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  • @janellem.6744
    @janellem.6744 5 років тому +344

    "I'm so hip, I was bullied *before* lolita." I WHEEZED

  • @juliam8134
    @juliam8134 5 років тому +316

    Tbh I got confused by the way I worded "short flat sleeves" because as you deduced, I meant sleeveless. Why I decided to describe it that way is beyond me!

    • @LovelyLor
      @LovelyLor  5 років тому +44

      You referenced a look from my lookbook that totally helped me figure out what you meant but I only used parts of each comment just to keep the length of this video down haha but I totally figured out what you meant :P No worries and it was a great suggestion!!! I really want the other cut of powder rose now to try it! I also describe things in unusual ways all the time haha so I'm with you on that :P

  • @charmedvenuss
    @charmedvenuss 5 років тому +127

    i dont wear lolita fashion, but these videos teach me so much just about???? fashion and coordinating ordinary outfits??? bless

  • @josephineward6645
    @josephineward6645 5 років тому +103

    what if instead of peach pom-pom earrings in the honey cake coord they were rubber duckies, or cookies, or something like that. cute toy kitch kind of thing

  • @ItsCreepP
    @ItsCreepP 5 років тому +185

    “Soft little bean who must be protected uwu”
    THEN THEY AINT KNOW YOU WELL HUH

  • @babeadoll3117
    @babeadoll3117 5 років тому +115

    Okay, but that Honey Cake coord makes me really want that print. I love it so much!

  • @carolinembarnes
    @carolinembarnes 5 років тому +190

    I WAS SCENE
    AND IM GAY!

    • @rockabillymuffin
      @rockabillymuffin 5 років тому +4

      Same :D

    • @toffletorte
      @toffletorte 5 років тому +4

      caroline barnes o shit, me too. *o shit every scene kid is gay now*

  • @marionbarnett2250
    @marionbarnett2250 5 років тому +81

    Plllleeaaasssseee do the video on different ways to style Honey Cake! I’m so excited to get mine and need ideas on how to style it.

  • @katdavies8137
    @katdavies8137 5 років тому +44

    The “I was Scene! And I’m Gay!” part had me dying! 2004-2008 was a time! 😂😂😂

  • @AnimeLuver3231
    @AnimeLuver3231 5 років тому +54

    please make the honeycake video! i usually stick to sweet with blonde or pink hair, and bought the ivory!

  • @jemma_mae_
    @jemma_mae_ 5 років тому +40

    OH my god, I have a really hard time asking for help too 🙈 I feel like why should I ask for help when there’s so many people who need it more than I do?? tsk tsk

  • @amethystaaaaa407
    @amethystaaaaa407 5 років тому +18

    that would be awesome, if lor did a series of lookbooks on how to coordinate a certain piece ♡

  • @canned-strawberries
    @canned-strawberries 5 років тому +42

    I dont even do lolita, but i think it's really beautiful and fun to draw. I really like your channel :)

    • @Frostgrl681
      @Frostgrl681 4 роки тому +2

      I agree. A lot of these Lolita dresses should be in art institutes. A lot of them are just exquisite.

    • @taritangeo4948
      @taritangeo4948 4 роки тому +4

      True, drawing it is the best way to experiment with styling w/o going broke😂

  • @CatBarefield
    @CatBarefield 5 років тому +33

    I’m not a lolita but i consume a lot of lolita content (im waiting for my dream dress i suppose) and the other day i tried to compliment a girl on her amazing vintage/50s outfit and i almost wrote coord. What have you done to me.

  • @julianfantasia9033
    @julianfantasia9033 5 років тому +2

    Don’t mind me just a guy whose only fashion experimentation is coloured socks (literally not even patterned) hand sewing a doll-sized lolita petticoat while binging your videos.

  • @glassedplanets
    @glassedplanets 5 років тому +2

    your videos where you talk about coord choices are my favorite!! i love hearing what colors/patterns/details stick out to someone in a main piece and it helps me SO much with not just planning and fixing my own coords, but planning what i wear to work, too. i got into wearing lolita partially because i really fell in love with the idea of an outfit that's interconnected in every single little piece imaginable and hearing you share the thoughts behind your choices is so much fun and it's so inspiring! tho i gotta say, my favorite choices are always "i wore this thing because i love it so deal with it" because.... it's like pokemon. using your faves is always the best strat.

