Neuroscientist: THIS IS WHAT WOMEN WANT.

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    Stanford University Neuroscientist Dr Andrew D. Huberman discusses what women really find attractive in men from a neuroscience and evolutionary standpoint on Flagrant with Andrew Schulz.
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  • @iamwaveofwaves
    @iamwaveofwaves Рік тому +2897

    The maturity level of Huberman compared to the other four is profound.

    • @Abdullah-vg1uc
      @Abdullah-vg1uc Рік тому +52

      What are you doing on this channel?

    • @Sam-ni6bc
      @Sam-ni6bc Рік тому +155

      Hes a neuroscientist and 2 of them are comedians so yea

    • @dannybrasco8256
      @dannybrasco8256 Рік тому +93

      @@Sam-ni6bc plus he is 20 years old than them all

    • @Edguinard
      @Edguinard Рік тому +34

      Yeah it’s palpable. No offense, no need to defend. Unless they had a insecurities about it.

    • @hailongkhong8105
      @hailongkhong8105 Рік тому +3

      @@dannybrasco8256 older

  • @hamdytawfeek3587
    @hamdytawfeek3587 Рік тому +1306

    I love how Huberman chose to put himself in this uncomfortable podcast and talk to those idiots so he can reach out to a bigger audience of young men who need him to enhance their lives.

    • @juneelle370
      @juneelle370 Рік тому +28

      Yes maybe that’s what he’ was thinking because these guys are not near his class… they are disrespectful

    • @ThatDudeLarzFoo-ah
      @ThatDudeLarzFoo-ah Рік тому +8

      Selfless is an understatement. Lol. This was the collab we didn’t know we already knew we didn’t need. Lol loved it regardless ❤

    • @whitebroccoli694
      @whitebroccoli694 Рік тому

      Lol

    • @bigman5403
      @bigman5403 Рік тому +9

      @@juneelle370 they’re comedians

    • @jetpark3743
      @jetpark3743 Рік тому +4

      Calm down

  • @AngelicaCruz-ph4kn
    @AngelicaCruz-ph4kn Рік тому +1038

    I love how Andrew doesn’t let anyone cut him off as he’s explaining facts lol.

    • @SuperKidx10x
      @SuperKidx10x Рік тому +18

      Bro ikr i saw that he did the same with jordan peterson.

    • @bobthemadmonkey
      @bobthemadmonkey Рік тому +33

      It's more than that tho, he literally steers the conversation back to grounded knowledge. A rare trait in conversation and he does it without being rude

    • @MyWildLifeAsNia
      @MyWildLifeAsNia Рік тому +11

      He is Alpha

    • @samyg2020
      @samyg2020 Рік тому +7

      He’s also a professor so he’s had training in how to command an audience

    • @vikasbiliye5023
      @vikasbiliye5023 Рік тому +3

      Very alpha thing to do

  • @chrisramirez3058
    @chrisramirez3058 Рік тому +1637

    I follow dr huberman for years and this is by far the most uncomfortable he’s been on a pod 😂

    • @devinbradshaw9756
      @devinbradshaw9756 Рік тому +73

      He thought they were immature

    • @bebareo
      @bebareo Рік тому +34

      @@devinbradshaw9756he told you that? He obviously knew what kind of podcast he got himself into. They threat every guest the same that’s why they are so amazing podcaster’s.

    • @FartsTasteDelicious
      @FartsTasteDelicious Рік тому +66

      @@bebareoI mean this as respectfully to the hosts as possible, but I wish Andrew would run the podcast by himself or with just Akaash. The other guys constantly interject at the most frustrating times. It’s incessant and completely ruins my focus on every guest that goes on this show. I’m sure they’re a fun group outside of this but it is intolerable to watch in a podcast format.

    • @llPHAzERll1
      @llPHAzERll1 Рік тому +37

      @@devinbradshaw9756 bruh just because he’s a neuroscientist doesn’t mean he can’t relate to them. He probably enjoyed a break from all the uptight shit in academia.

    • @abhinayarora95
      @abhinayarora95 Рік тому +1

      ​@@llPHAzERll1 haha yup!

  • @eliezermontes5459
    @eliezermontes5459 Рік тому +492

    Huberman must feel like he's surrounded by 5th graders

    • @Originalchili
      @Originalchili Рік тому +17

      He can't be too smart if he goes on a comedy podcast not expecting jokes

    • @eliezermontes5459
      @eliezermontes5459 Рік тому +4

      @@Originalchili let's not talk about "too smart".

    • @christinafrantom1924
      @christinafrantom1924 Рік тому +8

      That’s insulting to 5th graders.

    • @eliezermontes5459
      @eliezermontes5459 Рік тому +1

      @@christinafrantom1924 I agree

    • @305Authority
      @305Authority Рік тому

      He was surrounded by 5th graders lol I’m sure their mental capacity isn’t far off

  • @Viralvideo_club
    @Viralvideo_club Рік тому +956

    Andrew Huberman tryna move quickly past those jokes! Never seen him look so uncomfortable

    • @whatsursource
      @whatsursource Рік тому +40

      Yeah I don't see him returning. This pod has good guests but serious topic are always a pain to watch.

