POV: ditch my clothes with me
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As a lawyer I cant tell you how much I appreciated you explaining that you bought a dress covered in crabs in order to look formal.
😂😂😂
I also sewed some blouses when i began to work. One has foxes on it, the other one is also very colorful :D
I'm just imagining a lawyer striding into a courtroom with a suit covered in tiger faces like "and what?"
"I am too busy to babysit this dress while I wear it" OH FUCK
THAT'S INCREDIBLY RELATABLE
WHY DO I OWN CLOTHES THAT NEED SUPERVISION
haha exactly my sentiment - we're not about that supervision life!
DUDE. This is a revelation 🙌
Best thing I ever did is get rid of clothes I need to supervise. I no longer own button down shirts or wrap skirts for this reason.
"because this isn't in style, it can never go out of style" ICONIC words to live by
"Clothes...I can't just give them up, it's illegal to be naked". The level of casualness that this was said with made me chuckle.
"a dominant hobbit" -- an aesthetic we all need to cultivate.
haha, there's definitely a capsule wardrobe in that !
I snorted when she said that, so good :D
Literally my aim in life :,)
my issue with clothes i no longer wear, is that instead getting rid of them I tend to hoard them as pyjamas so the clutter never really disappears
Same. I’m 33 and I have T-shirts from when I was 15 that I keep as possible jammies but have never actually worn them
Same here! Or clothes to paint in when I inevitably move house.
Yes!! I have a whole drawer of pj's just because I don't want to just throw things out...
rescuing all the stray thrift items 🙏🏻 I tend to feel the same but yes it’s a good reminder that, while saving items from the landfill is great, it’s also ideal for these pieces to be well-worn and loved rather than hiding in a corner of our closet lmao
Hey tiff! Fancy meeting you here. ❤️
I feel the same feeling for clothes and stuffed animals😂
With so many people flipping thrifted items as a side hustle, unless your taste is so unique or esoteric or whatever, it's likely someone else will buy it.
Amen! There's a fine line between rescue and hoarding, and I am constantly falling off that tightrope! :)
UGHHHHH so true! I feel guilt at re-donating cool thrift items that I NEVER wear. I just donated a bunch to a fund raiser yard sale though!
"I'll give MYSELF compliments - in a different t-shirt"
Now that's the energy I need to be bringing into this new era of unlockdown.
‘I’m too busy to babysit this dress while I wear it’ was such a mind changing statement for me, like hell yea the dress is the problem not my body, seeing the dress as bad rather than me as bad is the mindset I want to have!
“I had to wear very formal clothes for two weeks”
*Wears a crabs dress because why wouldn’t that be formal*
I love it 😂😂😂
"If I can't bend and snap in it, it's not staying" is actually a standard that would work perfectly for me, so thank you for that!
I appreciate you saying: "just because I get rid of [fan tee shirt] doesn't mean my interest in it is diminished" because I have a ton of fandom tees that I just don't wear but can't bear to get rid of
Same here! I'm planning to make a quilt from them. So hopefully I can re-use and still enjoy them that way.
That black dress/gown looks gorgeous on you! I applaud you for wanting to get rid of anything that you won't be wearing in the next few months. BUT! That being said, as someone who works retail, I have seen too many folks panic at trying to find a formal and flattering black dress under a time crunch. Having that in your closet will mean you're always ready for surprise formal events that come up on your calendar quickly and then you won't need to go out and buy one that might not feel as empowering.
You could totally wear that black wrap dress with statement earrings but practical shoes, like birkenstocks, and go for "someones funky aunt reading in her garden" vibes
You've just created a new section of my wardrobe.
'does anybody's heart just sink at the sight of a basic even though you kind of know that every now and then you do need a basic' I have never felt so seen in my life
saaame
It's like eating your veg, sometimes you got to guzzle some broccili
this is very funny because basics are my absolute favourite and i love to wear them, and i also really love broccoli
My god yes my “basics” are literally any garment in a solid colour because I can’t stand any actual basic colours/cuts
@@clairextreme You are one of the special kind then :)
That black dress you feel is too grand is perfect though? Wap on a colourful fabric headband, some statement earrings and either some sandals or some colourful Doc Martens and you’re good to go any day any time
"thought her tastes were permanent" applies to my wardrobe and my past relationships
For that blue dress with the missing button, you can move the top button down and either leave it without a top button or add a statement button at the top. It would probably be easier than changing the neckline
She could also just change all 3 buttons. I don't think it will be that hard to find a style she likes.
"It's illegal to be naked and I do need to consume food". I feel I need this on a jumper. Or several jumpers all slightly different but really the same
How dare you come into my home telling me that other declutter vid was 4 years ago
Haha I know what even is TIME
😂🤣😅
Maybe one of the biggest adult lessons of my 30’s has been understanding and accepting that liking a thing (clothes, art, etc), does not mean it’s my style or fits my lifestyle. RIP clubbing dresses, LBD, excessively high heels (so we see a theme?)
