me: I pay Chinese friend: no, I pay me: I pay Chinese friend: no no no, I pay me: ok you pay Chinese friend: yes, I pay me: (yes! I win!) Chinese friend: (yes! I win!)
A friend of mine visited China in the early '80's. He said he purchased something in a marketplace and all the Chinese people around him started yelling at the vendor. They all had heard the price that he asked my friend to pay. It was higher than what the item typically sold for, and they were angry at him for making all Chinese people look like cheaters to this foreign visitor. He said he paid an insignificant amount of money for the item, and he would have been happy paying ten times more than what the vendor asked. And yet, the locals felt the vendor was a horrible cheat for asking to get a couple extra pennies. In the early '80's, at least, the Chinese didn't have a thing against foreigners.
Out of context, man. Please pay a visit in 21st century before you form an opinion. If somebody charges anything you are not supposed to pay . I will cover all your bills. I got robbed twice in the United Sates, I never develop any kind of negative feelings toward U. S. and its people. To be able to understand the culture, Step 1 is to go out there and have a feeling yourself. Don't judge anything based on the opinions given by a guy visited China almost 40 years ago. Out of context!
@@240kankan you’re an idiot.. clearly… because I was born in the US and have lived here for decades. Never been robbed. Not even once. And if someone tried to.. I literally have the right (in my state at least) to shoot and kill them. On the spot. If they’re trying to take from me, and being physically forceful about it… so.. basically. “Getting robbed” is not normal. For any developed country at ALL. It’s not ok to be robbed. And developed countries DO look down on it.. if we hear about a country that has a robbing/murdering capita that’s higher than whatever number…. People in America are advised by the GOVERNMENT to not travel to or visit that country… so.. that’s kind of normal to us.
I've looked at a lot of comments where people are getting offended by the Chinese ways...But, here's the deal: When you go to someone else's country, it is incumbent upon YOU to follow their laws and cultural standards. If you can't do that, then don't go there. I've found that the more I learn about China, the more I want to visit the country. I don't agree with their politics, but I think that the people are decent human beings. If I ever go there, I will ensure that I follow these rules set out and I thank you both for publishing this video.
yes, china is basically like japan but more free and messy also fun. I live in china right now and I've taught its going to be a nightmare but it's fun here, I actually want to live here
My mother in law never teach my wife to "brag" about her husband but we both agreed that we don't let "our arguments/misunderstanding" spreading out to our parents/family which probably makes us to never talk bad about each other in front of someone.
I lived and worked in China for 2 years. I had Chinese people who were complete strainers touch me on several occasions. Yet if I hug someone there it's a social gaff? I call BS.
+Sonny Five yep! This happened back in 2002, I've done a lot more traveling since then. But at the time, didn't know that most countries didn't tip. Now, of course, I do.
Awesome brother! Keep up the great work, I've seen a massive improvement in your channel as of late, the content is GREAT and your videography has gotten so much better! I've gone back and watched most of even your oldest videos, I find them THAT entertaining. I really can't stress it enough how much I appreciate and support your work here dude.
You should also do a video for foreign born Chinese people. Since they look Chinese however they are unaware of the cultures/customs there. How do they native Chinese people treat or act towards them. I think that would be an very interesting subject to cover. Additionally, I suggest you to cover their views of jobs/titles as a foreigner. Since culturally speaking, each country views their jobs in different light. Like top 10 most respected jobs and top 10 least respected ones. Just an suggestion that I have never seen being covered before.
IraqWarVet03 I know several Americans of Chinese ancestry born in the USA, you couldn't pay them enough money to visit China much less ever live there. They're the same as Americans but _generally_ overly paranoid about money so they're cheap and all that entails.
IraqWarVet03 the two primary languages in China are mandarin in Cantonese so kids of Chinese descent born and raised in foreign countries, usually major western countries, only know one of them. As one of those kids, I only know how to speak Cantonese. To only know how to speak Cantonese is worse than only being able to speak mandarin as mandarin is more popular than Cantonese. Chinese people are able to tell who is Chinese and so if they know that someone is Chinese but can't speak mandarin, you're usually looked down on regardless of the fact that you can speak the other dominant language. It can feel quite embarrassing as all of the chinese people who have come up to me and asked for help only spoke mandarin which made it hard to communicate, and I have heavily felt the embarrassment and awkwardness and still do. Things also can get very boring when you're over at another Chinese person's house and your parents are talking on and on with them in mandarin as you sit there, bored out of your mind not understanding a single thing, just waiting and wanting to leave. It is more important to know mandarin than Cantonese as a person of Chinese descent and kids of Chinese descent who were/are born and raised in foreign countries, don't know how to speak or understand it are stuck between their Chinese culture and the foreign culture they grew up in. We can't really break any barriers to have that Chinese culture unless we learn mandarin but as everyone gets older, we have much more responsibilities meaning we don't really have the time to learn the language and we lose interest in our own ethnic culture if it's not ingrained in us from a young age. I still want to learn mandarin but I've really got no proper motivation. I am grateful that I know Cantonese as that is the only way I can communicate with my grandmother who also knows only Cantonese as she grew up in the revolutionary period in China. Before she was an adult, girls weren't to go to school but once she was an adult, girls were required to attend school so she couldn't get a job good enough to support my mother and her siblings and couldn't speak mandarin so there were much less job opportunities.
When I visited China with a group in 2008, we spent most of our time visiting schools. I was surprised that the kids came right up to us, hugged us and wanted pictures with us. They definitely weren’t “hands-off” when greeting us. They were very warm and open, even the teenagers and college students.
I remember I came back from China to the US and when I ordered food and it came, the guy was expecting a tip. I said something like: "I'm not soliciting you" or something and close the door on them. Lol. Thanks for the vid! You two stay awesome!
When eating dumplings, if they are slippery, my Chinese wife told me to pierce the dumpling a little with one chop stick so you don't drop it. Also, a Chinese national was assaulting a waitress and I stopped him. No one did anything against me. I did not strike him, I just made my presence pretty strong and obvious between he and the waitress and put my hand out palm first to indicate stop. There was no problem. He stopped. I have lived here for four years and have not had any problems here. I live in Xi'an, Shaanxi Province. Is it maybe a little different here? Most of the rest of the things my wife made clear to me. I love it here in China. Also, I've seen some of the other videos you've made regarding housing. i have never seen any of the newer construction in Xi'an with the problems you showed. I know many people here and have been all over the city to new and old structures and most are in pretty good shape compared to what you showed. Hope to here from you. Thanks for your videos. Sorry for the shortsighted racism in some of the comments. Many in the U.S. and elsewhere are grossly misinformed about China and its lovely people. I have many friends here and all would defend me in a heartbeat as I would them. They have values for family and the aged that used to be prevalent in the U.S., but not so much anymore. There are always some that are not happy with foreigners, but that is anywhere. I know that because I have been to 26 countries. Keep up the good work. You are getting through to some. I love your wife's sense of humor. A good attitude is so important.
Informative, thank you. Anyone noticed how Chinese women have the best smiles and sense of humour? Not only down to earth, but fun and vital, too. Of course there will be ice maidens, (language barrier) but I'm lucky that way, so far , so good!