    • @cristinacendejas5094
      @cristinacendejas5094 Рік тому +56

      They disrespected him so much. The sad part is what he is saying is really interesting but gets lost because of the constant interruptions with “jokes”

    • @Viralvideo_club
      @Viralvideo_club Рік тому +74

      @@cristinacendejas5094 I love Andrew Huberman but it’s a comedy podcast. It’s like going on a dance show and refusing to dance. The dude next to you starts breakdancing and you go “so anyway, the prefrontal cortex is the centre of control…”

    • @itayr15
      @itayr15 Рік тому +9

      @@cristinacendejas5094 I think it's subjective if it's disrespectful, making jokes doesn't make something less important in my opinion, I think it makes a real conversation more fun

    • @sc4rlotte456
      @sc4rlotte456 Рік тому

      yeah that was really funny to watch

  • @brendanbonus3211
    @brendanbonus3211 Рік тому +122

    They were trying to have a comedy podcast with a Neuroscientist.😭

    • @whoisarpan5685
      @whoisarpan5685 Рік тому +1

      That's not the problem but these 4 lack the intelligence and wit to host a comedy podcast with Huberman. I am sure he enjoys good jokes but they can't level up overnight. These people are conditioned to think and express like the audience that they deal with most of the time and probably they are good at it too but in order to hold a humorous conversation with Huberman they needed something more than just having a common sense and street smart wit.
      The jokes that they cracked here are really bad jokes.
      They are the kind of people who embarrasse themselves on being exposed to knowledge.

    • @cvb2733
      @cvb2733 Рік тому +4

      Ong bro 😭 this guy has an associates, a bachelors, a masters, and a PhD. what made them think he was gonna joke along with them lol

    • @imkolip0ki387
      @imkolip0ki387 Рік тому

      It IS a comedy podcast my guy

  • @ancientfuture9690
    @ancientfuture9690 Рік тому +501

    He isn't describing nice guys because kindness is different to niceness. Kindness comes from an understanding of suffering, and the man who has endured and overcome suffering in his life is usually resilient. Niceness, however is a (somewhat) socially enforced rule, which has it's necessary place in polite society in order to help social cohesion. However, it fails in intimate relationships.

    • @adlcnyc
      @adlcnyc Рік тому +12

      Well said!

    • @nickp3949
      @nickp3949 Рік тому +28

      Yeah but the problem is, people mistake kindness for people pleasing, or weakness. Especially if you don’t look big or intimidating, showing kindness doesn’t look like a strong man toning himself down, it looks like a weak man that is just trying to be liked.
      That’s why you mit excel in other areas so you can appear strong, so that when you do show kindness, people are thankful for it instead of seeing you as weak.

    • @G_Ozare
      @G_Ozare Рік тому +3

      Couldn’t have said it better myself. Nicely articulated 👌🏼

    • @nahom1318
      @nahom1318 Рік тому +12

      He also said that not necessarily kindnesses to everyone, but kindness towards her.

    • @missNCW
      @missNCW Рік тому +10

      Kindness does not find from suffering, it comes from not being an asshole. Stop trying to over complicate it. Women like to be treated well, it’s THAT simple.

  • @RC-ro4gq
    @RC-ro4gq Рік тому +118

    These guys trying so hard to interrupt the guest but he wasn't having it hahaha

    • @gregre99
      @gregre99 Рік тому +21

      It looked like a bunch of teenagers doing stupid jokes while someone is trying to explain something seriously

    • @bobthemadmonkey
      @bobthemadmonkey Рік тому +1

      @@gregre99 That is what it is

  • @veganlove53
    @veganlove53 Рік тому +98

    Unlike any other Andrew's podcasts here in this podcast he often said 'listen' to those hosts who behave like a high school kids.

  • @RainxOnxMex
    @RainxOnxMex Рік тому +168

    He’s right about kindness.

    • @mrjamesgrimes
      @mrjamesgrimes Рік тому +2

      He is right but it’s a stupid point. You’re supposed to like her

    • @SASMADBRUV7
      @SASMADBRUV7 Рік тому +5

      @@mrjamesgrimes not really. The interesting point is the idea that the guy doesn't have to be kind in general to be attractive. Which is what we would have assumed.

    • @kstich
      @kstich Рік тому +1

      @@mrjamesgrimes “Like” and “attracted to” are not the same thing, and people confuse them all the time. Lots of people think that because someone sleeps with them, that a relationship will ensue. Not always the case.

  • @AshSavageTube
    @AshSavageTube Рік тому +50

    This is like watching high-school boys talk with a real grown up

  • @msnubootysux
    @msnubootysux Рік тому +37

    I have so much respect for Andrew Huberman. I love how he stays in his square and is so solid on his point. I hope my future husband is similar to him & not those goofy balls.

  • @goat6inboots
    @goat6inboots Рік тому +34

    When they are all clowning and joking and Huberman just smiles and shuffled on his chair uncomfortably is priceless. I have followed him for years, but also find some of these guys funny. But to see them together is so odd!

  • @thepolymathuniverse9694
    @thepolymathuniverse9694 Рік тому +53

    Kindness to your fellow men is just as important. There's nothing masculine about being a dick to one another.

    • @ridhwankazi9503
      @ridhwankazi9503 Рік тому +3

      i think you gotta read the room some people are ok with it, as you see here these guys are comedians so its how they entertain each other but clearly humberman wasn't feeling it as much just gotta make sure you read the room.

  • @chronometa
    @chronometa Рік тому +155

    This guy is reaching guru status imo

  • @noahanast4576
    @noahanast4576 Рік тому +13

    Pair bonding has become rocket science

    • @grygi7087
      @grygi7087 2 місяці тому

      Curse of this times

  • @clareoclareo2626
    @clareoclareo2626 Рік тому +21

    Huberman is a proper real man.

