I like and support this message. A random man asked for my number the other day at a pool and it was the hottest thing. He approached very patiently over many sequences which made me feel safe. He positioned himself to get noticed. Looked to make eye contact. Moved to get closer but not too close. Made eye contact again. After that subtle success (he made me smile), he re-positioned himself again so I’d have to walk past him as I left. That’s when we started talking and he asked for my number. Very well played. 🏆 Best of luck out there gentlemen.
@@MP-ut6eb I think red pill is a result of unhealthy people choosing unhealthy people, then assuming and stating all people/relationships are like that. Happy healthy mentally stable married people are usually not personalities on UA-cam. In my case, he was attractive. He wasn’t unattractive. The slow patient pursuit made him appear more attractive or at least didn’t make him cringe. The man on this channel has success with his cold approach on the street because he’s kinda cute with a non-threatening look. I think cold approach on the street is best avoided for most men. Unless you’re cute, attractive, got major swagger with fashion to match and/or non-threatening looking it’s probably not going to go well. Better to go to events as being at a shared event is less threatening. Patience is key. It’s important to remember you only need one decent woman to make a happy life.
In-Person Approaching is literally a foreign concept these days. I don't like dating apps and last year, I could count on my fingers the number of times that men would look at me and never approach. I did most of them and it turned out a lot were not confident to engage in any real conversations even after we exchanged numbers it's as if too many men these days are either afraid of rejections more or constantly contemplating who else they could match with online and increase their chances. Anyways, it looks like I'm the only woman who commented on this. Best wishes for this new year!
The reason most "average" guys have a poor dating life is because they are not meeting enough women face to face AND they are not willing to accept they have to put work in to improve as a person to get women. Not just getting a better paying job and going to the gym. But studying the stuff that sub communicates value and comfort to women and working specifically on that. *If you ask men to choose singularly between approaching 5 girls a day and reviewing their approaches OR going to the gym every 2 days: most "average" guys would simply go to the gym and then spend time swiping on Tinder, then go online or in a nightclub and complain to not find decent women.* Why? Because it's scary to talk to a random woman and maybe get rejected. Nobody likes getting rejected. Getting rejected on Tinder you can always rationalise it away as maybe my photos weren't good. But getting rejected in person! Now that's a hard blow to one's ego. As a guy who's trying to improve with women I realized I have to go out and approach. NOT JUST APPROACH but review my approaches against the pertinent dating advises I see rejection as the price to pay for getting better. Men must train themselves to be indifferent to rejection and continue to be positive. Knowing that it's only a matter of time, till they start dating. Then they'll start growing and seeing results.
Thank you for your response but that's what I find sad, men/women many times overthink too much how to approach/talk/engage with the other gender. I wish that we didn't put too much emphasis about looking perfect and just go with the flow.@@mickaellandry9726 I hope that 2024 will be a good year for your Sir and best of chances with dating:)
I dated close to 60 ladies in 2023 and no gf. But that's because I somehow screw up saying the wrong thing and "being myself" - I need to somehow work on improving in 2024.
Idk you, bro, but I used to have the same problem. I could PULL them EASILY. Just couldn't keep em. Once you get them, you gotta try to fight all of the things we naturally think are the right things to do. You gotta put on the brakes. Being a respectful, nice guy is what pushes them away. You gotta not always be the first one to text her. Wait for a longer time to text her back. Don't be so available. Always "be busy", even if you're not. It's a whole attitude of scarcity. You have to project a sense of ambivalence. That you'll be fine with or without her. Never open your heart and TELL her how you feel about her. I bet everything you you're doing that you think is normal, in her mind it's too needy, too clingy. It's all a game of reverse psychology. Fighting against what feels right to us, and basically being a dick. TRUST ME on this. The one who cares the most loses. Good luck, man. You got this!