Speaking of chopsticks, I've noticed that most restaurants do have forks and knives, but generally look down on people that ask for them...unless you have kids. Some of the local restaurants around me automatically offer forks for my kids.
i went to a restaurant , ordered and asked a fork they gived it to me, my friend asked one too , the waiter said sorry we only have one fork in the restaurant
@Jon Seymour In the Philippines, we call ourselves Filipino. If you use Philippino when talking to a Filipino (someone who is actually from the Philippines), they will think you're wrong and slightly offensive.
I have been married to a woman from China for 38 years. I think that the cultural practices mentioned in this presentation are accurately presented. Yet, I think that those cultural practices serve the Chinese people very poorly. For example, the people of China are so dedicated to the advancement of their nation that they are willing to forgo their own freedom to advance their nation. China HAS advanced hugely since it adopted many (but certainly not all) of the principles of Capitalism. However, the advancement of China is hugely constrained below its potential because the people of China have forgone many of their natural freedoms. A great nation is a nation of free people. China will never be as great as its potential until its people are free to express their opinions, their natural rights are respected by the government and their government is truly and freely chosen by the people of that nation. Regards, Geoff. Reeks Aussie
Geoffrey Reeks your experience backs up your credibility. Thank you for elaborating further and for taking the time to write and educate us. Thanks!!❇️☮️✌️💜🙏☯️✳️
Out of curiosity do you think Chinese who are born or grow up abroad have a greater sense of loyalty towards their family's country than other groups? For example if a war started between the USA and any European country, Americans of European descent would have no problem fighting or invading that country. Do you think it would be the same with westerners of Chinese descent?
I have been saying the same thing for YEARS, Geoffrey. The Chinese people will NEVER realize their FULL potential until they are a FREE and DEMOCRATIC country.
I find the differences between China and Japan so mind blowing! I watched a shit ton of Japan vloggers& never really thought of how China may be different before
So happy to watch a video that honestly and truthfully describes Chinese characteristics. Informative and useful for people new to China or planning to go to China. Keep up the good work!
On that last point. . Chinese people certainly don't follow it. . So many times I'm seen very dramatic shoving and shouting matches at Carrefourre, on the streets, just about anywhere. . usually involving a very aggressive aunty.
When I first arrived in Nanning I got a taxi to my hotel. I gave the driver a ten Yuan tip. He smiled a great deal saying xie xie ni, carried my heavy luggage all the way to reception. He was thrilled. Later my Chinese friend explained that I should not tip anyone. It made that taxi driver happy, which made me happy. I gave no more tips during my stay. Thanks for the great advice guys.
I'm a chinese, I like to talk about politics. No matter what position you hold. We could have a nice talk. It's not completely true to me and my friends. We like talking about politics. LOL
@Jay Don't you have to be concerned about criticizing the government or its policies? In democratic societies, you can criticize politicians more than other people. But I thought that in China (and other non-democratic countries) you were not allowed to do that. Maybe it is okay to do in private.
It is okay to talk about politics in China as long as you don't start like publishing things that dis the CCP. However it is advised that you don't talk about sensitive topics like Tibet or Taiwan or insult the government or culture, because you will probably get beat up by hundreds of Chinese and the police won't really do anything.
We messed to with #5. We visited China when my son was 8yo. He was on a swim team and I was having him practice laps at the hotel pool. A Chinese man saw this and was making a point to beat my son. My son saw this and went from a casual practice to all out power and beat the guy on the next lap. The dude was not pleased.
Great video! I learned about almost all of them the hard way haha. I used to put chopsticks in the rice to avoid dropping them when moving etc, didn't go down well. Saying goodbye to a friend with a hug ended up in rumours I was secretly in love.. I offended people by refusing to let them pay for "my share" of the bill in restaurants. The list goes on. All part of the experience I guess, but now I can get around without causing any scenes :)
I think the Japanese point is a very good example because many people might think Politics means only the Chinese Communist Party and not realize or know the history of China with Japan.
***** Yes thanks for the recommendation, I know the story well. I've never seen Unbroken though. He flew in the B-24 not sure which variant. As a kid I built a sizable scale B-24J Model, it was one of my all time favorites. Later in life I sold some business to the US Military which resulted in my Company visiting Kwajalein Atoll, where Zamperini was held for a while. I'm not sure how the Japanese could be "actively" covering up much of anything since the history is quite well documented. It might not be taught but the information is there for those interested.
***** Looks like when someone grows up they may want to learn how to read, understand and write English before they comment, otherwise they come across as shǎbī
So you're not supposed to be touchy with Chinese people, yet they have no problem pushing and shoving total strangers or bluntly cutting in front of them to cheat their way into getting ahead in queue.
Hmm? I’ve honestly never actually met a Chinese in person who has done that. I have met people who would shove and push people out of the way a lot, the kids at my school.
@@cSedx00022 I should have clarified that I spoke about how most Chinese people behave within mainland China. This is not a racial thing. Case in point: the Chinese who immigrate to other countries (and the ethnically Chinese people of Taiwan and Hong Kong) do not push and shove their way onto buses, elevators, and subways like most of the population does in mainland China. If you've been in mainland China and tried taking public transit, you'd probably know what I'm talking about. China's transit networks are great, but the behavior of most of the people riding it detracts from the experience.
I've been to Beijing, Shanghai, and Changzhou back in 2009 - I would absolutely go back, huge learning experience in culture. Very interesting to experience, very different from North America. I LOVED the no tipping while out! I was told it was insulting, as if you were saying that the server does not make enough money so you are taking pitty by throwing money their way. Fine by me, no tip works for me! Thanks you two for making these videos!
Well, I was born in Beijing and absolutely local. I often critically discuss national policies with my friends and families in public, like at school and in restaurants. That's because many polities are directly related to our daily life, and we also truly hope that our country could be better. Chinese really want to show a real modern China to the entire world, to let foreigners understand this eastern country not through western media but his history, language and culture. That's why many Chinese do not like certain foreign governments while they are always spreading unreal info to their people.
"If you are a tourist, try your best to keep a low profile." I hope you have made a similar video in Chinese, for those who travel to the United States, because the Chinese tourist needs to understand this simple rule as well.
ssh83....they said the shopkeeper didn't give the right change back, not that the foreign person doesn't like the price. Watch the video again and listen V E R Y carefully before making stupid comments.
I saw in one of ADVChina's videos one of the guys was talking about how they were getting ripped off by one the merchants. The guy and his friend went for a massage, but the friend didnt get a massage but the foreigner got charged for both. The foreigner got beat up but didnt fight back. The police was called and took everyone in. The police determined the foreigner was not at fault and let the Chinese go free as if nothing happened. I don't know about anyone else, but I sure as hell am not going to any country if I could be treated like that and nothing happens to the natives.
What if ur being ripped off and you tell the person politely, "Excuse me, I think u gave me too little change" would it still be bad and cause a spectacle?
Two years old and still helpful. Next week I will be going to Hangzhou, Zhejiang and this is really helpful. Thanks again, I'm a regular subscriber and am always looking forward to your videos.
