falling into love. (alan watts) free audio
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- Опубліковано 11 жов 2018
- an audio i made with alan watts’ speech “falling into love” put together with ‘get you the moon’ by kina, so all rights to both of them:) also gifs aren’t mine, just found them on tumblr to put in the video for context, so rights to the makers of the gifs as well. you can use this audio if you desire to.
Well now really when we go back into falling in love. And say, it's crazy. Falling. You see? We don't say "rising into love". There is in it, the idea of the fall. And it goes back, as a matter of fact, to extremely fundamental things. That there is always a curious tie at some point between the fall and the creation. Taking this ghastly risk is the condition of there being life. You see, for all life is an act of faith and an act of gamble. The moment you take a step, you do so on an act of faith because you don't really know that the floor's not going to give under your feet. The moment you take a journey, what an act of faith. The moment that you enter into any kind of human undertaking in relationship, what an act of faith. See, you've given yourself up. But this is the most powerful thing that can be done: surrender. See. And love is an act of surrender to another person. Total abandonment. I give myself to you. Take me. Do anything you like with me. See. So, that's quite mad because you see, it's letting things get out of control. All sensible people keep things in control. Watch it, watch it, watch it. Security? Vigilance Watch it. Police? Watch it. Guards? Watch it. Who's going to watch the guards? So, actually, therefore, the course of wisdom, what is really sensible, is to let go, is to commit oneself, to give oneself up and that's quite mad. So we come to the strange conclusion that in madness lies sanity.
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*falling in love with someone who doesn't feel the same is the worst*
*agreed...*
Yup
That‘s why we‘re all here :\
Tony Harker right 🚶🏾♀️
Fuck this man fr fr i hate this rn part of me wants to cry and die when i wanted to give her the world and other part of me wants to get up and show her what i could have done
My mom didn’t sign the permission slip for this feel trip
Dayne 2657 🤓 I like that one
Bro Are U Fr People Like Me Are In Here Have Been In Relationships For Years And Going Through Heartbreak And Ur Out Here Get Tf Outta Here
@@buildz7758preach
This comment deserves thousands of likes.
That's nice
I’m not crying at 2am listening to this in the dark feeling oh so alone.
why is this literally me omfg
jen fanatic this is me tho ;-;
👌 s a m e 👌
Same. 12:46am
Well I am crying but ya know we thriving
Hey you!
Yes you
Stop scrolling
Breathe
Relax
And please just listen to me..I know how you feel..we all know how it feels but pls don't give up everything is gonna be okay..
I love you❤
Still Ballin u legit made me smile, i love u.
Thanks I really needed that I will give the rest of my love left too you I am sorry there’s not much left it’s all I have I believe you need it and so I give you the rest of me
😊💖
Thx 😘😍❤💋
thank you.
Maybe if I fall in love with my depression
It will leave me too
mine never left me and my pro officer said its okay to be sad for little time. not for 14 years though. I feel like a lot people or even everyone has depression if you think about it.
I wish this was true
Dumb_asf no... sadness and depression are two different things
Moonlight metaphors exist
Thegrejdj they weren’t using a metaphor... they were comparing and they were wrong
“Love is an act of surrender to another
person”
Is the realist thing I’ve ever heard.
lol middle schooler
Brianna Gonzalez nah I’m not in middle school kid I’m 17, it’s just a very true thing In my opinion
Brianna Gonzalez you’re the middle schooler if you think that this isn’t the most realest thing ever to be said about love
Yeah word I'm 16 and I almost cried lol cuz its true
Dunklock owl plays zander dadios
Exactly! thanks you guys 💓
*falling for someone who has feelings for your friend hurts.*
hopelvesstbh/ don’t worry, I know that feel too..
I fell for someone who fell in love with my sister 💔
Rxsez 🙂frl!!! Then all u fo is see them slowly fall in love
Andrea Lopez same but with my brother, but crazy part is that after months of crazy emotion for this person and with it all settling down to disgust she then told me she loved me. Now I don’t really know how to show affection idk it’s weird but I ended up telling her not to love me in comfortable alone. sry for venting on UA-cam
I like my best friends boyfriend.... but I’m not a bitch I leave their relationship alone and let them be happy because I know what it feels like to get my back turned on and stabbed with my recent ex..
Psychological fact: You were thinking about someone while watching this video. Someone you have fallen in love with.
Light i was thinking about how im not in love with someone omg
my ex boyfriend, yes
I don’t think I’ve fallen in love with them, I think I’ve fallen in love with the image I’ve made in my head about them.