@@TreAloisio not always bro. Those are games and with this mindset you are only going to meet girls who play games. Don't get me wrong alot of what you are saying is true but for the wrong reasons. Naturally someone who has big social life and career won't be able to date alot so they will Naturally say no to the women. However, you have to balance this stuff. I'm the exact opposite of you. I have no problem being emotionally unavailable and I ended up pushing the women away. Even when we broke up, I told that I'm going to talk to other women. All I did was break her heart and she legit block me and I never heard from her again. It's ok to open up but you have to pace on how the women treats you not based on what you want
@@TreAloisio I learned my lesson years ago about being too available. The issue I found out recently is that I was sharing information with women that is unattractive. Such as having a pet fancy pigeon (vs a pet dog), knowledgeable about anime and video games, hobbies that women consider "manchildish." I've been avoiding those topics lately, which seems to get me a bit further for more than 1 date. Unfortunately, however, I get the feedback that "they don't find a romantic connection" with me, even though I find that our conversations seem deep and meaningful and I let her do 75% of the talking. I'm missing something.
@@mario125ww The only thing I stand by is that you HAVE to "play games" just in order to survive. As a defense or protective mechanism. And I HATE that fact. I really do. But know that I didn't make that rule. It's just society and I have to play within the bounds of life as it exists. But I can relate to your situation. Because sometimes it COULD be taken too far. You can only ghost her and play hard-to-get until ONE DAY, she's gonna, as one of my ex's Saif, "Get the hint" and not "Continue beating my head against the wall when clearly you're not wanting the same thing as I did." I lost a good one that way. And bro! She never looked back either! Came by one time after that, and we smashed. And I regret it! Because it just set me back further in my trying to get over "the one that got away" because I PUSHED her away. Sleeping with her "one last time" was like an addict who was getting clean, then relapsed. So, you gotta take each situation individually and tread lightly with the stoicism. It's like walking a tightrope.
*Seduction is about emotional contagion, the spreading of un-inhibition from one person to another.* You cannot get through inhibitions with facts or platonic conversations, you have to get through them with emotions - the desire to feel, to be intimate with someone, to hear the music of another person's adventurous spirit. You have to understand, for a woman a sexual experience is an experience of being overwhelmed by the presence of another person, emotionally and physically. If that person is bitter, angry, inhibited, or just plain boring, the prospect of that becomes very very unpleasant. The key is to make her enjoy your presence so much that she wants to lose herself in it, to completely open and let it inside to replace all her worries and anxieties with intimacy, pleasure, and 'joie de vivre'. You are thinking about the subject of your conversations, your appearance, your money. How will any of these satisfy her when her eyes are squeezed shut and she's getting slammed? The only thing that is going to satisfy her, which she knows, is how you make her feel all the time she's around you. This is what gets amplified 100x during sex. If you cannot make her feel things during the approach, on dates, etc, she cannot submit to sex because that sex does not have anything to amplify. So I would like to ask you - what is your process of sexual escalation, from the time of the approach, all the way through the date, and back home?
Fitness centers are the best places to meet women out, because they give guys tons of green-lights to make the first move. I have experienced it at my local fitness center.
While I do agree, how the fuck are you gonna know wether you are capable of living with someone for a lot of years it you haven't dated any? Go out there and have some fun. I'm not telling you to go man-whore, I'm saying get to know what typpa girl suits you best, or if a relationship is what you are looking for in the current stage of your life.
im the only unlucky person here. i have ptsd disability and am not able to step outside of my house for life, and have wiring issues in my brain. and i just realized after watching third minute of your video "approaching women" is that all guys take it the wrong way and think it as trying to ask them out is the only reason to do that, but it is not. just find any random, or stupid, any particular reason to do it. you need to be better than what your mind is, because you are more than just the brain itself
I had a milder ptsd, under 5 seconds (not defined as severe) but with MDMA and one of the therapy techniques they do for psychedelic assisted therapy, I was able to slowly remove 90% of the adrenaline and heart beating and freezing from the trigger sound
We need to ban smartphones and all dating apps and we need to go back like it was 15 years ago. 15 years ago women were approaching. With an Italian background from Canada. I'm 55 years old, 5.10 average, never married and have no kids. I've given up on women. Today women are on their cell phones 24/7. No one talks face to face anymore. I can't wait till AI will be destroying women and only then will women be begging for men. I have my condo and money so I'll die with my money in peace with no drama. Today 80% of the women are insecure and toxic. Relationships are dead, it's all hookups now with high body counts. Women marry to control the marriage so married men end up cheating or being stuck in sexless marriage. Marriage brings nothing for the men. I guess I'm off the market anyway for being average.
