That phrase that you said about women have to be a 10/10 for the guy to respond on Bumble, that's exactly how it is for us men on any dating site. We have to have the best swag we have to have the cutest face we have to have the body that they're looking for. If you're not in the top 15% or maybe even the top 10% of men, dating apps just don't work
@Black Boy King TV Exactly. I and pretty much ALL of my male friends throughout life have been much more likely to LOWER our standards when meeting girls and give them a chance. They really have no idea how much we look the other way about some of their "flaws".
Yeah "what's wrong with me" welcome to the men's world. Or when men get also rejected if they don't come up with an original first text. guess what, all the females who messaged me, texted the same thing "hiii, heyy, hii^^" double standards much? Sorry for bad English I'm French
Maybe you were matching with guys that are extremely attractive and have thousands of matches? While on Tinder it’s only the guys who are interested, even if it’s only sex, that are going to message you
I understand the feeling, since this is the EXACT thing happening to men like 80% of the time. Also, know that men can forget about the app if they have notifications off. Its not often that they get a match but the apps are good at annoying us with notifications that aren't matches, things like buy premium or buy coins. So the outcome is not as much about whatever they fancy you but more about them forgetting about the app.
Exactly. Accountability is like kryptonite to women. Women always are quick to say "I can't speak for all women" but then they love speaking for all men. The double standards lol.
Not a single woman I've matched with on bumble has ever sent me a single message ever. I've been on there for about a year, and I just can't help but laugh when I see the clock winding down on yet another 24 hours. It's not disappointing, because there's no reason to expect anything different. Even when I was 4 years old, I just sort of assumed I would die alone. My opinion hasn't really changed in the 21 years since.
@@text_ghost_love That's what I use, mostly. I have a tinder profile and a bumble. I'm in a relatively small town in a rural part of the USA, so anything more obscure than those isn't going to have enough users to really be viable here. Certainly, tinder has worked out better. Conversations actually happen, and I've been on [one] date via tinder, so it's a damn sight better than bumble. I still feel like I'm mostly wasting my time, though. I have aspergers, which sometimes feels like a death sentence with regards to "game" and dating.
While I agree with dating apps sucking, I cannot agree with the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. Feminism definition says bumble is a step forward. You want equal rights? Maybe you just want what you benefit from only, and nothing detrimental? Strife teaches too. If guys and women are different, by your own words, define feminism for me please.
Bumble doesn't work because everybody on there is trying to do the "Pretty Women" fairy tale like the movie was real or something. Bio's like.... I'm looking for a guy who can take me on camel rides through the Sahara Desert. Well good luck with all of that. .....................GRIM
That's why men are no longer falling for these dating apps. Men, work on yourself because all the rest will fall into place, including women. Also, this girl is cute, and we don't all want supermodels we just want them to be somewhat in shape because it shows self care.
I wish I had watched this video before trying Bumble, as I had a similar experience. I even used Tinder with a fake picture, not sexy and without showing my face-just a real bio. Despite this, men were much more willing to engage in conversation. However, when I uploaded my real photos on Bumble, which were great, and I consider myself an attractive person, the response was completely different. Even though I had many matches and initiated conversations by saying 'hi,' most of them didn’t reply. It was incredibly frustrating, so I ended up deleting my Bumble account and won’t be using it again.
@adrian ramirez the problem is that feminism is extremist now. The definition no longer means women empowerment and equality. Means hatred towards men and using them to bow down to them.
Calling yourself a feminist only to falsely conclude that men were hunters and had to initiate the conversation always is somehow leading things ad absurdum.
while it's said men go for looks, from what i've experienced on dating apps i think it really goes both ways. i think dating apps kind of killed the drive for a lot of people 'cause you really are only going for appearance first - ofc you want to be with be with someone who is attractive. but you lose out the personality and charms that you never get to experience unless you "match" - something you would otherwise experience when you meet someone in person.
