Single Moms Speak the Truth.

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  • Опубліковано 31 січ 2025
  • In this heartwarming and insightful discussion, I Judy Nyawira your belovaed host invites three single mothers-Caroline, Sharon, and Olga-to share their personal journeys of raising boys. With the guidance of counselor Unice, they explore the unique challenges faced by single mothers and the blessings that come with motherhood. From navigating societal stigmas and financial struggles to teaching boys about masculinity and emotions, this conversation dives deep into the realities of single-parenting. Counselor Unice offers expert advice on emotional resilience, positive role models, and building supportive environments for both mothers and children.
    Join this candid conversation to gain valuable insights into the rewarding and challenging journey of raising boys as a single mother.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 91

  • @BlackThunder-rh8fb
    @BlackThunder-rh8fb 4 місяці тому +65

    That's my mum!!! @olga. She's a super mum, like fr fr. Despite you announcing venye Niko uni, you've made me so proud. I love you mum

    • @silviangari3291
      @silviangari3291 4 місяці тому +4

      Wow ..just like my mum ..your mum is a powerhouse...I'm 24 yrs and I can assure you your mum is doing an incredible job..I already love her on how she's giving you your flowers as her kids....make her proud always ...

    • @Spacestransformation
      @Spacestransformation 4 місяці тому +1

      Wooow ❤❤

    • @juliuswaweru1904
      @juliuswaweru1904 Місяць тому

      She is very wise. Always remember her words that she is trying to raise a better version of a man. Make her proud.

  • @ollybossy
    @ollybossy 4 місяці тому +27

    @JudyNyawira, thank you for allowing us to share our story on this beautiful journey of parenting. Yo! She's such a vibe and very beautiful.
    To her amazing production team, thank you, it was lovely meeting all of you and seeing what it takes, big up guys.
    To my amazing fellow mums on the show and those watching, we are strong and blessed, let no one tell you otherwise. ❤

  • @Viking-st4nw
    @Viking-st4nw 4 місяці тому +18

    As a man I've learned a lot too from this, big up to my sister Sharon for showing up in the show💞

  • @NyaUgenya-S14
    @NyaUgenya-S14 23 дні тому

    I can’t believe that this video has not reached at least 100K views. I am raising kids with my partner and I still learned so much. Thank you ladies for coming to speak with us. Thank you Judy for taking the dad’s advice and bringing these wonderful mamas. I am looking forward to seeing them next time.

  • @alisondonde598
    @alisondonde598 19 днів тому

    Such a wholesome conversation. Thank you Judy Nyawira. Please bring men who were raised by single moms. What do they wish their mums did different, what did they learn from their peers, what would they advise young boys without fathers present. Looking forward to it

  • @joyndanu2821
    @joyndanu2821 4 місяці тому +2

    Wow, Thank you Mama Mumbus for this conversations. Thank you the 3 AWEsome Ladies for being vulnerable with us, we've learned alot! Aki blessings.
    Thank you Olga for pointing to us that in government hospital there are counselors, I didn't know this, thanks for the info 😊 Am empowered.
    @Judy Nyawira bring the conversation on CO PARENTING!
    Lasting to @Judy Nyawira you are my role model in parenting, my son just turned 5yrs, I saw your conversations with Mumbus and I begun mine with my son, something I had not thought of.....
    Keep doing what you do, your Content is Authentic, receive your flowers ❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @damahdaves6446
    @damahdaves6446 4 місяці тому +12

    big up to every mom that plays both parental roles 💪💪👏, am a girl to a single mom.. it has not been easy and I pray that may every single mom heal from the inner wound in them. be blessed bi mkurugenzi.. this has made me understand my mom a lot and why she has always acted different since my dad left.. ❤❤

  • @venahkerubo789
    @venahkerubo789 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you Judy for knowing what social media should be teaching people out here

  • @gabrielgitonga1588
    @gabrielgitonga1588 4 місяці тому +2

    More talks like this will change the society. Am in love with this conversation.