Man I was thinking about anime characters haha
B R I ._. we learn the hard way, i hated to admit it was true
with this audio... there is always that one person. you think about
Agreed
You are actually correct:(
Exactly😖
right, my ex:)
I won’t lie. She’s beautiful. Anyone can call her anything to stop me. They can tell me anything. No matter what I will see past it. She left me 2 months ago. There hasn’t been a day she left my mind. I will trade really anything for her to be “mine”. 💔
*It’s completely dark in my room and there is a thunder storm outside while I’m listening to this...*
*I’m not crying...you are*
Termeh Aslian ❤️
I’m crying and so are you
Tate DiCo .....shhh they don’t need to know...😂😭😭😭
How'd you know I was crying
Sergio Moreno it’s a super power 😂😭
The crazy thing is that he’s just speaking logic.. it’s literally nothing special but the truth.
Grace Fields the truth is special ;)
And that in itself is special
except that it’s never spoke
Grace Fields the special part is the fact that he’s telling the truth when everyone else is lying to themselves
Thats whats so great about Alan Watts he explains everything in a way that seems so logical amd you can understand everything all of a sudden and that to me shows thag hes a genius because the better you are at something the easier it seems to others in my personal experience
Mom: go work at Mac Donald’s and care for yourself.
Friends: dude stop being a cry baby.
*Music: Hey, is everything alright? Don’t worry you’ll be safe soon.*
take care !! i don't what you might be going through but you can do it !
i believe in you.
It’s so true it hurts ❤️
Marshall Clement those aren’t fucking friends
shit felt that
@@deborah5646 true :' /
Me thinking to myself: This guy's insane
*_But he's also a genius_*
Chloe Hepperle rightttt
Alan watts is something else. He's amazing with words, he has a ways to put words on thing that are so difficult to explain
Get you the moon and alan watts is an all time emo collab
Skye Shaver bro i know i was so emo when i made this
Skye Shaver I knew I recognized snows voice in the background
So u literally saying that the author alan watts is emo or what lmao ?
I'm afraid I'll never find true love, and that's painful too
Heyy, trust me, you will. I recently did too. I never thought I would, I'm not like other boys, I'm a bit more fat than others, I don't have a good hair or anything and I don't like me for who I am. Yet, she was the one who accepted me for who I truly am. She could've chosen any hot guy in school, but... she chose me... You'll find someone too, you really will.
@@justinkempkes1313 good story itll help others
True love come when you need it not when you want it ❤️
At 16 years old i find my true love, you dont have to find it immediately 😂
same. Like, I feel like nobody could ever really love me
I hide my pain so much. I'll be balling my eyes out and when I hear my mom coming down the hall way I wipe my tears and put a smile on my face. I'm so hurt, I recently lost my best friend after 8 years and I can't get over it. I'm fucking broken man, I hate the person I've became.
Same
Crying every night
I felt like that for such a long time, I became depressed after I began getting bullied and my girlfriend broke up with me.. I felt like there was no one, I wanted to end it all on the spot, but I got help for my issues and it helps, trust me. Go see a therapist, they really do help, I hope you get better!
Just keep on going you'll be ok Believe in yourself
shayla Vallee do you need to talk? if so please add me on snap : friskysponge
i’m in love w my bestfriend who passed exactly a year & a day ago today due to being murdered for protecting his mom , he was only 16 and his sister & mom were also murdered 💔
I'm really sorry for you😔 He must have been a great person 😟
Zoe Zwaka thankyou so much , he really was 💔
Wow that’s deep ❤️
That's so sad to hear especially since I'm in love wit my bestfriend and I'd do anything to protect her and couldn't deal wit it if sumthin happened so your really strong and keep yo head up
emma marie I am so sorry ❤️ I will say a prayer for him tonight and I bet he is in a better place and I bet he is watching over you! And if ur not religious that is okay too but I just wanted to let u know he’s in a happy place :)
This is beautiful. Painful, But beautiful.
milo oh yeah yeah oh yeah yeah
Man what is happening to world i only see ppl using arnolds picture wth?!?!?!?
Alen Basic Ik I always think it’s the same person but if it’s not.. it was kinda special ig, till you pointed it out
@@Nexus16543
The world is changing
And it's getting sadder and sadder every second and it's not going to change
@@Toxic-ev1xg hahahah i hope it would get better May Allah help us all in our difficulties and hardships through this life and other Ameen
I just love his voice it’s.... comforting
@Sintacul no that’s literally Alan watts lol
Fr it’s so calming😩
@Halters bro, it's Alan watts
“Love is an act of surrender to another person” it hurts but it’s so true
"Human touch, we need that from the ones we love as much as we need air to breathe." - Five Feet Apart - Stella
I didnt get to see that movie but i wanted to is there a happy ending? did one of them die?😓
Purple Rain I will not say who, unless you’ve already seen it. But no spoilers without consent
Purple Rain just watch it
That hit me right in my heart
Hail Satan you have my consent
Well I have no faith in the word love anymore.