  • @Naomi-ni6ep
    @Naomi-ni6ep 4 роки тому

    I love this coord your wearing so much, it really suits you! Browns and blacks with pinks always catch my eye I find, they contrast and compliment so nicely. I Am rewatching your fixing coords series because I love it 😊

  • @ViolentAurora
    @ViolentAurora 5 років тому +8

    "I lost my mind for it" same. I look back at things I have bookmarked to buy and I'm just like....why. I'm not buying that lol

  • @melissabrown2516
    @melissabrown2516 5 років тому +3

    I love the Honey Cake coord, loved seeing it at Tekko! I kinda wish you had a brown bomber jacket that matched the brown boots. It might make it more Rockabilly but I think it would be super cute!

  • @FattyChan
    @FattyChan 5 років тому +6

    this was really fun! i think with that wrapping heart coord, a wig without bangs would actually look extremely cute on you, i think that bc the wig wasn't a lacefront or really meant to be bangless, when you styled it, it became a lot more evident that it was a wig, and gave you a bit of a strange hairline. i would really like to see you do a lolita coord with a wig with a middle part!

  • @mrsmoth101
    @mrsmoth101 5 років тому +4

    For the second coordinate, I think it would have been interesting to play around with more browns. The issue with it for me was that shoes just didn’t fit with the head pieces, so messing around with tan colored accessories up top would make it look more cohesive, in my opinion.

    • @nancynononono3992
      @nancynononono3992 5 років тому +2

      Jay Nicole I have to agree, I find those brown boots painfulll and I don't understand. The whole video is like a gorgeous, sweet dream about gorging on cupcakes with angels in a floating cloud cafe.. and then those boots are like.. spotting a little bit of poo in the corner of the bakeshop 🍬🍰🍭💩?

  • @Cilibi
    @Cilibi 5 років тому +1

    If you wanted to got for the “peach is a little red and a little yellow” angle then I would suggest pulling that color in a lot more of your accessories, maybe mix up the peach, red and yellow to really bring the color scheme together

  • @TemperanceKayla
    @TemperanceKayla 4 роки тому +2

    You should put red ribbon laces in your brown shoes! I feel like that would tie it all together really well

  • @juliannebaby
    @juliannebaby 5 років тому +12

    WHOMSTEVER disliked the look with the fake tears come find me personally because I have Words

  • @snehadhanawade986
    @snehadhanawade986 Рік тому +1

    I like your dress full of flowers . I don't like pink bow at the hip though. I agree shoes need to be slightly different color pink than what u wore . Everything else is fantastic.

  • @elice7158
    @elice7158 5 років тому +2

    I think that adding a mini ruffle skirt apron to the honey cake coord would be super cute!

  • @virgovirtuoso
    @virgovirtuoso 5 років тому +3

    No it may just be the red bow from the second coordinate, but that look is giving me Matilda if she were a magical girl anime vibes. And I love it. No criticism.

  • @bexthewitch87
    @bexthewitch87 5 років тому +10

    I graduated in 2006, so I am feeling you there, honey! Us old ladies have tough skin >.<
    I'm still trying to save up but once I'm in a more financially stable place, I'll be a patron! Lol

  • @Eroc6823
    @Eroc6823 5 років тому +1

    The first outfit I’d switch the head piece for a boater hat or something similar, make it a cute picnic moment. For the second one I’d definitely get rid of the earrings, it kind of clashes, if you want to cover your ears maybe wear pancake earrings or studs? Also you may want to try using eye lash glue to kind of close your ears up a bit but i don’t think you should worry about them to much! Also I like id use the brown more. I feel like the shoes should pull the outfit together! The third outfit I feel like you should get rid of the glasses and head piece as they draw attention to your face/ head and away from your outfit. I’d also wear cute ruffled socks. It may even be fun to use the blues in the dress as pops of color. I can only say this much as I don’t wear Lolita and these are my observations !

