Ghosted By My Fiancé | The Mel Robbins Show
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- Mel talks about the rapid rise of ghosting - the practice of ignoring and seemingly disappearing from your significant other's life.
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If someone ghosts you, consider it a blessing. You wouldn’t want someone like that in your life. They basically did the dirty work for you.
Life's too short to obsess over a guy who couldn't deal with the truth like a man.
@Free Speech All I know is what she tells us. Clearly, she blew him off first but came back to him when "whatever" went to cr@p, ... back to her "castaway" like he should be thrilled. Why would anyone want to commit to someone who didn't see them as their soulmate the first time around?
I've always said it's a waste of time to try and make it again with anybody you couldn't make it with in the first place. Old feelings of resentment, distrust or "whatever" will still be there preventing a successful, blissful relationship.
FACTS!!!
blueshoes915 absolutely, I agree. This is a mess.
quasimobius absolutely people are crazy.
You can get ghosted in a friendship too, it's not always a romantic relationship.
Most likely you know why a "friend" ghosts... I ghosted friends after realizing that they were never friends at all... Nothing left to say 👍
@@thembicosta4394 I've recently been ghosted by one of my best friends of over 10 years. I even asked what I have done and the answer was nothing, just that we're both busy. Might I mention no busier than ever. Oh well.
@@lokisfriend ....The same thing happened to me about 40 years ago and it still saddens me when I think about it. All relationships have expiration dates but sometimes it's best not knowing the reasons and just accept the loss. Their purpose for being in our lives has been fulfilled.
@@msr1116 thank you
irishwench333
Me too ... 25 year friendship. No explanation, no confrontation, no fighting. I noticed a behavior change in her towards me as I became more and more successful.. She had become condescending and negative about my advancements in my business..I would ask her, is there something going on? Had I done something to upset her? She'd always say, no..everything is fine. But, then the ghosting started. She completely cut me off from any invites to get togethers, etc. and then just completely cut me out of her life! I was so devastated! I'm still so hurt, healing is slow. I loved her like a sister. It's been 3 years ...I'm still not over it!
i was ghosted by this guy who promised me the stars and the galaxy lol... but hey atleast i dodged a bullet and its a blessing in disguise.
This earthygirl the trash took itself out.
Maybe he dodged a bullet hence the reason he ghosted yo ass.
@@JJmetaphysics I can agree many people never look into themselves,i was ghosted twice and it forced me to look within, and i realized I was too emotional and i handled stress in a horrible way,i become irrational, argumentative,controlling it wasn't pretty. Then i realized maybe they dodged a bullet and am a horrible woman. So i didn't disturb them again. I cant love people selfishly,the only person i could control is myself. Love is a beautiful thing and i pray that everyone who experiences it in it's fullest potential appreciate what they have.
He only pretended to get back with her to dump her back. Some people will go to extraordinary lengths for revenge.
That's exactly what happened .
I agree. My ex came back and ghosted me again.
She dumped him when he proposed!! She asked for it... How humiliating for a man. He probably got with other women in those 3 YEARS.
@@peterhigginsson9875 What!
@@MrsSlocombesPuddyCat i actually served Mrs slocombe - Mollie Sugden, when i worked on the check out at Tesco in 1998.
Ghosting has no place in adult relationships.
Sometimes ghosting will save your life
@@Omonike88 Of course dealing with an abuser is an exception to that rule. I'm referring to instances where the other person finds that they want something different out of life than their partner.
@@Mitsubachi2529 sometimes you never know who is an abuser. I ghost someone 5 years ago, and I am so happy. He never took me to his home, and always had some excuse why he couldn't. I don't want to get into graphics, but I believe he was homosexual or bisexual. I ghost him. 5 years later, I heard he died. Now, what if I would have continued that relationship? Maybe I would be dead too.(aids)
too many women are dead because they confronted their man about infidelities.
@@Omonike88 Your case is different. He didn't show you any respect so in turn, you didn't owe *him* any respect.
@@Mitsubachi2529 Thanks. Great perspective.
unfortunately, I am hearing so many men who are disrespectful to the woman. I am so tired of this, that I have been celibate after that last relationship I've mentioned.
I'm sure people ghosted each other in the 1500's, 1600's and so on. It was probably even easier without cellphones and social media.
JANEMAN JANI not if you lived in a small village
Ghosting someone who is in a serious relationship with you or engaged to you is horrible I don’t understand how someone can be so cruel all it takes is 2 mins to break up with someone or even less. Poor lady see it has a blessing from God, your lucky you saw his true colours before marrying him. Best of luck Cade.