Ask quietly and nicely for a refund or your change? Really when you are a foreigner and go on a market they think you are loaded and ask ridiculous prices - if you know how much something is worth, you can haggle them down quite a lot. Throwing a thunder tandrum is different to being friendly and asking for your right.
learn to deal with it... you can't do anything unless you want your ass beaten by dozens of people in Chinese street. Learn to adapt and accept that there are different world out there which have their own rules... "It Is Not the Strongest of the Species that Survives But the Most Adaptable"
In 11 years living in China I have not been ripped off in a store yet. Quite the opposite, where I get my cigarettes they always give me a discount of around 10% if I buy 10 packs. Simple rule: don't go to the tourist traps.
They don't beat foreigners (especially Caucasian westerners).They only fight with other Asians. I was a royal ass on occasion and there was lots of insults and cursing,.. ...but no attacks on me. I'm big and scary looking though.
When exiting Hong Kong I caught the Cooks agent who was changing my HK dollars back to American cheating me by a factor of almost 10 to 1. When I protested loudly calling him out as a thief, no one including the police paid any attention. What should I have done?
Wisconsin Dells is a safe, standard mid-western vacation destination. China... not so safe... not so standard. I imagine its kind of an inside joke for cheeseheads.
Chinese eating ediqute? Are you kidding? Last year I watched a bus load of Chinese tourists in Utah take a Walmart roasted chicken out to one of the picnic tables on display and descend on it with their bare hands like a pack of wild coyotes. It was the damnedest thing I ever witnessed.
This reminds me of something that happened to a Swedish family in Hong Kong. They decided to treat their Chinese neighbors to a Swedish St Lucia party. This consist of a blond girls with candles in their hair dressed in white head to toe, they are then offered coffee and special bread. Well when they knocked on their neighbors door dressed as outlined above as you can imagine their Chinese neighbors shit themselves!
I'm in the U.S. and worked for several years with a few Chinese guys remotely for a company, we were all together on a computer support team. They were actually living IN a couple different cities in China the whole time. One became a buddy of mine. He lived with his wife and two poodles in a small apartment (of course I never actually saw it, except for pictures). He was in his late 20s. I did ask him about politics quite a lot- but he really didn't seem to know or care much about the subject. He wasn't insulted in the least.... though he did seem somehow kind of reluctant to say bad things about his government. The only other odd thing was he liked to joke about his wife, and called her ugly... though I saw pictures and she wasn't in the least ugly as far as I could see. I think it was some kind of humour. Aside from that... what struck me most really was just how similar they are. Half way around the world and a completely different culture. But they complain about the same basic things day to day ... have the same wants, likes, worries and the same problems as any other person you would meet. Far from alien imo. Just, people like you and me. I thought they were lots of fun to know. The only thing I can add to this from my limited experience is... I would venture to guess that if you're in these situations and are genuinely intent on being a decent person, I think it will come through and they'll cut you some slack. They can clearly see you're 'not from around these parts', and will likely pick up on whether you are intending to be insulting or not. Unless they're just a jerk. But most people aren't, lol.
Number 1 Never talk about Taiwan, Tibet or Hong Kong. Talking politics is fine otherwise, just remember to talk facts and respectful observed opinions. Do not talk bullshit that you can not possibly back up. freedom of speech is fine in China, freedom of bullshit will get you into trouble very quickly. I know a Foreign teacher who had a big argument in the classroom over Taiwan's "freedom", he was on a plane 2 days later to Hong Kong with a Police escort. Good news is the plane ticket was free and he was given an hour to pack, and allowed to clear his bank account. Number 2 Nonsense, well of course you don't kiss people just about anywhere in the world who you don't know, but they love hugs if you give them clear forward notice (stand there with your arms out) or ask. Some over 40 shy away, but most love it. Number 3 Vertical chopsticks is a bit overstated here, but don't use them for drumming on the table and generally take food from the closest point to you on the dish. If your chasing a girl, then try taking food from her corner of the dish as a sign of your intentions. Just remember these have been in your mouth so get a clue that the move will be ok first. Number 4 Yup, don't tip. If a taxi waits for me while I run in somewhere to buy something sometimes, I'll add some for his idle time. The person who organises the dinner pays, it's the culture and it's that simple. If you all agree to go out together then it's no different to anywhere else, agree upon yourselves who pays what... and yes it is very respectful to offer to pay for everyone which leads to a bit of fun at the cash register. Note that females very rarely think they should pay, they get a shock when they are in my group. Not all, just the "entitled" bitches, the ones who often choose from the menu first, and the expensive stuff of course. Number 5 Face, "mianzi", is the biggest and most abused bullshit in China and seriously lets China down. I don't stand for it, an asshole is an asshole and he or she will be put in their place on the spot and in public. Very convenient that they have no face or consideration for others when they do something bad, but when someone calls them out then it's "oh give me face", fucking nongmin culture'less weasel. "nongmin" means farmer, and is a put down in the context.
A boy is not supposed to hug another boy which may give people a illusion that you are gay and some people will have some special faces at you (most of the time girls because some girls really like watching that), but for girls, it is ok to hug. But in ancient times, it is very common that two male hug and cry according to old literatures.
Honest question to Vivi: Being taught to brag about your men: Doesn't this ultimately create misconceptions and expectations your husband can't meet? It would lead to face loss eventually i guess. So what is the thin line for this?
+Robert V. Not that extreme, actually. It more about avoiding to criticize the husband in public, but praise（not exaggerate facts）him based on what he has. However, there are some woman lie to others and exaggerate her husband, and the consequence is just like what you think. But on the other hands, if in a private place, especially at home, "Kneel, I am the queen" takes place in many families, Lol. Basically, man is in charge in the public, woman is in charge in private.
+Yiming Li ah thats explains everything, thank you :)! Additional question, how about if your husband praises you in public? I think it should be normal no matter what background but after my trip in China i learned to assume nothing anymore and just ask no matter how silly it might sound haha :D
Robert V. No, it's not silly, haha. That is encouraged. For this part, I don't think there is cultural difference. Praising lady is a good manner in most part of the world.By the way, as a straight guy, I won't have a husband, lol!Just kidding.
I noticed one thing Americans do all the time, they point their finger(s) at you when they talk to you. It is really rude (in China), even when they are not pointing at me, I still feel offended.
I'm American, and I consider it very rude. I was quite shocked recently when, in a Chinese restaurant, which mostly caters to Chinese, I saw an Asian man poking his chopsticks at the person he was speaking to.
Dad: ok, we've eaten everything. Time to pay! Uncle: NO! I WANNA PAY! Aunt: NO ME! Grandpa: how about i pay and we call it a day? Dad: but you're old! I can't let you pay! Me: this makes no sense. I would just let other people pay so i wouldn't have to.
If you are ripped off tell the shopowner politely. In the event the shopowner is a d***, either repeat a little more aggressively, or if you are not that typpe of person, get the police involved.
The 'don't stab food with chopsticks' is more of a guide. I've been at meals with Chinese friends where it was done without anyone caring. If you are good enough then most food can be eaten 'properly' but every once in a while you need to use the ends to skewer something. No big deal.
As a Chinese, i have no idea of what shes talking about, maybe she talking about the old school narrow-minded Chinese , but most of the new generation in China ain't like this plz. Ms China expert
um, try talking to older people about politics, they've been through a lot. I think they are more open minded about sensitive issue. My dad was one of the supporters of Tiananmen Sq incident.
About the tipping part. Acutally we tipped our taxi driver when she drove us to the airport at 4:00am in the morning. She was very happy about it, do were we. She worked hard and deserved the money. I mean, why not?