  • @flourishomotola5306
    @flourishomotola5306 Рік тому +63

    I love this Huberman dude. Very intelligent and eloquent. I always learn a lot from him.

    • @johannesschmitz6370
      @johannesschmitz6370 Рік тому +3

      check out his podcast, huberman podcast. If you are willing to improve daily habits and need a source of info his podcast is it

    • @flourishomotola5306
      @flourishomotola5306 Рік тому +1

      @@johannesschmitz6370 Thanks a ton bro. I really appreciate it 🙏🏿.

  • @TheGuitarChief
    @TheGuitarChief Рік тому +12

    Akash is trying SO hard to keep this funny while Huberman just wants to share his knowledge

  • @VIi726
    @VIi726 Рік тому +502

    No, Andrew Tate told me they like doing dishes and being choked

    • @npalmi88
      @npalmi88 Рік тому +64

      This is also true

    • @lemonflavouredorange7405
      @lemonflavouredorange7405 Рік тому +31

      @@npalmi88 I think you missed the joke…

    • @Pheyora
      @Pheyora Рік тому +19

      Dude who are the women that actually like him? Are they even females?🫠

    • @ShaferScott
      @ShaferScott Рік тому +15

      @@Pheyora women who like lots of money

    • @christophersantrizos1657
      @christophersantrizos1657 Рік тому +4

      @@lemonflavouredorange7405 this is also true

  • @nadiasoho1
    @nadiasoho1 Рік тому +127

    I’m so glad this was said. Especially as you get older, you do go for people who are kind. I find myself saying this often. Looks of course matter to an extent but it doesn’t hold top place like it did when we were teens & 20s. I think where I was also in an abusive relationship, the thought of being with someone kind is also Alien but should be the norm.
    Hope everyone (if they want) finds someone kind ✨🙏🏽

  • @Jariilove
    @Jariilove Рік тому +31

    I never thought I would be actively learning on this podcast for 9 whole minutes

  • @NS-xt5wv
    @NS-xt5wv Рік тому +36

    Well, something is definitely broken, because I’ve been always kind to my men, and they always dump me for the next best thing… and then come back months or years later, yet my friend is super mean to them and they are crazy about her… so I guess it’s a matter of mental health too, it’s only healthy people that are attracted to kindness, and the majority from what I’ve experienced is attracted to toxicity and dysfunction…

    • @Raphanne
      @Raphanne Рік тому +15

      I agree. You're also attracted to what's familiar, to a certain extent. For people who grew up in an abusive environement, their propensity to be attracted to abusive people is higher. They don't know any better until they work on themselves and reparameter themselves on what healthy relationships are.

    • @cccforleaders
      @cccforleaders Рік тому +9

      What we become familiar with in childhood is often what we seek out as an adult.
      If self defeating and dysfunctional stuff is what we became familiar with as a child then despite knowing that , that isn't good for us, we can't help but engage with the familiarity and what it brings along. IMHO. All the best NS

    • @ElGallo978
      @ElGallo978 Рік тому

      Are you fat?

    • @ThrallFrostwolf7
      @ThrallFrostwolf7 Рік тому +6

      You have to be kind but you need to have boundaries at the same time

    • @Grimm_Butterfly
      @Grimm_Butterfly Рік тому

      You may not want to hear that you might be shooting too high and your partners leave because you're disposable.
      Maybe shoot lower and find someone who is grateful for you

  • @ifeelfantastic8956
    @ifeelfantastic8956 Рік тому +8

    The very funny guy is literally pointing his filthy foot towards the guest.
    Charming

  • @yodit9369
    @yodit9369 Рік тому +14

    Dr. Huberman is so professional and sweet…the flagrant cast could of done better at making him feel more comfortable…that’s what good hosts do…

  • @michaelg510
    @michaelg510 Рік тому +4

    Nice to hear something wholesome and sober amidst all the toxicity lately

  • @manderson406
    @manderson406 Рік тому +9

    A clip has never ended more flagrantly

  • @jonnyg7960
    @jonnyg7960 Рік тому +41

    Be kind, treat people with respect, especially her family and waiters. Don't be a simp. Don't be a doormat. Have self-respect.

    • @aiauc
      @aiauc Рік тому +4

      the waiter one is a big one (or any person in the service industry). I cringe at dudes who are POS with waiters... I pity them when they ask for a plate to be returned to the kitchen 😉🤣

    • @quant2011
      @quant2011 Рік тому +1

      but psycho and sociopaths are not kind, dont treat anyone with respect and are super successful. More - the more they destroy humanity , the more humanity kneels and begs for more! Huberman - explain this

    • @Originalchili
      @Originalchili Рік тому +2

      @@aiauc also people who don't tip piss me off, they usually say "it's not job to pay them" I strongly dislike those selfish people

    • @aiauc
      @aiauc Рік тому +1

      @@Originalchili at the end of the day, it's not. I went to Europe and you did not have to tip (unless you wanted to), because staff earned a decent wage; and most places were packed, so people didn't care about the prices on the menu.
      Do I tip in the US and countries who have this tip structure? Yes.... but it's completely archaic and is open to abuse from employers either in the distribution or paying tax for these tips

    • @aiauc
      @aiauc Рік тому

      @@Originalchili it’s not though.. you’ve been fed a lie.
      European workers seem to do fine without tips

  • @sonas2299
    @sonas2299 Рік тому +30

    He is too good for this podcast lol this is embarrassing to see these other guys being goofy

  • @sillygirl1139
    @sillygirl1139 Рік тому

    Can confirm, being kind is highly important. Also, can relate to the sense of becoming locked into a person too.

