time when loss was confirmed. MashA you’ve supported each other well at a traumatic time. Just remember Almighty tests those he loves and that baby will be there for you in heaven. I named my baby a male and female name and still mention him/her to my children. And yes, there is hope. Your body has been pregnant before so it will be ready for it again InshA. May Almighty bless you both and reward your sabr. X
Hi Amara, my name is Bernice and I live in Barbados! 🇧🇧 Thanks for sharing your experience with us! I think you and your husband are so brave to share that most intimate of experiences. My husband and I lost two babies that came to full term and those days were very hard but God has gifted us with a son and a happy grandson. I pray that in due course you will have your fill of babies. Amara, you are a mother and you will be the very best mom. Your children shall call you blessed. The Almighty's timing Is good timing and it shall happen soon, give thanks. Bless you, both💐💐 My brother you and Amara are beautiful people and you will come out of this just fine. When Bernice and I lost the kids I was nowhere as mature or grounded in faith as you are. You are an inspirational man. Your willingness to share your experience will help others. I am sorry for the pain you have had to endure, grow roots deep in your love and your faith. Peace and love to you both.
Hi Bernice ❤️ I can't imagine the pain that comes with losing a child at full term let alone two. 😔 The strength you must have had to grow to move through that ...I can only imagine. Your story inspires me to have strength through my little test. I truly believe that God only tests you with what you can handle or will give you the strength to get through. No one's timing is better than The Almighty's and I'm so excited for whenever that right time is. I'm so sorry for all the pain you had to go through and my love is with you. Thank you so much for messaging us. Lots of love to you both. 💖 - Amara Thank you, my brother. Your words are very comforting. I am sorry for everything you had to go through and also filled with joy to hear that about your son and grandchild. I always look out for your comments, so thank you again. My prayers and blessings to your family. - Suf
I missed you guys so much and I am sorry to hear about your lost. Thank you so much for being open and sharing this part of the journey with us. I can only imagine what you guys are going through but ik you're gonna be okay. Sending you both lot of light, healing and positive juju ❤
Thank you for sharing this with us, this must have been a difficult process for the both of you, May Allah make it easier and bless you both with offspring's that cool your eyes and bring nothing but Allah's rehmat, mercy & happiness. Ameen ❤️❤️❤️ Hope you guys know we are always here to support you
The Messenger of Allah (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said, “By the One in Whose hands is my soul, the miscarried fetus will drag his mother to paradise by his [umbilical] cord if she was patient [with the miscarriage], hoping to be rewarded.” [Ahmad] 💚
You two are truly inspirational, I wish y’all the best and may Allah grant you lots of righteous babies and may your love also grow. Sending love from Ethiopia♥️
Firstly, I’m so very sorry for your loss. What astounded me throughout this video was the pure and utter love and devotion you have for each other as a couple, mashallah! May your faith carry you through this difficult time and inshallah you will be blessed again 🤲
Salam Lots of dua’s for you both InshAllah khyr, whatever Allah swt wills I got told at 24 years of age I couldn’t have children ever and I was beyond devastated, after exploring all our options we decided to go down the adoption route, I adopted my son in January 2008 when he was a six month old baby, he’s going to be 15 years of age this year, what can I say without getting tearful, he’s my diamond, my Jannah baby, our Lord is the best of planners, after becoming his mother I’ve always said if God had given me a choice a child of my own body or my adopted son without any hesitation I would say my adopted milk son Rayyan Muhammad May Allah swt bless the ummah with khyr and bless us with righteous children Ameen Lots of love ❤️
I'm only at 11 minutes, and I have cried sad tears and happy tears. Our stories are similar, and I immediately had that sick gut feeling reading the title. You two are such a beautiful couple. Thank you for always being so transparent. There is knowledge to be gained through your laughter and now your heartache. I know that there will be many blessings to come for you both! Amara, like always, I'll send you a message on IG. 🥰
So many of us have been through such similar traumas with this; so horrible, but at least we are not alone. Thank you for always recognising the transparency and seeing our hearts, friend. ❤️
I am so sorry you guys had to go through this...hugs and more hugs. Yes, I know this video will help many who are going through this or will be going it.🙏🏾🙏🏾 🤗🤗💞💞
This video was super emotional to watch because I felt as though I was going through everything with you guys by just listening/watching 😣☹️ I’ve never been through a miscarriage but I can only imagine how you guys felt hugs 🤗 I even felt guilty liking the video because it seem like doing something mean I prayer you guys gel even tighter than you already are, very soon a blessing will come, I am pretty sure you will make amazing parents at the right time ❤️❤️❤️🤗🙏🏿 Continue to be patient and have faith 🙏🏿 Just remember nothing happens before it’s time 🤗 I absolutely love you guys Love coming all the way from Barbados 🇧🇧
Hey Keisha ❤️ you've been with us a while so it's sweet that you felt that way. 🤗 You're right, nothing happens before it's time, and God's timing is the best. 🤲💖 Thank you for the love and prayers 😘 lots of love back to you xxx
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, I can only pray you are blessed with a healthy pregnancy and baby inshallah. I also really admire both of your strength. To open up about pregnancy loss isn't easy but the reminders you gave are just what I (and I'm sure many others) needed to hear so thank you! Sending you lots of love! I thought I'd just give ectopic pregnancies a mention too because many women don't know about them but they are pregnancies that if not removed early enough, put the mothers life in danger. Symptoms can be very similar to miscarriage so it's really important for all women to know about. I don't have a platform with a huge following where I can raise awareness of this issue but hopefully some people will cast an eye on this and become aware of it.
Seeing you so quiet in your intro is so not like you 😢 may Allah swt grant you both strength and imaan. You guys are so sweet to each other MashaAllah. May Allah swt protect your marriage and grant you healthy children who will be the coolness of your eyes And among the righteous ♥️🤲🏼
Indeed your such a beautiful couple❤️ thanks for sharing ..it's a test from Allah and inshallah you will over come it soon..Amara you are so blessed to have such a loving husband he's such a nice person.may Allah continue blessing you
I’m in a interracial marriage and we recently went through this together. Very similar story, except I was the one who wanted to check the pregnancy sac. He turned his head and told me not to but I couldn’t bear to flush it without knowing. The doctor said it was so small so I wouldn’t see anything but he lied. I saw the sac and I saw the baby. I flipped it over and saw the eye and saw the umbilical cord. My husband said the best thing would be to flush it so he closed the toilet, we said a prayer for the baby and I flushed it. I was hurt and sad and went through the emotions of what if we put it in a bag and threw it in the trash versus flushing it. But I know we did the best thing. I’m writing this as I’m still going through the entire process. Yesterday was the day it happened.
