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Text, Ghost, Love
United Kingdom
Приєднався 24 тра 2017
Welcome to my channel.
I talk about a variety of topics; dating, spirituality, modern society, dream creation and confidence, as well as personal story times.
I hope you enjoy.
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Getting A Friend With Benefits If You Can't Find The One?
How to find a friend with benefits?
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Відео
GIRL TALK: Your First Time On A Dating App?
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Talking about all the different types of men on dating apps.
My Crystal Collection For Heartbreak And Emotional Healing: Beginner Guide + Crystal Meanings
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Starting a crystal collection. Timestamps below: 00:00 Overview 01:57 Red/Orange/Yellow Crystals 04:54 Obsidian 06:03 Green Crystals (Heart Chakra) 11:40 Blue (Throat Chakra) 13:19 Quartz Collection 16:05 Amethyst 16:48 Bronze (Protection) 19:57 Random Ones 22:29 Labradorite 24:00 Conclusion
Why Your Soulmate Can Be Held Back From You?
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It's time to talk about soulmates.
Why Men Love Bomb Then Pull Back?
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Listening to Fleetwood Mac 'Little Lies' whilst uploading this. Trying to understand why men love bomb then do a 180 when they've got you. x
Tinder Ghosts Returning Before My Greek Adventure
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General news update men coming back again?
Why Kings Only Pick Queens? + Why Men Stalk Your Social Media But Don't Approach You?
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A few videos in one as I'm busy.
Discussing My Celibacy Journey
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Talking about my celibacy journey and self-development journey.
I Raised My Vibration And Shifted Timelines
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Switching your timeline by changing your energy.
How To Spot A Player On A Dating App?
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How to spot a cheater on a dating app, or a man that already has a girlfriend.
The Uncomfortable Truth
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I made a TED talk putting all my messages in one video as a channel trailer.
When Male Loneliness Becomes A Problem: Parasocial Relationships With Creators
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Talking about parasocial relationships and how they predominately affect women online. I have disabled the comments on this video.
I Asked A Guy Out On The Train: How To 'Cold Approach" As A Girl?
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A storytime about asking a guy out on the train.
Why Men Ghost?..... (+The End of Vlogmas)
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Talking about why men ghost you? I will be releasing a series of videos every other day up until Christmas. I didn't manage to do one everyday as I still work full-time and finish work at six everyday. I literally threw everything in to this series, filming after work, editing until midnight. I don't want to spoil things for you, but things didn't go quite to plan. I hope you enjoy this series....
How To Get Over Someone?
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The honest answer of how you get over someone. I will be releasing a series of videos every other day up until Christmas. I didn't manage to do one everyday as I still work full-time and finish work at six everyday. I literally threw everything in to this series, filming after work, editing until midnight. I don't want to spoil things for you, but things didn't go quite to plan. I hope you enjo...
Does Game Playing Work On Men In Modern Dating?
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Does Game Playing Work On Men In Modern Dating?
Vlogmas Burnout But Nearly There (Quick Chat)
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Vlogmas Burnout But Nearly There (Quick Chat)
Get A Career First, The Trad Wife Dream Is Dead
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Get A Career First, The Trad Wife Dream Is Dead
Girl Talk: If Men Aren't Approaching You?
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Girl Talk: If Men Aren't Approaching You?
The Importance Of Your Single Season
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The Importance Of Your Single Season
Picking My Office Christmas Party Dress And Being Vulnerable
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Picking My Office Christmas Party Dress And Being Vulnerable
Dating If He Has Kids And You Don't?
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Dating If He Has Kids And You Don't?
Putting Up My First Ever Christmas Tree!
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Putting Up My First Ever Christmas Tree!
Feeling Jealous Of Happy Couples?/ Being Single At Christmas
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Feeling Jealous Of Happy Couples?/ Being Single At Christmas
We Chatted For A Year And He Wouldn't Meet Me!
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We Chatted For A Year And He Wouldn't Meet Me!
I'm Doing Vlogmas To Blow Up My Channel
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I'm Doing Vlogmas To Blow Up My Channel
Why Sending Nudes Won't Get You A Date?
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Why Sending Nudes Won't Get You A Date?
Lasso a horse 😅😜
The kind of man you've been looking for isn't on the left. But you have such hatred for any male that's on the right, you can't even see straight. The man you want for a monogamous long term marriage isn't going to be a Male Feminist. Always enjoy hearing your thoughts.
What about that bloke at work you like?