I definitely have a leads problem. I don't use dating apps and live in a small city. There's just not many women in my dating age out in public places and just not that many places to go in the first place. As much as I'd hoped to avoid dating apps I'm starting to think I might have to try a few eventually. Or find more places to potentially meet them.
That's the issue for me is I don't have any girls that I see on my day-to-day routine. I play soccer, I play in a band, and I have none at work. Guess the mall or other public places will have to be my go-to destination to accomplish.
I remember i cold approached once last year. I was so attracted to the girl i couldn't let it go so i did. I ran up to her and i said hey i find you cute, i want to get your phone number. She smiled very hard and said i have a boyfriend. I couldnt really do a conversation because we were going to different bus stop in the station. But i was very happy after.
Me too don't use tinder if you care for yourself esteem and don't use social media for dating at all. Just go for the girl who attracts you the most in person.
Thank you so much for free texting course, but there is a question: is it the same with when you get the IG inperson in texting? (I mean after getting ID we shoud text for dating in our first 3 message?)
I dated a good woman once then she moved away to further south to be with her parents tried the long distance but it fell apart after a while. So now I'm single in relatively good shape and tall should be easy right? Nah no one talks to me and any daily women are not attractive enough to be with.
Got the exact same problem my dude. It’s crazy out here nowadays but this is not talked about as there is not too many people like us unless they’re celebrities/famous athletes, who get it way easier.
Because “being tall and in good shape” aren’t personality traits. You can’t rely on that by itself. If you have a victim mentality, weak frame and low self esteem, she will treat you like you’re ugly and fat. There’s not much difference. I know plenty of tall, fit dudes who suck with women. Height is a cope. I’m 5’7” and I don’t get rejected for my height. That’s because it’s not about height, it’s about being confident. There’s a lot of short guys who are insecure about it, that will naturally turn women off. Just like if you’re tall and insecure. Confidence is key. Pick interesting hobbies, do those things over and over until you’re good at them. Keep doing them until you’re a master at them. This is how confidence works. It’s not magic or a fake it til you make it thing. It’s a formula. Truly confident people are confident because they’re good or masters at something they’re passionate about. What is something you’re extremely good at? That’s not a video game or something with no application outside of itself?
Where did you get the statistics that 55% of men have not approached a girl in the last year? And where did you get the statistics that 1/3 of men did not have sex within the last year?
We need to ban smartphones and all dating apps and we need to go back like it was 15 years ago. 15 years ago women were approaching. With an Italian background from Canada. I'm 55 years old, 5.10 average, never married and have no kids. I've given up on women. Today women are on their cell phones 24/7. No one talks face to face anymore. I can't wait till AI will be destroying women and only then will women be begging for men. I have my condo and money so I'll die with my money in peace with no drama. Today 80% of the women are insecure and toxic. Relationships are dead, it's all hookups now with high body counts. Women marry to control the marriage so married men end up cheating or being stuck in sexless marriage. Marriage brings nothing for the men. I guess I'm off the market anyway for being average.
@@realbenjaminseda We need to ban smartphones and all dating apps and we need to go back like it was 15 years ago. 15 years ago women were approaching. With an Italian background from Canada. I'm 55 years old, 5.10 average, never married and have no kids. I've given up on women. Today women are on their cell phones 24/7. No one talks face to face anymore. I can't wait till AI will be destroying women and only then will women be begging for men. I have my condo and money so I'll die with my money in peace with no drama. Today 80% of the women are insecure and toxic. Relationships are dead, it's all hookups now with high body counts. Women marry to control the marriage so married men end up cheating or being stuck in sexless marriage. Marriage brings nothing for the men. I guess I'm off the market anyway for being average.
Mate, life isnt only about dating girls, how you can setup dating as priority? its good for some narcissist, people have things going on, and dating can be boring as fuck especially when you try too hard and chase. Do your stuff and take it EZ
Nonsense. Why? Because in our modern world there are no attractive single women out there. It's impossible to generate any volume. In my daily life I do NOT run into attractive women. Rarely I find good women, and not once one of these women was available.