Love sucks.
Hearts break.
Tears fall.
Feelings come at you
like a rushing fire
Looks like you're going through a tough time doesn't it well listen life will get better and that's a promise you may have gotten heartbroken or left you may have f***** up they may have f***** up but it doesn't matter you can be depressed for a moment but you have to move on you have your whole life ahead of you. Find someone else that can replace that spot I feel your pain and I feel your heart but listen sometimes it's best to move on you can't just stay depressed the whole time if you ever need me I will be here I will give you my scram my snap just so you have somebody to talk to just because I don't like seeing other people be hurt
My @ for everything is gavyn.depaul
What sucks is how many people use that word. Love. Especially when they don't know what it is.
Stand back up, there's so much more love out there. More people who are willing to give the best love that you deserve. Dont give up now.
CULT KTD I have no faith in love anymore either
Love sucks
Hearts break
Lives are lost
Lives crush
People leave
Tears fall
Tears rush
Like a rushing fire
And my heart can’t take no more so I have given up on love I more heart brake and I’ll be broken and give up
Well now really when we go back into falling in love
And say, it's crazy
Falling
You see?
We don't say "rising into love"
There is in it, the idea of the fall
And it is goes back as a matter of fact
To extremely fundamental things
That
There is always a curious
Tie at some point
Between the fall
And the creation
Taking this ghastly risk
Ah, is the condition of there being life
You see, for all life is an act of faith and an act of gamble
And the moment you take a step
You do so on an act of faith
'Cause you don't really know that the floor's not going to give under your feet
The moment that you enter into any kind of human
Undertaking in relationship, what an act of faith
See, you've given yourself up
But this is the most powerful thing that can be done, surrender
See, and love is an act of surrender to another person
Total abandonment
I give myself to you
Take me
Do anything you like with me
So, that's quite mad
Because you see it's letting things get out of control
All sensible people keep things in control
Watch it, watch it, watch it
Security?
Vigilance
Watch it
Police?
Watch it
Guards?
Watch it
Who's going to watch the guards?
So, actually, therefore, the course of wisdom
What is really sensible, is to let go
Is to commit oneself, to give oneself up and that's quite mad
So we come to the strange conclusion that in madness lies sanity
The moment you take a journey, what an act of faith
Just when I ｔｈｏｕｇｈｔ I found a
ｒｅａｓｏｎ to wake up.
ｉ ｌｏｓｔ ｉｔ．．.
That’s deep 💔
this makes me sad because i know that no one has ever felt this way about me :/
Brooklyn Koellner don’t worry, the perfect one will come. Stay positive
It’s okay, I’m the same way
same i just went trough a crazy break up no one will actually love me
Fr😂same
Same :( I don’t think anyone will feel this way about me🤧
I was thinking of the one special person the whole time during this...
Blueberry G same my dude
Ttv Night same my dude
Blueberry G same bro, I know how you feel.
Yup.. same here boys
Same😣
"Falling in love is like giving someone a loaded gun pointed at your heart and trusting them not to pull the trigger"....
im the one who shot
@@oh_knee7173 you've broken a heart. Sigh
He didn’t pull the trigger for two years. But then once he did, he killed me.
I’ve watched this video to much that i think it’s illegal
I miss him so much and he doesnt even remember who I am.
I know I’ll think about him every day but he’ll forget me in a day
I remember ❤️
back in 3rd grade, i met a boy. we became best friends and i had feelings for him and i didn’t know if did too. one day at lunch, we were sitting down and he looks at me all nervous and i look at him, and he asked me “willll you go out with me?” while tilting his head. and i literally just stared at him, i was speechless for some reason and then a couple seconds later he’s like “just kidding eric wanted me to ask you” and i look at eric and eric is eating his hamburger and he looks up from his hamburger all confused, he wasn’t even paying attention to what was happening. anyways so i knew that was an excuse bc my dumbass didn’t give him a respond and i wanted to say yes but i just stood there. anyways a couple months later, they were making him switch to another classroom and i forgot why. i was so sad bc he was my bestfriend and we had so many good memories. but i thought that even after he switched out of our classroom, we were still gonna talk. but i was wrong. after he switched we completely stopped talking, i would see him in the hallways and we just didn’t acknowledge each other. he started hanging out with the “cool” people and ik we were only in 3rd grade but that shit broke my heart, he had a girlfriend and new friends and i was sooo upset. one day during breakfast, he wouldn’t listen to a teacher so they moved him to sit somewhere else, they made him sit in front of me, and he looks at me and says “i did not want to sit near you” he says that all angrily. and i look at him and i say “i don’t wanna sit with you either” and i left the table and went to class. anyways, i dreaded the last part of the year, i hated seeing him because i would always miss what we had, i literally to this day i don’t know why he stopped talking to me, he hated me for some reason and i have no idea for why and ik he hated me bc he would always act rude towards me whenever i saw him. 4th grade comes along and we’re still not talking. one day, he stopped coming to school. he left, and i haven’t seen him since that day. and i was so upset because i missed him, i hated how we ended and i wanted another chance with him. he left without even saying goodbye to me which broke my heart even more. anyways i still think ab him to this day, he was my everything back then. i don’t even know where he’s at, he literally just vanished in the middle of 4th grade. but i low key miss him, his personality was just one of a kind, 5 years later (rn) and i still haven’t found anyone with the same personality, we were such best friends ugh i miss him sm
i feel u all the way bb
shamelessxroyalty
Feel you and understand you more than anything this past month
Me:”Hello tiktok”
Tiktok:”welp lets just take this sound”
Stitch Vlogs wait what is this a sound now?