  • @ni5094
    @ni5094 Рік тому +2

    Yes that kindness is best show of care/love

  • @mariahspapaya
    @mariahspapaya Рік тому +58

    I dated a lawyer who made lots of dough and he showed it off too to try to get me. He bought me stuff and was sweet to me MOST of the time. Put me on a pedestal and idolized me, then as we got closer he started to criticize everything I did and knitpicked me. Was so clingy, didn’t like how I lifted weights and wouldn’t go to yoga with him. Or that I liked coffee. The dumbest shit. I felt so degraded on the smallest things by a MAN who is 10 years older than me. Him buying me stuff and taking me on trips wasn’t enough for the criticizing I had to endure. We’re friends now lol.

    • @mattlol163
      @mattlol163 Рік тому +1

      sounds like you had a "history" and he found out about it, or realize JUST how much he didnt want you and only wanted sex from you...... then started to sabotage the relationship......
      And the fact you said, "he was "sooo horrible after awhile" ..... But we are still friend. *That says ALOT about YOU*

    • @mariahspapaya
      @mariahspapaya Рік тому +1

      @@mattlol163 lol what are you talking about? I don’t have a history, I’m a peaceful mature woman who doesn’t want drama. I chose to stay his friend because he said he loved me a month into the relationship and I realized I loved him too, not everyone is all bad. I don’t think he’s a bad guy but he’s not boyfriend or even husband material. You’re dumb.

    • @mattlol163
      @mattlol163 Рік тому +2

      @@mariahspapaya oh course you say this in a comment section....
      im speaking on how MEN act. There was SOMETHING that made him say "woah, this woman sucks, i was wrong to be with her, i want out, but i do still want sex"
      What is "love", you said you loved him, that is why your still his friend (lie).... but can you please define in words, what is "love"

    • @indigochild2.098
      @indigochild2.098 Рік тому

      god ur annoying

    • @eddielacrosse2
      @eddielacrosse2 Рік тому

      You’re friends with a verbal abuser? You know who’s friends with known verbal abusers? Verbal Abusers.

  • @eurowerx4267
    @eurowerx4267 Рік тому +97

    I’ve been married for almost 25 years, my wife and I were each others first and only! I love it. It’s all in perspective. I work on my desire for her daily, building intimacy and practice really loving her as my wife! Wouldn’t have it any other way.
    It takes work though, mentally I have to create that no other woman is hotter better or could satisfy me sexually!! Obviously that’s not necessarily true, but that’s what i tell myself. It’s working 😂😂

    • @Originalchili
      @Originalchili Рік тому

      That's why I got myself a bisexual gf, threesomes are a perk

    • @NS-xt5wv
      @NS-xt5wv Рік тому +6

      You’re doing great and you’re lucky to have each other! Keep it up! The next best thing isn’t always better.

    • @SayonDDatta
      @SayonDDatta Рік тому +5

      How old were you guys when you met? Just curious 😁

    • @sourishsaha8067
      @sourishsaha8067 Рік тому +3

      That's my dream

    • @KeithSweatin
      @KeithSweatin Рік тому +6

      Fam... you gotta wear those eye things the racing horses have when they on track.

  • @jimmyriggs1229
    @jimmyriggs1229 Рік тому +21

    I love Huberman’s face at 8:18. Like “Oh my god why did I agree to this?”

    • @according2Jess
      @according2Jess Рік тому +3

      lol I went to it…. He’s like alright kids, let get serious AGAIN

  • @ChrisHops22
    @ChrisHops22 Рік тому +3

    I truly adore this man. I could listen to him for hours.

  • @tara4637
    @tara4637 Рік тому +13

    I bet AH needs a shower to rinse off 'the dumb feeling' after sitting with these guys

  • @trevormcmanis
    @trevormcmanis Рік тому

    He's right about kindness. It always won me over.

  • @drfattie
    @drfattie Рік тому +28

    Andrew doesn’t belong on a show w/ these clowns. They did not contribute at all intellectual way to the conversation and instead attracted from it. He handled it so incredibly well

  • @ThatDudeLarzFoo-ah
    @ThatDudeLarzFoo-ah Рік тому +16

    This was the collab we didn’t know we already knew we didn’t need. Lol loved it regardless ❤
    Irrigardless? Regardlessly?
    Oh, whatever. You know what I mean. 😂

  • @flightkidd123
    @flightkidd123 Рік тому +4

    The most random crossover I was never expecting lol

  • @gunlover94
    @gunlover94 Рік тому +11

    “How big was this lizard?” I fucking lost it 😭😭😭

  • @APR944
    @APR944 Рік тому +54

    Andrew Huberman is so damn attractive I can’t stand it not to mention brilliant

    • @thereader6371
      @thereader6371 Рік тому

      Are you gay?

    • @robertov.dibisceglia7887
      @robertov.dibisceglia7887 Рік тому +2

      My God I agree its so distracting. He is real pretty.

    • @yisraelkaiser4934
      @yisraelkaiser4934 Рік тому +2

      It's his testosterone optimisation. He presumably does all those things he talks about and came out looking manly AF.

  • @yourdailymotivation1990
    @yourdailymotivation1990 Рік тому +5

    Wow.. he took charge and was very mature

  • @lsporter88
    @lsporter88 Рік тому +3

    I like that dude. Might want to talk to him more. Great video.

