"Dating Nigerian Men? 5 Things You MUST Know!"
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
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You forgot the most important one be ambitious. Nigerian men like women that are ambitious and educated.
Lies of the 21st century
Trueee!
Depends on the tribe. Igbo men don't want their wife to be ambitious. Just be a good wife, they will take care of you and the kids.
They hate lazy women
@@thelovechannel7236 yes we do hate lazy anything
5 Things You Should Know Before Dating a Nigerian Man:
1. Don’t let your guard down and keep in mind that his primary goal might be to use you.
2. Realize that he’s an angel when he has no money, but be prepared for a roller-coaster ride of womanizing when money comes into his pocket.
3. If you never plan to relocate with him to Nigeria, remember that his polygamous nature may lead him to take a second wife in Nigeria if you choose not to relocate with him.
4. Ingrain it in your mind that his love of money supersedes his love and affection for you. He will lie, cheat, and steal for money.
5. His love and romance with you are time-limited and dependent on the duration of your perpetual submissiveness.
Number 6, respect his mom.
That one is big o!
Yes ooo😂😂😂
Guyyyyyyyyy yes ooo
My Nigerian man, it's the dad. If he dad doesn't "sanction" for you then it's downhill from there
Definitely be open to learning about the food !
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#6. If he doesn’t introduce you to any family with in 6 months. Hunny he won’t marry you. Your just for fun.
Lol...maybe true 😂😂😂
@@obinnaizuora5013 yep I know 😂. I had dated a Nigerian man that was keeping a big secret from me. He was married. Years later I dated another one. He was single and wanted to marry me. Wow big difference in how your treated
@@Laura-sn7mh You learn this the hard way but you never forget . Same with ALL African men and those men of African descent . They love their side chicks .
Noted
Even if he does introduce you doesnt mean he will even marry you they are disgusting
#7 80% of them, lie a lot! You dont really know them! And they always have about three phones, and most of them, are married back home, and wouldn't tell you, and tell you they're single! Just be wise with them!!
Werey....d time wey u no wan get sense nko...I no go leave u waka ni.....koshi danu jo
Wow on point
@@lore2766 dem Don serve you breakfast too.....
Sorry my Sis. Coz you met the wrong one. Ma, wait till you see the lovely and most loving ones. You won't be able to express
@@tonyrufus4965 lol
The Nigerian males I've been interacting with lately are very stifling of my personality. I wil not be held captive by that kind of controlling behaviour nah-uh nope.
😂😂😂 they're not controlling and they don't take trash attitude like your men do
sorry...Honey, guess that's why you might be single for a long while😂
Then you've got a shitty personality and you should work on it.. We Nigerian Men are absolutely loving and will bring down the heavens for those we love.. so it's a you issue,Look in the mirror.
Also I bet none of them are controlling,you're confusing boundaries for controlling...
Most men who actually love their women will set some kind of boundary but women like you will call it controlling. Stay single and spare good men that headache.
If you are not submissive sorry my sister you can't stay in marriage here
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#4 - he says i know more about Nigerian current events than he does. He is ready to show me just how good Nigerian jollof is when i get there in January. 90 days and i'll be in Lagos.
You're in good hands... I look forward to loving someone from the other side of the world ... I mean variety is the spice of life
I want an update. How did it go?
Yes all very true and my guy is an amazing one!! Especially be open to the culture and be modest too they respect that.
Hello
@@DavidAtsu-lc4bi Hello! Hope all is well 🙂
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1. Get Close to his mom
2.cook his best food.
3. Respect his sisters
4. Be willing to born 5 children for him.
5. Get him a green card.
1,2 and 3 as long as it's reciprocated coz sometimes they be getting more love than their actual partners F that and no 5 is his free pass to leave us as soon as they arrive or get bored.
Five kids when they can't even take care of themselves 😢😢.
lol 😂 no to the green card… from an American woman
Be Regious
Be grounded
Cook for him
Be very organized and neat
Don't be skinny and don't be too big. They don't like big tummy
Dress well
Be nice to his family. Send gift to them
Be respectful
Do not nag. Express yourself calmly
Be his baby
Do your hair always
Care for him
Obey him
Pray for him
Basically everything but be yourself and they can have big belly bald head side chick wahala etc etc ninja pls 😂😂😂😂😂
Good job lady. You are full of wisdom
the comments are giving me a good laugh
Just laugh it out girl because I'm laughing too from the comments 🤣
Nigerian men are also funny ....so laugh hard as you want....lolzzzzz
She may not be 100% but she nailed it.
