Being Authentic In A Filtered World | Rachel DeAlto | TEDxHartford

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  • Опубліковано 11 гру 2018
  • We filter how we are seen on social media. It gives an incorrect version of who we really are. How can we be self confident if we share a different version of who we really are? In a world where we wear a limitless number of masks, authenticity can be the difference between success and mediocrity. Relationship expert Rachel DeAlto reveals how her success was created and will share how you can connect with others and reach your professional potential through self-awareness, vulnerability, and confidence in being exactly who you are. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @suebakernottly
    @suebakernottly 4 роки тому +21

    This showed up in our group today, I wasn't going to watch it, and I am so glad I did. Yes those moments of kindness, I am going to write them down now.

    • @janetpannel
      @janetpannel 4 роки тому

      Thanks for sharing Sue, and oh yes this is good.

    • @dpesca
      @dpesca 4 роки тому

      Oh yeah Sue, thanks for sending too.

    • @margiesvanmori
      @margiesvanmori 2 роки тому

      I love that

  • @margiesvanmori
    @margiesvanmori 2 роки тому +4

    This is beautiful. It is so hard to stay true to the authentic self when there is so much social media influence. I deleted my instagram and Facebook and I have seen SO MUCH growth in how I feel about authenticity and joy in the present moment. Life is beautiful and meant to be lived fully. Not lived through a lense. You don't need the permission of viewers to enjoy your life

  • @michaelhunt635
    @michaelhunt635 4 роки тому +21

    “You can never be true to others, if you keep on lying to yourself.”
    ― Gift Gugu Mona

  • @timmymckinley
    @timmymckinley 4 роки тому +6

    Isn't this true, lately I have been hearing what I am saying about myself to others, always the golden version.

  • @josephtein3835
    @josephtein3835 Рік тому +1

    Really appreciate this lady's honesty and openness here. It's the best way to teach what she is saying. Thank you!

  • @celebrity_rooster7488
    @celebrity_rooster7488 3 роки тому +3

    Stay away from anyone who tells you "to succeed, you have to be fake".

  • @luizantoniomachado
    @luizantoniomachado 4 роки тому +5

    Now this moved me, a lot of authenticity here.

  • @akshaya2580
    @akshaya2580 5 років тому +5

    Need to hear for those who live in social media.

    • @margiesvanmori
      @margiesvanmori 2 роки тому +3

      I agree. I had to give up instagram and Facebook this year bc something about those platforms specifically disrupted so much authenticity. I found they were robbing me of being able to fully show up as my authentic self and I wanted to live life as fully present in the moment as I possibly can. Cheers and blessings to you!

  • @myfavoritestuff
    @myfavoritestuff 4 роки тому +9

    Wow she is telling my story, or lack of it. Really really true all of this.

  • @ponktiaddrita6274
    @ponktiaddrita6274 5 років тому +3

    I feel somehow relaxed to listen!
    Gives inspiration!
    Thank you.

  • @SummerBlake
    @SummerBlake 3 роки тому +3

    Yes. THIS. So much. I’ve been going through some deep realizations this week, and the desire to consciously move toward greater authenticity has been a huge part of what’s been occurring for me. This talk resonates powerfully. Thank you for sharing your journey and your insights.

    • @margiesvanmori
      @margiesvanmori 2 роки тому

      Even just the pursuit of showing up authentically in each moment is powerful stuff. blessings!

  • @jessedurham5312
    @jessedurham5312 4 роки тому +3

    This is a clever talk, very honest.

  • @annmerrychristmas
    @annmerrychristmas 4 роки тому +6

    One word - Authentic.

  • @pennyhooker
    @pennyhooker 4 роки тому

    Brilliant talk!!!

  • @bernicebailes9394
    @bernicebailes9394 4 роки тому +1

    I am not sure which mask to take off after watching this, good talk good subject.

  • @zacksuchodolska
    @zacksuchodolska 4 роки тому

    Smart presentation.

  • @dvendii
    @dvendii 3 роки тому

    Brilliant & authentic...

  • @ulisseditaque
    @ulisseditaque 4 роки тому

    Brilliant!!!

  • @mansiupadhyay711
    @mansiupadhyay711 2 роки тому

    Wisdom decked!

  • @tinatuvalle
    @tinatuvalle 4 роки тому +1

    I felt like you were talking about me and how I sugar coat everything.

  • @dariasotnykova
    @dariasotnykova 4 роки тому +1

    Good talk, explained me to me.

  • @phyllismknapp6038
    @phyllismknapp6038 4 роки тому

    I don't go in for all that authentic stuff, the new buzz word. But this is!!!

  • @jamiewilliams8107
    @jamiewilliams8107 Рік тому +1

    A lot ofpeople dont live their truth

  • @berkadsiz2905
    @berkadsiz2905 3 роки тому +5

    Dersten gelenler +1

  • @lisa-lio
    @lisa-lio 4 роки тому +1

    Yeah thats me the filter queen, lol.

  • @berkadsiz2905
    @berkadsiz2905 3 роки тому +1

    Konu ne?

    • @cayan6466
      @cayan6466 3 роки тому

      kanka ciddi misin sdgfjhaghsajddsgajh

    • @berkadsiz2905
      @berkadsiz2905 3 роки тому

      @@cayan6466 kanka kadın kendini övdü full takip edemedim snjhdjhjsh

    • @iremcanbolat4225
      @iremcanbolat4225 3 роки тому

      şaşırtıcı bir konu

    • @berkadsiz2905
      @berkadsiz2905 3 роки тому

      @@iremcanbolat4225 kesinlikle öyle

  • @eniask.5292
    @eniask.5292 3 роки тому +1

    so fake