  • @elismith4040
    @elismith4040 Рік тому +1

    Kindness and niceness are very difference

  • @regishaiba
    @regishaiba Рік тому +1

    That is why so many people fake it, they are too nice, they are too kind, super cute, kawaii. And it looses its meaning in relationship, we tend to feel "its good to be true" or when reality intrudes it will disappear.

  • @poonamkumar3237
    @poonamkumar3237 Рік тому +8

    Kindness.. not "niceness" 🔥💯

    • @goldtiger9453
      @goldtiger9453 Рік тому +5

      Semantics, they literally mean the same thing

  • @dk1828
    @dk1828 Рік тому +13

    Man…Dr. Huberman on one level and the rest are like from a different universe as it pertains to intelligent conversation

    • @pete531
      @pete531 Рік тому +3

      the rest are from a movie "idiocracy"

    • @dk1828
      @dk1828 Рік тому +2

      @@pete531 for real

    • @stryfe0
      @stryfe0 Рік тому +1

      Just say u guys arent funny people, jeez.

    • @ThrallFrostwolf7
      @ThrallFrostwolf7 Рік тому +1

      @@stryfe0 yeah we aren’t clowns

    • @stryfe0
      @stryfe0 Рік тому

      @@ThrallFrostwolf7 get over yourself lol

  • @bobs130
    @bobs130 16 днів тому

    Thanks a lot for sharing this, really really grateful..

  • @danielachapman7434
    @danielachapman7434 Рік тому +11

    Dr Huberman is not hugely knowledgeable but also humble. Quite a difference to some of other people here.

    • @goromeREACT
      @goromeREACT Рік тому

      Hes not knowledgeable, lol jk simple mistake

  • @zukhriddinkodirboev9622
    @zukhriddinkodirboev9622 Рік тому +9

    Maaan he's so humble! The fact he decided to give this interview or podcast talk or whatever...hats of to this scholar. Respect

  • @veer_trivedi
    @veer_trivedi Рік тому +40

    So much discussion on this topic all around shouldn't it be simple? Just Try to earn good, workout, be a good human and be confident on who you are.

    • @bigsleepy9889
      @bigsleepy9889 Рік тому

      Then explain why your fat broke and single

    • @govindkrishnan6839
      @govindkrishnan6839 Рік тому +4

      And be emotionally intelligent and empathetic.

    • @TheDoomWizard
      @TheDoomWizard Рік тому +1

      @@govindkrishnan6839 emotional intelligence is a lie

    • @ogduck461
      @ogduck461 Рік тому +2

      Women don't make it simple

  • @nicktanner8231
    @nicktanner8231 Рік тому +24

    Security and safety... They want that dude to be nice to them. Not an immature incompetent being nice.

  • @godessofyouguess
    @godessofyouguess Рік тому +4

    "I've only been me" - priceless

  • @isahak7
    @isahak7 Рік тому +3

    dr huberman is so shy and mature

  • @nitomutan4593
    @nitomutan4593 Рік тому +27

    « La femme n’existe pas », said Jacques Lacan, meaning that there is no universal truth that can define and be applied to women as a whole.

    • @davidjones8043
      @davidjones8043 Рік тому +4

      He was also a Marxist so... maybe we shouldn't listen to everything he said

    • @AdmirMu
      @AdmirMu Рік тому

      Obviously there is. "All women are human", agree?

    • @trevorthompson9887
      @trevorthompson9887 Рік тому +2

      MY MAN pulling out the lacan. Love this

    • @nikolaisedov2295
      @nikolaisedov2295 Рік тому

      @@davidjones8043 that statement is kind of contrary to the overall Marxist agenda rather than related to it. A classical Marxist would be likely to say there's no such thing as female nature and it's all conditioned by society/environment/upbringing etc

    • @thereader6371
      @thereader6371 Рік тому

      Obviously, not a thing can be applied to a whole group of people no matter who those people are, but it is also true that similer patterns of behavior exist that can be used to talk about them.

  • @will987able
    @will987able Рік тому

    These thumbnails on the Huberman pod are gold. UA-cam gold.

  • @moonlightstargem1006
    @moonlightstargem1006 Рік тому +1

    He’s absolutely accurate!!!!

  • @veganlove53
    @veganlove53 Рік тому +5

    Please Don't disrespect this amazing scientist Andrew huberman. These hosts are nowhere close to the level of knowledge that Andrew has. Learn to respect him and his inputs. You guys are wasting Andrew's precious time

  • @davinaetwaroo
    @davinaetwaroo Рік тому +21

    I watch Dr. Huberman and Andrew Schulz separately and love both. These four guys made me laugh even harder in this video having the contrast of Dr. Huberman there. Haha, loved it!

  • @camerongeorge4246
    @camerongeorge4246 Рік тому +1

    Money gets ya in the door being nice keeps ya there

  • @francoisewhite2541
    @francoisewhite2541 6 місяців тому

    Kindness is gentle strength, what I long for.

  • @bartledoo3477
    @bartledoo3477 Рік тому +4

    This is why podcasts shouldn’t have more than 5 people who add nothing to the conversation

  • @tete-a-tetewithtuhina7138
    @tete-a-tetewithtuhina7138 Рік тому +9

    Did anyone notice Andrew Schulz trying to pluck out hair off his legs 🤣

  • @path8675
    @path8675 Рік тому +1

    A kind person is also more likely to do as you want instead of doing what they feel like they want to do

    • @user-gm3lg8gp3m
      @user-gm3lg8gp3m Рік тому +1

      No learn about something called boundaries. Kind people have it.

