Dirty Hiring Practices HR Doesn’t Want You to Know

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  • @SelfMadeMillennial
    @SelfMadeMillennial  Рік тому +8

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  • @kellacanb
    @kellacanb Рік тому +51

    Yep. Totally have. Not to mention, I spend hours crafting my resume only for the interviewer to be looking it over in front of me for the first time and then asking me questions CLEARLY ANSWERED on the resume because they don't want to read through it. It's such a disheartening power imbalance.

  • @rainbow7548
    @rainbow7548 10 місяців тому +13

    A person who applied or unemployed, will be more passionate and perform higher, whereas a passive candidate will ask for more money for the same or maybe lower performance.

  • @johnsarvosky533
    @johnsarvosky533 8 місяців тому +11

    This is a Gem of a video. NOBODY wants to talk about those things publicly. Seriously- this video helped me put the pieces together in my interview process and I stopped blaming myself for so many things as a candidate.
    Thank you so much

  • @Vale-saf
    @Vale-saf Рік тому +11

    After watching almost all your videos I just got a job offer!!!!
    Not only this is the first job I got after 2 years unemployed, but it is also a fantastic career switch!
    I'm extremely grateful!
    Thank you @SelfMadeMillennial!!!!!

  • @LoveKJ222
    @LoveKJ222 Рік тому +47

    Culture fit is still a thing. Some companies are now calling it “culture add”.
    I agree that it’s a bias way to incorporate personal thoughts just stating that a candidate isn’t a culture fit. I actually interviewed for a company and they mentioned that their culture is “quirky” and they were seeking another new hire that is the same. It’s kind of weird because everybody shouldn’t all be the same at a job.

    • @SelfMadeMillennial
      @SelfMadeMillennial  Рік тому +8

      Exactly!!

    • @t.l.c7481
      @t.l.c7481 8 місяців тому +1

      What is considered “quirky” might not be “quirky” to another. I’m concerned when companies want all cookie cutter like employees. A wide range of personalities add to company. It makes me wonder what toxic traits are hiding with statements like that.

  • @michaelmashburn6068
    @michaelmashburn6068 Рік тому +116

    Seems odd to me when a company brags about how much they value diversity, but also preach about culture fit.

    • @kirestus
      @kirestus Рік тому +2

      @@JessicaS1122I would avoid mentioning adhd unless it’s brought up. If they don’t ask they don’t need to know.

    • @Happyheretic2308
      @Happyheretic2308 11 місяців тому

      ‘Diversity’ is not a strength.

    • @MadamLolz
      @MadamLolz 5 місяців тому +1

      Yes people are racists as well

    • @kvcharles4425
      @kvcharles4425 3 місяці тому

      Thank you! Please expound on the subject at hand!

    • @kvcharles4425
      @kvcharles4425 3 місяці тому

      ​@@kirestusyeeeeeeesssssss

  • @Quenchingcrotch
    @Quenchingcrotch 7 місяців тому +11

    Will you do a video about ageism, racism, and sexism? Hiring managers find unique ways to eliminate candidates based on bias like these often. It's something no one likes to talk about.

    • @wunderbarmutti5221
      @wunderbarmutti5221 6 місяців тому +3

      I was wondering the same thing. I think this video shows why there is a lack of diversity in a lot of places.

    • @MadamLolz
      @MadamLolz 5 місяців тому +1

      I got all the isms during the initial months of the position following after the hiring process. However for some companies they will flat out take down the job description or give you a very quick denial if they know you are a black woman.

    • @kvcharles4425
      @kvcharles4425 3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much for this! I CONCUR with this. I took have been subjected to this in a similar fashion.

  • @andygremett3140
    @andygremett3140 5 місяців тому +7

    The hiring managers prefer passive candidates was the most surprising to me; especially based on today's job market.

