When you get educated and finally get away, physically and mentally, there is Peace. Every one of your videos is a comfort and so spot on it’s amazing. Thank You Andrew! Stay warm!
If they do apologize, they'll add, " Well, if you didn't do this or that, maybe I wouldn't have...blah, blah." Life is too short as you already know, Marie. I think I'll go have a half cup of coffee for the evening. Time better spent than with any Narc.😉👍☕1/2🌛
Hi Andrew ! You talked about pets. My Narc husband got a dog. No one in the family could understand why he got the dog. It was a few weeks after I handed him divorce papers. I knew he got the dog to harass my cat who was afraid of dogs and he knew that. I tried to keep his dog away from our cat that we had for 12 years. Well, his dog attacked my cat and after surgery, that didn’t help much, my cat died. That is how sick these Narcs are….. I know he did it on purpose…..
Oh my God I am so sorry for you. What an evil person you married. You have my deepest sympathy losing your cat. I cant imagine the pain you went through. We are all here for you to lean on and support you.
It broke my heart when my then husband ignored our dog (who was his from the beginning and whom I loved with all my heart) and his needs. He often did. When our dog died there was no more love for me in our home. I realised that the love I got from our dog was what had kept me going, kept me sane. It was the only pure love I ever got. The only love.
The bond and love you shared with your dog will live in your heart forever. My husband had zero emotion when my dog died in my arms from cancer. My dog helped me through some pretty rough days. I'll miss him forever. I understand how you feel. I'm sorry for your loss.
When my pet (a kangaroo) died 4 years ago, I was crushed. My ex-wife called me that very day and said: “I hear that you killed Thor.” A narcissist is amazingly cruel and heartless.
My son died of a fentanyl overdose 6 months later. He made me loose my son and everything I owned. He also made me get rid of my dog. I have been gone from him 6 months healing
I'm so sorry. I can't imagine losing a child. Agonizing. My ex (father of my 3 kids) made me get rid of my dog too. I'm extremely ashamed of it. Thankfully I found a good home but still. Never again. I'm still healing.
She wanted two dogs. It’s only now after it’s all over I realize it was to use up my energy. She never fed, watered, cleaned up after, took to vet or loved them. It was to keep me busy. It’s a shame because she didn’t know what pure love from a pet is like.
@@MsBrooklyn62 I had them both 15 years until they passed. Those were the two best friends I ever had. To this day I wonder why she wanted them other than supply when she got them and then it was clear to have someone with them while she ran off and did her thing. Jokes on her because those pups and I became inseparable. Still miss them to this day.
He moved the family to the other side of the country. I was away from all of my siblings and parents. I left my lifelong friends. He knew what he was doing.
Double-whammy here: I now realize that I married my mother…..Thank you for helping me name and untangle the strangling Gordon knot of all this life-stealing s-t-u-f-f….. You are so good to be standing out there in the rosy cold for the sake of warming us all with the freezing truth. Bless you Andrew……PrayGod there is a warm cup of tea nearby to warm your hands.💜✝☮✝💜
Almost signed up for a new job yesterday. During the interview I understood quite fast that they had some alarming narcissistic traits. Sneaky, controlling, pedantic, sense of small loss, this time I said no! (Doubting first of course 😅. ) Next day I had a new job opportunity that felt heart centred 🎉 💯%
Thank you for bringing up pets. The narcissist ex bf yelled at my older dog because he had an accident. It was my dog's first time there. My ex looked like he was going to hit him. My dog held his ground and growled at him. The relationship didn't last long after that
“maintain a small footprint going forward, listen more than share, apply the information to practice discernment,” thanks for this information, Andrew, and for coming in live from the cold. Thank you for being here through the holidays and every day; and the big virtual hug, sending one back to you 🤗💜
How the narcissist treats their pet... another warning sign I was given, but didn't have the knowledge to understand and interpret correctly. Your observations are very astute, Andrew. Like when you describe how they always walk ahead of you rather than with you... It was all right there in my face, but I did not understand. Thank you for your work, Andrew.
