EP 17 | Xoli Mfeka on being raised by strict grandparents to finding herself working as a P@RN$T@R

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  • @GhostedLadyMzansi
    @GhostedLadyMzansi 10 місяців тому +31

    Xoli is so well spoken and humble,love her so much ❤

  • @winnie_thandeka
    @winnie_thandeka 9 місяців тому +24

    Xoli is such a polite person. Nothing like what I hear on Twitter about her. Beautiful and down to earth ❤️

  • @ThelifeofTuupsi
    @ThelifeofTuupsi 10 місяців тому +27

    Madam speaker soooo pretty with that hair❤❤❤❤

  • @writingpad7142
    @writingpad7142 8 місяців тому +36

    I respect that people like speaking their language, but it is frustrating when u want to watch but can't because you won't understand. 😢

  • @PatienceMkhabela-n3y
    @PatienceMkhabela-n3y 10 місяців тому +27

    She's so humble & honest..thanks for the interview Madam speaker💐 keep up it

  • @MalemeTau
    @MalemeTau 8 місяців тому +5

    I also like that she is so humble, u can she has being listening to the elders during her childhood

  • @xoliswakali15
    @xoliswakali15 9 місяців тому +12

    I understand what it feels like to think that you did the right things but you don't get what you desire in life. Ngathi 'what is the point'? As much as the Bible says that we should not envy the success of the wicked. Kunzima nje. But ke, Xoli sounds like a great soul❤️

    • @tondaniraluswinga2590
      @tondaniraluswinga2590 5 місяців тому +1

      I love this comment. Look at it more as there is no benefit to succeed through wicked ways. It always comes back to you. So there really is no need to envy.

  • @tumi2610
    @tumi2610 10 місяців тому +10

    Thank you for the interview. Definetly gave a different perspectiv. Alot of lessons parents can take from this interview.

  • @Leratolekola
    @Leratolekola 10 місяців тому +8

    She's so down to earth bethuna❤️🙌 Keep on doing you Girl,Life is not easy yoh.

  • @precyious.8334
    @precyious.8334 9 місяців тому +7

    I agree with Madam speaker I also have two kids whom I looove soo much but sometimes i really feel like they limited my growth somehow bcoz of he mch I love the ngiyaziyekelela mina and always think of them

  • @abrinaRinamak
    @abrinaRinamak 10 місяців тому +25

    Xoli is so down to earth.

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker  10 місяців тому +3

      She really is hey❤❤

    • @Mbaliye2
      @Mbaliye2 10 місяців тому +3

      Yeah that’s true 😊❤

  • @Salphina-h
    @Salphina-h 9 місяців тому +11

    I know you have tried and did well with this woman, but I pray the Lord would save her. Genuinely she has being through the most and she is a great person. Jesus should touch her heart and transform her.

  • @Princess_Lehlohonolo
    @Princess_Lehlohonolo 10 місяців тому +45

    ❤I appreciate strict parents
    My late mom was strict AF got beatings for coming home from primary school with dusty shoes.
    However she built a bestfriendship with me.when I passed grade 9 she allowed me to get a tattoo anywhere except my face and tramp-stamp. She would take me out on dates give me a glass of wine etc
    Oh man RIP MOM I miss u so much I wish u could see ur grandchild and how beautiful ur home is❤

    • @botsasemele2620
      @botsasemele2620 10 місяців тому +4

      Mum sees her grandchild, she still sees you, just in different sight....heavenly sight...she is peaceful that you kept her home beautiful, that you are still a great daughter even in her physical absence...Be comforted❤

    • @Princess_Lehlohonolo
      @Princess_Lehlohonolo 10 місяців тому +2

      @botsasemele2620 😊oh man ,thank you💕

    • @duffydon1741
      @duffydon1741 9 місяців тому +2

      @Ameerah, if you still use lingo such as, AF, she wasn’t strict enough!!