I can confirm everything you said is very accurate !! As a tourist don't talk about politics, ESPECIALLY your point of view is against to Chinese. They won't take it as a cool discussion they will have a personal problem with you!
as a Chinese,my suggestion about politics is that do some homework of Chinese history,why Chinese people would hold such kind of point.most of foreigners don't have some even common sense of China，all they know about China is from the cold war social medias，like they don't have human rights，China invaded Tibet，Tian men square，China want to merge with Taiwan，falungong，Cummusit is evil……don't show your ignorance，read some books of the basic Chinese history.otherwise ，most of the foreigners don't speak Chinese，and most of Chinese only speak a little bit of English，they can't express themselves very well，so you should have some patience.
HAHAHA 😂 we have a very popular chinesebuffet restaurant where I live. I stopped going because I felt intimidated by the arguing crowds by the till. I always thought there was a problem with the bill 😂😃😂 something I learnt. Thank you! xxx
Cryptonymicus Yeah, you should just shut up give up your freedom and do what your told. Go away troll. If you don't want your freedom that's fine, but most of us are willing to not only stand for it, but fight for it. Remember... Freedom isn't free. I live in China, and I am saying what I believe. They don't care so long as I do not threaten them through subversion. Oh...and I am Italian and my grandfather was in the Family. OK? .
Tipping is not practiced in many, many countries in the world. Normally ones where people are paid a reasonable wage to serve customers. Unlike the US I guess.
So in China there's the whole "saving face" thing? But I've also heard that people are very direct and have no problem "insulting" you (or just being open with their opinions e.g. "Oh, so you're poor?")--so my question is...how does saving face and directness coexist in Chinese culture?
Outstanding video, I'm considering visiting China at some point in the near future. Will be a bit difficult for me to keep a low profile due to my stature and build. Any suggestions?
"If you are a tourist, try your best to keep low profile" I think that probably sums up everything.
+Manuel Cortess (Melon Baby) no kidding! good advice for any tourist, traveling anywhere.
Because Europe used to be a safe place. Now they know what's happening.
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I'm the best at that, trust me. 😂😂😂
me: I pay
Chinese friend: no, I pay
me: I pay
Chinese friend: no no no, I pay
me: ok you pay
Chinese friend: yes, I pay
me: (yes! I win!)
Chinese friend: (yes! I win!)
hahahahahhaha
Hahaha this is funny
lol
"dont embarrass your man"
*picture of man splattered with wedding cake on his face in backround*
love it
A friend of mine visited China in the early '80's. He said he purchased something in a marketplace and all the Chinese people around him started yelling at the vendor. They all had heard the price that he asked my friend to pay. It was higher than what the item typically sold for, and they were angry at him for making all Chinese people look like cheaters to this foreign visitor. He said he paid an insignificant amount of money for the item, and he would have been happy paying ten times more than what the vendor asked. And yet, the locals felt the vendor was a horrible cheat for asking to get a couple extra pennies. In the early '80's, at least, the Chinese didn't have a thing against foreigners.
If people see someone stealing something in India they beat the crap out of the thief, lol
Out of context, man. Please pay a visit in 21st century before you form an opinion. If somebody charges anything you are not supposed to pay . I will cover all your bills. I got robbed twice in the United Sates, I never develop any kind of negative feelings toward U. S. and its people. To be able to understand the culture, Step 1 is to go out there and have a feeling yourself. Don't judge anything based on the opinions given by a guy visited China almost 40 years ago. Out of context!
@@postersandstuff hell yeah. Just earned points for India with this one. That’s awesome.
@@240kankan you’re an idiot.. clearly… because I was born in the US and have lived here for decades. Never been robbed. Not even once. And if someone tried to.. I literally have the right (in my state at least) to shoot and kill them. On the spot. If they’re trying to take from me, and being physically forceful about it… so.. basically. “Getting robbed” is not normal. For any developed country at ALL. It’s not ok to be robbed. And developed countries DO look down on it.. if we hear about a country that has a robbing/murdering capita that’s higher than whatever number…. People in America are advised by the GOVERNMENT to not travel to or visit that country… so.. that’s kind of normal to us.
I've looked at a lot of comments where people are getting offended by the Chinese ways...But, here's the deal: When you go to someone else's country, it is incumbent upon YOU to follow their laws and cultural standards. If you can't do that, then don't go there. I've found that the more I learn about China, the more I want to visit the country. I don't agree with their politics, but I think that the people are decent human beings. If I ever go there, I will ensure that I follow these rules set out and I thank you both for publishing this video.
then go there and get yourself cheated
after that,,do not complain and or try to resist
beware the mob!
yes, china is basically like japan but more free and messy also fun. I live in china right now and I've taught its going to be a nightmare but it's fun here, I actually want to live here
My mother in law never teach my wife to "brag" about her husband but we both agreed that we don't let "our arguments/misunderstanding" spreading out to our parents/family which probably makes us to never talk bad about each other in front of someone.
joe 😂😂, i thought my phone has an insect😂😂🤣
Fantastic video! Super step up! Lots of fun to watch!
+serpentza thanks mate! i really appreciate it!
you are free to do that if you ain't concerned with being mobbed, they warned you...
Good advice
Go vote for trump you asshole
I lived and worked in China for 2 years. I had Chinese people who were complete strainers touch me on several occasions. Yet if I hug someone there it's a social gaff? I call BS.
Craig King total BS
I didn't know about tipping when I first got to China. The first/only time I did it, the workers laughed at me.
+Joshua Bray never do that
+Sonny Five yep! This happened back in 2002, I've done a lot more traveling since then. But at the time, didn't know that most countries didn't tip. Now, of course, I do.
Because it isn't something that you are supposed to do. They probably thought I was an idiot.
I agree... Nope, that was pretty much the extent of the story :)
cause in china taking tip from the coustomer is same like a begger, that's kind of cultural thing.
Awesome brother! Keep up the great work, I've seen a massive improvement in your channel as of late, the content is GREAT and your videography has gotten so much better! I've gone back and watched most of even your oldest videos, I find them THAT entertaining. I really can't stress it enough how much I appreciate and support your work here dude.
+michiganmafia thanks so much man! i have been working really hard!
“Don’t put ur chopsticks vertically in ur food”
*sweats profusely*
You should also do a video for foreign born Chinese people. Since they look Chinese however they are unaware of the cultures/customs there. How do they native Chinese people treat or act towards them. I think that would be an very interesting subject to cover.
Additionally, I suggest you to cover their views of jobs/titles as a foreigner. Since culturally speaking, each country views their jobs in different light. Like top 10 most respected jobs and top 10 least respected ones. Just an suggestion that I have never seen being covered before.
IraqWarVet03 I know several Americans of Chinese ancestry born in the USA, you couldn't pay them enough money to visit China much less ever live there. They're the same as Americans but _generally_ overly paranoid about money so they're cheap and all that entails.