Ghosting is so obnoxious and rude. It basically means you don't have the balls to interact like an adult and deal with a conflict.
Or they just don't really give a fk.
Elizabeth Booth sometimes people ghost for safety reasons. When you first meet somebody and you think everything is great because they love bomb you and then they text you and when you don’t respond fast enough they’re pissed that you weren’t responding and then accuse you of things that you didn’t even do and you hardly know this person and they have bahaved like this....Sometimes ghosting is an absolute necessity.
I ghost toxic people. I’m not giving people energy who don’t deserve it
Britany B Totally agree! If someone is abusive and you’ve just met them or they stalk text because they think you haven’t responded fast enough and they are angry or drunk that’s it for me. There’s nothing to say at that point. I wasted too much time too on those types thinking it was my fault.
Thirston Howell The Bird and Friends! Exactly why put urself in a emotional roller coaster. I’m not getting on the ride
He wants out of a relationship so bad, that he’d fake his own death. Damn.
Lol 😂 that’s crazy
It’s probably not the first time he’s acted this cowardly.
Lol omg.
of course he ghosted! as soon as they get married all his lies will be revealed
Ghosting isn't just dating, its friends or business contacts also or just anyone in your life. I had a close friend who ghosted me for half a year and then suddenly tried to come back as if nothing really happened. It's one thing if they sent me a message saying "hey I'm not happy with such and such that you've done and I think we need to be apart for a bit or stop being friends" but they just blocked me on everything with no hint of why. Then they come back and expect me to just act like nothing happened. I was friends with this person since childhood which is why it's so weird. I decided not to do the same back to them and tell them I had a major issue with what they did and that if they were unhappy with me they should have at least made me aware of the problem when they knew me for this long. Can't believe adults do this sort of thing.
When you leave for 3 years you can't expect anything. I had a girlfriend that dumped me to date an aquaintence. 5 years later after she had been turned inside out and stomped on she got back ahold of me and was all about what a mistake that was and how she really loved me and how that would never happen again. I told her I would try to get beyond it. A couple years later I was not over it and told her I am just not feeling as forgiving as I thought I might. She immediately ghosted me and was married within the year. When you have seperated from someone for some time don't ever expect things to be what you thought they were in the beginning from either side of the street.
cant go home again
@@MsLuvmusic81
Its never home again. Its different and you know it.
@Rick James
Thats funny....yes I guess so. Subconsciously I must not have been able to accept that because it never did feel right. I had to go.
@Free Speech
I have watched some of those videos but most of the ones I saw were angry men talking about using and manipulating women. People in general tend to be manipulative these days regardless of gender. Doubt in the early 90's MGTOW was even thought of as a movement. I have since studied manipulating tactics and have some recogintion of toxic people in general. Seems the best advice yet is don't ignore your gut feeling about a person. The hair on the back of you neck rises for a reason.
It’s like that saying “you cannot step in the same river twice”
It can also be ghosting if a boyfriend or girlfriend stops all contact for days or weeks and suddenly appears back in your life without apology or a very weak one.
That's called a red flag.
That's a covert narcissist scouting for new supply.
Jenny Gibbons I couldn’t agree with you more.
@@jennygibbons1258 hoovering.
@@lizh4933 yes indeed, that's the return after the scouting for fresh meat absence.
I mean props to the ex husband for being a decent person and looking into this.
I wish my ex had ghosted me when we were talking rather than marry me and cheat on me. 🙄
I SO wish Mel's show was still on. We need her practical wisdom these days‼️
people that ghost in any kind of relationship romantic or otherwise are total childish cowards. If you dont want to carry on with a romance or friendship TELL THEM! At least respect that person by giving them an explanation and closure! so that they can move on.
I just ghosted someone. He made me cry he was so mean. I knew if I didn’t ghost him I’d be abused. I tried to talk to him n he dismissed me n laugh
Some people will have you talk till you're blue in the face, if you have nothing else to say , say nothing ! 👻
Girl, you dodged a bullet! Now you see his true self! Don’t forget it! Go be your awesome self living his awesome life!
I take that ghosting as my closure and move on to something better. I lost any respect for that preson and would not want to waste anymore time wondering why. I think he has no backbone, immature and a coward to tell me in person or a phone call. Next!!!
