Therapist can't get enough of BRING ME THE HORIZON
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
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Oli is so precious, he is the perfect lyricist, he’s lyrics are always so deep and relatable, like he knows exactly what people need to hear. Plus, his voice is pure heaven. I’m addicted ❤
I like the imagery used for this video: pop-ups and error messages. Just like a computer virus makes the system malfunction and do things out of your control, it can feel quite the same with mental health issues. They distract you from the things that matter most and make it so difficult to perform the simplest of tasks. Sometimes you need professional help to make your system function in a healthy way again.
If you're struggling, please don't pull the plug. There is help to be found.
I LOVE that analogy!! So great!
I love the excitement in her voice. I feel the exact same whenever they drop a new song
Fr tho.
I'm beggin you to stay, my darkside won today...
Cringe
WHAT A LYRIC, LOVE THEM
@@Copper6siegeyou probably listen to rap
@@Weirdgirl2023 oh no I’m a bmth main. It’s just cringe you felt the need to type the lyrics. We have ears too. We know the song
@@Copper6siegeit about saying that this line hits hard. You maybe lack empathy to understand that everyone person have the worlds like your pwn, and noone is obligated to have to meet your standards of cringe and not cringe. Instead of appreciating persons honestly and will to share emotions you started judging because it doesn't sound cool or based. What he said is what he feels, is what hi is humming to himself when he is alone in a room. And you, dear anon, is real cringe because running for anonymous approval you lost everything humane
Ok Taylor this comment is for you I also love bmth by the way.😊 I just wanted to say I've struggled with mental health for awhile and watching your reaction video to some of my favorite songs has really helped allot so thank you for that keep up the reactions much love and respect
@heartsupport As a veteran with PTSD and who dealt with infidelity while active and currently in the grips of alcoholism this song hits home. “Dark side won today” is so relatable for me right now.
From taylor: Hey friend! Thanks so much for your service AND thank you for sharing a bit about the struggles you are currently facing. I can't imagine how painful it must have been to discover that infidelity. You were away from home FIGHTING for others and meanwhile you were being betrayed at home. You're already in a state of fight or flight and then the place that you want to go home to recover from that is also a place of pain. My heart aches for you. Considering what's going on it makes a lot of sense to me that you would turn to alcohol to try to cope with the pain. I'm so grateful that you have been able to acknowledge that this isn't the most helpful way to cope. Acknowledging this is the first step toward healing. I'm hoping as you move forward you can start to find other ways to cope. Things you enjoy that also feel good. I'd argue that today your darkside didn't win. You shared, and darkness can not exist when you bring your pain to the light. Grateful for your words. Sending love <3
@heartsupport thanks for the reply and I’m actually headed to rehab today 🤙
From NateTriesAgain: Good for you man. Recovery is simultaneously terrifyingly unknown, but also fantastically exhilarating. There's beautiful things that happen when we raise our hand and say - yeah, I am broken, and I want to do something about it. I remember going through the 12 steps for the first time...a phenomenal season of life. Hard. But beautiful. And the transformation...so worth it. Proud of you for taking care of yourself. I know good things are on its way through this decision. Well done.
@@HeartSupport love y’all and appreciate the support! Keep up everything y’all are doing
From Micro: Well done for going to rehab - that is such a strong decision during a time when vulnerability hits the most. I can only imagine what you've been through ever since you've learned about this infidelity and just the amount of feelings of betrayal that it would have left you with. It's such a brutal loss and wound to deal with, and it makes sense that alcohol has appeared to be more and more tempting over time. You've been left to deal with the collapse of a significant part of your world. Your mind has tried to find some relief in the midst of what feels like a constant storm and heartache, whichi s deeply human.
It's so powerful that you've been *naming* this struggle and that you feel now ready to address it with some external help. This is going to be without a doubt the beginning of a renewal for you with a strong path forward. Not an easy one, but one that is right and on which you will be your very first ally. Wishing for it to be healing, fulfilling, and just an opportunity to reconnect with yourself in ways that will be a pillar of support to you in the future. I'll be rooting for you.