  • @BubblegumSocialClub
    @BubblegumSocialClub 5 років тому

    I love watching your videos about fixing/styling lolita outfits because even though I don’t wear lolita it has helped me a lot - I’ve been able to reconsider my personal style and my outfits when I have fun getting dressed up to go to Disneyland and Dapper Day events! It’s made me look at how to put outfits together completely differently! I’ve been having a lot of fun on weekends wearing space themed clothes :D

  • @JunkRatt1985
    @JunkRatt1985 5 років тому +18

    Gosh golly, I relate to the "giving yourself exposure" thing h a r d
    I need money but I'm baaaad at advertising my art 😂

  • @fioledarsenic
    @fioledarsenic 4 роки тому

    oh i actualy really like the last coordinate ! it makes a blue to pink gradiant and i think that's really cool ! i think bright pink shoes and wristcufs can tie that side of the coord together !

  • @mermaid.kaileigh
    @mermaid.kaileigh 5 років тому +1

    In regards to the floofy earings with Honey Cake: there is pink text on the pancake box and a pink bow on the chocolate syrup, so you could say the earings match that!

  • @TealZ17
    @TealZ17 5 років тому +2

    Omg I have that dress you're wearing in the scene picture. I wore it for my 8th grade graduation! Kept it for memoriesss

  • @HaldjasHelina
    @HaldjasHelina 5 років тому +3

    Great video idea, really loved it! I love that you're so open to experimenting. It's really inspiring!

  • @Ser0toniinTTV
    @Ser0toniinTTV 5 років тому +1

    "Honey that's a reach" I SNORTED.
    I really want to see Honey Cake (Pancake?) with more browns! I love the heeled boots(?) you wear with the dress, I kept thinking about how the beret you wear in this video could go with brown accessories too! Maybe brown or red wristcuffs, chocolate jewellry and a brown bag? I also love the idea of low ankle ruffle socks

  • @fafnyrslair
    @fafnyrslair 5 років тому

    I think some of these people have absolutely wonderful suggestions and it's giving me a lot of good ideas. This was such a good idea for a video

  • @josefinpurplepearl6453
    @josefinpurplepearl6453 5 років тому +3

    i really love your star hair clip it is so pretty

  • @greenecrayon
    @greenecrayon 5 років тому +2

    I've just become a subscriber because I realized that I had watched several of your videos in one day because I love lolita fashion, but I'm too poor to live it.
    But now I have to start researching terms because some of the things you mentioned went way over my head.

  • @colorbar.s
    @colorbar.s 5 років тому +1

    I absolutely LOVE your look in this video, the colours really look great on you!!

  • @clickergirl98
    @clickergirl98 5 років тому +2

    would love to see wrapping heart with grey 2 buns and lots of pastel hair bows! the giftbox headpiece idea would work great too!

  • @craftingweirdo6498
    @craftingweirdo6498 5 років тому +3

    To the donut coord. Maybe a mix of blue and red accessories. There is blue in the print and in the tights. Maybe blue earrings or a red and a blue bow

  • @allystewart7534
    @allystewart7534 5 років тому

    The old Mill is so lovely! What a perfect place for that event

  • @faeryndipity
    @faeryndipity 5 років тому +2

    I would love to see the Honeycake video! I used to have Honeycake and wound up selling it because I struggled with coordinating it in new and exciting ways plus I lived in constant fear of accidentally staining it. T_T I would love to see some fresh ideas for it! I feel like everyone always defaults to coordinating it with red and there are a surprising amount of colors and themes to play off of with Honeycake. Such a unique and fun print!

  • @bonnie2434
    @bonnie2434 5 років тому +1

    I really want Honey Cake or something similar because I have a wonderful red petticoat that doesn't get worn often!! I think it would be a cool and quirky way to wear it. (As you say, "kitschy" which is generally my style and I don't wear lolita often)

  • @amandaraines835
    @amandaraines835 5 років тому +14

    Please please please do the Honey Cake video I bought it in the recent release and would love some inspiration in ways to wear it

  • @annikalapudas9742
    @annikalapudas9742 5 років тому

    I LOVE the puff earrings!

  • @Aquamarine560
    @Aquamarine560 5 років тому +18

    Okay, but the real question is how did you find a lolita-able blouse at the Goodwill???

