When a Man Loves a Woman Well

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  • Опубліковано 1 лис 2016
  • If you want to measure a man, look to the women around him. Woman is the glory of man (1 Corinthians 11:7) - in friendships, marriages, families, churches, and societies - so where women are flourishing, honored, and cherished, we know the men are acting as God intended.
    With their minds flooded with the knowledge of the gospel, Christian men see their sisters in Christ, and all women, not as things to be manipulated or dominated, but as treasures to honor, guard, and cherish.
    Find the full resource at www.desiringgod.org/honor-the-...
    This clip is taken from “Honor, Guard, and Cherish: A Call to Christian Husbands,” part 3 in a series on 1 Peter called Hoping, Singing, and Loving in the Refiner’s Fire. Find the full resource at www.desiringgod.org/messages/m...

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  • @lolawho8676
    @lolawho8676 4 роки тому +794

    This is how my dad was to my mum and me and my sis. Always so gentle and kind! We miss him so much! ♥️

    • @angelwarrior5519
      @angelwarrior5519 4 роки тому +14

      May God bless your father

    • @thebluevelvetriver
      @thebluevelvetriver 4 роки тому +16

      I relate! My daddy was the exact same - such a fantastic, loving, Godly example! We will get to see them again and because I believe we are in the end times, I think it will be soon! Glory to God for the gems of good men put on this earth!

    • @Huelogy
      @Huelogy 4 роки тому +10

      God bless your father(s) I pray to be a man of that quality!

    • @Maryam7580
      @Maryam7580 4 роки тому +5

      Lola Who you’re so ver lucky ❤️

    • @elizabethcerda5777
      @elizabethcerda5777 4 роки тому +4

      That's nice my dad was a mean man always but I forgave him and still love him

  • @xmochix604
    @xmochix604 4 роки тому +607

    My husband is 💯 for me. He protects, provides, takes care of household, I’m blessed!

    • @Nancivlog
      @Nancivlog 4 роки тому +2

      xjellybeans x god bless you

    • @jessicam5648
      @jessicam5648 4 роки тому +8

      God Bless you both that is a blessing to have

    • @whittakerdanielj
      @whittakerdanielj 4 роки тому

      @@smokingcrab2290 Yeah…………

    • @rebeccaclifford5419
      @rebeccaclifford5419 4 роки тому +8

      xjellybeans x it would be perfectly godly and biblical for you to protect, provide, and care for your household alongside your husband

    • @mirandabri834
      @mirandabri834 4 роки тому

      Well walmart won't hire me and I can't get a job! It seems as though Nobody wants me. However if your a Rich n Powerful person, perhaps YOU could HELP ME OUT Wuth a Job??? Thank you and God bless

  • @danielledunsworth9229
    @danielledunsworth9229 5 років тому +541

    As spoken so beautifully by Fireproof the movie, "A woman is like a rose, you treat her right she'll bloom, but if you don't she'll wilt."

    • @cubed0724
      @cubed0724 4 роки тому +17

      Fireproof the movie was garbage and shows how women are absolved of all responsibility. The wife had an emotional affair with another man in the movie and didnt respect or love her husband. If anything the movies encouraged wives to break their vows if the husband isn't being perfect. The movie was disgusting.

    • @christianone6611
      @christianone6611 4 роки тому +36

      @@cubed0724 The same company that made Fireproof made another movie called "War Room" aimed ENTIRELY at women and their responsibility to God and their husband. It was beautiful. Fireproof was equally beautiful as it is aimed at men and their role. In the movie, when he apologizes, he says he is sorry for like 6 YEARS of TROMPING on her in every way. The movie begins AFTER his years of taking her for granted and emotionally abusing her, when she has given up and no longer cares about him and has lost all respect for him. So, yes, she's not perfect in the movie, just like the man in "war room" is not perfect. But it's about what a man can do to fix his marriage (even when he has done everything possible to destroy it before turning his heart to God.) Ideally...BOTH partners will do their part and walk humbly before the Lord. But realistically, usually one partner has to start the process alone and be committed to keeping THEIR OWN VOWS to God and their partner, whether the other person leaves them or not.
      I really appreciate both movies very much and I think both are very accurate about how men and women react and think very differently.

    • @cubed0724
      @cubed0724 4 роки тому +10

      @@christianone6611
      The reason she stayed is because he gave her everything she wanted. She didn't respect him because he wouldn't use their savings to pay for her mom's treatment which he wanted to use for buying a boat he wanted even though she made plenty of money as a full time nurse. She never respected him and denied herself to him. Also when she was involved with the affair with the doctor who was married himself mind you and she didn't care. No, apology for stepping out on her husband. Basically the premise I got from the movie is do everything your wife wants or she'll leave you for another man and it's all about her happiness. The real digusting part of the movie I found was when the he found the love letters by the doctor to his wife and when he confronted the doctor who was married by the way, said, "You're not the only one pursing her, you've got competition." There is no competition period, they were married. If anything this movie represents the mentality of Christian's today where the women dominate the men and can break their vows at whim because it's all about the wives happiness.