IraqWarVet03 Off the Great Wall covered that issue
IraqWarVet03 the two primary languages in China are mandarin in Cantonese so kids of Chinese descent born and raised in foreign countries, usually major western countries, only know one of them. As one of those kids, I only know how to speak Cantonese. To only know how to speak Cantonese is worse than only being able to speak mandarin as mandarin is more popular than Cantonese. Chinese people are able to tell who is Chinese and so if they know that someone is Chinese but can't speak mandarin, you're usually looked down on regardless of the fact that you can speak the other dominant language. It can feel quite embarrassing as all of the chinese people who have come up to me and asked for help only spoke mandarin which made it hard to communicate, and I have heavily felt the embarrassment and awkwardness and still do. Things also can get very boring when you're over at another Chinese person's house and your parents are talking on and on with them in mandarin as you sit there, bored out of your mind not understanding a single thing, just waiting and wanting to leave. It is more important to know mandarin than Cantonese as a person of Chinese descent and kids of Chinese descent who were/are born and raised in foreign countries, don't know how to speak or understand it are stuck between their Chinese culture and the foreign culture they grew up in. We can't really break any barriers to have that Chinese culture unless we learn mandarin but as everyone gets older, we have much more responsibilities meaning we don't really have the time to learn the language and we lose interest in our own ethnic culture if it's not ingrained in us from a young age. I still want to learn mandarin but I've really got no proper motivation. I am grateful that I know Cantonese as that is the only way I can communicate with my grandmother who also knows only Cantonese as she grew up in the revolutionary period in China. Before she was an adult, girls weren't to go to school but once she was an adult, girls were required to attend school so she couldn't get a job good enough to support my mother and her siblings and couldn't speak mandarin so there were much less job opportunities.
it exist already. They hate it hehe.
LAvenus79 very interesting story. Thx.
When I visited China with a group in 2008, we spent most of our time visiting schools. I was surprised that the kids came right up to us, hugged us and wanted pictures with us. They definitely weren’t “hands-off” when greeting us. They were very warm and open, even the teenagers and college students.
I remember I came back from China to the US and when I ordered food and it came, the guy was expecting a tip. I said something like: "I'm not soliciting you" or something and close the door on them. Lol.
Thanks for the vid! You two stay awesome!
When eating dumplings, if they are slippery, my Chinese wife told me to pierce the dumpling a little with one chop stick so you don't drop it.
Also, a Chinese national was assaulting a waitress and I stopped him. No one did anything against me. I did not strike him, I just made my presence pretty strong and obvious between he and the waitress and put my hand out palm first to indicate stop. There was no problem. He stopped.
I have lived here for four years and have not had any problems here. I live in Xi'an, Shaanxi Province.
Is it maybe a little different here?
Most of the rest of the things my wife made clear to me. I love it here in China. Also, I've seen some of the other videos you've made regarding housing. i have never seen any of the newer construction in Xi'an with the problems you showed. I know many people here and have been all over the city to new and old structures and most are in pretty good shape compared to what you showed. Hope to here from you. Thanks for your videos.
Sorry for the shortsighted racism in some of the comments.
Many in the U.S. and elsewhere are grossly misinformed about China and its lovely people.
I have many friends here and all would defend me in a heartbeat as I would them.
They have values for family and the aged that used to be prevalent in the U.S., but not so much anymore. There are always some that are not happy with foreigners, but that is anywhere. I know that because I have been to 26 countries.
Keep up the good work. You are getting through to some. I love your wife's sense of humor. A good attitude is so important.
Informative, thank you. Anyone noticed how Chinese women have the best smiles and sense of humour? Not only down to earth, but fun and vital, too. Of course there will be ice maidens, (language barrier) but I'm lucky that way, so far , so good!
This is incredible. I really hope Matthew read your comment. I wonder if you are still around to share some more!
@@jackdearden9451 Just don't expect them to get sarcasm. It doesn't exist in China.
the most important is dont talk about politics
Or sex
+Paul Chen 瞎说！
Don't, just don't do that.
Im watching you ! O_O
In my experience it is ok to talk about politics if you praise China.
Speaking of chopsticks, I've noticed that most restaurants do have forks and knives, but generally look down on people that ask for them...unless you have kids. Some of the local restaurants around me automatically offer forks for my kids.
Maybe?
+laowhy86 oh shit, your chinese is good man!
Sonny Five Yup. I totally envy him, his Chinese game is strong.
Snarky White Guy
yeah, its those languages that doesnt work too well with google translate
i went to a restaurant , ordered and asked a fork they gived it to me, my friend asked one too , the waiter said sorry we only have one fork in the restaurant
She had me at "China owns everything!", as a Filipino... cringe
@@hi_scubs 😂😂
yea... im chinese and yes, that was kinda cringe
@Jon Seymour *Filipino
@Jon Seymour The more common and accepted way of spelling is Filipino
@Jon Seymour In the Philippines, we call ourselves Filipino. If you use Philippino when talking to a Filipino (someone who is actually from the Philippines), they will think you're wrong and slightly offensive.
I have been married to a woman from China for 38 years. I think that the cultural practices mentioned in this presentation are accurately presented. Yet, I think that those cultural practices serve the Chinese people very poorly. For example, the people of China are so dedicated to the advancement of their nation that they are willing to forgo their own freedom to advance their nation. China HAS advanced hugely since it adopted many (but certainly not all) of the principles of Capitalism. However, the advancement of China is hugely constrained below its potential because the people of China have forgone many of their natural freedoms. A great nation is a nation of free people. China will never be as great as its potential until its people are free to express their opinions, their natural rights are respected by the government and their government is truly and freely chosen by the people of that nation.
Regards,
Geoff. Reeks
Aussie
now that is a fucking comment
Geoffrey Reeks your experience backs up your credibility. Thank you for elaborating further and for taking the time to write and educate us. Thanks!!❇️☮️✌️💜🙏☯️✳️
Out of curiosity do you think Chinese who are born or grow up abroad have a greater sense of loyalty towards their family's country than other groups? For example if a war started between the USA and any European country, Americans of European descent would have no problem fighting or invading that country. Do you think it would be the same with westerners of Chinese descent?
I have been saying the same thing for YEARS, Geoffrey. The Chinese people will NEVER realize their FULL potential until they are a FREE and DEMOCRATIC country.
Geoffrey Reeks VERY well spoken! Thank you for these insights.
Rule #6: Respect the elders and must not call them by their name. You always call the elders by how you are related to them.
In the west we call them grandma, grandpa, dad or mom. So it's technically the same.
In England I call my elders and betters Sir or Miss or Ma’am
Uncle, aunty, gege, jiejie...
The chemistry between you makes this extra fun and enjoyable to watch!
Subscribed!
I find the differences between China and Japan so mind blowing! I watched a shit ton of Japan vloggers& never really thought of how China may be different before
So bringing a spoon is ok, but a fork is a no go.
Got it lol
So happy to watch a video that honestly and truthfully describes Chinese characteristics. Informative and useful for people new to China or planning to go to China.
Keep up the good work!
On that last point. . Chinese people certainly don't follow it. . So many times I'm seen very dramatic shoving and shouting matches at Carrefourre, on the streets, just about anywhere. . usually involving a very aggressive aunty.
Yep, when they do it it's ok. When you do it you have disgraced yourself and caused a loss of face. It's actually a two faced culture.
When I first arrived in Nanning I got a taxi to my hotel. I gave the driver a ten Yuan tip. He smiled a great deal saying xie xie ni, carried my heavy luggage all the way to reception. He was thrilled. Later my Chinese friend explained that I should not tip anyone. It made that taxi driver happy, which made me happy. I gave no more tips during my stay. Thanks for the great advice guys.