  • @CarolineWKanene
    @CarolineWKanene 4 місяці тому +2

    Bi Mkuru, this was definitely a much needed video for us single mums.. It has really opened my eyes and given me knowledge and really given me information I needed to help me navigate tjis journey.. It's so amazing to see that I am not alone, there are other single mums out there going through what I'm going through and still managing to get up, get going and still be the beat parent to our kida.. We are strong, we are blessed and we got this.. There's so much to learn atill about motherhood, parenthood and doing it alone.. God will always be there for us and walk woth us through this journey, we are super mums for sure.. Even we are falling apart, I know we will still find a way to get things donw.. Thanks y so much Bi Mkuru for having this difficult conversations, your platform is really God sent 💛💛

    • @bimkurugenzi
      @bimkurugenzi  4 місяці тому

      God bless you! You are doing great!

  • @elacatrinazy4999
    @elacatrinazy4999 4 місяці тому +10

    Congratulations sharon.we are here to support you. 🎉🎉🎉 Well done you are doing well

  • @lexygrace3160
    @lexygrace3160 4 місяці тому +9

    Here to support all the resilient women on the show, especially my friend Reggie,whom I adore so much love Mami's.

  • @oliviamungai3887
    @oliviamungai3887 4 місяці тому +4

    Awesome Conversation...Judy, there should be a topic of kids growing up in a single-parent home and how it has affected their life

  • @doreen_kangai
    @doreen_kangai 4 місяці тому +5

    I am watching this show after i had to explain to my son why his dad is not in our lives anymore hes 8yrs. As a single mom of 2 isnt easy as well, i try so much to try and balance the time i spent with my son and my daughter. I had to explain to him at the age of 5 why his sister's sexual organs dont look like his it wasnt easy talk but i managed.
    I also makes sure that when school closes he goes to my parent's home where he gets to do and learn other "masculine" work. He has his goats he takes care of.
    I also makes sure that any time he asks a quiz i answer to my best knowledge possible.
    About expressing his emotions i let him talk his heart out no matter how small the issue might seem i always listen and if he cries i hugs him and tell him that its ok. I have no idea what tomorrow will bring but am always hopeful. I believe i am a good mom

  • @josephinemuchilwa7325
    @josephinemuchilwa7325 4 місяці тому +5

    More grace to you ladies. I hope you can all become friends and be there for each other!!

  • @gabrielgitonga1588
    @gabrielgitonga1588 4 місяці тому +3

    This is a good conversation which need a continuous engagement.

  • @lifemakeover6338
    @lifemakeover6338 4 місяці тому +4

    Wow .powerful Bi mkuru.please form something like I You Okey group or society where people can meeting virtually and discuss issues related to well-being ,parenting ,financial management, boy child empowerment through parenting etc
    iam sure women will join this campaign of raising better society

  • @beatricemuringi4120
    @beatricemuringi4120 4 місяці тому +3

    Your children are surely standing on great shoulders....👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾.
    The counselor had very good words of wisdom and insights.
    Big up Judy

  • @D-L-Kirui
    @D-L-Kirui 4 місяці тому +1

    Would really love a Convo with people (men and women) who are grown-ups and got raised by single moms, kindly Judy

  • @EdithKanana-x8w
    @EdithKanana-x8w 4 місяці тому

    Am a single mother of one baby boy this nine years now I have learn a lot may God protect all single mothers they pass alot

  • @victorkigalo1455
    @victorkigalo1455 4 місяці тому

    So inspiring, looking forward to learning from them again. Sharon we are here to support you. You are a strong one.

  • @irenenanjendo7859
    @irenenanjendo7859 Місяць тому

    Thanks mama mumbus, I have learn alot today as mum to ason.be blessed and bring up more Convo like this.

  • @joymutiga3219
    @joymutiga3219 4 місяці тому +1

    The content we want.... Good job mama Mumbus❤❤

  • @sherryjuma6678
    @sherryjuma6678 4 місяці тому +6

    congratulations to my gal @sharon Reginah and all the single mom good work

  • @beatynjeri5616
    @beatynjeri5616 4 місяці тому +12

    My husband is in the army n most of the time he's not around, one morning my son came to me and asked "mom mbona kasusu yangu inakuanga hivi nikiamka" 😮sahizo ananionesha, I told him it's because he's healthy n strong ikabidi nimempatia kazi kabla ya maswali zingine ziniangukie😅, thank God for Internet I told the dad n they video call every evening. I have 2 boys wueeh 😅😅😅