Because of experience with narcissists, I am guarded more than I used to be. What seems to be a huge red flag to me is when people try to force relationships. In the neighborhood (especially in hoas) they don't respect boundaries and smear you when they are denied access. Unfortunately, too many people believe their gossip. They assassinate your reputation. I stay to myself as much as possible.
I was married but didn’t ever feel married because he ignored me, used the smear campaign, made me do everything while he sat back and watched with his arms crossed. We’d go to a party and he wouldn’t even notice I disappeared because he started a fight on the way there gaslighting me. He only noticed when he needed me. I really should have left him at that party but I’m too nice.
sounds like we married the same person. I was also ignored. Other men at parties thought I came alone and were interested in me... I said I was married and they could not believe that anyone would ignore their wife the whole entire time and leave me by myself. I should have left too. I was too nice. Now I call an Uber and go home and leave him there. He doesn't even know I left ....where do these people come from??
I am a senior and I am getting light bulb moments from experiences I had with my past narc high school boyfriend! Yikes I am grateful and free and so glad to gain the wisdom. The truth has set me free!
Yes when he moved me and the kids away from my family and friends, that’s when everything got so much worse! It was terrible. I finally put his belongings in a bag in the garage and had the locks changed on the house! Did that twice because I fell in his trap again and gave him a key. Changed the locks a second time! Never gave him another key! Nightmare!🙏🏻💜
They won't tell you anything that will help YOU!! ITS ALL ABOUT THEM!! you are their servant. They are King or Queen and their throne is on a very high pedestal!! And you must bow and cooperate or you will be sorry! Oh that's right they don't tell you that never pleases them either!! It's a LOSE-LOSE.. get out and be DONE!! NO CONTACT IS THE ONLY WAY!!
When I started peeling back the onion, I was like woah...it's their family. Multi-generational. It was all about appeasing them. They're hoarders, and that includes people. I'm not an appliance. When I figured that out, boy did she go nuts.
You speak the truth for so many of us!! Yes, I was so blinded by the lies he told me. Moved out of my hometown to live what I later found out was future faked! After all the abuse, and when I finally got out, he exploded my life with my family. It will never recover from his damage! I have gotten stronger and I’m healing. It just occurred to me.. it has been over a month since I’ve actually thought about him. Maybe that means I have finally reached that pinnacle of indifference. Happy new year Andrew. Stay strong, and especially warm. ❣️❤️❣️
And it looks like no one can help .Even if you see your son is love bombed, there is nothing you can do about it, just watching him going deeper and deeper in the disaster..my eyes are watering
This is how directly God uses the timing of your videos in my life. It's been years since I've eaten a bowl of cereal in the morning. Well...this morning I was doing just that. As I was eating, and watching your video, you mentioned " maybe you were eating your bowl of cereal".. oh yes! God led me to you, and others to learn what I've been up against for decades. Thank you for the enlightenment! God bless your " ministry".
You Andrew are opening more and more and it's never end. It's scary. Thank you for not letting us down. Every time i listen your video i feel i got a recepie how to see who is this persons. Than again you open more truth. I feel so violent anger coming out of me. I need to controll myself. Social workers hurt my son and finally after 3 years Judge realised. I am devastated from hate. I am ashamed coz i really for one persone, for him i wish the worse, i want him to get fired and to go jale for abuse of power. I said it out loud. But he has two children. So it's not easy to hate him. Three years went on. Since full on covid time til now. Sadistic person. Social worker. I have to work much on my self in order to forgive. Thank you Andrew.
