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The saddest part about family
conflict is that the toxic narcissists that create divide amongst siblings don’t realise that their behavior affects generations! May Allah guide them to the right path before it’s too late.
You really couldn’t of said that any better!
I'm a Christian but i like this teaching
All praise be to the one and only Almighty.
May Allah (God) bless you and grant you ease and Hidhaya
Ameen
What does your religion say?There r two chapters in our Quran .One named Surah Mariam(Marry mother of Jesus ) and Surah Al Imran(Family of Imran) Imran was Marry,s father.
Our religion tells us that Marry (Mariam Alihsalaam) was among the few perfect women in the world.Islam tells us about 4 perfect women and Marry(Mariam Alihissalam was one of them.
Inshaellah (god willing) will lead you to the right path
@@mc5zone503 I don’t get what you mean
I cut ties with my whole family because I got physically and mentally abused so much throughout my life. I can't find peace any more and suffer from depression. My goal is to leave my past behind and live alone in another country. May Allah forgive me ..
May Allah bless you and ease all your difficulties. Please read the Quran with it's translations, it will help you to come out from depression.
May Allah make it easy for you brother,in this life everything is a test for us.Take it one day at a time.Aameen!
😢
@BlueNinjaX11 please always recite laahawla walakuwwatha illahbillah n, hasbunallahu waniamal wakeel. Those are magical and miracle words. We all have tough times in our lives. Never give up. Don't lose hope and mercy of Allah. He will never abondan you.
@@nazriyazahir4260 he still needs the therapy and treatment with medications. Please don't spread wrong info. Please see a specialist and get close to Allah Almighty. He surely will help you.
I have recently been studying Islam on my own time and I’m enjoying it 🙏🏾
May allah guide you tiwards the right way
May you be enlightened,🙏
I the only way to study Islam is by our self.
It’s the only way too bypass the freaks.
My friend Elise who was born as transgender, was told by her family not to come to her fathers funeral. She went missing for a number of days until she floated up onto the shore of Lake Michigan. It was reported as a suicide.
She was soft spoken and a gentle person.
What hope does she have in not going to hell. I loved her as a sister because she was so gentle. Tell me please Mufti Menk. What is your understanding about what happened?
A’isha Shaw
@@aishashaw5885 these are matters between Allah & his slave. We should just hope for the best as Allah likes His slaves to have good opinion of Him.
I am also a Christian and love this man's preaching God Bless you Brother Mufti.
May Allah grant you guidance...
Allahu akbar
I agree
Masallah Masallah Allah with you
I hope you will join us in our Islam
It's hard to have a healthy relationship with your mother when she constantly shows you she has disdain for you. It's difficult to live like this.
You are loved by Allah. Send lots of salawat upon the Prophet saw constantly. Hopefully this will help ❤️
I can understand what you are saying, but what ever reason she is being like that towards u, but still she is your mother. You be nice to her help her as much as u can
@@barisomed1650 that's rubbish lot of people use to tell me the same she is your mother she is your mother I had been patient for so long but she had ruined my life my mother burn in hell fire 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
I understand, trust me but take it from a regretful adult daughter with nobody's support right now other than the almighty, don't ever estrange your mother because nothing is permanent. May you be blessed!
@@ip3931 same, totally agree with you .
A Lot of Mental Illness runs in the family. Some time you have to distance your self from the family. Alhamdulillah great reason to say Shukran there's so many Cities, Countries, and States you can move to and make a new home.
So true I did too keep my peace of mind
Moved away for a decade, and the distance does help.
Unfortunately that's the truth, it's better to love from a distance than be close and endure abuse. Much love everyone ❤
I feel as though stumbling across this message was a sign. Alhamdulilah. Thank you for leaving this reply.
Salam did you leave your country ??