I believe you're perspective is absolutely correct in so many ways. Although I'm about to dive into this new way of meeting/dating after some time of just being alone and focusing on work...this is very useful info. I appreciate this and you will definitely meet someone. You strike me as a lovely human based on a few minutes. With you on a pursuit.
The ones who have it the easiest on dating apps are men. The ones who have it the hardest on dating apps are also men. It's just that they're two groups of men. A small % of men on dating apps attract an out sized amount of attention from the opposite sex. The rest of men get to fight over the scraps. And when women talk about how hard it is on dating apps they are talking about getting the small % of men at the very top of the pyramid to commit them.
I got two dates with the same guy, he didn't ask. After a week of convo, I said when are we meeting for drinks? We never talked to each other again after the second date. Looking back, I think he was under the impression I was going to throw myself at him.
Guilty as charged. Most men on their game don't make the effort. It's wiser to relate with men who pay extra attention, unfortunately those men maybe Mr average.
Brilliant. I used to chase guys on dating apps, but I have quit forever now. I was being ignored and she is right a guy should pursue if he's interested. That's a given. So true what this girl says
There are plenty of men out there who would prefer to be interacted with first. There are a lot of guys such myself who hate to do the Chase and would most likely abandon you if you make us chase you. There's also a lot of people who use the app and do not pay for it. Does the Apple allow you to message people for free? Does it limit you? If there is a limit then maybe they pass their limit of free replies. Either that or they're not going to reply at all, maybe they assume you're a bots, made me a the algorithm, he can literally be multiple factors with these dating sites. But to literally blame men for their biology, I mean I don't even know what to say to that. Men get shit when they do that with women, but when a woman does it it's fine. And that's not to say there aren't men out there who like that she's, who like the hunt. But a lot of us don't. No, that biology doesn't mean Jack because as a more civilized species, we're able to fight against her nature no problem. I hate jason, I hate hunting.if I can sit down and just have a conversation with somebody then I'm going to take that. If they choose not to, or for whatever reason the app doesn't direct them to me then oh well. I'm not going to sit there and blame women's biology.
I couldn’t agree with this more! 1. If a dating app affects your self-esteem, get off it; 2. Bumble negatively impacts the masculine-feminine polarity; 3. If a man actually wants to date you, he’ll drive the conversation and eventually ask you out, it’s not for the woman to feel like she has to chase and try and make it happen. Really love the honesty of this content, I think we’ve all (men and women) felt a little rejected on these dating apps, it’s a horrible feeling, I’ve been there and fully resonate ❤️
This is what’s happening 90% of the time. 1. Guys swipe right on everyone without looking until they run out of likes and then make their decision on whether or not they find the girl attractive after she messages them. 2. Most guys don’t have the notifications on/bumble sucks at sending notifications and if they don’t go on it every day then they’re not going to be able to respond. Also, most girls just say “hey”… most guys aren’t going to respond to that.
That isn’t true that just convenient for women. No man would not have interest in a woman he finds beautiful because she beat him to the punch and approached him first. If you don’t have the resolve to deal with approaching and dealing with possible rejection I’m sure you would subscribe to the notion that men don’t like when women initiate. Challenge yourself and step out of your comfort zone. Because men are forced to operate out of your comfort zone he probably can appreciate a women doing the same
I disagree with that statement about guys being the hunter, but what i think is happening here is, guys go on bumble swipe a load of girls, they get matched with and they wait, and the timer runs out or they get unmatched, because girls have the power so they use the power. So guys get board so they delete the app, and then you come along willing to message, but you are messaging dead accounts now.
1. Decent looking is not enough for a dating app, because you will lose a competition due to amount of competitors 2. Personality values little to nothing for a.guys Who Just wanna hook up b.for people in general. Because its about looks- at least looks can be verified by photos (even if we add photoshop and filters risks), while good/rich personality - cannot 3. "Hunter" mentality is Just bs. Most guys would Like to be approached by women and if your messages do not work - again - you Just losing your competition to other girls 4. So you can approve that you reply to ALL your tinder matches? Really?
