I love how real and raw bart & geo are. After watching them for so long it’s so nice to see this and it actually gets me thinking on what I can do to fix my own relationships in my life. 10/10 episode💓
Geo you are so mature, I love it. That part when you said “I can change myself and I want to change myself, dad can’t change he’s set in his ways” that’s real maturity omg I love it. I also love how you are teaching Bart. I am chinese and I understand chinese parents....love this! Keep up the good work x
It was really nice to listen to a real discussion between people just slightly older and wiser than I. It was all things I needed to hear at this point in my life, thank you guys!
35:03 I cried with Geo 😭😂😂😂 I never knew I could love two people I’ve never met this unbelievably much... I feel like just listening to them talking to eachother and watching how they look at eachother is healing for my soul. I feel much more at peace and mushi inside by the atmosphere that is within them. How can they be so humble, such truthful and pure souls. It feels like I won the lottery everytime they post one of these cunnie podcasts and I sit and listen to them and it’s like I’m surrounded by love and happiness as well as feeling it inside... I know I’ll always feel unfullfilled knowing that I havent been able to pay them back for all they have done for me 🤗😃🤩🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You guys are such an inspiration and I’m literally struggling with my final boss and I am realizing it’s because I haven’t dealt with any of the other bosses leading up to that so thank you
Its crazy watching them from ask the feels, and always complaining about each other and seeing them grow up into such a mature relationship. Congrats on such a great love story.
I love this episode! Geo you are so wise and driven. I’ve been working on my relationships too and some went well some didn’t. But you helping walk through Barts situation that happened with his mom, helps me relate it to my relationships. Thank you!! 🙏 ❤️❤️❤️
Damn Geo family is dysfunctional. Everyone hating on each other...wtf I can't imagine that. Like a sibling to hate each other to a point where they don't wanna attend their wedding...wtf mind blown...😕😫😖😣😭
Excellent topic guys. You’ve given excellent starter points for your audience to begin the work themselves. I’ve missed seeing Grandpa with Tiaka. The way his face lights up. And grandpas chest sticks out with pride. Bart explain to your mom the way you and Geo are on the same page with Tiaka and how he’s being raised. And that you want her to instill the history of your culture to Tiaka. Teach him stuff that you and Geo can’t. For you and Geo it important for Tiaka to get part of his heritage from the grandparents. So that he can have those memories. Getting boo boos are a part of growing up. Try not to look at a scar and say that’s bad parenting. Kids need to learn that sometimes they are going to get hurt. But that doesn’t mean that they should not be allowed to play and have fun. Tell her why you sent the picture. For her to see that her grandson is just like her son in many ways. Explain to her that you wanted her to have this memory. Just like you explained to her that you and Geo are introducing vegetables and different foods to Tiaka one at a time. (When you took her to brunch and your mom wanted to give Tiaka a French fry.)So that he can develop healthy eating habits. Tell her don’t get mad or upset with how you and Geo are parenting. It’s just different than how she raised you as a single mom. But I’d love to see Grandpa and Tiaka hang out some more. Have his grandparents teach him Chinese. He’s getting Spanish from being with Geo’s mom continually.
thanks for this! it's inspiring! i know it's gonna take TONS of effort --healing, working on yourself as well as your relationships but thanks for the reminder that 'hey! IT CAN BE DONE!' .. i needed that! ❤
This is something I’m working on now, trying to fix relationships in my life that are important to me. After my mom passed last year, I distanced myself from everyone without even noticing that’s what I was doing 😩
Very therapeutic episode 😌☺ Thanks Bart and Geo. The way you guys approached past, present, and future relationships are great ❤. Heartwarming to hear your stories and great to reflect on my own relationships. 💗
Yep I understand completely what Bart went through when his parents divorced. How they would take shots at each other, although I was glad when mine divorced as there was finally peace in the house once they separated lol wasn't sad at all as the fighting was driving me nuts even as a kid.
I totally relate with Geo and her siblings. I have 3 other siblings (all half but I dont like to call them that tho) all spread apart. I'm cool with 3 but the 4th, we didnt grow up together but met up in our early 20's and tried to connect for two years and then stopped. For valid reasons. But we haven't reached out since.