I worked in a Veterinarian's Office many years ago before I got married. Best job I ever had. Working with animals is the most rewarding experience I ever had. Being an empath....animals mean so much to me. Animals are better patients than humans...believe me...... I took my hour lunch break to sit with the pets that had operations and pet them and looked after them as they woke up from surgery.....cleaning the cages and making sure they were OK. They were so happy for someone looking after them. No matter how bad they might have felt...they sat up....the tails were wagging....and their eyes expressed how much they appreciated someone who cared. I also saw terrible cruelty as well. I will not say what I saw......but there are a lot of mean...cruel.....evil people who inflict their anger inside of them on these poor defense-less animals. Luckily I worked at a place where we took them in and did whatever it took to get them healthy again. Was all done for free. We worked on them and did our best. Some made it...some did not. I never ever thought there was such cruelty in this world. I cried many tears there.....always saying silent prayers for them.....and until I had that job...I never knew just how despicable and horrid people could be. I was sad to leave that job......I truly loved it.....because I LOVE animals......but I got married and moved away.....closer to where my future husband worked. ( didn't know he was a NARC) What little did I know is that I married a cruel and evil man. Funny how life turned out that way. I have a very strong aura ( light) and my husband knew that and has made my life a living Hell. To all of those out there in this community.....we all understand each others' pain. I just wish Andrew had this channel 40-some years ago . I would have walked away and never looked back. So stay strong and come here for support....
You're right about the pets. They use them, like everyone else- to look like a good, caring person. Another lie. That's all, otherwise I start swearing. 😁
He left me 4 dogs, never took care of them. He didn't care about them. The oldest one was 18 yrs old and I had to put him to sleep, and it broke my heart.
Yup - Her succession of pets, adopted for short-term supply, then discarded for some other poor animal was amongst the first warning signs I should have heeded.
Yes - Yes, I’m sitting watching this in my kitchen, with several inches of Scottish snow outside around me and a range of beautiful songbirds coming to the feeder/bushes right outside. Including Goldcrests, which I seldom see this far from a nearby riverbank. Peace, narcissism-free peace!
@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAloneGod bless you, Andrew, because your videos are helpful. I am still married to my narcissist husband but I think my marriage (=fake relationship) is getting closer to the end. ❤
What they wont tell you. Truth. They lie, even in small details that seemingly does not matter. Just to confuse you, and let your mind spin. And for you to ask them for guidance when reality seems chaotic. Mostly due to their gaslighting.
Fake empathy might be detected by statements such as: "I can understand that you feel that way." Cold empathy, likely based on them observing others in the past.
Exactly what they did to me....crazy............its deep and cant believe theres is a group of poeple out there that have the negative energy for this shit ....crazyyyy.....
Listen carefully when they tell you things especially early on ... they tell you about themselves in many ways we just cant decode it all until we are out
He NEVER told me anything, so neither did I. It was all just general stuff. He said, he would tell me "everything soon", as if it was off limits. :/ (Met him online, stayed online, till I stepped away.) Sneaky ones!! So much to hide
It’s hard for me to hear all this. What hope is there? Are we all narcissists to one degree or another? They are in every profession, they pretend to be nice while they work at backstabbing you.
The way you explained the narcissist. You explain a man i had to leave after 4 years. I moved to his house my son Adam moved me. After a year we were evicted because of keeping me in the dark. When we moved to a hotel my son came to see my in horrible shape and the x told me he's a grown man he will figure it out😮
After I ghosted her, she stole my first -st-strike silver dollar collection. she loved mirrors, and pricey jewelry. my bank account is growing all of a sudden.
