I am on a medication that adds about 15 pounds-most all landing on my belly. It can really get me down. Your comments at the end were very encouraging. Thank you
Thank you for this video! I previously wore zip up jeans, which always showed through my tops due to my tummy and the snap closure bending out. I’ve discovered these wonderful pull-on jeans that do have a minimizing effect and don’t show at my belly under a top. They help me focus more on having a good day than my body image. I appreciate your words that our body shapes truly aren’t what we should focus on. I work every day to internalize those words and count my blessings instead. ❤️ You are a true inspiration, Kay......😊
Your final statement is beautiful. Joy, confidence and grace are the best outfit pieces we can wear as mature women. We are survivors and inspiring! Our smile and calm brings peace to our little corner of the world. Love your videos!!!
You have the best tips! You also share ideas that I have not heard and I am so appreciative! My only suggestion would be to cut down a little on the talk time and lengthy explantations.
Glad that you talk about that matter. All other fashion ladies ask us to tuck or show us a lot of beautiful belts...huuuuuu..that fits THEM, but not all of us.
I’m so glad you enjoyed the video. I love and show those things to. Don’t get me wrong. But I do think it’s important to share these tips so we can all feel good about how we get dressed. 💕
Such a wonderful video! I was thin for 2/3 of my life, but post menopausal I have gained a lot of weight and I have tried so many things to lose it, but at 69 my weight rarely fluctuates more than a few Lbs. I love your tips and encouragement! I find myself letting my weight consume me and your tips will certainly help me move in a healthier mindset.
OMG, first time I’ve heard and seen so many real world tips for hiding a tummy. Thanks for saying don’t tuck your shirt and then gave a real alternative, stick to the right length for you. Mind blowing, yes !!! Thanks for acknowledging empire (and peplum ) tops are hard to find and still tricky if they don’t hit your tummy at the right place. Will be watching this post over and over, studying what will work for me. God bless you!
I so appreciated your closing comments. Thank you for adding that piece. I think personal style is about feeling good on the inside first, then expressing that on the outside with what we choose to wear. We come in all shapes and sizes and are each beautiful in our own way ♡
Thank you for that last statement. I have always tried to teach my children not to critique or judge the outside of a person’s appearance but look for the character of what comes through from the inside.
Some great tips Kay! Sewing my own clothes has been a wonderful thing as I’m in the 60+ group. At 5’2” it is often a challenge to purchase good fitting clothes. Sewing has allowed me to grade between sizes for a perfect fit. You are so right about a correct fitting bra! The size changes as we age, gain or loose weight. Rouching is definitely a plus to hide a tummy. Vertical lines, monochromatic dark colors and vertical jewelry like you are wearing in the video are also so helpful. Thanks for all the wonderful ideas!❤️
So true about what we notice! I never notice other people's tummies, just my own. That is a good reminder that people are not looking at our tummies like we worry they are. :)
Great tips! To be honest, I don't struggle in this particular area, but it wouldn't matter if you were giving tips on how to spend a million dollars a-day..( I don't struggle in that area either, ha!)....I would listen to your videos or read your posts because you are such a precious , kind, and uplifting soul! Blessings to you and yours! And thank you for all of your hard work that you put in to bring us ladies relevant information!
Kay, I never miss any of your videos as I appreciate your style and your sweet attitude. But this video and your final tip about being positive and participating in the day really touches me. For some reason, I felt like you were speaking directly to me. I know that’s crazy as probably every other woman says the same thing. But, truly, I thank you for sharing your love of clothes, your encouragement to show up everyday and to radiate happiness and joy. By the way, I am 68 years old and still very much care about style & fashion, inner beauty & being relevant.
I love how you present your wardrobe styling tips, especially this one on tummies. I appreciate you aren’t focused on weight loss or exercise, but instead inspiring us to work with our God-given the body style. I’ve had a “tummy” since in my 20’s, after birthing two big babies. Even when I’ve been underweight (rarely 😉) over the years, I still have a tummy. My wardrobe reflects many fashion pieces from your recommendation. Thank you!
How about getting a chubby friend to model the tummy-hiding styles? You are so trim that it’s hard to imagine realistic results. You look great in all your outfits. Great tips as always.