"There is no beauty better than intellect" ( Prophet Muhammad). Qur'an has all the answers to resolve any problem we are facing but we need to pay attention to it. If we follow the teachings of Qur'an, somewhere inside our heart there is a satisfaction for everything we do. This satisfaction consoles a heart and relaxes a soul. ALHUMDULILLAH and I am greatly thankful to Allah for everything that He bestowed upon me; the most beautiful form of rizq is not only money, but it's also tranquility of a soul, healthiness of a body, purity of a heart, soundness of thoughts and a beautiful soul full of Emaan. ALHUMDULILLAH!
هل هذا الشيخ عربي ام لا فإني اراه يلبس ملابس عربية مثلنا نحن العرب
s this Sheikh Arab or not, I see him wearing Arab clothes like us Arabs
@@لاحولولاقوةإلابالله-م5ض Mufti Menk lives in, Zimbabwe, Africa, as far as I remember.
@@لاحولولاقوةإلابالله-م5ض 🙄 these clothes are hijabs just like the niqab is not just for Saudi women!
@@Tata-mt7ue I do not understand
@@لاحولولاقوةإلابالله-م5ض clothes, or any other things don't matter, the only thing that matters is his individual personality; his thoughts and his guidance. May Allah bless Mufti Menk with everything that he desires for.
I swear I feel in peace when I hear the way you explain the word of God, I am Roman Catholic but I don’t know why I feel in peace when I hear you. Thank you.
God's spirit shines through him...pure hearts radiate this because the light is from Allah. Thank you for your honest acknowledgement, how beautiful. Sending you love and increase in your knowledge.
Becoz it's a right path maybe u can't get much money on it path but definitely u will meet his god and peace
Dear brother.u r a nice human being....plz I m a widow need your financially help...I m in trouble plz reply me
God ll give u better reward I believe
Because it’s a right path
Parents are mainly the cause of family problems. Parents aren't fulfilling their duties and don't know what means to be a parent it all starts from the base it isn't strong enough things won't carry on as firmly as possible. I'm not saying this to dishonor any parents out there or mine but simply to point out the obvious.
I pray to Allah to help individuals that are enduring hardship within their families
sad....but it true
Well said my friend , I am going through civil war in my family, almost I am destroyed by my brothers having nothing, most people try to deny this true but unfortunately this is fact, jazakallah hiran mufti, I pray for you long life
@@wonderworld3021 only people that are experiencing this disaster can relate, families are destroying those who are beloved to them without realizing it. I pray that you find hope in whatever you are dealing
@@alhassane7758 , thanks very much, from my broken heart 🙏
Ameen
My mother is Catholic, I am Muslim. I lost my father over 8 years ago. My mother is so unhappy, agitated angry, and lonely. I visit everyday/ every other to support her with finances, cleaning and shopping. My husband on his day off work attends my mother's home with me to also help my mother, but she becomes even more upset. I leave my mother's home exhausted and upset as I am unable to pray, as she does not understand the deen. I am trying so hard to help her, as she too also looked after me.
Stay strong dear sister. Do your best but don’t go out of your way to the point it affects your own mental health and peace of mind. She will come round, you can pray for her hidaya till her last breath. To have this hope is actually recommended. It’s a different story after she passes away, then it is upto Allah. May Allah make ease🌹
May Allah make it easy for you
Don’t worry dear your all good deeds will be answered in after this short life.
May Allah bless her and guide to Islam
You're such a good daughter
I am thankful for this very inspirational lecture. I am learning Islam on my own. I am praying for guidance to know more about the ways of Islam. Inshallah
May Allah swt guide & honor you....
@@ExposingHindutva101
May almighty Allah guide to the right path…..
@sitna faraj
This is Beautiful Masha’Allah may Allah guide you Ameen
I'm tired Mufti :'( since I was a child my parents always fight up until now. Still we don't know what to do. But I believe in one thing if something happens today that will break our heart, I believe that it all happened because of the qadr of allah. We will just strengthen our beliefs and prayers.
It hurts like hell when your mother is doing wrong with you
I have so many family problems, don't even know where to begin or start. Years have passed and nothing has changed or will ever change. I'm tired
May Allah ease your difficulties, grant you guidance & keep you blessed in this world & hereafter...
