Omg the similarity hit me instantly. It's so obvious. We 3 were all trained to act one way behind closed doors and switch gears instantly like nothing was wrong in public to "look normal" and portray integrity. Hide being an actual rotten person. Period. Spot on reading! It made me walk on eggshells as a kid as I was concerned that I could not discern who was in "Public Portrayal Mode" vs who was Authentic in integrity. People playing roles vs BE- ing their highest best self. Biggest life struggle for me to experience in this incarnation.
I recently blocked this person. It's been incredibly hard because I had such strong feelings about him. That's my heart's side of the story. My body, however, can't get over the feeling that he is using me for what I have. But my low self-esteem keeps saying 'what could you possibly have'? My unconscious led me there in the first place- I dreamed about him 8 months before I met him. And this entire scenario has been dragging me through the mud. I've really been crying constantly. So, here I am, walking outside into the cold air....... It's so messed up to me that so many other people are experiencing this sort of thing. The dynamics are interesting to examine. Why is this happening? I need a little of the hermit energy myself.
Sounds like my family, image driven though very financially stable. Competition is the name of the game and if you’re not it, they’ll take whatever you have and leave you to bleed. I’m glad I’m no longer wanting validation from these people.
My TF is a Virgo. He's currently with an extremely toxic Karmic who is all about appearances. I can't tell you how much this reading resonates and is opening my eyes to other dynamics within my own family... thank you 🌹
This is literally my life with from the beginning with him. Every single thing you said. Not only did I get sick to my stomach listening to this reading but it took everything in me not to cry( im here at work so….). This was eye opening for me. Now I know I’m not crazy. After 22 yrs I’m currently working on getting out. This man has exploited everything I am. He has mentally, physically, abused me, humiliated me in front of everyone. The shmore walks around like she is untouchable. She is married also to a man that was married to someone else when she met him. So somehow my husband finds away to blame me for his behavior. I will be walking away soon and honestly I’ve always felt that if I leave everything will crumble for him. Our kids don’t even want a relationship with him. It’s time for me to just let him go through whatever he has to. Hopefully he wakes up at least for the kids. It’s too late for me.
Wow, you put that missing piece of my life puzzle in place. I could see it, but didn't want to believe it to be true.....the reality of this situation is thoroughly disgusting to me. My own mother, paired up with my husband....🤢 And they used dark magic against me. I'm not just walking away, I'm RUNNING as fast as I can! Thank you Jess, I am eternally grateful for your eyes!! ❤
I have written the story many times and this has given clarity that I have chosen to deny for too long. I need to accept that it was rotten fruit from the very beginning and walk away. Thank you 🙏🏼
This is the story of the narcissist that I was in a 7 year situation-ship with. He never wanted me to meet most of his family. He only introduced me to the only 2 people in his family who had good jobs and nice homes. The whole time I was in this fiasco with him I could feel that 3rd person energy, I felt like our relationship couldn’t flourish because he was always dabbling with other and strange women plus he was emotionally abusive to me. Anyway, he asked me to be in a committed relationship with him in January/February but I told him no, because we are not a good fit and really the whole time we were together we were hurting each other and or making one another feel sad, uncomfortable and inadequate! In April he married a woman who has similar physical qualities as mine but her energy is like his 😮
Thank you so much and everything resonates with my situation, I was aware of their negative energy and prepared myself to ween myself from them without their knowledge and I walked away from all of the negativity and I will not go back. Your message just verified the situation and I am back to myself, happy and free ✨️ 😊. I'm celebrating my life 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤.
I ended a year long relationship because of exactly this. 😢 I felt this the whole time we were together. He was hiding things from me and this validates a lot. He lied about everything. Didn’t really love me. Just used me.
You gave me such a new perspective, I am not sure if this was done consciously or unconsciously (maybe both) but it does make me see things differently
Wow! My karmic and the third party are both Gemini and everything you said rings true on every level. I'm glad I found your channel, or maybe it found me because the time was right.