My sweet, sweet Amirah, I wish I could give you a hug. As an OB RN of 14 years I have held many female hands in a similar situation. I applaud the X’s for sharing. Cry if you must. It’s healthy to grieve. I’m happy that your husband is, and has been extremely supportive, as usual🙂. Yes, abortions especially missed abortion is very common. Yes, God is in control. Our body is beautifully, and wonderfully made, it has a way to rid pregnancies that possibly would have been abnormal. I’m happy you have a ultrasound showing the heart beat of the embryo 😌..memories for life! Yes guys blessing in three folds, so much sooner than your maybe expecting!Triplets?? BLESS guys🇯🇲🇪🇹
It needs to be more common knowledge that early scanning increases chances of miscarriage. . .6 weeks scans should be scrapped all together they do more harm than good
Tears flowed for both of you. I am so sorry. Thank you for sharing something so personal. Never been through it, but I have learned so much from you all. I love your belief about life. I am a grandmother but I am still learning so much from both of you. May you be blessed always, and I may you soon be given the beautiful joy of that baby which your hearts desire. You are not alone. Love that both of you are so very supportive with each other. You both were meant to be. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🕊🕊💐❤️
Awwww, Ms Claudette. ❤️ Thank you for listening and sending us so much love, always. There's something extra comforting and warm knowing that you are a grandmother. There's extra wisdom within you and your words just hit our hearts so deeply. Ameen to your beautiful prayers for us, may God protect you always and keep you and your family blessed in abundance. So much love to you 💖🌸
Blessings to both of you🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️. Your healthy family is in progress ☺️❤️❤️❤️. Prayers for your continued strength and the beautiful life you both live❤️❤️❤️❤️
The way Amara said her name just made me so sad. You guys were so positive while talking it was so beautiful to hear. I pray Allah makes it easier for you both and at least you know you can get pregnant. Insha’Allah it does happen for you both when you are both ready. Just know Amara you haven’t let anyone down. Some things happen for a reason and just know when it’s suppose to happen it will💕. You are both in my duas. X
Yes, alhamdulilah that we were at least able to get pregnant, as that was a worry in itself. I'm glad that even though it was a sad topic, that you found it positively done. That makes me really happy xx
Subhanallah , that was very sad to hear. Just take the time to heal. Im so sorry to hear that. May Allah swt help you guys with healing and give you guys endless happiness’s Ameen. I read this beautiful hadith on the internet Which i love it and i hope in sha Allah it happends to you guys. ‘’The Messenger of Allah (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said, “By the One in Whose hands is my soul, the miscarried fetus will drag his mother to paradise by his [umbilical] cord if she was patient [with the miscarriage], hoping to be rewarded.” [Ahmad].’’ Everything happends for a reason. Trust me! Allah swt have something very Good planned for you guys. ‘’ and Allah swt is the best planners -surah al- anfal (ayah 30)
Hope you guys know that i will countine to always support you guys in sha Allah and make alot dua for you guys. I have been focusing on exams in uni lately so been lit bit busy those past months. But im going back to watch those videos that i saved to watch🥰❤️
Thank you for sharing your experience. I’m sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage as well. I was three months at the time. My husband and I were devastated. We called our friends who had experienced a miscarriage to get some guidance. We went to the hospital and we had in fact miscarried. We had two children at the time. Three to five months after our miscarriage, we got pregnant with our baby girl. God is faithful and able. It’s so true about prayer and support from my husband helped me. For me it was the Bible, and it’s word gave me such peace. It does take time to work through the emotions and the grief. Take the time you need to heal and grieve. God bless you guys.
I am so sorry for your loss. I love how positive you both are about it. Shout out to Sufiyan for being so mature and understanding. Please continue looking out for Amara♥️ MashAllah you both make such a cute couple♥️ InshaaAllah you both are going to have a beautiful healthy baby soon. Praying for you both♥️ Stay Blessed always InshaaAllah 💖
Thank you so much for your duas, Muniba. Ameen ❤️🤲 Sufyan's the best ma shaa Allah, never lets anything feel too lonely in life. 🤗💖 May Allah SWT bless and protect you x
Surely ALLAH tests those HE love...May ALL AH will give you a beautiful baby..you have been through so much and it seem to have increased you both in faith in ALLAH.
😭😭😭😭 may allah give you lots of sabr and strength. You are not at fault at all. Hope for a positive future what’s past has passed. Alhumdulillah hope all husbands are like sufiyan. Lots of hugs for Amara x
So sorry for your lost. I pray you find comfort in knowing that there’s nothing you could have done differently. You did nothing wrong, Take your time to heal and it is not weak for you to cry,
Our stories are sooo similar. My first pregnancy I lost at 7.5 weeks and I lost it in this lonely bathroom in the hospital on my way to get bloodwork to see if I was miscarrying cause I had been bleeding for about a week and it was getting heavier. I saw my tiny little sac and baby in the toilet but had nothing to get it and didnt know what to do with it either especially being alone and just genuinely not knowing what to do. It doesnt sit well with me to this very day. I know Allah is the most merciful and knows our intentions but still in my mind it hurts knowing the outcome. I am now a mother to three beautiful children on this Earth and alhamdullilah one tiny little baby in Jannah and I pray that Allah swt blesses you with the most pious and beautiful children and with more blessings than you know what to do with. I will keep you in my prayers inshaAllah. Mu’adh ibn Jabal reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “By the One in whose hand is my soul, the miscarried fetus will carry his mother by his umbilical cord into Paradise, if she was seeking its reward.” Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 1609 Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
In'Sha'Allah Allah will bless you soon! I had 2 chemical pregnancy miscarriages in the past year and no sympathy from my inlaws (who I live with) and my husband showed it barely. One day our time will come 🙏
May Allah swt make it easy for you and grant you pious, healthy pregnancies and children Ameen 🤲❤️ May Allah swt put barakah and love in the hearts of your husband and in-laws towards you Ameen 🤲
I’m so sorry 😞, I lost 7 pregnancies and I totally understand. I had my rainbow baby in 2019 so although I know it hard to hear, you will have your rainbow baby 🧡 Edit to add: the part you mention self guilt and that maybe u are being punished i know it to well and I know all that go thru a miscarriage experience it so u aren’t alone, what pulled me out of it was prayers, and I had an epiphany, god was merciful with me because although my miscarriages broke me I felt loved one day because I rather lose the pregnancy early than lose the baby in the middle of the pregnancy and give birth or give birth to a stillborn or have my baby born with problems and suffer or die of Sids. Because god knew i couldn’t handle that. I really admire a woman that has gone thru that horrible experience and find strength in it all. I have a friend with pcos that lost 3 and the first was at 17 a week before her gender reveal and after her first round of fertility meds she finally pregnant again after 3 yrs after losing her last pregnancy. I’ve been there thru it all with her and support is valuable. You aren’t alone and you have a wonderful husband and family and friends and this community as well 🧡🧡
Hey sweet Melissa ❤️ I can't comprehend the struggle of going through 7 when this 1 has felt so painful. The strength and faith you must have built within yourself to still speak so positively ❤️ I admire that so much. & Yes, I feel like it was a mercy that if it had to be, that it was early. It's another level of a test when the baby is so much further along let alone SIDS. 😔 God tests us with what He knows we can handle / gives us the strength to be able to handle it. It's made me feel even closer to other women. So many of us have gone through the same trauma. Love to you ❤️
I am sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing! Be gentle w/ yourselves through this journey of healing, and may the ancestors welcome your first born w/ warmth and tenderness. I have faith that the Most High has great things in store for you both... 🙏
Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji’oon . First off I’d like to say you are both strong, incredible people, so positive Allahumabarik. May Allah preserve these traits in you always, ameen. I’m so glad you’ve made this video to raise awareness of the realities of miscarriage especially within the Muslim community. sSo important! I’m not sure if while doing your searches on miscarriage you came across my story, but listening to your story reminded me of my miscarried baby and the immense love I had and still have for him/her and how much I miss that precious baby of ours. I know that love will never fade regardless of what happens in life as I know it won’t for you. You both are most definitely parents and no-one can take that title and blessing away from you. I’m so glad you had each other while going through your loss. Through my personal experience, I’ve learned grief is not linear and it’s completely fine to be good some days and not so great the others. I guess I just want to thank you both for making a much needed video and helping those who have miscarried whether years ago or recently still come to terms with their loss and almost reminisce (?) the experience to invoke thankfulness of Allah SWT for the hikmah behind Him returning our babies to Him. Alhamdullilah ya rabb. May Allah bless you both in abundance for your patience and grant you babies upon babies! May He reunite you both with your angel baby in Jannah where you’ll rejoice and forget you were ever grieving. May Allah expiate your sins with the beautiful patience you have displayed and continue to display as you grieve your precious baby. Ameen. 🤍🕊
Salaam sis ❤️ Firstly, ameen to your beautiful duas 🤲 thank you so much. All the babies upon babies iA iA iA 😂💕 Secondly, yes I did come across your video when I was searching! It's one of the videos that gave me real comfort during my most lonely moments. Sufyan was at work and I was in bed sobbing but had your video and some others to keep me company and help guide me through. I watched it a few times because it was so comforting and cathartic to me. Thank you so much. 💖 I also saw that alhamdulilah you got pregnant after which made me so happy and hopeful! 🤗 I craved so much to hear the Islamic perspective of things especially and your video gave me that. I am so grateful and so touched that you've come across ours. & It is a bit of a rollercoaster. At the time of filming this I felt like I was really healing up and feeling good again, then the past few days have been a real struggle like before. It definitely isn't linear and I'm glad you said that. ❤️ Allah's wisdom is behind everything and in Him we trust 🤲. I'm so happy to have heard from you. Xx
Aw guys :( I’m so so sad to hear you have been through this, but your attitude and support for each other is amazing and a blessing. I will keep you in my duaas and inshallah you will have all your duaas answered soon💕
I missed you both, thank you for sharing your experiences ❤....the best is yet to come for you both.....having a miscarriage is never easy it takes a toll on your body and your mental...I had three pregnancies all normal delivery, then there was a fourth time to be blessed with another opportunity to bring forth life, Unfortunately at around my six week period I had an Etopic pregnancy(we were blessed with twins....but only one survived😪 after we the next time will be even better.