Dang it’s crazy house every family it’s different. I’m Mexican and I understand that “never eating together as a family”. Me and my family usually never eat together. But we are so close. My mom and I fight but I can trust her with anything. Me and my dad are cool. But we have had our fights. And my older brother is like my best friend. Idk what I would do without him. I just can’t imagine not talking to your siblings.
My doctor had me use the Flonase Aerosol that you spray in your nose for allergy because I was coughing uncontrollably at times. Otherwise clearing my throat is usually because I eat something with sugar.
35:28 , I get you Bart, but I think it's also healthy to realize when it just doesn't work. Obviously after trying to make it work healthily, but some times it's okay if it doesn't, but do think it's good to treat any possible divorce healthily. Me and my wife had talked about it, but I have NO doubt you guys WON'T workout 🔥🔥💯💯
Bart you should def talk it out with Geo when whatever your mom says triggers you so you can get a better objective viewpoint of the situation and not take it as a hurtful attack on you. Tbh if you showed me a picture of Taika with a scar on his face. I'd be like, what happened to him too! I think it's a natural reaction because of the concern that I would feel. BUT I'd probably be like, oh cute picture! But what happened to him? Your mom probably isn't well versed and doesn't know how to say things in a way it won't trigger you. Like, she's more straightforward and says what's on her mind instead, of being more political with her words. That, in itself is sometimes a good and a bad trait because you don't care what people think or say and it gives you character, makes you funny and unique (HER DANCES!!!). But sometimes it bites you in the butt bc you are not thinking from someone's perspective on how it can be taken. I mean, you're pretty straightforward too and seem to not give a fuck most of the time on what people think (like mom, like son? lol). And that is what makes you funny and do so well on UA-cam. Also, she probably doesn't even know that it hurts you or understand why you're hurt if she's asking from a place of concern and love for Taika. It sucks, but there's a possibility of her never understanding why it hurts/triggers you. You having the ability to acknowledge it in the first place and the ability to try and think from her perspective so you have the power and burden on changing your own perspective. They say ignorance is bliss and your mom seems to be ignorant lol (living in bliss, that lady! Triggering but it's whatever, it's her) Only you have a problem with it. So you have to start acknowledging and changing your perspective so you can start freeing yourself from the hurt. "What happened to Taika?!" - Talk it out. She is asking because she is concern of Taika. Not bc she is saying it to take a jab at you of being a bad parent. "You should look after him more carefully!" - That is true. Acknowledge you should of looked after him more carefully, but mentally understand that kids are kids and things happen on accident. Just say, okay mom! got it! It doesn't kill you to say okay to lessen the concern she feels for Taika when he is hurt. When you say that, it reassures her. You're a GREAT dad and I know your mom damn well knows it. She doesn't have ill intentions. She isn't keeping a book and taking points off of you for being a "bad" parent. You are better than your parents were for you; we learn from our parents and each generation we strive to be a better parent.
Yes! I agree. I had an awful relationship with my mom and everything she said to me would trigger me so much and it took me crying to her and we both cried together that I realized how much my distance and aggression towards her actually hurt her and that she does things because she loves me. A lot of the times kids don’t ever want to think of their parents as a weak person because of their role as a discipliner, especially if growing up they never showed affection and also parents never showing vulnerability to their children because they are supposed to provide stability in the family. I think Bart just needs to have a heart to heart with his mom and then he’ll be able to strengthen his relationship with her, but I know that is a very difficult battle to even get to.
Imagine Bart wanting to go but just not going times 2. I am overwhelmingly grateful for my parents only caring for us, but they never do anything for themselves!!!
I can really relate having strained relationships with siblings. 3 years ago, I disconnected from my brother and don't really acknowledge each other. Before that, things were great, and I honestly miss those times now. I want to re-start the relationship but it's a bit awkward now...how can I do this smoothly?
Bart there are allergy shots. Look it up or ask your doctor but you have to keep getting a shot like once or twice a month for like 2-4yrs or something like that.
how'd you get bart to not be in the same hateful mindset as you when you introduced your father/siblings to him? Was he able to not let those negative thoughts you layed out to him influence his judgement? How'd you guys not let your past get in the way of building a family y'all wanted? Bart, what'd you have to do to look pass Geo's family issue with no judgement yet have good rapport with them?