@@ExposingHindutva101 Ameen
I was physically and verbally abused by parents and brothers my whole life, my brothers are all almost 30 I’m the 4th oldest out of nine siblings alhamdulillah I have married and settled and have 2 children but I try my best to help my mum as my dad has passed on because I believe in Islam you’re supposed to look after your parents but sometimes my mum doesn’t appreciate what I do for her she always wants more considering my brothers do nothing for her they just sit at home all day and don’t work and I buy food often for them, my mum curses me still as well and says I’ll never be happy in my life if I don’t help her, what do I do in this instance as this had affected my mental health really bad 😣
I Pray for things to go better Alhamdulallah.May Allah guide us 🙏
I would say that you should still help and give love to your mother, take her curse as a blessing if your siblings don't care for your mother as they should don't worry about it, you do your share.
You are doing the right thing look after your mother … may Allah make it easy for you Ameen
Don’t help her
U r definitely doing a very good thing…in the eyes of Allah u r indeed the best child of ur parents…they recognise or not doesnt matter… u keep doing the good work… u will be rewarded… soon in the world or the hereafter….❤
May Allah bless us with rightous children and give us good health
Assalamualaikum. How about responsibility of husband's family on me. His father and his younger sister (28yr old Divorced & cancer patient). Its been 5 yrs of marriage and we all live Toghether but since last few months his sister doesn't respects me, insults me and father too had stop talking to me. Infact my husband supports them and fights with me all the time. I told my husband I can't handle this I said I want seperate house or kitchen. But he isn't ready for it. Infact my sister in law doesn't even want to get married since she already divorced and with cancer no proposals are coming to her. What do I do. I want my seperate kitchen atleast. Advice please.
@@AKhan-ee3gk aleikoem salam yeah this is a very tough situation i hope mufti menk sees this and helps you i really dont want to say something thats maybe gonna make it worse inshaAllah it gets better and you find youre solution
@@AKhan-ee3gk Salam sister ( I wanted to ask why she disrespect you and why don't you tell your husband about it make dua Allah will give her Hidayat May Allah give you Saber
Aamiin
Ameen 💕
There will be disagreements and many challenges but sometimes relations become so toxic that it is necessary to maintain a distance give time to each other to calm down and see light towards right direction
@Go Transcript dude what’s confusing you about my comment is it the words of light towards the right direction ? The direction is the controlling of anger and not getting vile calming down restores sense I’m a MUSLIM toxic relations are in every community where does Christianity come in my comment
@Go Transcript I’m a Muslim Alhamdulilah and pray many more join our religion and achieve success here and in the hereafter ameen
So is it allowed to get distant coz of those toxic relations, with no reciprocation and being taken for granted. Can you try to have minimal communications with such people coz getting close to them has always led to trouble
I came across this video while trying to learn more about Islam. 22:47 hit me hard. I needed to hear that. As a single father fighting on multiple fronts, this gave me the feeling to carry on in my path.
May Allah bless families and make it easier for parents. Aameen
Aameen
Assalamualaikum. How about responsibility of husband's family on me. His father and his younger sister (28yr old Divorced & cancer patient). Its been 5 yrs of marriage and we all live Toghether but since last few months his sister doesn't respects me, insults me and father too had stop talking to me. Infact my husband supports them and fights with me all the time. I told my husband I can't handle this I said I want seperate house or kitchen. But he isn't ready for it. Infact my sister in law doesn't even want to get married since she already divorced and with cancer no proposals are coming to her. What do I do. I want my seperate kitchen atleast. Advice please.
@@AKhan-ee3gk Are you able to go to your parents for a bit to help with the mental distress it might be causing you.
Maybe that might help you to think about things.
They shouldn't be disrespecting especially your husband.
May Allah resolve your issues.