I'm a chinese, I like to talk about politics. No matter what position you hold. We could have a nice talk. It's not completely true to me and my friends. We like talking about politics. LOL
@Jay Don't you have to be concerned about criticizing the government or its policies? In democratic societies, you can criticize politicians more than other people. But I thought that in China (and other non-democratic countries) you were not allowed to do that. Maybe it is okay to do in private.
It is okay to talk about politics in China as long as you don't start like publishing things that dis the CCP. However it is advised that you don't talk about sensitive topics like Tibet or Taiwan or insult the government or culture, because you will probably get beat up by hundreds of Chinese and the police won't really do anything.
Tharpa Roberts "democratic" societies lmao.More like plutocratic societies and I'm telling you this as a german
We messed to with #5.
We visited China when my son was 8yo. He was on a swim team and I was having him practice laps at the hotel pool. A Chinese man saw this and was making a point to beat my son. My son saw this and went from a casual practice to all out power and beat the guy on the next lap.
The dude was not pleased.
That borat "High five" thing cracks me up every time 😂 ! Informative vid, thank's for that *WeiWei&C-Milk* .
don't hold your farts in public. especially if it's going to b a loud one
Don’t hold onto your farts they travel up your spine and that’s where shitty ideas come from
Ah, forget about the loud ones, SMELLY they have to be!! ;)
lol, especially when you are man who works in shop with customers. you can burp and spit loudly as well.
simon A you made my day thank you 🤣
That won´t be a problem.
As a Chinese, I often stab food with chopsticks and put them into a bowl of rice...
maybe ur parents didn’t teach u？ 😮
I see people stabbing the food with chopsticks all the time out here in Western China.
productive
me too, and my grandparents keep tell me not to do it
Rebel!!
Great video! I learned about almost all of them the hard way haha. I used to put chopsticks in the rice to avoid dropping them when moving etc, didn't go down well. Saying goodbye to a friend with a hug ended up in rumours I was secretly in love.. I offended people by refusing to let them pay for "my share" of the bill in restaurants. The list goes on. All part of the experience I guess, but now I can get around without causing any scenes :)
I think the Japanese point is a very good example because many people might think Politics means only the Chinese Communist Party and not realize or know the history of China with Japan.
***** Yes thanks for the recommendation, I know the story well. I've never seen Unbroken though. He flew in the B-24 not sure which variant. As a kid I built a sizable scale B-24J Model, it was one of my all time favorites. Later in life I sold some business to the US Military which resulted in my Company visiting Kwajalein Atoll, where Zamperini was held for a while. I'm not sure how the Japanese could be "actively" covering up much of anything since the history is quite well documented. It might not be taught but the information is there for those interested.
***** Looks like when someone grows up they may want to learn how to read, understand and write English before they comment, otherwise they come across as
shǎbī
+Dobermanator japan is way better
Free Tibet
Great video. Vivi is awesome. Interesting topic, this whole idea of "face" to the Chinese. Would like to hear more on it. Cheers!
So you're not supposed to be touchy with Chinese people, yet they have no problem pushing and shoving total strangers or bluntly cutting in front of them to cheat their way into getting ahead in queue.
Exactly as you said. Sad but true. And skipping the queue is the smallest of all troubles.
Hmm? I’ve honestly never actually met a Chinese in person who has done that. I have met people who would shove and push people out of the way a lot, the kids at my school.
@@cSedx00022 I should have clarified that I spoke about how most Chinese people behave within mainland China.
This is not a racial thing. Case in point: the Chinese who immigrate to other countries (and the ethnically Chinese people of Taiwan and Hong Kong) do not push and shove their way onto buses, elevators, and subways like most of the population does in mainland China.
If you've been in mainland China and tried taking public transit, you'd probably know what I'm talking about. China's transit networks are great, but the behavior of most of the people riding it detracts from the experience.
I've been to Beijing, Shanghai, and Changzhou back in 2009 - I would absolutely go back, huge learning experience in culture. Very interesting to experience, very different from North America. I LOVED the no tipping while out! I was told it was insulting, as if you were saying that the server does not make enough money so you are taking pitty by throwing money their way. Fine by me, no tip works for me! Thanks you two for making these videos!
Well, I was born in Beijing and absolutely local. I often critically discuss national policies with my friends and families in public, like at school and in restaurants. That's because many polities are directly related to our daily life, and we also truly hope that our country could be better. Chinese really want to show a real modern China to the entire world, to let foreigners understand this eastern country not through western media but his history, language and culture. That's why many Chinese do not like certain foreign governments while they are always spreading unreal info to their people.
Please you 大陆人,stop lying and making your chinese usual propaganda to us
abdoulaye Mboup Are you serious? If you are, I would say that you just don't know much about China.
zaiwei zhang I lived 12years in a democratic country where diversity is present and none is looking at you in the streets
abdoulaye Mboup You are right. Sorry for bothering you.
zaiwei zhang 大陆人绝大多数都太幼稚又天真了。你们不仅随地吐痰，而且还一直盯着外国人。
So I am gonna say you also don t know anything about the outside world.
Loving Chinese culture day by... video by video!
Haha, this was great!
I knew the chopstick ones, but it's good that I know more of what not to do. :)
I've liked, subscribed, and just commented. lol I love your videos!! Keep them coming, dude!
Very informative and very well presented. Congratulations
You got me. My cover is blown. Wal Mart spies unite!
"If you are a tourist, try your best to keep a low profile."
I hope you have made a similar video in Chinese, for those who travel to the United States, because the Chinese tourist needs to understand this simple rule as well.
So if you are ripped off do you just grin and bear it ?
No you get your money back. You don't have to cause a scene but you don't just let some one take your money from you
trinichick76 just always ask the price and bargain before you buy it, use it, or eat it.
ssh83....they said the shopkeeper didn't give the right change back, not that the foreign person doesn't like the price. Watch the video again and listen V E R Y carefully before making stupid comments.
I saw in one of ADVChina's videos one of the guys was talking about how they were getting ripped off by one the merchants. The guy and his friend went for a massage, but the friend didnt get a massage but the foreigner got charged for both. The foreigner got beat up but didnt fight back. The police was called and took everyone in. The police determined the foreigner was not at fault and let the Chinese go free as if nothing happened.
I don't know about anyone else, but I sure as hell am not going to any country if I could be treated like that and nothing happens to the natives.
lol
What if ur being ripped off and you tell the person politely,
"Excuse me, I think u gave me too little change" would it still be bad and cause a spectacle?
I watched these videos one clip a day, then I started preparing for my English exams. Thank you, sweet couple. You made my day.
+Yiwei Lu Thank you for watching! That is sweet of you to say :)
Two years old and still helpful. Next week I will be going to Hangzhou, Zhejiang and this is really helpful. Thanks again, I'm a regular subscriber and am always looking forward to your videos.
I think these are very entertaining, and she is very cute!! I have learned a lot about the Chinese from these videos!
Isn't it impolite to wave any tableware? Do you like to wave fork and knife?
The way you say Hi 5 just like the way Borat says it lol
your wife is literally the cutest
Your wife seems to be friendly,
Interesting video.
Thanks!
laowhy86 since your parents are german can you speak german? or you have never spoken german in your family?