He left the company ages ago. x
Hello! I've watched a couple of your vidoes and im really starting to like watching your content and listening to you. I feel a bit of comfort knowing that im not the only one going through this nightmare of a dating scene. If i can give any advice, as much as men love sex, they aren't to well read on female anatomy. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders, so when you do find the right guy, be patient with him.
Aww thank you. Glad you like the channel :-)
Erm I know I broke the rules but hey love your videos and been too long. As far as fwb go for it while you’re in control of who to pick rather than as you say settle
Ha, thanks. I don't mind men watching! Just trying to avoid the casual viewer that writes a war and peace rebuttal mansplaining hypergamy to me.
Men can have similar problems. Having a large penis is not as cool as you would think. Having a large bulge all the time and having people stare is really uncomfortable. Swimming in anywhere remotely public requires me to wear a speedo and long swim trunks. The whole time you’re hoping nothing pops out. Sexually, it’s really not that cool. Most guys can just go at it and enjoy themselves. I have to make sure I’m not “rupturing organs”. Theres struggles being a man or a woman apparently!
The pathriarchy told you so
Make it 20 choices, whether yes or no. This might have the opposite effect of forcing you to be realistic about your likes, because if you are too critical you could waste the entire day’s options. If you only have 20 profiles there’s more incentive to give the maybe a chance.
😂 Big d matters more thats why they dont want to date shorter Men..
Really liked this video and the way you explained your perspective! I haven't been on dating apps ever, but I feel your observations may hold true for dating in a general sense. I see, you already have a lot of videos. Keep at it, in my opinion you are very analytic and have interesting things to say!
That's lovely to say. Thank you so much x
Can you not have female friends?
The funny thing is. Everything you say. I can say opposite. I think there is a disconnect between men and women.
i dont think breaking down what you want into a spouse or not would make women the simpler sex... the same could be said about men...
divorced 50/50 dad here lol dating is actually pretty easy if you are honest. dont rush things. dont hold expectations too early. let sex and commitment happen naturally. meanwhile just enjoy getting to know someone and going out and experiencing new things. a lot of your personality was developed with your ex so now you get to find out who you are as an individual
YES! Dear lord YES. Of course, there need to be some attraction. But dear lord. if you are a 10/10 but braindead, I am out of there.
The "rebound" is a odd thing. A brakeup is Ego death for a man. And to build up that ego again is hard. The rebound, the "I can if i wanted", is a unhealthy egoboost, but a egoboost never the less. I am strongly against rebounds. Many women wanted to rebound on me, I said no. Execpt once, the first GF i had. she broke my heart because I was just a rebound. Also when I was younger, or hell little bit today. I like to lead on, flirt but then move back. But Honestly I enjoy female friends. Always had. So luckley with most I built a long friendship with. But there been a few that fell in love with me. And that is cruel. I try to be nice to them and let them down easy. But there is never anything easy once a person is in love. But Rebound sex is a NO NO. I could never, it is one of the crulest things. Even if they had many partners. at least for me, every penetration is permanent.
This whole thing applies for women as well
Proud of you. Sex should not be a must.
Men are not complicated. We want to have sex first ask questions later. MEN ARE NOT COMPLICATED LOVE
I agree that 80% of women want a husband. But you forgot the other side of this. Women don't know what the men THEY want, want. If you are on Tinder you will only see the bottom percent of men. Real men that are a catch will NOT be on tinder/Bumble/Hinge. Please if you want someone with similar values go and get a hobby and join a group of people that share the same hobbies. ONLINE DATING IS A DEAD END.
The issue lays in how dating apps work. "let's say I want a wife" The algorithm will gives me mostly women that is either way above me (meaning they won't swipe right on me) or just women looking for sex. This differs from dating IRL. that is much better, but the issue is. We are very atomized and don't meet many people outside of our circles. So it is hard to find a woman who seeks a husband. I fully agree. Men are super complicated. Also, most tinder dates I went on. The women just want to sleep with me, I don't want it.
80% of females on apps are looking for husbands? Come on girl. Literally over half the profiles are just links to IG, which in turn links to OF. 16 types of men? Holy shit I've never heard such insanity. Women go on and on about toxic masculinity, and then wonder where all the "real men" went. Listen to this woman if you want to die alone.
“80% of the women on dating apps are looking for a husband.” “Some of them men on dating apps just want a wife - STAY AWAY” 🤔
80% of men on dating apps are not looking for their wives. If they were honest, they would not score. So they lie. Also, women are not as simple as, they're looking for their husbands or not. They also have all these issues. We could make videos about the 16 or however many types of women on tinder. Starting with the IG / OF profile advertisers and so on...