Men like to chase, it’s their instinct to “hunt”. So if you want a man to want you, please let him chase, sit back and let him figure it out. Now, if he’s a boy, sure, go be his mom and do everything for him. He will love you until you ask for him to be responsible. You want a boy or a man? She is being a mom to this boy and start asking him to be “committed”, it just doesn’t work. Please be the woman and date a man...and consider there’s not much quality men available nowadays, please take care of your own castle 🏰. Trust me, you will be happier that way. And happiness should really be our priority in life. You can do it all by yourself and you are already doing it. Save the money hiring investigators to hunt him down, please. If anyone wants to leave your life? Let them. Rejection is God’s protection!
Gee Lee thank uuuuuu
kaffeine69 A man taught me that when a boy broke my heart lol 😆 we all learnt!
Yesss
@@geelee2964 True! 😊🤗
Nailed it
Both men and women "ghost" people and always have. It really just goes to show, we really never ever know anyone. And that includes someone you're married to. You never know what a person is really thinking.
You are absolutely correct!
@@thekiwisqu33z34 Truth, when people show you who they are believe them
Simply not true. I’m happily married to the same guy for 40 years. He’s never let me down. Not because he’s just SO IN LOVE with me. But because he’s just a fantastic human being. If he wasn’t happy, he’d tell me, and we’d figure out what to do about it. I hope we’re together forever, but only if we’re both happy together, because he’s the best person I’ve ever know, and he deserves happiness.
This is the action of a narcissist - feel blessed you & your girls got away.
Idk. The fact that she had to propose to him wasn’t a great sign.
I ghosted a friend of mine from high school because I saw that the friendship was one sided and I was tired of her fuckery of never having my back when it came down to certain things, so one day I unfollowed her on all social media and when she texted me I simply didn't answer. She finally got the hint and a week later sends me a text saying that she sees what's going on but says she doesn't care for our friendship anyway and "wishes me the best of luck". Still to this day I am happy that she's out of my life because now there is no more drama.
My father did this to us!
I just found his obituary.
It really has done a number on me. I have a problem trusting men and am very single!
Everyone always says,” you are so beautiful, why don’t you have a boyfriend”?
I cringe when I think about him and the other day, I just found out that his father wasn’t his real dad. What a loser!
lisa anderson I hope you heal from this! Wishing you all te happiness in the world.
Yep sounds like my story in a lot of ways. 7 yrs, marriage license, my soulmate, and he left Oct 2020 and I have not come close to recovering. And like you, I am mourning the life we never had, not as good as yours was..just empty promises..no nice get away weekends or anything. You are in disbelief with your situation like I still am with mine.
Ghosting someone is the most immature, cowardly, and disrespectful act anyone can commit! It is Wrong in every sense, it doesn't matter how one tries to analyze it! It certainly is a GINORMOUS reflection of the individual's character, and only that individual's. Someone with these character traits has a deep need for healing. Something is far out of balance, out of equilibrium, emotionally, and mentally. Atleast, that's how it appears to me.
Someone that loves you,wouldn't leave you, Someone using you will leave you.
ghosting is so anxiety inducing and CRUEL. i hope she found a real man
Why is she still giggling and blushing like they are still together?
He probably was hurt when he did everything for her, like leaving work to dig her car out of the snow, and in return she rejected his marriage proposal and broke off with him and then moved away. She didn't seem to realize what she did to him before. The deception made him feel whole again.
I ghosted my partner of 15 years in 2020. We had been together since basically highschool. We had lived together several times before, went to college together and spent every week together. I met a guy in 2019 and realized I wanted to be with a man instead of a woman and didn't have strength to break up with her. I had tried before and each time she cried and was devastated, stopped eating, etc. I didn't know what to do and took the coward's way out. I stopped answering her calls, stopped responding to texts, blocked her on social media and moved. I am now very happy with my partner, and also feel very guilty that I didn't have the character to end things formally. I just somehow feel like her being ghosted is easier on her feelings rather than me telling her I didn't love her like that. I think I'd rather be ghosted than someone tell me they don't love me. Ghosting is cowardly but it also sends the same message a breakup does---with less words and less sting. I still am ashamed of what I did.
@Diamond ok
She proposed with 3 rings? Run for the hills.
J J ....she’s book smart but seems kinda crazy. He ran for the hills and I don’t blame him. 🏃
He didn’t run for the hills, he was MARRIED. Sometimes even jerks who cheat gain a conscience.
