Those who are telling you that your Husband is showing you all that love because you are American are Jealous about the Success of your Relationship (Marriage). Alot of (Nigeriqn) Women take their spouses for granted ... especially their efforts... And I think it is largely due to our Culture and Norms.... For example: It is Part of the African Culture for the Man to Pay all the Bills.... Children's School Fees, Rents, Food in the HOUSE.... etc That's How You Show or Prove that you are the head of the HOUSE (Family) Whereas, Over there, the Couple split or share the Responsibilities.... So, Over here, the men that don't or can't meet up with those Bills payments are often talked down or looked down upon by "SOME" women and this actually Contributes largely to a lot of Nigerian men beginning to Consider dating or Marrying more Understanding and Caring Women... Finally let me say that Only God can Connect One with SOMEONE who TRUELY LOVES him or her.... and if you've found One, then by all means KEEP, PROTECT, CHERISH and.hold on Firmly....
I’m a Nigerian woman married to a Nigerian man who is very caring and affectionate. The thing is we don’t see a lot of married Nigerian men on UA-cam and also we tend to be private people. Love is love no matter the race, people just choose to see the negative when they’re not happy in their own lives or due to their own trauma. Love you guys ❤️
You are absolutely right. Nigerian couple are very private. I am also Married to a Nigerian man that I mate while in college and I supported him through his career but my friends and family called me fool, but today, they all admire my marriage all because of how my husband adores me and respect me. My husband don’t have any social media account or access and he so very private and I respect his decision.
My man was not trying to fall for an American woman, but we fell in love. He is the purest example of love that I have witnessed. I honor my Nigerian man! I have never felt love like this, and at first I almost ruined it because people were telling me that he was a scammer. I was defending him because I FELT his soul was the mate to my soul. Do not let people deter you from love.
She's far more humble than an average Nigerian lady, who feigns to be because she's scared of losing her home and always as they say "children's consideration"
The truth about Nigeria men is, when they're in love with you they will show it and shower you with praises and tell you how beautiful you are. Believe me when they love you they really do love. God bless naija kings and queens
Wow! This is so sweet. Love is indeed a beautiful thing to behold when it's been shared with someone that knows the valued and worth and also respect his/her partner regardless of skin color, race, culture, religion etc...
So much to unpack, I think you guys need to make this a series. The sad reality is that a lot of people are damaged from either “societal standards” or relationships that they’ve been burned in. They think it’s dubious for someone to love them that much, thus they question why someone actually does. Everyone’s experience is different and sadly, it takes a whole lot to switch that mindset to a positive one. The solution in my point of view is to do your best to find someone who reciprocates your love, don’t settle for any less, that’s the never ending cycle that needs to break.
I am a black woman and my boyfriend is Nigerian. Our relationship has been the most beautiful relationship I have ever experienced. My boyfriend is so humble, loving, caring, affectionate, confident and loyal to me. His culture has brought so much life to my spirit. He treats me like his Queen everyday without missin a beat. I truly feel that he is my blessing from God. I just love this man to the moon and back! I truly appreciate both of you for your wisdom, fun-loving spirit and transparency. It's beautiful to see how much you both love and respect each other.💖🖤🌌
Lamb is 100% correct, i dated a girl back in uni in Nigeria and she said "I am weak" because of showing my affection to her. There is a toxic and wrong expectation of what masculinity is in Nigeria.
U are so on point, I am a lover and I don't think anything is too much for someone u love. To be called less of a man because I can express my love more affectionately than others is totally insane and super myopic.
I totally agree with you. First of all genuine love is mysterious. It is sometimes revealing and concealing at he same time. We actually do not FALL IN LOVE. We grow in love and this is a life time adventure of discovering each other. The more we discover in each other should be the more intense our passion for each other becomes. A diamond is never discovered with a process of digging deep. Less think on these thing. The more pressure or fire a diamond goes through the purer it becomes and the brighter it shines.
I am an African American woman and my husband is Igbo Nigerian. First, I love how he loves God. I also love how he loves me and his children. He is my person, my bestfriend, and my love. Truly God brought us together.
This is bloody brilliant. As a mixed race man from South Africa I think this is the most brilliant advice ive heard in my 29 years of living on earth. OMG this is real goals right here. Wisdom overload.
@@rosalieedelstein1240 I think the man already addressed some of the reasons. To me, I believe we take advantage of love. Girls in other countries don't see men as the source of their income, little things trigger them, and why foreign girls will always be after Nigerian men is because Nigerian men will be convinced to spend their last card on a woman that is not after his wallet. They appreciate flowers (Little gifts) over there and we appreciate money in Nigeria. Telling you that I love you today doesn't mean I started taking the whole responsibility (I am not your father) and even when we get married the bill can still be shared, we both own the responsibilities 👌🏽✌🏽 IMO
Thanks Lamb for trying to explain a very complicated relationship between men and women in Nigeria. Unfortunately, our society confines and dictate the relationship between men and women in a way that from the get-go is separating. Partners are constantly trying to catch up with cultural expectations, which kind of regresses according to each family, so they never have time to grow together, really get to know each other and fall deeply in love with each other. However, being with someone outside of the Nigerian society gives you the freedom to create the life and love that you want and need. It is very, very difficult to create a free, loving, respectful relationships with some Nigerians and even harder in Nigeria It is very heartening to see relationships like yours and mostly to see the true love, happiness, contentment, and fulfillment in my brother Lamb. STAY CONNECTED!
I'm a Nigerian man, an Igbo man to be precise, we don't joke with our wives, I love my wife so much and I express it every moment. I married a Nigerian woman who happened to be one of the cadets in the marine academy I instructed then. There was a day she said that no one will believe that it's me doing all these at home, that was even before we got married. When you're in love, you're in love, irrespective of who is involved and besides if you want a happy home, keep your wife on a happy mood always, that'll bring out that sincere humble little girl in her, but ladies don't take advantage of your husband's love or take it for granted, if not he'll try to be the opposite which he's not in the first place. All your man needs is that respect and peace of mind, he'll bring the heavens down for you.
I am a Nigerian Women. (Grew up primarily in the US) Married a Nigerian Man who grew up in Nigeria and he spoils me like crazy. I think you hit the nail on the head. Their are women who will take advantage of men they know are in love with them. Which makes a lot of Nigerian men reluctant to show their love expressively.
hes a prison reform advocate who has spoken before the United Nations. of course hes well spoken and intelligent. but hes also emotionally intelligent which makes him a good husband.
Lamb,ladies in US are different in culture and way of thinking from those in Nigeria..So cultures differ even as parents.You have a good wife,and in-laws..
I’m American and my man is Nigerian. I’ve never had such a sweet affectionate man ever. He has showed me the opposite of what I’m use to and I’m so appreciative of him and his Nigerian upbringing.
Thank you onbehalf of ALL Nigerian Men who show love to their spouse irrespective of the woman colour, culture or country. We just want to be in love with our partners and showing it.
I love his sincerity... and that statement... " she brings me peace" that is what a man craves when he is at home. My hubby always tells me that, thanks for making my home peaceful. Just leave ppl n their negativity where it is.
“It’s Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.” No man wants to come home to a wife who is going to nag, challenge and just argue with him. Man value peace. Give a man peace and he will love you like his own body.
God bless you sister. I have a wonderful girlfriend from Brooklyn and I from one of francophone countries in west Africa. I am looking forward to marry her, but it is a peaceful household that is very important to me in the marriage. People are not perfect and ppl change including myself. So what you said is 💯 true. Women are very smart and powerful. They can transform your life like a paradise and they can bring all the miseries unto your life as well.