Your so right. Im a wortless pos that just gave up 10 years to be betrayed i should be more polite while i get used and stolen from then betrayed WHATS THE MATTER WITH ME?????
This is me. I was raised by a narcissist and an enabler. I found a job that had an incredible social circle and I fell for a guy’s attractiveness while only knowing him superficially. I wish I had valued everyone in the situation with love for the individuals and the community but I was raised to be really insecure and feel I need to prove my worth to everyone. Proving I could attract the guy was my downfall from actually experiencing love
So sorry for you. In my case, he ghosted me for her and left me hanging without closure. It's been 5 months but it still hurts. I hope I am able to heal and move on. Please pray that I forget about it ASAP.
I feel like I have nothing to offer this person but myself and who I am. Take it or leave it! I don't know if this person will continue to heal himself. I hope so for his own sanity and betterment. I know he is selfish and controlling and many other things. I'm not perfect, but I have values and morals. I don't think this person has a lot to offer either right now. So maybe he will stay with her and live a fake life. I'm in no hurry right now. So God will put me where I'm supposed to be. That's how I feel in the present.
I have nothing left. Pat yourselves on the back. 10 years is not nothing. Ive been used by my father period now he wants to dodge his responsibilityto what he owes me labor is not free. The off spring of a sperm donor owes them no duty of care for 10 years. Pay me what you owe me so i can move forward. I dont lust just return what you cost me.
Wait . Are u trying so hard to bring me to cross road . U know what role is important. Selfish or selfless but no one appear on me is better than pleasant people who is not externally focus u named . Who knows all people have hallow subconscious . Let me dance with life I don’t bet on idea I bet on action I will stay attended exchange of benefit of self and others interest .
So are you actually sitting here and and actually protecting or justifying why I was treated and manipulated and intentionally cruel act done to me is this what you're doing really and I really liked you you know I was really like God you know this this channel that she's she's right on it she's real but really to justify add one action that they did not only should not be justified they should be Hellbound okay because this isn't about somebody's gender or their choice of gender or their sexual preferences this is about what they've done to me bullying me gang stalking me love bombing me gaslighting me talking about my children making me feel as if I almost died several times you're not realize that yeah this definitely triggered me how about let's talk about me what I went through when I go through every single solitary day and I give everything to God and what it took the strength that it took to learn that God is the only person that is with me he's the only person that's on my side where is the one person they want to stand by my side I am a conqueror I am not a victim but I'm telling you right now what was done to me you just absolutely no way that any of these people could have made it none of them could have made it they would have died plain and simple so please I come from a family that was awful my childhood was absolutely awful okay but I don't use that as a crutch there was nothing about sexual preference hell I'm bisexual so it had nothing to do with sexual preferences I'm not interested in anything you have to say.
Omg the similarity hit me instantly. It's so obvious. We 3 were all trained to act one way behind closed doors and switch gears instantly like nothing was wrong in public to "look normal" and portray integrity.
Hide being an actual rotten person. Period.
Spot on reading!
It made me walk on eggshells as a kid as I was concerned that I could not discern who was in "Public Portrayal Mode" vs who was Authentic in integrity.
People playing roles vs BE- ing their highest best self. Biggest life struggle for me to experience in this incarnation.
I recently blocked this person. It's been incredibly hard because I had such strong feelings about him. That's my heart's side of the story. My body, however, can't get over the feeling that he is using me for what I have. But my low self-esteem keeps saying 'what could you possibly have'? My unconscious led me there in the first place- I dreamed about him 8 months before I met him. And this entire scenario has been dragging me through the mud. I've really been crying constantly. So, here I am, walking outside into the cold air....... It's so messed up to me that so many other people are experiencing this sort of thing. The dynamics are interesting to examine. Why is this happening? I need a little of the hermit energy myself.