    • @path8675
      @path8675 Рік тому +1

      @@user-gm3lg8gp3mAt the end of the day is it such a huge scientific discovery that people like other people who are kind to them?

  • @casuallyenlightenedtv
    @casuallyenlightenedtv Рік тому

    Ending smell bit, was the most important lesson of this whole Clío

  • @belliott88
    @belliott88 Рік тому +17

    It’s really very simple. Women want a badass (someone witty, charming, funny, has good fashion sense + good taste in material things, and is free/independent in his work & social life, is not trifled w/ or challenged physically too often by others), who’s attractive (their type physically & sexually), intelligent (academically accomplished + well-read/studied/cultured), can provide financial security (accomplished + competent in their field of work, good with money + wise w/ investments, has things of their own they’re willing to share w/ her *exclusively*), and is capable + competent when it comes to providing personal safety (whether it be defending her from physical and/or mental predators and/or manipulators trying to take advantage of her, the ability to defend their home, and the ability to defend their relationship from outside critics w/ relative ease, and of course the ability to protect & defend their family, relatives, closest friends, etc.)
    In short: Women want all of the things you already knew they wanted, but probably cannot provide all of, and it is extremely unlikely they will “settle” for anything less than these things. And, if she does “settle” on any of these things for you, there’s a 50%+ chance she’s either already cheating on you w/ someone who can & does provide her w/ those things, or might divorce you in order to upgrade into a relationship w/ someone who can.
    Most of us already know this, it’s just not likely that most of us are capable of providing all of these things. Which is depressing, sure, but we all need to toughen up and accept reality. Stop being bitter that this is the reality, y’all. Work on it…

    • @Abdullah-vg1uc
      @Abdullah-vg1uc Рік тому +3

      Lol

    • @stryfe0
      @stryfe0 Рік тому

      Ah yes, another person telling men to just accept the bullshit. Nah what men should do is leave women alone, let them protect themselves. The police exist.

  • @lil10dot
    @lil10dot Рік тому +4

    There's a lot more to this than is being let on. There's how familiar potential partners look and act, how much time is spent with them, and much much more. And the evolutionary theory of "this guy looks like he can take care of us therefore I'm attracted to him" is not "hardwired" per se, sexual selection (and other things) is. If men who don't look big and burly have been sexually selected for for a while, and subsequent generations grow up seeing different kinds of men, it'll establish itself as a common attraction. And this isn't even scratching the surface of human sexual behavior. Go watch Sapolsky for a thorough breakdown.

    • @jamespak8175
      @jamespak8175 Рік тому

      Btw this is not directly to you. Consider this a rant lol
      There is no damn proof of evolution.
      People only observed "MICRO" evolution --- but has NEVER.. EVER.. RECORDED NOR OBSERVED "MACRO" evolution..
      Meaning.. there is no FOSSIL FINDINGS of a T-REX ---- SUPPOSEDLY~~~ that have been dated back to 3,000,000 B.C --- that has EVOLVED into BIRDS found in our times today..
      So put it simply, THERE ARE NO... fossils .. of T-REXs from 3,000,000 B.C and to another t-rex fossil dating to 2,999,999 B.C --- to another fossil of 2,999,998 B.C ---2,999,997 B.C --- 2,999,996 B.C --- AND ALL the REST IN BETWEEN to 2022 A.D.
      There has been NO consecutive fossil findings of this "EVOLUTION"
      This is what I mean by "MACRO" EVOLUTION..
      "MICRO" EVOLUTION is this...
      Saying things like someone has found a FOSSIL from millions and millions of years ago --- SUPPOSEDLY~~~ and then finding another fossil to then say that there was an EVOLUTION. You know how CRAZY that sounds? That's like a big GIANT GUESS!!
      So you're telling me, that by looking at just TWO FOSSILS!!!!?? JUST 2 DAM FOSSILS!!!! that you're gonna make the BIG JUMP by saying that this BIRD was from a T-REX???
      WHERE are all the other fossils in between --- showing all the minute to minute evolutionary changes being made?!?! WHERE ARE ALL THE FOSSILS THAT DISPLAYS THESE SUBTLE CHANGES? THESE SUBTLE EVOLUTIONARY CHANGES?
      Man, you can convince anyone just by sounding smart lol.. It's so easy to convince people to believe a lie.. if this is possible, imagine some of the mainstream ideas.. is it true? conspiracy? lol Think people. Use critical thinking. Just because you read something doesn't mean your brain is thinking critically. There is no damn proof of evolution.
      People only observed "MICRO" evolution --- but has NEVER.. EVER.. RECORDED NOR OBSERVED "MACRO" evolution..
      Meaning.. there is no FOSSIL FINDINGS of a T-REX ---- SUPPOSEDLY~~~ that have been dated back to 3,000,000 B.C --- that has EVOLVED into BIRDS found in our times today..
      So put it simply, THERE ARE NO... fossils .. of T-REXs from 3,000,000 B.C and to another t-rex fossil dating to 2,999,999 B.C --- to another fossil of 2,999,998 B.C ---2,999,997 B.C --- 2,999,996 B.C --- AND ALL the REST IN BETWEEN to 2022 A.D.
      There has been NO consecutive fossil findings of this "EVOLUTION"
      This is what I mean by "MACRO" EVOLUTION..
      "MICRO" EVOLUTION is this...
      Saying things like someone has found a FOSSIL from millions and millions of years ago --- SUPPOSEDLY~~~ and then finding another fossil to then say that there was an EVOLUTION. You know how CRAZY that sounds? That's like a big GIANT GUESS!!
      So you're telling me, that by looking at just TWO FOSSILS!!!!?? JUST 2 DAM FOSSILS!!!! that you're gonna make the BIG JUMP by saying that this BIRD was from a T-REX???
      WHERE are all the other fossils in between --- showing all the minute to minute evolutionary changes being made?!?! WHERE ARE ALL THE FOSSILS THAT DISPLAYS THESE SUBTLE CHANGES? THESE SUBTLE EVOLUTIONARY CHANGES?
      Man, you can convince anyone just by sounding smart lol.. It's so easy to convince people to believe a lie.. if this is possible, imagine some of the mainstream ideas.. is it true? conspiracy? lol Think people. Use critical thinking. Just because you read something doesn't mean your brain is thinking critically.