@@ProfWho-ut5heIt’s definitely tough out here. The rare time you do find a girl in good shape, she either has a stuck up attitude or she’s both pretty and kind but she’s already taken.
I haven’t had a girlfriend in over 3 years and it’s because the Wahmen progressively got more needy, toxic, and dumb and I’m over here just focusing on myself I guess
Welp,call me one of the boys cause we all single out here, mate 😂 I personally couldn't care less what your profile says. Im trying to figure out what type of fish you would be if you had a choice 😅
Listened to you and ignore her for more that one and half month now she is gone totally, either give proper advise with what to do how to do and how time we have to do, 😢
It's all about what we men need to do what about the woman I seen it and I know when a women like a men she she do whatever to get him but your video is all about simping
Go to the gym, yes. That’s the answer for most people. But if that’s just not you or your style, that’s cool. Find a way to get fit in a more interesting and engaging fashion. Pick up martial arts, like kickboxing or Muay Thai, then couple that with calisthenics or Vinyasa/Power yoga. If you stick with it, you’ll be shredded in no time at all. Plus, those things are applicable in the real world. Lifting weights is cool and showy, and can have some benefits in real life, but mostly not. A lot of gym rats can’t even hold lift their own body weight, so how applicable is that really? Plus, you’re prone to injury. With the things I mentioned, you will be able to defend yourself adequately, granting you the potential to destroy most of those gymrats in a fight. If you learn to fight properly, most men in general, wouldn’t stand a chance. People think they can fight, but they really can’t. This will make you ooze with confidence. And of course, calisthenics and yoga have their own unique benefits as well. More mindfulness/awareness, calmness, learning to control your breathing, building real physical strength.
I like and support this message.
A random man asked for my number the other day at a pool and it was the hottest thing.
He approached very patiently over many sequences which made me feel safe.
He positioned himself to get noticed. Looked to make eye contact. Moved to get closer but not too close. Made eye contact again.
After that subtle success (he made me smile), he re-positioned himself again so I’d have to walk past him as I left. That’s when we started talking and he asked for my number.
Very well played. 🏆
Best of luck out there gentlemen.
Is true the redpill shit tho?
Like it's confusing af..
Like was he hot or you find him hot just because of the game?
@@MP-ut6eb I think red pill is a result of unhealthy people choosing unhealthy people, then assuming and stating all people/relationships are like that. Happy healthy mentally stable married people are usually not personalities on UA-cam.
In my case, he was attractive. He wasn’t unattractive. The slow patient pursuit made him appear more attractive or at least didn’t make him cringe.
The man on this channel has success with his cold approach on the street because he’s kinda cute with a non-threatening look.
I think cold approach on the street is best avoided for most men. Unless you’re cute, attractive, got major swagger with fashion to match and/or non-threatening looking it’s probably not going to go well.
Better to go to events as being at a shared event is less threatening. Patience is key. It’s important to remember you only need one decent woman to make a happy life.
Hello Talia lol
Guy was good looking, if it was an ugly broke MTF she would be posting about being harassed.
When you realize, you were there 4 years before, doing all this intuitional and now have a wife and a 3 years old son !
I swear my intuition when I was young was on point in a variety of ways when I met my ex wife. Need to trust it more again.
Let’s keep putting our family on game! Preach it. Cheers to 2024!🥂
In-Person Approaching is literally a foreign concept these days. I don't like dating apps and last year, I could count on my fingers the number of times that men would look at me and never approach. I did most of them and it turned out a lot were not confident to engage in any real conversations even after we exchanged numbers it's as if too many men these days are either afraid of rejections more or constantly contemplating who else they could match with online and increase their chances. Anyways, it looks like I'm the only woman who commented on this. Best wishes for this new year!
Happy new year! Thx for sharing your perspective
@@realbenjaminseda thank you so much😊
@@belle4978how to make girlfriend
The reason most "average" guys have a poor dating life is because they are not meeting enough women face to face AND they are not willing to accept they have to put work in to improve as a person to get women. Not just getting a better paying job and going to the gym. But studying the stuff that sub communicates value and comfort to women and working specifically on that.