I was in same situation but for 17 years with a very selfish man
Sounds like my family, image driven though very financially stable. Competition is the name of the game and if you’re not it, they’ll take whatever you have and leave you to bleed. I’m glad I’m no longer wanting validation from these people.
My TF is a Virgo. He's currently with an extremely toxic Karmic who is all about appearances. I can't tell you how much this reading resonates and is opening my eyes to other dynamics within my own family... thank you 🌹
I'm already with a much better person without any of the sociopathic traits so obvious in that bunch of creeps.
They can keep it. Not interested in competing with any of these people, or having anything to do w/ the situation at all anymore.
This is literally my life with from the beginning with him. Every single thing you said. Not only did I get sick to my stomach listening to this reading but it took everything in me not to cry( im here at work so….). This was eye opening for me. Now I know I’m not crazy. After 22 yrs I’m currently working on getting out. This man has exploited everything I am. He has mentally, physically, abused me, humiliated me in front of everyone. The shmore walks around like she is untouchable. She is married also to a man that was married to someone else when she met him. So somehow my husband finds away to blame me for his behavior. I will be walking away soon and honestly I’ve always felt that if I leave everything will crumble for him. Our kids don’t even want a relationship with him. It’s time for me to just let him go through whatever he has to. Hopefully he wakes up at least for the kids. It’s too late for me.
Love is all when material things don't matter because love conquers ALL
It's important for him to IMPRESS
Wow, you put that missing piece of my life puzzle in place. I could see it, but didn't want to believe it to be true.....the reality of this situation is thoroughly disgusting to me. My own mother, paired up with my husband....🤢
And they used dark magic against me. I'm not just walking away, I'm RUNNING as fast as I can!
Thank you Jess, I am eternally grateful for your eyes!! ❤
Crystal Clear & Eloquent as Always, Jess! Thanks! 🌻
Wish everyone their best
Oh wow! This makes so much sense. Thank you for your accuracy 🙏
I have written the story many times and this has given clarity that I have chosen to deny for too long. I need to accept that it was rotten fruit from the very beginning and walk away. Thank you 🙏🏼
🩷💜💙
Thank you so much I so needed to hear this 🙏🏾🎯
You are so welcome! 🩵
Can't thank you enough for this message. Finally closure. ❤
This is the story of the narcissist that I was in a 7 year situation-ship with. He never wanted me to meet most of his family. He only introduced me to the only 2 people in his family who had good jobs and nice homes. The whole time I was in this fiasco with him I could feel that 3rd person energy, I felt like our relationship couldn’t flourish because he was always dabbling with other and strange women plus he was emotionally abusive to me. Anyway, he asked me to be in a committed relationship with him in January/February but I told him no, because we are not a good fit and really the whole time we were together we were hurting each other and or making one another feel sad, uncomfortable and inadequate! In April he married a woman who has similar physical qualities as mine but her energy is like his 😮
Thank you for the honesty
Thank you. So much valuable information here. Thank you Thank you
Tvank you for this reading. It was spot on and rings so true. When one door is closed, another can open. 🙏❤️✨
Yay! You’re so welcome! 💜🩷
Thank you so much and everything resonates with my situation, I was aware of their negative energy and prepared myself to ween myself from them without their knowledge and I walked away from all of the negativity and I will not go back. Your message just verified the situation and I am back to myself, happy and free ✨️ 😊. I'm celebrating my life 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤.
I ended a year long relationship because of exactly this. 😢 I felt this the whole time we were together. He was hiding things from me and this validates a lot. He lied about everything. Didn’t really love me. Just used me.
You are very wise. Thank you for your work.
This was incredible, thank you so so much. ❤❤❤
You're so welcome! 🩷
You gave me such a new perspective, I am not sure if this was done consciously or unconsciously (maybe both) but it does make me see things differently
This is sick and distorted domestic terror and law enforcement is complicit with the use and abuse of women
Wow! My karmic and the third party are both Gemini and everything you said rings true on every level. I'm glad I found your channel, or maybe it found me because the time was right.