I do agree with you that Bumble is pretty shit but honestly, I don´t think that the unmet desire of chasing is the reason for it. Or better said, it doesn´t specifically affect men, rather both genders. In other dating platforms, guys have to text tons of women and don´t get any reply, for the same reason that women don´t get replies on bumble: Online dating just isn´t that much fun, it eliminates the seduction part, the excitment of not knowing if the other one interested. You jump directly to level two, which still can be fun when its about hook ups and casual flirting, but the initial spark is just taken away. The one that is proposed has the upper hand and is usually less keen to put effort into it. Bumble just lets women experience this shit, and guys decided if they want to show merci. Its unusual and therefore uncomfortable.
Moreover, don´t ignore the fact that "matching" causes dopmain release, your body adjusts and wants more and more stimulus, hence more swiping. Thats why people, men and women, enjoy "matching" more than actual meeting. After some time you either get somewhat addicted or board because the intial exciment can´t be reproduced.
You look fine. Most dating sites don't work for anybody. They used to be alright. I got plenty of dates on them. Made plenty of friends too. Last time nothing. I dont bother with any of them.
Welcome to equality and empowerment. Takes a bit of mettle to keep a stiff upper lip after an 80% rejection rate? It's just a part of being the man. Takes some aggressive tendencies that are "toxic", huh?
Great video! You are spot on. I had similar experience on bumble - got responses but never progressed to actually meeting up. Hinge is much better in my opinion! Would love your take on that if you haven’t done a video on this yet. :-)
I matched, would start the convo, I’m the one asking all the questions and I go back the next day and they 1: unmatched/stopped conversation or 2: deleted their profile
I have the same issues its crazy. Even if I am above average in terms of pretty and get usually noticed at a party I have hardly any match and barely any message on bumble its crazy. Guys are flaky and dare to say disrepectful things. if they do answer they usually ghost me quickly. Or worse they do sexual Jokes as an opening line.
I can relate: I get checked out by a good number of guys most times I go out in public. Yet, I’ve tried three different online dating apps and had extremely few messages back on one app, plenty of messages back on another but only one meet up, and okay number of replies on Bumble but they either disappear before long and I’ve had no dates, and I’m often stuck talking to a couple of guys that I’m not keen on
Literally because you cannot initiate a conversation, like an adult. I’ve been on Bumble for a year and have never had to the opportunity to message ONE girl I was actually passionate about (at least their profile). That’s such a shitty experience for a Man and no one of the design team cares because Mens opinions don’t matter with this app xD
Oh no. That sucks. Sorry to hear that. Yes questions are good. I think the main problem is that the majority of men on Bumble are just lazy/or have no intention of meeting someone. They just use it to pass the time.
No offence, but I think you're slightly off about why guys 'ignore' you, and it's actually the app's fault. The app makes money by getting people to pay for more access to matches. The more matches, the more money they make. This causes them to create 'bots' with fake profiles who will message guys who don't get many matches. These guys, having been 'matched' to bots again and again, become suspicious of all messages and eventually give up, so when a real message appears, they can't be bothered any more. The alternative is not to create bots and guys will simply uninstall the app due to lack of success. Try creating a male profile and see how many 'matches' you get. Somehow a profile with minimal info and no decent photo gets messages from attractive, successful women? Wow, that's incredible. All you'll have to do is pay money to contact them, oh wait, now they're gone as soon as you've dropped coin. Oh well, better luck next time...
Hey, I made this video nearly two years ago. Crazy how time flies. But yes, I have heard about the bots they use now on a podcast that I listened to, as a way to keep men on the app.
Dang you were so close to touching on what I thought you were going to say but then you went off in a totally different direction about men loving to be the “hunters” and well I disagree.
For what it’s worth I agree with the rest of the complaints about bumble the top guys just using it as an ego boost and the matches disappearing quickly. Just the first part about biology I disagree with.
Hey, not sure if you are a boy or a girl! Presume you are female. But yes, the whole point of only one gender being able to use the app is completely stupid. And it doesn't even let guys reach out to girls they match with!