    • @esthergeoffry
      @esthergeoffry 4 місяці тому

      😂😂 but this is serious

    • @D-L-Kirui
      @D-L-Kirui 4 місяці тому

      Husband in the army and now you're kind of a single parent...I relaaaatee

  • @susanmwangi1295
    @susanmwangi1295 4 місяці тому +1

    thanks judy for this topic,been a single mom of 9yr boy i've learnt alot...kindly plug us with the name of your hair it's so cute

  • @maureenwanjiru8350
    @maureenwanjiru8350 4 місяці тому

    😍😍😍 a great conversation it is.. happy to hear from the counselor ❣️she was my homescience teacher back in highschool 😇😇..
    Mrs Kang'ethe💃

  • @JamesIkoroi
    @JamesIkoroi 4 місяці тому +1

    Big up to every mom that plays both roles 😢😢your strong, you can do everything through Christ @sharon congratulations and you team, to the Mumbus thank you for the channel we've learned alot ❤❤❤

  • @cynthiawairimu-sy5jj
    @cynthiawairimu-sy5jj 4 місяці тому +30

    Next judy u shud bring people wenye wako kwa co_parenting 🙂

    • @monicahnjoroge2805
      @monicahnjoroge2805 3 місяці тому +1

      I allowed my son to go have a talk with his dad who left us when he was in nursery now in form 1 after he said his father is irresponsible and what followed he was suspended from school for sneaking out and bringing back chapati. His father is not into saving the situation he told him to go to his parents place over the weekend instead of where he (father) is. It broke me. I say a big no to co parenting.

    • @cynthiawairimu-sy5jj
      @cynthiawairimu-sy5jj 3 місяці тому

      ​@@monicahnjoroge2805there are good father's too out here wenye they never abandon their kids like in my situation my son is 8 and his dad has bin there for him from the day he was born..we knew we were not ever going to be together from way then but till today he looks forward to schools bin closed aende Kwa babake

  • @sylvesterkh9570
    @sylvesterkh9570 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for the discussion ❤❤

  • @AnnMureithi-zu3nu
    @AnnMureithi-zu3nu 4 місяці тому +1

    Hehee Nyawira hapa umeweza. Ni Mungu amenibeba especially in my mental health.

  • @AnnMureithi-zu3nu
    @AnnMureithi-zu3nu 4 місяці тому

    Congratulations to the moms in the studio for your courage with God mbele iko sawa. To Eunice thank so much you i wish i knew you when I was a young mom when my husband died but still i have learnt alot from this conversation. Thank you ma mumbus.

  • @carolsheerow224
    @carolsheerow224 3 місяці тому

    This is awesome judy❤

  • @carolsheerow224
    @carolsheerow224 3 місяці тому

    May God bless all women out here❤❤

  • @katemoseti929
    @katemoseti929 4 місяці тому

    Thank you Judy for this amazing topics you bring us.

  • @Sweetrose7349
    @Sweetrose7349 4 місяці тому +38

    Having a father in the house doesn't mean he plays the father role. I was raised by a single married woman. My father was there but not there, if you know what I mean😮

    • @MiloMyriad
      @MiloMyriad 4 місяці тому +1

      He wasn't emotionally available or he wasn't providing ?

    • @Sweetrose7349
      @Sweetrose7349 4 місяці тому

      @@MiloMyriad both

    • @sylviaotieno1264
      @sylviaotieno1264 4 місяці тому

      ​@@MiloMyriadboth

  • @marthamathenge2638
    @marthamathenge2638 4 місяці тому

    Awesome convo..Bi Mkuru good job❤

  • @bilhahnjeri6427
    @bilhahnjeri6427 4 місяці тому

    Wow this was so wholesome have learnt a lot will apply raising my son loved this episode was 🔥🔥

  • @josephinemuchilwa7325
    @josephinemuchilwa7325 4 місяці тому

    True, challenges cut across but most single mothers are on their own with no one to help carry the weight of the challenges so they feel the burden more!!

  • @ruthwanza5260
    @ruthwanza5260 4 місяці тому

    The topic made me Mooreee strong❤❤❤🎉🎉

  • @morrynqueenel7539
    @morrynqueenel7539 4 місяці тому +4

    My son says, mama yangu ni fundi, coz i do everything for myself.