He makes her feel sooo special! Every woman will be lost in this love. And it's clear she's nice and humble as she is beautiful. Kudos my brother. Great choice.
Awe. I really do love how Lamb express his love for his wife. He's straight business but when he is with his queen, he makes her priority. He will always show his love, his caring, his compassion for his wife. My wife is Caucasian. I love her to death. I do not see race. I see an loving wife that cares about her husband. I just want to say thank you to you two. I pray that your marriage blossom more and more everyday. Take care and be bless...
Lamb level of intelligence is spot on. I like how you address some of these issues. And what you guys stand for is always being yourself. Keep loving how you know how to love Ling. Thank you Ling for allowing him to be himself and for bringing him peace. Loads of love
I love how mature Lamb is. Maturity with humor, responsible, and above all God fearing, now that's a man to fall in love with. I love this topic. Wow! Ling has fallen in love again and again just listening to her husband talk. I mean who wouldn't?
I am a Nigerian man, met my partner 19yrs ago in University , then she was too butty without proper home chores knowledge. I taught her everything about kitchen. I love cooking and mostly do most of the kitchen chores. We were love birds always together ,just like you Lambo pointed out, people started talking I used juju on her to love me that much while some call me mumu😂🤣 After uni we were apart for 9yrs because she went to UK to further her studies while I was Nigeria pursuing my career but in all this we kept communicating, planning n building our love. We got married 2016 and now we are presently base in London living together loving each and me still doing most of the kitchen chores with all happiness because I enjoy cooking for my wive. People should learn from Lin and Lamb, what they are doing they themselves don't even know the impact they are having in so many of their subscribers and these subscribers bless other close friends with what they've got from this channel. Well done Lin and Lam, may your love glow forever. Amen
I am in my first inter-cultural relationship and I am enjoying my Nigerian man...he has shown me the love I always knew I deserved. Lamb your words carried much weight! Thanks
Please start, biko. Love her, praise her, take care of her. Nigerian men are built to love. I'm not sure I want a foreign man cos I'll have to train him to love me. Nigerian men come ready to love. It's in their factory settings and os handed down. Please do more. First, of course find out her love language and do things she appreciate. God bless you!
@@ngreat4390 believe me when I say this, if you know how women speak well of Nigerian men, infact 2 of the women I dated in the US were actually looking for a Nigerian or African man to date. But I feel young ladies in Nigeria nowadays don't value the Nigerian man, but nice to hear this from you
As an African American woman, my husband is Yoruba and he’s so beautiful both inside and out. He’s my person, my friend, and sincere confidant. I was a single mom of 1 when I met him, an he’s helped me to be a better person and mom to my child. My mother in law is gentle and God-filled. She’s imparted wisdom beyond my imagination. My family loves him and our union. Both of us were married before, but it has been so much more beautiful/sweet this time around. I absolutely loved to see how Lamb honors his wife, and anything or anyone who comes against that is ridiculously rude. God bless your union, Guys🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I too have experienced such. And I feel blissful getting to love and Yoruba Spiritual Man. A big difference in their moral,soul opposed to the American Man.
You guys people will talk, the exact thing happened to me with my Nigerian (Igbo) husband of almost 18 years. My husband and I work together as a team in our house and outside of it, we love each other today like we did since we started in 2003. I’m not white, I am a African American who also recently found out through my dna test that I am 47% Nigeria and 97% west Africa. Enjoy your marriage!! You guys are awesome! Stay true to each other!!
I'm a Nigerian man and living in Yankee since age of 7. I've been Nigerian women raised in the US, UK, and Nigeria. One thing I've noticed is that those raised outside of Nigeria did allow me to be more affectionate w/o seeing it as a weakness, whereas those raised in Nigeria found it odd and thought to take me for mumu. Perhaps it's just the state of Nigeria where due to the harshness, every1, men and women, must be tough. Those that grew up in the diaspora however, had the luxury of being able to learn to be more emotionally expressive and vulnerable. What I'm trying to say is that when one is concerned about no light, possible kidnappings, no job, no money, etc., your focus is on how to survive, not on how to be affectionate. We see it in developed countries as well. Just go to the ghettos where ppl have it rough. You won't see men and women being affectionate or lovey dovey especially in public.
You two are the cure for racism. I love watching the two of you go on ur food adventures. I'm an American and my husband is from Mexico. Your husband reminds me so much of mine. His reactions, love of food, sense of humour and work ethic.... you are my husband's brother from another country☺️☺️☺️
Let's face it, 80% of those hash comments always come from Nigerians. I sometimes read almost all comments and I'm like why are people like this. They even comment in Yoruba , thinking Ling won't understand,but dumb enough to remember Lamb is Yoruba/Igbo and understands. Ratio of such comments from other nationalities is infinitesimal 🤏
Probably confused. I live if Europe, in a university environment, where there are lots of nationalities. As a Nigerian, I want to date a Nigerian girl. Out of all the nationalities, they are the hardest is varied ways. This is not only my opinion, lots of other Nigerian guys call them “ classy” their expectations are actually higher. I think I’ll rather just be with a white girl or an African non Nigerian girl.
My Nigerian man is very wonderful and sweet (I'm African American). He is generous, attentive and neither one of us will tolerate drama. We have open communication about everything and we've been together 11 months. BUT... I am many years older than him (he is in his 40's). I fear this will be a problem for his family (event hough his ex wife is older than him). He's building a business and I make sure that I am his peace. He feels like his job is to make me happy, and I am.
The worth of a real man is found in the countenance of his wife's face. I say this with regret in my own life and with great respect to this two happy couple. It is very obvious in you two. Thank you for sharing a slice of your life to us and never stop the laugh.
Ling do not listen to those negative comments , they are just a kind of distractions, No room for negative energy around your home,what you have is Priceless! By the way say hello to dad and mum, l love them, bye!🙏
I fully understand; my guy is Nigerian and he shows me his love fully, hes still a strong man in my eyes , hes a strong handsome beautiful man & i thank God for him im a British white woman,i love him he loves me Simple 💯💕🥰.....Love you guys 😊💜
As a Caribbean woman I remember being told not to show men how much you love them or find a man that loves you more than you love them. Our parents had it wrong, you have to give love fully to get love. Open that heart baby and you’ll get back what you give. Work on yourself If you’re not getting what you want. Universal law, you are what you attract. Sooo if you are getting shit.... look in the mirror. Everything in this universe is a reflection of you.❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽 Let your man love you! Thank you lamb.
As a Haitian woman, we were told the same thing. I did have to unlearn some wrong things. I made sure I raised my son without those stigmas and untruths. I made sure he knew who is, to follow the sound of his own drum and ignore ignorance. He also knows to not let anyone disrespect him.
As a Haitian woman, we were told to marry someone who loved you more and real men have many women. I never believe such nonsense. I also had to unlearn some other things as well. I now know what I want and what I will not accept. So while raising my son, I made sure I raised him free of the lies and stereotypical lies my parents raised us in. He knows who he is and whose he is. He knows to follow the sound of his own drums and he understands to be true to his authentic self confidently.
That started with the baby boomer generation of women who taught their daughters who taught their daughter and so on. That’s when the indoctrination and conditioning of hating men started.
Please Dont give negative comments any attention! You guys continue to show how love and marriage is supposed to be. Continue to be THE example! I absolutely think you guys are the cutest couple! I support y'all forget those people who are miserable and their attacks are just a reflection of how much they are not happy with their own situation! I'm blessed and YOU guys are blessed! Love is love! Continue to be the example and continue to give God the glory! Keep smiling 🥰 pay them DUST!