Sorry you felt rejected. I felt that way a long time before I met the woman who really cares about me (FB Dating). Keep trying and you will find someone for you.
First of all your beautiful Secondly I agree with you let the man hunt It’s out of order I made a profile but once I found out I have to make a move I deleted it
No we don't. We just have to hunt. We get no choice. Woman can afford to be passive. It's not like women don't try. But it's not stressful to look good. But it is stressful to gamble with rejection. You felt it. Welcome to men world.
Matches are BS, look for people you like, there is a good chance the person you like is only getting a few messages that are real, and he will be interested in talking to you. Stay away from matches they don't help you.
Thank you for such a nice comment. Got me a bit emotional. After a year of people trolling my channel. It's nice to see a positive and genuine comment. Merry Christmas to you :-)
The one thing that woman don't understand is that men have to pay for each message, about £2 per message, and woman talk and talk and talk, and also there are now AI which is where you find your self as a man paying to talk to a computer, I would suggest that if you get a reply you should get off bumble and into the real world exchange phone numbers as fast as possible then talk on the phone which is alot cheaper.
That phrase that you said about women have to be a 10/10 for the guy to respond on Bumble, that's exactly how it is for us men on any dating site. We have to have the best swag we have to have the cutest face we have to have the body that they're looking for. If you're not in the top 15% or maybe even the top 10% of men, dating apps just don't work
@Black Boy King TV Exactly. I and pretty much ALL of my male friends throughout life have been much more likely to LOWER our standards when meeting girls and give them a chance. They really have no idea how much we look the other way about some of their "flaws".
Men get more response as average guys than women do.
Yeah "what's wrong with me" welcome to the men's world. Or when men get also rejected if they don't come up with an original first text. guess what, all the females who messaged me, texted the same thing "hiii, heyy, hii^^" double standards much? Sorry for bad English I'm French
@@MetalDetroit thanks, I'm just tired of these people setting up standards they can't meet themselves
@@unknown-rw8kt agreed
same here and if my message wasnt funny or original = unmatch lol
Maybe you were matching with guys that are extremely attractive and have thousands of matches? While on Tinder it’s only the guys who are interested, even if it’s only sex, that are going to message you
obviously. Though probably not "thousands", they at least have a few, and she's lower in the heap. obviously.
I understand the feeling, since this is the EXACT thing happening to men like 80% of the time. Also, know that men can forget about the app if they have notifications off. Its not often that they get a match but the apps are good at annoying us with notifications that aren't matches, things like buy premium or buy coins. So the outcome is not as much about whatever they fancy you but more about them forgetting about the app.
Good point. I always forget that a lot of people turn the notifications off. The notifications are annoying, especially when trying to sleep!
"So the outcome is not as much about whatever they fancy you but more about them forgetting about the app." That's some cope tier stuff right there.
Nope. Men want far more than women want.
Why is all the responsibility put on men ?
Because the hirachy of the universe is God>Man>Women>Children. Once you materialize this, all your frustration w/ women will be solved.
Exactly. Accountability is like kryptonite to women.
Women always are quick to say "I can't speak for all women" but then they love speaking for all men. The double standards lol.
@@Hurtzilla it will never change
@@Ariovistus50 its her L
Yeaah I just got to that point, this is so cliche really
Not a single woman I've matched with on bumble has ever sent me a single message ever. I've been on there for about a year, and I just can't help but laugh when I see the clock winding down on yet another 24 hours. It's not disappointing, because there's no reason to expect anything different.
Even when I was 4 years old, I just sort of assumed I would die alone. My opinion hasn't really changed in the 21 years since.
Have you tried Tinder? At least you could message women then :-)
@@text_ghost_love That's what I use, mostly. I have a tinder profile and a bumble. I'm in a relatively small town in a rural part of the USA, so anything more obscure than those isn't going to have enough users to really be viable here.
Certainly, tinder has worked out better. Conversations actually happen, and I've been on [one] date via tinder, so it's a damn sight better than bumble. I still feel like I'm mostly wasting my time, though. I have aspergers, which sometimes feels like a death sentence with regards to "game" and dating.