So don't cause a scene, but what SHOULD you do when you're getting ripped off in a store?
Ask quietly and nicely for a refund or your change? Really when you are a foreigner and go on a market they think you are loaded and ask ridiculous prices - if you know how much something is worth, you can haggle them down quite a lot. Throwing a thunder tandrum is different to being friendly and asking for your right.
You pull out your pistol and threaten them with it.
learn to deal with it... you can't do anything unless you want your ass beaten by dozens of people in Chinese street. Learn to adapt and accept that there are different world out there which have their own rules... "It Is Not the Strongest of the Species that Survives But the Most Adaptable"
In 11 years living in China I have not been ripped off in a store yet. Quite the opposite, where I get my cigarettes they always give me a discount of around 10% if I buy 10 packs. Simple rule: don't go to the tourist traps.
They don't beat foreigners (especially Caucasian westerners).They only fight with other Asians.
I was a royal ass on occasion and there was lots of insults and cursing,.. ...but no attacks on me.
I'm big and scary looking though.
When exiting Hong Kong I caught the Cooks agent who was changing my HK dollars back to American cheating me by a factor of almost 10 to 1. When I protested loudly calling him out as a thief, no one including the police paid any attention. What should I have done?
Cancel the transaction, take your money elsewhere?
Edward Hicks research first before making the transaction. same principle every where else in Asia.
Your videos are amazing~~love them all
Great video. As a Chinese live in the US, I appreciate you post this video.
Well, that settles it. I'm going to the Wisconsin Dells.
I laughed so hard I nearly inhaled my coffee XD
You win the Interwebs today! :D
Gunther Ultrabolt Novacrunch; Damn, I don't get it. lol
Winsconsin Dells?
Wisconsin Dells is a safe, standard mid-western vacation destination. China... not so safe... not so standard. I imagine its kind of an inside joke for cheeseheads.
Gunther Ultrabolt Novacrunch; I was guessing in that direction.... thanks. :-)
Good choice. Much better air quality!
Lao, your wife is awesome! Need to include her in more videos man. Fantastic
Chinese eating ediqute? Are you kidding? Last year I watched a bus load of Chinese tourists in Utah take a Walmart roasted chicken out to one of the picnic tables on display and descend on it with their bare hands like a pack of wild coyotes. It was the damnedest thing I ever witnessed.
This reminds me of something that happened to a Swedish family in Hong Kong. They decided to treat their Chinese neighbors to a Swedish St Lucia party. This consist of a blond girls with candles in their hair dressed in white head to toe, they are then offered coffee and special bread. Well when they knocked on their neighbors door dressed as outlined above as you can imagine their Chinese neighbors shit themselves!
Hey, Westerners don't like being embarrassed in public either! I have dealt with Asians who think it is okay to do so to us.
I'm in the U.S. and worked for several years with a few Chinese guys remotely for a company, we were all together on a computer support team. They were actually living IN a couple different cities in China the whole time. One became a buddy of mine. He lived with his wife and two poodles in a small apartment (of course I never actually saw it, except for pictures). He was in his late 20s. I did ask him about politics quite a lot- but he really didn't seem to know or care much about the subject. He wasn't insulted in the least.... though he did seem somehow kind of reluctant to say bad things about his government. The only other odd thing was he liked to joke about his wife, and called her ugly... though I saw pictures and she wasn't in the least ugly as far as I could see. I think it was some kind of humour.
Aside from that... what struck me most really was just how similar they are. Half way around the world and a completely different culture. But they complain about the same basic things day to day ... have the same wants, likes, worries and the same problems as any other person you would meet. Far from alien imo. Just, people like you and me.
I thought they were lots of fun to know. The only thing I can add to this from my limited experience is... I would venture to guess that if you're in these situations and are genuinely intent on being a decent person, I think it will come through and they'll cut you some slack. They can clearly see you're 'not from around these parts', and will likely pick up on whether you are intending to be insulting or not. Unless they're just a jerk. But most people aren't, lol.
Number 1
Never talk about Taiwan, Tibet or Hong Kong. Talking politics is fine otherwise, just remember to talk facts and respectful observed opinions. Do not talk bullshit that you can not possibly back up. freedom of speech is fine in China, freedom of bullshit will get you into trouble very quickly.
I know a Foreign teacher who had a big argument in the classroom over Taiwan's "freedom", he was on a plane 2 days later to Hong Kong with a Police escort. Good news is the plane ticket was free and he was given an hour to pack, and allowed to clear his bank account.
Number 2
Nonsense, well of course you don't kiss people just about anywhere in the world who you don't know, but they love hugs if you give them clear forward notice (stand there with your arms out) or ask. Some over 40 shy away, but most love it.
Number 3
Vertical chopsticks is a bit overstated here, but don't use them for drumming on the table and generally take food from the closest point to you on the dish. If your chasing a girl, then try taking food from her corner of the dish as a sign of your intentions. Just remember these have been in your mouth so get a clue that the move will be ok first.
Number 4
Yup, don't tip. If a taxi waits for me while I run in somewhere to buy something sometimes, I'll add some for his idle time.
The person who organises the dinner pays, it's the culture and it's that simple. If you all agree to go out together then it's no different to anywhere else, agree upon yourselves who pays what... and yes it is very respectful to offer to pay for everyone which leads to a bit of fun at the cash register.
Note that females very rarely think they should pay, they get a shock when they are in my group. Not all, just the "entitled" bitches, the ones who often choose from the menu first, and the expensive stuff of course.
Number 5
Face, "mianzi", is the biggest and most abused bullshit in China and seriously lets China down. I don't stand for it, an asshole is an asshole and he or she will be put in their place on the spot and in public.
Very convenient that they have no face or consideration for others when they do something bad, but when someone calls them out then it's "oh give me face", fucking nongmin culture'less weasel.
"nongmin" means farmer, and is a put down in the context.
A boy is not supposed to hug another boy which may give people a illusion that you are gay and some people will have some special faces at you (most of the time girls because some girls really like watching that), but for girls, it is ok to hug. But in ancient times, it is very common that two male hug and cry according to old literatures.
Thanks guys. I know these tips will be helpful to keep in mind when I visit for the first time next year.
Honest question to Vivi:
Being taught to brag about your men: Doesn't this ultimately create misconceptions and expectations your husband can't meet?
It would lead to face loss eventually i guess. So what is the thin line for this?
+Robert V. Not that extreme, actually. It more about avoiding to criticize the husband in public, but praise（not exaggerate facts）him based on what he has. However, there are some woman lie to others and exaggerate her husband, and the consequence is just like what you think. But on the other hands, if in a private place, especially at home, "Kneel, I am the queen" takes place in many families, Lol. Basically, man is in charge in the public, woman is in charge in private.
+Yiming Li ah thats explains everything, thank you :)!
Additional question, how about if your husband praises you in public?
I think it should be normal no matter what background but after my trip in China i learned to assume nothing anymore and just ask no matter how silly it might sound haha :D
Robert V. No, it's not silly, haha. That is encouraged. For this part, I don't think there is cultural difference. Praising lady is a good manner in most part of the world.By the way, as a straight guy, I won't have a husband, lol!Just kidding.
Haha, okay so you are not vivi ^^. I thought you were lol! Thanks for the answer and i agree with you.