The L in Ling and L in Lamb means love.... The way Ling looked at Lamb at the end of the video, that's how you know a woman who is genuinely happy with her man... You both are blessed. I'm a Nigerian man, and what Lamb said is just spot on. In the end, one has to be true to himself and not let social or societal standards stop one from enjoying the little and most important things in life.. Ling you have everything in this world in Lamb, so does he in you. You guys rock....
You can tell Ling is so loved, just look at how she smiles and gets all giddy around her husband. That smile is coming from deep within her soul and she seems to love and adore her husband too. I am African and I can tell you it's not just Nigerian men but African men in general, when they love they love with all their being, especially if you respect, support & let them be themselves. It's the way our African mothers raise their children❤❤
That is some bullshit. The level of abuse that takes place in Africa towards women and children is fearful. From the beatings the teachers bestow on children, to the shaming of raped women, and the abuse and shame that pregnant women out of marriage go through is atrocious. It is a patriarch society, with so much abuse from the Men. Not to mention the spell casting that takes place 24/7.
Ling and Lamb you have such a beautiful relationship. People are so quick to criticize what they don't understand or have. God bless you both and keep on loving each other the way you do. My husband and I have been married for 24 years and it's because of love, communication, and respect. Race doesn't matter, it all about two people being in love!
I love the fact that lamb made mention of how married men can be soft with their side chicks and want to at all times be strict with their wife's. That point hit real deep💯 The picture part got me chuckling 🤩 ling is beautiful,I must say!
I really love the things Lamb is addressing in this video. It’s a real issue in the world, Caribbean men experience similar pressures and black men overall. Thank you for taking the time to unpack this Lamb. I love your marriage, I watch your page every day and my husband also appreciates your content very much. More love you guys and all your endeavors.
Am Nigerian and My girlfriend is Australian and I love her so much and it’s not abt her color but more abt her personality and who she is overall, I sent her y’all videos and she love them.
I wish more guys would express their affection for us. This “simp” and “weak” shaming is so irritating in my generation. We may be roses who can grow in concrete but it doesn’t mean we want hardness from our partners. A rose still needs kindness, attention, love, and care.🌹
@@KniiOSoul I’m sorry that you experienced that. I hope you meet the lady who will embrace you just as you do unto her. I understand how it feels. Don’t give up though! Guard your heart and stay encouraged.
There are so many of us Africans who's inspired by your love and respect for eachother. Those few negative ones just make louder noice. You both are great individual and even greater together!
I love your relationship!!! Lamb’s sincerity and emotional intelligence which allows him to express his love for Ling so passionately is truly beautiful to watch!! So happy for you Ling may God continue to bless your marriage!!
U are a power couple I appreciate so much on this channel. I am a Nigerian who has never left Nigeria and I want to tell u that lamb loves u so much. There's this mentality in Nigeria where expression of love is considered as weakness and the society has taught us this, but lamb has broken that mentality and he is living his life with ling sincerely. Watching your videos shows ling is lambs peace and stability...loving u from here
Bro you just said it as it is....peace of mind increases men life span.... A woman that will understand you & you will both support each other and who will accept you for whom you are..... I really appreciate the fact that you came out to clear the impression some people have about we Nigerians that we Nigerians are not good & corrupt... Thanks for that good representation 🙌🙌 I pray I find my own peace of mind one day🙏
That word PEACE is underrated. My husband always reminds me that the reason he married me is cos of the peace he has each time he is around me and in marriage I've come to realise that PEACE is same as RESPECT for men. When he has that PEACE, u will be shocked how he behaves like a baby. He can cook, clean, wash, spend, trust, worship and adore u.
We are Nigerians and my husband pampers me like a baby after 10years. The truth is that it is widespread in Nigeria and Africa not to publicly display affection. But Nigerian men are the best. I live in a multicultural country so I can say for a fact. Most of them may not be domestic in terms of house chores but they are the most generous and providing husbands ever. A true Nigerian man is a REAL MAN inside and out. Ling enjoy our brother
Awww my husband is like that , he says am his baby girl always, never ever had I had a man treated me the way he does . He is amazingly beautiful human who fears and love God wholeheartedly 🙏🏿 ❤. Forever grateful to my heavenly father Forever
That is actually a stereotype because they are many African men that are affectionate to their wives. You make people think that African men treat foreign women better every time you stereotype African men like this.
After watching this video, I want to dedicate one of my all time favorite song to both of y'all. Musiq soulchild - Love. Both of you are a beacon and example of what love in marriage/relationship should look like. Thank you.
I love the way you explained everything. Also, as men we should get rid of this mentality of trying to prove how manly we are. It's unfortunate that some people took your expression of love for granted, but this says alot about them and not you. These experiences help build our characters, it's also a lesson for her too because a time will come that she will realize how valuable you were. There is a form of healthy masculinity and as mature men we should learn to embrace it. We should embrace being Loving, supportive, caring, understanding and, we should also be very considerate. I love your couple and I appreciate how you guys utilize your platform to share such positive/meaningful information and experiences. Keep on keeping on, much love and appreciation 💯.
I had similar experiences as an Oyibo wife, rude comments etc. Its good Lamb is speaking up about this. People can be so jealous for no reason 😒 You guys have to be strong 🙏🏼❤
Hello, just started watching your videos recently. And one thing i like about you is the fact that you are so real as you r in the Us. Keep it up. We love you the way you are. From naija
God bless you Ling ! You make him so happy . You got one of the best sis !! I’m super proud of you Lambo . You are sincere , open , truthful and bare . Keep being you !! God bless
Nigerian men love whoever they want. They show their love to whoever- does nt matter where you are from. A lot of women regardless of race are sometimes overwhelmed by nigerian men and their personality ,generosity and kindness- its just the way they are. There s always the misconception that foreign women get treated better🙄- I doubt a Nigerian man will pretend for a few weeks-talkless about forever!! Besides we don t get to see your lives 24-7! Stay happy and aligned💜
@Sue, you took the words right out of my mouth. So, thank you. I just want to add that there are million reasons many tend to attribute their baggage unto others. Lamb knows who he is and what he wants, that's enough for me. I watch Lamb & Limb because they are happy together, they inspire good choices in mates. She loves him for who and what he is and he absolutely adores her. Shine on both of you, keep teaching them by the example of your lives. Perhaps some day some would awake and stop being such judgmental pricks. Often, circumstances are what they seem like and no mystery. They have created a world of their own and serve each other lovingly. Btw, Ling is beautiful and always smiling.
Thanks sis, I love your comment well said. It obviously haters who are envious speak against a beautiful union. As a Nigerian man who has been in a relationship with an American too I absolutely agree with you
For me lamb I understand you, because when I was leaving in Nigeria I never experienced love don't know that word really exited, I only dated 3 girls and stopped because I wasn't appreciated because I don't really have money, until I moved to Canada my story has changed, and I found myself a wife a beautiful Filipino nurse, now they are saying I left Nigerian woman and marry a Filipino, but when I was a nobody no one was complaining no Nigerian woman helped me, but a foreigner helped, got me a good job and gave me something I have never had before (love) so why won't I marry her.. please don't mind them
That’s how people are no mind them. Thank God you found someone who bring happiness and love to your life, a lot of Nigerian women too marry American and European but nobody is talking but when it comes to Nigerian men all the whole world go shake.