    • @acharich
      @acharich 4 роки тому

      ✨🔥🙏🏾🔥✨

    • @oilinmylamp
      @oilinmylamp 4 роки тому

      🖒

  • @LinxDinx
    @LinxDinx 7 років тому +1078

    I'm soon to be married, and your messages are really helping me to build a solid foundation. I only pray that I will be mature in heart and mind to walk in these precepts, as well as ask God for His grace when needed, and not revert to default/old responses and habits. God bless your ministry.

    • @IrlylikeInFlames
      @IrlylikeInFlames 7 років тому +14

      Lincoln Deane praying for you brother

    • @TaylorKWH
      @TaylorKWH 7 років тому +18

      Lincoln Deane God bless you and your wife's marriage! :)

    • @frankquispe9195
      @frankquispe9195 7 років тому +11

      Lincoln Deane there is this young woman whom i love and i just keep asking God for her, His will be done though. God bless you brother.

    • @AmyApornaBaroi
      @AmyApornaBaroi 7 років тому +7

      God bless you brother! May the living God helps you in honoring and serving your helpmeet (wife) :)
      Depend on God's strength alone, he will sustain you that's the key :)
      Be blessed and multiply in Jesus Name
      Shalom

    • @eme5947
      @eme5947 6 років тому +6

      Lincoln Deane i hope your marriage flourishes it may not be easy all the time but love is beauty walk with god together

  • @jennacrawford7504
    @jennacrawford7504 4 роки тому +191

    I'm so grateful I have a husband who is gentle and honors me.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 4 роки тому +1

      @ jenna crawford
      No man should be "gentle" only. A man must be rough enough to be respected by his wife.

    • @h.hholmes.492
      @h.hholmes.492 3 роки тому

      Is he still gentle and honors u ?

    • @jewele.5697
      @jewele.5697 3 роки тому +3

      @@framboise595 could u elaborate. Do u mean he should be rough enough on her physically and emotionally so that she may fear him. There’s a difference between respecting somebody bc u love them, and respecting them bc u fear them.

  • @deetaylor9794
    @deetaylor9794 4 роки тому +281

    That's the kind of husband I pray i get a man who honors me as his wife 💍❤🙇🏽‍♀️💍2020

  • @PrincesaDeDios74713
    @PrincesaDeDios74713 4 роки тому +49

    I definitely am my husband's treasure ❤️ he tells me and shows me all the time. Most of his dreams and goals are about protecting me and providing for me. He is the most amazing man of God.

  • @gabrielles98
    @gabrielles98 7 років тому +381

    True, true- how a man treats the women around him say sooooooo much about him!!

    • @robertjayroe9900
      @robertjayroe9900 7 років тому +19

      Gabrielle S. : it says more about God. Romans 7:18 For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh. For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out.

    • @jingyushi5857
      @jingyushi5857 7 років тому

      Gabrielle S. that is why, i dislike that man in wh, what a man, how can he be there.

    • @robertjayroe9900
      @robertjayroe9900 7 років тому

      Where did i or the scripture say God sins.

    • @robertjayroe9900
      @robertjayroe9900 7 років тому +8

      Chleo Harris : Amen. To God be the glory.

    • @evergreen12321
      @evergreen12321 4 роки тому

      nmwbYwbd 2 years passed, does he still bring peace to your soul?

  • @robinluich5576
    @robinluich5576 4 роки тому +55

    I love being a woman of respect and having a husband who respects me.
    I admire my husband for the man he is.

  • @injrdn01
    @injrdn01 4 роки тому +459

    Never criticize your wife; she is a reflection of your judgement.

    • @emmanuela____o
      @emmanuela____o 4 роки тому +12

      Hey! Interesting comment, would you be able to elaborate on this , I would love to understand what you mean

    • @billion86
      @billion86 4 роки тому +3

      GOOD one!

    • @mashakubrak2651
      @mashakubrak2651 4 роки тому +30

      Emmanuela Oduro Basically, your wife was on of your choices, when you criticize her, you are criticizing your own choice and therefore you’re criticism is about you.

    • @simbimelz
      @simbimelz 4 роки тому +2

      Wow... Spot on

    • @Lexilea68
      @Lexilea68 4 роки тому +9

      @@emmanuela____o and you become one flesh.

  • @beennete
    @beennete 6 років тому +333

    Where men do their Job to Love and honour, women are led to respect and submit

    • @nightjar8898
      @nightjar8898 5 років тому +21

      Men have treated me poorly, especially when I was younger and I now realize they did me a favor. It toughened me up. I have ceased to be the "weaker vessel", as you put it. I live alone and when there's a noise downstairs I go down with a double barreled shotgun. You take this man/woman thing way too seriously.
      You do what you have to do. If I can't take care of myself it makes me feel weak and inadequate. What God has "designed", the world molds and shapes.

    • @PrinceJes
      @PrinceJes 5 років тому +43

      @@nightjar8898
      Men and women are radically different from each other, if you find a godly man who loves you as he loves himself; you will see how regal and astonishing God created the opposite sex. God bless you dear.

    • @masterstepz9800
      @masterstepz9800 5 років тому +27

      @@nightjar8898 Those men that have treated you poorly, were not real men in the eyes of God. A real man would treated you with honour and love. I'm sorry that your experience has caused you to think this way. But I think you've met the wrong men. You'll find the right one eventually.

    • @nightjar8898
      @nightjar8898 5 років тому +3

      @@PrinceJes I don't care.