Good manners rule ^^!
+laowhy86 这个妹纸的长相和我家乡那边的不一样= = 华南沿海的华人是汉族和南亚人混血为主。北部会有些汉族和白人混血。我家在湖北，有几个同学看起来像欧洲人哈哈，不过这位妹子一看就是华南沿海的华人长相。
Very helpful & thank you for your continued videos. Please keep them coming.
I noticed one thing Americans do all the time, they point their finger(s) at you when they talk to you. It is really rude (in China), even when they are not pointing at me, I still feel offended.
it's rude in America too. that person was just being rude.
+etienneyitian It is considered awful in Liechtenstein as well.
I'm American, and I consider it very rude. I was quite shocked recently when, in a Chinese restaurant, which mostly caters to Chinese, I saw an Asian man poking his chopsticks at the person he was speaking to.
It’s rude in uk
Awesome awesome awesome. The advice sounds good, but the way it's presented is awesome!
Dad: ok, we've eaten everything. Time to pay!
Uncle: NO! I WANNA PAY!
Aunt: NO ME!
Grandpa: how about i pay and we call it a day?
Dad: but you're old! I can't let you pay!
Me: this makes no sense. I would just let other people pay so i wouldn't have to.
WaffleCat3367 I always paid when I eat out with my parents!
I would say,"If I don't have to pay then I think I can eat a couple more lobsters".
so if you're getting ripped off how do you deal with it??
if it is something petty ,forget it. Otherwise call the police ,they are willing to help foreingers
If you are ripped off tell the shopowner politely. In the event the shopowner is a d***, either repeat a little more aggressively, or if you are not that typpe of person, get the police involved.
The 'don't stab food with chopsticks' is more of a guide. I've been at meals with Chinese friends where it was done without anyone caring. If you are good enough then most food can be eaten 'properly' but every once in a while you need to use the ends to skewer something. No big deal.
My dad used to tip at the beginning of the meal when they have business dinners in China.
I don't like how after watching your fun videos I see so much ignorant racist comments in the comment section :s
I gave bought PC keyboard as chip for hotel check-out at Taipei,but not mistook or good,neither.
hope try next shopping.
As a Chinese, i have no idea of what shes talking about, maybe she talking about the old school narrow-minded Chinese , but most of the new generation in China ain't like this plz. Ms China expert
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Thanks for sharing! Loved it ♥️
"non violent alternative" LOL
Some stuff are changing in the context during young people in the big cities, but ye, spot on in general. Happy New Year:)
um, try talking to older people about politics, they've been through a lot. I think they are more open minded about sensitive issue. My dad was one of the supporters of Tiananmen Sq incident.
Ha ha ha, you both are too good. Excellent comedy and very very informative. Such a good relationship between you. Vivi is so gorgeous 👍
Hey, I stick chopsticks vertically into my rice all the time !! I don't give a damn ~~
Xuan Song 你也是太厉害了。
Gangsta
Thug life
Xuan Song u rebel
If u dont know how to used chop sticks n
you can used hand no body stop.u.
About the tipping part. Acutally we tipped our taxi driver when she drove us to the airport at 4:00am in the morning. She was very happy about it, do were we. She worked hard and deserved the money. I mean, why not?
I've been literaly doing all those 5 throughout my life lmao.
this is great thanks so much for this! i will deff be using all your pointers when I visit Guangzhou
0:50 - I never hug or touch people in the United States. Literally.
In Canada, there’s a lot of touching and hugging between close people (such as friends and such).
I can confirm everything you said is very accurate !! As a tourist don't talk about politics, ESPECIALLY your point of view is against to Chinese. They won't take it as a cool discussion they will have a personal problem with you!
as a Chinese,my suggestion about politics is that do some homework of Chinese history,why Chinese people would hold such kind of point.most of foreigners don't have some even common sense of China，all they know about China is from the cold war social medias，like they don't have human rights，China invaded Tibet，Tian men square，China want to merge with Taiwan，falungong，Cummusit is evil……don't show your ignorance，read some books of the basic Chinese history.otherwise ，most of the foreigners don't speak Chinese，and most of Chinese only speak a little bit of English，they can't express themselves very well，so you should have some patience.
Just avoid all political conversations.
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Even if you know EVERYTHING about Chinese history, still avoid all political conversations, if you are smart enough.
can you talk with me in Chinese？and explain the reason，please哥们，能不能给个理由啊，让老外了解一点基本的中国历史，不对吗
我回复有点太激动了。 我修改了下。抱歉抱歉.
让他们了解历史没错。 问题是历史和政治特别容易引发分歧。 不谈这个是最明智的。
HAHAHA 😂 we have a very popular chinesebuffet restaurant where I live. I stopped going because I felt intimidated by the arguing crowds by the till. I always thought there was a problem with the bill 😂😃😂 something I learnt. Thank you! xxx
maybe they should stop hating politics and learn the shit their government does
You could pretty much say that about any government. I'm an American, I know our government has things that I wish they didn't do at home or abroad.
***** hey man i'm with you, I'm an Australian, my government does some fucked up shit.
Fangzheng Yuan how the fuck am i naive, just because "everyones doing it" doesnt mean you shouldnt know whats really going on.
Talking "politics" in some countries is an easy way to get your ass in some serious trouble. Capisce?
Cryptonymicus Yeah, you should just shut up give up your freedom and do what your told. Go away troll.
If you don't want your freedom that's fine, but most of us are willing to not only stand for it, but fight for it.
Remember... Freedom isn't free.
I live in China, and I am saying what I believe. They don't care so long as I do not threaten them through subversion.
Oh...and I am Italian and my grandfather was in the Family. OK?
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Tipping is not practiced in many, many countries in the world. Normally ones where people are paid a reasonable wage to serve customers. Unlike the US I guess.
"CHINA OWNS EVERYTHING!" My favorite part! I'm studying abroad in China and my roommate also said those exact words!
chinese way of loving country
So in China there's the whole "saving face" thing? But I've also heard that people are very direct and have no problem "insulting" you (or just being open with their opinions e.g. "Oh, so you're poor?")--so my question is...how does saving face and directness coexist in Chinese culture?
This woman doesn't know much about Chinese culture, giving out many false information.
So if they rip you off.. you have to walk away???
WHAT EVER YOU DO WHATEVER YOU MAY DO..... DO NOT WEAR A GREEN HAT IN CHINA...
I did all the time, it always got a laugh.. Yes I do know what it means ;-) LOL
Were people looking at you weird?
In chinese, u are said to be "wearing a green hat" if your partner cheated on you
WHAT?! Omg!!! That's so mean! Why is that a thing?!
Haha oh no way. Green hat speaks a story to the whole country..
Outstanding video, I'm considering visiting China at some point in the near future. Will be a bit difficult for me to keep a low profile due to my stature and build. Any suggestions?
Thanks... Will never go to China
Ok don't go. Your loss.
Ok don't go. Your loss.
Japan and Korea is better
im not sure that china would feel any sense of loss
Be sure it wouldn't
Great vid guys thanks
Thank you so much!!! I will do a little exchange to China and this video might help me allot! Thanks!
They're 5 things not to do *ANYWHERE* but good advice - thanks. Best one was about tipping. Coming from a society where it is the norm.