"WE WERE ON A BREAK!!!!!!"

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  • I actually think there may be 2 situations here....a toxic 'Ross and Rachel' situation from someone's past where these people selfishly destroy each other's new relationships, especially when they're healthy, while pretending like that's not what they're doing. And a different kind of Ross and Rachel relationship that emerged when these 2 karmics were on a 'break' that should have been permanent ages ago.
    It's this new, 'Ross and Rachel' relationship that has the POTENTIAL to be a healthy, soulmate love that I talk about in the video. But you need direct and vulnerable communication and the past karmic FAR AWAY FOREVER in every possible way to do it! And I think both partners want that anyway.
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  • @motherofsamson
    @motherofsamson 3 місяці тому +3

    #makeitmakesense
    I told him been waiting for him to start making some kind of sense...
    Started with lies and then blocked .... no clue what the truth is 🥳

  • @ctran5175
    @ctran5175 3 місяці тому +3

    In every relationship I’ve been in, it’s either the friend group or the family group driving a wedge between the person and I 😭

  • @rusb23
    @rusb23 2 місяці тому

    OMG. Yes. I lost ALL respect for him when we broke up. He apparently has crushes on ALL of his friends… and I noticed he doesn’t have any MALE friends.
    He told me AFTER we broke up that he ‘has lots of FWBs.’ A week after I moved out, he called me to say that he started dating a friend with whom he hadn’t yet established an FWB relationship… A few days later, he calls to tell me about another friend he was thinking of dating… but he doesn’t make enough money to fit her criteria! 😂😂 😂
    Lesson: don’t date men who don’t have many (or any) guy friends- unless you enjoy drama and 🐂💩!

  • @leelomba
    @leelomba 2 місяці тому

    Zero capacity for any of this crap.

  • @hermestrismegistus4283
    @hermestrismegistus4283 3 місяці тому +2

    Sh*t.. Why me?..

  • @katebueno191
    @katebueno191 3 місяці тому +1

    Tell Campbell to also stop his smear campaign because he is pathetic and a coward !!

  • @barbarajohnson1442
    @barbarajohnson1442 2 місяці тому

    I so welcome HELP from the other side. I love them beyond 3D.....

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock 2 місяці тому

    I saved us

  • @LS-ti6lu
    @LS-ti6lu 3 місяці тому +1

    He pulled back, stopped talking then popped back up dating others - after we had been involved for a year. A break would imply conversation. Disappearing is his lack of character and disregard for the friendship.

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock 2 місяці тому

    I was and have been alone to deal with abandonment What should i Have done ? IM Sorry

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock 2 місяці тому

    God works in mysterious ways

  • @OptimisticSaturnPlanet-yz8mc
    @OptimisticSaturnPlanet-yz8mc 3 місяці тому +1

    No, there's no healing this relationship Jess. Dont know if we can stay friends although it would be acceptable to me. 🫣Its frustrating 😅 because we are in the entertainment business. Thats part of this dynamic any-hoo. You said all these important clues that are SO accurate I get gooseflesh! Hes admitted to the sex group. He wanted them to worship me as his queen. No thanks. 10 years I've kept to my position even when he persisted constantly that he'd make it happen, like a threat. Always talkin about us with them and it got so old i just blocked how hurt i was. He eased off a while and all of a sudden he wanted to rush marriage. So, we got uncomfortably married, no big plans, not even the $ or time to do lady stuff preparations. (sigh)Look Jess, we got married Oct. 14th. November 8th he started drinking heavily for 3 days!!! On the 11th, he was still tipsy at work (we wk together and are rarely apart) we all had an easy day & some of the guy's broke open beers. Oh shoot, he was already drunk. I was pissed! We hold up a consistency at work that is impeccable because we are like a tag team we know each other so well and are always professional at all times. He started getting that mean-way when hes drunk and at one point he looked at me from across the room when nobody was looking, and he ran his finger across his neck like in the movies. 👀 I was scared shitless. So, on the way home i was so scared. He started in yelling at me and threatening my life over and over saying i was jealous and calling me names & i asked him quietly, "Why did you marry me then? He was stumped for a second then said "For closure". I was like WTF!!! Who does that? I stayed quiet. We got home, and hes still raging and he was so drunk he fell asleep on the couch. I sat outside in the back yard sick with worry and stress. It was getting late so, i walked to the corner store & got myself a beer cause i was beat feom work and very sober to handle all this drama. So i sat in the yard and called my sister. She said she would do whatever she could to help. I contemplated and couldn't open my beer. I felt sick. He woke up drunk and still in a rage came out of the house across the yard and looked at me like i stunk and snatched my beer off the tray and downed the whole thing in one gulp! 24 oz !!! I was like oh no! He grabbed my hair, ripping it out dragging me to the back of the house. Raging and threatening my life. He said you know what I want to do to you....i said yes kill me. He said yes and rushed into the house and back so fast i couldn't run to get my purse so i was frozen. He had yanked the coat rack off the wall entirely and it was just the 2 x 4 in his hand. He started beating me with it in my legs and arms and chipped my tooth he had it agenst my neck. Forget the neighbors listening. He reared back for another hit and I took off so fast grabbing my purse and a small bag. I ran for my life. In the dark and the worst side of town, no car, no $, no friends to call, i had no friends left because of him. I hid in a bush tree and was to scared to open my phone for the light might show where i was. Yes he came by 2 times in the car looking for me. I called a random person from work and she didn't have any answers so she told someone else and I was livid and highly embarrassed!! But i needed help. I got a uber ride to the work site that was a church thank goodness. Sat in a dark room untill wk was over. Another lady, stranger, let me stay at her house overnight till morning where ny nephew sent me a ticket for the morning. Got a ride from yet another stranger and they had both experienced violent situations. Now, its been 8 months. I wont speak to him only text. All my stuff is there but im with family that loves and respects me. I have nothing to my name, account closed, no work here and no car to get anywhere. Depressed, my body is all of a sudden aching and siatica in my hips & back & neck. My skin is breaking out badly and i can't sleep. When i do its 2-3 hrs and i wake up frightened like im in trouble. I remember where i am but its hard to shake this off. Im in group therapy but its not one on one, which I need. They prescribed zoloft, i don't want it. But i need something. I wish i could speak with you but i know you are consumed and very busy. I want to thank you for your time and accuracy in my situation.🙏🏽🤘🏾I hope this will help someone out there because ive literally been through it. Im tired because its my 2nd Narc. So, all my adult life has been under narc control. Total 35-40 years of not knowing what this was all about. Sad. Lol im 60 now and everyone keeps saying "your free". Free to be yourself. Whatever that is. Hahaha, im a dancer singer entertaner & just about ready to turn in my dancin shoes. But at least i can be at peace daily with zero drama!!! Its quiet here and peaceful. I thank god i came across you and your channel on accident. I was studying narcissistic behaviors like im in college again. Im consumed by it all and my eyes are open now. He is now in love bombing stage & wants me to come back. Says he never cheated to this day, just talked shit his whole life. But what did his consistent talk about other women do to my subconscious for 10 years? He's been in AA for 8 months and anger management which he completed but is assigned more classes. Ill never go back to that treatment. Never!!! So he can keep on healing alone. Hes 63 and idk how hes supposed to flip into a whole different person from here on. Theres no cure!! I think he will lose it when he gets the divorce papers and then be mean again . Thank you for listening. Thank you again 💜💐🤘🏾Blessed 🐝