  • @TEEP61
    @TEEP61 11 місяців тому +23

    The ghosting has been the worst for me. I just think it is so rude. I had one recruiter after I had sent updates to the hiring manager, tell me she sent me an email that they had gone with another candidate, she even gave me a date. I checked my email and my spam folder and there was not an email. Last week I received an email from a hiring manager who wanted me to give her a time we could speak. I emailed her a good time. I heard nothing. I waited a few days and as it happened I wasn't as open at the end of the week as I thought and what I had told her in the original email. I sent her another message just to let her know that and gave her a few new times. NEVER heard a word. I have so many stories like this with interviewing last 8 months. I don't get it.
    Also, I was wondering about your thoughts on age bias. I am 61 years old and I have had the worst time. On the phone is great but as soon as I go in things change. Now, I don't necessarily look 61 years old but once I go in for the interview or on video I am obviously not in my 20's, 30's, or 40's. I was just wondering if you have seen this.

    • @kvcharles4425
      @kvcharles4425 3 місяці тому

      I had went through the SAME EXPerience myself. I took can relate

  • @VideoGameRoom32
    @VideoGameRoom32 Рік тому +20

    I use to work in HR and there was a lot of drama where two employees would complain about each other. I was in an interview and the hiring manager wasn't even prepared. The interview was for 30 mins. He was 15 mins late. He didn't even know which job position I was apply for. Then he brought in another person in the interview and all they did was talk trash and make fun of one of previous employers. My previous employer was in medical and they were making fun of the company that this treatment didn't work and they ended the interview earlier. He said that even though he was late for the interview if he can be the full interview that would throw off his interviews for that day. He said someone had to sacrifice. This was my worst interview.

  • @VideoGameRoom32
    @VideoGameRoom32 Рік тому +42

    I do really well in panel interviews. 90% of my panel interviews I got the job. Why do you think it's okay for the hiring manager to be late for the interview but if the candidate is late the hiring manager kicks them out of the building? Respect should be on both sides.

    • @SelfMadeMillennial
      @SelfMadeMillennial  Рік тому +8

      It’s a double standard for sure.

    • @samantha6670
      @samantha6670 6 місяців тому

      Absolutely! We, employees, contribute to their success. Never forget.

    • @CSpice24
      @CSpice24 3 місяці тому

      Facts

  • @sleepdepriv3d
    @sleepdepriv3d Рік тому +24

    I find panel interviews terrifying. I usually get so nervous and then that leads to brain block.

    • @CSpice24
      @CSpice24 3 місяці тому

      Highly agree

  • @JessicaS1122
    @JessicaS1122 Рік тому +20

    Appreciate your insight as always, Madeline! I’ve been following your channel since February, attended your masterclass last month (I believe) and thanks to your advice, was able to take the next step in my career from individual contributor to manager at a prominent nonprofit in Arkansas. The pay is never great in this field, but the executive director was so impressed with my experience that she created a BRAND NEW role for me and said I’d be a *valuable asset* to their organization 🙌

  • @LatriciaJohnson
    @LatriciaJohnson Рік тому +8

    I truly believe I got a job once based on my looks. I was qualified but it was something about the Zoom video and the way both men looked at me that I knew I had it. It was an uneasy feeling. I'm so grateful I worked my butt off to prove myself and I wasn't just a cute face. Thank you.

  • @monicah9799
    @monicah9799 Рік тому +9

    This was a really helpful video. Seeing the situation from the other point of view helps put things in perspective. It reminds me as a job seeker to watch out for red flags in a company so I don't end up working somewhere miserable. Just like they want an excellent candidate for their role, I want to work for an excellent company that puts thought and care into all that they do. It reminds me to be a job shopper, as you say.

  • @ktslittlefaith
    @ktslittlefaith Рік тому +10

    I am a CNA. My last interview was with a director of nursing at a skilled nursing facility. He was wearing cowboy boots and an outdoorsman's shirt. I think he was going hunting after our interview. His appearance really confused me.
    On another note, do you have a video about how employers use Indeed? This same DON told me we were moving forward. 8 hours later I got an email from Indeed that they had not selected me. I emailed him, thanking him for his time and that I had received the rejection notice from Indeed. He said they had to do that or Indeed would charge, and that he would contact HR about next steps.

  • @cammycamm76
    @cammycamm76 Рік тому +6

    The budgeting ! And chaos behind the scenes now Ik why call backs are important

  • @HeatherMajors
    @HeatherMajors Рік тому +7

    Madeline, I found your channel because I was on the hiring side as a junior person as was like yikes this process is bad. Then I was in a role to take the lead and I wanted to do better as the interviewer. Now I am looking to be a job shopper so stay for all the content.