I love the way you are with her, the way lamb is with you is what you bring out of him , never mind what others say .it’s not the fact that he’s a Nigerian ,it’s because he’s a romantic guy who’s not afraid of showing it . And my nieces are biracial white and black and that’s what they identify with, they would have had their buts handed to them if you refer to them as white or just black, but anyway I love you guys continue to do you!!!!!
My respect for you just went through the roof! This is the most philosophical and psychological explanation of the dysfunction in African relationships.
Lamb is so right. The African mentality of not expressing their love fully just so their partner doesn't take advantage is trash. I think Nigerian men who show love more to their foreign partners do that because they finally found someone that will love them with the same energy they put in.
I agree fully with you! I’m not Nigerian do I can’t speak to that, but I’m a product of an interracial marriage. I popped out looking white, but my mother was disowned for marrying my father. That being said there was still this notion within the family that I had to go with certain women and do certain things. At some point I dropped all that mess. I found my peace with my wife and I totally fawn over her, and spoil her because she’s a part of me. Yes it includes taking her to Disney 😂, and guys have called me soft for doing it, but I could give a damn. I’m happy showing my love to her and embracing her for who she is because I get the same back. More power to you guys!!
We love you guys. Wonderful comment Lamb. Absolutely true what you are saying. It's not only Nigerian men. I have seen this in many African cultures. My ex husband is Ivorian he acted like he didn't know me. 🤣
Ling and Lamb, I truly love the relationship that you share. Being biracial myself I can understand the "hate". This comes from jealousy and a lack of understanding what a real relationship is. Keep moving forward with your life and love.
When I watch your videos, I see Love. Love, friendship and understanding. That's the key to a happy and successful marital life. You guys should keep it up.
God bless you two for using your channel to share light and truth.this is God's work you are doing .that's why this relationship is never gonna fall apart.as you teach us, you don't know that God is using your words to teach you unconsciously.
When you find a good Naija man you are bless. I heard that same thing from my Nigerian husband about Nigerian women and I’m not white I’m a black woman. So keep loving your husband
As an African, I can tell you that many have issues with expressing their love. Secondly, pride is a contributing factor and the negative thoughts is even worst than the pride.
4:47, "..All these things I do cleaning, cooking and all that, I've been doing that as a young man. So because I'm married I shouldn't do it again? Whether you are a white woman, purple, ehhh...yellow, whatever it is color you came with, I WILL STILL DO IT." *GBAM!*
Firstly, I'd like to commend Lamb on how brilliantly he's presented his argument. The truth is there's that stigmatization regarding males that are expressive of themselves and their emotions, leading to comments like "he's a simp" and the likes. I'd say that as a whole, Nigerians can be very dishonest regarding how we go about expressing ourselves and our emotions, and I see this as a cultural problem because we're mostly not brought up to be true and genuine with ourselves, and this pertains to both genders. However, there are thriving families where being true to oneself is encouraged. That being said, it gladdens my heart now that millennial parents are going about changing the narrative, regarding how their male and female children are brought up as pertains to expressivity and the likes. Kudos to Ling and Lamb. You guys rock
For one thing this man never miss any opportunity to appreciate his wife. Grateful for you guys.
Absolutely beautiful thing ever I always come here to learn from him to build the same spirit 💎💎💎💯💯❤️❤️🔥⭐😊
@@patmosarhin.live.life.2257 lol
Those who are telling you that your Husband is showing you all that love because you are American are Jealous about the Success of your Relationship (Marriage).
Alot of (Nigeriqn) Women take their spouses for granted ... especially their efforts...
And I think it is largely due to our Culture and Norms....
For example: It is Part of the African Culture for the Man to Pay all the Bills.... Children's School Fees, Rents, Food in the HOUSE.... etc
That's How You Show or Prove that you are the head of the HOUSE (Family)
Whereas, Over there, the Couple split or share the Responsibilities....
So, Over here, the men that don't or can't meet up with those Bills payments are often talked down or looked down upon by "SOME" women and this actually Contributes largely to a lot of Nigerian men beginning to Consider dating or Marrying more Understanding and Caring Women...
Finally let me say that Only God can Connect One with SOMEONE who TRUELY LOVES him or her.... and if you've found One, then by all means KEEP, PROTECT, CHERISH and.hold on Firmly....
All this man has just said is absolutely true !
Wherever you find love and Peace is home...
Same here
I’m a Nigerian woman married to a Nigerian man who is very caring and affectionate. The thing is we don’t see a lot of married Nigerian men on UA-cam and also we tend to be private people. Love is love no matter the race, people just choose to see the negative when they’re not happy in their own lives or due to their own trauma. Love you guys ❤️
Soooo true!!
And age in my case my hubby is from Abuja Nigeria and younger then me
You are absolutely right. Nigerian couple are very private. I am also Married to a Nigerian man that I mate while in college and I supported him through his career but my friends and family called me fool, but today, they all admire my marriage all because of how my husband adores me and respect me. My husband don’t have any social media account or access and he so very private and I respect his decision.
Very true
When man show love too much in Nigeria Family problem will start.
That get to stop in that Country.
My man was not trying to fall for an American woman, but we fell in love. He is the purest example of love that I have witnessed. I honor my Nigerian man! I have never felt love like this, and at first I almost ruined it because people were telling me that he was a scammer. I was defending him because I FELT his soul was the mate to my soul. Do not let people deter you from love.
Amen.
This is beautiful ❤️ wishing you both the best
I really love the way ling really pays attention when her husband is speaking,that's a very good example of a respectful wife.
She's far more humble than an average Nigerian lady, who feigns to be because she's scared of losing her home and always as they say "children's consideration"
@Grace Awolesi observation!
@Grace Awolesi
Well said. They always want to say shit about Naija women while bigging up non-9JA women.
Thank you for that observation
I love it too
The truth about Nigeria men is, when they're in love with you they will show it and shower you with praises and tell you how beautiful you are. Believe me when they love you they really do love. God bless naija kings and queens
AMEN🙏❤️
So true Wale my husband is the same and he is Nigerian.
That is so true!
Other men do as well. My husband tells me everyday I’m beautiful and he loves me. Media shits on men as a whole in America. Not all men are bad.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 not all of them.
My husband is Nigerian, and I am American. The best husband ever. I have experience real love for the first time.
Wow! This is so sweet. Love is indeed a beautiful thing to behold when it's been shared with someone that knows the valued and worth and also respect his/her partner regardless of skin color, race, culture, religion etc...
This man has GOD inside of him! That’s why he can love his wife the way he does!
Amen!
Word!!!!
Asè oo
I second that 🇹🇹
Amen He understood Ephesians 5:25-33 very very well 🙏🏾
For sure‼️
So much to unpack, I think you guys need to make this a series.
The sad reality is that a lot of people are damaged from either “societal standards” or relationships that they’ve been burned in. They think it’s dubious for someone to love them that much, thus they question why someone actually does. Everyone’s experience is different and sadly, it takes a whole lot to switch that mindset to a positive one.
The solution in my point of view is to do your best to find someone who reciprocates your love, don’t settle for any less, that’s the never ending cycle that needs to break.
I agree wholeheartedly!
Brilliantly put.