😂😂😂😂
@@LeftHandedAquarius I think he was divorced from the other woman and the got back w her and remarried
Does no one see a problem with her first words in describing the relationship as "he was the most dependable man I'd ever met.??" That's a strange way to describe your fiance off the bat. Not the man I loved or the guy of my dreams, but the most dependable 🤔. Sounds like a problem right there... what he did was trash tho.
Terrible for her but good riddance. Anyone that would do that to someone especially when there are kids involved that have grown attached to you and count on you that’s really cruel.
I know everyone behaves differently in traumatic situations but I really don't like the fact that she's laughing so incessantly about this issue. It's like she gets enjoyment out of the attention of her own drama. It's kind of disturbing how giddy she is.
She's probably laughing so she doesn't cry. Sad but it happens.
What the hell do you want her to do? Cry? Then be judged for crying about an asshole. She is on TV. It's nerve wrecking
Well I would expect her to be more serious. You know; kind of like an adult her age might act?🙄 Instead of sharing personal sex texts between them like she's in middle school and giggling the whole way through. It's just weird. She seems very immature.
At least she’s putting a brave face on. What a messed up thing to live through.
Some people are hard to deal with, it can be intimidating to give them information they dont want to hear. There may be signs that they would create an interminable fight, harass, or strike with real harm as a result. We have all seen cases of that, so it's not always a minor thing to just "tell" someone. This lady seems nice but I'd like to hear his side too. I did see the comment where she thought she found someone better but then got in contact with him again afterward, and I wonder if he just felt like the 'dependable' second choice for a woman looking primarily to fill practical needs. Perhaps he made a mistake agreeing to see her again and then found it challenging to find a way out, especially if he was a more submissive type. That may not be the story at all, of course, but it is sometimes uncomfortable to not hear complete circumstances from all sides.
This happened to me too this woman looks so naive just like me
ok I see now ..he was punishing you for rejecting him the first time..well guess what I am going thru that too and even though he denies that is what he is doing,,,its obvious to me
She is incredibly beautiful and I hope that she realizes that this situation is NOT about her. Someone is going to love her, she seems like an amazing person and someone anyone would be lucky to have!
In America it's called ghosting. In the UK / Europe they know the phenomenon as, "Pulling a Pig". They think the prank is funny and it's not. It's cruel so, so very cruel.
Pulling a pig 🐖? I’m in uk never heard of that
so she wanted him when it was good for her . i think he showed her revenge is a dish best served cold
So she ghosted him first and he just got his revenge. Well done dude! 👏👏👏👍
What a great time to be single!
Its always a great time
This sounds like a revenge story to me, for not marrying him when he proposed.
I can see why he was divorced a couple of times. Maybe he found a new love and he left without a trace because sometime it is hard to get rid of somebody when they are so attached or depended onto them so they decided going to go disappear out of the blue
so if this is a term for a romantic relationship,what is the term for a non romantic relationship?I was close to my cousin for over 60 years,suddenly a couple years ago she just wiped me.I can not contact her,I am not welcome.she will not respond to my attempts at contact.I have no idea why?Her mother passes away( my aunt) I was not able to contact her even then and another relative made it clear we were not welcome at the funeral.I am gutted as had always considered her one of my best friends and would have done anything for her
He lied about the cancer - he was going back to another woman
This is more like the double life stories than the ghosting stories
It’s not always about being cruel though. Sometimes it’s an abusive relationship and the person ghosts the other person because they need to get away for their safety.
That’s what happened “you proposed to him you have two kids ! A man doesn’t want to take care of someone’s else’s kids! He was with you while the milk is free!
Nah hes just a coward! Women should be able to propose too but sadly he was a flake.
I don't think this woman was ghosted...I think there were problems right along and at one point SHE ended it for three years! And than after time, it became a long distance relationship, which c'mon...how long would that really work for?! It doesn't even sound as if either one of them were really that real with each other or that together with each other. This is just a case of a break up. It sounds as if SHE led him on for awhile just as much as he may have with her too! They were both phony narcissists...living in their own idea of a dream world!
I agree ..a long distance sexual affair and I know when people disappear and pretend to be dead they know that the other person is persistent or dangerous thats why they go to the extremes ..I have done almost the same saying I m seriously ill to someone who was a very hot tempered person ..
If he proposed first, she should have already said yes if she knew he was the one. Seems like all she cared was about her Ph.D. They went their separate ways for 3 years and then she proposes to HIM??! Warped. It was over when she denied his proposal. Periodt.
@@ceecee8757
I agree. If he meant anything to her she would have loved him enough to let him move on with his life without strings from so far away then been happy for him when he found someone.