@@AKhan-ee3gk salaam alaykum sister, may Allah ease your problems as we are all tested in different ways the almighty has ordained. It may not be best to ask for advice from comment sections of any sort as they can sometimes be misleading. Put your trust in Allah and hold firm to the Qur'an, try and understand it when reading as it holds solutions these worldy problems we face. May Allah make it easy for us all. Aameen
My extended family are toxic and manipulative bullies. As they've gotten older they seem to get worse and enjoin in upsetting us
with unpleasant nonsense. We're always stuck in situations where we have to cater to their needs, but when we need help in times of hardships or happiness they openly can't be bothered to help. It's a never ending cycle and I'm drained.
I regret why I forced myself to be close with my siblings, and currently More than sometimes I don’t understand how I was stupid when I realised they are my enemies they already destroyed my family, marriage abused my children and permanently damaged my family
I relate. Relate way toooo much. I hope you are okay
I just feel like family is tireding and toxic...best family is the family u make on ur own
Why do i always cry when listening to him i always come to his videos when im overwhelmed with depression and anxiety and try to put myself back together with the positive words he conveys about what ALLAH SWT said may he gets blessed with a lot here and in hereafter
Ameen
I hv tried hard all my life. Now I have a right to myself n my child. I can’t be part of a toxic evil family . I hv a responsibility to provide my child an opportunity to be around good pious people n learn how to live a normal life. May Allah give me the strength n enough time .Ameen .
Summa Ameen
Please keep good ties with your family how ever hard it may be is very crucial for a muslim.may Allah heal your heart
I am Hindu from India and I like his teachings
May Allah swt grant you Guidance....
Daily Dhikr Reminder 🌻🌹Bismillah
1. SubhanAllah 2. Alhamdulillah
3. La illaha il Allah 4. Allahu Akbar
Ameen🤲🏼
@@silviehaqiqi-activist9499 may Allah swt bless you for saying the dhikr
My parents don’t pray salah pls make dua may Allah swt guide them …
i try so hard... i try to speak softly, i try to be respectful and obedient... all i ask is my own life... i dont want to live away from my parents, i want to live with them but do what i want, have a life that i want.... if i want to be independent let me be... i wont do anything wrong,... i just want the same freedom that my sister has.. why is it that she can come and go anywhere and whenever she wants but i cant.... we both are adults.
I have found myself to have all the reasons against this or that concerning parents but lately realised that I had a behavior that was far away from patience, one has to realize our parents were born at a different time, different generations, different upbringing, that they have had their own issues, their own childhood filled with good or bad or even highly traumatic events...yet, they carried on ... They surely make mistakes just like every human being make...as children, having everything is easy ...growing up in the age where technologies are spreading and having everything makes us grow sometimes very ungrateful... We expect things from others that we don't expect for ourselves. We follow trends and whatever makes us temporarily happy ... And we tend to forget that our own choices bring us good or bad results...then the finger pointing exercise starts trying to find who is guilty for our own sadness. There are healthy families where everything looks good and fantastic yet underlying issues...and there are what people call "Toxic" families because issues are not addressed properly and not resolved and teachings not passed on...where one would rather move on and forget than speak true feelings and grudging on them. So to make it short before constantly feeling down or thinking parents are always at fault ...and even when they are ...one must try to understand what they've been through and where they come from. And sometimes we have to look into ourselves and at ourselves to change and see changes around us. Easier said than done but I pray everyone having family problems will find a healthy and positive way to deal with it and In Sha Allah heal the wounds of the past with the Help of Allah the most High ,🤲🏼💕💗🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼
I related so much to that comment brother, that gave me and reminded me a perspective i once had but i lost it admist all the chaos and arising problems. Jazakhallah khair for reminding me again
@@deadgiyplayz3689 Alhamdu Lillahi
thank you!
Brother ur words r so beautiful.I realise nowwhere I failed.