I'm so sorry you went through that ❤️ it must have been so hard. I pray you are reunited with your lost child in heaven. May God bless you for the pain you must've gone through. Yes, the mental journey has been tougher than the physical (I imagine it's a lot harder physically when you're further along). I trust that God and time will heal all. 🤲💕
i loved you guys since your weddings videos and i just want to say you are so brave for not only getting through this but also sharing this and i’m so sorry for your loss. may Allah sbt grant you with happiness always ameen.
Thank you for sharing your story. My heart feels your pain. With that said, it's my belief that everything happens in God's timing. Before that fetus was there, God's knows what was going to happen. Don't blame yourselves, for it was NOTHING that you did wrong. When God says it time, he will BLESS you with a beautiful baby. I believe that. Take your time and grieve. That baby was only supposed to be here for that long. Who knows, by the end of the year you will probably be with child. I can feel it. I am pray for you guys. Trust in him.
Sending a lot of love and hugs your way ❤️ I pray that you're strengthened at this time. Even in this difficult time, God is still God and will forever remain faithful. We will forever sing his praises. All my love 💗
Thank you for being a man with exceptional character, we need more like you in our ummah. May Allah grant all of us women who want a husband with a high character and true gentleman empathy and respect and protection, such a blessing. Amara thank you also for being an example of beautiful patience. Remember, you will be reimbursed for your loss by the most generous, Allah azza wajal ❤️
Thank you sis 💖 Ameen 🤲 the husband search is reaaaaal, I pray all of our sisters are blessed with the best of men iA. Jzk for the reminder ❤️ needed to remember this today. Xxx
So much love and respect for how beautifully both of you have handled this situation, May Allah swt bless you with your bundle of joy very soon In Shaa Allah. You will reunite with your child in Jannah In Shaa Allah. You both make a beautiful and inspiring couple Ma Shaa Allah
I know this story, my love and prayers for you both. You both are united and strong, oh the memories you brought bad, then I think about what the heavens gave me later and I smile. NO REGRETS, ALLAH be with you,YOU WILL HAVE YOUR CILD❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for sharing, Amara. I feel your pain, and you’re a strong woman. I pray that Almighty Allah blesses you with beautiful, healthy, righteous children that will be the coolness of your eyes. May Almighty Allah grant you your heart desires 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
The end where sufyaan pours his heart out to Amaarah 😩😩you guys are beautiful inspiring strong adorable,May Allah increase you in barakah oh and your iman is incredible subhana Allah,may Allah bless you more and more,thank you for sharing,it’s beautiful
Wow thank you so much for sharing so openly. Its so important to talk about miscarriage, especially all the graphic details because its the reality and so important for women not to feel alone, and also for the partners too. Thank you again, sending you both so much love xxx
I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you both hugs. It was so lovely to hear Sufiyan spoke so lovingly to about how he loves and will always be supportive and you to him. I wish you both good health and to your future babies. I'm happy to hear Sufiyan expressed how he was affected, men don't really get the chance to express their feelings during this difficult time. God bless your family. 💐❤🇯🇲
I thank God you are okay I too have had two ectopic pregnancy, Its was devastating! Never taught I will ever be able to have a baby, I pray long and faithfully I stay constantly on my knees. Glory to God he bless me with an amazing son. You will never forget this experience , you will get pregnant again. He knows best. Love you guys and I turly missed you.
I'm so sorry, may Allah SWT keep you strong. “And certainly, We shall test you with something of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits, but give glad tidings to As- Saabiroon (the patient). Who, when afflicted with calamity, say: ‘Truly, to Allah we belong and truly, to Him we shall return.’ They are those on whom are the Salawaat (i.e. who are blessed and will be forgiven) from their Lord, and (they are those who) receive His Mercy, and it is they who are the guided ones”. The Holy Quran 2:155-157
Thank you so much for sharing your story. That took a lot of courage. You are such a beautiful couple...💗 May Almight God bless you with another child soon! 🙏🙏🙏
Hey my namesake. Let's look at this as a positive!! Atleast you know u can actually conceive. As I told u I have pcos too and I suffered from multiple miscarriages. Just be positive hon. Don't stress it. I conceived 15 years into my relationship. Just enjoy the love making, and don't let the stress of trying to conceive take the fun out of your love life.
Hi Omara! Yes, alhamdulilah we were able to conceive. That in itself is definitely a blessing. I remember your story that you shared with me and thought of it in these times. 💖
I totally feel your pain, I have had two miscarriges, it is the hardest and emotionalist time to break. I started to write a preganancy journey diary for my baby to read when it was older which had all the special moments like the best feeling in becoming a mother, to check my stomach to see if the baby bump was growing yet, putting weight on, planning all sorts for the baby further into trimesters feeling a stronger connextion with the baby, shopping, planning and the beautiful life to live after the birth of the baby to feeling empty and lost for words feeling and emotions. No doubt Allah is the best of planner, and plans the best for his people. I make Dua, Allah fills your laps with joy, happiness and blessings of a little Sufiyan or Amara. Ameen & In'Sha'Allah. Sending you lots of love and hugs. In'Sha'Allah Allah will reward you again for all your sabr xx
I had a miscarriage 3 weeks ago. I was told on 19th December 2023 at my 11 week scan that my baby was only 9weeks and I had miscarried. I was so numb at the time the lady told me. it wasn't processing. Then they sent me to a nurse who gave my some leaflets on miscarriage as I never experienced this with my other kid's. She said you can go natural,take a pill or mini op. I chose natural, but didn't realise it would take so long. For like almost 2 weeks, I was carrying my dead baby😢. finally on 2nd January 2024, I had the worst cramps for like 5 hrs prior to blood actually coming out and the clots you feel coming out, so much came out at once that I fainted. it was horrendous. Took 4 days to fully have all clots come out. But now I feel so dead inside. And so depressed. I want to try again but am absolutely terrified why this happened in the first place. I really want to try again for a healthy baby. But how healthy should I try to be? is there exercises I should do? or supplements I should take to make sure it's a healthy good pregnancy next time. And how soon can I try again. I'm kind of scared. it's been 3 weeks and my bleeding has pretty much finished. 😢 How do you get over it sister.