How you feel about second-hand clothes is how I feel about plants for sale outside supermarkets (dunno if that's a thing over there, though.) Like, I know I have twelve other ferns, but if I see a sickly one outside a store that I know will just be tossed out at the end of the day like garbage, then I'm about to have thirteen ferns.
Cute
This is the reason i have so many sad supermarket cacti
“This will only fit me when I’m dead”
Actually had me cackle
In the sewing community people often say that their first hobby is sewing and their second and third hobbies are collecting fabric and collecting patterns. It's a truth.
Please, why did you have to remind me of my fabric collection 😲
And then sitting in front of a fabric that you had for 10 years, not able to give it away because surely the perfect pattern or idea will soon cross your mind. Even though this clearly did not happen in the past. 🙇
It's weird how we have entirely different tastes, as in I would have done the exact opposite of you on most items, yet every time you made a decision it felt absolutely right. The clothes you loved just gave you such a happy vibe it completely overcame my own fashion ideas.
Keeping some of your most loved pieces by your side while clearing out and putting them on periodically to remind yourself what an actually loved piece feels like is something I have discovered some time ago, and it WORKS LIKE MAGIC. I often get caught up and can't distiguish what isn't my style anymore when clearing out some beloved pieces from the past, and this is always so helpful!
Like smelling coffees in between perfume! It clears your nostrils - here, your mind. :D
this really hits the niche of fashion of "unicorn barfed on you" aesthetic, which is my aesthetic in a world of neutrals, beiges and singular pop of colour
Oh man. That unicorn top. My heart almost stopped. I found my spirit animal in a top. Down with beiges and neutrals and long live the colours
omg I freaking love the logic of it was never in style so it can't go out of style
I'm Floridian and your fancy presenter dress is absolutely something you could wear every day where I live. People here wear that kind of thing to art fairs, on dates to restaurants and even grocery shopping. Definitely recommend some flat sandals for super casual looks with fun earrings and maybe bangles
Me, a minimalist who fond of basic clothes and colours, watching Leena getting rid of almost every usual or/and black piece: "So boring, so pathetic, throw it away"
But then you can snag them from her! Lol
The dyed jumpsuit reminds me of lettuce in the best possible way
That dyed lime green jumpsuit is stunning on you. Massive improvement. Edit: Can't get over how good it looks with your coloring. Absolutely beautiful with your brown hair and eyes.
It makes her look like a tinker fairy! In the best way possible
The Rita Skeeter skirt is such a CLASSIC. Had forgotten about the red floral skirt, but glad it's found a nice home. :D
haha it's also fun seeing my grey polo neck on you in videos, the lost pups have found new homes! x
@@leenanorms I LOVE that top. Excellent swapping work.
I owned the same red floral skirt! I had completely forgotten about it but seeing Leena reminded me that I wore it on my honeymoon in Italy. We walked around Milan all day in the sun, ate gelato and drank beer. It's our five year anniversary next month :) I hope my skirt brings whoever it went to in a clothing swap as much joy as it brings Leena!
My clothing issues include adding every t shirt and jumper I don't wear to my "sleepwear" collection and still not wearing them because they were never comfy and tie dying everything badly and not wanting it anymore but feeling attached because I paid for the dye
Why you gotta roast me like that?!😂
This comment speaks to my very soul. I do the same exact thing!
Gah yes I don’t need my 27 bed t-shirts and yet.... there they are, making my drawer not quite close
I got up ready to vote, put this on over breakfast and now I'm up to my ears in black crop tops and clothes I bought for job interviews I never had
haha good luck with your clear out, and congrats on voting!
Oooh yes! The "might need this for a formal job interview" clothes are the worst! Like, I hate classic button up shirts (esp. in white) and blazers. Why can't I let them go?!? Hope it went better for you!💕
"I feel like I'm about to mount Richard Gere" is not a vibe any of my clothes give off, damn it...
i LOVE that leenas idea of "looking formal" for business situations is wearing a dress that has yellow tigers all over it :D :D
Me watching you keeping your grandma's dress while wearing my grandma's dress from her 20's.
You being sad about having to keep basics is honestly so relatable
I haven't even noticed the thing with the sheering on the long blue dress. I think that shows that we overthink a lot when in fact ppl don't even notice that much. You look stunning in it 😍
I love that leena's videos cater to the viewers with bad attention spans: the clever zooms, stock video footage, fun images on screen. It makes watching these videos a joy (and most likely ups the viewer retention which the algorithm overlords should love! :D)
Also! When she does outfit changes in videos (e.g. The Women's Prize Longlist video) that fit the theme of what she's talking about it bring me so much joy.