  • @henryhealing444
    @henryhealing444 6 місяців тому +3

    All of this confirms how much so many of us are 'not' a good fit for the corporate life.

  • @drTERRRORRR
    @drTERRRORRR 6 місяців тому +1

    The biggest number the HR ever did on me, was being adorable, helpful and fast.
    Took me days to process that painless operation.

  • @abkeener81
    @abkeener81 Рік тому +4

    Hell yes! I absolutely have been asked the same questions in interviews. Sometimes by the same person. Eye contact is hella difficult for me. I have a lazy eye (ain't gonna say which one) that I've had since childhood. And three surgeries to fix it. A shit ton of good that did me. And I got bullied for it. Both by my peers and staff. So, yeah ... I'm gonna have trouble lookin' you in the eye. Deal with it.

  • @yari2705
    @yari2705 Рік тому +7

    Hi Madeline 😊 I have been watching your videos and I just used all your techniques in an interview this morning and the interview went soooo well. We had a very natural conversation which helped ease my nerves. The managers were laughing and telling me their stories. I asked questions which I have never done before and they seems to really enjoy that. I feel great about receiving an offer. I am currently preparing my thank you email!! 😊😊

    • @codyb4016
      @codyb4016 Рік тому

      Do you have an update?

    • @yari2705
      @yari2705 11 місяців тому

      @@codyb4016 Not yet, but the manager has been in contact with me. They are making some changes which has delayed their hiring, but he has thanked me for being patient so I think there will be an offer eventually. Lol. In the meantime, my current employer caught wind of my ‘pending’ offer and has asked me to consider an offer to retain me! I’m in limbo. Lol

    • @Happyheretic2308
      @Happyheretic2308 11 місяців тому

      I had an interview like that, at a major law firm, it felt great. The response was that they thought I was wonderful, but they thought I would get bored. No offer.

  • @bellemartinez4970
    @bellemartinez4970 11 місяців тому +3

    Yes, same questions asked 3 different ways...it was so hard to make answer not sound the same.

  • @michaelellis141
    @michaelellis141 11 місяців тому +2

    Madeline, once again you are Spot On. I've been telling people things like this for years. Keep up the excellent work.

  • @PsychoticFlubber
    @PsychoticFlubber Рік тому +6

    I used to be in a panel of interviewers. As an entry-level job seeker, I was mortified when I had 2 hours of interviews with 8 people. As an interviewer, I was relieved by this strategy for the same reasons you mentioned. What would typically happen is at the end of the week the 8 of us would gather with our HR to debrief the good and bad, and the hiring decision was made democratically. After my experience with this, I no longer have anxiety about panel interviews compared to 1-on-1.
    As far as appearance, I encourage people to not wear a button-down shirt that was just purchased without washing it first. I worked with a manager that would look for new fold lines on shirts because they believed this suggested someone might not have dressed with a button-down shirt prior to the interview. I disagree with this, and it was really surprising to hear.

  • @lisapoger7638
    @lisapoger7638 5 місяців тому +1

    Love, love your advice!! Thank you for your openness on HR practices.
    Gives me hope in my job search.

  • @dougdrazga4461
    @dougdrazga4461 4 місяці тому +1

    Had a phone interview with four questions. The first three were about a gap in my resume; the fourth asked if I had any experience.
    It was a media company.
    God help me.

  • @gwene.4726
    @gwene.4726 2 місяці тому +1

    I was denied a job based on jealousy! The female contact person looked at me like her competition and absolutely didn’t want me hired! How do you deal with this..? It’s weird and frustrating- being attractive can absolutely hurt your chances at even getting your foot in the Door!

  • @iamthanatos1986
    @iamthanatos1986 Рік тому +3

    Madeline, you're such a gem!