I know that dairy and sugar (candy, sugary drinks, baked goods, etc) produces phlegm. Not sure that an allergy pill can combat massive phlegm production from dairy/sugar because production is different from an allergy. But maybe..
What the fuck happen between Geo and her sisters?!?!?! How can they hate each other that badly? We never heard Geo mention a single thing about her sisters.
She never or rarely talk about her family. For years we didnt even know Geo had a sister. I wonder what happen in her family that made everyone hate each other to the point of not wanting to attend their wedding.
You guys might be allergic to your dogs, you might not have been once but the body changes you might be now. Lol I don’t know, just a thought hahahaha but get a Honeywell air purifier they’re really good :)
thank you Geo, you’re the big sister I always wanted but never had. Currently in a situation with my dad and I keep going back and forth trying to justify me not speaking to him. A couple weeks ago I truly reflected on how he was raised and I thought, he’s lived longer with his thoughts and maybe he just needs that one person to show him that he does deserve to be heard and show his feelings rather than stay in his ways. Thank you for sharing your views, it hits home I’m sure to a lot of us, but this one truly hit me in the heart like a truck ❤️ (I’m sure that’s not a saying so please don’t roast me, it’s how I feel okay)
I love how real and raw bart & geo are. After watching them for so long it’s so nice to see this and it actually gets me thinking on what I can do to fix my own relationships in my life. 10/10 episode💓
Geo you are so mature, I love it. That part when you said “I can change myself and I want to change myself, dad can’t change he’s set in his ways” that’s real maturity omg I love it.
I also love how you are teaching Bart. I am chinese and I understand chinese parents....love this! Keep up the good work x
Really appreciated this podcast..it takes a lot of maturity to actually go through with fixing relationships in your life so I admire that a lot.
Thank you Bart & Geo, for being so transparent about your lives. You are helping so many people learn very important life skills.
It was really nice to listen to a real discussion between people just slightly older and wiser than I. It was all things I needed to hear at this point in my life, thank you guys!
It's so cunie when they talk about Taika and parenting.
wow, i relate to geo so much with her home life. glad you get to break generational trauma with your own little family!
35:03 I cried with Geo 😭😂😂😂 I never knew I could love two people I’ve never met this unbelievably much... I feel like just listening to them talking to eachother and watching how they look at eachother is healing for my soul. I feel much more at peace and mushi inside by the atmosphere that is within them. How can they be so humble, such truthful and pure souls. It feels like I won the lottery everytime they post one of these cunnie podcasts and I sit and listen to them and it’s like I’m surrounded by love and happiness as well as feeling it inside... I know I’ll always feel unfullfilled knowing that I havent been able to pay them back for all they have done for me 🤗😃🤩🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
34:55 ... my heart 🥺❤️
You guys are such an inspiration and I’m literally struggling with my final boss and I am realizing it’s because I haven’t dealt with any of the other bosses leading up to that so thank you
One of my favorite ep. I could relate to Bart and Geo's family dynamic. Made me reflect on my current relationship with my parents and my brother.
This podcast reached me in ways I can't even explain. Thank you. You guys are such good-hearted people.
Taika’s got some great teachers in his life. Keep going Beaws ❤️
39:00 So true you always stick it out with old friends. It's the loyalty in you.
You guys are such a huge positive influence in my life. I realise that everytime I watch you guys. Love you guys so much ❤
are u asian by any chance?
Its crazy watching them from ask the feels, and always complaining about each other and seeing them grow up into such a mature relationship. Congrats on such a great love story.
thanks for doing this podcast, i'm currently involved in this situation and need something to listen to and someone who's also experiencing this.
I love this episode! Geo you are so wise and driven. I’ve been working on my relationships too and some went well some didn’t. But you helping walk through Barts situation that happened with his mom, helps me relate it to my relationships. Thank you!! 🙏 ❤️❤️❤️
Damn Geo family is dysfunctional. Everyone hating on each other...wtf I can't imagine that. Like a sibling to hate each other to a point where they don't wanna attend their wedding...wtf mind blown...😕😫😖😣😭
Andrew Pham Ok 😯😯😯🤔🤔😔😢😢😔
they are so good for each other 😭
I can't see Barts leg tattoo without thinking about the "I'm scared of everything"😂
Im so happy and proud of you guys opening up about having fucked up relationships because same and i always felt so alone in that thought. Thanks guys
Bart really listens to Geo. I can learn to do that a little better
This has to be one of my favorite episodes because it was so raw and genuine and the whole times y’all were spittin facts!