My first comment: Thank you Mufti Menk. I am sharing to my family
15:15
Children treat with respect
15:43 16:18
***Jealousy between brother’s wife’s **
16:57 Family Importance - Muslim or non-Muslim
17:52 dry log 🪵😂😂😢
22:51 🏠👨👩👧👩👩👦👦👦👶👧🧒🕋🕋🕋🕋🕋
27:05 verbal abuse 🛑🙊🌷🌹🌸🌞🌈🎂
30:10 **Don’t involve others***
31:05: don’t cut within 3 days
31:15 Eid day - make an effort to cousins know each other
My husband Muhammad Zahoor Sahib is very unwell. Pray for him. May Allah grant him complete healing. Amen.
May Allah swt give him quick healing , and bless him
May almighty Allah give him shiffaa…pray for quick recovery
MashAllah may Allah purify our heart from every physical and spiritual diseases. Aamen 🤲🏿
Aamiin.
Allahuma Amin
Allah Hu Akbar
Ameeen
MashaAllah TabarakAllah feekum May Allah protect us from hell fire Ameen
I Invite you to say 💚
Alhamdullilah 💚
La illaha ila Allah 💚
Subhana'Allah 💚
Am also a christian and I listen to Him always, I love his teachings
Dealing them likee hell oh my Allah what a biggest test.. May Allah ease me take me away from my heartless family.
I make the same dua🤲🏻
May Allah SWT grant you a good spouse and you can move far from them
May Allah swt give us Guidance...
Don't curse them..... Pray for them
May Allah swt grant us love, respect towards one another within our family members & keep us blessed & happy in this world & hereafter..
As a Christian, this is an amazing message. My brother and his now wife caused so much unnecessary stress in order to steal my My Moms Inheritence and My inheritanceb (From my Late Father's estate) for their own gain. My brother's spouse has caused just as much division as my own brother, Completely destroying the Fabric of the Family Unit as you say. Great video and Very Well said, Mufti. May the Lord deal with them.
I love this man may Allah guide him with protection, God bless you.
Thank you so much. ❤ it really changed my mind I was going through tough time i endured it alone. I didn't shared it to anyone except allah❤. May allah grant you highest rank in jannah
4:40 -5:14 I can relate,it destroyed my childhood literally.
May Allah give us all sabr to deal with our problems
I.... have problems with my parents,. They do not understand about me having freedom after hard work. and they always say things like i am 10. but i'm 30 :( But this speech calm me down. thank you :)
Islam is such a beautiful practice to have in your life. I love mufti I respect him so much
Islam is the right path, Allah to guide you…Inn Shaa Allah
Jazaka Allah Sheikh for talking about this topic.
So many parents treat their children unfairly and it creates much hate within the family.
Baraqallahufik Mufti Menk. Aamiin Allahumma Aamiin.
As a Hindu I can see that whatever your pathway to God you come across challenges that are common. You give advice beautifully. Allah bless you. I would love to hear you talk about the Importance of living with All in peace and harmony. Why do we use religion to divide us? Yet all religions teach us to be loving .Thank you.
I am a Christian but this video was exactly what I needed. My son was very disrespectful to me but I forgive him.
He is so humble and polite very good explanation
Your parents are either a test for you or a blessing and I pray everyone has loving parents because some of us never did. And it’s true this type of mental torture stays with you for life, in your own marriage and when you have kids, it’s almost like you have to change your way of thinking and learn again from step 1 at your adult age. May Allah swt guide and protect us all.
Whenever I listen to mufti menk molana tariq jameel sahab nouman ali khan and dr zakir naik I love to listen...it motivates me gives me strength I feel much strong and always I remember my nani ammi she use to advice for such motivational lectures. Thank you sir. I really love my nani ammi she was an inspiration to me she passed away may alllah forgive all her sins and grant her jannat. Plz make dua for my nani ammi I cried a lot I lost her. Mufti menk aap jaise neik log hai jiski vajah se duniya qayam hai.
Yes especially molana tariq jameel motivates a lot and made our belief more strong and all others too
May Allah bless your nani and forgive all sins and open window of heaven for her
May Allah grant Nani ammi janna tul Firdaus
@@zainabmohammed9993 aameen summa aameen.