Same, I'm in a small town. Not a lot of options.
Sounds like you are doing alright if you went on a date :-)
@@text_ghost_love It didn't really amount to much, but it's better than nothing at least!
We all die alone, unless you're in a plane crash...
While I agree with dating apps sucking, I cannot agree with the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes.
Feminism definition says bumble is a step forward. You want equal rights? Maybe you just want what you benefit from only, and nothing detrimental? Strife teaches too.
If guys and women are different, by your own words, define feminism for me please.
Bumble doesn't work because everybody on there is trying to do the "Pretty Women" fairy tale like the movie was real or something. Bio's like.... I'm looking for a guy who can take me on camel rides through the
Sahara Desert. Well good luck with all of that. .....................GRIM
That's pretty much the experience of most men on dating apps. The men make lots of overtures, but the vast majority will receive no replies.
That's why men are no longer falling for these dating apps. Men, work on yourself because all the rest will fall into place, including women. Also, this girl is cute, and we don't all want supermodels we just want them to be somewhat in shape because it shows self care.
I wish I had watched this video before trying Bumble, as I had a similar experience. I even used Tinder with a fake picture, not sexy and without showing my face-just a real bio. Despite this, men were much more willing to engage in conversation. However, when I uploaded my real photos on Bumble, which were great, and I consider myself an attractive person, the response was completely different. Even though I had many matches and initiated conversations by saying 'hi,' most of them didn’t reply. It was incredibly frustrating, so I ended up deleting my Bumble account and won’t be using it again.
I think any dating app is flawed in that way. Both women and men are subjected to rejection.
Yes, so true.
6:21 you’re a feminist. That energy has men hitting the exit 🏃♂️
@adrian ramirez the problem is that feminism is extremist now. The definition no longer means women empowerment and equality. Means hatred towards men and using them to bow down to them.
Calling yourself a feminist only to falsely conclude that men were hunters and had to initiate the conversation always is somehow leading things ad absurdum.
while it's said men go for looks, from what i've experienced on dating apps i think it really goes both ways.
i think dating apps kind of killed the drive for a lot of people 'cause you really are only going for appearance first - ofc you want to be with be with someone who is attractive. but you lose out the personality and charms that you never get to experience unless you "match" - something you would otherwise experience when you meet someone in person.
I believe you're perspective is absolutely correct in so many ways. Although I'm about to dive into this new way of meeting/dating after some time of just being alone and focusing on work...this is very useful info. I appreciate this and you will definitely meet someone. You strike me as a lovely human based on a few minutes. With you on a pursuit.
Aww, thank you so much. I can't remember what I actually said in this video now lol. But it might work for you, you never know. Good luck with it :-)
The ones who have it the easiest on dating apps are men. The ones who have it the hardest on dating apps are also men. It's just that they're two groups of men. A small % of men on dating apps attract an out sized amount of attention from the opposite sex. The rest of men get to fight over the scraps. And when women talk about how hard it is on dating apps they are talking about getting the small % of men at the very top of the pyramid to commit them.
I got two dates with the same guy, he didn't ask. After a week of convo, I said when are we meeting for drinks? We never talked to each other again after the second date. Looking back, I think he was under the impression I was going to throw myself at him.
Aww. There's someone out there better for you hun. We've all been there don't worry x
Wow!
Guilty as charged. Most men on their game don't make the effort. It's wiser to relate with men who pay extra attention, unfortunately those men maybe Mr average.
@@eQuariuz That's it and the Chad's know not to get entangled in the drama.
Oh so you did give him sex.
Brilliant. I used to chase guys on dating apps, but I have quit forever now. I was being ignored and she is right a guy should pursue if he's interested. That's a given. So true what this girl says
Aww thanks Pippa :-)
Wow I thought the same thing. It’s completely make fools on both male and females.
Thanks for saying it so perfectly.
Hey, thank you for watching and commenting :-)
There are plenty of men out there who would prefer to be interacted with first. There are a lot of guys such myself who hate to do the Chase and would most likely abandon you if you make us chase you.