He did exactly live bombed moved in made me move because of his job 100 miles away then the abuse got worse. I managed to escape and retrieve my house. 🎉
My daughter's dog did not like the Narc AT ALL! I understand why now. The Narc Nurse I was with was able to run the streets because of the job he had. I noticed at times he would leave really early in the morning and I knew something was up because where he was headed for work wasn't open for 2-3 hours to see patients. So where was he going? Im sure he was on one of his smart phones or tablet talking to one of his supplies or meeting up. Also, I noticed that all of a sudden he was coming home 2-3 hours later than what was timed on paperwork which I did 90% of for him. It seemed like he wanted me to say something because it was very obvious. At this time I recognize how that was the beginning of that "pushing on the gas pedal of abuse". I never confronted him because I understood it wouldn't of stopped anything. "The Gray Rock" you speak of Andrew and silence was the only thing I could do to protect myself. It felt like a Cat & Mouse game. Taunting me to react. I concentrated on God and prayed alot to be freed from this stranglehold the Narc had on me. I was SO TIRED.😢
Hi Andrew , Can you please explain !! to me about Narcissist and animals ????? my relationship with my partener for the past 2 yrs . was all around her 4 doggies and animals , that is how we met on line and had such a good start in our relationship . Her doggies and her daughter where her life , I saw all this love?? for these doggies but not me ?? ! that I loved too. I looked after them all and she destroyed my life with narcissist hatred scamming cheating and lieing when I saved there life and gave them a new chance in life.????? I was also involved in animal rescue and she was too.??? Please ,can anyone give me the answer??? to this madness. ????? Why do they do this when you support them in life and they just use you and lie and show know respect foe the person that should matter the most in there life me. Just Crazy Stuff. Take care Andrew, Laurie , from Australia. 🙄🙏😪😭😡❤🙏🙏🙏🙏.
They lie about everything little things all things…. Never do anything wrong. I forgive and pray they heal from what hurts so the blood 🩸 stops bleeding on others in Jesus name Amen 🙏 ❤
They won't ever tell you the truth. The lying was so disgusting. I am so glad I dumped the narc. I cannot stand liars.
The narcissist denies reality. They live in the land of Disney. Life is a lie to the narcissist.
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They tell you all kinds of things,,,just nothing that Means anything
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And they think that they are protagonists in the Disneyland.
Narcisists lack empathy and they are dangerous to have anything to do with. Thank you Andrew ❤
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Very dangerous...be careful out there.🙏🏼
Sometimes the narcissist is also an avoidant. When you reach the point you don't care whether you heard of him, you've won. You're over the illusion.
Blessings and prayers for anyone out there suffering from this kind of person.
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When you get educated and finally get away, physically and mentally, there is Peace. Every one of your videos is a comfort and so spot on it’s amazing. Thank You Andrew! Stay warm!
Big virtual hug back to you and too everyone else watching this. ❤
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You’re always hitting the nail on the head. Describing the exact behavior I’ve experienced
They won't tell you they are sorry....ever...because they never really are!
Be Well, Be wise
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If they do apologize, they'll add, " Well, if you didn't do this or that, maybe I wouldn't have...blah, blah." Life is too short as you already know, Marie.
I think I'll go have a half cup of coffee for the evening. Time better spent than
with any Narc.😉👍☕1/2🌛
A narcissist can only feel sorry for themselves.
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Hi Andrew ! You talked about pets. My Narc husband got a dog. No one in the family could understand why he got the dog. It was a few weeks after I handed him divorce papers. I knew he got the dog to harass my cat who was afraid of dogs and he knew that. I tried to keep his dog away from our cat that we had for 12 years. Well, his dog attacked my cat and after surgery, that didn’t help much, my cat died. That is how sick these Narcs are….. I know he did it on purpose…..
Oh my God I am so sorry for you. What an evil person you married. You have my deepest sympathy losing your cat. I cant imagine the pain you went through. We are all here for you to lean on and support you.
Correct. Thanks for sharing.
It's true there EVIL. SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS
❤❤❤so sorry...poor cat...what a horrible man glad you are free
It broke my heart when my then husband ignored our dog (who was his from the beginning and whom I loved with all my heart) and his needs. He often did. When our dog died there was no more love for me in our home. I realised that the love I got from our dog was what had kept me going, kept me sane. It was the only pure love I ever got. The only love.
The bond and love you shared with your dog will live in your heart forever. My husband had zero emotion when my dog died in my arms from cancer. My dog helped me through some pretty rough days. I'll miss him forever.
I understand how you feel. I'm sorry for your loss.