@@zainabmohammed9993 Thank you zainab.
@@islamonly30 aameen summa aameen Thank you.
I am a Christian but I always follow his video and listening his all lectures and very informative about in Islam way.❤
What I love about these videos is that you dont get the answers to your personal problems but instead; you get the formula to the solutions which you can apply any situation.
Allah swt grant us all ease. Ameen
Ameen Allah Humma Ameen🤲🏼
May Allah swt grant you good health success and more respectful life.... We love you Mufti Menk........from India
Assalamwalekum
I am a Muslim lady who follows the path of Islam, but my husband is totally opposite of me. He doesn't believe in Allah swt . After doing wrong also he is not ready to accept it nor
Afraid of Allah swt It's only sabr and dua I make to Allah to grant him hidayat and turn him to Allah.
Sometimes it is very difficult, but
I think that's the test of Allah.
Allah swt bless him and show him correct path.
It isn't permissible for a Muslim woman to marry a non Muslim
اَلسَّلاَمْ عَلَيْــــــــــــــــــــكُمْ وَ رَحْمَةُ اللہِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
Sheikh, you look so tired! May Allah swt grant you good health and Barakah always.
May Allah bless you and your family you are a wonderful person and a great scholar. Ma Sha Allah
Preach it my brother we could use a brother like you in our community I tell you it's needed I am praying for this may God grant you mercy I am a Christian but I love your teaching
Alhamdhulilla, Alhamdhulilla...
Dear Bro's & Sister's...
Iam job less for more than a year and now our situation is ???, Please make your dua in all your prayers for me and family...
Jazaak Allah Khair.....
Start reading tahajjod prayer, in shaa Allah you will be surprised how things will change in shaa Allah
🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻
Can you please speak about today's illness; arrogancy and high ego which make the worst relations between humanbeings and is one of the most serious reasons of people not believing in God. Arrogancy leads people not to see their weaknesses, how fragile, how sensitive, how weak creatures they are... Even so called believers might be arrogant as if they had created the small mountains... arrogancy is one of the worst traps we all might fall in, May Allah protect us... 🤲🤲
Whatever this guy advised parents to do my parents did exactly the opposite and completely ruined my mental health, confidence and ambition. It’s always said that children’s heaven is under a mother’s feet but it’s never mentioned how parents should be punished if they ruin a child’s life that easily.
When I was young I think about 3 years old my parents separated. My mother is Christian while my father was Muslim (he passed away). We were ( 3 of us)raised alone by my mother. My father got married and left us. It was really hard and challenging to be with mother. She has full of anger and bitterness towards my father. She used to tell us negative about my father. I did not understand when I was young until I reached a certain age. She loves money money. When she’s mad she used to curse me or my other siblings. I developed anger and hatred toward my mother. Not a good relationship. I always make duaa to find peace and forgiveness because my mother hurt me so much.
Please find it in your heart to forgive her.Our parents are human beings too can make mistakes.
Is very hard but forgive so you can move on without affecting your mental health
InshaAllah. I must do it. Thank you.
Please just forgive your mother so that you can continue with your life..also do a lot of dua and prayers, Inn Shaa Allah everything will be ok
Alhamdulillah for an Islamic scholar is speaking, preaching and adressing people in English, in the language of the World. This is a blessing, a mercy of God for humanbeings..
Mashallah May Allah help us all to do the right thing ameen
MAY PEACE AND BLESSINGS OF ALLAH SUBHANAHU WA TA'ALA BE UPON OUR BELOVED PROPHET MOHAMMAD SWALALLAHU ALLEYHI WASALLAM HIS FAMILY AND ALL HIS COMPANIONS
In our society our ustaz say that we shud yes to everything parents say even she say 5+2=10 we must say yes yes thats correct. N m against that. U right we need to teach n correct our parents so that they hv correct knowledge. I am always in line w yur thoughts mufti menk. Alhamdulillah. Islam is fair beautiful and mostly common sense indeed
May Allah grant us ease 🤲 Ameen
May Allah bless you
Mufti you are advising the parents .
