4:38 the best true concept ever If someone really cares about you If someone really loves you, they will never ever move on quickly and easily with someone new
This is very true. I’ve heard this out a man mouth that they weren’t happy w/ the new person but staying for different reasons that had nothing to do with loving them
5:09 "they're self-medicating with that person" 7:18 "never devalue yourself in your mind based off of someone else's actions that are unhealthy" wow, you're just dropping some heavy lines there, PREACH!!!!
But even if they were communicating and rocking with the rebound or new supply for a few months, before leaving the current relationship, they STILL have a low chance of that new situation becoming long term.... Because remember, the one that left the relationship, is STILL taking their bullshit to the new
My ex and his partner broke up because she went back to Germany. I met him a month later and now I think I was the rebound. We were together for 5 years and then he decided return to Germany himself and left me. He has now gone back to his German ex whom he was with before me. So I doubt she is the rebound. It was me. I was so hoping he would come back to me, but he told me that he is 100% committed to her. I feel used and I am devastated 😢
He was married twice. Then he confessed to me that he was engaged TWICE!!!! So much betrayal … he dumped me at the end of 2022 … he was with her ASAP … and she moved in. He lives 2 houses from me.
Found out my 2nd wife of 4 years was "innocently" texting and calling a married man non-stop for about 6 weeks. He lives about 4 states away. Says she met him 25 years ago and hasn't seen him since that day. She left when i found out almost a year ago. We signed papers end of October. I believe he got a divorce also. I hear from a friend she's in love and thinking of marriage in another year to a guy who doesn't live in the area.
That works out all the time! I’ve witnessed it! Not to mention the person who left me is happy and in love and it’s been 2yrs! Both ppl just have to be honest, realistic and invested even in the hard times. Now… did he ever love me, no! Did any of them live the original person? No! Are the ones I’ve witnessed happy in the “rebound.” Absolutely! Does it get talked about as much as rebound failures ? No. …. So get more experience or more sample sets before speaking so matter of factly.
Every video says this exact same thing. People around me say this in my everyday life. I know this has to be true but I can’t bring myself to believe it. The girl I was seeing at work, started seeing someone else at work a couple weeks after distancing herself from me while never being honest about wanting out. One week after our split they started holding hands. Two week after they move in together. We work so closely, I’m expecting these two to get married and I’m gonna get constant updates on everything.
@@DaniiiDaniii8 Update. They broke up 2 weeks ago and she gave him a week to move out. He had no place to go. Now I don’t know why they broke up but because her and I work so closely I found out and probably have been trying too hard to get on her good side, which was working for me. That is until they got back together and now they are trying to “work it out”. I just made a fool of myself for nothing. There bump in the road came at the 6 month mark of their relationship.
@@joeydrakeward4077 you deserve better!!!!! Move on ✌️🤗🫡 work on yourself, your mind, your body your soul and I pray you find a good woman!!! She ain't worth it ✌️
Man you deserve better. There are women on this planet that will not hurt you in this way. So you gotta ask yourself, do you want to continue following up on her life, and get more of the same treatment? Or will you make a clean break, get a fresh start, take a little time to heal, and find someone better?
he rebounded with his neighbour three weeks post breakup. she looks like me and we have same name. despite him being with her he kept following unknown girls on social media. that made me realize he’s not more serious abt her than he was abt me. now he seems to have found yet another girl. only six months have passed since our breakup. she’s a walking red flag and will teach him a lesson.
What is when he went back to his ex from three years ago that neither he nor his family liked the first time and then he breaks up and says he is gonna marry her? They had a long distance situationship three years ago but kept in touch afterwards. He said he has deep feelings for me and his family likes me, but she is more convenient and will do everything he wants. He visited her (still long distance), but didn't give her a ring, she posted in the comments he promised that the next time he visits, but now she already posted some sad post accusing him, that he asks he to suffer and went out with a male friend of her.
But real spit box pimpin, those rebound relationships, turn into ANOTHER back/forth situation.....so they end up LEAVING THAT rebound relationship as well....smh.....
What if they were having a double life? I guess in my case it wasn't a rebound for them. But it was a whole other relationship they had behind my back.
If they had a double life and relationship going on, they were never fully committed to you in the first place. At that point, it isn't worth thinking through their actions because they don't represent the kind of partner you want or need.
Well, then this would be his third divorce … POS betrayed me and went immediately to another relationship… and she recently moved in. He lives 2 houses from me. Saw her yesterday get the mail and bring up the garbage cans … wow. He’s such a treasure 🤮
There's never a set time. People heal and move on at different paces. But typically, 2 - 3 months is common for someone to heal enough and gain clarity to move on. The aspect to pay attention to is how that person is living on their own that shows they're ready for a new relationship.
It sounds like you both had a codependent relationship dynamic that continued past the actual committed relationship. It seems she's found someone she feels comfortable letting go of you to pursue. But she will more likely run into problems at some point as neither of you had complete time to yourselves before entertaining new people. You need that time to just focus on you. Take advantage of this time and do that for yourself. Don't focus on dating. Focus on building autonomy and being ok by yourself FULLY. You'll be much better for it later and give yourself a better chance at a great relationship. She's most likely setting herself up for failure right now.