    • @Lazarusrizing
      @Lazarusrizing 5 років тому +11

      And yet... I respectfully disagree. I can see how in the natural that thinking works, but it's not biblical. Because men fail and they need Jesus just as much as the ladies do. When we curse or withhold love for the men because they are not "performing" up to a preferred standard. When we absolve women of sin and give a little grace to men, we are creating a church of emasculated men who are controlled, not loved. Not honored. A business relationship, not marriage. I don't expect many true, born again Christians to like my comment. But read the bible. Abuse is not sanctioned from Jesus to a woman or a man. Love unconditionally. Peace.

  • @jonathanewert2350
    @jonathanewert2350 4 роки тому +57

    "Makes her my treasure..." Love that line! Uniquely created by God, then He showed me just how much He loves me by Gifting her to me. You bet I will protect her!

    • @melperez
      @melperez 4 роки тому

      ❤❤❤

    • @Ale-tb8nz
      @Ale-tb8nz 4 роки тому

      🙏🙏❤️❤️

    • @sskuk1095
      @sskuk1095 4 роки тому

      Well said!!

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 3 роки тому +1

      @@sskuk1095
      What is "well said" ?

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 3 роки тому +2

      @ Jonathan Ewert
      Uniquely created by God FOR the man , for HIS needs first and foremost.

  • @tanyadixon7980
    @tanyadixon7980 4 роки тому +93

    This is the kind of husband I am waiting for. God honoring, protective, gentle, provider; not arrogant, prone to ridiculous bouts of anger; not abusive, in any way. I wait, oh Lord. Your will. Your man!

    • @redheadedfreckles2
      @redheadedfreckles2 4 роки тому +4

      Tanya Dixon I’m alone because I will not settle for less

    • @mubba786
      @mubba786 4 роки тому +4

      @@redheadedfreckles2 i was alone too ... But God gave me my Lady... Have patience you too will get the right person inshaAllaah

    • @Pantominas497
      @Pantominas497 3 роки тому +2

      You are too old for an husband u can't even have kids anymore

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 3 роки тому +6

      @@Pantominas497
      It is all about women nowadays. Most have no clue that God made the woman for the man and not the man for the woman.
      We are deceived by fallacious teachings like this one and so many others that focus like crazy on the "male love" .
      THE receipe for disaster.

    • @Pantominas497
      @Pantominas497 3 роки тому

      @@framboise595 are u a woman or a man

  • @BibleMunch
    @BibleMunch 7 років тому +243

    To love God, is to love those he has placed in our lives, especially our wife and children.
    How do we love them, as Christ loves the Church, fully, sacrificially, always with honor and respect.

    • @madhuripawar8589
      @madhuripawar8589 6 років тому

      Bible Munch Yes sure we can. God loves the church just like a husband loves his wife.

    • @iamURHO
      @iamURHO 6 років тому +1

      Thank you Bible Munch.

    • @festhegift
      @festhegift 6 років тому +1

      AMEN!!!!💛

    • @T.Ravikumar
      @T.Ravikumar 5 років тому

      Absolutely.

    • @josuerivera4084
      @josuerivera4084 5 років тому

      How do u love your husband if he dose not live for God dose not want nothing to do with God and want to get a divorce for his wife following God how do u love your husband if he was physical abusive and is still very verbal abusive towards the wife and kids how do u love a husband if he mocks u as a child of God and is always bring you down and your faith for loving God

  • @siddislikesgoogle
    @siddislikesgoogle 4 роки тому +38

    If it's not reciprocal, you're in for a world of pain. A wife must be well chosen, beware.

    • @trevormutie5229
      @trevormutie5229 4 роки тому +6

      Truly, not all women deserve these special treatments in 21st century.

    • @LyteSho
      @LyteSho 4 роки тому +6

      True. Women want and want...but don’t submit to their husbands. What man doesn’t want to love and protect his wife?

    • @Salmo_103
      @Salmo_103 3 місяці тому

      @@trevormutie5229Excuse me, but we are christians. We are not asked to love people if they “deserve it”. We all deserve death because of our sin. I know that you are talking of a hard-to-live-with person, but we are still slaves of Christ, if he loves us and is patient with us even with all our sins, shouldn't we do that with others that haven't sinned against us that much?

  • @princessrojas3252
    @princessrojas3252 4 роки тому +20

    I will continue to pray to have a man who will provide, protect, and love me no matter what. 🙏🏻❤️

  • @amanda99737
    @amanda99737 4 роки тому +21

    This is very sweet and I very much agree. Whenever there’s been a weird sound my husband doesn’t even stop to look at me. He will say “stay here.” Over his shoulder and he’s already investigating.

  • @anupamathomas6423
    @anupamathomas6423 6 років тому +44

    Wow ... I'm touched... Only God's people can have such wisdom and understanding .. so much clarity..

  • @PatriciaHernandez-vm8iz
    @PatriciaHernandez-vm8iz 4 роки тому +64

    The only design that works!!! The real one!!!! God’s way.

  • @janicecoleman2534
    @janicecoleman2534 6 років тому +51

    WOW It's great to hear men still feel this way that's how I was raised by a man who treated my mother so well that made me love him even more. This gives me hope he's coming. Thank you!