    • @demonicisopod
      @demonicisopod 10 місяців тому +1

      i found one once but i am gothic so it might be easier to find than sweet cuz it’s black and ruffly and victorian looking

    • @demonicisopod
      @demonicisopod 10 місяців тому +1

      i recommend looking for the right type of collar you’re going for and make sure the sleeves r cute and that the color will match ur coord

  • @katiesmith3540
    @katiesmith3540 5 років тому

    GIRL when you Milly Rocked-Away the bullies I FELT THAT

  • @pinkitty
    @pinkitty 4 роки тому

    I don't know if it's been said but I kept thinking that changing the laces on the brown boots for the Honeycake coord to red wide satin laces would have been so cute! I know that suggestions aren't necessarily wanted, but I feel it would be a really cute touch. I love unconventional shoes in lolita and personalizing things like sneakers ect, so it came to mind.

  • @5nightsatfreddys486
    @5nightsatfreddys486 4 роки тому

    I love your coordination in this! It’s so pretty ❤️❤️❤️

  • @FaeAcadamia
    @FaeAcadamia 5 років тому +1

    That makes us the same age-ish. Which is kinda nice since I was worried I was gonna be too old to just be breaking into this community.

  • @thelegendofdoda9764
    @thelegendofdoda9764 5 років тому +1

    I would love to see a honey cake video! Honestly the yellow is my favorite colorway (even if some people hate on it) and it's one of the dresses I have on my list!

  • @rebelsheep1544
    @rebelsheep1544 4 роки тому

    I love the peach earrings with the Honey Cake! I would love to see the dress and earrings with a peach coloured blouse :)

  • @Artemiswitchcosplay
    @Artemiswitchcosplay 5 років тому +1

    I loved the last coord, like that one inspired me to go look up menhera style clothes and integrated in my style! 😊💖💖🖤🖤👌🏾 and I totally love honey cake and want the JSK, wrapping heart yellow color way is valid btw 😊💛🧡

  • @darienyounger6821
    @darienyounger6821 5 років тому +1

    I ordered the honey cake jsk in the same color way as yours and personally I was going to try to coordinate it with a light blue blouse that I have as well as a pink blouse. I have no idea how it would turn out but I can’t wait to try and I’d be really excited to see how you coordinate it!

  • @joicefreitas4135
    @joicefreitas4135 4 роки тому

    I was so surprised that it was you on that photo of the first outfit, you look much younger and prettier now

  • @Keltain
    @Keltain 4 роки тому +1

    For me the only thing throwing me off about the Honey Cake coord is the patterned tights. Solide tights with or without ruffled socks would pull attention towards the dress and keep a focal point

  • @monke9469
    @monke9469 5 років тому +1

    I don't dress in lolita, but I love the fashion- and thus love your videos.
    So, quite obviously I don't own any lolita dresses, but I would very much like a video on styling the Honey Cake coord

  • @TuberoseKisser
    @TuberoseKisser 5 років тому +2

    Not a Lolita but I think the main problems were just the colors of either the hair or shoes, the accessories like the earrings would have worked if they were the only non matching color.
    the look at 18:23 gave me Studio Ghibli vibes.

  • @linnyalexan5899
    @linnyalexan5899 5 років тому

    Ooo it would be cool to see your different stylings of Honeycake!!

  • @deadasmr4263
    @deadasmr4263 5 років тому

    Don't know how everyone else feels but I know I would love to see a series from you where you just show off different ways to coordinate dresses I think that would be a fun idea and give some of the newer lolitas ideas of how to properly cord

  • @hinaningyou
    @hinaningyou 5 років тому

    I'd absolutely love to see a Honey Cake coord idea video. I pre-ordered the MTO, and while I do love the typical red accented coords people do, it'd be nice to see some ideas that think outside the box. Perhaps grabbing different accent colors off the print, like blue or pink.