  • @jonnynoakes9070
    @jonnynoakes9070 Рік тому +2

    That man commands respect 🫡

  • @Sagefrakrobatik
    @Sagefrakrobatik Рік тому

    Wow! Great advice! Just have to be kind never thought of that before

  • @MichelleAntonia
    @MichelleAntonia Рік тому +6

    He is absolutely right and trying to speak facts to these children... ofc it's not going to go well lol

  • @pinchechingata7424
    @pinchechingata7424 Рік тому +23

    What is a woman

  • @ricardolinares9832
    @ricardolinares9832 Рік тому +104

    I am a kind man. I have been so with all the women in my life. What women want beyond kindness is control and also have their demands met. The few women I have known who are the exception are happily living by themselves or in a fullfilling relationship. Watching this I noticed that Huberman was being kind and also turning into a pretzel with the discomfort of having to deal with a bunch of unkind asswipes. Compassion is getting rarer the more everyone escapes this cruel and unkind existence. For kindness to triumph maybe we simply need to lisyten better and give everyone the benefit of the doubt that they will be kind in kind.

    • @BeingIntegrated
      @BeingIntegrated Рік тому +14

      And safety. He emphasized safety too. Safety means a man can keep the woman safe, meaning he has resources and can meet her demands (meeting her demands makes her feel safe). There are many dimensions of safety.

    • @ricardolinares9832
      @ricardolinares9832 Рік тому

      @@BeingIntegrated I know but that after covid seems to be an obsolete apendage to the human condition. Women by and large kept us safe this time around with their nursing and serving all of us in service industries. Every vaccination I got was administered by a woman and men if anything have made the world unsafe as never before. One threatening to nuke his way out of humiliting defeat and evil stupidodity and others fighting tooth and nail for their freedom. This male female divide and all the qualities that entails are now up for grabs. I have been a lucky man to have done all of it. From a provider to a stay at home dad being a better mom and dad than most of the men and women I have known in my 63 years. The only thing that makes sense to me is humanity and what the Buddhist call Yabyum. Maybe then kindness will make all questions about safety as the stuff community will eventually take care of better than each of does on our own. Thijk about how men abuse women and how more women now are abusing men as never before. Maybe I am just overthinking everything because I find kindness in short supply in this very insane world we live in.

    • @Originalchili
      @Originalchili Рік тому

      This is a comedy podcast you cuck, if the good Dr didn't want to joke around, maybe he shouldn't go on a comedy podcast...

    • @ricardolinares9832
      @ricardolinares9832 Рік тому

      @@Originalchili The good doctor was trying to teach the dogs that watch the podcast the trick of how to be kind so they ca get laid. Incels 'you cuck' are deserving of kindness too even on a comedy roastfest.

    • @stryfe0
      @stryfe0 Рік тому +5

      That's funny cause men get called all the negative names in the book when they have demands lol.

  • @applethunderspice3072
    @applethunderspice3072 Рік тому +2

    Money is the number 1 way to spread Kindness. Mr. beast

  • @memastarful
    @memastarful Рік тому +1

    Kindness matters

  • @esspi9
    @esspi9 Рік тому +5

    Let me give you this,
    No way he's coming back here again nor is he going to recommend being on this pod to his other friends.

  • @Vanessabhealthtv
    @Vanessabhealthtv Рік тому +12

    Wow. Huberman is galaxies apart from this bunch. Omg. What ridiculous things they bring up in the conversation 🤔 I love Huberman already but he definitely went up a whole new level of how he handled this. What an exceptional human. What is an enlightening, respectful level of discussion is brought down by these three. Women do want kindness, and that starts with the way you speak about the world too💯🙌✨️

  • @brendanleahy5354
    @brendanleahy5354 Рік тому +1

    Beauty catches the eye, good character catches the heart. So many people seem to miss that! Why!?

  • @RavenBreeTaliatao
    @RavenBreeTaliatao Рік тому

    The ending 😂

  • @Missms1338
    @Missms1338 Рік тому +24

    Kindness is so true. Most men are fake nice, and call you a bish as soon as you don’t put out on a first date. Kind men that is also financially stable and moderately attractive is rare. And financially unstable men are horrible as well

    • @stryfe0
      @stryfe0 Рік тому +6

      Tell those men that the first date doesn't have to be anything crazy. Tell em a coffee meetup or a cheap fun activity, something. Work with them, take some pressure off, instead of making them feel like they're being used/taken advantage of.