  • @kusumawati.natalia3807
    @kusumawati.natalia3807 6 років тому +114

    i am waiting God send me this kind of godly man (as explained) for my life.. I got harsh man in my past.. made me became harsh too.. it was so bad 😢

    • @PrinceJes
      @PrinceJes 5 років тому +5

      Jesus bless you.

    • @dionnelong
      @dionnelong 5 років тому +3

      Yes. God please bless more men to be strong good men early in life and it not take 40 years to purify him. We shouldn't wait and work in vain.

    • @Imokay1695
      @Imokay1695 4 роки тому +7

      Hi Natalia, praying for your heart right now. That the Lord's love and peace that surpasses all understanding may fill you up and joy may pour out. The love of Christ heal your heart and change it with a new, loving and forgiving heart. Amen.
      I've been in your place before Nat, and I know how horrible it feels to become like the person (s) who hurt you in the past.
      But good news! Transformation of the mind and healing of the broken heart is only as far as a fervent prayer longing for Jesus. He delights in the brokenhearted and those who are contrite in spirit. Don't lose heart, dear. There is a full and legitimate hope in our God!

    • @pennykent5687
      @pennykent5687 4 роки тому +3

      I understand this as I have/had harsh men in my life... I have no intent to bash men, ...as I have also known some beautiful ones.
      I understand there are a lot of I'll women out there who are hurting good men. Souring them against women all together. This makes me so sad... Because we all deserve to show Love, and be Loved, and to not be closed off from this great joyful gift God has given all of us. The gift of giving and receiving Love.🙂❤️

    • @yme3267
      @yme3267 4 роки тому

      If you've had sex before marriage.... good luck. You aren't being a godly woman 🤷‍♂️
      You getting tattoos and drinking all night? Not godly.
      But you want a good Christian man? Lmao. Good luck. 🤣
      If by SOME miracle you DON'T do what I just said.... then you are the most sought after female ever. Unless you're hideous or have such extreme standards no man could meet them.... you'll get married basically at any point you want 🤷‍♂️ (with the exception of reaching into your 30s)

  • @thatgirlcocoa
    @thatgirlcocoa 4 роки тому +42

    I’ve always felt this but he confirmed it.

    • @hotmessmissy
      @hotmessmissy 4 роки тому

      My thoughts exactly and my arguement all the time to my then husband who didnt get the point why we couldnt be 50/50 all the time

  • @mcmacshalfilya
    @mcmacshalfilya 4 роки тому +126

    I've never heard Larry David talk like this before.

  • @iamloved7758
    @iamloved7758 4 роки тому +102

    I'm smitten by whom ever man he was describing

    • @mewan1708
      @mewan1708 4 роки тому +5

      Well hello there I am he

    • @Happytown7523
      @Happytown7523 4 роки тому +7

      I know right where are all the cute conservative Christian guys!!??

    • @cynthiagalvan837
      @cynthiagalvan837 4 роки тому +3

      @kirsten Young Why do they have to be cute? Looks fade away.

    • @B10401
      @B10401 4 роки тому +5

      @@cynthiagalvan837 You have to find them cute for you to be attracted to them if you're like me. If you're not attracted why are you marrying?
      Ok, there may be good reasons, but I worry slightly that aspects of how society and even churches portray the relationship become idols for us. Is fear of being alone your motivation for interest in a guy you aren't attracted to? Questions like that are important imo, because a marriage might end up being a big distraction from and covering up of your need for community with sisters in christ and fearlessly serving God.
      Just my thoughts. I might be persuaded to change my mind.

    • @cynthiagalvan837
      @cynthiagalvan837 4 роки тому +2

      @B10401 You are right. It’s your opinion, But I LIKE it. The reason I asked was I kinda tried to dissect her question. It wasn’t just an open general question. It was to the point type of question. (Exclamation marks and question mark) led me to 🤔 think. Aah cuteness first, christianity second. I have nothing against cuteness, good looking etc. etc. But could be missing out on a very very good Christian Man. I hope she finds what she is looking for. GOD BLESS YOU.

  • @joseluisromerojr8887
    @joseluisromerojr8887 Рік тому +3

    He got me at “She’s the weaker vessel of God. Honor her.” That made all the sense in the world.

  • @joannahukpe7752
    @joannahukpe7752 6 років тому +14

    I've never heard anyone say women are valuable and deserving of as much honour and love as John Piper has expressed here! Never! God bless you! All my life I've struggled with men, husbands and pastors indirectly putting women down. I've struggled with my own sense on self worth for the whole of my life. Thank you for telling men to rise up and give honour to their wives and families. God bless you immensely

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 4 роки тому +2

      @ Joannah Ukpe
      Oh those poor women always victims ..
      As if modern day women were still valuable and deserving of honour and love !
      Piper worships women and puts them on a pedestal and tells other men to do so .
      It is pure idolatry .
      He just fuels our narcissist part to its maximulm.

  • @lukemegonigal5225
    @lukemegonigal5225 6 років тому +71

    Amen to "50/50 Stuff" being evil. I pray those thoughts be nipped from my future brain in my future marriage (dv).