Great tips. You’ve offered so much more than the usual “monochromatic,” “vertical lines,” “avoid Breton tops” advice. I do have several Breton tops (marinières) and enjoy wearing them because they are classics. I also appreciate your comments regarding selecting styles and options that suit your unique self. And you are so right: we should all focus less (and worry less) about the way we look, and work more towards being the best people we can be: treating others with respect and dignity, and wearing the best accessory: a genuine smile. People who focus on the “faults” of others? If that’s the kind of person they are, then why give weight (ha!) to their opinions? People who matter don’t mind, and people who mind don’t matter! ❤️
This is a wonderful video. I fall into the category of having just a little tummy to hide but I agree with your last tip as the best. I certainly don’t notice tummies. I also notice smiles and attitudes the most. Thank you for your research!
What great tips! Love your videos and your blog because you always offer valuable styling info. I can tell you've spent time researching. I have a mid-life tummy - some days more than others! I'm conscious of it and do what I can to minimize it but I've also realized that I'm 61......and my body shows that. Even though I exercise, my body is still going to show (and feel!) its age to a certain extent. I've made the decision to to do my best to dress this body/figure in an attractive way and then forget about it and go enjoy life! There's no reason to beat ourselves up. Our inside beauty (or lack of it!) is what people will remember.
Kay, Thank you, thank you for recommending the flat-front jeans at Soft Surroundings!! I ordered the boot cut, dark wash, and I love them. They came yesterday, I tried them on, and they are perfect. They're in the wash now, must hang dry them and then they'll be good to go. They are just what I need for my apple shape - no front pockets, zipper or button that add bulk. I really appreciate your research and work to help us look better! XO
I love the tips and the encouragement! I'm short in staure with a belly albeit not a huge one but still! I fell for the puffer vest but found they aren't created equally. I wear ones with form fitting features in the back or sides to keep me from looking like the Michelin man. Lol. I also prefer thinner ones for less bulk. I can get away with that down south. Belk Kim Roger's brand and JCP St. John's Bay have nailed these features for me .
New subscriber! I’m not a trendy person. I’m also older (77) and on a limited budget. I buy very few clothes, but now and then, I need something for a special occasion. I enjoyed listening to all your tips and appreciate the sparkle you exhibit in knowing you are helping others. Your last tip was best of all. It’s taken me years to accept my body flaws. One of the biggest challenges is to find the very thing that suits my body shape (and flaws) best. I have a medium build and waist on top of thighs and legs two sizes bigger, thanks to defects from polio. Love empire-waisted clothing, but you’re right, they’re hard to find. Thank you so much for this video. It’s given me a lot to think about and redirect the focus upward and inward. ❤️
Very useful and well presented. I am going to keep these points in mind. I will try on some of my clothes and see what really doesn't help me look my best. I am not overweight but i have a abdomen issue which i will never be able to get rid of.
I love watching your UA-cam channel. I have developed a tummy over the past two years (quarantine weight gain) and get frustrated because the silhouettes that worked in the past don’t work anymore. This video helped me see why. Thank you.
As a Certified Bra Fitter for the last 17 years I truly appreciate you telling women the benefits of a well fitting bra. I tell women a well fitting bra will make you look 10lbs. thinner and 10 years younger!!
Ok, can a Certified Bra Fitter make a short woman, with small chest, big tummy, skinny legs and skinny arms look better than a potato 🥔 with sticks? 😂 I am exaggerating, I have curves and I don’t look too bad, but I never went to a CBF, because I never thought there can be bras for my small chest, so I wear bralettes and camisoles most of the time. I like my breast, they haven’t become saggy or softer even after breastfeeding my 2 babies for over 2 years each one. Now in my almost 50’s I have noticed a belly that feels bigger than my chest. If a Certified Bra Fitter can help I will definitely make an appointment.
I am so glad I found you. I totally enjoy your tips for skin care and colors. My hair is mostly white and very short. I am very thin on top. I had problems with it for as many years as I can count. I use Rogain and it does help but I know stress is one reason. The year of Covid and my Mom slowly died , her choice. So it puts pressure on me. Now I want to get it together. And there you were. So pretty and happy. I am interested in what is going on now with it all. Thank you!! and I will keep watching. Joyce
It has been a tough year for some of us. It’s hard to get back into a happy place again. Kay has helped so much with BFMD on her blog. A treasure! Don’t look back. We can do this.