There's also a lot of people who use the app and do not pay for it. Does the Apple allow you to message people for free? Does it limit you? If there is a limit then maybe they pass their limit of free replies.
Either that or they're not going to reply at all, maybe they assume you're a bots, made me a the algorithm, he can literally be multiple factors with these dating sites. But to literally blame men for their biology, I mean I don't even know what to say to that. Men get shit when they do that with women, but when a woman does it it's fine.
And that's not to say there aren't men out there who like that she's, who like the hunt. But a lot of us don't. No, that biology doesn't mean Jack because as a more civilized species, we're able to fight against her nature no problem.
I hate jason, I hate hunting.if I can sit down and just have a conversation with somebody then I'm going to take that. If they choose not to, or for whatever reason the app doesn't direct them to me then oh well. I'm not going to sit there and blame women's biology.
I couldn’t agree with this more! 1. If a dating app affects your self-esteem, get off it; 2. Bumble negatively impacts the masculine-feminine polarity; 3. If a man actually wants to date you, he’ll drive the conversation and eventually ask you out, it’s not for the woman to feel like she has to chase and try and make it happen. Really love the honesty of this content, I think we’ve all (men and women) felt a little rejected on these dating apps, it’s a horrible feeling, I’ve been there and fully resonate ❤️
Thats bullshit, both have to show interest
This is what’s happening 90% of the time.
1. Guys swipe right on everyone without looking until they run out of likes and then make their decision on whether or not they find the girl attractive after she messages them.
2. Most guys don’t have the notifications on/bumble sucks at sending notifications and if they don’t go on it every day then they’re not going to be able to respond.
Also, most girls just say “hey”… most guys aren’t going to respond to that.
Dating is a girls game...relationships is the guy game
I agree with the second part. Men definitely control that part :-)
That isn’t true that just convenient for women. No man would not have interest in a woman he finds beautiful because she beat him to the punch and approached him first. If you don’t have the resolve to deal with approaching and dealing with possible rejection I’m sure you would subscribe to the notion that men don’t like when women initiate. Challenge yourself and step out of your comfort zone. Because men are forced to operate out of your comfort zone he probably can appreciate a women doing the same
Being ignored hurts, doesn't it? Want to know something even worse? Being rejected by a woman for being too nice to her.
My latest video might help Brave Sailor.
I’m sorry you experienced that…. It’s not your fault
Something is wrong on that lady’s end
Keep being a good man 💜💜💜
@@LRamey No worries. I learned my lesson very young. I didn't repeat the same mistake.
@@samayoa95 🙏🏾
I doubt it was because you were being too nice. You most likely done something to reject her. With that attitude I see why now😂
I disagree with that statement about guys being the hunter, but what i think is happening here is, guys go on bumble swipe a load of girls, they get matched with and they wait, and the timer runs out or they get unmatched, because girls have the power so they use the power. So guys get board so they delete the app, and then you come along willing to message, but you are messaging dead accounts now.
1. Decent looking is not enough for a dating app, because you will lose a competition due to amount of competitors
2. Personality values little to nothing for a.guys Who Just wanna hook up b.for people in general. Because its about looks- at least looks can be verified by photos (even if we add photoshop and filters risks), while good/rich personality - cannot
3. "Hunter" mentality is Just bs. Most guys would Like to be approached by women and if your messages do not work - again - you Just losing your competition to other girls
4. So you can approve that you reply to ALL your tinder matches? Really?
Regardless of anything you say miss, thanks for the lovely accent.
Was with you for the first 2 minutes or so.
From a male point of view, you are describing how woman behave, and its a fact guys are just giving up.