Time is the master, Ur time is coming, sending U both so much love, Ur husband Comforts U with Quranic Love, 💜💯, I'm so Proud of Ur strength, My husband left me bleeding on the bed and went out, My Story was horrible however hearing Ur story I feel closure of my loss, Ur baby wasn't quite ready, she will be back with her siblings later , Stay in Islamic Love,, 💜💜💜, U did what can only have been done at the time, 🙏🙏🙏
I'm so sorry that you were left in that way, Audrey. 💔 I'm so humbled and grateful that our story has helped your closure 🥺❤️ beautiful. Sending you all the love and hugs. 💖💖💖
Awe, I just watched your video and couple other ones, May Jesus Christ bless you with many children, my husband and I don't have children we are 21 years married and I tell you that was not easy ❤️, but Jesus knows what we can handle I had gotten seizures in the past, and I can relate to depression I had suicidal thoughts, but my husband reached out and a prayer chain got answered, Jesus loves you and he hears our prayers ❤️ stay positive and don't let Satan take you down the pit, may God bless you ❤️
If I could like this video a million times I would've. You've shared so many beautiful things that would help a person in times of any difficulty. May Allah bless you abundantly.
In Allah open your arms my dear and feel my strength its a big hug from me to you both that Allah will bless and be with you guys the best is yet to come love love you both peace and love
I am so so so sorry for your loss. I got pregnant at the same time and lost just like you too - also with pcos. I have given you so so so many duas Jazakallah khayr for sharing your experience I was genuinely having a big fat cry about it an hour ago and this video has really really helped. May Allah shower your family with blessings and some lovely healthy babies !! ameen ameen ameen!
SubhanAllah, I've been waiting for you sis ❤️ someone going through it now and needing some company and hope. You're not alone and I'm so so so sorry for your loss too. 😞 Literally the same time... subhanAllah. 💔 May Allah SWT bless us with healthy babies and the strength to have a beautiful kind of sabr until then (the struggle 😂😭). 🤲 I love you so much for the sake of Allah and am giving you a cuddle right now. 🤗❤️ P.S. I still cry too (had a big fat cry earlier today) and I think that's just the journey for a while, but I'm so humbled that our video has helped you in some way. Take care of yourself and take all the time you need. After this hardship will surely come ease, in shaa Allah. Ramadan soon too. 🌸 Everything will be okay. X
Hi you lot, not easy topic. You two can really communicate. I am impressed. Wow. Sorry for your loss. Just to share some info. I had a girlfriend who had PCOS some years back. I read that Noni juice helps women with hormonal balance/imbalances. Noni is a plant. It helped her a LOT. Within 3 months her period had gone from 30 days 7 days to 3 days with no pain. Please look it up and see if it might help you too. Look, I realise that I don't know the real cause of your issues.
New Subscriber here. My regards to you for your loss. Sending Duaas your way. This may or may not help. But alot of women go through miscarriage on their first attempt of pregnancy. It is emotionally draining (talking from experience) but you have the best support around you Alhamdulillah. May Allah bless you with many healthy babies. Ameen. You'll get through but you're doing the right thing. Giving yourself time to heal. Sending positivity and light your way🌹✨
Salaam Aysha ❤️ I didn't know a lot of women miscarry on their first attempt, so that does help. 🌸 I expected it in my lifetime but thought it's usually later down the line. So I appreciate you letting me know that. Ameen to your duas 🤲❤️ Allah SWT is the best of planners. Lots of love to you too, sis. Xx
I make Dua that ALLAH take away your pain and fill your hearts with Sabr INSHA'ALLAH. Stay strong for when the time comes and it will come I know that you will be best of parents.
I had a empty gestational sac 3 times twice at the end of last year n one in May.this is how mine happened as well الحمدللہ I have a toddler girl and I've lost one daughter at 8 weeks. But your story is definitely one to help is different n complicated جزاک اللہ
Going through a Miscarriage is never easy. I had a Miscarriage at 6 weeks, my friend has had 16 Miscarriages and 1 still birth and last year she was blessed with a baby girl 2 days after ramadan. May Allah bless you with good health and iman and may all your dua's come true.xx
Cousins baby died 8 months full formed in belly, heart sudden stoped few months before they had a gender reveal party for the baby boy next they were planning a funeral
you’re a beautiful couple, inside and out Allahuma Baarik. may Allah ease the pain of your loss and allow you both to continue to hope and pray for a family of your own, Aamiin! AND MAY HE PROVIDE YOU WITH AS MANY BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN AS YOU WANT IN THIS LIFE AND REUNITE YOU ALL IN THE NEXT, AAMIIN! thank you for sharing your story with us, i’m certain it is appreciated more than you know❤️🔥
Ameen 🤲, thank you so much. ❤️❤️❤️
25 years ago I had a miscarriage and never spoke of it. Later in group therapy I spoke of the shame I felt that it was somehow my fault. It is important to talk about this.
Your story resonates so much with my first pregnancy. I ended up flushing what I passed too and initially regret played in my mind but time heals. And I saw my husband cry for the first time when loss was confirmed. MashA you’ve supported each other well at a traumatic time. Just remember Almighty tests those he loves and that baby will be there for you in heaven. I named my baby a male and female name and still mention him/her to my children. And yes, there is hope. Your body has been pregnant before so it will be ready for it again InshA. May Almighty bless you both and reward your sabr. X
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Hi Amara, my name is Bernice and I live in Barbados! 🇧🇧 Thanks for sharing your experience with us! I think you and your husband are so brave to share that most intimate of experiences. My husband and I lost two babies that came to full term and those days were very hard but God has gifted us with a son and a happy grandson. I pray that in due course you will have your fill of babies. Amara, you are a mother and you will be the very best mom. Your children shall call you blessed. The Almighty's timing Is good timing and it shall happen soon, give thanks. Bless you, both💐💐
My brother you and Amara are beautiful people and you will come out of this just fine. When Bernice and I lost the kids I was nowhere as mature or grounded in faith as you are. You are an inspirational man. Your willingness to share your experience will help others. I am sorry for the pain you have had to endure, grow roots deep in your love and your faith. Peace and love to you both.
Hi Bernice ❤️ I can't imagine the pain that comes with losing a child at full term let alone two. 😔 The strength you must have had to grow to move through that ...I can only imagine. Your story inspires me to have strength through my little test. I truly believe that God only tests you with what you can handle or will give you the strength to get through. No one's timing is better than The Almighty's and I'm so excited for whenever that right time is. I'm so sorry for all the pain you had to go through and my love is with you. Thank you so much for messaging us. Lots of love to you both. 💖 - Amara
Thank you, my brother. Your words are very comforting. I am sorry for everything you had to go through and also filled with joy to hear that about your son and grandchild. I always look out for your comments, so thank you again. My prayers and blessings to your family. - Suf
Hi Xs I am so so sorry .. but all will be well.
I missed you guys so much and I am sorry to hear about your lost. Thank you so much for being open and sharing this part of the journey with us. I can only imagine what you guys are going through but ik you're gonna be okay. Sending you both lot of light, healing and positive juju ❤
Thank you so much, Niquey. 💕🌸
I am happy that you had your husband's support. That is a big blessing.
It was beautiful for you guys to share. I just love you guys.