Excellent topic guys. You’ve given excellent starter points for your audience to begin the work themselves.
I’ve missed seeing Grandpa with Tiaka. The way his face lights up. And grandpas chest sticks out with pride.
Bart explain to your mom the way you and Geo are on the same page with Tiaka and how he’s being raised. And that you want her to instill the history of your culture to Tiaka. Teach him stuff that you and Geo can’t. For you and Geo it important for Tiaka to get part of his heritage from the grandparents. So that he can have those memories.
Getting boo boos are a part of growing up. Try not to look at a scar and say that’s bad parenting. Kids need to learn that sometimes they are going to get hurt.
But that doesn’t mean that they should not be allowed to play and have fun. Tell her why you sent the picture. For her to see that her grandson is just like her son in many ways. Explain to her that you wanted her to have this memory.
Just like you explained to her that you and Geo are introducing vegetables and different foods to Tiaka one at a time. (When you took her to brunch and your mom wanted to give Tiaka a French fry.)So that he can develop healthy eating habits. Tell her don’t get mad or upset with how you and Geo are parenting. It’s just different than how she raised you as a single mom.
But I’d love to see Grandpa and Tiaka hang out some
more. Have his grandparents teach him Chinese. He’s getting Spanish from being with Geo’s mom continually.
Thank you Bart & Geo, a very good episode
thanks for this! it's inspiring! i know it's gonna take TONS of effort --healing, working on yourself as well as your relationships but thanks for the reminder that 'hey! IT CAN BE DONE!' .. i needed that! ❤
Geo just described my whole perspective on relationship and fixing them. But now she just extended on it and I gotta go fix ALL my relationships now
This is something I’m working on now, trying to fix relationships in my life that are important to me. After my mom passed last year, I distanced myself from everyone without even noticing that’s what I was doing 😩
Very therapeutic episode 😌☺ Thanks Bart and Geo. The way you guys approached past, present, and future relationships are great ❤. Heartwarming to hear your stories and great to reflect on my own relationships. 💗
Yep I understand completely what Bart went through when his parents divorced. How they would take shots at each other, although I was glad when mine divorced as there was finally peace in the house once they separated lol wasn't sad at all as the fighting was driving me nuts even as a kid.
Juju Lipz yes. Same experience for me.
I love this episode of the podcast, I'm learning and makes me want to fix my own relationships
This was a good podcast. Geo is really good at this.
I really enjoyed this episode. Real and relatable. Thanks for sharing :).
I totally relate with Geo and her siblings. I have 3 other siblings (all half but I dont like to call them that tho) all spread apart. I'm cool with 3 but the 4th, we didnt grow up together but met up in our early 20's and tried to connect for two years and then stopped. For valid reasons. But we haven't reached out since.
Why did I start crying way before Bart and geo? 💕💕💕💕 love you guys!!!
Omg Bart blew my mind with the war analogy.... I realized I’m at war. I need to find that podcast
Thanks Bart, I had to pause at the "we're always at war with something" and think. Needed that.
Thats awesome Geo! Definitely proud of you too! Now i gotta start fixing my relationships too!
i appreciate u guys so much!! thank you for always teaching me how to be a better person a step at a time
I’m crying 😭
idk why but its ok i guess.
This is the cuniest episode I’ve ever listened to and watched
4:25 try getting a air purifier for ur room helped out alot with my allergies
Or plants, many super, big transfusing plants
Dang it’s crazy house every family it’s different. I’m Mexican and I understand that “never eating together as a family”. Me and my family usually never eat together. But we are so close. My mom and I fight but I can trust her with anything. Me and my dad are cool. But we have had our fights. And my older brother is like my best friend. Idk what I would do without him. I just can’t imagine not talking to your siblings.
WOOOW crazy to even message your ex's after a breakup, I could never.
Jennifer Tran it’s been up for 5 minutes how deep could you have gotten into the podcast 😂
Jennifer a fast viewer that’s why duh.