  • @danielavallejo7306
    @danielavallejo7306 8 місяців тому +1

    I just had this interview a couples of weeks ago. Was a last minute interview and very short. I noticed that intwrviewers were not taking this seriously, was an online interview. One was greeting other colleagues and even when I tried my best I felt they were just doing the interview because I passed the first test but already had someone in mind

  • @south_belle1685
    @south_belle1685 6 місяців тому

    Yes! Panel interview w/Progressive in Mngt role. So hearing you explain why now makes sense.

  • @aemanuel2449
    @aemanuel2449 10 місяців тому

    Oh my god, you just like, totally cleared up so much for me. I have a hirevue interview coming up, and I am going to watch all of your videos over and over so that I can get this right!

  • @mariamolinaro3802
    @mariamolinaro3802 5 місяців тому

    I recently had an interview at an amazing company tried to use all of your tips, but they kept on asking me the same question on both sides, like my answer was going to change, at some point I noticed that they had not prepared together to come along with questions for me so I just did very concise and clear answers and focused deeper on the new ones /:

  • @MarkL-we8uk
    @MarkL-we8uk Місяць тому

    I went for a bar manager job on a really hot day wearing a short sleeved, fitted shirt. The owner decided that I looked like a bouncer and wanted me as security instead. I subsequently found out that the person they hired as manager lasted 2 weeks

  • @user-jg1og5ow4k
    @user-jg1og5ow4k 2 місяці тому

    This is juicy. This video definitely deserves higher views!

  • @zerodegreescelsius
    @zerodegreescelsius 8 місяців тому +1

    One job I had applied to required a detailed resume...only to have a 5-page long online application form with questions that required me to essentially re-type my entire resume.
    And the interviewers did not even know the job position I was applying for even though it was stated in the application form.
    Of course I didn't take that job ☠️

  • @TyO___94
    @TyO___94 Рік тому +1

    Yes, I've been asked the same questions--consecutively in one setting. The interviewers actually laughed. After the 3rd interviewer asked the same question, the Chief Director asked my "so, how was your day?". haha.

  • @jaredshaw5023
    @jaredshaw5023 9 місяців тому

    In regards to finding a job before it hits the job boards I find that networking and how you approach the respective player important that regard.

  • @cw8359
    @cw8359 6 місяців тому

    Had an interview recently in a nice room with 4 people sitting around a coffee height table. While the decor and chairs were nice, it was impossible to sit up straight. I’m short 5’4 and to sit up straight would force my legs out straight in front of me and they would not touch the ground. The seat of the chair was way too long. It made me very self conscious which is never good. At least I was leaning in and hopefully I appeared engaged.

  • @wanessaschimicoscki243
    @wanessaschimicoscki243 Рік тому

    Yes, I've been asked the same questions at the same company

  • @t.l.c7481
    @t.l.c7481 8 місяців тому

    I was told several times after participating in interviews that I was “negative.” I would give my honest feedback but they didn’t want to hear it. I predicted that 3/3 candidates leaving within 3-6 months. It all came true because they failed to listen to the answers to the questions and provide follow-up questions. Let’s just say they had me interviewing candidates and choosing, even though I’m not HR. 😂

  • @SmarterNotHarderIn2024
    @SmarterNotHarderIn2024 Рік тому +1

    Yes I've been asked the same questions 😮

  • @jaredshaw5023
    @jaredshaw5023 9 місяців тому

    In regards to what you asked about the same questions. Yes I have and it gets repetitive and redundant when they do it.

  • @lmo9539
    @lmo9539 3 місяці тому

    The interview I went on felt more of an interrogation than an interview and then to top it off I had a 3 rd interview by a woman I had no idea who she was or why I was even talking to her and made the suggestion that I’d be working for her vs working for the doctor and that was never even mentioned to me ., it seemed she want to intimidate me and let me know she was not to be messed with

  • @lh5567
    @lh5567 6 місяців тому

    Yes…same questions!

  • @ajs11201
    @ajs11201 3 місяці тому

    Wow--you worked in an HR office that actually trained employees how to interview? I've never seen HR actually do this. Most of my experience with HR has been watching them work with management on trying to avoid lawsuits when the company violates labor laws.
    As for timing--yes, I've seen that a lot. I work in an industry that is notoriously slow in any hiring action, and this is true across the board nationally. When I've heard hiring managers say "this is an important position, so we're fast-tracking the search," that translates to me as "instead of the usual 6-8 months to close this search, we're going to try to get it done in 5-6 months." And, yes, ghosting is commonplace. I've been through interviews--sometimes even a second round--then hear nothing until the TAM system sends out the blanket thanks-but-no-thanks letter months later when the search is closed in the TAM system.