*If you ask men to choose singularly between approaching 5 girls a day and reviewing their approaches OR going to the gym every 2 days: most "average" guys would simply go to the gym and then spend time swiping on Tinder, then go online or in a nightclub and complain to not find decent women.*
Why?
Because it's scary to talk to a random woman and maybe get rejected. Nobody likes getting rejected. Getting rejected on Tinder you can always rationalise it away as maybe my photos weren't good.
But getting rejected in person! Now that's a hard blow to one's ego.
As a guy who's trying to improve with women I realized I have to go out and approach. NOT JUST APPROACH but review my approaches against the pertinent dating advises
I see rejection as the price to pay for getting better. Men must train themselves to be indifferent to rejection and continue to be positive. Knowing that it's only a matter of time, till they start dating. Then they'll start growing and seeing results.
Thank you for your response but that's what I find sad, men/women many times overthink too much how to approach/talk/engage with the other gender. I wish that we didn't put too much emphasis about looking perfect and just go with the flow.@@mickaellandry9726 I hope that 2024 will be a good year for your Sir and best of chances with dating:)
Just be you, men. Educate yourself and have something to offer to a relationship.
I dated close to 60 ladies in 2023 and no gf. But that's because I somehow screw up saying the wrong thing and "being myself" - I need to somehow work on improving in 2024.
Idk you, bro, but I used to have the same problem. I could PULL them EASILY. Just couldn't keep em. Once you get them, you gotta try to fight all of the things we naturally think are the right things to do. You gotta put on the brakes. Being a respectful, nice guy is what pushes them away. You gotta not always be the first one to text her. Wait for a longer time to text her back. Don't be so available. Always "be busy", even if you're not. It's a whole attitude of scarcity. You have to project a sense of ambivalence. That you'll be fine with or without her. Never open your heart and TELL her how you feel about her. I bet everything you you're doing that you think is normal, in her mind it's too needy, too clingy. It's all a game of reverse psychology. Fighting against what feels right to us, and basically being a dick. TRUST ME on this. The one who cares the most loses. Good luck, man. You got this!
@@TreAloisio not always bro. Those are games and with this mindset you are only going to meet girls who play games. Don't get me wrong alot of what you are saying is true but for the wrong reasons. Naturally someone who has big social life and career won't be able to date alot so they will Naturally say no to the women.
However, you have to balance this stuff. I'm the exact opposite of you. I have no problem being emotionally unavailable and I ended up pushing the women away. Even when we broke up, I told that I'm going to talk to other women. All I did was break her heart and she legit block me and I never heard from her again. It's ok to open up but you have to pace on how the women treats you not based on what you want
@@TreAloisio I learned my lesson years ago about being too available.
The issue I found out recently is that I was sharing information with women that is unattractive. Such as having a pet fancy pigeon (vs a pet dog), knowledgeable about anime and video games, hobbies that women consider "manchildish." I've been avoiding those topics lately, which seems to get me a bit further for more than 1 date.
Unfortunately, however, I get the feedback that "they don't find a romantic connection" with me, even though I find that our conversations seem deep and meaningful and I let her do 75% of the talking. I'm missing something.
@@mario125ww The only thing I stand by is that you HAVE to "play games" just in order to survive. As a defense or protective mechanism. And I HATE that fact. I really do. But know that I didn't make that rule. It's just society and I have to play within the bounds of life as it exists. But I can relate to your situation. Because sometimes it COULD be taken too far. You can only ghost her and play hard-to-get until ONE DAY, she's gonna, as one of my ex's Saif, "Get the hint" and not "Continue beating my head against the wall when clearly you're not wanting the same thing as I did." I lost a good one that way. And bro! She never looked back either! Came by one time after that, and we smashed. And I regret it! Because it just set me back further in my trying to get over "the one that got away" because I PUSHED her away. Sleeping with her "one last time" was like an addict who was getting clean, then relapsed. So, you gotta take each situation individually and tread lightly with the stoicism. It's like walking a tightrope.