My true love was a 23 pound kitty.. Mr. Sparks.❣️
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When my pet (a kangaroo) died 4 years ago, I was crushed. My ex-wife called me that very day and said: “I hear that you killed Thor.” A narcissist is amazingly cruel and heartless.
They won't say sorry for hurting you..bc they lack self love for starters.....their mean children in a grown ass body.
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My son died of a fentanyl overdose 6 months later. He made me loose my son and everything I owned. He also made me get rid of my dog. I have been gone from him 6 months healing
So very sorry...blessings & glad you are free. 🙏❤
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I’m so sorry
I'm so sorry. I can't imagine losing a child. Agonizing. My ex (father of my 3 kids) made me get rid of my dog too. I'm extremely ashamed of it. Thankfully I found a good home but still. Never again. I'm still healing.
I'm so sorry ❤️ 🙏
She wanted two dogs. It’s only now after it’s all over I realize it was to use up my energy. She never fed, watered, cleaned up after, took to vet or loved them. It was to keep me busy. It’s a shame because she didn’t know what pure love from a pet is like.
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Love from my little dog Marron and me
where are the dogs now?
@@MsBrooklyn62 I had them both 15 years until they passed. Those were the two best friends I ever had. To this day I wonder why she wanted them other than supply when she got them and then it was clear to have someone with them while she ran off and did her thing. Jokes on her because those pups and I became inseparable. Still miss them to this day.
@ A big hug to Marron. Take care of each other out there.
It’s good to see you smiling in these new videos. You have a happier glow. Thanks for all you are doing it’s a big help❤️
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He moved the family to the other side of the country. I was away from all of my siblings and parents. I left my lifelong friends. He knew what he was doing.
Even in a new year Narcs won't change. Stay safe
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Double-whammy here: I now realize that I married my mother…..Thank you for helping me name and untangle the strangling Gordon knot of all this life-stealing s-t-u-f-f….. You are so good to be standing out there in the rosy cold for the sake of warming us all with the freezing truth. Bless you Andrew……PrayGod there is a warm cup of tea nearby to warm your hands.💜✝☮✝💜
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Almost signed up for a new job yesterday. During the interview I understood quite fast that they had some alarming narcissistic traits. Sneaky, controlling, pedantic, sense of small loss, this time I said no! (Doubting first of course 😅. )
Next day I had a new job opportunity that felt heart centred 🎉 💯%
Good for you.
YAAAAAAY! Good Luck!!
You saved yourself a nightmare..
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Thank you for bringing up pets. The narcissist ex bf yelled at my older dog because he had an accident. It was my dog's first time there. My ex looked like he was going to hit him. My dog held his ground and growled at him. The relationship didn't last long after that
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They lie a lot.
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And they suffer from selective amnesia.
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“maintain a small footprint going forward, listen more than share, apply the information to practice discernment,” thanks for this information, Andrew, and for coming in live from the cold. Thank you for being here through the holidays and every day; and the big virtual hug, sending one back to you 🤗💜
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How the narcissist treats their pet... another warning sign I was given, but didn't have the knowledge to understand and interpret correctly. Your observations are very astute, Andrew. Like when you describe how they always walk ahead of you rather than with you... It was all right there in my face, but I did not understand. Thank you for your work, Andrew.
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Same two warning signs here.
Because of experience with narcissists, I am guarded more than I used to be. What seems to be a huge red flag to me is when people try to force relationships. In the neighborhood (especially in hoas) they don't respect boundaries and smear you when they are denied access. Unfortunately, too many people believe their gossip. They assassinate your reputation. I stay to myself as much as possible.
I was married but didn’t ever feel married because he ignored me, used the smear campaign, made me do everything while he sat back and watched with his arms crossed. We’d go to a party and he wouldn’t even notice I disappeared because he started a fight on the way there gaslighting me. He only noticed when he needed me. I really should have left him at that party but I’m too nice.