Advice us how to deal with this toxic family. I want peace. May Allah guide my family members ameen
im christian too..thanks i didnt forget my fahter always tell us dont get jealous because this is dangerous as you grow up...thanks god he give me a good parent to guide us and love us in failure and success they support us thats why may be were old now but still we have peace in our family..thanks for reminding me about my father...im glad that i see your video everyday mufti menk i salute you spread the love and more power to encourage people..
May Allah swt grant you Guidance
Lots of people suggested find a good masjid and spend time there. I did that and it was really peaceful. But now my brother in law took my peace. So I changed masjid, because I concentrate in that masjid. My brother in law was always jealous.
Allah has tested me though me having a terrible family in my opinion in my house life I’m not aloud to even cry they don’t understand holding back tears is not healthy or even possible majority of the time
I am definitely reminded of the deen by your lectures 😊Alhamdulillah it gives me some sort of peace of mind
It is a very nice video when you pray to allah soon you’ll be very close to allah and as you said in the before video in the Ramadaan let allah bless you and give whatever you want and let allah make you safe from enemies 😇😇
Mwenyezi mungu atujalie tuwe katika watu waliokuwa na imani na roho ya kusamehe yaarabi ameen 🙏🙏
Assalaamu alaykum
I realize distance works for me with very little communication. As long as I was 800/1000 away. I was at spiritual peace. Once I travel among my tribe the huge problems developed. ( I'm muslim)( they are not) May Allah shift me distance away among my Muslims sisters and brothers and give me guidance, ease .
What to do where you have to stay with such people, how should you behave with them?? How can you avoid them???
La ilaha illallah anta subhanaka inni kuntu min AZ zalimeen.
May Allah guide my father who destroyed my life and my future
By simply saying I am Muslim around my phone and begin to pray regularly these videos have come through my thread. I appreciate your words to help me further understand. I really don't want to speak English anymore and it is difficult when I feel as if I have no choice I put the energy out there that I am going against something and people still try and talk to me when I don't even know them. It's like they know it I am ready to meet Allah SwT. .
We are so thankful for you my sheikh mufti menk..I love you for the sake of Allah
How u give qootba and adwaa mashaallah your blessed my sheikh..he’s the calmest perfect person I have ever heard give out a good speech a good daawa
May Allah continue blessing you and may he forgive u inshaallah ya Allah bless him for my sake ..he’s literally the best sheikh of my time take it to Allah if u Doubt me ❤️🙏🙏
This is an old lecture I’m listening to in 2024. The part that made me laugh “who gave who covid.” Lol. Thank you Mufti menk for making everything so logical and easy to understand. Whenever I’m having a difficult time I always listen to your lectures and it’s truly like therapy. May Allah bless you and your family always. Ameen.
I'm impressed and and proud to be a Muslim because I admire and follow the Noble Qur'an that makes bewildered of the facts of his creation which are not disputed by the greatest living Scientist and Hadees narrated by Bro Mufti
Thank you very much for showing me the Islamic way on how to handle family problems. Alh this came exactly at the right time, as my heart felt heavy, not knowing what to do.
Thank you for this as its important to marry spouses who would be a support in marriage not someone who is going to take advantage.
Assalamualaikum. How about responsibility of husband's family on me. His father and his younger sister (28yr old Divorced & cancer patient). Its been 5 yrs of marriage and we all live Toghether but since last few months his sister doesn't respects me, insults me and father too had stop talking to me. Infact my husband supports them and fights with me all the time. I told my husband I can't handle this I said I want seperate house or kitchen. But he isn't ready for it. Infact my sister in law doesn't even want to get married since she already divorced and with cancer no proposals are coming to her. What do I do. I want my seperate kitchen atleast. Advice please.
@@AKhan-ee3gk talking bad about his family is just going to damage your relationship with your husband. You should avoid that at all costs.
You should instead try showing him indirectly the true face his family hides from him.