    • @Sunshine.1835
      @Sunshine.1835 9 місяців тому +1

      Just like my Mom🕊🥰

    • @Princess_Lehlohonolo
      @Princess_Lehlohonolo 9 місяців тому +1

      @@Sunshine.1835 look at us now ,who would have thought

  • @zamantambomahlangu6167
    @zamantambomahlangu6167 10 місяців тому +56

    Not Xoli saying “angisagivi ama fucki manje” 😅 I liked that

  • @beeyoutiful4086
    @beeyoutiful4086 10 місяців тому +10

    @40:50 I felt that because that's how my parents have been towards me🥺 and not that I hate kids, I love them but having my own challenges my thoughts

  • @Ntsengeleni
    @Ntsengeleni 9 місяців тому +8

    In this life you need to be content with what you have

    • @zamambhele242
      @zamambhele242 9 місяців тому +1

      Aw no people of today they are never content 😢

  • @shirleythandiweluvuno5908
    @shirleythandiweluvuno5908 9 місяців тому +1

    The love I have for madam speaker ♥️

  • @zamambhele242
    @zamambhele242 9 місяців тому +8

    Ay todays kids nje are not ok, we all grew up struggling to go to universities some of us dropped out and persevered kumarestaurants and we finally made it in life,
    Manje laba they want into esheshayo, they lack basic teachings like patience and being accepting of ur situation with the belief that things will work out eventually and this life yabo they lying that it’s easy money and they don care, it comes with a lot of heartaches , mental issues kuningi nje it’s a shame nje that most young girls are looking up to them 😢 and think it’s ok

  • @AmandaMdhluli-i9p
    @AmandaMdhluli-i9p 10 місяців тому +2

    I enjoy her interviews miss Xolie ❤

  • @nethavhanialuwani
    @nethavhanialuwani 10 місяців тому +8

    I love xoli mfeka bafethu

  • @gugulethukunene8266
    @gugulethukunene8266 8 місяців тому +3

    Madam speaker umhle ❤❤❤

  • @ntombifikilemdukulwana9725
    @ntombifikilemdukulwana9725 10 місяців тому +3

    I love Xoli❤️

  • @temosomafane4349
    @temosomafane4349 10 місяців тому +3

    I really enjoyed this episode ❤❤

  • @CeciliaCindy-s2q
    @CeciliaCindy-s2q 5 місяців тому

    I love Xoli she is so humble ❤❤❤

  • @iris1896
    @iris1896 10 місяців тому +8

    Ewuuu waze wamuhle for ledodi layentako...live libolile struu!

  • @tinyikonkuna1479
    @tinyikonkuna1479 8 місяців тому +3

    😢let’s just talk about madam speaker man ❤such an intellect.

  • @XolisileMfeka
    @XolisileMfeka 9 місяців тому +5

    ❤❤

  • @bridgetmothomoholo4514
    @bridgetmothomoholo4514 10 місяців тому +8

    I really can’t wait for this episode 😂 there’s a lot I wanna know about Sis’Xoli❤❤

  • @lihavileah3054
    @lihavileah3054 10 місяців тому +18

    now I get mad when I'm ready to grasp a serious point then she emphasizes in the local dialect,madam speaker,you know we kenyans already take you as one of our own.long story short, I'd love more english even though I understand how it slaps when emphasizing a point in mother tongue 😂😂😂

    • @phililemosia6956
      @phililemosia6956 10 місяців тому +1

      I also follow a lot of kenyan you tubers , I hv learned to Google Swahili and slowly getting there btbi understand u.

    • @kgomotsobetty2163
      @kgomotsobetty2163 10 місяців тому

      We also listen to Kenya’s mother tongue 😂😂😂😂😂 and we somehow understand

  • @nompumelolo
    @nompumelolo 10 місяців тому +29

    She's too good for this lifestyle. Jesus loves you Xoli. He doesn't judge nor condemn sexual sin or any kind of sin.
    Great interview

    • @proudlyunvaccinated7911
      @proudlyunvaccinated7911 9 місяців тому +7

      Haibo which Jesus? You are definitely not talking about the Jesus of the bible😮 qala uyiva ngawe sana yhoooo sisi

    • @tsviehltheprnciple6582
      @tsviehltheprnciple6582 9 місяців тому

      Unbelievable 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @mathapelotheka
      @mathapelotheka 9 місяців тому +5

      He does condemn it😮why do we want to change Jesus to accommodate our sins??