Well said ❤️❤️👏👏
I totally agree with you
Totally agree 💯
I am a black woman and my boyfriend is Nigerian. Our relationship has been the most beautiful relationship I have ever experienced. My boyfriend is so humble, loving, caring, affectionate, confident and loyal to me. His culture has brought so much life to my spirit. He treats me like his Queen everyday without missin a beat. I truly feel that he is my blessing from God. I just love this man to the moon and back! I truly appreciate both of you for your wisdom, fun-loving spirit and transparency. It's beautiful to see how much you both love and respect each other.💖🖤🌌
Lamb is 100% correct, i dated a girl back in uni in Nigeria and she said "I am weak" because of showing my affection to her. There is a toxic and wrong expectation of what masculinity is in Nigeria.
I had someone like that. She was like I'm not a man because I was trying to avoid trouble. We both later sacked each other.
Wooooow
U are so on point, I am a lover and I don't think anything is too much for someone u love. To be called less of a man because I can express my love more affectionately than others is totally insane and super myopic.
Zim too. It's a toxic masculinity thing
Western women have them all beat
This man is so matured that he knows how to break down complicated issues. I love you man
I totally agree with you. First of all genuine love is mysterious. It is sometimes revealing and concealing at he same time. We actually do not FALL IN LOVE. We grow in love and this is a life time adventure of discovering each other. The more we discover in each other should be the more intense our passion for each other becomes. A diamond is never discovered with a process of digging deep. Less think on these thing. The more pressure or fire a diamond goes through the purer it becomes and the brighter it shines.
Can someone get these couple a television show, they can save a lot of marriages.
I am an African American woman and my husband is Igbo Nigerian. First, I love how he loves God. I also love how he loves me and his children. He is my person, my bestfriend, and my love. Truly God brought us together.
Blessings to your union. I pray my Igbo Nigerian man & I can come together very soon.🙏🏿💖🙏🏿
🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
Igbo
May God keep lifting you guys above every single obstacles to showed up.
Igbo kwenu! God is gr8. U re bless sis n is nice to be in lv
This is bloody brilliant. As a mixed race man from South Africa I think this is the most brilliant advice ive heard in my 29 years of living on earth. OMG this is real goals right here. Wisdom overload.
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Nigerian society doesn't allow men to express their love. Can you explain why?
South African brother👏👏
@@rosalieedelstein1240 I think the man already addressed some of the reasons. To me, I believe we take advantage of love. Girls in other countries don't see men as the source of their income, little things trigger them, and why foreign girls will always be after Nigerian men is because Nigerian men will be convinced to spend their last card on a woman that is not after his wallet. They appreciate flowers (Little gifts) over there and we appreciate money in Nigeria. Telling you that I love you today doesn't mean I started taking the whole responsibility (I am not your father) and even when we get married the bill can still be shared, we both own the responsibilities 👌🏽✌🏽 IMO
Thanks Lamb for trying to explain a very complicated relationship between men and women in Nigeria. Unfortunately, our society confines and dictate the relationship between men and women in a way that from the get-go is separating. Partners are constantly trying to catch up with cultural expectations, which kind of regresses according to each family, so they never have time to grow together, really get to know each other and fall deeply in love with each other. However, being with someone outside of the Nigerian society gives you the freedom to create the life and love that you want and need. It is very, very difficult to create a free, loving, respectful relationships with some Nigerians and even harder in Nigeria
It is very heartening to see relationships like yours and mostly to see the true love, happiness, contentment, and fulfillment in my brother Lamb. STAY CONNECTED!
I'm a Nigerian man, an Igbo man to be precise, we don't joke with our wives, I love my wife so much and I express it every moment. I married a Nigerian woman who happened to be one of the cadets in the marine academy I instructed then. There was a day she said that no one will believe that it's me doing all these at home, that was even before we got married. When you're in love, you're in love, irrespective of who is involved and besides if you want a happy home, keep your wife on a happy mood always, that'll bring out that sincere humble little girl in her, but ladies don't take advantage of your husband's love or take it for granted, if not he'll try to be the opposite which he's not in the first place. All your man needs is that respect and peace of mind, he'll bring the heavens down for you.
normal Igbo no da play with family
I am a Nigerian Women. (Grew up primarily in the US) Married a Nigerian Man who grew up in Nigeria and he spoils me like crazy. I think you hit the nail on the head. Their are women who will take advantage of men they know are in love with them. Which makes a lot of Nigerian men reluctant to show their love expressively.
Lamb is very smart. Man's intelligent
hes a prison reform advocate who has spoken before the United Nations. of course hes well spoken and intelligent. but hes also emotionally intelligent which makes him a good husband.
Very intelligent
He speaks the fact.
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Lamb,ladies in US are different in culture and way of thinking from those in Nigeria..So cultures differ even as parents.You have a good wife,and in-laws..
I’m American and my man is Nigerian. I’ve never had such a sweet affectionate man ever. He has showed me the opposite of what I’m use to and I’m so appreciative of him and his Nigerian upbringing.
Awesome sis
You sell out why did you sell out
You can say that again dear. Great to hear that... We are good
Thank you onbehalf of ALL Nigerian Men who show love to their spouse irrespective of the woman colour, culture or country. We just want to be in love with our partners and showing it.
Thats what we do. Naija all day. Please school these African American women.
“So let me sit down beside you, so that your beauty can allow my beauty to shine” gooooooooosh damn, you a smoooth piece
I love it. I like Ling: "You're blocking the sun shining on me" Lamb: "Shine my on baby". Too cute😂😂
I love his sincerity... and that statement... " she brings me peace" that is what a man craves when he is at home. My hubby always tells me that, thanks for making my home peaceful. Just leave ppl n their negativity where it is.
A man cannot attain anything better than a good wife. “An excellent wife who can find? She is far more precious than jewels” (Proverbs 31:10).
“It’s Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.” No man wants to come home to a wife who is going to nag, challenge and just argue with him. Man value peace. Give a man peace and he will love you like his own body.
God bless you sister. I have a wonderful girlfriend from Brooklyn and I from one of francophone countries in west Africa. I am looking forward to marry her, but it is a peaceful household that is very important to me in the marriage. People are not perfect and ppl change including myself. So what you said is 💯 true. Women are very smart and powerful. They can transform your life like a paradise and they can bring all the miseries unto your life as well.
He makes her feel sooo special! Every woman will be lost in this love.
And it's clear she's nice and humble as she is beautiful.
Kudos my brother. Great choice.
Awe. I really do love how Lamb express his love for his wife. He's straight business but when he is with his queen, he makes her priority. He will always show his love, his caring, his compassion for his wife. My wife is Caucasian. I love her to death. I do not see race. I see an loving wife that cares about her husband. I just want to say thank you to you two. I pray that your marriage blossom more and more everyday. Take care and be bless...
Thanks for watching and sharing your experience! Thanks for being a part of the Ling and Lamb fam! Blessings
Ling and Lamb
Lamb level of intelligence is spot on. I like how you address some of these issues. And what you guys stand for is always being yourself. Keep loving how you know how to love Ling. Thank you Ling for allowing him to be himself and for bringing him peace. Loads of love
I love how mature Lamb is. Maturity with humor, responsible, and above all God fearing, now that's a man to fall in love with. I love this topic. Wow! Ling has fallen in love again and again just listening to her husband talk. I mean who wouldn't?
You Guys are wonderful...
Speaking out things as they are , We really take LOVE for granted
Thank you for the message!!
I am a Nigerian man, met my partner 19yrs ago in University , then she was too butty without proper home chores knowledge. I taught her everything about kitchen. I love cooking and mostly do most of the kitchen chores. We were love birds always together ,just like you Lambo pointed out, people started talking I used juju on her to love me that much while some call me mumu😂🤣
After uni we were apart for 9yrs because she went to UK to further her studies while I was Nigeria pursuing my career but in all this we kept communicating, planning n building our love.