There lyrics blow me away. His voice blows me away. I was this excited too. Not guna lie. And not even a little embarrassed 😂
Ive suffered with mental health issues for so long i can't remember not feeling this way. I mean i havevmy good days. But always end up bk down there. PTSD, anxiety, constant physical pain and depression is ALOT to deal with
Semangat!!
From Micro: It is a lot. It really is. For what it's worth, I personally relate to that feeling of heaviness. The good days appear to be so precious in comparision, but it feels like there is this constant shadow in the background, this force that drives to add pressure on you and is only acting against you. With PTSD, anxiety, physical pain and depression, you have to deal with both emotional and physical manifestations of it. It makes sense to have days when it feels better to stay in bed and forget about the world. There is this high vulnerability that brings you back to this position, making you feel like anything would potentially hurt you even more. It is truly a tough battle that you are leading, and even though it may not be seen my most people, know that it is fully seen here. *You* are seen and heard, as much as your efforts too. To be here, opening up and being your vulnerable self, you must have been through quite a huge amount of challenges already. It is a manifestation of your own growth, and you can be proud of yourself for all the times you keep choosing yourself, your life, your weel-being - could it look like accomplishing something huge one day, or managing to put on clean clothes the next one.
May your path be filled with patience, love, and just a good amount of peace to you personally. You deserve all the celebration on good days, and all the warm/comfy blankets on bad ones. <3
This hits different live. Was lucky enough to see them in Newcastle last month and they opened with this song it was amazing!! 🖤🖤
Teardrops got me listening to these guys
Sempiternal was my song
Her description of the feeling of having severe Depression is so on point. And also the sentence that you have to put in Equal amount of efford as the people who help you is sooo True! And that is soooo difficult And exausting! Love this Song And love your Videos! Keep up the good work
Music like this REALLY fucks with my head emotionally. Because I can’t tell if it’s reassuring and comforting OR if I’m feeding off of their demons and fuelling my own darkness. I always wonder too what this kind of music will be for me if ever I did get myself into a good mental state, if these songs about s*icide (such as Better Off Dead by Sleeping With Sirens) serve any purpose later down the line.
From Micro: Yea, music can be a powerful outlet emotionally speaking, but it can definitely lead us to different pathways if we feel very connected to specific music, or find ourselves in a vulnerable place. On one hand, it's sooo comforting and reassuring to feel like resonating with a particular music. It feels healing to hear words we may not be able to say, to be reflected sounds that convey emotions we have a hard time expressing or just letting be. It goes beyond words how magic this kind of intimate resonance can be. But when it's about things that are particularly painful, the line can become blurry when it comes to knowing if whether or not it's serving us or hurting us more.
Personally, I tend to feel emotions deeply and music is definitely a place of comfort during dark times. But there's also many times when I would listen to music just to deepen the pit I would dig myself in. It's cathartic, healing, but at the same time it kinds of makes darkness become a place of comfort and familiarity. I've always had a hard time feeling happiness and joy as whole emotions -- it usually feels empty and/or numb to me. So my "comfort"/familiar zone is much more on the sad of sadness, sorrow, nostalgia. I feel a lot more alive and whole feeling those emotions, which is something that I've learned over time, and has been challenging to unlearn. Still on that learning path - uncomfortable as heck but worth it.
You're putting into words questions that are very powerful and may serve you in the long run. Somehow, what you express is about knowing how to listen to music *intentionally*, and making sure that it serves you without destroying you. Sometimes what feels comfortable isn't necessarily the best to us personally. Two sides of the same coin, that will always be a unique experience based on how you feel at a given time. What you say here shows that you are aware of some limits that may be important to maintain -- even if you don't have your answers yet. It shows that you're not just diving into things because it resonates with you -- you also want to be mindful in the way it impacts you as a result. It's a very honest and humble outlook that can be uncomfortable, but may really serve you as you gain knowledge about yourself and look deeper at your needs. It can be confusing at times because the lines are just mixed up -- comfort can be destructive, and discomfort can be made of what would bring actual safety. It's a tough knot to untangle, but definitely one worth to look at. Well done for doing it and potentially seeking more *intentionality* in your relation with music. Little by little, you can make it what you *need* to be - both in order to be comforted *and* safe at the same time. I wish you all the best on this journey of yours. You got this. :heart:
@@HeartSupport Thank you so much for your incredibly well thought out response. I need to sit down and go through this properly and try to create a clearer picture in my head
@heartsupport I am super struggling with a painful inflammatory condition. Thanks so much for sending me good energy friends ❤️. P.s. I love BMTH! ❤
From Micro: Sending all the good vibes and thoughts your way. I understand personally the pain of dealing with an inflammatory condition... leaving you with this constant feeling of just having to wait for the next crisis. It's so exhausting emotionally and physically, and it feels so defeating at times.