  • @DorenOfOz
    @DorenOfOz 5 років тому

    I never comment because I feel like I never have anything to add,.... but they are wrong about that silver wig not suiting you because it looks FANTASTIC.
    I'd love to see you try to coordinate it into other looks because its so yaaaas

  • @katherineward
    @katherineward 3 роки тому

    Honestly, I would l love to see more light blue accessories with the honey cake dress. It seems to have a lot of it in the print, and I think it would go well. A pair of light blue mary janes with it would be so nice~

  • @alexwegner4221
    @alexwegner4221 4 роки тому

    I loved this style of video! So many disclaimers lol but I totally get why you do them

  • @AmaraInSeattle
    @AmaraInSeattle 3 роки тому

    While a very expensive project, it could be cool if you repurchased one of those pieces that you got rid of to do a suggestion-based/"fixed-it" type styling outfit.

  • @SwimmingInSunlight
    @SwimmingInSunlight 5 років тому +6

    Thinking you are a smol bean to be protected reads about the same as you exuding bottom energy

  • @maisiegoodfellow9082
    @maisiegoodfellow9082 5 років тому

    I love your more experimental approach to lolita!! :~)

  • @ZilleThBrilliant
    @ZilleThBrilliant 5 років тому +2

    Since you talked about being insecure about your ears, have you tried skin coloured plugs that fit the size they're at now? I know my sister uses them when she's acting/very dressed up. While everyones goal is full on self love about everything, there's nothing wrong with disguising stuff, either as a stopgap or a solution

  • @cedar8702
    @cedar8702 5 років тому +1

    i don't wear lolita anymore but sometimes if i didn't feel like having bangs I'd use two big decorative barettes that matched the coord (ex. biscuit barrettes for Sweet Cream House) and pin them off my face parted down the middle. Very 2000s, very kawaii lol

  • @Kirschhh_
    @Kirschhh_ 4 роки тому

    You took that criticism quite well 😊 I know that feeling of sellers regrets too
    Your comment about high school made me realize that we are in a very similar age range
    I must see if I find one of your older video's where you say when you got into Lolita fashion but from what I watched until now I feel like that might also have been a similar time to when I discovered it
    Though I never got really into it but I admired the fashion for quite a while

  • @marsmorris1030
    @marsmorris1030 5 років тому

    I would totally love a video on the different ways you style honeycake! I just got the re-release as a graduation present so I have about 8 months to stock up on accessories 😄🥞

  • @tiffanymedley3769
    @tiffanymedley3769 5 років тому +1

    I graduated in 04 then had my daughter in 06 and we both want to see different ways to cord honey cake. Also Maybe some of your favorites fixes like wrapping hearts with lavender socks and blue shoes❤❤❤

  • @Ambern
    @Ambern 5 років тому

    I just wanna say you look adorable on this video... I love your hair!

  • @gommy0415
    @gommy0415 5 років тому

    I screamed when I saw my name up on the screen! I know I broke the con-crit rule of first reading previous comments so as not repeat the same point (sorry, I got too excited...) but I want you to know this was very fun :)

  • @MikkiDoll13
    @MikkiDoll13 2 роки тому

    I think the beret you have on in this vid would be so cute with the honey cake coord. Would help incorporate the brown shoes and add balance

  • @vanishk1d
    @vanishk1d 5 років тому

    for the last outfit i think it would have looked amazing with dark purple earring pom poms and white blouse white or purple shoes and your black hair but in the same style, and i loved that dress its super cute even tho you dont have it anymore

  • @shanleewilde4277
    @shanleewilde4277 5 років тому +1

    I would love to see you do a HoneyCake video where you coordinate it multiple ways. Your videos are a big reason that I'm so interested in Lolita fashion now. You're so genuine and I really enjoy watching you. HoneyCake has seriously strong Princess Breakfast (from Avdenture Time) vibes. That dress is amazing! Also, "my cute butthole ears"!😅🤣😂

  • @LilyoftheValleyUTAU
    @LilyoftheValleyUTAU 5 років тому +2

    Hey Lor, for the Dear Lolita event you say it's July 5th and 6th, but it's actually the 6th and 7th! Just wanted to point that out because I was freaked out I got the date wrong haha Excited to see you there!

  • @deimo3763
    @deimo3763 5 років тому +1

    but also you look so good in this???

  • @LivJagd-Nygaard
    @LivJagd-Nygaard 5 років тому +3

    why did nobody say that the white blouse didn't match the first coord at all (at least my opinion). it would have been much better with a yellow/cream like in the dress. or there should have been more standing out white accessories!