@@LosAcieRewired its weird cuz like i said broke up a year ago but we still saw each other regularly. Talked everyday. Said i love u. We were last intimate last summer. Then she supposedly meets this guy this January and its blossomed into relationship. She blocked me on fb today. And yea i agree about the codependency
You just can’t build happiness by stepping on someone else’s back!
@@ashaabdul2561 Exactly! 🎯
Tell that to a narcissist
4:38 the best true concept ever
If someone really cares about you
If someone really loves you, they will never ever move on quickly and easily with someone new
Let's stop worrying about what the ex is doing and wish them well❤
They were ready before leave us.
Yes, most have already prepared themselves to leave if they moved on that quickly. But they still haven't healed fully.
🎯🎯
This is very true. I’ve heard this out a man mouth that they weren’t happy w/ the new person but staying for different reasons that had nothing to do with loving them
@@freegame6939 Exactly 🎯
Brother, this is the best video I ever seen in 3 years about rebounds. Bless you sir.
@lippyslip Thank you brotha. I appreciate that and the acknowledgment. 🙏🏾
Having just been through a breakup the message here resonates so deep with me and has given me a distinct perspective on my situation. Thank you, bro,
@@shoppingplace You're more than welcome. Anytime 💪🏾
I can attest that a rebound relationship is the worst thing someone can do. Honestly.
5:09 "they're self-medicating with that person"
7:18 "never devalue yourself in your mind based off of someone else's actions that are unhealthy"
wow, you're just dropping some heavy lines there, PREACH!!!!
@@swedishgirl2506 Exactly! 🎯
But even if they were communicating and rocking with the rebound or new supply for a few months, before leaving the current relationship, they STILL have a low chance of that new situation becoming long term....
Because remember, the one that left the relationship, is STILL taking their bullshit to the new
Absolutely. Valid points 🎯🎯
Truth. Also, how they found em is how they will leave em. Cheaters will cheat again.
My ex and his partner broke up because she went back to Germany. I met him a month later and now I think I was the rebound. We were together for 5 years and then he decided return to Germany himself and left me. He has now gone back to his German ex whom he was with before me. So I doubt she is the rebound. It was me. I was so hoping he would come back to me, but he told me that he is 100% committed to her. I feel used and I am devastated 😢
Thank you for this video, I’ve been feeling so down. Trying to love on myself and keep my head up
Jeez bro. I spent about a week waiting to hear your opinion. Seems spot on, very humble.
He was married twice. Then he confessed to me that he was engaged TWICE!!!! So much betrayal … he dumped me at the end of 2022 … he was with her ASAP … and she moved in. He lives 2 houses from me.
Thank you especially for the end. I needed that. 😊
@@Mockduck2020 I'm glad I could help. 🙏🏾❤️💯
Found out my 2nd wife of 4 years was "innocently" texting and calling a married man non-stop for about 6 weeks. He lives about 4 states away. Says she met him 25 years ago and hasn't seen him since that day. She left when i found out almost a year ago. We signed papers end of October. I believe he got a divorce also. I hear from a friend she's in love and thinking of marriage in another year to a guy who doesn't live in the area.
That works out all the time! I’ve witnessed it! Not to mention the person who left me is happy and in love and it’s been 2yrs! Both ppl just have to be honest, realistic and invested even in the hard times. Now… did he ever love me, no! Did any of them live the original person? No! Are the ones I’ve witnessed happy in the “rebound.” Absolutely! Does it get talked about as much as rebound failures ? No. …. So get more experience or more sample sets before speaking so matter of factly.
I married my rebound, had a kid, the whole nine. Got divorced and I was a horrible relationship. Trust me it’s not all sunshine and rainbows
You explained that so well!
@@te7605 🙏🏾💯
Why do all the good and educational videos always get so little views. Hope this blows up cuz Im sure many wish they could get this info.❤
Thank you. I hope this message reaches as many people who need it as possible also. Thanx for watching. I appreciate you. 🙏🏾
Mine been with her rebound for 15 months, moved in together, going on holidays
it's not about the time between the 2 relationships it's rather about the unsolved conflicts/feelings...
Every video says this exact same thing. People around me say this in my everyday life. I know this has to be true but I can’t bring myself to believe it. The girl I was seeing at work, started seeing someone else at work a couple weeks after distancing herself from me while never being honest about wanting out. One week after our split they started holding hands. Two week after they move in together. We work so closely, I’m expecting these two to get married and I’m gonna get constant updates on everything.
That's messed up 😮stay strong ✌️🌻 god bless
@@DaniiiDaniii8 Update. They broke up 2 weeks ago and she gave him a week to move out. He had no place to go. Now I don’t know why they broke up but because her and I work so closely I found out and probably have been trying too hard to get on her good side, which was working for me. That is until they got back together and now they are trying to “work it out”. I just made a fool of myself for nothing. There bump in the road came at the 6 month mark of their relationship.