  • @kitty2doggyMeow
    @kitty2doggyMeow 3 місяці тому +1

    Was that the marriage episode where Ross was with the other female who was British?, I think her name was Emily...

  • @RobynLaycock
    @RobynLaycock 2 місяці тому

    SH only wanted to be friends i cant help how he is with me

  • @katebueno191
    @katebueno191 3 місяці тому +1

    Do tell Campbell to ease stop being such a coward !! Let him know not to worry. He won't even receive a single phone call from me !! And to get out of my life !! It's pathetic to do what he did !! And his solution is to find me a man. ?? Tell him to stop being pathetic !! I have other things to do ! This man does not even exist to me and his opinion doesn't matter !!! Tell him to stop being pathetic!!

  • @annb7913
    @annb7913 3 місяці тому +2

    My reading all the way. He hurt me immensely. It took a lot to be able to breathe after the break up. Been a year now. I am in self protection mode, which will continue forever. He made me watch Friends, we belonged in a friend group, I am in no contact with them. And I don't intend to break the no contact, not on any level.
    Thank you Jess for the validation, means a lot. Love.

  • @nataliaprodan9335
    @nataliaprodan9335 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Jess❤

  • @catherinemascetti1706
    @catherinemascetti1706 3 місяці тому

    Jess Spirit is on it. You wouldn't believe the Wonders and Miracles that showed up FOR US! Absolutely....ALL US ❤🎉
    Thankyou Source of ALL 🙏

  • @BrandivaMcDark
    @BrandivaMcDark 3 місяці тому

    You're amazing Jess❤ I best NOT have a situation like this happen even though years ago I caught someone in a "let's send XXX pics to each other, RACHEL will never know" situation 😢but NO BREAK WAS ON This RACHEL doesn't allow it but the feelings were so strong I had to live with it😢 Still haunts me😢

  • @SpectrespecsChick
    @SpectrespecsChick 3 місяці тому

    I want to thank you so much for this reading. It explains so much about how I’ve been feeling I could literally cry, I feel seen, thank you 💕

  • @Elise91069
    @Elise91069 3 місяці тому

    Very much relatable

  • @SkylarGrace-cl9pt
    @SkylarGrace-cl9pt 3 місяці тому

    ❤ I love you

  • @bluelotuspictures
    @bluelotuspictures 3 місяці тому

    WOW!

  • @kitty2doggyMeow
    @kitty2doggyMeow 3 місяці тому

    Hi Jess, the video is breaking up at points.

    • @jesspucketttarot
      @jesspucketttarot  3 місяці тому +1

      That’s odd. Everything looks normal on my end. Thanks for the heads up.

  • @almostteatime6758
    @almostteatime6758 3 місяці тому

    🩵💚💛

  • @saraseavin7240
    @saraseavin7240 3 місяці тому +2

    All your messages are interesting 🤭😊