  • @ciarancooper394
    @ciarancooper394 3 роки тому

    I assumed you were younger than me but I'm astonished to learn it's the other way around lol

  • @personalalchemy1111
    @personalalchemy1111 5 років тому +1

    Just a suggestion for your earrings -you could wear a tunnel on your ears and then stick the dangly earrings through so that you don't have to worry about naked ears

  • @laurentlasnier
    @laurentlasnier 5 років тому +13

    About your Honey Cake coordinate: I really don't agree with the concrits given in the video. I feel like pulling colors exclusively from the print for accessories etc is too safe and can make for too much a a matchy matchy look, lacking depth and interest. When you look at fashion today, people are veering away from the matchy matchy, and the fact that you included that in your coordinate is to me really fresh and contemporary! The only thing I would change are the shoes; I loooove that they are brown but I don't love how clunky they are. Maybe a pair of "thinner" brown boots would look much better, while still being sups comfy! =)

    • @taritangeo4948
      @taritangeo4948 4 роки тому

      This is just mainstream fashion advice😂

  • @murielwest6613
    @murielwest6613 5 років тому

    I adore your videos! This video was fun and informative

  • @xXNekou
    @xXNekou 5 років тому +3

    Would you do a video about shopping for (not just lolita but) japanese fashion? Like casual kawaii but also japanese street wear. 🖤🖤🖤

  • @LitaBrarian
    @LitaBrarian 4 роки тому

    So I love Honey Cake because I love breakfast food! I would overload it with egg and bacon accessories! I love that pancake headband! I would also overload it with bee things!

  • @SebastianSeanCrow
    @SebastianSeanCrow 5 років тому

    12:29 don’t forget, pink is a tint of red!

  • @tonymacaroni7020
    @tonymacaroni7020 5 років тому +1

    woah, i never actually noticed the pom earrings in that last one. I just thought you styled your hair a bit fluffier at the bottom. Loved that coord though. I know you don't own the dress anymore but do you think you'd try something similar to it in the future? Like in a sort of coord redemption video?

  • @ni-kingtaehyunjkyoongs2758
    @ni-kingtaehyunjkyoongs2758 4 роки тому

    Honey cake is my dream dress because of you.

  • @Frostgrl681
    @Frostgrl681 4 роки тому

    Hey it's2020 but better late than never. I love the eternal rose dress. I see it with candy colored oxfords with a modest platform, and a short sleve blouse with a Peter Pan collar and rose flower pin at the neck. That is just my 3 cents, I mean I am not even Lolita. I just love the artistry of it all.

  • @sarahkittens5818
    @sarahkittens5818 5 років тому +1

    I like your black hair 🖤

  • @imaginextramusic5530
    @imaginextramusic5530 2 роки тому

    I bet messy hair bun trends can suit up the look from the menhera one it's ment to be cute,but so on just to push further what it was.

  • @rainsy8567
    @rainsy8567 5 років тому

    our dyslexic queen holding it down :*

  • @imaginextramusic5530
    @imaginextramusic5530 2 роки тому

    The bouquet one does not need a fluuffed to death underskirt lol like a skater dress it can go lol.but i get you, it's lolita. Just get a small poofed one or bloomers only.

  • @meganedork248
    @meganedork248 5 років тому

    rewatching videos at 2:40am because i can wheeeee

  • @auroreboreale69
    @auroreboreale69 4 роки тому

    we're the same age I was in high school the same years!!I also got bullied there but I do not have a thick skin at all (still oversensitive)XD I'm impressed! also I have the same golden stars hairclip!

  • @SavvyFaerie
    @SavvyFaerie 5 років тому +3

    Everytime you mention MintyMix I get sad bc i'm waiting on her rainbow wigs to restock and they HAVENT YET aaaa!! ;_; i just wanna be a rainbow girl!

    • @lullabun98
      @lullabun98 5 років тому +1

      Savannah Glitschka ok but I relate so hard

  • @H3yimsociallyawkward
    @H3yimsociallyawkward 4 роки тому

    Omg I know I’m extremely late but that hat you’re wearing 😍