It's probably because 80% of women are gushing over the top 20% of male profiles, while 80% of men are invisible to most women. It was bound to catch up to you ladies sooner or later. Most men are done with dating altogether.
Dating sights are perfect for women. All of the attention without any of the commitment and accountability.
Just wondering, has anyone else here used Twinby?
I would totally date you💐
"If a man likes you, he will make time for you." Exactly.
"Busy can be a cover for a lot of things." Agree.
I agree with you. A lot of men rationalize their online activity. Like, "I didn't even meet up with her and nothing happened." You have to be really careful of these ethical discrepancies.
You are spot on accurate with this video.
Thanks for a really balanced view of a sensitive topic. Having been single a few years now and been on a few dates since, both men and women are confused about what they want either to remain single or give love a chance. We are really not as different as people think 💞
"The psychopaths..." Lol, sad but true. Definitely don't go to anybody's house or apartment right off the bat.
You deserve more subscribers. You're a great speaker with great insights. I could have used your videos 5 years ago.
Thank you. I know. I don't think people realise that I still don't get paid for this. I don't make any money off UA-cam. (Get no ad revenue despite ads on my videos). People watch and don't subscribe. I used to get pissed about it, but now I figure, if I'm meant to blow up I will and karma will get them for not supporting me haha.
@@text_ghost_love I'm starting a channel and I know how hard it is. Just keep doing what you're doing and keep talking about what you're passionate about. Getting subs and recognition on YT is a challenge. I really do wish you all the best.
"The divorced man who just wants to f**k around..." You're on point with this.
Thank you for this. I haven't watched the whole video yet but I would also add that this breakdown is applicable to any man who is approaching you online including Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, Snapchat, etc...non dating sites.
Male dating coaches (and some female) keep saying that the reason why men fail with women is that they have "confidence" issues. Maybe but in my experience it's all about the situation. Thoughts?
Well, any female that does dating advice for men is a pure grifter. They don't care about the men they are 'helping' and wouldn't date half of the men in their comment section! I don't think it's to do with confidence personally; people like who they like. It's a sad fact of life and most people have been rejected at some point. If a girl likes a shy guy she'll usually do something to help him out imo as long as he's a decent guy.
@@text_ghost_love I do seem to recall that when I was rejected at work quite a few of my male colleagues told me that they wouldn't dare do what I did.
So you're built somewhat like Liz Hurley - she was dubbed the "Toothpick with Tits" ..😍
Depends on the person, having such a direct approach my scare them. I'll put myself as an example, one day when I was leaving home a girl in a bus stop just approach me and asked for my number, it was so sudden that my first reaction was saying no because I am an introvert person and was some sort of defence mechanism.
Would girls prefer a tall or a handsome man overall? you mentioned them on your video but you did not clarified which one is the one women normally prefer. Also I am curious to know if having a muscles would be and advantage, obviously not a bodybuilder physique but a fit man.
Girls complain about everything i swear!
Thanks for this! I’ve had this same experience in the 1 week Ive been on Hinge and am not liking it. Just tried a subscription and it’s still crickets..😶
Oh no! You'd think the subscription would make things better. :-(
Not my thing but really interesting to get your feelings on how they work for you ❤
It's a sad isnt it, where men are judged as being macho agressors that win the day, that a women just showing interest, giving a man a chance, is seen so much as desperation in the first place. Or just wanting to be in a relationship, is such a dirty word. If you suceed its ok, your seen as you've done what the man wanted, but if you dont, no one ever celebrates a women for just giving it a go. Its a scarlet letter vibe for daring to stick you head out of the parapit. I mean, its not a marriage proposal, your not declaring undying love. Just opening up lines of communication.
If he's worth a lot money these girls would date the wolf man
I wish every single lady would watch this and take it to heart! I'm married but so many of my female friends (seriously from ages 21-65) are always wasting their time on men who meet your definition of a "dusty"!!
Aww thank you. Hoping my channel will get a wider audience soon. Change is coming. X
I am going to be a transgender woman big girls with plastic surgery DDD cup bra BBL lift up to
One thing is very clear, you are getting more and more beautiful with each passing day.
Aww. Thank you :-)
@@text_ghost_loveI agree. U r beautiful. Hey just be ur self.
I’m a 5 feet 4 inches man! I like your accent