All of you saying she should have accepted his proposal the first time if he was her soulmate have a valid point.
But that does not justify him agreeing to rekindle their relationship while having a secret wife and then making up a story about his cancer returning.
Focusing on the ghosting has done a disservice to this story. This story is so much worse than ghosting. It’s about deception.
Maybe she shouldn’t have started dating him again. Maybe she was foolish to propose. That doesn’t make him the victim here, though. He still lied to her.
FYI: Ghosting isn't exclusive to any certain type of relationship.
Best show/episode ever!
When Mel cuts her off at the end lmao
I don't feel like that's the whole story but I mean, yeah, it sucks that ghosting happens. I also feel like there's no going back from a failed marriage proposal. That automatically ends things for good imo
This is pathetic! Using a terminal illness for ghosting? Worse than a coward!
There is always another side to the story. I'm a bit sceptical of this lady. She seems to enjoy playing the victim card and all the attention she's getting. kinda reminds me of my narcissist mum.
Agree 100%
Ghosting Is My Oldest Sister!
I Was The 3rd Of 7 children,
She Abused Us & Was A Nut!
Now As Adults She doesn't
Even have the "baLLs" to Talk
To Us! The Audacity Of Some
People!!
It's better is happened now than a few years from now.
she is so funny and vivacious
She seems like a lovely lovely lady his loss not hers she can do better 🇦🇺💕
I too can relate to the feeling of morning..I used that term too describing how I feel about losing him
Happened to me and hurt like hell.
“Sentencing hearing” 😆😆😆😆😆
Probably he was vengeful, because she said no first! ? But how rude, you don't do that to anybody.
She Ghosted him first, a hurt man never forgets
Wow good for her!! But it’s a shame this guy wasted so much of her time 😢
She had to mention PHD several times and she's a professor....she put her career first and of course the girls. So he went back to his first wife....he did not do things right that's for sure, but I'm sure there is more to this story than what we are hearing. It's only one sided here. I just feel bad for the kids who loved him and were innocent in all of this.
Candy Smith yes, I agree... this woman is nuts, who goes to that link to get a PI... seriously? She dropped him first.. it didn’t turn out like she wanted and she became a woman scorned
I would have ghosted that wagon, too.
If I would have been ghosted. I probably just would have just written to the wife and presented the facts and then told her I had gotten an STD from her husband and that they both needed to get tested or I would have sent her a copy of a sonogram that I found online and said I was pregnant and keeping the baby and naming him Gasper.
*HOST IS HORRIBLE* Let the woman finish her sentence! Jesus!
Do not propose to men
Been there ..it was very mean ..no closure ..just gone ..for my friend ! Thats alright ..karma is real
She did such a brave thing!!!
When you told him NO when he asked you the first time to marry him.... I wonder the was hurt and felt used. Then it was pay back time
I think he took revenge for rejecting him the 3 years prior
This guy was a Sociopath. It's heartbreaking the things they do to people.
How someone just do this to his former ex-girlfriend? wow!!
@Free Speech Nah, It's not going to happening to me and I'm already married for Pete's sake!! haha!!
My dad ghosted me when I was 9.
😞❤
HIS LOST!!
🥺
She Duped him. Does she not see how she treated him and now she was ready to have him back with ALL her EXPECTATIONS and she proposed to him. She wants to be the dominate spouse. Sad. Not equal. Dominate.
Men leave as soon they’re is something inconvenient for them. Women stay and try to fix problems.
Z B Exactly lol!
Here is how I say it's over to someone.
I will pick a fight, a big one. Then I will make sure he is so upset and curse at me.
that's it. I hate cursing.
It is easy to break up with them when they do what pissed you off so much so, you want to throw them in a tank of Shark.
How tf do you date anyone after this i got ghosted after 3 years she got ghosted after 7 years and they were building a fuckin house....whoooo do I trust. Literally myself.
If a man wants to marry you HE will ask!!🤨🙄 don't be a foolish woman!!
Good thing is - she taught her daughters what NOT to do.
Why is it we need to wait for a man to ask?
ChilliepepperZ D because they are the pursuers. Don’t fool yourself and don’t end up like this woman. Be the prize!
Wish we could see him
so...she proposed? red flag, sounds like he wasn't ready second time round. maybe she wasn't ready for the ghosting but sometimes u can tell when someone is still interested in the relationship. plus it was long distance and he LIED about his death wtf...girl mmm
Fleur Welcome to 2020. In a healthy relationship women should be able to propose.