    • @lizavellem4193
      @lizavellem4193 5 місяців тому

      Bra was like, not my Lord and Savior sana lol​@@proudlyunvaccinated7911

    • @ngwanaJeso
      @ngwanaJeso 4 місяці тому

  • @phumeleletanda1402
    @phumeleletanda1402 10 місяців тому +17

    jiki jiki, heavy heavy caught me off guard.😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ZolaNgemntu-v8t
    @ZolaNgemntu-v8t 10 місяців тому

    I love the exercise, what a very smart girl

  • @somethingthoughtful.3243
    @somethingthoughtful.3243 10 місяців тому +5

    come lets get married Xoli, come😊

  • @Simphiwesitoto
    @Simphiwesitoto 8 місяців тому +3

    Most of the devil whn want to win soul does close your ways so that don't see the existence of God but pasiveince is matter of success not to chose the wrong part the Lord always have good plans for us bcz the is judgement according wht we doing on earth

    • @constancefaithful1451
      @constancefaithful1451 8 місяців тому +1

      😢😢😢true,I have always done things by the book but izinto zam are going south

  • @phenomenalnefale7433
    @phenomenalnefale7433 10 місяців тому

    m not loaded but i love this lady.... i love you pls do tell her...

  • @duffydon1741
    @duffydon1741 9 місяців тому

    Madam speaker needs to join the club, she would be a great fit..

  • @joeltolamo4707
    @joeltolamo4707 Місяць тому

    Aowa sister, you must have kids. Your parents had you. Ba go tlogela yee😂😂.

  • @leratoseloma599
    @leratoseloma599 10 місяців тому +7

    Madam speaker please invite Barbie Brazil

  • @lisakhanyaannah1921
    @lisakhanyaannah1921 10 місяців тому +10

    She forgot about her audience when answering questions always answering in isiZulu...... Not bad though but not really interesting as i thought

  • @angelgumede1584
    @angelgumede1584 5 місяців тому

    I love her ❤❤❤smart Xoli

  • @NonsikeleloMthethwa-u8j
    @NonsikeleloMthethwa-u8j 8 місяців тому

    Yazi this is a story of my life❤

  • @MuziMakhunga
    @MuziMakhunga 2 місяці тому

    Kahle Kahle uXoli wuye engabe i presenter wena ube umahosha

  • @constancefaithful1451
    @constancefaithful1451 8 місяців тому +3

    26: 27 hit home,doing things by the book but things are not going well 😔 😟

  • @rebeccaberrish228
    @rebeccaberrish228 10 місяців тому +2

    Xoli beautiful sis❤ enjoyed enjoyed the interview

  • @ntshidisengtseetse3112
    @ntshidisengtseetse3112 10 місяців тому +7

    Lol she waited until it got to 30k first 1k am withdrawing that money 😂

  • @FreeAAtLast
    @FreeAAtLast 9 місяців тому +5

    Madam Speaker, how would you feel if your daughter get to be inspired by Xoli because of this interview? Or maybe this is meant for our daughters?

    • @Dimz7890
      @Dimz7890 8 місяців тому

      Good question

  • @SiyandaGajana-y9x
    @SiyandaGajana-y9x 6 місяців тому

    They can never make me to hate her❤❤

  • @xoliswamangali2082
    @xoliswamangali2082 8 місяців тому +2

    Muhle uXoli

  • @lindynkosi
    @lindynkosi 10 місяців тому +5

    I just love her❤

  • @kgomotsobetty2163
    @kgomotsobetty2163 10 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤ two beauties

  • @EleanorHozeh
    @EleanorHozeh 10 місяців тому +6

    Notification gang phakathi 🎉inside❤

  • @MmapiElizabeth
    @MmapiElizabeth 9 місяців тому +3

    Such a polite girl and she is vocal about being a Porn star if she is happy who are we to judge

  • @oramalatjindlovu1653
    @oramalatjindlovu1653 10 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful women ❤

  • @MUSA-i3k4t
    @MUSA-i3k4t 7 місяців тому +1

    cha ngamane ngilambe ngeke nje ngenze imali nge ndunu never ubaba wami angathini hay cha.