As I got older and developed more of a tummy, it became more obvious that I have a high waist. I had never before considered petite sizing because I don’t have “Petite” height. But I’ve discovered that Petite proportions in tops allows me to buy a smaller size. In a Regular size, the waist hits at my belly rather than my true waist. In the Petite size, the waist hits a good inch higher, which is where my narrowest point is.
As a short person, I have to watch what I wear. I will have to see what I can find for vests and tunics or quilted jackets that aren't puffy. I am doing my best to wear striking or cute items. :) I hope that you are having a wonderful Sunday.
I love the ruching dress. I also love the olive gathered top that gathers down vertically . Empire waists are also great. Since I can sew, this is a chance to sew some of the styles you are referring to so I don't have to depend on what is available at the stores. I recently discovered your channel, Kay and just love it. You are so elegant!
Thank you for that last tip...it needed to be said, to remind most of us that we are MORE than our physical appearance! We are mothers, wives, retirees, housekeepers, hard workers...and we LOVE with abandon. It brought tears to my eyes...Kay. And I noticed you were tearing up also...😊
Thanks so much, Kay! I have struggled in this area for such a looong time!😡 I had already been thinking I wanted to make a few changes in my everyday life and this year just update my wardrobe with a few pieces I personally love! I’ve decided to choose joy and embrace the gift of each today!🇱🇷✝️💕
Thanks for those good words Kay! We can get consumed with what we think are our body"s flaws instead of focusing on what is good about our bodies! Plus our bodies have taken us through lots of years!
My best tip, and I DO have a tummy is to wear shapewear. Spanx make me crazy because it’s too tight for me. I love Shapermint and have 3 different ones. I wear them when I need a smooth look, and under dresses, etc. I wash them inside of a mesh bag on cold and delicate, and hang to dry. Never dry. There are other brands, but this brand allows me to breathe, and smooths out the lumps, bumps and jiggly parts of my 62 yo body. Your last few comments are the BEST! Confidence and happiness covers all kinds of body issues.
You are so great to listen to…informative and authentic, a winning combination. I wonder if you might do a similar video about fuller arms. I go all summer hiding them but think there might be better options. Thank you in advance!
@@lorettas4443 That’s what I do, too. It’s my issue because I see many other women with larger arms and they don’t seem to be bothered by it…at least they don’t feel like they need to cover up. I’m heading over to that article she gave us a link to and hope it has some advice I can use next summer. You have a great day!
For 40 years I’ve refused to go sleeveless because I didn’t like my upper arms; they looked huge to me. This year I turned 66 and I just decided I was going sleeveless this summer……and I did…..all summer. I felt really self conscious at first but then I just stopped worrying about it. Now I’m looking forward to finding cute sleeveless tops for next summer. It’s okay ladies, let’s just be what we are, no apologies!
I have just come across your channel and I just love your videos. I love how you educate and also encourage!! You have a beautiful way of complimenting, encouraging and uplifting others.
Your husband was right about the last part of the video! That is exactly right and it something we need to be reminded of. Thank you. Great videos - just discovered you today.
Hello lovely lady. Really enjoy your videos.Would like to say I dress with clothes I love full on colour.I dress for me not others.Thanks again Kay love from London x
I really liked your last comments about put a smile on and enjoy your day, that is the best accessory I believe. Enjoy all your videos, keep up the pleasant delivery and smiles and wonderful tips.
Dress for success in life. Greet your day with no worry or strife. The way you look is a great part of how you feel about yourself. Don’t let your flaws rule you. You rule them. As a short woman of 4”10 I’ve heard it all. It doesn’t hurt me. I’ve learned to stand tall! That’s what you have to do. Thanks again for your wonderful tips and advice.
I love your videos and get so excited to see each new one! I’m sure other ladies agree that we could and would watch you everyday if possible! 😉. Thanks Kay!
This video was so helpful, and I particularly love the pep talk at the end. Also at the beginning, you talked about tightening those straps! Something I need to be more mindful of! Thank you!
Have been watching your site for maybe six months and really enjoy them. I have just come across this one. The reason for me commenting.? I love your hair like this. Lovely in all ways; smart, classy, youthful, complimentary. Try it again maybe?
The trick with a Breton top is finding one that is the right length. I have a great one from St John knits that has a dark navy band at the bottom. It totally camouflages my lower abs. Also because it’s a thicker knit. It just skims the midsection. With three quarter length sleeves, that also brings they eye up from that midsection.