I do agree with you that Bumble is pretty shit but honestly, I don´t think that the unmet desire of chasing is the reason for it. Or better said, it doesn´t specifically affect men, rather both genders. In other dating platforms, guys have to text tons of women and don´t get any reply, for the same reason that women don´t get replies on bumble: Online dating just isn´t that much fun, it eliminates the seduction part, the excitment of not knowing if the other one interested. You jump directly to level two, which still can be fun when its about hook ups and casual flirting, but the initial spark is just taken away. The one that is proposed has the upper hand and is usually less keen to put effort into it. Bumble just lets women experience this shit, and guys decided if they want to show merci. Its unusual and therefore uncomfortable.
Moreover, don´t ignore the fact that "matching" causes dopmain release, your body adjusts and wants more and more stimulus, hence more swiping. Thats why people, men and women, enjoy "matching" more than actual meeting. After some time you either get somewhat addicted or board because the intial exciment can´t be reproduced.
Hey. Thank you for watching and commenting :-)
You look fine. Most dating sites don't work for anybody. They used to be alright. I got plenty of dates on them. Made plenty of friends too. Last time nothing. I dont bother with any of them.
As a man, I know exactly how you feel. I sent hundreds of openers only to get NO REPLY.
Welcome to equality and empowerment. Takes a bit of mettle to keep a stiff upper lip after an 80% rejection rate? It's just a part of being the man. Takes some aggressive tendencies that are "toxic", huh?
Thank you for the video 👍🏻 I totally agree with you
Hey, you're welcome - thanks for watching :-)
Great video! You are spot on. I had similar experience on bumble - got responses but never progressed to actually meeting up. Hinge is much better in my opinion! Would love your take on that if you haven’t done a video on this yet. :-)
Hi there! Thank you. I'll have to give it a shot after lockdown. :-)
Lol naaaa, I never wanna message first. I always prefer women to make the first move. But its rare that they do.
So true, I'm female and I hate bumble.
i had met one cool person off of it, its hard for me to make friends. I also had one racist experience off of it and haven't used it since
Hi Heather, glad you met someone nice from it. Sorry you had that experience. That's awful! Have subscribed. X
@True Adam I’m decent at best
@True Adam same to you! Happy holidays!
I have matches in Bumble... and then they do not talk to me... so... no game hehe
Haha. I know right. What's the point in matching if you're not going to send a message!
I matched, would start the convo, I’m the one asking all the questions and I go back the next day and they 1: unmatched/stopped conversation or 2: deleted their profile
@@keylacastillo9853 I would never do that to you
I have the same issues its crazy. Even if I am above average in terms of pretty and get usually noticed at a party I have hardly any match and barely any message on bumble its crazy. Guys are flaky and dare to say disrepectful things. if they do answer they usually ghost me quickly. Or worse they do sexual Jokes as an opening line.
Yeah, that's why I stopped it too :-(
I bet you have a "type" and the ones that are your type either didn't respond, were brief, or just trying to get laid so they made sexual jokes.
I can relate: I get checked out by a good number of guys most times I go out in public. Yet, I’ve tried three different online dating apps and had extremely few messages back on one app, plenty of messages back on another but only one meet up, and okay number of replies on Bumble but they either disappear before long and I’ve had no dates, and I’m often stuck talking to a couple of guys that I’m not keen on
I really think people just don't check bumble but check tinder more
Yeah, I think more people use tinder as both can message.
This is a fact. I hate Bumble specifically for that reason. It robs me of the entire process of valuing a woman.
Do you mean because you can't initiate? Interesting to hear a man's point of view.
Literally because you cannot initiate a conversation, like an adult. I’ve been on Bumble for a year and have never had to the opportunity to message ONE girl I was actually passionate about (at least their profile). That’s such a shitty experience for a Man and no one of the design team cares because Mens opinions don’t matter with this app xD
Please be honest about the type of guy you are actually looking for?
Are any of these profiles you are messaging real or just AI?
As everybody know we still live in an insane world there the only thing people have succeeded with is to be eternal humiliated forever!!!
I experienced the same thing. Would send a message with a question always.
Oh no. That sucks. Sorry to hear that. Yes questions are good. I think the main problem is that the majority of men on Bumble are just lazy/or have no intention of meeting someone. They just use it to pass the time.
@@text_ghost_love men use bumble the way women use tinder.