You’re right girl. Absolutely right.
I don’t fuck with them anymore
Trust me I get it 😂
That mean you are not willing to adjust, and not willing to change. I think everyone is supposed to change, sacrify. No one wants to marry who's selfish. am not saying you are. I guess you don't really want to get married to someone who won't stop lying or stop stop stealing because of you. If he's not willing to change .then he ain't yours
My dear just try understand yourself and ur partner....nigerian men don't have problems.....maybe you need to check yourself......sorry if my words are arsh....
@@tonyrufus4965 96% are liars and cheaters
@@tonyrufus4965❤
Aunty you are correct about kids, but the most important thing to know is they love domesticated, respectful and submissive women and you didn't mention be family orientated, you have to accept and be accepted by his family
Not don’t talk too much !! This took me out 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
On point
#6. Just tell him Nigerian jollof is the best
Lol I have to be honest in my opinion it is the best😂
Try Ghanaian jollof too, I’m not here for the never ending debate tho 🤣 just letting a beautiful soul taste a delicious food. 😂
@@elihopey don't turn this place to vawulence center I beg you
Well.. Nigerian jollof definitely the best 👍
Nigeria jollof all day....
#7 be prepared for all of the female “friends”
😂
We also love industrious ladies, your right when you said,we don't like talking too much lady, cos we think she has too many past experience, and she gonna be very insultive and we like when we want to speak,she should immediately keep quiet.
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I love nigerian men love the culture I love it
Spot on girl.
Hide your assets!! #1 !🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭🙌🙌🙌💯
They cheat
A LOT
I dated one and he said I wahala too much 😂😂
Lol... Wahala is trouble 😂
@@Skyler777She too stubborn and she giving him too much trouble ... Is what it meant by her wahala is too much 🤣
@@Skyler777 Glad you do understand
That's what that lady is trying to explain at first....try be silent sometimes otherwise a nigerian man will say " your wahala too much" it might be you're not troublesome but we like using that word "WAHALA" in any form when we are being disturbed by our siblings,wife,husband or any relatives...........mean while the wahala means trouble or problem.......lmao.....
Lol it means your so troublesome 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
There favorite quote ah ha
😅😅
Five things.
1. Don’t
2. Don’t
3. Don’t
4. Don’t
5. Don’t
These comments are scaring me lol
Don't worry just head east and look for a man from Rwanda Uganda or Kenya Even the Tanzanian men are okay and some of the southern African countries like Zimbabwe Zambia Botswana good husbands come from there too.
lol I'm a Nigerian man miss. People got different experiences, so if you see someone you like go for it. Main thing is if he's (really) into you, at some point you'll meet his family. If not, make your own decision about what's best. But regardless, the average Nigerian man (raised in Nigeria) will treat you like a gem. What you're reading above is a lot of hurt feelings for not being chosen. It is what it is.
Nigeria is my country. So proud of my country 🎉
And I hate to say I am a talker I can't help that cuz I did not talk exactly right away when I was younger I voice my opinion on a lot I'm an aquarius I speak my mind that's the way I am I don't shut down for no man as a man can accept me for who I am than they ain't going to love me.
I'm the same way as well #Aquariusgang
With this attitude you are going to keep a man
Well, ain't no Nigerian man telling their women not to talk or express themselves. It's just that you got to open them with respect and dignity.
@walegliverpool7140 very correct....I was about saying same thing but you finished it........tell
#aquariusganggang…
I am a Nigerian man, I'm looking for love
Am from Zambia and am olso looking for love am not rich am just a simple lady ready to find a Nigerian man
@@lesimalek3153abort mission sister abort mission I've just been through this.
I hope you find a wonderful Nigerian lady sir I've tried and it did not work out with other Nigerians. I'm just technically one of diasporians that rather marry an East African man. But I do hope you get what you're looking for.
Get out!
I am Scottish and a woman of God. It is difficult to find here so the Nigerian men often want to date me because of this. I am submissive and feminine etc. I do think they are good but they want to be worshiped like women and it is kinda off putting. I am talking to one man who doesn’t seem to be so much like this so fingers crossed it works out🙏🏻 I am all for complimenting my man but the ones I dated needed validated 24/7 it wasn’t cute cause as a female you want that more from the man
u can apply thisall men just saying
You've said it all 🤷🏿♂️❤️🙏🏿
Well done.