Wonderful ideas. May I suggest an accessory that helps? I like to wear a belt with my jeans, but a regular buckle adds bulk if I am wearing a top over it. I found a couple of stretch flat front no-show belts (with flat buckles) that are wonderful! One in black and one in tan, work for most all my outfits and help do the job of a belt, holding everything up and in!, without adding inches to my waistline. Always enjoy your positive outlook and helpful tips.
I am on a medication that adds about 15 pounds-most all landing on my belly. It can really get me down. Your comments at the end were very encouraging. Thank you
Yummies brand underwear gives a little shaping, but are still comfy.
Kay, I love to watch your videos! They show your love for Jesus and for the people you come in contact with. What a great example you are!
Really loved the last "tip" and the way you so graciously presented it, Kay. It uplifted and encouraged me ❤
Thank you for this video! I previously wore zip up jeans, which always showed through my tops due to my tummy and the snap closure bending out. I’ve discovered these wonderful pull-on jeans that do have a minimizing effect and don’t show at my belly under a top. They help me focus more on having a good day than my body image. I appreciate your words that our body shapes truly aren’t what we should focus on. I work every day to internalize those words and count my blessings instead. ❤️ You are a true inspiration, Kay......😊
You truly are such a joy to watch, you bring a lot of positivity to your audience. Thanks for what you are doing.
Your final statement is beautiful. Joy, confidence and grace are the best outfit pieces we can wear as mature women. We are survivors and inspiring! Our smile and calm brings peace to our little corner of the world. Love your videos!!!
Thank you so much. Very encouraging. 😊
Finally someone that gives advices without babbling about themselves and sponsorship, thank you
You have the best tips! You also share ideas that I have not heard and I am so appreciative! My only suggestion would be to cut down a little on the talk time and lengthy explantations.
Glad that you talk about that matter. All other fashion ladies ask us to tuck or show us a lot of beautiful belts...huuuuuu..that fits THEM, but not all of us.
I’m so glad you enjoyed the video. I love and show those things to. Don’t get me wrong. But I do think it’s important to share these tips so we can all feel good about how we get dressed. 💕
@@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms 🤩👍
Such a wonderful video! I was thin for 2/3 of my life, but post menopausal I have gained a lot of weight and I have tried so many things to lose it, but at 69 my weight rarely fluctuates more than a few Lbs. I love your tips and encouragement! I find myself letting my weight consume me and your tips will certainly help me move in a healthier mindset.
Oh I’m so glad. Thanks for watching Teresa. 😊
A silky cami under sweaters and tops help the top to fall smoothly. It prevents cling and bunching.
Totally agree - I wear one every day.
Great tip. Thanks for sharing. 🥰
I need suggestions on brands? Back smoothness is an issue for me but cami’s seem to make me look bigger or compact for lack of a better word.
Your message is on point and delightful. Dress up, show up and be up!
Thank you, thank you, thank you! You give the best advice! I’m 5’7” @ 175 and 63 years old. Please keep up the excellent job!!!
OMG, first time I’ve heard and seen so many real world tips for hiding a tummy. Thanks for saying don’t tuck your shirt and then gave a real alternative, stick to the right length for you. Mind blowing, yes !!! Thanks for acknowledging empire (and peplum ) tops are hard to find and still tricky if they don’t hit your tummy at the right place. Will be watching this post over and over, studying what will work for me. God bless you!
I’m so glad this was helpful Annette. Thanks so much for letting me know. ☺️
I so appreciated your closing comments. Thank you for adding that piece. I think personal style is about feeling good on the inside first, then expressing that on the outside with what we choose to wear. We come in all shapes and sizes and are each beautiful in our own way ♡
So true. Thank you for watching Kathy. 😊
Thank you for that last statement. I have always tried to teach my children not to critique or judge the outside of a person’s appearance but look for the character of what comes through from the inside.
Some great tips Kay! Sewing my own clothes has been a wonderful thing as I’m in the 60+ group. At 5’2” it is often a challenge to purchase good fitting clothes. Sewing has allowed me to grade between sizes for a perfect fit. You are so right about a correct fitting bra! The size changes as we age, gain or loose weight. Rouching is definitely a plus to hide a tummy. Vertical lines, monochromatic dark colors and vertical jewelry like you are wearing in the video are also so helpful. Thanks for all the wonderful ideas!❤️
Ruching is wonderful..