@@text_ghost_love Most women on dating sites are just their for likes/attention!?
I gave up long time on dating apps... it's too artificial... and even without social media the standards are way too high..
No offence, but I think you're slightly off about why guys 'ignore' you, and it's actually the app's fault.
The app makes money by getting people to pay for more access to matches. The more matches, the more money they make.
This causes them to create 'bots' with fake profiles who will message guys who don't get many matches.
These guys, having been 'matched' to bots again and again, become suspicious of all messages and eventually give up, so when a real message appears, they can't be bothered any more.
The alternative is not to create bots and guys will simply uninstall the app due to lack of success.
Try creating a male profile and see how many 'matches' you get. Somehow a profile with minimal info and no decent photo gets messages from attractive, successful women? Wow, that's incredible. All you'll have to do is pay money to contact them, oh wait, now they're gone as soon as you've dropped coin. Oh well, better luck next time...
Hey, I made this video nearly two years ago. Crazy how time flies. But yes, I have heard about the bots they use now on a podcast that I listened to, as a way to keep men on the app.
I've gone back to Okcupid now.
Dang you were so close to touching on what I thought you were going to say but then you went off in a totally different direction about men loving to be the “hunters” and well I disagree.
For what it’s worth I agree with the rest of the complaints about bumble the top guys just using it as an ego boost and the matches disappearing quickly. Just the first part about biology I disagree with.
No worries thanks for watching.
That’s what I’ve realized based on my experience on bumble
Hey, not sure if you are a boy or a girl! Presume you are female.
But yes, the whole point of only one gender being able to use the app is completely stupid. And it doesn't even let guys reach out to girls they match with!
@@text_ghost_love exactly !! Men are meant to make the first move !! We break the ice !!
Sorry you felt rejected. I felt that way a long time before I met the woman who really cares about me (FB Dating). Keep trying and you will find someone for you.
Aww thanks Steven :-). Do you mean facebook?
Honey, it's probably your after the hot of 2% top men out there. I could be wrong.
The pathriarchy told you so
First of all your beautiful
Secondly I agree with you let the man hunt
It’s out of order I made a profile but once I found out I have to make a move I deleted it
That's very sweet of you. Thank you.
No we don't. We just have to hunt. We get no choice. Woman can afford to be passive. It's not like women don't try. But it's not stressful to look good. But it is stressful to gamble with rejection. You felt it. Welcome to men world.
Actually it is stressful looking good. Stressful and expensive
Sis
Be careful LRG PCT of users are prisoners 😁👍
I'd never thought of that. But could explain why people like chatting, ask for pics and never meet!!! Thanks for the warning.
@@text_ghost_love when you need the real 💯 about em Hollablack
Matches are BS, look for people you like, there is a good chance the person you like is only getting a few messages that are real, and he will be interested in talking to you. Stay away from matches they don't help you.
Another great video!! New subbie 🥰
Aww thank you Dream Girl that's so sweet of you! Thank you.
Came across your channel today. It's good to get a female perspective on different topics. 👍
Thank you so much. Welcome to the channel!
This was interesting. Cheers
Thank you Gokul. Have a nice day!
As is man, I have to say you know what you’re talking about !! I like you, you’re smart 😎
Thank you for such a nice comment. Got me a bit emotional. After a year of people trolling my channel. It's nice to see a positive and genuine comment. Merry Christmas to you :-)
@@text_ghost_love thanks and you’re welcome 😁
The one thing that woman don't understand is that men have to pay for each message, about £2 per message, and woman talk and talk and talk, and also there are now AI which is where you find your self as a man paying to talk to a computer, I would suggest that if you get a reply you should get off bumble and into the real world exchange phone numbers as fast as possible then talk on the phone which is alot cheaper.
You gave up after a week?!? That’s not a real chance I’m sorry. You could easily get a man.
Sounds kinda sexsist what she is telling us here LOL
DUH!
Welcome to a guy's world L💀L I don't use them girl's play games on them😜
Yeah...bumble sucks!!