For the blouse missing a button- just change all 3 buttons! Gives new life to the blouse also so you’re excited to wear it ☺️ Fab video I feel so inspired
you know what? i'm gonna go put on a fancy blazer right now because life is too short to "save" fancy clothes for "the right occasion" . and also it might help me focus on work if i feel like an important person rather than an exasperated student stuck at home
I'm the exact same! I thought if I can wear my nice skirt, I would go after my uni deadline easily yet I'm watching this video! haha
I started wearing make up and nice clothes to do my research,take classes, etc. last year, and it helps motivation even if you don't get out of your house for several days (my case since last year bc third world country Covid sucks). Do it! Also care for your clothes! Just frolicking around in socks and heels feels good too 💕
"It was never in style so it's never going out of style" is my new life motto
The blue --> green jumpsuit transformation is incredible! 😍
“I’m British so I need a lot of jumpers”
/shows exactly two jumpers
I laughed in Canadian
That black jumpsuit Lena kept is EVERYTHING I will now hunt through every thrift store for something like it
“Is this against everything I believe in?” Literally exactly how I feel about basics. Does my plain black long sleeved top spark any joy? No. Will I eventually need it? Absolutely.
Also,, hear me out: that fancy black dress with a funky printed mesh top underneath,,,,, that’s it.
I think it's fine if you have certain items you only wear for some occasions (like the glitter top),as long as you do wear it for the occasions.
I'm starting a petition for the redistribution of your awesomeness. One person just can't be allowed to have so much of it, it's barbaric.
Got weirdly excited to see you get rid of the t shirt I've now aquired from gumption wardrobe. I'll treat it well!
haha aw I hope you're both happy together!
Omg the change of the jumpsuit from blue to green 😳 Looks so good on you!
With the black spotty top that has a tight bottom: If you have the time you could unpick/ cut off the bottom and attach elastic the bottom instead! There are plenty of tutorials online with different ways to add elastic to skirts which will work for the bottom of a top. I'm currently going through loads of my old clothes and reworking them so I have cool new items!
oooo that's a good point, I'll have a look and see if it's easy to unpick and if there's enough fabric.
I really needed to hear “mustard is not a depleting resource”. I’m just terrified that my favourite colour will soon go out of fashion. Mustard looks great on EVERYONE
haha I know, I think it's around to stay, if not in the shops, at least on depop!
That's quite funny since mustard doesn't suit me at all:D
Which mustard, French's yellow or Dijon yellow brown?
The yellow brown doesn't look good on me
Kathy B
Anything yellow toned makes me look like i have jaundice
Well, all yellows, oranges and corals are off for me, give my skin that sickly green hue, so I'm not fond of mustard colored clothes, but yeah, mustard is great, best sauce ever for meats🤣
I audibly gasped when I saw the black dress on you. that dress looked stunning and it made you look so classy and sophisticated. I think it would look great with colorful sandals. nothing wrong with looking like you're buying groceries on your way home from an award show.
absolutely love you Leena
"because this isn't in style it can never go out of style" is something I live by
that blue velvet dress is literally gorgeous on you!! that is your colour 100%
‘Mustard is not a depleting resource’ 😂 I need to think more like you, I’ve definitely got so many clothes that I just like the colour of or the idea of but never ever wear
Dyeing the jumpsuit green turned out AMAZING! My jaw dropped!
that thing about giving a home to clothes you find in charity shop hit close to me. if I find a nice piece that I really like but it's not in my size, I put it nicely on display in the hopes that somebody with my style and the right size can pick it up and take it home ... And I'm not quite sure if I do it to be nice to the next person or actually just to make sure that piece of clothing finds a home 😂😂
I love that you actually got rid of stuff lol I hate watching these and the person says "I never wear this but I'm keeping it." I need to be inspired to take a realistic look at my wardrobe
Would love to hear some tips about charity shop shopping. I find it super overwhelming and always leave without finding anything - but would love to shop secondhand more often.
Aw that's a good shout - I have a video coming up on depop tips, but maybe after covid I'll do something about encouraging people back in to the charity shops!
Especially in pandemic times but also before I shop almost exclusively on Vinted. It feels like shopping on asos or zalando, in the sense that you can filter by all sorts of categories and hunt for something, or just scroll down the homepage
I know this was posted more than a year ago but top tip on missing buttons for clothes you really love otherwise: just buy new buttons and switch out all of them on your dress. You can keep the existing buttons in a little jar for future sewing projects!