Good for her I'm so proud of her.!!!
Women!.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@Rick James what's why we are call women.... We are special and unique 🎉🎉❣️ I Love being a woman, God made us special.
Best to you 🤗🤗
So convoluted. Well you made the choice originally you weren’t interested and then when the person leaves wonder why. People are a mess. Sickening. Why is this even on my news feed? People are sick.
Sounds like to me, she dumped him first, he got even with her.. he thought oh, so now you want me back... sounds like she kinda got what she might have deserved
Tess S just because she didn’t felt ready initially does not mean she deserves it
Raqui M She DUMPED him, moved, and didn’t want to continue a life with him. She wasn’t willing to work on the relationship Seems to me she just went in with her life with no consideration for him and then suddenly after a period of time she wants him back. Granted, no one should play games but, she seemed to act as if she was in charge, making all the decisions without consideration of him, then wants him to jump through hoops. Yes, if I were in his shoes, I would have simply told her I had moved on with someone else. We are only heather side of the story, and he felt dumped.
Tess S you really don’t know much about the relationship to make soo many assumptions. I feel that ppl that have been rejected demonize the other person because they feel entitled that the other person has to feel the way they do when they feel it. She had been through a marriage maybe she was scared to go through it again. They found each other again and he could have been honest and said hey I’m married now but instead he went along with an illusion. People are always looking for a place to shift blame and be angry. It’s not like she went after him begging or something. She saw that feelings were still there and they rekindled. It happens all the time but you sound bitter and angry. Ppl are entitled to feel how they feel.
Raqui M I don’t feel you read what I said, if you had, you would realize that I didn’t condone what he did to her. Personally, I said I would have told her if I were in his shoes that I had moved on. I don’t agree with people playing games. Simply, given her situation she wanted him back, folks should be honest, but, on her interview she acted as if she was in charge of the relationship.
For the record, I have a relationship I have been for 20 plus years.. I know plenty about relationships and honesty. When you make a choice, and years later expect a do over, be prepared... not everyone is willing to forgive.
Love of animals for us is truly a blessing of God. They are so loyal..
I think.Jesus was born..who surrounded him?? Animals of every kind. Innocent helpless our duty not to cause them suffering desert them or cage or eat them.
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I dont understand how naive and in denial women are, or is it just an entitlement issue? Men only use you when you get older and are over weight, clearly he was just using her for something, comfort, money... who knows exactly what. When someone younger or hotter came along, he disappeared. Why do women act so shocked and confused? She also proposed to him, you cant get more desperate than that. Men want to pursue they are turned off by needy women and they prefer young women they only settle for older.
Plot twist...he already had a wife
Bless you
children do it to parents too
Safe ... secure relationships?? ......... mean ..... as much as possible ?? You are honest with yourself & your partner.
And that's why long distance relationships are not a good idea..!
It's emotional distance that matters. Long dis relationships work with two honest people.
@@RainbowInBloom That's actually true! I know a interracial couple who have a cross continental marriage and are incredibly happy!
She should have just walked away when she found out she was the other woman. Why ‘detail’ the affair to his wife and cause her pain? Why? Because she wanted to destroy him and his marriage. Based on the energy she put in after finding out the truth, I guarantee this woman would have taken him back had he left his wife. Women of age, it’s okay to be without a partner. You might enjoy it!
Some weeds pick themselves.
Yup!
The realest comment ever
You are so right.
Wuuuuu i like this
"A man's rejection, it's God's protection"
Amen I love that
Amen." There but for the grace of God ,go I"
Amen.
❤️LOVE this!!! ❤️
A boy a man wouldn't act like that period
How to lose value in his eyes : propose to a man.
a lot of the comments did not realize she said he proposed a few years in and she said no. From that point there was confusion.
When I'm ghosted I remind myself, "Other people's rejection is God's protection."
Yes! That is one of the best pieces of advice I ever got.
I hypnotize myself to forget them. Lmao
i told a friend the same thing this week....
👍🏻👍🏻 one
She proposed? no no noooooooo 🤦🏻♀️
And the last 2.5 yrs were long distance. Makes it all the easier to disappear. She never should have proposed. That's not how its done.
Women can propose!
kaffeine69 when I heard that part I nearly spit my tea out my mouth please ladies never propose to a man! 😫😖😖😖
Why can’t women propose? It’s year 2020! Don’t judge others!
I actually proposed to my husband years after I had said no to his.. I figured that he deserved that so I did it in front of our all our family and friends. It was incredible!