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Fair play showing of your failures on the internet that's shows how secure in himself Zeus is, elite mindset. Makes me wonder what I'm so nervous about, eye opening for real. Keep making more good content.
Bring back cold approaching 😊
i don't see any BRUTAL rejection as claimed . homeless people in the street who ask for money are rejected the same way thousands of time a day . and they don't give a sh** . this is just life
the worst way i got rejected was when i said hey to a girl and she responded with bye 💀
Damn bro sorry bout day😂
That’s when you turn to their friends and say “how about you? You look better than your friend anyways”
Don't give a f about that.
That is nothing.... could have been worst. haha
That’s it?
Got to respect this channel and what he is doing unlike most channels what give advice on dating, man is showing how it's done
Appreciate u bro 😎
are you normal?
one the reasons you should follow this channel , is Benjamin's honesty. Few would actually show their unsuccessful attempts. Bro isn't selling you some magic trick, he's just helping you to better yourself and stop being afraid of failures
Thx man 🙏
Well, I would say that's not enough. I would like to see these big youtube pick-up artists having more struggle with their daily pick-up routines rather than being successful all the time. I know that ommiting that is done for marketing purposes but it just doesn't show the entire picture of things.
@martinpiekarski1512 What if that was his reality? No one is equal in the dating world. Just gotta know your strengths and how to adapt
@@edwingata4271 Bruh, you gotta seriously learn how things work. Not even the best of the pick-up artists get 100% effectiveness. Not even 90%. If they get around 25-30% it's considered a very strong game. Same thing with sales, there is no salesman that can sell to everyone. It's literally impossible. These guys get tons of failed results, just show these that are successful to make their audiences think they are some gods of pick-up and hence, buy their programs.
This is really rare and good to see you showing this part of pick up.... the rejection, as a lot of guys think you have to be attractive af and girls will come running to you, its not entirely true, many women will reject good looking guys (looks are subjective) for a number of reasons i.e. have a bf/too busy/ just not interested etc... Guys you simply have to embrace rejection move on and be strong. Peace out
Yes ❤❤❤
It's not really a rejection if they don't know you at all.
Yeah, exactly, it doesnt affect me at all if a girl rejects me when I cold-approach, even if she's rude, but if she rejects/pulls away after having some dates and so on, yeah, that's much worse, since that implies that she saw sth wrong with you even though you were trying your best.
I watched most of your regarding this challenge and this gave me the courage necessary to approach a girl at the gym today. It wasn't successful but weirdly enough, I wasn't phased by it and it gave me more determination to approach more girls in different social settings. Videos like this show me that rejection is totally normal and expecting everything to go well the first time is a delusional thought. I encourage you guys to approach whichever girl you may find cute, worst case she says no and you can move to the next one.
Glad to hear brother 🫡💪
What was yo approach strategy? I wanna hear it from one of us that's really out here..
THANK YOU for this. It shows rejection is normal cause you’re a good looking guy
Whether he was good looking or not rejection is still normal anyway.
If a supermodel randomly stopped me on the street if i was rushing or i wasnt in the mood to talk i wouldn't engage with her either
@@WoockerSocket2 I'd be wondering if she's trying to rob/scam me or something!
@@WoockerSocket2 I mean uglier people get rejected way more often than male models but this video shows even if you are good looking a woman could still not be interested
I prefer these girls being honest at least. I’ll take brutal rejection like this over being ghosted
This takes balls man, to show the world your rejections, if you can do that, then we can definitely talk to a girl lol
It's not really anything special. As a matter of fact, you are more likely to get these kind of responses from large majority of girls, regardless on how confident or talkative you are. It's rather wrong of pick-up artists to show how they are successful all the time.
Statistics show 2/3rds of women under 30 are in a relationship. If you’re not rejected by 2/3rds then that’s great but it does mean some of them have boyfriends & swapped details anyway 😂
And please!!! Make more videos like this from the first part of rejection to last part of successful approaching!!!❤
I like this kind of teaching, So we will follow and what we want to do, just encase we encounter rejection like this🤗
This type of video is good to watch. Because men face such type of situation when they approach women in person.