So true about what we notice! I never notice other people's tummies, just my own. That is a good reminder that people are not looking at our tummies like we worry they are. :)
Great tips! To be honest, I don't struggle in this particular area, but it wouldn't matter if you were giving tips on how to spend a million dollars a-day..( I don't struggle in that area either, ha!)....I would listen to your videos or read your posts because you are such a precious , kind, and uplifting soul! Blessings to you and yours! And thank you for all of your hard work that you put in to bring us ladies relevant information!
Thank you Cynthia. That’s very kind. I appreciate you watching. 💕
Kay, I never miss any of your videos as I appreciate your style and your sweet attitude. But this video and your final tip about being positive and participating in the day really touches me. For some reason, I felt like you were speaking directly to me. I know that’s crazy as probably every other woman says the same thing. But, truly, I thank you for sharing your love of clothes, your encouragement to show up everyday and to radiate happiness and joy. By the way, I am 68 years old and still very much care about style & fashion, inner beauty & being relevant.
I love how you present your wardrobe styling tips, especially this one on tummies. I appreciate you aren’t focused on weight loss or exercise, but instead inspiring us to work with our God-given the body style. I’ve had a “tummy” since in my 20’s, after birthing two big babies. Even when I’ve been underweight (rarely 😉) over the years, I still have a tummy. My wardrobe reflects many fashion pieces from your recommendation. Thank you!
I’m so glad you enjoyed the video. Thanks so much for letting me know.
I was born with a protruding tummy, it never left me.
Kay, I'm 43 and I love you and your positive nature. Thank you for the tips..... under 50 crowd loves you too!
All of these shades of greens look so wonderful on you
I want to add busy prints and asymetrical tops help to hide a tummy as well!!
Yes! Thanks for sharing. 🥰
How about getting a chubby friend to model the tummy-hiding styles? You are so trim that it’s hard to imagine realistic results. You look great in all your outfits. Great tips as always.
Great tips. You’ve offered so much more than the usual “monochromatic,” “vertical lines,” “avoid Breton tops” advice. I do have several Breton tops (marinières) and enjoy wearing them because they are classics. I also appreciate your comments regarding selecting styles and options that suit your unique self. And you are so right: we should all focus less (and worry less) about the way we look, and work more towards being the best people we can be: treating others with respect and dignity, and wearing the best accessory: a genuine smile. People who focus on the “faults” of others? If that’s the kind of person they are, then why give weight (ha!) to their opinions? People who matter don’t mind, and people who mind don’t matter! ❤️
This is a wonderful video. I fall into the category of having just a little tummy to hide but I agree with your last tip as the best. I certainly don’t notice tummies. I also notice smiles and attitudes the most. Thank you for your research!
What great tips! Love your videos and your blog because you always offer valuable styling info. I can tell you've spent time researching. I have a mid-life tummy - some days more than others! I'm conscious of it and do what I can to minimize it but I've also realized that I'm 61......and my body shows that. Even though I exercise, my body is still going to show (and feel!) its age to a certain extent. I've made the decision to to do my best to dress this body/figure in an attractive way and then forget about it and go enjoy life! There's no reason to beat ourselves up. Our inside beauty (or lack of it!) is what people will remember.
Absolutely! Thanks so much for sharing Lori. 🥰
Thank you for putting all this wonderful and useful information into a video. "I like to get dressed for my day in a way that brings me joy", so true!
Your graciousness shines through your videos. Thank you for sharing your research with us.
YES! The last tip is the very best. You are so right, Kay! Thank you!
Kay, Thank you, thank you for recommending the flat-front jeans at Soft Surroundings!! I ordered the boot cut, dark wash, and I love them. They came yesterday, I tried them on, and they are perfect. They're in the wash now, must hang dry them and then they'll be good to go. They are just what I need for my apple shape - no front pockets, zipper or button that add bulk. I really appreciate your research and work to help us look better! XO
Oh that is so good to hear. I’m very glad you are pleased with them. Thanks so much for letting me know. 💕
Bless you Kay
I love the tips and the encouragement! I'm short in staure with a belly albeit not a huge one but still! I fell for the puffer vest but found they aren't created equally. I wear ones with form fitting features in the back or sides to keep me from looking like the Michelin man. Lol. I also prefer thinner ones for less bulk. I can get away with that down south. Belk Kim Roger's brand and JCP St. John's Bay have nailed these features for me .