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sounds like we married the same person. I was also ignored. Other men at parties thought I came alone and were interested in me... I said I was married and they could not believe that anyone would ignore their wife the whole entire time and leave me by myself. I should have left too. I was too nice. Now I call an Uber and go home and leave him there. He doesn't even know I left ....where do these people come from??
I went to alot of parties with those circumstances. Not any more
I am a senior and I am getting light bulb moments from experiences I had with my past narc high school boyfriend! Yikes I am grateful and free and so glad to gain the wisdom. The truth has set me free!
I always said, I was married, he wasn't.
Yes when he moved me and the kids away from my family and friends, that’s when everything got so much worse! It was terrible. I finally put his belongings in a bag in the garage and had the locks changed on the house! Did that twice because I fell in his trap again and gave him a key. Changed the locks a second time! Never gave him another key! Nightmare!🙏🏻💜
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They won't tell you anything that will help YOU!! ITS ALL ABOUT THEM!! you are their servant. They are King or Queen and their throne is on a very high pedestal!! And you must bow and cooperate or you will be sorry! Oh that's right they don't tell you that never pleases them either!! It's a LOSE-LOSE.. get out and be DONE!! NO CONTACT IS THE ONLY WAY!!
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When I started peeling back the onion, I was like woah...it's their family. Multi-generational. It was all about appeasing them. They're hoarders, and that includes people. I'm not an appliance. When I figured that out, boy did she go nuts.
You speak the truth for so many of us!! Yes, I was so blinded by the lies he told me. Moved out of my hometown to live what I later found out was future faked! After all the abuse, and when I finally got out, he exploded my life with my family. It will never recover from his damage! I have gotten stronger and I’m healing. It just occurred to me.. it has been over a month since I’ve actually thought about him. Maybe that means I have finally reached that pinnacle of indifference. Happy new year Andrew. Stay strong, and especially warm. ❣️❤️❣️
And it looks like no one can help .Even if you see your son is love bombed, there is nothing you can do about it, just watching him going deeper and deeper in the disaster..my eyes are watering
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Thank you Andrew ❤
To everyone else they see a charming, funny man.
As you say...a shape-shifter!!
Yeah, including my adult children. ( not his). Barf city!
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This is how directly God uses the timing of your videos in my life. It's been years since I've eaten a bowl of cereal in the morning. Well...this morning I was doing just that. As I was eating, and watching your video, you mentioned " maybe you were eating your bowl of cereal".. oh yes! God led me to you, and others to learn what I've been up against for decades. Thank you for the enlightenment! God bless your " ministry".
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Thank you Andrew! Prayers and blessings to you and community ❤️ Stay warm❤❤🙏
It’s not my fault that Im autistic and sensitive not my fault.
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You Andrew are opening more and more and it's never end. It's scary. Thank you for not letting us down. Every time i listen your video i feel i got a recepie how to see who is this persons. Than again you open more truth. I feel so violent anger coming out of me. I need to controll myself. Social workers hurt my son and finally after 3 years Judge realised. I am devastated from hate. I am ashamed coz i really for one persone, for him i wish the worse, i want him to get fired and to go jale for abuse of power. I said it out loud. But he has two children. So it's not easy to hate him. Three years went on. Since full on covid time til now. Sadistic person. Social worker. I have to work much on my self in order to forgive. Thank you Andrew.
The aging narcissist is not a pretty sight to see oooohhhhhh.