Your so right. Im a wortless pos that just gave up 10 years to be betrayed i should be more polite while i get used and stolen from then betrayed WHATS THE MATTER WITH ME?????
This is me. I was raised by a narcissist and an enabler. I found a job that had an incredible social circle and I fell for a guy’s attractiveness while only knowing him superficially. I wish I had valued everyone in the situation with love for the individuals and the community but I was raised to be really insecure and feel I need to prove my worth to everyone. Proving I could attract the guy was my downfall from actually experiencing love
This feels like my reading.
Great advice, thank you
You're welcome! 🩵
It’s scary how fitting this is. I hate it. It’s accurate 🎯🤯😱
On point ! Per usual
He has to ask himself to get real or move on He might be trying to impress himself or someone he wants to impress
Thank you. You know how to break it down lol and explain it the clearest way! 💙
Thank you ❤
And I dont want that in a partner
Again you nailed my situation exactly. ❤
Word up 🚀 thank you 🙏☯️☮️🥁❤
Climbing the social ladder Thats not me
You are God sent ❤ You are the truth ❤
Yes I found my husband and my “friend” in there.
Now ex husband :)
Now I understand why my then husband made me block her afterwards.
So sorry for you. In my case, he ghosted me for her and left me hanging without closure. It's been 5 months but it still hurts. I hope I am able to heal and move on. Please pray that I forget about it ASAP.
I thought that I did something wrong abd that's why he ghosted me, I did not know he was talking to someone else.
😧😠🩷💜💙
I got what what I got id only have my gifts Crocheting ect I don't want to let go of these gifts
I feel like I have nothing to offer this
person but myself and who I am.
Take it or leave it! I don't know if this
person will continue to heal himself.
I hope so for his own sanity and
betterment. I know he is selfish and
controlling and many other things.
I'm not perfect, but I have values and
morals. I don't think this person has
a lot to offer either right now. So
maybe he will stay with her and live
a fake life. I'm in no hurry right now.
So God will put me where I'm supposed
to be. That's how I feel in the present.
His perfect match
Well, that was interesting 😅
It was my husband and my cousin....
ouch
I have nothing left. Pat yourselves on the back. 10 years is not nothing. Ive been used by my father period now he wants to dodge his responsibilityto what he owes me labor is not free. The off spring of a sperm donor owes them no duty of care for 10 years. Pay me what you owe me so i can move forward. I dont lust just return what you cost me.
I do appreciate your messGe but i think you know that we know your speaking on someone specific
Wait . Are u trying so hard to bring me to cross road . U know what role is important. Selfish or selfless but no one appear on me is better than pleasant people who is not externally focus u named . Who knows all people have hallow subconscious . Let me dance with life I don’t bet on idea I bet on action I will stay attended exchange of benefit of self and others interest .
There is no part of what come after all seems pleasant people to be around actually masking in and I fact did what behind and infront different omg
So are you actually sitting here and and actually protecting or justifying why I was treated and manipulated and intentionally cruel act done to me is this what you're doing really and I really liked you you know I was really like God you know this this channel that she's she's right on it she's real but really to justify add one action that they did not only should not be justified they should be Hellbound okay because this isn't about somebody's gender or their choice of gender or their sexual preferences this is about what they've done to me bullying me gang stalking me love bombing me gaslighting me talking about my children making me feel as if I almost died several times you're not realize that yeah this definitely triggered me how about let's talk about me what I went through when I go through every single solitary day and I give everything to God and what it took the strength that it took to learn that God is the only person that is with me he's the only person that's on my side where is the one person they want to stand by my side I am a conqueror I am not a victim but I'm telling you right now what was done to me you just absolutely no way that any of these people could have made it none of them could have made it they would have died plain and simple so please I come from a family that was awful my childhood was absolutely awful okay but I don't use that as a crutch there was nothing about sexual preference hell I'm bisexual so it had nothing to do with sexual preferences I'm not interested in anything you have to say.