  • @Micaela1527
    @Micaela1527 5 років тому +126

    The bible tells us "Husbands LOVE your wives.. and wives respect (honour, revere) your husbands.. women love to be loved.. (hugged and kissed and told everything will be okay) and husbands love to be respected and looked up to and praised etc etc (what big muscles you have, you're so good with your hands, you're such a good provider, etc etc).. haha it's actually true..
    -Micaela's mum

    • @Yahkeam
      @Yahkeam 4 роки тому +7

      Very true Micaela. What do you think about this verse👉Titus 2:4-5 King James Version (KJV)
      4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,

    • @Yahkeam
      @Yahkeam 4 роки тому

      @@gailland8681 well Mrs. Land, do you believe in the power of principle?

    • @Yahkeam
      @Yahkeam 4 роки тому +1

      @@gailland8681 The reason I ask you this is because you need to look at LOVE as a principle not a feeling. Although emotions enhance Love for sure. Principles are practiced to produce a desired result. So what results are you looking for?

    • @gailland8681
      @gailland8681 4 роки тому +1

      @@Yahkeam
      I don't know about the principles. but the feeling of love and being loved is priceless. no principles can replace it.

    • @gailland8681
      @gailland8681 4 роки тому

      @@Yahkeam
      I don't see it how it can be solved. but God sees it. I trust Him ..

  • @MegaBoomer1996
    @MegaBoomer1996 5 років тому +16

    I agree with what he is saying. I wholeheartedly love my wife and I want to protect, honor, cherish and support her in the best way I can and with Christ who strengthens me. Also we need to fully dedicate ourselves and give 100%, otherwise it's not working and I think won't be mutually fulfilling in the long run.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 3 роки тому +1

      @ MegaBoomer1996
      Putting the male love forward is such a vicious trick of the devil .
      Their fake teachings have almost turned "love" into something platonic that can NEVER be a fortress against sexual temptations .
      Nothing can be more devilish than telling married men that they have to "love "their wives and not telling them that they are entitled to sex as the Bible says.

    • @MegaBoomer1996
      @MegaBoomer1996 3 роки тому

      @@framboise595
      What do you mean by "male love"
      The husbands body belongs to the wife and the wifes body belongs to the husband.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 3 роки тому +1

      @@MegaBoomer1996
      You're right with the body belonging to the other spouse but this is not what is preached today.
      What I mean by "male love" is the focus on one verse " husbands , love your wives etc..".

    • @MegaBoomer1996
      @MegaBoomer1996 3 роки тому

      What you're saying is interesting, because I heard a lot of times in church that men focus too much on the female love and argue women should submit to them whereas they are not submitted to Christ.
      The focus needs to be on the person of Jesus. If we seek his face, his presence, if we seek his word, then that will change us from the inside out and only in that way can we truly love our spouse and others.

  • @Mai-id4fw
    @Mai-id4fw 4 роки тому +6

    So Yesterday, I was complaining to my bf about how much I have gained weight over the year and how unhappy I am with all the stress I was going thru. I was mad at him for not helping me lose it or pushing me to becoming healthier, he answered back that all he saw was how happy I am when I am Full from eating 😅. Never once he complained about how I gained weight or made any abusive/ hurtful jokes to change me or compare me. He loved and admired me no matter how small or big I was becoming because he loved me for ME, not how I looked. This is how I know he loves me unconditionally, and that God gave me the right man. Yes we going to the gym soon. 😂 thank u love, & thank You God 💓 I am beyond grateful 🙏 I pray that one day you all will find that special someone out there! 😙

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 4 роки тому +6

      @ Mai 3
      Yes but do your best to look good and not gain too much weight though so that your husband always desires you .

  • @priscillahwamuyu6142
    @priscillahwamuyu6142 4 роки тому +9

    I pray to God that i may be blessed with such a man. Who will love, cherish and protecting me till death do us apart. 2020 is my year of yes.

    • @kingcity2762
      @kingcity2762 4 роки тому +2

      I pray in jesus name that u will find that man of God and i pray he prepares you for your husband in Jesus name amen!

    • @priscillahwamuyu6142
      @priscillahwamuyu6142 4 роки тому +1

      @@kingcity2762 Amen Amen Amen. Thank you.

  • @BoYeeSevilla
    @BoYeeSevilla 6 років тому +52

    Wow. Absolutely beautiful... "honor thy wife"

  • @mitchlee2137
    @mitchlee2137 3 роки тому +7

    I pray to God that if He has destined me to marry that He makes me a godly woman and bless me with a godly husband.

  • @Lumios_UA
    @Lumios_UA 7 років тому +31

    Preach it brother, preach it loud.

  • @deec3561
    @deec3561 2 роки тому +3

    I pray my daughter is blessed with a man who will love her like this.

  • @royaldainties7
    @royaldainties7 4 роки тому +7

    I appreciate this video. I’m so glad there is a man that realizes these things. and teaching other men

    • @hotmessmissy
      @hotmessmissy 4 роки тому +3

      I soo agree.. I pray all the women here have a worthy man for them.and vice versa.... The men get women who deserve them. My marriage was nothing lile this i am still broken but i know God has purpose for Me and the right Man will come along and treat me as his treasure..