I feel like women never bad an eyelash if they reject a man in an extreme disrespectful manner. When the situation is turned, they are all bent out of shape. If they only knew what my life was like. They would never last. They would need therapy for "being invisible."
Did you not watch the video ? Who hurt you?
This video literally PROVES YOU WRONG.
None of those women rejected him in a disrespectful way what?
News flash some women are assholes.
In addition some women have been graped od physically assaulted by men they rejected so men also can get bent outta shape.
The ONLY reasom you feel invisible is because you never really approached anyone or you never put yourself in a position to be seen.
You cant spend your weekends at home and complain about being invisiable. You cant stand in the corner and complain about being invisible.
@@xMckingwill How would you know my whereabouts? I go out MORE THAN YOU THINK.
Some women would probably commit suicide if they were in my shoes😡
Bruh.. STop man, imagine if you was getting cold approached daily by 3-10 random woman urrrrday, all your life.. eventually you would become jaded, or at least very guarded, letting only the top of the TOP ones in.. ya smell me??
@@phabeondominguez5971 they cant "smell" ya cuz they are lost in their own self pity, they lost their ability to empathize
@@xMckingwill you talkin the females or the sorry Richards in here?
rejection , failure is part of the process. bounce higher
These are not really brutal rejections. I once approached a group of girls and the one I was talking to said I'm short.
Could have been worst....how tall are you anyways?
this is cool to see, its obvious everyone is prone to rejection when asking people out but seeing you actually post it is an eye opener for those ppl who think you'll always have it easy if you look good, truth is the risk of being rejected will always exist but that shouldnt deter you
Do one at the gym
These are actually not bad and quite subtle. I’ve experienced far worse rejections but kept going. Great video!
These videos are great and he's right, men, WE have to go for it. Even women don't want to meet someone online. Even they don't take it seriously. They will NEVER know how much balls it takes to approach a stranger that you're attracted to. Not sure that it ever gets easy - practice, practice, practice. Benjamin is right. Today, it is a super power. I would add, go after women you're interested, which seems obvious, versus the "She's attractive I should approach." That's my two cents. Stay strong men.
I think most of the dating coaches fail to show this - how even the best fail and this is a numbers game. If you see even the best fails time to time, you don't fear the rejection as the same level as before. Everyone talks about the success, but if you can be immune to failure, you will become reach success at some point. Thanks for the video.
The challenges are getting interesting now.
I appreciated seeing the rejection videos since it also helps me learn from maybe what to do differently if I was in your shoes that might have worked.
These girls are actually still pretty nice in their rejections
This actually gives me power , rejections are the key to success ❤
This is why after i found a good girl that was interested in me..i just married her. its depressing yoyoing around trying to pick up girls. its a numbers game and extremely time consuming.
I always get rejected, even on a basketball court.
Its like they say its a numbers game. Look at rejection as redirection. For all you know all those women that reject you, could have lead to a toxic relationship, so look at those women as doing you a favor.
Please make more videos like this the parts of rejecting you, I'll make it my motivation to have a balls of rejection. So instead of approaching women, I will focus on more rejection means success!!!😗
the part where he's holding the whole store is so funny. you should do a video seeing how much you can mess up and still get away with it
Man i'd love you doing a review of what do you think that happened wrong in this situations. Anyways, you're doin excellent bro, keep your head up.
Anything went wrong, when you cold-approach, especially without waiting for choosing signals, is a total gamble. You don't know if the girl is mean, if she has a bf, if she in a hurry, you're not her type...
Success in cold-approach is being in the right place in the right moment, running into a girl who finds you attractive , she's available, in a good mood... that's why its success rate is so low, since it's very difficult to meet all those requirements.
Dudee hugh respect💯🎊
you just read my mind, I was waiting for a video like this.