  • @cdr4286
    @cdr4286 Рік тому +4

    This all ammo to start your business

  • @cammycamm76
    @cammycamm76 Рік тому +1

    Yes I’ve been asked multiple x by company management

  • @riyaaher444
    @riyaaher444 Рік тому +4

    Judging someone based off of their personality is inviting a lot of lawsuits for sure! Are we forgetting employment laws and labour boards as Human Resources? That's sad!

    • @BadStructuralEngineeringFirms
      @BadStructuralEngineeringFirms 10 місяців тому +1

      The city and county of Denver laid me off so they could hire someone with less credentials and less drive than I had so the boss could give himself a $30K raise. My boss got mad because I shamed him publicly for doing it. My replacement ended up leaving after 6 months.

  • @cuivre2004
    @cuivre2004 Рік тому +2

    WRT "culture fit"- I interviewed in a midwestern state right across the river from the state I currently lived and grew up in. When asked this, I am tempted to say, "Kansas and Missouri really aren't that culturally different, notwithstanding the whole civil war thing from the 1860's...." I know they are talking about the culture of people's AGE, but I want to play dumb and ignore their bigotry and play it off that I assume they are referring to culture of the general society.

  • @andydelle4509
    @andydelle4509 9 місяців тому +2

    Preparation? How about when a hiring manager says, " I didn't look at your resume so tell me about your background". I've been there! For me that goes beyond unprofessional, It's down right rude and disrespectful!

  • @johnkeefe20
    @johnkeefe20 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for your excellent content. Do HR managers value a manager who manages difficult departments or groups of people? I managed tool & die makers (very highly paid, 6 figure guys with attitude) and the daily struggle was palpable. This was not viewed as a notable skill by interviewers. Does this skill matter?

  • @genevieveogorman
    @genevieveogorman 11 місяців тому +3

    We value diversity
    So take this personality test
    And as long as you fit this narrow definition
    We might consider

  • @simonelawson6135
    @simonelawson6135 Рік тому +1

    How can you be passive unless they contact you? Do you think the "green banner" should go on Lindkin or absolutely NOT.. I've heard yes/no.

  • @cajuntimes
    @cajuntimes Рік тому

    Why aren’t all interviews like a musicians interview or a machinist interview? I interviewed many people for positions in my sales and back office positions and only hired oneThat needed to be fired. I think I need to make some videos myself about what a manager needs to hear from a potential employee and vice versa.

  • @yooj11
    @yooj11 Рік тому +1

    19:30 What should be the next steps if the company made a strategic change and there is now a hiring freeze… finding out a month after the 2nd interview… :(

  • @jillyinthecityoffical
    @jillyinthecityoffical 2 дні тому

    I've had interviewers show up in sweats on Zoom calls.

  • @smileyspoon1
    @smileyspoon1 6 місяців тому

    Always look for jobs when you are happy in your current job not when you hate it and you need a new job. It gives you options vs desperation.

  • @elenakusevska6266
    @elenakusevska6266 2 місяці тому

    I think this is accurate :)

  • @charlesg.1207
    @charlesg.1207 5 місяців тому

    The job interviews that I have been on the people or panel have been horrible with their long drawn out process, questions, and they all really need some coaching on how to interview candidates. In fact, they were just using the top 10 basic questions. There hasn't been any original questions or it doesn't seem like their was any effort put in on their part on the questions being asked. The questions that they're asking aren't going to get the job done. Additionally, I'm finding that its not an issue with the recruiters the problems seem to be directly with the hiring managers. Lets not even get started on getting ghosted and the ghost posts.

  • @MsTwilightSpeaks
    @MsTwilightSpeaks 4 місяці тому +1

    Yes! Terrible interview process totally wasted my time. Chime Inc

  • @sibusisomathe2734
    @sibusisomathe2734 5 місяців тому

    Would you classify a Talent Acquisition Manager as a hiring manager or a recruiter?