Sorry for your loss I feel pain I have been through that four times and the last one was twins and I finally have a boy who is 5 years old now. Hugs
Thank you for sharing this with us, this must have been a difficult process for the both of you, May Allah make it easier and bless you both with offspring's that cool your eyes and bring nothing but Allah's rehmat, mercy & happiness. Ameen ❤️❤️❤️
Hope you guys know we are always here to support you
Ameen to your beautiful duas for us. 🤲❤️ Thank you so much, Anum.
So sorry to hear about your lost. Sending love, hugs and prayers
Thank you, Rebecca. ❤️
The Messenger of Allah (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said, “By the One in Whose hands is my soul, the miscarried fetus will drag his mother to paradise by his [umbilical] cord if she was patient [with the miscarriage], hoping to be rewarded.” [Ahmad] 💚
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Take all the time you need to heal. Keeping you both in my prayers❤️
Thank you, Iqra 🌸
I’m so heartbroken for you guys. I’m so glad you had the support of your husband during this and he has yours because men grieve miscarriages also.
You two are truly inspirational, I wish y’all the best and may Allah grant you lots of righteous babies and may your love also grow. Sending love from Ethiopia♥️
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You helped more people than you think or know. I pray the Creator blesses you and your womb. Much blessings to the two of you!
I hit like not because I liked what happened but because of the courage and love I see in you both for each other.
Sorry 😔😔💔💔 don't give up. May you be blessed when the time is right, by god's grace.
Yes ❤️❤️❤️🤲 Thank you, Caylene. X
Firstly, I’m so very sorry for your loss. What astounded me throughout this video was the pure and utter love and devotion you have for each other as a couple, mashallah! May your faith carry you through this difficult time and inshallah you will be blessed again 🤲
Ameen 🤲❤️ thank you so much, Emma. X
- I can only imagine what you're both going through - May Allah be pleased - 🤲🏼
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I’m so sorry :( love you both x
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You guys are made for each other!
So sorry for your lost🕊
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Salam
Lots of dua’s for you both InshAllah khyr, whatever Allah swt wills
I got told at 24 years of age I couldn’t have children ever and I was beyond devastated, after exploring all our options we decided to go down the adoption route, I adopted my son in January 2008 when he was a six month old baby, he’s going to be 15 years of age this year, what can I say without getting tearful, he’s my diamond, my Jannah baby, our Lord is the best of planners, after becoming his mother I’ve always said if God had given me a choice a child of my own body or my adopted son without any hesitation I would say my adopted milk son Rayyan Muhammad
May Allah swt bless the ummah with khyr and bless us with righteous children
Ameen
Lots of love ❤️
SubhanAllah, your story really melted our hearts. 🥺❤️❤️❤️ So, so beautiful. Allah is the best of planners! Xxx
I'm only at 11 minutes, and I have cried sad tears and happy tears. Our stories are similar, and I immediately had that sick gut feeling reading the title. You two are such a beautiful couple. Thank you for always being so transparent. There is knowledge to be gained through your laughter and now your heartache. I know that there will be many blessings to come for you both!
Amara, like always, I'll send you a message on IG. 🥰
So many of us have been through such similar traumas with this; so horrible, but at least we are not alone. Thank you for always recognising the transparency and seeing our hearts, friend. ❤️
I am so sorry you guys had to go through this...hugs and more hugs. Yes, I know this video will help many who are going through this or will be going it.🙏🏾🙏🏾 🤗🤗💞💞
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This video was super emotional to watch because I felt as though I was going through everything with you guys by just listening/watching 😣☹️
I’ve never been through a miscarriage but I can only imagine how you guys felt hugs 🤗
I even felt guilty liking the video because it seem like doing something mean
I prayer you guys gel even tighter than you already are, very soon a blessing will come, I am pretty sure you will make amazing parents at the right time ❤️❤️❤️🤗🙏🏿
Continue to be patient and have faith 🙏🏿
Just remember nothing happens before it’s time 🤗
I absolutely love you guys
Love coming all the way from Barbados 🇧🇧
Hey Keisha ❤️ you've been with us a while so it's sweet that you felt that way. 🤗 You're right, nothing happens before it's time, and God's timing is the best. 🤲💖 Thank you for the love and prayers 😘 lots of love back to you xxx
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, I can only pray you are blessed with a healthy pregnancy and baby inshallah. I also really admire both of your strength. To open up about pregnancy loss isn't easy but the reminders you gave are just what I (and I'm sure many others) needed to hear so thank you! Sending you lots of love!
I thought I'd just give ectopic pregnancies a mention too because many women don't know about them but they are pregnancies that if not removed early enough, put the mothers life in danger. Symptoms can be very similar to miscarriage so it's really important for all women to know about. I don't have a platform with a huge following where I can raise awareness of this issue but hopefully some people will cast an eye on this and become aware of it.
Seeing you so quiet in your intro is so not like you 😢 may Allah swt grant you both strength and imaan. You guys are so sweet to each other MashaAllah. May Allah swt protect your marriage and grant you healthy children who will be the coolness of your eyes And among the righteous ♥️🤲🏼
You are such a beautiful couple 💑. My prayers 🙏 and love are with you both❤
Thank you ❤️
Indeed your such a beautiful couple❤️ thanks for sharing ..it's a test from Allah and inshallah you will over come it soon..Amara you are so blessed to have such a loving husband he's such a nice person.may Allah continue blessing you
I’m in a interracial marriage and we recently went through this together. Very similar story, except I was the one who wanted to check the pregnancy sac. He turned his head and told me not to but I couldn’t bear to flush it without knowing. The doctor said it was so small so I wouldn’t see anything but he lied. I saw the sac and I saw the baby. I flipped it over and saw the eye and saw the umbilical cord. My husband said the best thing would be to flush it so he closed the toilet, we said a prayer for the baby and I flushed it. I was hurt and sad and went through the emotions of what if we put it in a bag and threw it in the trash versus flushing it. But I know we did the best thing. I’m writing this as I’m still going through the entire process. Yesterday was the day it happened.
My sweet, sweet Amirah, I wish I could give you a hug. As an OB RN of 14 years I have held many female hands in a similar situation. I applaud the X’s for sharing. Cry if you must. It’s healthy to grieve. I’m happy that your husband is, and has been extremely supportive, as usual🙂. Yes, abortions especially missed abortion is very common. Yes, God is in control. Our body is beautifully, and wonderfully made, it has a way to rid pregnancies that possibly would have been abnormal. I’m happy you have a ultrasound showing the heart beat of the embryo 😌..memories for life! Yes guys blessing in three folds, so much sooner than your maybe expecting!Triplets??
