On dinner dates I get “whoops I forgot to bring money” so I have to pay for her and then I’ll never hear from them again. It’s such an asshole thing to do.
I would never get upset that a girl is eating my food. Lol... that seems so silly. Share your food... make a joke about her stealing your food... and then buy desert if you are still hungry. 😂
There have been at least couple of occasion where I was hit by a woman in a bar and when I declined their offer they got mad and started to ask me things like are you gay etc. So I guess both sexes get mad if rejected.
"I have a bf" is not about conflict avoidance. If a woman is approached by an entirely despicable creature, with no redeeming qualities, especially his money or lack thereof, they have no issue shooting him down. However, the guy that approached them obviously has at least one redeeming feature, and a quick glance at his appearance and wardrobe will reveal a shit ton of information. So why outright reject a potential suitor when he can be put in orbit or "fight" to replace the bf (existing or otherwise :D ) As far as women in clubs using the bf excuse. Amusing to think they are there without their bf and yet do not want attention from other men. The 2nd is a non issue. If one is a person that requires instant gratification and response to one's messages, in which the word instant does not mean instant response, only instant delivery, then that is something more important to work on than women. 3rd, flakiness, either something earth shattering has happened and she wouldn't have canceled just before, you would be the last thing on her mind, or she decided she has something or someone more interesting to do. So lesson 1, improve yourself. Lesson 2, she does not get a second chance. 4th, a woman knows that the more expensive the dinner, the more she is "expected" to pay her share. This is easily cut off by telling her you are splitting the bill anyway (that is another can of worms) telling her that since you are going to pay anyway for her food if she just eats yours, she might as well order her own, I am sure this could be done in a CF way, or simply, "Joey doesn't share food." Personally I'd save the sensual bonding over food to a later date. 5 is a no brainer. A woman doesn't want sex at the moment? There are others that will, and blue balls are easily self cured.
Well if she tells you she got a boyfriend then just move the hell on you not going to waste your time on somebody that supposed to bleed have somebody when you know if you know she's lying so you move on to the next female it's just that simple
Mostly because of looks dude, thats it... You cant do anything about it, you can go to the gym and get a better body but thats it, you would be an ugly fitness guy... All you can do is getting a lot of money, getting value for yourself, and getting social abilities to attract women, even cheat if needed...
That flaking thing is so frustrating, lol. I had this one lady who seemed really keen over messenger, then a few hours later “I suddenly came down with flu symptoms, can we reschedule” I said sure no dramas, hope you get well :) She hit me up again recently and we have organised a date again tomorrow. There must be a pandemic around 😂
Still don’t get it, if you’re not interested why don’t you just unmatch,unfollow,block,delete or not just reply? Why string something your not interested in along?
Easy. 18:50. Once you learn female psych and behaviors, you will become less confused and frustrated in the game. Women love orbiters/attention. The same way you still hang on to your old Playstation games knowing damn well you may never play them again BUT you like the option or how they look chilling in your game shelve so you keep them around until theres a reason to throw them out (cracked or stopped working) However, You keep the game you REALLY like inside your ps4 ready for action.. Guess what, Women do the same thing BUT with guys. We ARE their video game. They will keep you in their match until you give them a reason to unmatch (u ask for nudes or become too sexually vulgar) They just not that into you. Move on. Always keep improving yourself and keep talking to more women so you will start to be that "game that stays in the console" in the eyes of many women. You get that now?
Back up options, they've got a better guy around but they aren't sure they can secure him so they keep a few contingency guys around. She would rather be with her second choice than be alone.
Women like attention, even if they don't like you, knowing that you are around and you interested in her makes them feel good about themselves... Also you could be good as a back up option, or they may need a favor or something from you sometime in the future...