Good lord, this video has been the most relevant and helpful closet decluttering video I've seen, possibly ever. Many of your thoughts and justifications truly resonate with me and many of the semi-neurotic reasons I hold on to the clothes I never wear lol. Hearing someone else going through the same thought processes and still sucking it up and letting go is liberating. Thank you 💜💜💜
An idea with fancy clothes is to wear them for sit down videos. That way you get to feel pretty and dressed up but still comfortable. So many of your dresses had really cute top halves!
I find myself rooting for clothes and then you get rid of the items then I’m heartbroken. Thank god I’m in the gumption club :)
This has been WONDERFUL
I am in the midst of slowly working through my wardrobe and removing the many, many items that no longer fit me.
I've been guilty of keeping so much of it, thinking I can tailor it or make something new. But realistically, like you said, much of it is well beyond my seamstress abilities.
I'm allowing myself to keep a handful of items I really love that I believe I can revive, and the rest is going back into the world.
OK I have to know where that perfect tank top is from though 👀
Saaaaame PLEASE
Yes please!
Lol literally was creeping the comments to find the answer...... HELP US LEENA
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Already that stock footage use at 0:33 is just delighting me haha. Your videos always manage to be equal parts thought-provoking and incredibly entertaining 💫
20:04 looove the green jumpsuit!!! so much better than baby blue
No chance expressing how much I love the fact that you kept the playing dress up dress 🥰 we used to have a very old chest with stuff like this. I kept an elegant purse of my grandma.
There is no age limit on clothes! You're never "too old" to wear a style you love!
Your amazing commentary on the clothes makes this probably the best wardrobe clear-out I've seen, love it!
That book dress is glorious. So outside my comfort zone but I kind of want it.
Positive redirect: instead of 'camp leader', the shorts give me Dr. Ellie Sattler (Laura Dern in Jurassic Park) vibes, and she's badass :)
the dying of that dress is so great! love going through clothes in this way so thanks for sharing your process!
Everytime I have to pause and then look back at the video Leena looks really pretty. That's really hard to have happen for most people. I think it's her energy.
Yessssss my favourite Leena video returns! I rewatch the old Chuck Out Your Clothes With Me whenever I get existential about clothes.
all your clothes are pretty, but the shirt-dress with books all over has to be one of my favourites, it looks so lovely on you too
doing this along with you; it’s so comforting to be going thru the same existential crises with every decision ;)
That newly green jumpsuit is divine!! This vid is motivating me to go through my closet too (thank you!)
that blue velvet dress! It looks bloody brill on you and is so lovely!
Roll up them sleeves Leena!! Turn that baby from an awkward sleeve to a perfect sleeve x
been meaning to do a proper clear out for ages but never felt i had the time/mental energy and this has really given me the motivation to do it in a healthier way
Wow perfect timing! I started this process two days ago. This video is the perfect motivation to go finish!!
can't believe the last clothes purge was FOUR YEARS ago. this made me properly laugh many times, ty leena
Such a fun video! You've inspired me to go through my wardrobe.
The jumpsuit that was baby blue and now is green - GENIUS! The new colour looks a million times better on you!
oh i'm glad you mentioned the fear of needing clothes and somehow not having access to clothes hence stocking up in advance. i feel like while the pandemic has allowed me to streamline certain aspects of life...it's made me worse about clothes because i'm hyperaware of any changes in my body (minor or major) and this in turn causes me to fixate on fit and comfort and presentability. at one point i bought two pairs of the same kind of pant in two different sizes "just in case," even though this was arguably not necessary. i also bought dress pants (??) for whenever we go outside again and need to wear pants that aren't flowy linen or sweatpants. that was six months ago and i have not worn them once. definitely going to go through the closet soon and donate things or give them to friends.
that blue velvet dress is stunning !!!!!
omg the green dye is so pretty!
I used to wear a Lucy and yak tie dye boilersuit when I was a teaching assistant- I can confirm they’re great for working in a school
i LOVE your grandmas dress. what a treasure!
Dyeing the blue green was THE RIGHT CHOICE !!!!!!!!
omg my dress up box growing up was exactly the same! I actually started wearing a lot of them in high school when I got into vintage clothes!
Same here in germany!
Thank you for validating my sage green leather blazer I can't part with -- in the most eloquent way! Yay for dominant hobbits!!
Thank you Leena! I have all of these tendencies. Watching your videos is so helpful. Thank you!
Great video Leena! I did something very similar a few weeks back and found it so empowering to just get rid of the extra baggage of clothes that might fit again, or I might wear again, when they just aren't me anymore! Great chance to take stock of what's left and dive straight back onto depop and fill the gaps for me 😅
Well done on your clear out, I did something similar over the bank holiday weekend and I wish I had held as positive a mindset as you did through this.
Amazing idea to dye the jump suit - green looks really good on you. Will be stealing this idea for my next closet clear out. :)