Ghosting Your Wife, He Had a Baby On Me, Gluttony, Old School TV, Men Can’t Paint?

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  • Sisters, your midweek boost has dropped hot off the press! The question is - are you ready for it? From ghosting your WHOLE FAMILY, questioning whether or not men have artistic skills, to ‘clean hoarding’…the sisters are locked in with another hot episode on TMS Hottakes.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 33

  • @oshinofalakoju5749
    @oshinofalakoju5749 2 місяці тому +27

    36:19 the military term is AWOL, absent without leave!! Lol 🤣🤣

  • @sweetandsimple.
    @sweetandsimple. 2 місяці тому +38

    I know someone in this exact situation whose husband randomly quit on her after getting pregnant with their second child. It's devastating because they were inseparable at the start. I think I have a marriage phobia now because these men we fall for turn into people we would've never attached ourselves to. No amount of vetting can protect you from a man who randomly changes on you. It's terrifying

    • @oshinofalakoju5749
      @oshinofalakoju5749 2 місяці тому +5

      Thiisss, you're absolutely right. Sending my love and prayers to your friend who has experienced this. It's a constant reminder that we truly only have control over ourselves, people are free to do whatever they want. Ugh I can't even imagine what that feels like. Is there even real closure for a situation like that?? Insane.

  • @allthingsmihlali
    @allthingsmihlali 2 місяці тому +6

    I totally understand what that women who’s husband disappeared. I kind of had a similar situation with my ex last year, he just left to his country and never spoke to me again, I would call and text and he wouldn’t answer. It’s a painful and confusing feeling, and it leaves you with a whole lot of abandonment and attachment issues

  • @virtuouzgirl8328
    @virtuouzgirl8328 2 місяці тому +4

    Great conversation! The idea of a man ghosting is a terrifying reality cause women are always left with the burden, but what these men sow they will definitely reap.

  • @gl0hen
    @gl0hen 2 місяці тому +12

    it’s really the hair for me sisters, sheesh!!!
    also 2028? stop playing Renee, we want the jingle!!!

  • @jenniferavila2703
    @jenniferavila2703 2 місяці тому +7

    I was one of the South Africa dancers lml its fun hearing ya talk about the trip. I'm jealous of the London girls!!!!! Have fun omg
    My dad was a man who up and left his wife lol crazy when you actually think about it like that. Thank you for putting it in perspective

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  2 місяці тому +2

      Haha we're working on coming back to the states sis, honestly we love it on your sides. And thank you for tuning in, supporting and literally being one of our inspos ❤

  • @ellea2541
    @ellea2541 2 місяці тому +11

    I vote 'What Is This (Nonsense)?!'

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  2 місяці тому +1

      We're listening 👀👀

  • @me-xy6kb
    @me-xy6kb 2 місяці тому +5

    y'all look so pretty

  • @teneacadogan3337
    @teneacadogan3337 2 місяці тому +4

    That dilemma said he told her a month before she sent the dilemma, that guy is shadey, his sneaky link told him from August and he decided to keep it from her until he was sure. He wasn't thinking about her he was thinking about himself

  • @aakshi.
    @aakshi. 2 місяці тому +15

    loving the bi-weekly episodes hehe!!

  • @jade-chan3291
    @jade-chan3291 2 місяці тому +2

    So for the situation at 26:10, I went through the exact same thing. Had two kids with my former husband as well, I need to write a book because a lot more happened as well. However, in NY at least, you still have to show the court that you tried to find the person you're trying to divorce. I actually had to wait a long time before I could find my husband and actually get him to sign because despite filing for abandonment, the court required that I do my "due diligence " in trying to find him before we could be officially divorced. Wild world.

  • @gl0hen
    @gl0hen 2 місяці тому +2

    Did anyone else’s siri respond to Courtney in the beginning? 😂

  • @barbieangel1725
    @barbieangel1725 2 місяці тому +8

    Never clicked this faster! You're doing a fantastic job sisters, I'm always looking forward to a new episode! Thank you for inspiring me always! xx
    Regards from Kampala Uganda🇺🇬

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  2 місяці тому +1

      We LOVE our Ugandan sisters 😍 thank you for sticking around these sides sis!

  • @threejeans6084
    @threejeans6084 2 місяці тому +6

    Hi Courtney, the term I believe you were looking for is AWOL (absent without leave). To go AWOL within a functional marriage is truly heartbreaking...

  • @haileymukoki7017
    @haileymukoki7017 2 місяці тому

    Not my siri pausing the video when Court said “Hey Siri”

  • @ellea2541
    @ellea2541 2 місяці тому +3

    OMG this trip down memory lane .... We really WERE a community Bring it back! Bring it all back! 😢

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  2 місяці тому

      Like asap! We are begging 😭

  • @Skate-1999
    @Skate-1999 2 місяці тому +4

    Sisters, I love yall but I have to disagree with the advice on the first dilemma as someone who has gone through a very similar situation.😢
    Out of all the parties in this very convoluted circumstance, sis you’re the only one with the ability and freedom to leave. I think you should. Regardless of what their relationship was, what it will be moving forward will take some time to settle and be defined. That process is LONG and feelings will be involved because they share something they both love dearly. Especially if it’s both of theirs first child. Additionally, there will be pressure whether internally or externally for the two of them to at least attempt at having the traditional nuclear family and that will be a thought especially considering they had some sort of history. I honestly think it’ll be a mess and you it’s not your burden to stay and pick up the pieces. If it’s meant to be, he’ll come back once the situation is more settled. But as they saying goes, “if the child’s under 1, he ain’t done.”

    • @Skate-1999
      @Skate-1999 2 місяці тому

      Lastly, Plan B doesn’t work if you’re already ovulating, so Miss Baby Mommas could’ve taken it but it didn’t work 🙁

    • @LolSmilez4
      @LolSmilez4 2 місяці тому +1

      I heavily agree with this, especially given that the woman is 24. There’s too much uncertainty in this situation. She should leave

  • @tamiasebopetja
    @tamiasebopetja 2 місяці тому

    Not me being in the same situation as sis who sent her dilemma😭

  • @alriyaad
    @alriyaad 2 місяці тому +1

    AWOL!! LOLOL

  • @monroeblaq7469
    @monroeblaq7469 2 місяці тому

    Hey ladies, I don't see the link for the tickets in the decription box? Xx

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  2 місяці тому

      hey sis! Thanks for spotting, we've now updated it! You can also find them here: www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/step-up-for-ghana-tms-x-the-forth-club-fundraiser-step-aerobics-tickets-878862731087 ❤

  • @gl0hen
    @gl0hen 2 місяці тому +1

    IM SO NOT SURPRISED THAT MAN WAS FOUND IN TEXAS SMH

    • @tomysisters
      @tomysisters  2 місяці тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂 is that where they are all relocating to?

    • @gl0hen
      @gl0hen 2 місяці тому +4

      @@tomysisters it’s the land of all shenanigans i fear 😂