Y’all she be on Spotify like David’s podcast because I wanna listen while I’m doing other things
Kev SD they are, BeawCast 😊
Thank you for the life experience good podcasts😊
Amazing episode. It got me emotional, it got me thinking and got motivated to work on myself. 👏👏👏👌👌
I Luv you guys! been watching or a long time! one of my favorite podcasts.
Did the motorbikes arrive? would love to see riding videos
Worldaviation 4K they did but they post 8 days later
@@mckenziewillits3194 cool thanks
You guys are so awesome♥️
Love my Beaw parents. 😭❤️🙌 Enjoyed this podcast. I can relate to so much that was said here.
this was my top favorite episode ❤🥰👍🏻💯 Good job
My doctor had me use the Flonase Aerosol that you spray in your nose for allergy because I was coughing uncontrollably at times. Otherwise clearing my throat is usually because I eat something with sugar.
I’m so happy to see you guys happy 😃
So Beautiful!!!! 🥺😭♥️♥️
34:47 🥺🥺😶 :') aweee
👏👏🙌🙌 yesss we love a growing queen REALLY learning & bettering who she is!
Take a shot every time Geo says “LIKE” 🤣😂
I love beawcasts with you two!!! My favorite thing ❤️
This is my favourite episode so far!!
35:28 , I get you Bart, but I think it's also healthy to realize when it just doesn't work. Obviously after trying to make it work healthily, but some times it's okay if it doesn't, but do think it's good to treat any possible divorce healthily. Me and my wife had talked about it, but I have NO doubt you guys WON'T workout 🔥🔥💯💯
LOVE THE BEAWS 🐻
I cant wait until taika is old enough but still has a cute accent and u make him say beawcast and make it ur intro that would be bomb
Y'all are so cute
Omg geo I need to go to you I don’t even get along to some of my family special my mom. Love listening to you guys.
yea.
This makes me so happy omg i live i guys fr i learn so much from these podcast
Bart you should def talk it out with Geo when whatever your mom says triggers you so you can get a better objective viewpoint of the situation and not take it as a hurtful attack on you.
Tbh if you showed me a picture of Taika with a scar on his face. I'd be like, what happened to him too! I think it's a natural reaction because of the concern that I would feel. BUT I'd probably be like, oh cute picture! But what happened to him?
Your mom probably isn't well versed and doesn't know how to say things in a way it won't trigger you. Like, she's more straightforward and says what's on her mind instead, of being more political with her words. That, in itself is sometimes a good and a bad trait because you don't care what people think or say and it gives you character, makes you funny and unique (HER DANCES!!!). But sometimes it bites you in the butt bc you are not thinking from someone's perspective on how it can be taken. I mean, you're pretty straightforward too and seem to not give a fuck most of the time on what people think (like mom, like son? lol). And that is what makes you funny and do so well on UA-cam.
Also, she probably doesn't even know that it hurts you or understand why you're hurt if she's asking from a place of concern and love for Taika. It sucks, but there's a possibility of her never understanding why it hurts/triggers you.
You having the ability to acknowledge it in the first place and the ability to try and think from her perspective so you have the power and burden on changing your own perspective. They say ignorance is bliss and your mom seems to be ignorant lol (living in bliss, that lady! Triggering but it's whatever, it's her)
Only you have a problem with it. So you have to start acknowledging and changing your perspective so you can start freeing yourself from the hurt.
"What happened to Taika?!" - Talk it out. She is asking because she is concern of Taika. Not bc she is saying it to take a jab at you of being a bad parent.
"You should look after him more carefully!" - That is true. Acknowledge you should of looked after him more carefully, but mentally understand that kids are kids and things happen on accident. Just say, okay mom! got it! It doesn't kill you to say okay to lessen the concern she feels for Taika when he is hurt. When you say that, it reassures her.
You're a GREAT dad and I know your mom damn well knows it. She doesn't have ill intentions. She isn't keeping a book and taking points off of you for being a "bad" parent. You are better than your parents were for you; we learn from our parents and each generation we strive to be a better parent.
