Tea for therapy! (session 185)

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  • Опубліковано 3 гру 2024

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  • @swingforthefences777
    @swingforthefences777 Місяць тому +2

    You have a good head on your shoulders. Thanks for sharing and giving your perspective. I appreciate you. First video here, I’ll be back

    • @O2O514-Ben_Jay
      @O2O514-Ben_Jay  Місяць тому

      Thanks for watching and responding!
      Though I believe you to mean that figuratively, lemme point out a not insignificant portion of my head being an implant, just in case you weren’t being figurative after all.
      Glad to do so 🤗
      definitely taking that as a compliment, thanks kind stranger!

  • @MultiTsbaby
    @MultiTsbaby Місяць тому +4

    I like you. You seem like a good bloke

    • @O2O514-Ben_Jay
      @O2O514-Ben_Jay  Місяць тому +1

      Thanks for watching and engaging. I’ll defo take that as a compliment, though my self-esteem does not concur.
      Thanks for the compliment kind stranger!

    • @MultiTsbaby
      @MultiTsbaby Місяць тому +1

      @@O2O514-Ben_Jay all good mate

  • @brnnntrnt
    @brnnntrnt Місяць тому +2

    Fingers crossed things will get better soon!

    • @O2O514-Ben_Jay
      @O2O514-Ben_Jay  Місяць тому +1

      Thanks for your wishes and having expressed them.
      “This too, will end.” Luckily this proverb is not just applicable to ‘good’ times, but also the ‘not so great’ times.
      Thanks for watching and engaging ♥️

    • @brnnntrnt
      @brnnntrnt Місяць тому

      @@O2O514-Ben_Jay As my therapist said, whether good or bad, "this too shall pass"

  • @mdobr
    @mdobr Місяць тому

    Hey Ben,
    Thanks for taking the time to read my message and for sharing your thoughts in your latest video. I appreciate your openness and willingness to engage - it's a testament to your reflective nature and skill with language.
    I can see you've been making strides lately - applying for citizen's money, setting up appointments with organizations that support autistic adults, and working on your film project "Falling Perspectives." These are significant steps forward, and they show your determination to move ahead despite the challenges.
    Your self-awareness and ability to reflect deeply on your experiences are real strengths. Your creativity shows through in your filmmaking, and your desire to help others - whether it's informing drivers about their brake lights or considering volunteering with the THW - demonstrates your empathy and community spirit.
    I know it's not easy, but establishing a daily routine might help provide structure and a sense of accomplishment. Even incorporating light physical activity like walking could boost your mood and energy levels. Connecting with support groups for autistic adults might also offer understanding and shared experiences that can be really valuable.
    Volunteering, like you're considering with the THW, can build confidence and expand your social network. Remember, accepting support when you need it isn't a sign of weakness-it's a form of resilience. You're not a burden; everyone needs help at times.
    Your worth isn't determined by employment status or financial independence. You contribute meaningfully to the lives of others simply by being who you are. You're not alone in this, and there are resources and people ready to assist you. By taking proactive steps, no matter how small, you're moving toward a brighter future.
    Believe in your ability to overcome these challenges, and don't hesitate to reach out to people around you for help when needed. Keep pushing forward - I'm rooting for you.

    • @O2O514-Ben_Jay
      @O2O514-Ben_Jay  Місяць тому

      Hey Michal,
      Thanks for taking the time to watch and write the message in the first place (I feel to read and give an adequate response is the minimum “I owe”). I appreciate your engaging (perhaps even mentoring (is this to continue)) with me, man //sex indiscriminate use of the term//. Though I can (and gladly do) accept these compliments cognitively, I’ll still have to fight my inner demons to wholey accept/know them to be true, I appreciate your patience with me.

    • @mdobr
      @mdobr Місяць тому

      @@O2O514-Ben_Jay Thanks so much for your response - I appreciate you taking the time to share all that.
      It sounds like you’re making steady progress, and that’s what matters most. Remember, moving forward doesn’t mean having everything sorted right away. Sometimes it's enough just to keep pushing, even if belief in yourself isn't fully there yet.
      I'm glad to be one of the people believing in you right now - keep at it, one step at a time.