BLESS guys🇯🇲🇪🇹
It needs to be more common knowledge that early scanning increases chances of miscarriage. . .6 weeks scans should be scrapped all together they do more harm than good
I'm cyber hugging you right now 🤗❤️ thank you for your touching message. & Triplets 🙈🙈😂❤️❤️❤️
Tears flowed for both of you. I am so sorry. Thank you for sharing something so personal. Never been through it, but I have learned so much from you all. I love your belief about life. I am a grandmother but I am still learning so much from both of you. May you be blessed always, and I may you soon be given the beautiful joy of that baby which your hearts desire. You are not alone. Love that both of you are so very supportive with each other. You both were meant to be. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🕊🕊💐❤️
Awwww, Ms Claudette. ❤️ Thank you for listening and sending us so much love, always. There's something extra comforting and warm knowing that you are a grandmother. There's extra wisdom within you and your words just hit our hearts so deeply. Ameen to your beautiful prayers for us, may God protect you always and keep you and your family blessed in abundance. So much love to you 💖🌸
Blessings to both of you🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️. Your healthy family is in progress ☺️❤️❤️❤️. Prayers for your continued strength and the beautiful life you both live❤️❤️❤️❤️
The way Amara said her name just made me so sad. You guys were so positive while talking it was so beautiful to hear. I pray Allah makes it easier for you both and at least you know you can get pregnant. Insha’Allah it does happen for you both when you are both ready. Just know Amara you haven’t let anyone down. Some things happen for a reason and just know when it’s suppose to happen it will💕. You are both in my duas. X
Yes, alhamdulilah that we were at least able to get pregnant, as that was a worry in itself. I'm glad that even though it was a sad topic, that you found it positively done. That makes me really happy xx
Subhanallah , that was very sad to hear. Just take the time to heal. Im so sorry to hear that. May Allah swt help you guys with healing and give you guys endless happiness’s Ameen. I read this beautiful hadith on the internet Which i love it and i hope in sha Allah it happends to you guys. ‘’The Messenger of Allah (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said, “By the One in Whose hands is my soul, the miscarried fetus will drag his mother to paradise by his [umbilical] cord if she was patient [with the miscarriage], hoping to be rewarded.” [Ahmad].’’ Everything happends for a reason. Trust me! Allah swt have something very Good planned for you guys. ‘’ and Allah swt is the best planners -surah al- anfal (ayah 30)
Hope you guys know that i will countine to always support you guys in sha Allah and make alot dua for you guys. I have been focusing on exams in uni lately so been lit bit busy those past months. But im going back to watch those videos that i saved to watch🥰❤️
Ameen. 🤲 Thank you so much for sharing this hadith, Fatima. ❤️ I love it too. Xxx
This is painful. Remember this is a test and Allah will reward you with many beautiful children Ameen.
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Thank you for sharing your experience. I’m sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage as well. I was three months at the time. My husband and I were devastated. We called our friends who had experienced a miscarriage to get some guidance. We went to the hospital and we had in fact miscarried. We had two children at the time. Three to five months after our miscarriage, we got pregnant with our baby girl. God is faithful and able. It’s so true about prayer and support from my husband helped me. For me it was the Bible, and it’s word gave me such peace. It does take time to work through the emotions and the grief. Take the time you need to heal and grieve. God bless you guys.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Nicole, and so happy for your blessings!!! 🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️ God bless you x
@@TheXs.Official Thank you guys. I appreciate it.
I’m so so sorry! Your honesty and bravery will help others, for sure! Bless you and yours. xo
Love and blessings to you too. 💖
The Most High is Good, and always in control. Bless up✊🏽 stay firm.
Yes indeed. 🤲❤️
I am so sorry for your loss. I love how positive you both are about it. Shout out to Sufiyan for being so mature and understanding. Please continue looking out for Amara♥️ MashAllah you both make such a cute couple♥️ InshaaAllah you both are going to have a beautiful healthy baby soon. Praying for you both♥️ Stay Blessed always InshaaAllah 💖
Thank you so much for your duas, Muniba. Ameen ❤️🤲 Sufyan's the best ma shaa Allah, never lets anything feel too lonely in life. 🤗💖 May Allah SWT bless and protect you x
Surely ALLAH tests those HE love...May ALL AH will give you a beautiful baby..you have been through so much and it seem to have increased you both in faith in ALLAH.
So sorry to hear about your miscarriage 🙏🏽❤️❤️ I pray for you to be blessed with future pregnancies Insha Allah! Missed you both !!
Thank you, Shirley. Always sending us the love 🤗💖❤️
Sorry for your lost. May God bless you with healthy kids in the future🙏🏽
Ameeen 🤲❤️
With every hardship comes ease. Now you have your baby girl mashallah!
😭😭😭😭 may allah give you lots of sabr and strength. You are not at fault at all. Hope for a positive future what’s past has passed. Alhumdulillah hope all husbands are like sufiyan. Lots of hugs for Amara x
So sorry for your lost. I pray you find comfort in knowing that there’s nothing you could have done differently. You did nothing wrong, Take your time to heal and it is not weak for you to cry,
Our stories are sooo similar. My first pregnancy I lost at 7.5 weeks and I lost it in this lonely bathroom in the hospital on my way to get bloodwork to see if I was miscarrying cause I had been bleeding for about a week and it was getting heavier. I saw my tiny little sac and baby in the toilet but had nothing to get it and didnt know what to do with it either especially being alone and just genuinely not knowing what to do. It doesnt sit well with me to this very day. I know Allah is the most merciful and knows our intentions but still in my mind it hurts knowing the outcome.
I am now a mother to three beautiful children on this Earth and alhamdullilah one tiny little baby in Jannah and I pray that Allah swt blesses you with the most pious and beautiful children and with more blessings than you know what to do with. I will keep you in my prayers inshaAllah.
Mu’adh ibn Jabal reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “By the One in whose hand is my soul, the miscarried fetus will carry his mother by his umbilical cord into Paradise, if she was seeking its reward.”
Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 1609
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
Im so sorry for your lost. I can see the hurt in her eyes. God be with you both.
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Oh I`m so sorry. Bless you both.
Thank you, Mr Preece. ❤️
This breaks my heart for you both! I’m so sorry for your loss and may God heal your pain and loss. I pray you and God bless you in your journey. 💕
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In'Sha'Allah Allah will bless you soon! I had 2 chemical pregnancy miscarriages in the past year and no sympathy from my inlaws (who I live with) and my husband showed it barely. One day our time will come 🙏
May Allah swt make it easy for you and grant you pious, healthy pregnancies and children Ameen 🤲❤️ May Allah swt put barakah and love in the hearts of your husband and in-laws towards you Ameen 🤲
I’m very sorry to hear about your loss. I hope that one day soon IA you grow your family ❤️
Praying 🙏 ❣️💙 It's going to happen for you.
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I’m so sorry 😞, I lost 7 pregnancies and I totally understand. I had my rainbow baby in 2019 so although I know it hard to hear, you will have your rainbow baby 🧡
Edit to add: the part you mention self guilt and that maybe u are being punished i know it to well and I know all that go thru a miscarriage experience it so u aren’t alone, what pulled me out of it was prayers, and I had an epiphany, god was merciful with me because although my miscarriages broke me I felt loved one day because I rather lose the pregnancy early than lose the baby in the middle of the pregnancy and give birth or give birth to a stillborn or have my baby born with problems and suffer or die of Sids. Because god knew i couldn’t handle that. I really admire a woman that has gone thru that horrible experience and find strength in it all.
I have a friend with pcos that lost 3 and the first was at 17 a week before her gender reveal and after her first round of fertility meds she finally pregnant again after 3 yrs after losing her last pregnancy. I’ve been there thru it all with her and support is valuable. You aren’t alone and you have a wonderful husband and family and friends and this community as well 🧡🧡
Hey sweet Melissa ❤️ I can't comprehend the struggle of going through 7 when this 1 has felt so painful. The strength and faith you must have built within yourself to still speak so positively ❤️ I admire that so much. & Yes, I feel like it was a mercy that if it had to be, that it was early. It's another level of a test when the baby is so much further along let alone SIDS. 😔 God tests us with what He knows we can handle / gives us the strength to be able to handle it. It's made me feel even closer to other women. So many of us have gone through the same trauma. Love to you ❤️
I am sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing! Be gentle w/ yourselves through this journey of healing, and may the ancestors welcome your first born w/ warmth and tenderness. I have faith that the Most High has great things in store for you both... 🙏
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Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji’oon
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First off I’d like to say you are both strong, incredible people, so positive Allahumabarik. May Allah preserve these traits in you always, ameen. I’m so glad you’ve made this video to raise awareness of the realities of miscarriage especially within the Muslim community. sSo important! I’m not sure if while doing your searches on miscarriage you came across my story, but listening to your story reminded me of my miscarried baby and the immense love I had and still have for him/her and how much I miss that precious baby of ours. I know that love will never fade regardless of what happens in life as I know it won’t for you.