· some girls have last minute resistance with all/nearly all guys · some girls have the mind-set that they want to get sexual on the 1st date, but not go all the way · some girls also do this intentionally to be cruel · it's not always something that the guy is doing that turns her off · it's not even usually the guy's fault · among gay male societies, being left high-and-dry is extremely rare · even if it is the guy's fault, she should say so · ex. ?? "hey, actually, can we take a shower before we go any further"
Oh yeah definitely 'some' - but that doesn't mean that's what's occuring the majority of the time... But then the thing I noticed and a lot of guys notice is - these kinds of frustrations just go away when you get much smoother at attracting women - I mean I got barely any LMR for years after I had worked on this stuff, now would I get the last minute pulling away from sex - mean it happened but we're talking very rarely indeed. And again the number of women who are just 'cruel' is pretty low too - sure I agree they are out there but... just not the standard thing.
Wait, you order more tha you want, and she orders the most expensive thing on the menu = you go broke, and don't get a goodnight kiss or a second date.
Sharing food is intimate, sensual?? What the hell are you talking about, she just don’t want to look like a pig and order a burger in front of you, a salad is more feminine so it looks like she takes care of herself and eat healthy. But in the end she want to eat junk food just as much as you so she steals some from you. Like no, you won’t get laid easier because you shared your food, I’d even say you’d look more beta if you handed your plate at her. If you believe she eats too much from you be a man and tell her to leave some because you’re hungry too.
Have to be honest the food thing doesn't bother me if we've been seeing eachother for a few weeks and i'm not worried about her flaking or anything, she just pays for those chips on the bed :)
On dinner dates I get “whoops I forgot to bring money” so I have to pay for her and then I’ll never hear from them again. It’s such an asshole thing to do.
I would never get upset that a girl is eating my food. Lol... that seems so silly. Share your food... make a joke about her stealing your food... and then buy desert if you are still hungry. 😂
There have been at least couple of occasion where I was hit by a woman in a bar and when I declined their offer they got mad and started to ask me things like are you gay etc. So I guess both sexes get mad if rejected.
1: I have a boyfriend
2: Taking forever to reply
3: Cancelling at the last minute
4: She steals your food
5: Stopping sex at the last minute
all incredibly toxic habits except the first one
I love the food thing. I’ll try that. In fact I think sharing with a girl Im already attracted to would make me feel even more attracted to her.
Dont know what kind of women you meet, but the ones in my country will eat all restaurant if they could LOL...
"I have a bf" is not about conflict avoidance. If a woman is approached by an entirely despicable creature, with no redeeming qualities, especially his money or lack thereof, they have no issue shooting him down. However, the guy that approached them obviously has at least one redeeming feature, and a quick glance at his appearance and wardrobe will reveal a shit ton of information. So why outright reject a potential suitor when he can be put in orbit or "fight" to replace the bf (existing or otherwise :D )
As far as women in clubs using the bf excuse. Amusing to think they are there without their bf and yet do not want attention from other men.
The 2nd is a non issue. If one is a person that requires instant gratification and response to one's messages, in which the word instant does not mean instant response, only instant delivery, then that is something more important to work on than women.
3rd, flakiness, either something earth shattering has happened and she wouldn't have canceled just before, you would be the last thing on her mind, or she decided she has something or someone more interesting to do. So lesson 1, improve yourself. Lesson 2, she does not get a second chance.
4th, a woman knows that the more expensive the dinner, the more she is "expected" to pay her share. This is easily cut off by telling her you are splitting the bill anyway (that is another can of worms) telling her that since you are going to pay anyway for her food if she just eats yours, she might as well order her own, I am sure this could be done in a CF way, or simply, "Joey doesn't share food."
Personally I'd save the sensual bonding over food to a later date.
5 is a no brainer. A woman doesn't want sex at the moment? There are others that will, and blue balls are easily self cured.
can you provide us examples of playful chts?
I think you missed ghosting
Well if she tells you she got a boyfriend then just move the hell on you not going to waste your time on somebody that supposed to bleed have somebody when you know if you know she's lying so you move on to the next female it's just that simple
I actually wish I knew why women rejected me. A lot of things though are probably out of your control eg) look too old, doesn't like your face etc.