Yes! I agree. I had an awful relationship with my mom and everything she said to me would trigger me so much and it took me crying to her and we both cried together that I realized how much my distance and aggression towards her actually hurt her and that she does things because she loves me. A lot of the times kids don’t ever want to think of their parents as a weak person because of their role as a discipliner, especially if growing up they never showed affection and also parents never showing vulnerability to their children because they are supposed to provide stability in the family. I think Bart just needs to have a heart to heart with his mom and then he’ll be able to strengthen his relationship with her, but I know that is a very difficult battle to even get to.
God I love their podcasts soo muchh
Daaang man. I freakin love them.
Imagine Bart wanting to go but just not going times 2. I am overwhelmingly grateful for my parents only caring for us, but they never do anything for themselves!!!
Why is Geo explaining my life? I'm currently at the floating stage aswell right now
i think this is the best episode so far... more like this pls:'(((((
I can really relate having strained relationships with siblings. 3 years ago, I disconnected from my brother and don't really acknowledge each other. Before that, things were great, and I honestly miss those times now. I want to re-start the relationship but it's a bit awkward now...how can I do this smoothly?
Man, Geo... dude, I wish I had friends in high school...
Bart there are allergy shots. Look it up or ask your doctor but you have to keep getting a shot like once or twice a month for like 2-4yrs or something like that.
Dope show guys! 🌵🌹
Love you guys ❤️❤️❤️
Geo, Try drinking hot tea w/lemon and honey. That's what helps me. Works every time.
34:40 YOU’RE WELCOMEE
is it better to never get a divorce and remain in an unhappy marriage or split up and commit to keeping a loving, positive relationship/friendship?
Just be sure before u get marry and have kids with that person.
i love you guys❤️
Dude, Bart, the asian mom hurts hard
Great video
how'd you get bart to not be in the same hateful mindset as you when you introduced your father/siblings to him? Was he able to not let those negative thoughts you layed out to him influence his judgement? How'd you guys not let your past get in the way of building a family y'all wanted? Bart, what'd you have to do to look pass Geo's family issue with no judgement yet have good rapport with them?
ugh bart i want that shirt so bad but it's out of my budget rn. im saving up. hopefully it doesn't sell out by then. also i loved this podcast
lmfao Bart get a humidifier
I stopped drinking milk and dairy, and ate less meat and my allergies went away so maybe you should try it.
Maaaaaaaaan, i love pizza thoooo
@@jnightmare0 i feel it😂, i had had pizza last week but the next few days i had hella mucus.
Lmao Impossible for Bart
I know that dairy and sugar (candy, sugary drinks, baked goods, etc) produces phlegm. Not sure that an allergy pill can combat massive phlegm production from dairy/sugar because production is different from an allergy. But maybe..
What the fuck happen between Geo and her sisters?!?!?! How can they hate each other that badly? We never heard Geo mention a single thing about her sisters.
Dude, what did Nikki say? Bart keep going and I’m here wondering what Nikki said! Pffftttt!!
I know... bugging me 🥺🥺😂
Geo, the ultimate Libra.
Don't really know whole story of Geo's family dynamic...is it talked about in another podcast?
She never or rarely talk about her family.
For years we didnt even know Geo had a sister. I wonder what happen in her family that made everyone hate each other to the point of not wanting to attend their wedding.
I believe it has to do with the area you live in, you guys moved out of LA?
My allergies got worse the closer I moved toward the hills
🖤🖤🖤
How talls bart?
Erick Castillo 5.9
Bart your allergies might be from not having grass around the house or you might need a humidifier next to ur bed .
Bart on his 58th diet this year lol
BART MAKE A GUN CHANNEL WITH JOE!!!
You guys might be allergic to your dogs, you might not have been once but the body changes you might be now. Lol I don’t know, just a thought hahahaha but get a Honeywell air purifier they’re really good :)
thank you Geo, you’re the big sister I always wanted but never had. Currently in a situation with my dad and I keep going back and forth trying to justify me not speaking to him. A couple weeks ago I truly reflected on how he was raised and I thought, he’s lived longer with his thoughts and maybe he just needs that one person to show him that he does deserve to be heard and show his feelings rather than stay in his ways. Thank you for sharing your views, it hits home I’m sure to a lot of us, but this one truly hit me in the heart like a truck ❤️ (I’m sure that’s not a saying so please don’t roast me, it’s how I feel okay)