    • @royaldainties7
      @royaldainties7 4 роки тому

      D Pagne Amen 🙏🏽 and yes my marriage was nothing like this either. The Holy Spirit revealed to me the things this guy is speaking of. I two was broken. but today I am totally healed Jesus set me free. and I speak life to you right now In the name of Jesus be heal be whole and be set free NOW from all brokenness IN JESUS NAME!!! 🙏🏽

    • @khaleilrennes2814
      @khaleilrennes2814 4 роки тому +1

      Warrior Princess 4 Jesus I also pray that y’all won’t manipulate that man integrity and love catering to you because that’s what most modern western woman does today. It is a balance, you most give 110% and he must as well

  • @JacquelineHahn1
    @JacquelineHahn1 7 років тому +43

    Once again blessed by this man and his teaching.

    • @iamURHO
      @iamURHO 6 років тому

      Thank God for the preaching. :)

  • @Sams2Wavy
    @Sams2Wavy 4 роки тому +10

    Young people really need to hear this.
    Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @beandal8493
    @beandal8493 4 роки тому +13

    I really wish to meet a man like that. The women around me are all in unhappy marriages. I want something different if I ever marry. I need someone that can protect me, gentle but strong that I can count on. Someone I can respect, love and that will always be there for me.

    • @deetaylor9794
      @deetaylor9794 4 роки тому +1

      God will give him 2 u don't give up sis I want 1 as well 🙇🏽‍♀️

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 3 роки тому +2

      @ Be Andal
      " The women around me are all in unhappy marriages"
      Maybe their husbands worship them too much and is unable to have sex with them...
      Typical of the modern western simp so afraid to touch his own wife because you know , women are such "treasures" !!!
      But women hate those men who treat them like china dolls !!

  • @Cherryb45265
    @Cherryb45265 5 років тому +7

    Beautifuly said, my partner and I have been together 16 years, we always want to do for each other we never say 5050 we just do because we love each other I am so blessed to have him that God brought us together, thank for sharing this it's owful there's so many broken relationships over money, things no compromise.
    God bless you

  • @Chirhopher
    @Chirhopher 7 років тому +16

    On time! As usual LORD. Bless your HOLY NAME, In YESHUA Ha-MASHIAC!

  • @MoDrizzlee
    @MoDrizzlee 3 роки тому +1

    This is 100% my man🙌🏼 Thank you God. Pray for your men ladies. God wants this from them all. Well said Pastor!!

  • @KeithThompson52
    @KeithThompson52 7 років тому +20

    Honor!! *Amen*

  • @naomenatukunda8550
    @naomenatukunda8550 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you God to give a husband who is loving and still provides for his family.

  • @Marcus-ec1kx
    @Marcus-ec1kx 4 роки тому +1

    Amen, food for thought! Thankful for the great practical teaching

  • @AFROcentricFLO
    @AFROcentricFLO 7 років тому +17

    Amen Pastor Piper ❤❤❤

  • @T.Ravikumar
    @T.Ravikumar 5 років тому +3

    Loving God with all our might is the key in loving our wife/husband (irrespective of how that person behaves). After all that's exactly what my Lord does to me (the truly saved).

  • @ConstantCompanion
    @ConstantCompanion 5 років тому +2

    This is so sweet. Thank you.

  • @adlpaz44
    @adlpaz44 6 років тому +6

    Absolutely beautiful and true! Amen 💕

  • @AngieMck
    @AngieMck 3 роки тому +1

    Praise the Lord for real Christian men who honor their wives, and love them like Christ loves His Bride, His Body, His Church!! Love is an action word, not a slogan!!!💞❤️🙏🏽

  • @SuperUltraMomo
    @SuperUltraMomo 7 років тому +95

    It's sad that Pastor John preaches the truth from the Gospel and yet outside of his church it doesn't reflect or is practiced in our society today. We hear it and love it but we don't do it because society tells us we are wrong and should let the weaker vessel be 50/50 with the man and sometimes even in charge of being the provider.

    • @ayuanabradford3206
      @ayuanabradford3206 6 років тому +3

      Justbe Yeah in heaven women and man is equal 50/50

  • @kathylingen1667
    @kathylingen1667 4 роки тому

    Thank you Pastor John. I am thankful to God for your willingness to share your thoughts.

  • @caroljacan7059
    @caroljacan7059 4 роки тому +1

    Best message I've heard yet for the brothers 💯🥰❣❤🤗🙏🏾

  • @sOnlight67
    @sOnlight67 4 роки тому +2

    It is 6:34am, and your video was recommended on my home channel...it is amazing. I was just telling my husband yesterday how very unhappy I've been all four years of our marriage...and then I wake up to your video...

    • @springfieldsbarbados3435
      @springfieldsbarbados3435 4 роки тому

      You are so honest but yoy know he is learning as well JESUS CHRIST IS PURE LOVE AS YOU TALK TO HIM LIFE WILL CHANGE amen

  • @PreshEhi
    @PreshEhi 4 роки тому +2

    Am praying that I be a man worthy of one of God's daughters and God grant me a good woman . Society today is dividing and destroying marriages.

  • @Christian360News
    @Christian360News 4 роки тому +16

    Not to be confused with being a ’Yes’ man.

  • @Emilysafe
    @Emilysafe 5 років тому +7

    This made me weep ♥️

  • @cathyzhang2769
    @cathyzhang2769 5 років тому +288

    Men are failing those days. Most are numb, selfish, calculating and self protective....