Are there things that you are used to do that helps you personally?
Hoping that during this season you can reunite with your body in ways that feel meaningful, healing and fulfilling. Just to have a break in what can feel like being at war with your own body most of the time. <3
@HeartSupport thanks so much! Going to do my first triathlon or at least duathlon over the next year no matter what! I will beat this somehow! Have a great day and sending you good energy too all the best with your battle too.
From Micro: Oh my goodness what a beautiful goal that you have! Absolutely love it! Excited for you -- you are SO going to crush it!
@HeartSupport thanks so much!
Every album they put out improves my mental health.
This is about Olis addiction, not a general depression. Oli has had a long history with abuse and addiction and a lot of their music revolves around that
@heartsupport this song came out just a few days after my fiance and I broke up. It was so hard to deal with, but this song, as well as all of the other music I listen to from Bad Omens, Sleep Token, and this band, have helped me process my emotions, and given me an outlet to vent out my emotions through singing their songs. I am doing a lot better now, but it has been a really difficult ride. Thank you so much for all of the stuff you guys do, and talk about in your videos. It really is such a good thing you all are doing.
❤
Keep try 👑
You’re amazing. I really enjoyed your commentary and breakdown of the lyrics.
They're called excavators haha 🤣 I loved this reaction. I am a 2nd year student of applied psychology and I love your analogy of depression feeling like being buried alive. It's a great way to make sense of how you need to approach recovery 😃
I may have missed it in your already posted videos, but you should do falling in reverse, the lyrics and hard rock really is like therapy for me, not to mention The relatable addiction themes and inner demons 😅
@heartsupport I need you as my therapist 🙏 my fav band and your talking mental health too. Amazing!
Have my CBT Therapy 2mz, doing low intensity this time as high intensity was too much last year. I recently had a breakdown and music helps me soo soo much especially metal ❤ thanks for making this beautiful video 🙏❤
From ManekiNeko: I hope that your therapy session went well. It’s so good that something like music can provide a bit of hope and encouragement.
Thank you, yes it went well 👍 one step at a time. Thanks for taking the time to reply.
From Daisy1985: Thank you for sharing your story, im glad therapy went well.
God bless.
One step at a time
You got this
Love Daisy
@heartsupport This song reminded me of a time, when my darkside was taking over. It felt like the world arond me was lifeless and every time I was alone in my room, when I remembered everything good that happened in my life in the past 6 months, I started crying. These memories were connected to a person I've had a deep feeling for. And back when my darkness was trying to break me I couldn't stand her existance, because before the dark times she told me to forget her. And there are no words that can desribe how much it hurt. Despite the fact that I realized the true meaning behind her words, I couldn't ease the pain they caused. But she also said that she didn't want to break my heart and these are the words in which I found one simple meaning: she truly cares. Someone truly cares about me. And this was a little piece of hope that I needed to rise from the ashes of my past very incsecure but so brave self.
From Wings: I am truly impressed with your insight. You are processing grief while at the same time maintaining your compassion.
You should listen to "Forfeit" by Rise Against. It came out when I was in the hospital from ED, and it felt like a hand helping me when I felt so alone. It saved me
Happy Song could be an good example of react.
everytime i listen to this song always got me on the edge ffs😭
I think youd love citizen soilder they write so many awesome songs about mental health. Id love to see some react videos with their music.
I wouldn't have thought that a band other than Linkin Park could capture my emotional world so well. But Bring me the Horizon really described my thoughts with this song very well.