*Seduction is about emotional contagion, the spreading of un-inhibition from one person to another.*
You cannot get through inhibitions with facts or platonic conversations, you have to get through them with emotions - the desire to feel, to be intimate with someone, to hear the music of another person's adventurous spirit.
You have to understand, for a woman a sexual experience is an experience of being overwhelmed by the presence of another person, emotionally and physically. If that person is bitter, angry, inhibited, or just plain boring, the prospect of that becomes very very unpleasant. The key is to make her enjoy your presence so much that she wants to lose herself in it, to completely open and let it inside to replace all her worries and anxieties with intimacy, pleasure, and 'joie de vivre'.
You are thinking about the subject of your conversations, your appearance, your money. How will any of these satisfy her when her eyes are squeezed shut and she's getting slammed? The only thing that is going to satisfy her, which she knows, is how you make her feel all the time she's around you. This is what gets amplified 100x during sex. If you cannot make her feel things during the approach, on dates, etc, she cannot submit to sex because that sex does not have anything to amplify.
So I would like to ask you - what is your process of sexual escalation, from the time of the approach, all the way through the date, and back home?
Fitness centers are the best places to meet women out, because they give guys tons of green-lights to make the first move. I have experienced it at my local fitness center.
Lot of reasons why men stop approching women is because we ARE DONE playing games.
Maturing is realizing you don’t need a girlfriend unless you’re ready and CAPABLE OF MARRIAGE
Cope
While I do agree, how the fuck are you gonna know wether you are capable of living with someone for a lot of years it you haven't dated any?
Go out there and have some fun. I'm not telling you to go man-whore, I'm saying get to know what typpa girl suits you best,
or if a relationship is what you are looking for in the current stage of your life.
@@mrsimpleslowmo how is that cope
You don't belong here bro
How tf would you know if you are ready and capable without having some experience first?
Eyes on the road brother, like ur vids btw
im the only unlucky person here. i have ptsd disability and am not able to step outside of my house for life, and have wiring issues in my brain. and i just realized after watching third minute of your video "approaching women" is that all guys take it the wrong way and think it as trying to ask them out is the only reason to do that, but it is not. just find any random, or stupid, any particular reason to do it. you need to be better than what your mind is, because you are more than just the brain itself
It’s possible to rewire your brain
I had a milder ptsd, under 5 seconds (not defined as severe) but with MDMA and one of the therapy techniques they do for psychedelic assisted therapy, I was able to slowly remove 90% of the adrenaline and heart beating and freezing from the trigger sound
Haven't even finished the video but I know that this video is going to be a banger vid filled with practical advice.
We need to ban smartphones and all dating apps and we need to go back like it was 15 years ago. 15 years ago women were approaching. With an Italian background from Canada. I'm 55 years old, 5.10 average, never married and have no kids. I've given up on women. Today women are on their cell phones 24/7. No one talks face to face anymore. I can't wait till AI will be destroying women and only then will women be begging for men. I have my condo and money so I'll die with my money in peace with no drama. Today 80% of the women are insecure and toxic. Relationships are dead, it's all hookups now with high body counts. Women marry to control the marriage so married men end up cheating or being stuck in sexless marriage. Marriage brings nothing for the men. I guess I'm off the market anyway for being average.
I like this “entrepreneurs and cars” style of content.
I definitely have a leads problem. I don't use dating apps and live in a small city. There's just not many women in my dating age out in public places and just not that many places to go in the first place. As much as I'd hoped to avoid dating apps I'm starting to think I might have to try a few eventually. Or find more places to potentially meet them.
That's the issue for me is I don't have any girls that I see on my day-to-day routine. I play soccer, I play in a band, and I have none at work. Guess the mall or other public places will have to be my go-to destination to accomplish.