You both are most definitely parents and no-one can take that title and blessing away from you. I’m so glad you had each other while going through your loss. Through my personal experience, I’ve learned grief is not linear and it’s completely fine to be good some days and not so great the others. I guess I just want to thank you both for making a much needed video and helping those who have miscarried whether years ago or recently still come to terms with their loss and almost reminisce (?) the experience to invoke thankfulness of Allah SWT for the hikmah behind Him returning our babies to Him. Alhamdullilah ya rabb.
May Allah bless you both in abundance for your patience and grant you babies upon babies! May He reunite you both with your angel baby in Jannah where you’ll rejoice and forget you were ever grieving. May Allah expiate your sins with the beautiful patience you have displayed and continue to display as you grieve your precious baby. Ameen. 🤍🕊
Salaam sis ❤️
Firstly, ameen to your beautiful duas 🤲 thank you so much. All the babies upon babies iA iA iA 😂💕
Secondly, yes I did come across your video when I was searching! It's one of the videos that gave me real comfort during my most lonely moments. Sufyan was at work and I was in bed sobbing but had your video and some others to keep me company and help guide me through. I watched it a few times because it was so comforting and cathartic to me. Thank you so much. 💖 I also saw that alhamdulilah you got pregnant after which made me so happy and hopeful! 🤗
I craved so much to hear the Islamic perspective of things especially and your video gave me that. I am so grateful and so touched that you've come across ours.
& It is a bit of a rollercoaster. At the time of filming this I felt like I was really healing up and feeling good again, then the past few days have been a real struggle like before. It definitely isn't linear and I'm glad you said that. ❤️
Allah's wisdom is behind everything and in Him we trust 🤲. I'm so happy to have heard from you. Xx
So sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing your story, now I have a better understanding of what people go through when they miscarriage. ❤️
My deepest sympathies. Thank you for sharing your incredible insights and journey.
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Assalamu Alaikum, I'm so sorry to hear about your lost.May Allah taa'ala bless you with a children soon. ❤
I don’t even know what to say…💔 I just wish peace,blessing, & the strength to heal during this time. InshAllah 🤲🏽.
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Aw guys :( I’m so so sad to hear you have been through this, but your attitude and support for each other is amazing and a blessing. I will keep you in my duaas and inshallah you will have all your duaas answered soon💕
I missed you both, thank you for sharing your experiences ❤....the best is yet to come for you both.....having a miscarriage is never easy it takes a toll on your body and your mental...I had three pregnancies all normal delivery, then there was a fourth time to be blessed with another opportunity to bring forth life, Unfortunately at around my six week period I had an Etopic pregnancy(we were blessed with twins....but only one survived😪 after we the next time will be even better.
I'm so sorry you went through that ❤️ it must have been so hard. I pray you are reunited with your lost child in heaven. May God bless you for the pain you must've gone through.
Yes, the mental journey has been tougher than the physical (I imagine it's a lot harder physically when you're further along). I trust that God and time will heal all. 🤲💕
i loved you guys since your weddings videos and i just want to say you are so brave for not only getting through this but also sharing this and i’m so sorry for your loss. may Allah sbt grant you with happiness always ameen.
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Thank you for sharing your story. My heart feels your pain. With that said, it's my belief that everything happens in God's timing. Before that fetus was there, God's knows what was going to happen. Don't blame yourselves, for it was NOTHING that you did wrong. When God says it time, he will BLESS you with a beautiful baby. I believe that. Take your time and grieve. That baby was only supposed to be here for that long. Who knows, by the end of the year you will probably be with child. I can feel it. I am pray for you guys. Trust in him.
I'm super sorry my dear sister.I lost my twins 9 months ago.They were 26 weeks.I know the feeling.May Allah(sw) give you patience.
Sending a lot of love and hugs your way ❤️ I pray that you're strengthened at this time. Even in this difficult time, God is still God and will forever remain faithful. We will forever sing his praises. All my love 💗
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Thank you for being a man with exceptional character, we need more like you in our ummah. May Allah grant all of us women who want a husband with a high character and true gentleman empathy and respect and protection, such a blessing. Amara thank you also for being an example of beautiful patience. Remember, you will be reimbursed for your loss by the most generous, Allah azza wajal ❤️
Thank you sis 💖 Ameen 🤲 the husband search is reaaaaal, I pray all of our sisters are blessed with the best of men iA. Jzk for the reminder ❤️ needed to remember this today. Xxx
I don't know why I cried while watching this video...I love you guys so much ❤️
May Allah reward you with happiness ❤️
Ameen 🤲❤️ thank you, Khadija x
Aww u two man im sorry u both had to go through that hardship in shaa allah one day you will become parents after every hardship comes ease x
Ameeen ❤️ thank you so much
So sorry for your loss! Thanks for sharing. Everything will work out. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
So much love and respect for how beautifully both of you have handled this situation, May Allah swt bless you with your bundle of joy very soon In Shaa Allah.
You will reunite with your child in Jannah In Shaa Allah.
You both make a beautiful and inspiring couple Ma Shaa Allah
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May Allah give sabar on this and grant healthy pious kids in future🤲
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I’m so sorry to hear that .... I had miscarriage on 12/15/2021 and I was bleeding so hard and I lost the baby..... I was 6 weeks pregnant 🤰 😢😢😢
I know this story, my love and prayers for you both. You both are united and strong, oh the memories you brought bad, then I think about what the heavens gave me later and I smile. NO REGRETS, ALLAH be with you,YOU WILL HAVE YOUR CILD❤️❤️❤️
Oh, Maxine. ❤️❤️❤️🥺
So sorry for your loss! You guys are a beautiful couple. All the best to you both.
Thank you so much for sharing, Amara. I feel your pain, and you’re a strong woman.
I pray that Almighty Allah blesses you with beautiful, healthy, righteous children that will be the coolness of your eyes.
May Almighty Allah grant you your heart desires 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
Ameen 🤲💖 thank you so much sis xxx
The end where sufyaan pours his heart out to Amaarah 😩😩you guys are beautiful inspiring strong adorable,May Allah increase you in barakah oh and your iman is incredible subhana Allah,may Allah bless you more and more,thank you for sharing,it’s beautiful
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Sending hugs of condolences! Trusting in God for healing. You both will be blessed beyond measure...in his perfect timing!
Wow thank you so much for sharing so openly. Its so important to talk about miscarriage, especially all the graphic details because its the reality and so important for women not to feel alone, and also for the partners too.
Thank you again, sending you both so much love xxx
Allah will surely bless you with another child. Keep strong. Don't lose hope.
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Am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this heartbreaking story with us
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending you both hugs. It was so lovely to hear Sufiyan spoke so lovingly to about how he loves and will always be supportive and you to him. I wish you both good health and to your future babies. I'm happy to hear Sufiyan expressed how he was affected, men don't really get the chance to express their feelings during this difficult time. God bless your family. 💐❤🇯🇲
I'm sorry for your loss 🥺
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I thank God you are okay I too have had two ectopic pregnancy, Its was devastating! Never taught I will ever be able to have a baby, I pray long and faithfully I stay constantly on my knees. Glory to God he bless me with an amazing son. You will never forget this experience , you will get pregnant again. He knows best. Love you guys and I turly missed you.