New subscriber! I’m not a trendy person. I’m also older (77) and on a limited budget. I buy very few clothes, but now and then, I need something for a special occasion. I enjoyed listening to all your tips and appreciate the sparkle you exhibit in knowing you are helping others. Your last tip was best of all. It’s taken me years to accept my body flaws. One of the biggest challenges is to find the very thing that suits my body shape (and flaws) best. I have a medium build and waist on top of thighs and legs two sizes bigger, thanks to defects from polio. Love empire-waisted clothing, but you’re right, they’re hard to find. Thank you so much for this video. It’s given me a lot to think about and redirect the focus upward and inward. ❤️
I’m so glad you enjoyed the video, Susan. Thanks for watching.
Very useful and well presented. I am going to keep these points in mind. I will try on some of my clothes and see what really doesn't help me look my best. I am not overweight but i have a abdomen issue which i will never be able to get rid of.
lovelovelove your "show" - helps me remember that I dont need to feel frumpy!! THANKS SO MUCH!
Thanks so much, Eve. I love hearing that. You're awesome!
I love watching your UA-cam channel. I have developed a tummy over the past two years (quarantine weight gain) and get frustrated because the silhouettes that worked in the past don’t work anymore. This video helped me see why. Thank you.
I’m so glad to be helpful. Thanks for letting me know Darlene.
As a Certified Bra Fitter for the last 17 years I truly appreciate you telling women the benefits of a well fitting bra. I tell women a well fitting bra will make you look 10lbs. thinner and 10 years younger!!
I SO agree!!!
Yep! It really is amazing the difference it can make. 😊
I'm 48, 5ft 4in, 140lbs and facing similar issues. I'm tired of underwire, ill fitting bras. Would love some brand ideas. Thanks.
Ok, can a Certified Bra Fitter make a short woman, with small chest, big tummy, skinny legs and skinny arms look better than a potato 🥔 with sticks? 😂 I am exaggerating, I have curves and I don’t look too bad, but I never went to a CBF, because I never thought there can be bras for my small chest, so I wear bralettes and camisoles most of the time. I like my breast, they haven’t become saggy or softer even after breastfeeding my 2 babies for over 2 years each one. Now in my almost 50’s I have noticed a belly that feels bigger than my chest. If a Certified Bra Fitter can help I will definitely make an appointment.
@@DeyaIV I can do anything for tummies but only recommend shapewear
Kay, I don’t see a tummy. So either you’re a silly girl or you are spot on with your tips 😉
I am so glad I found you. I totally enjoy your tips for skin care and colors. My hair is mostly white and very short. I am very thin on top. I had problems with it for as many years as I can count. I use Rogain and it does help but I know stress is one reason. The year of Covid and my Mom slowly died , her choice. So it puts pressure on me. Now I want to get it together. And there you were. So pretty and happy. I am interested in what is going on now with it all. Thank you!! and I will keep watching. Joyce
It has been a tough year for some of us. It’s hard to get back into a happy place again. Kay has helped so much with BFMD on her blog. A treasure! Don’t look back. We can do this.
As I got older and developed more of a tummy, it became more obvious that I have a high waist. I had never before considered petite sizing because I don’t have “Petite” height. But I’ve discovered that Petite proportions in tops allows me to buy a smaller size. In a Regular size, the waist hits at my belly rather than my true waist. In the Petite size, the waist hits a good inch higher, which is where my narrowest point is.
Great thinking. 🙌🏻
As a short person, I have to watch what I wear. I will have to see what I can find for vests and tunics or quilted jackets that aren't puffy.
I am doing my best to wear striking or cute items. :)
I hope that you are having a wonderful Sunday.
Last tip….Wonderful!,,,God don’t make no junk. God Bless…Merry Christmas
I love the ruching dress. I also love the olive gathered top that gathers down vertically . Empire waists are also great. Since I can sew, this is a chance to sew some of the styles you are referring to so I don't have to depend on what is available at the stores. I recently discovered your channel, Kay and just love it. You are so elegant!
I number one, absolutely love your attitude, and your gracious way. Your advice is right on! Thank you.