Hey 👋 Benjamin Same thing happened with me when I approached a girl on the railway station But at that time I felt very bad but now after seeing you I feel it is normal. 😊 Love from India
Most of them seem quite polite at least. Here in Australia a lot of the women would not be afraid to just tell you to "Get lost" in front of your face :'(
I love your chanel
Thx 😎
This couldn't come at a better time. I got rejected today 😂
Some of these chicks are cold for no reason. Respect to the ones that know how to reject you smoothly. Im my eyes if she has a bf, it doesnt bother me all and most likly true
I hate that this series comes to an end😢
This video reminds everyone that you are human and like all of us
Benjamin is Dominican Puerto Rican? I thought he was Indian.
Our trust on Benji increased so much after this video. He made himself so much relatable to us 😁
You get a round of applause from me good sir
edit: no cringe at all
Honestly, when i see a cute girl, ill approach knowing full well im about to eat 💩 but know ill hate the feeling of regret if i don't
Getting rejected would just increase my powers for the next one
Kudos for Zeus for actually showing what real approaches look like.
Bro i have so many women following me with their eyes but they don’t come up to me. and im too shy to go up to them too. Really used to the online dating ecosystem
Women are NEVER gonna approach you bro this is just the way it is you have to go up to them or approach them if one turns you down you simply move on to the next one play the number’s game bro you might get lucky or you might not don’t let rejection discourage you from trying if you see a cute girl that you like or you’re attracted to simply walk up to her
Those are called choosing signals. It happens to me too, I am also shy but I notice many girls looking at me, but women don't approach, unless they're a bit too loose or your looksmatch is too different (you can be approached by a below-average girl if you're a 7/10).
So, you as a man have the duty to approach, but during the interaction you must also expect her to put some effort, otherwise walk away.
Legend! just be thick skin.
Benjamin VS Armin for the final day!!!!
One hour! Most instagrams buys the other dinner
This shows that every man gets rejected (from low value to high value man). It's just a part time of the game.
he isnt high value
@@MikeJensen-w2v yeah fr, he is totally beta. His physique isn't even good. All he does is to chase and make thirst trap posts.
Great effort man, but you got to take your hands out of your pockets!
Legendary ☝️🔥
I admire the courage you have but I feel there are things you can do that you could definitely improve on. I mean rejection is inevitable. Not all women are single! You're not going to be every woman's type, and many just can't stop because they are genuinely in a rush.
But the way you were approaching in some of these was a bit weak. You need to be stopping girls with more conviction and a lot stronger too. I'm not a follower of the running front stop which many guys do which was created in London but atleast girls will stop when its done well.
You could have thrown in a false time constraint after your opener "I was just on my way to meet a friend and you distracted me" or "I was on my way to meet clients" or whatever! Like many guys who opened Direct, you seem to think that giving the compliment is enough and that the women will be attracted! There has to be some flirting and teasing. Attraction comes well before comfort!
I think if you had a few challenges or teases, and you stopped some of these girls stronger you could have got longer interactions.
I have a boyfriend: „Wow, that’s cool. I have guyfriends too. Maybe we can set them up“. 😅
girl : " i have a boyfriend" guy: " it's ok .everybody has problems "
This video SHATTERS the RP and BP marrative and SHOWS every one will get rejected.
And its not the end of the world. 😂😂
How? It only reinforces in my mind. I'm sure some of the women who turned him down it was due to being in a relationship but of course some just single and weren't interested. That being said considering his looks are better than the average joe I can only imagine how much more frequently and harshly an average or below guy would be treated.
Bro I'm so glad I found this video, I lost a bet and had to try and get a girl's number yesterday, so I went up to her and introduced myself and said I thought she was cute. She looked me dead in the eyes, then turned around and left the bar without saying a word.
BRUTAL,.. But after 2-3 of those, after that no rejection will phase you.. so keep at it
Never tell her she is cute....engage her in conversation, but don't let her know you like her more than she likes you.
If you didn't have the advantages of height, looks, athleticism, health, personality, social skills etc., the rejections would've been far more frequent & far more severe.