    • @bananabreadtan4124
      @bananabreadtan4124 4 роки тому +29

      Many are hurting because of generational trauma. The church could be more compassionate like God & condescend to the brokenness of this current generation rather than saying "they're getting what they deserve, they've brought it on themselves"

    • @indakgalak
      @indakgalak 4 роки тому +16

      cathy zhang AMEN!!! So true!!! We need men with spines who are UNAFRAID to be MEN for GOD (NOT selves)... So much self-serving entitlement sissified men nowadays, they act more like little girls than women sometimes... I think it’s one of the ways Satan is destroying our society - by sissifying men and turning into girlish behaviors...

    • @ceilconstante7813
      @ceilconstante7813 4 роки тому +36

      But many women have taken advantage of good men.

    • @mirandabri834
      @mirandabri834 4 роки тому +7

      @@indakgalak ..... You are Correct Sir and I have Noticed this as well when I go out shopping with my wife (which is Rarely) but during this past Christmas season I see a ton of so called "men" that by their Actions alone they acted more like little sissy women without any Backbone than I seen real men by Farrrrr!! Sad to say but this Homosexuals thing is taking all these what would be men over......

    • @AmadeuShinChan
      @AmadeuShinChan 4 роки тому +4

      [ only because women shave their hair from even the part from the nose below to the upper lip, does not make the fact that they are overly-masculine go away too, does it? This bad men, bad women bashing is not going to get us any where, and i can agree, being numb, selfish, calculating and self protecting after having been beaten while handcuffed and force-medicated with no consequences for the perpetrators. I should not have clicked on the video, because, it is clear a woman feels triggered, when a man brings up that she is the weaker sex, i donot do this, i think a woman is in a way the stronger sex, it is scientific fact, that she can endure more pain that she has when birthing a child, and the fact, that she has the capacity to bring a child to life is beyond my comprehension. However, the new age is dangerous and to let it not take over traditional gender roles would us do no harm. I believe that god is just and we get what we deserve in the end. I hope, that we can learn to love one another unconditionally, because we are all sinners in a way or another. I forgive those who beat me in Jesus name. and ps: perhaps so should you, forgive those, who are not the way, as you would want them to be. ]

  • @yolandacarter6070
    @yolandacarter6070 6 років тому +3

    I enjoyed this message.

  • @nellyjones3132
    @nellyjones3132 4 роки тому +5

    Powerful!

  • @ethanaverton7287
    @ethanaverton7287 Рік тому

    Lots of growing to do for me in this -- absolutely love this sermon.

  • @maicomanagement9991
    @maicomanagement9991 4 роки тому +6

    The realest thing I’ve seen on UA-cam!

  • @LordKaydenBreak
    @LordKaydenBreak 4 роки тому +4

    Beautiful

  • @tangymvids2000
    @tangymvids2000 6 років тому +2

    The best 4 mins of my life so far :)

  • @gracepeacenow8
    @gracepeacenow8 3 роки тому +1

    This is a great video Amen!

  • @joaomaliska7604
    @joaomaliska7604 7 років тому +36

    So many trues in 4 minutes!

  • @renepicaso8519
    @renepicaso8519 Рік тому

    Wow Amen Pastor 🖐️ powerful message 🙏 thanks for sharing the gospel

  • @PrinceJes
    @PrinceJes 5 років тому +2

    Such beautiful words

  • @estherfadoju6771
    @estherfadoju6771 6 років тому +2

    I love this message it is godly

  • @TheLychie
    @TheLychie 4 роки тому

    i love the use of technology during his sermons! thats awesome. helps in engaging the congregation in a different way

  • @albemac9730
    @albemac9730 4 роки тому +1

    Woooooow!! And let the church say,"AMEN!!!"

  • @myra-lensiano1652
    @myra-lensiano1652 4 роки тому +2

    Praying for this kind of man. 🙏

  • @L.A.Roberts
    @L.A.Roberts 4 роки тому

    This was beautiful to hear.

  • @Beautiful2219
    @Beautiful2219 4 роки тому

    This is Beautiful 🙏🏽💕

  • @iamloved7758
    @iamloved7758 4 роки тому +2

    Omg. I like when he said be tender, gentle ,kind & protective of her🤗.

    • @iamloved7758
      @iamloved7758 4 роки тому

      @Puking Dino it's oh my gosh FYI

    • @iamloved7758
      @iamloved7758 4 роки тому

      @Puking Dino I don't take the Lord's name in vain thank you!😇

    • @iamloved7758
      @iamloved7758 4 роки тому

      @Puking Dino well I appreciate you correcting me. I've been under a rock for quite some year's I apologize

    • @iamloved7758
      @iamloved7758 4 роки тому

      @Puking Dino well it's a good thing I pray for forgiveness of my sin & transgressions knowingly committed & unknowingly committed every night.

  • @oar-N-oasis
    @oar-N-oasis 3 роки тому

    Thank you sir.. I will teach this to my son.

  • @sumisandra6864
    @sumisandra6864 4 роки тому +1

    Really great message

  • @sarahkhan2765
    @sarahkhan2765 4 роки тому

    God Bless this man

  • @TheCreepypro
    @TheCreepypro Рік тому +1

    teach us to love Lord so we may love you better and our loved ones

  • @Flo-zb8pw
    @Flo-zb8pw 4 роки тому +1

    ❤ beautiful & so true ❤

  • @ongmugracelepcha5440
    @ongmugracelepcha5440 4 роки тому

    So blessed

  • @dmt0430
    @dmt0430 3 місяці тому

    I appreciate this talk.