@@joeydrakeward4077 you deserve better!!!!! Move on ✌️🤗🫡 work on yourself, your mind, your body your soul and I pray you find a good woman!!! She ain't worth it ✌️
Man you deserve better. There are women on this planet that will not hurt you in this way. So you gotta ask yourself, do you want to continue following up on her life, and get more of the same treatment? Or will you make a clean break, get a fresh start, take a little time to heal, and find someone better?
Thanks i needed to hear this. I listen to it twice🙏🏽
Thank you am going threw this right now
You're very welcome 🙏🏾
That tank top is sus..and a definite NO.
he rebounded with his neighbour three weeks post breakup. she looks like me and we have same name. despite him being with her he kept following unknown girls on social media. that made me realize he’s not more serious abt her than he was abt me. now he seems to have found yet another girl. only six months have passed since our breakup. she’s a walking red flag and will teach him a lesson.
Men are supposed to have multiple women. You aren't special.
All reasons he did you a favor by being removed from your life. He'll learn his lesson eventually when he's truly ready.
My ex was at a woman's house the same night we broke up.
He was already talking to her …
@@kirstenjavery9647the same thing happened to me.
Thank you for this❤ Agreed…
You're so welcome. Thanx for watching. 🙏🏾❤️
Facts/ Amen to that
@@RealDrivernileproductions You get it 🙏🏾💯
This is a really good vid, thanks! :)
Can you do a video on no contact if you are the one that cheated and they in a rebound now
What is when he went back to his ex from three years ago that neither he nor his family liked the first time and then he breaks up and says he is gonna marry her? They had a long distance situationship three years ago but kept in touch afterwards. He said he has deep feelings for me and his family likes me, but she is more convenient and will do everything he wants. He visited her (still long distance), but didn't give her a ring, she posted in the comments he promised that the next time he visits, but now she already posted some sad post accusing him, that he asks he to suffer and went out with a male friend of her.
I did something stupid and looked at her social media, she looks so happy with the new guy. I feel like they will last long term .
It's a facade.. they not as happy as they look.. trust me
@@mstricejones9930 I don't want her to be miserable, I'll always care for her. But it just hurts to see that.
I really need help getting thru this heartbreak
What about if the rebound relationship is with a former boyfriend from many years ago? and they may have been in contact prior to the break up?
But real spit box pimpin, those rebound relationships, turn into ANOTHER back/forth situation.....so they end up LEAVING THAT rebound relationship as well....smh.....
Thank you!
Na we need dudes workout routine 😂
Thank you
You're so welcome 🙏🏾
What about a rebound with an ex-girlfriend?
❤ YESSSSSSSS, SAY THAT!!!!❤😊
What if they were having a double life? I guess in my case it wasn't a rebound for them. But it was a whole other relationship they had behind my back.
If they had a double life and relationship going on, they were never fully committed to you in the first place. At that point, it isn't worth thinking through their actions because they don't represent the kind of partner you want or need.
This hurts because I am the rebound woman even though I'm still in denial
So accurate ❤
You get it. 💯
*Good job 👍🏽*
Hé left me for a female friend that was the ex girlfriend of his bestfriend
My ex got some girl pregnant will they last? He has her posted all on social media …. Also I blocked him but keep getting emails now lol.
Good video
Well, then this would be his third divorce … POS betrayed me and went immediately to another relationship… and she recently moved in. He lives 2 houses from me. Saw her yesterday get the mail and bring up the garbage cans … wow. He’s such a treasure 🤮
What if the rebound was their high school sweetheart?
How long should the man be single
There's never a set time. People heal and move on at different paces. But typically, 2 - 3 months is common for someone to heal enough and gain clarity to move on. The aspect to pay attention to is how that person is living on their own that shows they're ready for a new relationship.
My ex fiance got a girlfriend n 1 week n got her pregnant in 3 months SMH 😮
@@rachealraney2148 Toxic situation waiting to happen 💯
What if its been a year since we brokke up but we still basically were seeing each other then she meets this guy?
Then move on
You should be meeting other women. Never focus on just 1 woman.
@@thatguybill34 i know man. But spent 14 years with her. Just hard getting used to her not being there now
It sounds like you both had a codependent relationship dynamic that continued past the actual committed relationship. It seems she's found someone she feels comfortable letting go of you to pursue. But she will more likely run into problems at some point as neither of you had complete time to yourselves before entertaining new people. You need that time to just focus on you. Take advantage of this time and do that for yourself. Don't focus on dating. Focus on building autonomy and being ok by yourself FULLY. You'll be much better for it later and give yourself a better chance at a great relationship. She's most likely setting herself up for failure right now.
@@LosAcieRewired its weird cuz like i said broke up a year ago but we still saw each other regularly. Talked everyday. Said i love u. We were last intimate last summer. Then she supposedly meets this guy this January and its blossomed into relationship. She blocked me on fb today. And yea i agree about the codependency
… although this is mostly true. lol
Please please please God 🙏🙏 amen
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