Makes me more confident seeing that even gods from mount Olympus can “fail” sometimes
Observations:
Most of the rejections were in the context women were up to something, they are in hurry and you blocked them like a weirdo.
2. Your hair was a mess.
3. You looked tired and your sentences came out like a script.
Conclusion: Great lesson.
No 2 is the best (or rather the worst!) rejection.
The 'just ignore and pretend the guy doesn't exist' rejection. 😄
Thanks for reminding me why not to approach get rejected and embarrass myself
loser's mentality
dude, i like your shorts
Brother I am from India.how to overcome fear when we go to talk with girls please reply and love you from India ❤
“Hi I saw you I thought you were cute” maybe turn the record over
So most guys aren't scared of approaching women ,its the rejection guys are scared of lol cringey stuff especially when you live closer or you see them every day
Just be a chad bro
its Hard to approach if the Girl had a Boy Friend
Interesting video....I wonder what his success rate is though. We only watched the rejections in this video. Environment is also important for example, but in University, I was approaching girls with a 75% success rate but that demographic favors guys. Out in the city, or mall, it is BRUTAL. haha Similarly, cold approach would be far more successful in other countries than in the USA, for an American.
It happens to everybody. I am from Spain and I had a lot of success when I was in Central-Northern Europe, also with girls from those countries when they come to Spain, whereas I don't have much success with Spanish girls.
this is really a master class in what to say after hearing no. There's 150m woman in the usa, don't sweat it, ask the next one. Best dating advice in life can be found in King the Hill, Boomhauer knows what's up.
Asking girl for her name in first seconds, showing too much interest, asking too much in the beginning, talking quickly, saying that a girl looks stressed... are those all examples of what you shouldn't do? :D
I can understand the anxiety of being filmed and being afraid that someone notices it, but you have to manage the anxiety, if you are showing others how to do it, then show correctly.
Bro, I’m shy.
Man, that last one was a success, not rejection. Thar's called cheating, bruh.
how many of the 27 girls did you meet up with though
I feel like you forced yourself to be akward for this video idk I hope im wrong. Like ive definitely seen you much better with your intonation and what not. Not to take away from the video, obviously.
Always the same: "I'm in a rush, can I have your Insta?"
No you're not in a rush, so stop lying
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I thought That zeus will never get rejected 😢😊
But now I am confident that I am going to be a Playboy sooner and destroy my past regrets.
@ 26 May 2024
the 5:48 girl seems like venezuela, as the way she speaks
Bro bring back the Cartoon Zeus
It happens. I did this same thing in NYC. I went 0 for 4. But overall it was just fun and I look at it as a W because it helps get me out of my comfort zone.
What about past age 25?? I’m 29. Any studies on those statistics?? I’ve actually been approaching women the best I can but I’ll admit I haven’t been goin as far as I want.
Nah bro, you just kept at it, a didn't take it personally.
Omfg that was soooo cringe 😬😬😬
This is brutal....😬
Nah, it's jus reality, and after you do it a few times, it doesn't even phase you or register on you anymore, you jus keep going!!
You call THIS brutal??? THIS is brutal for you? Sheesh 😬 get rejected more dude
most of them weren't brutal
These rejections were not really that brutal at all
But Zeus How can you say " Hi you are cute" to a stranger 😂
I think in American culture it is Ok.
But we cannot say this directly in India. What we have to do ?
For an average-looking guy, how many approaches to get one number?
the pareto principle says that 80 % of your attempts to get something will fail . so you will succeed 1 time out of 5. whether it be getting a number or whatever
@@gmsi7d371 Thanks!
where's the new vid ?
I think in some way you were trying to get rejected on purpose, since you were not as smooth as usual. Besides, I'd say your open lines and attitude was quite lame compared what we have seen you are capable of.
I'd like to see a rejection compilation of yours really trying your best.
You showed your rejection that is really good,But i rhink u didn’t give full try… but u have to show the rejection…good
We want Zeus
Doesn't this end the streak and you have to give $10,000?
bro, start begging for some dollar, at least u will make some money to run the house
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