My sister was like you, every time she tried to talk about his family he would shout her down. They were even in the verge of divorce but one day she received a call from her sister in law telling her that she hopes that they'll divorce...
That's when she decided to change tactics and become as sneaky as them.
For example, when my sister was at her in-laws and my brother in law wasn't home, they let her starve all day and didn't let her cook anything. He only returned late at night, and then the in laws were hurrying to prepare dinner. (He provides them money so that's why they trat him like a prince)
To take her revenge, all my sis did was eat with her husband on his plate (there was only his plate in the table so she wouldn't eat) and comment on how she was starving because she didn't eat all day. That day my brother in law gave them an earful. The in laws were so red of rage and ashamed that they were caught.
My brother in law is still very protective of his family but now at least he knows that they're no saint.
Ps: the sister in law is also divorced and her her high life maintenance expenses are all covered by my brother in law. She wants my sister to divorce so she could get more allowance.
Mufti Menk is the best motivational speaker!
may allah bless you mufti menk with happyness and patience in bringing the people together and making the world a safe home for mankind
May Allah 🤲🤲reward you for this beautiful speech.💐💐💐💐👍👍👍👍👍👍
Thank you so mach ❤❤
Your migration is very much loved by Allahswt
Because your migration is for Allahswt
Nobody stop you going jannatil Firdous
Inshallah
Ameen
Subhanallah all praises to Allahswt
assalaamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu Uztad Mufti
Qur'an is the best solution/answer for our problems in different situations.
May Almighty Allah grant us
guidance and protection Ameen 🤲❤️
Ya Allah protect our children and guide us to the right path of life and make them the coolest of our eyes Ameen ya rabbi.🤲🤲🤲🕋🕋🕋😭😭😭
Alhamdullilah.Allah took something from me but it is a blessing in disguise.
Somehow your lectures come to me exactly when I need it, & offers me clarity on the exact topic I need it on….Divine Intervention perhaps 😇May the Almighty bless you with good health, blessings and success always Mufti Menk!🤍✨
My family stole 140k from me and then tried to put me in jail and other things. He then proceeded to give my brother a house before paying his debt to me. They said I lied about the money and made me the black sheep. I've found that their using religion as a cover, I tried to forgive however I can no longer allow myself to be near them. I just pray they do the right thing. Thank you for this video.
They also expected me to take care of them when they favored everyone over me. They painted me as the bad person. Allah urged me to be isolate from them, and since then I've been getting guidance from Allah
My grandfather also stole from his mother in law. And I tried to tell my brother he is know apart of this sin because he accepted a bribe before they repaid the debt. I don't read the quran as much, but there was a bee in the car. The driver wanted to kill it and I said no because there is a surah about the bee. I told the bee to leave and it left the car. I then read surah nahl.
Wish all extended family was like this. Some are terrible and toxic.
Allah gives different sustenance and tests to each and everyone of us.I am grateful to Allah for what I have and what I don't have.
Jazaakallah khayr sheikh
most of parents think there previous, present, future sins are forgiven by giving child birth and started doing whatever they want and however. some parents treat their daughter and son-in-law very lovely way but they treat their son and daughter-in-law like slave. some parents are so much dominating. another one is age gap. age gap is a disaster (most of the time) for younger one.
may Allah help us,protect us and bless us with a happy family ❤️
You are an Angel on this Earth. Jazak Allah kher
Assalamualaikum brother,I'm dealing with a situation where my husband got sick and we came to stay with his mom house but we have no privacy and his mom trying to control everything and this is a problem cause I'm a grown woman and I can take care of my husband and myself well,ye Allah please bless us with good health and our own house!! Ameen 💕
ALL THANKS AND PRAISES GOES TO OUR CREATOR OF HEAVEN EARTH AND ALL THE THINGS INSIDE IT ALLAH SUBHANAHU WA TA'ALA
Joining all other Christians here, love this guy haha, some things make sense regardless of religion
Never have I related this much to a video. Subhanallah!!