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I worked in a Veterinarian's Office many years ago before I got married. Best job I ever had. Working with animals is the most rewarding experience I ever had. Being an empath....animals mean so much to me. Animals are better patients than humans...believe me...... I took my hour lunch break to sit with the pets that had operations and pet them and looked after them as they woke up from surgery.....cleaning the cages and making sure they were OK. They were so happy for someone looking after them. No matter how bad they might have felt...they sat up....the tails were wagging....and their eyes expressed how much they appreciated someone who cared. I also saw terrible cruelty as well. I will not say what I saw......but there are a lot of mean...cruel.....evil people who inflict their anger inside of them on these poor defense-less animals. Luckily I worked at a place where we took them in and did whatever it took to get them healthy again. Was all done for free. We worked on them and did our best. Some made it...some did not. I never ever thought there was such cruelty in this world. I cried many tears there.....always saying silent prayers for them.....and until I had that job...I never knew just how despicable and horrid people could be. I was sad to leave that job......I truly loved it.....because I LOVE animals......but I got married and moved away.....closer to where my future husband worked. ( didn't know he was a NARC) What little did I know is that I married a cruel and evil man. Funny how life turned out that way. I have a very strong aura ( light) and my husband knew that and has made my life a living Hell. To all of those out there in this community.....we all understand each others' pain. I just wish Andrew had this channel 40-some years ago . I would have walked away and never looked back. So stay strong and come here for support....
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A statement going way back ( probably across centuries): " The more I deal with people, the more I love animals."
I feel validated after listening to you. Thank you so much! ❤️
It's so important to us to feel validated. The narc is so good at discrediting us and making us feel so crazy
You're right about the pets. They use them, like everyone else- to look like a good, caring person. Another lie. That's all, otherwise I start swearing. 😁
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Haha:) I have to stop too...or I'll start swearing.
He left me 4 dogs, never took care of them. He didn't care about them. The oldest one was 18 yrs old and I had to put him to sleep, and it broke my heart.
Yup - Her succession of pets, adopted for short-term supply, then discarded for some other poor animal was amongst the first warning signs I should have heeded.
Keep warm Andrew they will use the truth to tell lies half truths are still a lie
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It’s blinkin cold in the U.K. too 🥶
Yes - Yes, I’m sitting watching this in my kitchen, with several inches of Scottish snow outside around me and a range of beautiful songbirds coming to the feeder/bushes right outside. Including Goldcrests, which I seldom see this far from a nearby riverbank. Peace, narcissism-free peace!
Stay warm and safe Andrew
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@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAloneGod bless you, Andrew, because your videos are helpful. I am still married to my narcissist husband but I think my marriage (=fake relationship) is getting closer to the end. ❤
There is a beautiful sunset in the background of your video, Andrew. Thank you for this very interesting video! Namaste 🙏💖 🌇 🌷🌻
True! Everything I had said like "abandonment " he used against me. Everything passed relationships had done he amplified.
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What they wont tell you. Truth. They lie, even in small details that seemingly does not matter. Just to confuse you, and let your mind spin. And for you to ask them for guidance when reality seems chaotic. Mostly due to their gaslighting.
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can't stress it more: this should be taught in school!
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If... disrespectful, make you feel guilty, finance not clear... just leave..
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Fake empathy might be detected by statements such as: "I can understand that you feel that way." Cold empathy, likely based on them observing others in the past.
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Yes! And the longer they've been at it, the better they're at their performance!
Another amazing and informative video Andrew. Thank you for being apart of my up hill journey. God bless 🙏
Exactly what they did to me....crazy............its deep and cant believe theres is a group of poeple out there that have the negative energy for this shit ....crazyyyy.....
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Very good discussion today. Thanks Andrew.
serious mental Iness
Listen carefully when they tell you things especially early on ... they tell you about themselves in many ways we just cant decode it all until we are out
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THANK YOU ANDREW!!❤ THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!
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I was grade A supply... i know what she lost and will never be able to replace... justice
He jumped on the next victim I tried to tell her but she don't listen. I am growing stronger everyday
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Sending a big warm hug back to you! Thanks for all of your wisdom!
This is literally my life
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Great video Andrew!!
Wishing everyone clarity and peace...
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Glad to see you onboard again, Chaz!👍
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Chaz...are you doing ok? I care & am here for you. Let me know.
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I got to keep my cup right at the rim. Thank you, Andrew and stay warm.
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Thank you from Sweden. 🇸🇪
Thank you for braving the cold and sharing this information. Really needed to hear this today.
He NEVER told me anything, so neither did I. It was all just general stuff. He said, he would tell me "everything soon", as if it was off limits. :/
(Met him online, stayed online, till I stepped away.) Sneaky ones!! So much to hide
Never again.