Lmao pleaseeeee!! They’re NARCISSISTS and very TRIBALISTIC!
Eleribu omo ofo.........
Devils
😅always a mumu in comments
Foolish Fool 😂
O le se ori ire. Omo ale
As a Naija man I say you’re definitely on point and we also like our women to be feminine ie everything woman and not what has become of many women today
As a Nigerian man. What’s most important to you about your companion?
I mean I’m Jamaican and I love all these things so maybe janerian lol
Nigeria Man don Cast 😮
Facts!!
You blow the fact completely.
hmmm
well said
Im Nigerian
I love kyan bcos she has got all these qualities.l love u kyan
Awww...thank you mikeshred...I love you so much too ❤❤❤
They want to be worshiped they better find a pet or dog
How would you know that? It's not true...
Madam change you character......men are to be respected not worshipped...you must respect your man or you discharge .....
Funny woman
Exactly. I would rather have a pet. Was married to one. It was horrible. Never satisfied.
I'm Nigerian Man but I don't fit into that traditional category. The most important thing to me is for at least, most Nigerian Women or women in general to be independent or self reliant, which unfortunately most Nigerian Women aren't. So I prefer Black American Women because they've arrived, independent, have their own sh*t together and most don't act like a man owes them something
7 years in tell me about it ....❤❤❤
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You shouldn't look to date Nigerian men unless you're Nigerian or mostly Nigerian. That becomes important because of their true identities. It's important to focus on keeping the bloodline intact as much as possible.
I agree with you this is why I advise African American women to only go for East African men or the men from other African countries. I say this because I don't want them wasting their time with Nigerian men. Now yeah I'm Nigerian too with some other things My father is obviously a rolling Stone. I'm not keeping that bloodline pure. It can be mostly African"but I rather procreate with a man who got good genetics like people from East Africa. I already have a child that is biracial. Let me make sure the rest of my kids will have a variety of genetics. Nigerian men can be disappointing to many which is why I prefer others. The men from Kenya❤ though
Bunch of Nigerian guys I know like white girls so your statement isnt true👎🏻sorry
God bless you jare! 😂❤
For me as a Nigerian, cheating and disrespect is what I can't take from any woman.
But you can give it. 😂😂😂
Am single looking for a serious relationship
Me too am a lady looking for love
How do you know when a Nigerian man is lying to
Lol it depends on the individual there is no formula or guidelines
@@im_victor234 see if he will take a lie detector test
They open their mouth to speak
@@Callmeperryslmaooo
Did you believe the Pinocchio gesture ? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
If you can keep rule #1, you're married..lol..
Crooks
The same applies to every man
Is catering part of the food aspect? We nigerians don't play with good food.. I wife won me over with her food. She's the best.. imagine being surprised with an amazing meal after work.. we don't play with our wife and kids.. source of happiness.. we get happy pays bills when due.. we love being loved.. we also like women who comes up with ideas yo get richer.. oh, almost forgot, we love good sex, satisfying sex from both sides.. we love peace ✌..
I want a nigerian girl 🤭.
Know how to cook too
Number 6 don’t have a body Tattoo
Me I have it nd I need a Nigerian man
Nigerian men like woman with nyash
What if she has some belly with it but well balanced
What’s nyash?
Booty, big booty
@@CocoKiss2011aßs
@@CocoKiss2011 It's Pidgin for ass
I'm looking at all the comments and are confused as a Nigerian who has only had amazing relationships with my men😅
Is this actually true?
Don't believe everything you hear or read on here..how would you generalized all the men in Nigeria with some opinions you got from somewhere
@@AndyAkpan-wf9kkwell after interviewing 20 Nigerians well probably over 20 Nigerians. They all lied to me every single one of them I'm like wow. Basically no good it only had the dating stages but never went past that. They like to waste time We know it's not all. But if y'all don't hold your fellow brother's accountable then this will be the stereotype that will follow you everywhere you go.
Absolutely big YES. All is true. As a cool Nigerian handsome guy I acknowledged the 5 points. She really study and understand us ..lol..
It's vibes.
Enjoy it.
Also, be prepared to have drugs laboratory in the basement
Your eyelashes on the left is falling
#6 avoid them like the plague
Well, you can't 😂😂 we're everywhere
lol
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Exactly!! Uhggg
I’m talking about yoruba.