Doubt and Denial

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  • Опубліковано 12 сер 2017
  • A lot of people who are asking, “Am I transgender?” are doing so from a place of doubt and denial.
    Most of my first appointments with people involve talking about their doubts and denial. Deciphering what is valid and what is not valid is a challenge without the outside perspective of an expert for some people. Others it can be simple.

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  • @izzysnyder5226
    @izzysnyder5226 6 років тому +234

    I have been struggling for this almost constantly for the past few weeks ever since I admitted to myself that I don't feel comfortable with my assigned gender. This is exactly what I needed to hear and it brought me some clarity within this chaos. Thank you!

  • @paigeturner9847
    @paigeturner9847 6 років тому +147

    Wow. This one speaks volumes to me. Thank you for all your hard work in putting these videos together.

  • @marshiahammock4721
    @marshiahammock4721 6 років тому +179

    I have decided I must become me!

  • @Ezra-gx2oq
    @Ezra-gx2oq 6 років тому +59

    this video is awesome. i miss your videos haha. thanks so much for this. i have very black and white thinking cuz of my upbringing. i've been trying to think differently - like actually getting a therapist and seeing how i feel about it and if i like it - i want to see if i want to go further with this process. i just need to get it through my head; "hey, if u just want therapy it's OKAY, u don't need T, or if u want both or neither, it's OKAY too. i just feel like i'm in a rush cuz i'm 21 and unemployed. i feel deep down i don't want to work or have the confidence to work cuz i'm self conscious about my gender role and name. don't get me wrong, i'm a lazy person by nature but i feel a lot of my hopeless feelings, not wanting to do anything feelings, come from depression and gender dysphoria. i have no self love or confidence to do anything. :/

  • @cleanrooster
    @cleanrooster 6 років тому +72

    Love your videos i am 44 and it took me long time to go on hormones to decide that i Should do it . Thanks for your vídeos very very intersting. Themes that no dr ir physciatric touches

  • @MrTOMXM
    @MrTOMXM 6 років тому +44

    Cool I was looking for this information for a long time, because my feelings are coming back and going away, so i try do discover and explore myself in the various talk therapies. Thanks for help.

  • @tyriontargaryen6475
    @tyriontargaryen6475 6 років тому +77

    But what if you do transition then realise it was a mistake

  • @marianarey621
    @marianarey621 6 років тому +20

    Wow this is a great message

  • @lovethemish
    @lovethemish 6 років тому +16

    Thank you very much for your videos

  • @samanu6850
    @samanu6850 6 років тому +16

    hi .its so helpfull mam..it gives courage to start on hormones and experience our exact feeling ..tnq so much

  • @siegeldude1
    @siegeldude1 6 років тому +46

    I question some of your generalities and I'm a trans woman.