We got married 2016 and now we are presently base in London living together loving each and me still doing most of the kitchen chores with all happiness because I enjoy cooking for my wive.
People should learn from Lin and Lamb, what they are doing they themselves don't even know the impact they are having in so many of their subscribers and these subscribers bless other close friends with what they've got from this channel.
Well done Lin and Lam, may your love glow forever. Amen
Congratulations 👏🏻😍
He said, “Shine on my baby!”. I freaking adore these two!
I am in my first inter-cultural relationship and I am enjoying my Nigerian man...he has shown me the love I always knew I deserved. Lamb your words carried much weight! Thanks
Seeing how y'all are together makes me want to love my wife even more seeing other ppl truly in love It's inspiring
Please start, biko. Love her, praise her, take care of her. Nigerian men are built to love. I'm not sure I want a foreign man cos I'll have to train him to love me. Nigerian men come ready to love. It's in their factory settings and os handed down.
Please do more. First, of course find out her love language and do things she appreciate.
God bless you!
Wow you guys got something special
You are indeed my favorite couple
You guys are my mentor
@@ngreat4390 on point
@@ngreat4390 believe me when I say this, if you know how women speak well of Nigerian men, infact 2 of the women I dated in the US were actually looking for a Nigerian or African man to date. But I feel young ladies in Nigeria nowadays don't value the Nigerian man, but nice to hear this from you
Remember lamb, we are not fighting against flesh and blood but forces we cannot see. Stay firmly in prayer, it makes both of you stronger
Amen. That's one thing the devil hate is a successful marriage that shows love, respect, caring, compassion, and honors God.
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Gbam !
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As an African American woman, my husband is Yoruba and he’s so beautiful both inside and out. He’s my person, my friend, and sincere confidant. I was a single mom of 1 when I met him, an he’s helped me to be a better person and mom to my child. My mother in law is gentle and God-filled. She’s imparted wisdom beyond my imagination. My family loves him and our union. Both of us were married before, but it has been so much more beautiful/sweet this time around. I absolutely loved to see how Lamb honors his wife, and anything or anyone who comes against that is ridiculously rude. God bless your union, Guys🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I too have experienced such. And I feel blissful getting to love and Yoruba Spiritual Man. A big difference in their moral,soul opposed to the American Man.
You guys people will talk, the exact thing happened to me with my Nigerian (Igbo) husband of almost 18 years. My husband and I work together as a team in our house and outside of it, we love each other today like we did since we started in 2003. I’m not white, I am a African American who also recently found out through my dna test that I am 47% Nigeria and 97% west Africa. Enjoy your marriage!! You guys are awesome! Stay true to each other!!
I'm a Nigerian man and living in Yankee since age of 7. I've been Nigerian women raised in the US, UK, and Nigeria. One thing I've noticed is that those raised outside of Nigeria did allow me to be more affectionate w/o seeing it as a weakness, whereas those raised in Nigeria found it odd and thought to take me for mumu. Perhaps it's just the state of Nigeria where due to the harshness, every1, men and women, must be tough. Those that grew up in the diaspora however, had the luxury of being able to learn to be more emotionally expressive and vulnerable. What I'm trying to say is that when one is concerned about no light, possible kidnappings, no job, no money, etc., your focus is on how to survive, not on how to be affectionate. We see it in developed countries as well. Just go to the ghettos where ppl have it rough. You won't see men and women being affectionate or lovey dovey especially in public.
100% ON POINT...!
You are truly correct
💯.... it's the same here in Kenya..
I grew up in Nigeria and I love a man that is affectionate and Romantic. Don't generalize.
@@luluallwell6232 You'll agree wimme that the majority are not like you. Only a small percentage of Nigerian women are like you
You two are the cure for racism. I love watching the two of you go on ur food adventures. I'm an American and my husband is from Mexico. Your husband reminds me so much of mine. His reactions, love of food, sense of humour and work ethic.... you are my husband's brother from another country☺️☺️☺️
Sincerely, I really don’t feel it’s a Nigerian thing. It is more of a personality and background thing.
Thank you. This is the point.
Yeah true
Let's face it, 80% of those hash comments always come from Nigerians. I sometimes read almost all comments and I'm like why are people like this. They even comment in Yoruba , thinking Ling won't understand,but dumb enough to remember Lamb is Yoruba/Igbo and understands. Ratio of such comments from other nationalities is infinitesimal 🤏
Probably confused. I live if Europe, in a university environment, where there are lots of nationalities. As a Nigerian, I want to date a Nigerian girl. Out of all the nationalities, they are the hardest is varied ways. This is not only my opinion, lots of other Nigerian guys call them “ classy” their expectations are actually higher. I think I’ll rather just be with a white girl or an African non Nigerian girl.
It's more of a Nigerian thing. Materialism has ruined Nigeria. A guy doesn't always have to "impress" a girl's parents and associates.
My Nigerian man is very wonderful and sweet (I'm African American). He is generous, attentive and neither one of us will tolerate drama. We have open communication about everything and we've been together 11 months.
BUT... I am many years older than him (he is in his 40's). I fear this will be a problem for his family (event hough his ex wife is older than him). He's building a business and I make sure that I am his peace. He feels like his job is to make me happy, and I am.
The worth of a real man is found in the countenance of his wife's face. I say this with regret in my own life and with great respect to this two happy couple. It is very obvious in you two. Thank you for sharing a slice of your life to us and never stop the laugh.
This is so sweet. I"m dating an Igbo Nigerian, and it's honestly such a great chemistry of a relationship..
Hahhahaha we igbo treat our wify better with respect, love
Ling do not listen to those negative comments , they are just a kind of distractions, No room for negative energy around your home,what you have is Priceless!
By the way say hello to dad and mum, l love them, bye!🙏
I just married my Igbo King, honestly there is no one better than him.
Igbos really know sure know how to love.
I fully understand; my guy is Nigerian and he shows me his love fully, hes still a strong man in my eyes , hes a strong handsome beautiful man & i thank God for him im a British white woman,i love him he loves me Simple 💯💕🥰.....Love you guys 😊💜
That's why the most high God said follow my rules and commandments and your life will be blessed and his life is truly blessed!!!
As a Caribbean woman I remember being told not to show men how much you love them or find a man that loves you more than you love them. Our parents had it wrong, you have to give love fully to get love. Open that heart baby and you’ll get back what you give. Work on yourself If you’re not getting what you want. Universal law, you are what you attract. Sooo if you are getting shit.... look in the mirror. Everything in this universe is a reflection of you.❤️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽
Let your man love you! Thank you lamb.
As a Trinidadian this message was pounded into my head.
Amen yes indeed 🙏🏽👍👏
As a Haitian woman, we were told the same thing. I did have to unlearn some wrong things. I made sure I raised my son without those stigmas and untruths. I made sure he knew who is, to follow the sound of his own drum and ignore ignorance. He also knows to not let anyone disrespect him.
As a Haitian woman, we were told to marry someone who loved you more and real men have many women. I never believe such nonsense. I also had to unlearn some other things as well. I now know what I want and what I will not accept. So while raising my son, I made sure I raised him free of the lies and stereotypical lies my parents raised us in. He knows who he is and whose he is. He knows to follow the sound of his own drums and he understands to be true to his authentic self confidently.
That started with the baby boomer generation of women who taught their daughters who taught their daughter and so on. That’s when the indoctrination and conditioning of hating men started.