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Hello from North Texas
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It’s hard for me to hear all this. What hope is there? Are we all narcissists to one degree or another? They are in every profession, they pretend to be nice while they work at backstabbing you.
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The way you explained the narcissist. You explain a man i had to leave after 4 years. I moved to his house my son Adam moved me. After a year we were evicted because of keeping me in the dark. When we moved to a hotel my son came to see my in horrible shape and the x told me he's a grown man he will figure it out😮
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Awesome background. It's snowing here in KY
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Brilliant work andrew thanks ❤
After I ghosted her, she stole my first -st-strike silver dollar collection. she loved mirrors, and pricey jewelry. my bank account is growing all of a sudden.
Long May the growing last! Good job!
❤❤❤Impactful and meaningful video per usual.
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thanks everyday Andrew
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All true, Andrew. Healing well. Thank you. No more parasites.
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It's 10° here in WI. I know you are not used to it. I could never have a decent conversation with the narcissist because there were so many lies.
this is so true my daughters ex has kept her dog and refused to give it to her after the divorce just to torment her
He did exactly live bombed moved in made me move because of his job 100 miles away then the abuse got worse. I managed to escape and retrieve my house. 🎉
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Hi Andrew thank you for another amazing video. Please 🙏🏻 pray 🤲🏻 for us in LA with the Fires 🔥 we are in a red flag 🚩 state of emergency 🚨
Candi, you are in my prayers the Santa Ana's stop. I lived in Laguna Hills most of my life.❣️
It's just awful! ;( Stay safe. 💟
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My daughter's dog did not like the Narc AT ALL! I understand why now. The Narc Nurse I was with was able to run the streets because of the job he had. I noticed at times he would leave really early in the morning and I knew something was up because where he was headed for work wasn't open for 2-3 hours to see patients. So where was he going? Im sure he was on one of his smart phones or tablet talking to one of his supplies or meeting up. Also, I noticed that all of a sudden he was coming home 2-3 hours later than what was timed on paperwork which I did 90% of for him. It seemed like he wanted me to say something because it was very obvious. At this time I recognize how that was the beginning of that "pushing on the gas pedal of abuse". I never confronted him because I understood it wouldn't of stopped anything. "The Gray Rock" you speak of Andrew and silence was the only thing I could do to protect myself. It felt like a Cat & Mouse game. Taunting me to react. I concentrated on God and prayed alot to be freed from this stranglehold the Narc had on me. I was SO TIRED.😢
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Hi Andrew , Can you please explain !! to me about Narcissist and animals ????? my relationship with my partener
for the past 2 yrs . was all around her 4 doggies and animals , that is how we met on line and had such a good start
in our relationship . Her doggies and her daughter where her life , I saw all this love?? for these doggies but not me ?? ! that I loved too.
I looked after them all and she destroyed my life with narcissist hatred scamming cheating and lieing when I saved there
life and gave them a new chance in life.????? I was also involved in animal rescue and she was too.??? Please ,can anyone
give me the answer??? to this madness. ????? Why do they do this when you support them in life and they just use you
and lie and show know respect foe the person that should matter the most in there life me. Just Crazy Stuff.
Take care Andrew, Laurie , from Australia. 🙄🙏😪😭😡❤🙏🙏🙏🙏.
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They have perfected ababandonment
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this channel is great ❤
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We love you Andrew, Happy new year!!!❤💜🔥
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❤Thank you Andrew❤
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Hello Andrew. Thank you.
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Spot on ❤
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Great info Andrew, great work!! 💚
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They lie about everything little things all things…. Never do anything wrong. I forgive and pray they heal from what hurts so the blood 🩸 stops bleeding on others in Jesus name Amen 🙏 ❤
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Very apt video💯. Thanks so much, Andrew.
Helli Andrew, thank you for this, and beong out on the freezing cold recording this for us ❤
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