  • @bethagonya7099
    @bethagonya7099 4 місяці тому

    God bless us single parents ❤

  • @MrRight-pe2sc
    @MrRight-pe2sc 4 місяці тому +1

    this is the content i want to see

  • @sharonreginah6778
    @sharonreginah6778 4 місяці тому +1

    And here we go! 🎉

  • @privv.life.of.eva1
    @privv.life.of.eva1 4 місяці тому

    This so emotional 🥹😭

  • @alisondonde598
    @alisondonde598 19 днів тому

    Can we also talk about how when you are a single mom and you have to take your son to be mentored by uncles or grandfather , maybe you dont have shared values , or you have grown up and now you are wanting to raise your children differently aside from not necessarily what your parents did. It can be challenging because this isnt your spouse who you are sitting to discuss how you want to raise your children. Sio rahisi

  • @serahndinda3224
    @serahndinda3224 4 місяці тому +1

    Awesome conversation.

  • @mylightiscomemaranatha.8483
    @mylightiscomemaranatha.8483 4 місяці тому

    Thanks so much Judy

  • @philemonkipngetich985
    @philemonkipngetich985 4 місяці тому +1

    i would one day like to hear from single dads and see big shout out comments to them..
    thank you

  • @monicahnjoroge2805
    @monicahnjoroge2805 3 місяці тому

    I thought I was heading somewhere with parenting my 3 boys till when my firstborn was suspended from school for sneaking out (form 1). From a lengthy discussion, he feels his father should be taking care of him and not me. His father is never bothered equally am not struggling. Am broken

  • @lindatemba1787
    @lindatemba1787 4 місяці тому +1

    Good job Mama Mumbus❤🥰

  • @annitajeremyvlogs8488
    @annitajeremyvlogs8488 4 місяці тому +3

    Team Bi mkuru nipitieni pia

    • @emmazakisha
      @emmazakisha 4 місяці тому +1

      Nimekupitia, nipitie pia

  • @Eunice-lefty
    @Eunice-lefty 4 місяці тому

    Judy the wig is lit 👌

  • @jaypassby1210
    @jaypassby1210 4 місяці тому

    hey Judy.... next time leta single mums raising girls at a young age aki kuna shida

  • @marykamau3504
    @marykamau3504 4 місяці тому +22

    Mama mumbus that hair very cutesy 😍

  • @elvisnjoroge-z7b
    @elvisnjoroge-z7b 4 місяці тому

    waooooooo I've learned alot

  • @titothoya1618
    @titothoya1618 4 місяці тому +5

    WE NEED MORE TALKS LIKE THESE, TO THE LADIES HAVE NO FEAR GOD FIRST AND DO YOU COZ THERE IS NO MANUAL TO PARENTING. LETS BE LOVING AND FRIENDS TO OUR KIDS

  • @MARYWANJA-s4s
    @MARYWANJA-s4s 4 місяці тому +1

    Congratulations my gal @carol

  • @megwajoemash3231
    @megwajoemash3231 4 місяці тому +1

    How do i introduce my dota to sex and sexuality, n what is the best way and age to do it.

    • @judykerubo6519
      @judykerubo6519 4 місяці тому

      Don't feel shame embarrassed to talk to you baby girl she's alm you've got you should be the best friend the closest friend she can run to incase of anything be free with her be a father mother figure and she'll be free to tell you anything she feels like actually you'll be the first to know thats how i am with my two boys they are so free

    • @judykerubo6519
      @judykerubo6519 4 місяці тому

      And of its hard for you i can be of help that is if you would let me be blessed its hard but just try by talking freely with her step by step

    • @megwajoemash3231
      @megwajoemash3231 4 місяці тому

      ​@@judykerubo6519thank you Soo much...will reach out

  • @topmarkwriters806
    @topmarkwriters806 4 місяці тому

    am a single mother a mother of one

  • @Iam_kawiraah
    @Iam_kawiraah 4 місяці тому +4

    Single dads pia tuskie man ❤

    • @pichazawanga1353
      @pichazawanga1353 4 місяці тому +1

      Coming up soon on Father studies channel hosted on @pichazawanga channel

  • @maryndirangu4609
    @maryndirangu4609 4 місяці тому

    ❤❤ i love this, thanks judy as single parent i have learnt alot❤

  • @redemptamike6882
    @redemptamike6882 4 місяці тому

    Awesome conversation ladies...@carol nakucheki