Congratulations on your son, Brenda! ❤️❤️❤️ So happy for you 🤗 lots of love to you x
I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of love and strength ❤️
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May Allah strengthen ur hrts 🙏🙏
I'm so sorry, may Allah SWT keep you strong.
“And certainly, We shall test you with something of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits, but give glad tidings to As- Saabiroon (the patient). Who, when afflicted with calamity, say: ‘Truly, to Allah we belong and truly, to Him we shall return.’ They are those on whom are the Salawaat (i.e. who are blessed and will be forgiven) from their Lord, and (they are those who) receive His Mercy, and it is they who are the guided ones”. The Holy Quran 2:155-157
I love this, thank you for leaving it here for us to read. Nothing is quite as soothing as words from The Almighty 🤲❤️
Thank you so much for sharing your story. That took a lot of courage. You are such a beautiful couple...💗 May Almight God bless you with another child soon! 🙏🙏🙏
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Hey my namesake. Let's look at this as a positive!! Atleast you know u can actually conceive. As I told u I have pcos too and I suffered from multiple miscarriages. Just be positive hon. Don't stress it. I conceived 15 years into my relationship. Just enjoy the love making, and don't let the stress of trying to conceive take the fun out of your love life.
Hi Omara! Yes, alhamdulilah we were able to conceive. That in itself is definitely a blessing. I remember your story that you shared with me and thought of it in these times. 💖
@@TheXs.Official I know it's hard and you may feel sad. But keep positive. Sending you my love.
I totally feel your pain, I have had two miscarriges, it is the hardest and emotionalist time to break. I started to write a preganancy journey diary for my baby to read when it was older which had all the special moments like the best feeling in becoming a mother, to check my stomach to see if the baby bump was growing yet, putting weight on, planning all sorts for the baby further into trimesters feeling a stronger connextion with the baby, shopping, planning and the beautiful life to live after the birth of the baby to feeling empty and lost for words feeling and emotions. No doubt Allah is the best of planner, and plans the best for his people. I make Dua, Allah fills your laps with joy, happiness and blessings of a little Sufiyan or Amara. Ameen & In'Sha'Allah. Sending you lots of love and hugs. In'Sha'Allah Allah will reward you again for all your sabr xx
Best thing in life is having a husband/ Wife or Girlfriend/ Boyfriend who understand things in difficult situations..
So true 💖
I had a miscarriage 3 weeks ago. I was told on 19th December 2023 at my 11 week scan that my baby was only 9weeks and I had miscarried. I was so numb at the time the lady told me. it wasn't processing. Then they sent me to a nurse who gave my some leaflets on miscarriage as I never experienced this with my other kid's. She said you can go natural,take a pill or mini op. I chose natural, but didn't realise it would take so long. For like almost 2 weeks, I was carrying my dead baby😢. finally on 2nd January 2024, I had the worst cramps for like 5 hrs prior to blood actually coming out and the clots you feel coming out, so much came out at once that I fainted. it was horrendous.
Took 4 days to fully have all clots come out. But now I feel so dead inside. And so depressed. I want to try again but am absolutely terrified why this happened in the first place.
I really want to try again for a healthy baby. But how healthy should I try to be? is there exercises I should do? or supplements I should take to make sure it's a healthy good pregnancy next time. And how soon can I try again. I'm kind of scared. it's been 3 weeks and my bleeding has pretty much finished. 😢
How do you get over it sister.
Time is the master, Ur time is coming, sending U both so much love, Ur husband Comforts U with Quranic Love, 💜💯, I'm so Proud of Ur strength, My husband left me bleeding on the bed and went out, My Story was horrible however hearing Ur story I feel closure of my loss, Ur baby wasn't quite ready, she will be back with her siblings later , Stay in Islamic Love,, 💜💜💜, U did what can only have been done at the time, 🙏🙏🙏
I'm so sorry that you were left in that way, Audrey. 💔 I'm so humbled and grateful that our story has helped your closure 🥺❤️ beautiful. Sending you all the love and hugs. 💖💖💖
Awe, I just watched your video and couple other ones, May Jesus Christ bless you with many children, my husband and I don't have children we are 21 years married and I tell you that was not easy ❤️, but Jesus knows what we can handle I had gotten seizures in the past, and I can relate to depression I had suicidal thoughts, but my husband reached out and a prayer chain got answered, Jesus loves you and he hears our prayers ❤️ stay positive and don't let Satan take you down the pit, may God bless you ❤️
If I could like this video a million times I would've. You've shared so many beautiful things that would help a person in times of any difficulty. May Allah bless you abundantly.
Ameen wa iyyaki. Thank you so much, sis. I pray the video helps others 🤗❤️❤️❤️
don't worry everything will be ok I shallah
In Allah open your arms my dear and feel my strength its a big hug from me to you both that Allah will bless and be with you guys the best is yet to come love love you both peace and love
Thank you for the hug, Marian. I felt it 💖 & in shaa Allah 🤲🌸 xx
I am so so so sorry for your loss. I got pregnant at the same time and lost just like you too - also with pcos. I have given you so so so many duas Jazakallah khayr for sharing your experience I was genuinely having a big fat cry about it an hour ago and this video has really really helped. May Allah shower your family with blessings and some lovely healthy babies !! ameen ameen ameen!
SubhanAllah, I've been waiting for you sis ❤️ someone going through it now and needing some company and hope. You're not alone and I'm so so so sorry for your loss too. 😞 Literally the same time... subhanAllah. 💔 May Allah SWT bless us with healthy babies and the strength to have a beautiful kind of sabr until then (the struggle 😂😭). 🤲
I love you so much for the sake of Allah and am giving you a cuddle right now. 🤗❤️
P.S. I still cry too (had a big fat cry earlier today) and I think that's just the journey for a while, but I'm so humbled that our video has helped you in some way.
Take care of yourself and take all the time you need. After this hardship will surely come ease, in shaa Allah. Ramadan soon too. 🌸 Everything will be okay. X
Hi you lot, not easy topic. You two can really communicate. I am impressed. Wow. Sorry for your loss.
Just to share some info. I had a girlfriend who had PCOS some years back. I read that Noni juice helps women with hormonal balance/imbalances. Noni is a plant. It helped her a LOT. Within 3 months her period had gone from 30 days 7 days to 3 days with no pain. Please look it up and see if it might help you too. Look, I realise that I don't know the real cause of your issues.
New Subscriber here. My regards to you for your loss. Sending Duaas your way.
This may or may not help. But alot of women go through miscarriage on their first attempt of pregnancy. It is emotionally draining (talking from experience) but you have the best support around you Alhamdulillah. May Allah bless you with many healthy babies. Ameen. You'll get through but you're doing the right thing. Giving yourself time to heal. Sending positivity and light your way🌹✨
Salaam Aysha ❤️ I didn't know a lot of women miscarry on their first attempt, so that does help. 🌸 I expected it in my lifetime but thought it's usually later down the line. So I appreciate you letting me know that.
Ameen to your duas 🤲❤️ Allah SWT is the best of planners. Lots of love to you too, sis. Xx
I make Dua that ALLAH take away your pain and fill your hearts with Sabr INSHA'ALLAH. Stay strong for when the time comes and it will come I know that you will be best of parents.
Ameen, thank you so much. 🤲
God gives his Hardest battles for his Strongest Soldiers, Yall Guardian Angel going to look after yall, Your blessings will overflow in due time
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Stay strong guys. Bless your hearts🤗🤗❤.
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I had a empty gestational sac 3 times twice at the end of last year n one in May.this is how mine happened as well
الحمدللہ
I have a toddler girl and I've lost one daughter at 8 weeks.
But your story is definitely one to help is different n complicated
جزاک اللہ