Please Dont give negative comments any attention! You guys continue to show how love and marriage is supposed to be. Continue to be THE example! I absolutely think you guys are the cutest couple! I support y'all forget those people who are miserable and their attacks are just a reflection of how much they are not happy with their own situation! I'm blessed and YOU guys are blessed! Love is love! Continue to be the example and continue to give God the glory! Keep smiling 🥰 pay them DUST!
thanks for the love and encouragement- it means a lot to us! xo Ling and Lamb
Na my people be this..... Dem dey try
Nice 🙂👍
Very good reply, pay those nay sayers no mind
Hey
The L in Ling and L in Lamb means love.... The way Ling looked at Lamb at the end of the video, that's how you know a woman who is genuinely happy with her man... You both are blessed.
I'm a Nigerian man, and what Lamb said is just spot on. In the end, one has to be true to himself and not let social or societal standards stop one from enjoying the little and most important things in life.. Ling you have everything in this world in Lamb, so does he in you. You guys rock....
This is why I date African men, I love that about them. I love how they express their love, and emotions.🥰
Hii
We cant get enough of y'all too 😉
The way *them" is being used in this comment👀😂
Beautiful words, Long Live Mother Africa
Lol
You can tell Ling is so loved, just look at how she smiles and gets all giddy around her husband. That smile is coming from deep within her soul and she seems to love and adore her husband too. I am African and I can tell you it's not just Nigerian men but African men in general, when they love they love with all their being, especially if you respect, support & let them be themselves. It's the way our African mothers raise their children❤❤
And he mentioned that point, funny enough I amnquiye sure a lot didn't listen to those last parts
That is some bullshit. The level of abuse that takes place in Africa towards women and children is fearful. From the beatings the teachers bestow on children, to the shaming of raped women, and the abuse and shame that pregnant women out of marriage go through is atrocious. It is a patriarch society, with so much abuse from the Men. Not to mention the spell casting that takes place 24/7.
You guys are the biggest example of love , respect for you Both .
Hey how are you 😊
Ling and Lamb you have such a beautiful relationship. People are so quick to criticize what they don't understand or have. God bless you both and keep on loving each other the way you do. My husband and I have been married for 24 years and it's because of love, communication, and respect. Race doesn't matter, it all about two people being in love!
Race does matter especially in usa
I love the fact that lamb made mention of how married men can be soft with their side chicks and want to at all times be strict with their wife's. That point hit real deep💯
The picture part got me chuckling 🤩 ling is beautiful,I must say!
I really love the things Lamb is addressing in this video. It’s a real issue in the world, Caribbean men experience similar pressures and black men overall. Thank you for taking the time to unpack this Lamb. I love your marriage, I watch your page every day and my husband also appreciates your content very much. More love you guys and all your endeavors.
Am Nigerian and My girlfriend is Australian and I love her so much and it’s not abt her color but more abt her personality and who she is overall, I sent her y’all videos and she love them.
I wish more guys would express their affection for us. This “simp” and “weak” shaming is so irritating in my generation. We may be roses who can grow in concrete but it doesn’t mean we want hardness from our partners. A rose still needs kindness, attention, love, and care.🌹
I used to show My emotions alot but now I don't , Because I was taken advantage of n was called all types of names like being a simp, weak n all.
@@KniiOSoul I’m sorry that you experienced that. I hope you meet the lady who will embrace you just as you do unto her. I understand how it feels. Don’t give up though! Guard your heart and stay encouraged.
@@tgchikukwa6947 exactly
You ladies caused it but that’s if you are a Nigerian
I thought you were proposing there.. very nice speech bro. Anyone else saw ling getting all shy.. African man expressing his love. One love !
There are so many of us Africans who's inspired by your love and respect for eachother. Those few negative ones just make louder noice. You both are great individual and even greater together!
I love your relationship!!! Lamb’s sincerity and emotional intelligence which allows him to express his love for Ling so passionately is truly beautiful to watch!! So happy for you Ling may God continue to bless your marriage!!
U are a power couple I appreciate so much on this channel. I am a Nigerian who has never left Nigeria and I want to tell u that lamb loves u so much. There's this mentality in Nigeria where expression of love is considered as weakness and the society has taught us this, but lamb has broken that mentality and he is living his life with ling sincerely. Watching your videos shows ling is lambs peace and stability...loving u from here
Lamb I love the way you love Ling. So beautiful! When you started telling Ling why you love her I got teary-eyed. I LOVE IT!!
The love and adoration y'all share is just beautiful! He doesn't see your skin tone, he sees your heart ❤️❤️
Been human is beyond hate and race and it takes a good and loving heart to be human.
Hey 😊
Bro you just said it as it is....peace of mind increases men life span.... A woman that will understand you & you will both support each other and who will accept you for whom you are.....
I really appreciate the fact that you came out to clear the impression some people have about we Nigerians that we Nigerians are not good & corrupt...
Thanks for that good representation 🙌🙌
I pray I find my own peace of mind one day🙏
That word PEACE is underrated. My husband always reminds me that the reason he married me is cos of the peace he has each time he is around me and in marriage I've come to realise that PEACE is same as RESPECT for men. When he has that PEACE, u will be shocked how he behaves like a baby. He can cook, clean, wash, spend, trust, worship and adore u.
This dude keeps dishing out wisdom nuggets. 'dont take advantage of his finances or love'
Men! This ones are my fav
Lamb was raised right. Ling has beautiful parent. She has seen the love work for her parents. They equally raised her right
We are Nigerians and my husband pampers me like a baby after 10years. The truth is that it is widespread in Nigeria and Africa not to publicly display affection. But Nigerian men are the best. I live in a multicultural country so I can say for a fact. Most of them may not be domestic in terms of house chores but they are the most generous and providing husbands ever. A true Nigerian man is a REAL MAN inside and out. Ling enjoy our brother
Does your husband have a single brother, uncle, cousin, nephew, grandfather? Asking for a friend
@@woe_is_me8647 He does but I can’t recommend them 🤣🤣🤣
Awww my husband is like that , he says am his baby girl always, never ever had I had a man treated me the way he does . He is amazingly beautiful human who fears and love God wholeheartedly 🙏🏿 ❤. Forever grateful to my heavenly father Forever
I also think that a lot of women also dunno how to handle attention, and love. Maybe because of background.
That is actually a stereotype because they are many African men that are affectionate to their wives. You make people think that African men treat foreign women better every time you stereotype African men like this.
After watching this video, I want to dedicate one of my all time favorite song to both of y'all.
Musiq soulchild - Love.
Both of you are a beacon and example of what love in marriage/relationship should look like.
Thank you.
I love the way you explained everything. Also, as men we should get rid of this mentality of trying to prove how manly we are. It's unfortunate that some people took your expression of love for granted, but this says alot about them and not you. These experiences help build our characters, it's also a lesson for her too because a time will come that she will realize how valuable you were. There is a form of healthy masculinity and as mature men we should learn to embrace it. We should embrace being Loving, supportive, caring, understanding and, we should also be very considerate. I love your couple and I appreciate how you guys utilize your platform to share such positive/meaningful information and experiences. Keep on keeping on, much love and appreciation 💯.
Man did sooo much justice to the convo.
One love Ling and Lamb❤️
I cannot watch any of your videos with a straight face. Lamb is so himself and Ling allows him to be. It's beautiful to watch❤❤
My guy your respond is on spot. Many Nigerian women especially the married ones take Nigeria men who are submissive as mumu.
This guy is sincerely, deeply in love with his wife and I'm sure he will continue to be. He is an authentic Nigerian.