  • @mokubungntswaki4817
    @mokubungntswaki4817 10 місяців тому +5

    Ai same here shame i love my son but im thanks with having more soze ai ai 😩😩😩😩😩

  • @kagisowagaraphahla8502
    @kagisowagaraphahla8502 10 місяців тому +13

    She is so pretty 😊

  • @BridgetChiliza
    @BridgetChiliza 5 місяців тому

    Was waiting for the wandi beef question 😫

  • @trustingnobody628
    @trustingnobody628 10 місяців тому +8

    I am of the opinion that to be a sex worker is a different job! Maan, it's not nice to sleep even with one person in a work. Tjoooo! Hayi nistrong mankazana!

  • @mercymoloto2787
    @mercymoloto2787 10 місяців тому +38

    People date in Primary 🤥😶‍🌫️?

    • @mawethumbhele2218
      @mawethumbhele2218 10 місяців тому +22

      Yes just dating no sexual interaction .. jst kids being kids

    • @tintswalomabasa565
      @tintswalomabasa565 10 місяців тому +13

      I'm just like you, I don't understand how the primary school kids date

    • @thabangmalepe1663
      @thabangmalepe1663 10 місяців тому +1

      Yes some become sexually active. And it's because they matured early

    • @KGMdh
      @KGMdh 10 місяців тому +6

      Speak to your kids early and freely about purity be honest with your children because you are helping them.

    • @bongythwala9840
      @bongythwala9840 10 місяців тому

      ​@@tintswalomabasa565 it easy

  • @esteramadhila3438
    @esteramadhila3438 9 місяців тому +3

    English please madam speaker. We are not all south Africans

  • @NtombikayiseDahile-db1jm
    @NtombikayiseDahile-db1jm 10 місяців тому +6

    Phakathi phakathi inside🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @veekamatuka7575
    @veekamatuka7575 2 місяці тому

    I have to skip this due to language barrier 😓

  • @BaneleMancoba
    @BaneleMancoba 10 місяців тому

    Madam speaker, why don't you like the "I don't care Parr?

  • @AlexiaNdlovu
    @AlexiaNdlovu 10 місяців тому +4

    Now that she’s making money , she should go back to Unisa and study part-time…

    • @welheminahkgokgutsebane9635
      @welheminahkgokgutsebane9635 10 місяців тому +10

      How many people who acquired educational qualifications, but they aren't employed. Rather say she should invest in business. Not everyone is academic.

    • @Reitumetse-Love
      @Reitumetse-Love 6 місяців тому +1

      Bo mr and miss know it all😭

  • @manelisjersiaaquarius2730
    @manelisjersiaaquarius2730 10 місяців тому

    U're s so gorgeous African beauty❤🔥🔥

  • @Mally864-z
    @Mally864-z 10 місяців тому +2

    Please English

  • @gugulethu4155
    @gugulethu4155 9 місяців тому +6

    Xoli decided to take shortcut in life...lot of women that struggle but they dont sacrifice their integrity and dignity..
    Madam speaker herself most likely wouldnt like have a girl child doing sex work for a living

    • @zamambhele242
      @zamambhele242 9 місяців тому +1

      True it’s a shame a lot of young gals look up to this life style 😢

    • @triciakekana
      @triciakekana 8 місяців тому +1

      She's lazy honestly she should have continued with school. We were all struggling but we finished and graduated it's only this year I got a permanent job at Sars but never forgot where I come from and I am forever grateful to God for always having my back.

  • @adelaidesisasenkosi6361
    @adelaidesisasenkosi6361 9 місяців тому +3

    She so lazy to talk😢😂

    • @triciakekana
      @triciakekana 8 місяців тому

      I guess that's why she's doing g what she's doing

    • @aphiweK
      @aphiweK 8 місяців тому

      Yho ngath ndim 🤦‍♀️

  • @Savebygrace-it
    @Savebygrace-it 8 місяців тому +2

    Presenter your outfit is too much no dignity

  • @mashrohingya9397
    @mashrohingya9397 8 місяців тому

    Why is Xoli dressed like an older woman

  • @NurseLinDownUnder
    @NurseLinDownUnder Місяць тому

    She is her grandparents worst nightmare, an adult actress, a bi-sexual and what else! And she is such a lovely human being and I love it for her! Maybe if her grandparents weren’t so strict and allowed her to be herself she could’ve taken a different path (I’m not bashing her).🩷

  • @nompumelelobuthelezi7949
    @nompumelelobuthelezi7949 9 місяців тому

    I love Xoli❤