It’s probably a good thing you didn’t listen on the train, you would have knocked someone out! 😂
You should react to Scarlxrd, he black and a rapper from the UK, and he does trap metal, he can scream, growl, and rap crazy fast
@heartsupport heard this song for the first time here on the channel. The song analysis is spot on. Watching this was the spark that led to me learning and covering the song. Here's the link to the video if anyone's bored and wants something to watch: ua-cam.com/video/yty1yDTu2X0/v-deo.html
@heartsupport usually i hate to comment but now i do it:
I have to make a testimony against my impregnator at police on friday. And usually i'm chill about it but right now i'm kinda tensed about it. So tips?
Will take with my therapist at psychatric tomorrow who is also a big fan of BMTH and i have to Smile when i see this video cause it could be her. And i will get the second tattoo soon. The logo of LosT.
First was "Every Scar Will Build My Throne"
Saved my life
From ThriceTheThird: Hello! Never fear commenting! It is okay. Also if you ever need to talk and don't want it in comments. forum.heartsupport.com is a place you can also share what you are going through. I hope that you have a good day today, and that everything goes well facing what you are facing. You are cared for and strong, keep up the good fight. Love the tattoo, and love your courage to face those who hurt you. <3
From NateTriesAgain: @OtakuTeaTime Hi there, I hope that the testimony went well. I wanted to shoot a video reply to your comment - I think you are very courageous, and I'm thankful that you shared here: www.loom.com/share/e393805b1d434b9d992a0d9ab8f28693
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I’m complicated with my friend who never loved me last I saw her from our friend’s birthday party I wish I wanted to marry her but I’m very shocked about she got engaged to her boyfriend and I didn’t know that but how’s happened and I’m so crying all by myself that she bitched me and I decided I will never see her again and I’m done her
From Micro: Wow, friend. I'm so sorry that you've been experiencing such brutal heartbreak. It must have been a shock to learn that she was engaged, especially as your expectations were totally different. You have these feelings that build up for someone, but are left with your pain and hurt as a result as soon as you realize that their feelings were different. Makes you look back and wonder what could have been different... It's such a tough place to be in.
It's so normal and understandable to just let the tears out. What you are experiencing is a loss, a unique type of grief, which hurts deeply. Makes sense also to not want to see her again and define some boundaries there. It's okay to protect your heart an peace in such circumstances. My heart truly goes out to you as you process what happened and mourn this relationship - both the friendship and the potential you were holding on to. I hope you make sure to be patient with yourself as you navigate these very deep and raw emotions. <3
@heartsupport i raised a child for 8 years that wasn't mine biologically. I knew he wasnt and still continued to do so for 5 of those years just because i loved him and wanted to make sure he was taken care of. For my desire to do well i recieved an ex who convinced people i was afwul by lying about assault and constantly treated me like garbage when all i wanted was to take care of him. A little over a year ago she got remarried and had another child and tried to just disappear without even telling me. I never missed a moment i child spend with him and i did for him constantly. I miss him. I'm not allowed to speak to him l. And i don't tell anyone about it because i geek like is beating a dead horse. I don't want to keep talking about it to people who shouldn't have to deal with it. But i not a day goes but that it doesn't hurt. Or that i don't think about him. It's still hard to just go into his room. It's devastating knowing he's 45 minutes away and i can't even tell him i love him
From NateTriesAgain: It’s tragic to feel like you love this boy, and someone else’s selfishness is keeping you from that. It’s wild that someone else’s choice can devastate your entire relationship. It’s such a lonely feeling - to be powerless, so you feel the ache every day - but then to feel like you can’t talk to anyone about it because there’s nothing they can do either. So you just suffer. Alone. Feeling like you SHOULD be doing something for that boy but you can’t. Like you want to tell him you love him but you won’t be able to. Like you had purpose in life but are stripped of that. It’s so hard to feel so alone in all of that. I’m sorry for your loss man. I’m sorry your ex took him away. I’m sorry you can’t see him :(
From Micro: I'm so sorry that you have been experiencing such level of loss and heartbreak. Through your words, I can feel how much love you have for this child, and it's absolutely heart-shattering that this love doesn't even have the right to be expressed anymore, and shared with the right person. It feels devastating someone you love so much to reasons that are beyond your control, but on top of it that are deeply unfair. It's like forcing you to be stuck in a place of loneliness, one that feels like prison to the heart. It makes sense to feel like it's hard to go into his room and even talk about him. Each thought and word reconnects you with what was, with what could have been, but the reality also suddenly hits like a heavy wall of bricks. It doesn't even make you want to dream anymore as reality is just bleak. You've been removed of a significant part of your heart, of your life, of your world... it makes sense to feel the weight of this loss and having a hard time composing with how things are now. It feels surreal to have to hold that love for two now. My heart goes out to you. So much. :heart:
Im sure i missed this and you mentioned it in another video, but what is your favorite bmth song?