    • @Missms1338
      @Missms1338 Рік тому +2

      @@stryfe0 being used for going on a date? How broke are these men? Maybe they shouldn’t be dating or date intentionally with 1 or 2 girls instead of trying to date 50 girls at once just to get sex. And the audacity for men it doesn’t matter if it’s coffee or a walk in the park. They STILL try to get sex. That’s why women are opting out for even the cheap dates. You literally get the same treatment. Even if you pay 50/50, still ask. Most women are done with dating altogether. If men would stop acting so desperate for sex, maybe women would actually like the person enough to do it. I feel that men should just pay for it with a professional instead of desperately trying to get sex from every woman they meet. It’s unattractive and cringe. And makes the man look low value

    • @stryfe0
      @stryfe0 Рік тому +3

      @@Missms1338 man offers solution, women continues to not take any type of accountability and blame/diss men. Typical. Men arent women, we dont demand that women gives us the world. Men dont demand that women spoil us. U ladies always cry about how men always expect sex. Men expect that cause that's all you have to offer lol and you expect and demand so much more.
      I agree that men should leave women alone tho. And by leave alone I mean to not even bother dealing with or helping them. Solve your own problems, protect and provide for yourself or call the police.

    • @Missms1338
      @Missms1338 Рік тому +4

      @@stryfe0 and once again, a man not listening. Going on a cheap coffee date is not a solution because most women still get pressured for sex afterwards with that as well. How about listening.

    • @stryfe0
      @stryfe0 Рік тому +1

      @@Missms1338 men get pressured every day of their lives lol, u having all these demands and expectations is putting pressure on the guy lol. Again men expect sex, cause thats ALL YOU CAN GIVE HIM. U cant protect and provide, cause well.. ur weak and broke, if ur not broke, why is it such an issue? Provide.
      And I am listening, unfortunately all you ladies ever do is cry and point the finger, while expecting men to be this larger than life being, expecting men to give so much while you give little in return. It's a joke.

  • @01sevensix
    @01sevensix Рік тому +5

    This is what the internet was for….a forum where huberman and Schultz end up together

  • @ZM-et7zt
    @ZM-et7zt Рік тому

    Kindness 💯

  • @nnchka
    @nnchka Рік тому

    Andrew you're best!

  • @paulthieu2636
    @paulthieu2636 Рік тому +21

    The mental intelligence gap is vast here and I’m an idiot and recognize this

  • @ihavenoclue9756
    @ihavenoclue9756 Рік тому +10

    I'm married with children. So dang close to being Al Bundy lol. Might get a job at Shoes R Us.

  • @fmitchell1234
    @fmitchell1234 Місяць тому

    This is just great

  • @danieldavidson5220
    @danieldavidson5220 Рік тому

    We checked the data and people like when people are kind. Fascinating insight.

  • @f..k
    @f..k Рік тому +9

    Will they let the man speak? Never realized how much they interrupt their guests

    • @davidjones8043
      @davidjones8043 Рік тому +1

      Going on 6 minutes solid of him speaking...

  • @simplythecolororange
    @simplythecolororange Рік тому +3

    If the data is based off what women SAY they want, then it can very easily be wrong. When asked many women often say they want a version of reality that they would not seek given the option

  • @alphamotivation101
    @alphamotivation101 Рік тому

    Andrew understand it all

  • @markverhoeven4114
    @markverhoeven4114 Рік тому +1

    Andrew is next level.

  • @pixotass
    @pixotass Рік тому +8

    Huberman is so alpha.. these guys look like simps around him

  • @belugablues1954
    @belugablues1954 Рік тому +4

    The lizard joke made huberman so uncomfortable 😂

  • @janenguyen8996
    @janenguyen8996 Рік тому

    Where can I find the full podcast?😂

  • @ArtificiallyConcious
    @ArtificiallyConcious Рік тому +2

    With regards to kindness supposedly being the most important factor that women look for in men, how has this been studied? Is it by questionnaire? If so I would argue that women indeed would say they find that above all else most important and attractive, however, there is a big discrepancy between what women say they want as opposed to what they actually respond to.

  • @benmuniz11
    @benmuniz11 Рік тому +10

    Okcupid did a study and found that the more attractive a guy was, the better personality rating they received from women that they talked to. Even though they all used the same scripts

  • @darrentimms8865
    @darrentimms8865 Рік тому +5

    As a therapist, I can assure you that many of my women clients stay with very rich men that treat them awfully and are far from kind.

    • @ThrallFrostwolf7
      @ThrallFrostwolf7 Рік тому +6

      Those are broken women and thats why they are seeking a therapist in the first place. Nobody wants to date a broken women

    • @throwacnt7603
      @throwacnt7603 Рік тому +2

      @Darren Timms Thanks Darren, finally someone with sense that has actually looked at DATA and not what people SAY. I can claim all day that I like kindness but my actions may speak differently. I can say I love fitness and to stay trim while being 300lbs and eating Doritos. I can idealize a keto diet all day long, doesn't mean I follow it.

    • @PrabhjotSinghGambhir
      @PrabhjotSinghGambhir Рік тому

      But they did make the decision to be with very rich men in the first place! They didn't want to be with other men who would've been kinder to them. They chose to only go for the rich ones, and now they are in therapy.
      I feel women only get attracted by money and sometimes marry those men too. Later on, they realize kindness matters.

  • @betterechoes
    @betterechoes Рік тому +1

    How to tryyyy to keep the train on the tracks, featuring Andrew Huberman!

  • @Canadian_Psycho
    @Canadian_Psycho Рік тому +2

    "Take this guy to King's Landing" 😂