Thank You! Look great in the green top.
Thanks. I’m glad you enjoyed the video.
Great tips, loved the visuals, helps tremendously when shopping for tops, pants and dresses for my type of body types.
Wonderful to hear. Thanks so much for watching Nia. 🥰
Thank you Lord for this beautiful and inspiring woman! Kay, you have taught me so much about how to dress appropriately for my age! God bless you!
Ahh, that’s so very kind. Thank you. I am humbled by the opportunity I have here. ☺️
What a lovely video, beautiful selection of clothing. I especially enjoyed your last statement 🥰 🤗🍂
Such a great video Kay! And, I love your philosophy about wearing clothes that give us that joy and radiance. Well said!
That olive top really suits you!
Thank you, you are so lovely, warm and positive
You’re quite welcome Kirsten. Thank you for watching. 😊
Thank you for that last tip...it needed to be said, to remind most of us that we are MORE than our physical appearance! We are mothers, wives, retirees, housekeepers, hard workers...and we LOVE with abandon. It brought tears to my eyes...Kay. And I noticed you were tearing up also...😊
Thanks so much for watching, Guillermina. 💕
Thanks so much, Kay! I have struggled in this area for such a looong time!😡 I had already been thinking I wanted to make a few changes in my everyday life and this year just update my wardrobe with a few pieces I personally love! I’ve decided to choose joy and embrace the gift of each today!🇱🇷✝️💕
Absolutely! Me too! 😊
Thanks for those good words Kay! We can get consumed with what we think are our body"s flaws instead of focusing on what is good about our bodies! Plus our bodies have taken us through lots of years!
Excellent!. You sure do your homework and we thank you!
I really enjoy your videos, especially how you show pics of examples.
My best tip, and I DO have a tummy is to wear shapewear. Spanx make me crazy because it’s too tight for me. I love Shapermint and have 3 different ones. I wear them when I need a smooth look, and under dresses, etc. I wash them inside of a mesh bag on cold and delicate, and hang to dry. Never dry. There are other brands, but this brand allows me to breathe, and smooths out the lumps, bumps and jiggly parts of my 62 yo body. Your last few comments are the BEST! Confidence and happiness covers all kinds of body issues.
Absolutely! I wear some too with dresses. Thanks for sharing. 💕
Shapermint is perfect for me as well!!
I find that that "third piece" like a cardi or a vest adds a vertical to create length and take attention from the tummy area.
You are so great to listen to…informative and authentic, a winning combination. I wonder if you might do a similar video about fuller arms. I go all summer hiding them but think there might be better options. Thank you in advance!
Yes, I can do that sometime I do have a blog post on that. dressedformyday.com/how-to-minimize-large-upper-arms/
@@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms wow…was this one of those « ask and you shall receive » moments? I’m heading over to that article straight away…thx!!
@@lorettas4443 That’s what I do, too. It’s my issue because I see many other women with larger arms and they don’t seem to be bothered by it…at least they don’t feel like they need to cover up. I’m heading over to that article she gave us a link to and hope it has some advice I can use next summer. You have a great day!
For 40 years I’ve refused to go sleeveless because I didn’t like my upper arms; they looked huge to me. This year I turned 66 and I just decided I was going sleeveless this summer……and I did…..all summer. I felt really self conscious at first but then I just stopped worrying about it. Now I’m looking forward to finding cute sleeveless tops for next summer. It’s okay ladies, let’s just be what we are, no apologies!
Thank you so much for sharing this Donna. I decided the same thing because I noticed that I really wasn’t critical of other womens arms, just my own.
I especially loved your final thoughts & encouragement!
I have just come across your channel and I just love your videos. I love how you educate and also encourage!! You have a beautiful way of complimenting, encouraging and uplifting others.
I’ve always loved the high rise pants and jeans for me… I feel low rise are great if you have no tummy so for me give me my granny pants and jeans 🤣😂
Hahaha! Well they’re very “in” right now, fortunately for all of us! 🙌🏻
Your husband was right about the last part of the video! That is exactly right and it something we need to be reminded of. Thank you. Great videos - just discovered you today.
Hello lovely lady. Really enjoy your videos.Would like to say I dress with clothes I love full on colour.I dress for me not others.Thanks again Kay love from London x
Thank you for all your great tips, the best one was the last one…”be gracious and have joy”.
Absolutely. Thanks so much for watching. 💕
Thanks for the great point on hiding tummy with clothes not too tight not too lose and i totally agree with you xx
I discovered your channel recently, and what keeps drawing me to your channel/ blog is your positively radiant attitude!
Thank you!
Thank you so much. Very kind of you. 💕
I really liked your last comments about put a smile on and enjoy your day, that is the best accessory I believe. Enjoy all your videos, keep up the pleasant delivery and smiles and wonderful tips.
Thk u Kay for such an important topic that suit me fine. I do like to conceal my tummy area!!
You forgot to tell us to stand up straight! Best tummy hiding trick ever!
Great energy. Love the message at 21:23. You're really lovely.
Thank you for all these tips, ideas, suggestions and also for the last one. Important!
You’re so welcome. Thanks for watching Martha. 💕
Love this Kay! Great tips and you were right the last tip was the best!
Dress for success in life. Greet your day with no worry or strife. The way you look is a great part of how you feel about yourself. Don’t let your flaws rule you. You rule them. As a short woman of 4”10 I’ve heard it all. It doesn’t hurt me. I’ve learned to stand tall! That’s what you have to do. Thanks again for your wonderful tips and advice.
I’m so glad you enjoyed it Cindee. And thanks for sharing your thoughts. 🥰
I agree with your final comment. Thanks for all the great content. Blessings sue
Thanks for watching Sue. 🥰
I love your videos and get so excited to see each new one! I’m sure other ladies agree that we could and would watch you everyday if possible! 😉. Thanks Kay!
Great tips Kay!Thanks for touching on this topic. Love U bunches 💓
This video was so helpful, and I particularly love the pep talk at the end. Also at the beginning, you talked about tightening those straps! Something I need to be more mindful of! Thank you!
Thank you for the “adjusting the bra straps” tip! Needed that reminder! 🙂
Hahaha! I think most of us do. 😉
@@DressedforMyDaywithKayHarms I had to fuss at my elderly mother last year because her bras were just shot, and not doing her any good.
Have been watching your site for maybe six months and really enjoy them. I have just come across this one. The reason for me commenting.? I love your hair like this. Lovely in all ways; smart, classy, youthful, complimentary. Try it again maybe?
The trick with a Breton top is finding one that is the right length. I have a great one from St John knits that has a dark navy band at the bottom. It totally camouflages my lower abs. Also because it’s a thicker knit. It just skims the midsection. With three quarter length sleeves, that also brings they eye up from that midsection.
I really love the ending ,small talk of how to just enjoy be happy and forget the size but just smile ,life is too short nowdays
thanks so much. my husband says i buy things too big. Now i get the ladies working at the store to help me more when I try things on-this video helps!
This is super lovely, especially the last insight. Thank you Kay. 💖
You closed this video beautifully. Thank you
Thank you Kay! You're special.
Keep up the good work Kay I’m enjoying watching you.
Thank you so much. 😊
Wonderful ideas. May I suggest an accessory that helps? I like to wear a belt with my jeans, but a regular buckle adds bulk if I am wearing a top over it. I found a couple of stretch flat front no-show belts (with flat buckles) that are wonderful! One in black and one in tan, work for most all my outfits and help do the job of a belt, holding everything up and in!, without adding inches to my waistline. Always enjoy your positive outlook and helpful tips.
Thank you for sharing, Sonya. 😊
So enjoyed this video. So nice to hear flat front and high waisted suggestions. I have always thought that. Very practical advice.
Love this video…you are very informative and love your tips at the end❤️
I have always liked high rise jeans.
Thank you for such a happy, positive message. Useful, practical tips that I'll definitely use but the last bit is so important.
Thanks for watching, Lyn. I’m so glad the video was beneficial. 🥰
As always, amazing examples and suggestions Kay! 😁💛
Thank you so much!!!
You are wonderful at what you do..God Bless
Thank you. That’s very kind. 😊
Fantastic video & information. Your spirit is such a joy & blessing. (The tummy area is my biggest challenge when dressing.) Thank you! 🎉 7/28/23
I just love your channel and happy I found you! You are so beautiful and provide such valuable information. I thank you so much!
Great tips! I brought a couple of pants to the alterations shop to have the pockets sewn up. The pockets just stuck out and I love the flat front!