Mostly because of looks dude, thats it... You cant do anything about it, you can go to the gym and get a better body but thats it, you would be an ugly fitness guy... All you can do is getting a lot of money, getting value for yourself, and getting social abilities to attract women, even cheat if needed...
That flaking thing is so frustrating, lol. I had this one lady who seemed really keen over messenger, then a few hours later “I suddenly came down with flu symptoms, can we reschedule” I said sure no dramas, hope you get well :) She hit me up again recently and we have organised a date again tomorrow. There must be a pandemic around 😂
Yeah, and oddly the existence of a penis stops us from getting sick - thank goodness for having a penis, or I'd always be sick :P
Still don’t get it, if you’re not interested why don’t you just unmatch,unfollow,block,delete or not just reply? Why string something your not interested in along?
Easy. 18:50. Once you learn female psych and behaviors, you will become less confused and frustrated in the game.
Women love orbiters/attention. The same way you still hang on to your old Playstation games knowing damn well you may never play them again BUT you like the option or how they look chilling in your game shelve so you keep them around until theres a reason to throw them out (cracked or stopped working)
However, You keep the game you REALLY like inside your ps4 ready for action.. Guess what, Women do the same thing BUT with guys. We ARE their video game. They will keep you in their match until you give them a reason to unmatch (u ask for nudes or become too sexually vulgar)
They just not that into you. Move on. Always keep improving yourself and keep talking to more women so you will start to be that "game that stays in the console" in the eyes of many women. You get that now?
Back up options, they've got a better guy around but they aren't sure they can secure him so they keep a few contingency guys around.
She would rather be with her second choice than be alone.
Women like attention, even if they don't like you, knowing that you are around and you interested in her makes them feel good about themselves... Also you could be good as a back up option, or they may need a favor or something from you sometime in the future...
· some girls have last minute resistance with all/nearly all guys
· some girls have the mind-set that they want to get sexual on the 1st date, but not go all the way
· some girls also do this intentionally to be cruel
· it's not always something that the guy is doing that turns her off
· it's not even usually the guy's fault
· among gay male societies, being left high-and-dry is extremely rare
· even if it is the guy's fault, she should say so
· ex.
?? "hey, actually, can we take a shower before we go any further"
Oh yeah definitely 'some' - but that doesn't mean that's what's occuring the majority of the time...
But then the thing I noticed and a lot of guys notice is - these kinds of frustrations just go away when you get much smoother at attracting women - I mean I got barely any LMR for years after I had worked on this stuff, now would I get the last minute pulling away from sex - mean it happened but we're talking very rarely indeed.
And again the number of women who are just 'cruel' is pretty low too - sure I agree they are out there but... just not the standard thing.
Wait, you order more tha you want, and she orders the most expensive thing on the menu = you go broke, and don't get a goodnight kiss or a second date.
Let her order first. If she orders something light, then you order more than you want.
Sharing food is intimate, sensual?? What the hell are you talking about, she just don’t want to look like a pig and order a burger in front of you, a salad is more feminine so it looks like she takes care of herself and eat healthy. But in the end she want to eat junk food just as much as you so she steals some from you. Like no, you won’t get laid easier because you shared your food, I’d even say you’d look more beta if you handed your plate at her. If you believe she eats too much from you be a man and tell her to leave some because you’re hungry too.
LOL, like in the movies, they arrive home eating all in the refrigerator...
you misspelled "do" in the title ;)
Damn! Thanks for the spot, all the time you're the first to mention it!
Oops 6 minutes 11 seconds "my partner does this" ........ Did you just spill the tea?
I can't be too mad, I do it to her all the time too :P
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Have to be honest the food thing doesn't bother me if we've been seeing eachother for a few weeks and i'm not worried about her flaking or anything, she just pays for those chips on the bed :)
The phantom boyfriend equals their wearing to phony wedding 💍.