    • @SelfMadeMillennial
      @SelfMadeMillennial  5 місяців тому

      It depends what they are hiring for. The hiring manager is usually the person who the open role will report to.

  • @lindawakeland6302
    @lindawakeland6302 8 місяців тому +1

    How do you feel about 1 interview with 4 people on the interview ?

  • @Violetmoon370z
    @Violetmoon370z Рік тому +1

    How do you find jobs before they're posted online?

  • @ruben-Juarez
    @ruben-Juarez 3 місяці тому

    You can totally not hire someone based on his they look! As long as it doesn’t violate federal or state laws!!!

  • @gameofjones7969
    @gameofjones7969 8 місяців тому

    I’m always so surprised when other people have my last name!

  • @theknotteddragon
    @theknotteddragon Рік тому

    I was recently affected by the major tech and Big 4 layoffs (my company completely shut down, it wasn't just a small portion - we all got laid off; extra context I am an accountant so the Big 4 layoffs have been making it extremely competitive out here). At the beginning of the video you said that hiring managers don't want people who are applying for jobs.... how does that sentiment hold with people that are in a similar situation as me? I feel like you could do a whole video series on the aftermath of the recent tech layoffs since so many people are looking and it's been making the interview process drag out ridiculously long because of the huge pool of very qualified candidates. For example, one of the places I'm currently interviewing at we are on month 2 of interviews for my application, I get 1 month but 2?

  • @siobahnhurley85
    @siobahnhurley85 Рік тому +2

    You shouldn’t judge on appearance, but let’s get real here. Even if you have green hair, tattoos and piercings, as long as you show up clean, well groomed, (styled hair, trimmed beard etc), well dressed, and uses their manners…you should be fine.

  • @kellymarks5480
    @kellymarks5480 6 місяців тому

    yes, asked the same questions by several different interviewers. Annoying!

  • @VideoGameRoom32
    @VideoGameRoom32 Рік тому

    First

  • @J_Quinn_Creates
    @J_Quinn_Creates Рік тому +1

    UHHG😣This was depressing. I liked the video and information but, sheesh, it was not encouraging.

  • @LIKAXY
    @LIKAXY 2 місяці тому

    They should not be working. Furthermore, they should not be interacting with potential employees.

  • @marvinw2144
    @marvinw2144 Рік тому

    Promo`SM 😬

  • @TheSridharsp
    @TheSridharsp 3 місяці тому

    HR=broker

  • @vinnidavinci3932
    @vinnidavinci3932 9 місяців тому +4

    You talked about everything except racism

  • @user-md6uk9yy3t
    @user-md6uk9yy3t 9 місяців тому

    thumbs up for the "butt hurt" comment

  • @phillipsnichole2857
    @phillipsnichole2857 5 місяців тому

    I put effort into my professional appearance only to see that purple-hair - Hot Topic Guy has also made the cut.

  • @ruben-Juarez
    @ruben-Juarez 3 місяці тому

    Culture Fit is a thing, in the Maintenance Department we are a different breed of folks. Not just anyone can and will fit, if you don’t like to get dirty, miss breaks and work holidays you will not fit. We are a Realist culture and you need to have thick skin… Culture Fit!!! Again you are incorrect.

  • @CoHawk73
    @CoHawk73 6 місяців тому +1

    Hiring managers are just like women. Women want a man that already has women because it shows he is in high demand. Hiring managers want someone who already has and is excelling and their current role because like I said before it shows they are in high demand. This is why jobs don’t really like hiring people who were later off because they think if you were really that good at your job you would not have been later off.

  • @blairng984
    @blairng984 Рік тому

    her eyes look creepy the way they roll

  • @Kevin-tz7xm
    @Kevin-tz7xm 5 місяців тому

    Great rack

  • @gwene.4726
    @gwene.4726 2 місяці тому

    I was denied a job based on jealousy! The female contact person looked at me like her competition and absolutely didn’t want me hired! How do you deal with this..? It’s weird and frustrating- being attractive can absolutely hurt your chances at even getting your foot in the Door!