Yes as a UA-camr myself I admit to searching this 😂😂
I love that you took action on this gap 🌪️
I remember i cold approached once last year. I was so attracted to the girl i couldn't let it go so i did. I ran up to her and i said hey i find you cute, i want to get your phone number. She smiled very hard and said i have a boyfriend. I couldnt really do a conversation because we were going to different bus stop in the station. But i was very happy after.
bro i hate when they say i have a boyfriend i think its because u moved too fast
@@sigmashiroo i actually ran at her because she was walking and i didnt want to lose her sight (very crowded)
@@theclimbfam469 i meant u need to get to know her
If you gotta run to a girl you already lost her.
@@B_Souza93 so how was i supposed to talk to her if she was far from the crowd and i may lose sight of her
The insta part is a wild strat
@benjaminseda bring back Based Zeus! ⚡💪
I have a Leeds problem, I enjoy staying at home too much 😂
Me too don't use tinder if you care for yourself esteem and don't use social media for dating at all. Just go for the girl who attracts you the most in person.
“2024 being the easiest year to get a girlfriend”. Me now accepting the fact that I might be incapable
Thank you for the video. I just got out of 1 year relationship and I feel like starting over again.
my g
2024 is a great year to focus on the MGTOW lifestyle
Why would you be here watching this video then?
Imagine caring what a women wants on a dating app 😂 who cares what they want
Thank you so much for free texting course, but there is a question: is it the same with when you get the IG inperson in texting?
(I mean after getting ID we shoud text for dating in our first 3 message?)
i feel like tinder has gone to shit. There are soooo many bots on there in LA its crazy. It used to be my favorite and i used to absolutely kill it.
I’d rather save myself the $ and the headache of dating in 2024
I dated a good woman once then she moved away to further south to be with her parents tried the long distance but it fell apart after a while. So now I'm single in relatively good shape and tall should be easy right? Nah no one talks to me and any daily women are not attractive enough to be with.
Got the exact same problem my dude. It’s crazy out here nowadays but this is not talked about as there is not too many people like us unless they’re celebrities/famous athletes, who get it way easier.
Because “being tall and in good shape” aren’t personality traits. You can’t rely on that by itself. If you have a victim mentality, weak frame and low self esteem, she will treat you like you’re ugly and fat. There’s not much difference. I know plenty of tall, fit dudes who suck with women.
Height is a cope. I’m 5’7” and I don’t get rejected for my height. That’s because it’s not about height, it’s about being confident. There’s a lot of short guys who are insecure about it, that will naturally turn women off. Just like if you’re tall and insecure. Confidence is key. Pick interesting hobbies, do those things over and over until you’re good at them. Keep doing them until you’re a master at them. This is how confidence works.
It’s not magic or a fake it til you make it thing. It’s a formula. Truly confident people are confident because they’re good or masters at something they’re passionate about. What is something you’re extremely good at? That’s not a video game or something with no application outside of itself?
Where did you get the statistics that 55% of men have not approached a girl in the last year? And where did you get the statistics that 1/3 of men did not have sex within the last year?
We need to ban smartphones and all dating apps and we need to go back like it was 15 years ago. 15 years ago women were approaching. With an Italian background from Canada. I'm 55 years old, 5.10 average, never married and have no kids. I've given up on women. Today women are on their cell phones 24/7. No one talks face to face anymore. I can't wait till AI will be destroying women and only then will women be begging for men. I have my condo and money so I'll die with my money in peace with no drama. Today 80% of the women are insecure and toxic. Relationships are dead, it's all hookups now with high body counts. Women marry to control the marriage so married men end up cheating or being stuck in sexless marriage. Marriage brings nothing for the men. I guess I'm off the market anyway for being average.
So much in this vid
Curious why he did not include social circle game like hosting events and stuff?
It’s hard for most guys to pull off. Viable strategy but more advanced tbh and not applicable to most
@@realbenjaminseda We need to ban smartphones and all dating apps and we need to go back like it was 15 years ago. 15 years ago women were approaching. With an Italian background from Canada. I'm 55 years old, 5.10 average, never married and have no kids. I've given up on women. Today women are on their cell phones 24/7. No one talks face to face anymore. I can't wait till AI will be destroying women and only then will women be begging for men. I have my condo and money so I'll die with my money in peace with no drama. Today 80% of the women are insecure and toxic. Relationships are dead, it's all hookups now with high body counts. Women marry to control the marriage so married men end up cheating or being stuck in sexless marriage. Marriage brings nothing for the men. I guess I'm off the market anyway for being average.
how many people can actually put that type of thing off? How's it working for you?