You guys are actually addictive. Love how real you both are. God bless your marriage and shun it from all negativity.
Wow he said smack me and got up to take a picture. Lol! He put it down after that!
I've just watched only 5mins and lamb is making a lot of sense... These are facts
Lamb is a real man I swear..
I had similar experiences as an Oyibo wife, rude comments etc. Its good Lamb is speaking up about this. People can be so jealous for no reason 😒
You guys have to be strong 🙏🏼❤
Definitely. Thanks so much ❤️✨
You absolutely right, not everyone wants your progress.......I stayed off social media with my family. The more they see you, they more they hunt you.
@Truezlady your absolutely right its just pure Jealousy aka JellyTeam or JealousyJalloma as they would say in Nigeria
@@docfada1701
Thanks for the support lol 😆
@@tosinowoseni6767
I agree with you, less is more 😊
Hello, just started watching your videos recently. And one thing i like about you is the fact that you are so real as you r in the Us. Keep it up. We love you the way you are. From naija
God bless you Ling ! You make him so happy . You got one of the best sis !! I’m super proud of you Lambo . You are sincere , open , truthful and bare . Keep being you !! God bless
Nigerian men love whoever they want. They show their love to whoever- does nt matter where you are from. A lot of women regardless of race are sometimes overwhelmed by nigerian men and their personality ,generosity and kindness- its just the way they are. There s always the misconception that foreign women get treated better🙄- I doubt a Nigerian man will pretend for a few weeks-talkless about forever!! Besides we don t get to see your lives 24-7! Stay happy and aligned💜
Thanks sis
@Sue, you took the words right out of my mouth. So, thank you. I just want to add that there are million reasons many tend to attribute their baggage unto others. Lamb knows who he is and what he wants, that's enough for me. I watch Lamb & Limb because they are happy together, they inspire good choices in mates. She loves him for who and what he is and he absolutely adores her. Shine on both of you, keep teaching them by the example of your lives. Perhaps some day some would awake and stop being such judgmental pricks. Often, circumstances are what they seem like and no mystery. They have created a world of their own and serve each other lovingly. Btw, Ling is beautiful and always smiling.
Thanks sis, I love your comment well said. It obviously haters who are envious speak against a beautiful union. As a Nigerian man who has been in a relationship with an American too I absolutely agree with you
Love is love no matter who you are. Men that express their love for their partner is a beautiful thing to behold.
For me lamb I understand you, because when I was leaving in Nigeria I never experienced love don't know that word really exited, I only dated 3 girls and stopped because I wasn't appreciated because I don't really have money, until I moved to Canada my story has changed, and I found myself a wife a beautiful Filipino nurse, now they are saying I left Nigerian woman and marry a Filipino, but when I was a nobody no one was complaining no Nigerian woman helped me, but a foreigner helped, got me a good job and gave me something I have never had before (love) so why won't I marry her.. please don't mind them
That’s how people are no mind them. Thank God you found someone who bring happiness and love to your life, a lot of Nigerian women too marry American and European but nobody is talking but when it comes to Nigerian men all the whole world go shake.
@@danielwitse3381 my brother I tire,I don't even care I'm just voicing my opinion
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I love the way you are with her, the way lamb is with you is what you bring out of him , never mind what others say .it’s not the fact that he’s a Nigerian ,it’s because he’s a romantic guy who’s not afraid of showing it . And my nieces are biracial white and black and that’s what they identify with, they would have had their buts handed to them if you refer to them as white or just black, but anyway I love you guys continue to do you!!!!!
My respect for you just went through the roof! This is the most philosophical and psychological explanation of the dysfunction in African relationships.
Love love love spreading love across the world 🌍 to everyone watching
Lamb is so right. The African mentality of not expressing their love fully just so their partner doesn't take advantage is trash. I think Nigerian men who show love more to their foreign partners do that because they finally found someone that will love them with the same energy they put in.
Like I just call people beautiful here in America and they are really appreciative of it. It’s a different culture entirely.
I appreciate you so much bro. you made a very good point.. all the Nigeria guys that I know are very good guys who love their women and are sweet ..
This is what Christ- centered marriage looks like !
Perfect example 👍❤️
I'm here for you
Ling is GLOWING. Like a woman who is well loved, & unapologetically so 😍
Spot on bro! You represent Nigerian men to the fullest.. we love you guys here in Lagos
Baba i hope to have what you have with your Queen someday, you guys are a breathe of fresh air. God bless your union!!
I agree fully with you! I’m not Nigerian do I can’t speak to that, but I’m a product of an interracial marriage. I popped out looking white, but my mother was disowned for marrying my father. That being said there was still this notion within the family that I had to go with certain women and do certain things. At some point I dropped all that mess. I found my peace with my wife and I totally fawn over her, and spoil her because she’s a part of me. Yes it includes taking her to Disney 😂, and guys have called me soft for doing it, but I could give a damn. I’m happy showing my love to her and embracing her for who she is because I get the same back. More power to you guys!!
Lamb is absolutely spot on! I can't add or remove anything from what he has said. Great one both of you!
I’m from Tanzania and he’s right it still happens to this day 💯
We love you guys. Wonderful comment Lamb. Absolutely true what you are saying. It's not only Nigerian men. I have seen this in many African cultures. My ex husband is Ivorian he acted like he didn't know me. 🤣
Awww. Well we love you and thanks for watching and being a part of our Ling and Lamb fam ❤️🤣🤣
I am 58yrs old and you guys always make my day when I watched your videos, thank you so much 💖 ❤ 💗 ♥
Ling and Lamb, I truly love the relationship that you share. Being biracial myself I can understand the "hate". This comes from jealousy and a lack of understanding what a real relationship is. Keep moving forward with your life and love.
Thank you 🙏🏼
When I watch your videos, I see Love. Love, friendship and understanding. That's the key to a happy and successful marital life. You guys should keep it up.
I love the way Ling looks at her man. Who wouldn’t fall in Love with this gorgeous intelligent and sweet spirited Ling. 💕
God bless you two for using your channel to share light and truth.this is God's work you are doing .that's why this relationship is never gonna fall apart.as you teach us, you don't know that God is using your words to teach you unconsciously.
When you find a good Naija man you are bless. I heard that same thing from my Nigerian husband about Nigerian women and I’m not white I’m a black woman. So keep loving your husband
Well put Lamb, this is coming to you from a Zambian lady living in London. Bless you
As an African, I can tell you that many have issues with expressing their love. Secondly, pride is a contributing factor and the negative thoughts is even worst than the pride.
4:47, "..All these things I do cleaning, cooking and all that, I've been doing that as a young man. So because I'm married I shouldn't do it again? Whether you are a white woman, purple, ehhh...yellow, whatever it is color you came with, I WILL STILL DO IT."
*GBAM!*
I honestly never see my self liking channels like yours but bro I respect your words keep being happy with your lovely wife.
Firstly, I'd like to commend Lamb on how brilliantly he's presented his argument. The truth is there's that stigmatization regarding males that are expressive of themselves and their emotions, leading to comments like "he's a simp" and the likes. I'd say that as a whole, Nigerians can be very dishonest regarding how we go about expressing ourselves and our emotions, and I see this as a cultural problem because we're mostly not brought up to be true and genuine with ourselves, and this pertains to both genders. However, there are thriving families where being true to oneself is encouraged. That being said, it gladdens my heart now that millennial parents are going about changing the narrative, regarding how their male and female children are brought up as pertains to expressivity and the likes.
Kudos to Ling and Lamb. You guys rock