I have no friends
Listen to Linkin Park. If you love BMTH you would love Linkin Park
I'd like to see you react to Popular Monster by Falling In Reverse :) Might just blow your mind lmao!
Day 7 of BEGGIN for Hospital For Souls :c
sometimes i find it concerning how oli can write up such lyrics. i get that he went through a lot of things with his addiction. but i just wonder if he's struggling with anything else right now. id love to say that the vlogs are really showing that he's having fun and a good time (everyone in the band really,) but i know sometimes that depression is not something that shows on the surface. so im just hoping hes okay.
As someone who has been depressed/anxious my entire life and never understood what was wrong with me and then later diagnosed with adhd in my late 20s, I would bet that due to his adhd, he still often has these feelings and struggles. I think it’s highly misunderstood, as I misunderstood it myself, but there’s so many comorbidities that often go along with adhd and the feeling of never quite feeling like you belong here and how much it is a struggle to do pretty much everything.
@@jennifer3962 ah, I didn't know he also had adhd. I second your experience though. it's been 2 years that I've found out that I had adhd and even now I still don't know/ cant figure out what's going on with me.
@@satriabagaskara4198 I did not know either until more recently. I realized why I connected SO much to the lyrics. Apparently, he wrote Avalanche about his adhd. Now the lyrics to that song make even more sense!
And need help #helpsupport
Aside from trying to make money trying to understand your clients struggle with these reactions what can help them. Again you prob can’t answer cause that’s you’ll whole profession to be paid for suggestions but fuck. I’ve had 10 therapists and 9 psych and they can’t figure me out. Depression and autism with no repreve. Countless meds in many categories and nothing
From toastaintbad: @ahhitsdan5273 Hi @HeartSupport_Fans,
I can totally understand your statement about therapist trying to make money. Therapist need money in order to survive. I actually learned a lot from your post. This will help me learn not to do as a mental health therapist. I didn't become a mental therapist because of salary. I struggled with a lot of mental health issues like anxiety, bipolar 1, ADHD, trauma, and autism. This year, I'm actually about to attend grad school to become a mental health professional. I'm sorry about the several therapist and psych not being able to treat for mental health issues. Sometimes therapist are also human beings so don't be so harsh towards them. You never know if a therapist suffers with mental health issues too.
I feel like therapist should try different ways to treat patients instead of going to medication. Medication is not the answer to cure all mental health issues. There are side effects that therapist must be aware of.The medication did saved my life this year. However, I don't recommend others to take tons of medication like me.
It took me actually 5-10 times to find the right psychiatrist and therapist that actually listens to my mental health concerns. I hope someday you will find the perfect mental health professionals. I'm here to support the best during your dark times.
From Micro: @ahhitsdan5273 It is so frustrating to feel like no one gets you. Especially when it's professionals whom you expect to be more equipped to guide and understand you. When you keep on being met with a lack of understanding and support, it makes you question the point of even trying to get help in the first place. It's so hard to feel like getting help can be so challenging at the same time, while it should so much easier. When you are struggling, you would expect to get support easily, not to have to somehow fight for it and to keep on advocating for yourself over and over. For what it's worth, I feel this frustration with you and hope so much for you to find a therapist aht would be, finally, the right fit for you. It is indeed very challenging and sometimes discouraging to have to "try and see" with several people before finding the right person and the right approach. There's so many options out there, which is great, but also complexifies the path towards getting the support we need, when we need it.
If anything, we at Heartsupport are so very proud of you for trying. Despite the discouragement, despite the disappointment, you ARE doing the work of standing up for yourself and seeking the support you need. You ARE choosing yourself, your well-being, and that is something to celebrate and value, especially during times of doubt. It might take time, but you will get there, friend. :heart: