NEVER Do This ONE Thing in Relationships
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Dude looks great for 49
Hang out, have fun, and hook up.
Famous Corey Wayne line
but they will always want more
Focus on YOU, for years, and she will eventually find you. You can only chase women in one direction.
Corey Wayne 👏
Corey Wayne ❤
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
Get a dog.
That guy is not in a scarcity mindset. He is in a hurry mindset . He is hurrying up with everyone .
It's really hard for men ..
Good point, but also he's in both in the sense that his _rush_ is likely at least based in part of FOMO, Fear of Missing Out of that "one true love", also known as the soul mate myth. (There can be only one,...etc.) Can't let her get away or miss out on her if she walks by and I miss, her like a dog getting distracted and chasing shiny bouncy things that pass by his field of view. It's all tied in. Good luck.
@@PersonalNotPrivate-rl8dv I am in my mid 50's. Don't rush. Buying gifts to a woman isn't your wife is insane.
He is in a hurry but at the same time he is 49.
@@alphaguy1028 he has to go Content with the fact that , He had his chances . He just failed in a few . Now it's not like He never tried ...
I am saying this at the age of 32. But may be I will do the same at that age .
It is so sad to watch this guy.. So many good men like this getting pissed on..
Women can be very bad persons
Yeah man it sucks lmao
It's really up to him at this point. He can keep doing what does not work, or realize that he can start doing things that actually work.
@Junoj101 Your are very right..
Why do guys want “partners” so bad? If you are financially independent, a woman should only be in your life as a plus.
They've been brainwashed for years and decades by women and their sponsors, the elites.🎉🎉🎉
there are massive advantages to being married to the right woman.
@@chrishayes5755*right woman? Hahahahah*
@@chrishayes5755 Right woman?
I think you mean a woman that is always right! 🤣
@@chrishayes5755 And what is that exactly ? She can change her mind at any time , just saying .
No way in hell this dudes 49. Looking great man!
I absolutely appreciate when guys are honest on here! Hell, that shows more spine than everyone claiming to be alpha but secretly doing what most of us do…😂😂😂
Rich has a very healthy way of looking at relationships and dating. Great advice.
A 49 year old guy who already has kids and probably doesn't want more should not be looking for marriage. At most, he should be looking for a long term relationship living separately (LTRLS). He can obviously get women. He's getting too invested in these woman too quickly. He should just be dating and see if someone special shows up over a long period. When that special person show up then he can do the LTRLS.
Man has a big heart, I’m the same way, kinda hard to break hard wiring. When you love everyone it takes a lot to start mistrusting and keep from attaching to people.
He gets young gold diggers only never flash your money he will never change into PUA crap which messed him up even more.
@@AnthonyManzioPunctuation. It’s a thing.
Focus on getting the kids raised first. Once they are, then if he wants a woman in his life he can focus on that. Women should unfortunately are a temporary thing and if he gets too attached to quickly it won’t end well.
Dunno why so many guys over 30-40s still need months to vet a women, and some will never figure out her nature until it's too late. You can vet her, at least to understand if she's viable to start, in very few dates or even exclude her in just few minutes sometimes. Just be direct, honest with what u want, ask questions, be even bold if necessary, test her limits, understand her values (if she has any), check her behaviour, don't let emotions overcome you. Uncontrolled Emotions make you dumb and blind. You Need to develop your testing skills and patterns, just like women do, and set boundaries, or you'll end up behaving like a simp. Zero tolerance to disrespect, any toxic behaviour and mental issues. Always aim for high interest womens or it's not worth it. Listen to your gut and instict, deeply you always feel if something is wrong for you, develop a connection to your higher self. When choosing a path ask yourself if it has an heart. Never go against your inner nature for pleasing others or you'll deplete yourself.
I'm 41. Guys my age and older came of age before social media. I got engaged before Facebook was even launched to the public (non-student members) in 2006. And even then it was an entirely different beast. An 18 year old now was born that year.
Guys older than me would have all their dating experience in a pre-social media world. Women were mostly the same, but also way different. These guys still have the same approach and have internalized all the lies. It's the guys in the generation before who coined the "happy wife, happy life" foolishness that still prevails. Anyone paying attention realizes it's a cold world out there.
+1 for "No More Mr. Nice Guy", great book. That and 'The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" really hit the nail on the head about people pleasing behavior and why its never going to get you what you are after.
How do I stop being an invisible nice guy? I can’t get laid
@@szn1580dr Robert Glover recommends salsa dancing or ballroom dancing classes for this. In his no mr nice guy book interviews. Gets you around women and you interact as a given because dancing together
I would say that most of these women are hitting it with other dudes. We keep recycling our trash and have high expectations for the potential of the relationship. We live in a decadent society, be real.
Buy them nothing, ever. No presents, nothing!!!!! If they want to be with YOU and not our money they will not leave.
No wonder why he's got 3 kids he's screwed. A real simp.
You’re 1000% right. I’m a woman and it feels wrong to even hint at asking for gifts. I respect him too much. I receive and cherish everything he wants me to have and so far it’s been a more than enough. Down payment on a car (I paid him back), a few pieces of fine jewelry, date nights, and so much more. I thank him. Also, women listen up. Surprise your man with fancy stuff you save up and buy for dates and events. I put my hard earned money into keeping myself up physically and he appreciates that. If he wants to buy me anything extra, it’s the icing on the cake. I got so lucky to find a top shelf man, and I work everyday to keep him. It’s not about money in the end. It’s about having a solid supportive equitable relationship. Thanks, Rich for all your advice. It’s your advice that got me into this relationship, and keeping it going. You put fear in my heart, but the good kind.
Single and happy as fck!
Living on your own has a freedom that is unmatched.
@@jim-se5xc -I love it!
Call-ins like this one are refreshing as a contrast to all muppets that often take up time!
This guy looks good for 49,..though he was 37-38
Here’s a question I would ask this guy that wasn’t asked:
Do you want more kids?
I’ll bet the answer is no. And if it is no, then why do you think you need a wife? Your kid has a mother, whether she’s alive or not, whether she’s a good mother or not. It’s probably time for him to focus on himself & let the women come & go.
As Rich said: you gotta dig thru a lot of dirt to find gold. Don’t rush it.
When a decent one won’t leave, then consider a formal arrangement like marriage,… maybe.
When I was 45, dating a woke 25 year old girl, she asked me, "Would you mind if I started sleeping with other women?"
So I responded with "Would you mind if I slept with other women?"
She was in shock, and then tried pulling the whole "THAT'S DIFFERENT!" routine. Then she tried enticing me with, "maybe there's something in it for you!" routine. So to respond to that I just said, "Well, there's something in it for me if I just go and sleep with other women."
She expected me to kiss her ass or simp on her, but when I didn't she dropped the topic and we had a great time for a few more months before she ran off to chase the next thing.
She kept coming back trying to get me back afterward but I ghosted her.
@@BelindaJon41 Coming from a troll with no followers, I'll take that as a compliment. This was years ago, when I lived in a gorgeous house in the woods next to a 39 foot waterfall and was making money hand over fist. Go ahead and watch the channel, and subscribe to find out what happened.
You should have responded "No I don't mind at all. Would be hypocritical of me to tell you not to when I'm doing it".
@@brentrosencrans3968 It didn't need to come to that. It worked. She was a bit floored by the response, and we had a good time for several months. We went on lots of road trips and had a good time - but she was young and not ready to settle down with an old man LOL.
@@RedeemingLight okay. Being an "old man" is not a bad thing. Being an old woman is terrible. Cheers.
@@brentrosencrans3968 You see 90-year-old men like Hugh Hefner with a mansion full of 20-year-old naked women running around, but you never see a 90-year-old woman with a mansion full of naked men.
Read the book , No more mr nice guy , good book !
They are always looking for a better deal.
I'm 52, I don't even think about love anymore. lol... Single, happy and have peace of mind. I feel bad for guys that still believe in love and "there's someone out there for you/ Soulmate." This poor Beta will be "stuck" in that reality for the rest of his life. "Partner?" Unfortunately he will never find "peace of mind." Seems like a good dude, but "switching tracks" from Beta to Confident & Secure rarely happens at that age.
Man, you’re finally FREE. Enjoy it!! Don’t get back into an LTR, travel, workout, do what you want to do….all of the time.
Hire some escorts, get a motorcycle, have some fun with the time you have left.
You won't "will not" find quality if you are chasing. You will have it come to you. It will happen when it happens. You put yourself in situations where you can meet quality women.
This guy should have no trouble finding someone!
He is doing everything he can in his power to turn women off and let them walk all over him
Being high value to get a pile of S.
high value men have access to 95% of the best women.
@@chrishayes5755 piles of S. All.
@@chrishayes5755 Sounds like a lot or work for little reward.
grreeaat advice
"Partner?' C'mon Rich.
I know I cannot stand that word Partner.
@@billthebutcher6873 Rich just did a video talking about how he hates it too. Yet.....
We have to be comfortable being alone. Expect that we will be alone. Live your life as you want it to be. Then women will find you interesting and attractive and will chase after you.
Yea, never ever ask her to marry you. Never do that while in any relationship.
This guy has the physical and looks stuff set. All he needs is the attitude.
He needs a new mindset.
Women like men whom they cannot manipulate or "read". They like men who give appreciation and positive attention, without appearing desperate or needy. Remember, when she pulls away, they you pull far, far away. When she shows interest in you, then you very slowly and cautiously let her into you life. Always appear nonchalant, calm and self controlled outwards, even if you don't feel like it.
If a woman is breaking up with you, then pretend that you have some very important errands that you have to do at once. Then just tell her that it was fun while it lasted, wish her well and all the best, and leave the crime scene as soon as possible, without any further discussion. Do not under any circumstances contact her again, until she possibly again contacts you.
At 5'10" ex-model, EDUCATED, VETERAN, now at 74 looking 50 and financially ok, I could not find anyone in DECADES. Its a myth that there is someone for everyone.
There is a woman out there for every man ... every man in the top 10 percent.
The problem is CLEARLY you.
Betas never learn
"I make them my focus. I give them gifts. That's the problem."
How heartbreaking for men to realize that being a good guy ends up making you alone. I wish I knew this stuff when I was a bit younger. I struggled for some time figuring this out, yet at the same time, always knew it existed. That, in essence, is the Red Pill. It's pulling back the veil of mythologies that's underpinned many relationships, and revealing a more callous world than previously understood. Once we know this, and realize that the world actually owes us nothing, then we can see the great gift that this advice really is. Thanks, Rich.
My advice to this guy would be to look anywhere outside Western countries.
I'm 48 and got divorced 5 yrs ago..
Just like him, I dated a lot of American women... all of them didn't have anything interesting to me.
I wasn't exactly looking...
Last year I went to Honduras, and I met a woman who's probably the most amazing woman I've ever met. No kids, feminine, no ex drama, baggage...
A woman who has excelente values , 18 yrs younger than me.
Never feel like YOU are 'causing an issue' just because SHE said something that does not make sense. I have come to realize that many problems arise when we allow people to say/do things that are clearly out of line and no one confronts the issue.
They want to be your focus, but they don’t want you to treat them like they are your focus. Just go work out make money hang out with your friends and enjoy life and watch how women suddenly come into your circle.
Positive bro vibes here, good on him, in a year he will he switched onto reality and the nature of woman. Goodbye Mr nice guy, but he will need to do a lot of re-wiring.
I’m 43, the main piece of advice I would give to a young guy with potential, assets, or something to lose, protect everything you have before you enter that relationship or you will lose it. Protect it at all cost!!! I’m warning you. Unless she has just as much to lose.
Dating sites can be of good use, when it comes to putting the message you want out there. And honesty goes a long way. Mine went like this: “looking for female companion with equally busy life, to spend quality time with. I am not seeking a long term relationship, or commitment of any kind. Seeking like minded female approx my age of free spirit and a thirst for adventure. Of course this doesn’t always work, but I had good results with being up front and honest right outta the gate.
You really don't even need to do that much. If you're an older guy, there's oodles of older women out there who are realizing how cold the world actually is. Some are decent, others are not to be touched with a 10-foot pole.
If you have your sh** together, it's jaw-droppingly easy. But I'm sure you know this. But many guys need to know, that any relationship needs to be on YOUR terms, never hers. No exceptions. No, we don't give a damn about equal rights. Be kind, be courteous, never abusive, but it should always serve you first and foremost.
Anything else is just setting yourself up for pain.
@@funloverdavis1796. Precisely! The days of tolerating disagreeable, contentious, malcontent women have long been over for this cat. I own my life 100%, and I don’t need any co-signers. I’ve had periods in the past 30yrs where I won’t have a woman at all. If it means bringing instability and chaos to simply have one around, I’m out. I’d rather be lonely than miserable.
You don't look for love , love simply happens.
Rich, when are you doing a book for woman?
Bad audio quality. Good advice from Rich as always.
Only point I don’t like is the 8mill people, 1/2 are women, that’s true but you have to continue reducing the number 1/2 are in US, 1/2 are in state, 1/2 are in city, 1/2 have red flags, 1/2 are attracted to me, 1/2 are available, etc
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This poor guy is a decent guy, but sadly lacks confidence and good judgement. He's too desperate and is grasping at straws, which makes him easy prey.
I've met a lot of guys like this and sadly, they often refuse to deal with the main issues contributing to their current situation. That being all of the emotional and internal stuff. Until he deals with that...he's going to continue having a rough time.
This is why it's important to have your "band of brothers" who are more than just "the buds you drink with". They have to be able to deal with your emotional garbage and even force you to deal with it. A good community doesn't leave a man vulnerable to manipulation, but strengthens him to realize his own potential.
You want a “wife”??? She’s NOT in the United States
4:20 Rich Gold
Rich - you have ongoing mic issues. It cuts out.
This 8 billion in the planet line is just bullshit. How many women will you meet in a year that you could approach (age single attractive etc…)? 50? In ten years that’s 500 not 4 billion.
This is scarcity mindset. You know you can meet women online, right? You also know they don't need to be living in the same zipcode, right? Even if you whittled it down to your hemisphere, with a bunch of unnecessarily narrow filters, any man of the caliber we're all aspiring to be has access to tens of thousands.
@@funloverdavis1796 online dating is such a crapshoot. Even then, how many dates can you go on? One per week if you are busy with kids etc. Just being realistic, these red pill dudes can be just as delusional as the boss babes they criticize. I think being outcome agnostic is important, women don’t want you to need them.
Just make decent money and pay for escorts, why tf you wanna settle for somebody who would take half of your wealth post divorce. And men who are 40+ are not even desired naturally by 20 year old girls. So just focus on money and status, be Donald Trump or Hugh Hefner of your town
Supreme Court pass a bill for anyone with a restraining order won’t be able to get a firearm
He doesnt sound like a simp, but actually does simp actions lol an old boy
he is doing the same thing and expecting a different outcome. looks to me that they just use him, and he has no clue why.
His mindset need to change to be more like "women are only passengers in a mans life" kind of attitude.
If i was him i should focus on my own interests and outdoors activities with some male friends instead.
Be in places where there just "happens" to be a lot of younger women and trust me those women will notice you.
This dudes crushing it. Men really do age well NO DIDDY. I got to get my stuff together
Dude needs to show interest, but only see the girl 1-2 times per week for the first month max. Seems like he meets the girl, they hit it off, and then he jumps 2 feet in.
I definitely buy woman perfume. Only gifts I buy
Your audio has been really strange the last few videos, Richard.
Doubt that’s an authentic caller. Probably an actor
maybe paid too.
Honestly.. who cares either way.
The message is the same.
Seemed pretty genuine to me. We all had to go through it one way or another. That moment that you realise everything you thought you knew was a lie. That it's all just bullsh**
Once you accept that reality, you start thinking back on all your relationships and it all makes sense. It's that "aha moment" hopefully for most that's learnt young and not like me in your 40s
Why so many GF’s? If they are not top shelf then it has to be casual dating. He gives away relationships like Halloween candy.
Did Rollo and Rich fall out? He's not recommending "rational male' anymore
Don’t get married or have kids family court will make you a slave
the insecurity just oozes from this dude. Prime White Knight money spender type. Womens favorite type of man to use.
Stop using the word "partner". Partner implies that you are in business together and have an equal say in everything. You want a woman to share your life with but she has to enter your life, not the other way around. You are the leader and have to act accordingly.
The other problem here is that this guy is a total simp. Probably raised by a single mother. Hopefully changes with Rich's help but probably will revert back to his old ways.
For women it's transactional.They will only share their life as long as they are reaping a tangible benefit. She's not yours. It's just your turn.
@@Bob31415 and that's okay. Men learn the rules of the game, and master it. Women are the ones who whine and try to change the rules because they don't know how to win.
@@funloverdavis1796 Precisely
People pay for this advice
But kinda interesting
Feels like it was a paid actor...
Find a 30 year old Filipina chick.
What’s with these clowns wanting relationships ?
I think the guy shouldn’t date again until he’s read and watched videos about female nature, otherwise he’s going to be treated like shit by women.