Dude lets be real only works for people who doesn't look ugly
0:02 I'll be the test of that
Which is the best dating app to date Asian woman?
Hinge
Dating apps won't work for guys who watch this video. Only in person
BEST VID YES
The book The Dating App Confessions by Logan Tindell is kinda funny and has good tips.
Mate, life isnt only about dating girls, how you can setup dating as priority? its good for some narcissist, people have things going on, and dating can be boring as fuck especially when you try too hard and chase. Do your stuff and take it EZ
Will we ever have Based Zeus back at least for one last time ? 👀
Why does the thumbnail say ‘ignore her’ but the content says the opposite? Genuine question, it’s confusing.
It's called clickbait 😱
Nonsense. Why? Because in our modern world there are no attractive single women out there. It's impossible to generate any volume. In my daily life I do NOT run into attractive women. Rarely I find good women, and not once one of these women was available.
How do you define good & attractive?
@@RobertTaylor-gz2fu Feminine, kind, healthy in body & mind, educated, cute, uplifting and caring character, sexual, with a sense of style.
@@ProfWho-ut5heright. These females are walking around looking like Bill Belichick. 😂
@@ProfWho-ut5heIt’s definitely tough out here. The rare time you do find a girl in good shape, she either has a stuck up attitude or she’s both pretty and kind but she’s already taken.
@@poejavelski148therefore maybe time to move to a new city 👀
I haven’t had a girlfriend in over 3 years and it’s because the Wahmen progressively got more needy, toxic, and dumb and I’m over here just focusing on myself I guess
Why is this so harddd 😭😭
Because you've been conditioned to be a pussey, break out be a man
Welp,call me one of the boys cause we all single out here, mate 😂
I personally couldn't care less what your profile says.
Im trying to figure out what type of fish you would be if you had a choice 😅
Listened to you and ignore her for more that one and half month now she is gone totally, either give proper advise with what to do how to do and how time we have to do, 😢
Do some videos about text game
What car is that
It's all about what we men need to do what about the woman I seen it and I know when a women like a men she she do whatever to get him but your video is all about simping
matches per DAY? bruh i get one per month if even
EXACTLY
Step 1: be attractive or rich
No lmfao are you saying you can’t attract women that are mid?
I already lost hope for myself, man. I feel like I'm just too ugly to get a girlfriend.
Start listening to Stavros Halkias and you’ll learn that’s not true
You'll still be a cut above the rest if you eat relatively well and exercise
im not too ugly and I still have shitty results man
go to the gym bro it’ll change your life
Go to the gym, yes. That’s the answer for most people. But if that’s just not you or your style, that’s cool. Find a way to get fit in a more interesting and engaging fashion. Pick up martial arts, like kickboxing or Muay Thai, then couple that with calisthenics or Vinyasa/Power yoga.
If you stick with it, you’ll be shredded in no time at all. Plus, those things are applicable in the real world. Lifting weights is cool and showy, and can have some benefits in real life, but mostly not. A lot of gym rats can’t even hold lift their own body weight, so how applicable is that really? Plus, you’re prone to injury.
With the things I mentioned, you will be able to defend yourself adequately, granting you the potential to destroy most of those gymrats in a fight. If you learn to fight properly, most men in general, wouldn’t stand a chance. People think they can fight, but they really can’t. This will make you ooze with confidence. And of course, calisthenics and yoga have their own unique benefits as well. More mindfulness/awareness, calmness, learning to control your breathing, building real physical strength.
Great video
Thanks for the like
You're a G!
Idk how ask her
🔥🔥
Dude is the real Zues that why he records himself while driving
Fucking gold
Where is bro driving too? 😂
To the bag
I was driving to a Xmas party but needed to film a YT video so multi tasked 🤣
Wow, never seen such low numbers on this channel
Lies lies and more lies.. these 304s are horrendous
Bros only yapping 😂
Naaaa F it it's too much
i know bro but there must be a way