  • @ivettedizon7020
    @ivettedizon7020 7 років тому +9

    PREACHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH JOHN!!!

  • @marlstarl8791
    @marlstarl8791 5 років тому +8

    As a single woman, this feels really good to hear. :) In my opinion, this protective way of honouring is especially important, because women have a greater yearning of feeling safe, and so if I imagine that I could trust someone to attempt to protect me, it would make me have a lot more trust in that person.

  • @winsomelorainepeter6773
    @winsomelorainepeter6773 4 роки тому +7

    How absolutely beautiful to hear this wise man share this! I feel so encouraged listening to this message. I am single-never married and no kids. My desire and dream is to marry someone like this - a man who honors God and who can honor me, as his wife. This contributes to a beautiful relationship. But women too should honor their husbands in their attitude towards them-we should also treat them with respect-being loving and caring. May God bless this speaker for sharing such a beautiful message!

    • @hawk6143
      @hawk6143 4 роки тому

      Yep,that or die single for me

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 4 роки тому +1

      @@hawk6143
      This is how Piper and co maliciously keep women away from marriage by raising the bar for men in such an unscriptural way . Women made for and because of man kept away from marriage ! . So fornication can go full swing (to avoid sexual immorality , let every man have his wife (...) )
      Good job Satan.

  • @Predatoryt7
    @Predatoryt7 3 роки тому

    may God bless you sir and give you a healthy long life ♥️
    I love you my lord GOD Abba father,Jesus and Holyspirit ♥️

  • @christinan005
    @christinan005 7 років тому +76

    I wish my husband did this. For me

    • @katk8285
      @katk8285 7 років тому +27

      Christina N. pray about it gal. If you want some inspiration maybe check out the movie 'war room' it really blessed me. Pray for your husband. Pray for Jesus to change both of you to be better spouses to one another ❤️ I pray God blesses and anoints your marriage sis xxoo

    • @christianone6611
      @christianone6611 4 роки тому

      @@katk8285 Oh, I love that movie. It helped me so much.

    • @jonathonnielsen4078
      @jonathonnielsen4078 4 роки тому +2

      What about communication with your spouse, I may not be married, but as a college student I am learning that communication is super important in any relationship. And you don't really get what you want through lack of communication... I hope you and your husband have figured it out by know. But I will still be praying for you

    • @movingon2081
      @movingon2081 4 роки тому +1

      @@jonathonnielsen4078 hunny sometimes you can communicate clearly and precisely and speak the same language if a person is determined to misunderstand you because they don't want to fix the situation then there is nothing you can do

    • @ulti8106
      @ulti8106 4 роки тому +1

      @@jonathonnielsen4078 i disagree beliefs are the cause of conflicts communication is subjective my example would be if both fear God and want to abide by his rules to please him and show him love back they will both have a successful marriage they made disagree where the couch goes but it won't matter in the end there communication will become God which is the supreme moral law in this earth

  • @stephaniegallantYT
    @stephaniegallantYT 4 роки тому +1

    God bless him

  • @jquron1373
    @jquron1373 4 роки тому

    This is good!

  • @mihaela883
    @mihaela883 4 роки тому

    Thank you 💗

  • @paolojuangiuffre6925
    @paolojuangiuffre6925 6 років тому +2

    That's wisdom

  • @anthonianas1
    @anthonianas1 4 роки тому

    Yes sir truely God bless you

  • @ebereokpara1400
    @ebereokpara1400 4 роки тому +2

    And I do believe God for a man who would understand his role( honour and love) to me as a wife as I would (respect and love) to him.

  • @margaretdrake9012
    @margaretdrake9012 5 років тому +1

    EXCELLENT!!!

  • @trentonshepherd3621
    @trentonshepherd3621 3 роки тому

    GOD BLESS EVERYONE

  • @vggv1394
    @vggv1394 4 роки тому

    Excellent!!!!🙏

  • @maryanntexas52
    @maryanntexas52 4 роки тому

    Thank you 😊

  • @davidthomspson9771
    @davidthomspson9771 6 років тому +1

    You honor the one you love.Just as we honor God.

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 3 роки тому +1

      @ David Thompson
      You honour someone worthy of honour ! Not a disgraceful wife.
      Proverbs 31 man honours and even praises his wife because she is worth it.
      But you cannot honour a Vashti .

  • @susancarter3864
    @susancarter3864 4 роки тому +6

    Ephesians 5:25 Husbands love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and (gave himself for it,
    5:28 So ought men to love their wives as ( their own bodies).

    • @framboise595
      @framboise595 4 роки тому +1

      @ Susan Carter
      As their own bodies ? What for ? They don't even have sex with their wives ! How does this make sense ?

    • @susancarter3864
      @susancarter3864 4 роки тому +2

      Isabelle M , You just came here to mock Gods Holy Words, sorry for you, the wicked ones have you blinded.

  • @daboys7983
    @daboys7983 4 роки тому

    This is beautiful 😍♥️😩