Ali Caringola yesssss the first seconds are trending!!
yo yo omg where can i find this
Ali Caringola tik tok😂 btw this is rlly good!
Jackie Martinez ahahaha thank u i just wanted to see if they could pull up a link so i could see it 😎
“There is only on who is powerful, and his greatest weapon is love”- Stan Lee
Person: "What's your biggest fear in life?"
Me: "Not finding that special someone..."
“I hope you fall in love, and it hurts so bad, the only way you can know, you give it all you have,
and I hope that you don’t suffer, but take the pain, I hope when the moment comes you’ll say
I lived”
Sharmane W the arty remix is ❤️
the song is so true because it feels like torture just knowing someone you love is with someone else
Thank you for that, that is lovely. Is it part of the song's lyrics? I didn't really pay much attention to the music...
@@jay-leebusque-blackburn6747 it's from one republic - I lived
this is one of my favourite songs in the whole world, you really blessed my day
This audio hits me harder than any other audio ever has.
Who’s crying their selves thru new year? mee🙋♂️
Falling in love of trusting someone with a part of yourself and believing that they aren't going to destroy it
i was in love with him and he told me he felt the same, but he threw everything away. he missed out on someone who would have given him the entire world.
kylie exactly . His loss
same :/
Usually I'm the kinda boy to always smile and make others happy and that's my main goal so when I'm not feeling happy I hide it so they can be happy and this is crazy to say but I loved someone who told me he loved me so o fell for him but after a while he got a girlfriend and left me in the past
Yeet Delete i’m sorry i hope u get someone better because everyone deserves someone sm better. i know what it’s like but trust me one day u will find someone
I feel you
Oml 😭😭
Me too
Yeet Delete i love you💕 just incase no one told you today
Its called a crush because thats what they do to your heart . 💔
falling in love but scared of commitment because of the past , but when you see that person moving on it stabs my soul
don’t know if anyone will see this, but let me know if u have any video recommendations. tryna make a new video soon :)
Ali Caringola about a boy saying he misses you and you miss him but he’s confusing
Kinda .. Romeo and Juliet
Maybe another Alan Watts audio with some lo-fi song in the back
how it feels when u are in love with someone but are too afraid to tell them
Best friend related stuff or internet friend stuff❤️
Being afraid to love
Falling in love with someone who says they feel the same when they don’t is the shittiest feeling. That feeling of false hope. The feeling of wanting but never getting.
*Falling in love with someone that doesn’t feel the same is the worst*
here’s my story
We were so friendly when we first met we got along right away and understood eachother... 4 months later he told me he had to move and we kinda opened up to eachother telling eachother about our lives. i miss that because i found out that he liked me those days when we first met but said that he just got over it like nothing. and i’m on the other side realizing that i really truly loved him. now that he’s gone 1,300 miles away we won’t talk often and he’ll get used to the school and place he’s at and i’ll just fade into a memory that’ll seem like he never even had. *it’s the scariest thing.*
Did he truly mean it when he said he got over you quickly or did he say that so you wouldn't hurt over him and move on your with your life and be happy as that's what anyone truly wants for someone and that's to be happy. What if he's 1300 miles away listening to this song on repeat just like you. Try and speak to him you never know. Take the fall.
@@MinecraftBorn2pvp so beautiful. You are truly kind stranger 😭❤
@@redditreader9875 I wrote it from my heart. The butterfly effect is amazing. Take care my friend and thank you for the nice comment ^-^ xx
God shut up. Stop seeking attention. Nobody cares
i’ve been crying for 2hours 😭 i really miss the good ol’ days, the good memories spent with a special person that left me 😔🍃💔
GotBusted I wonder why she broke up with you
Maybe cause you play fn ?
And you have a fn pfp
always has and probably always will be my favorite audio to listen to. its not just the message that touches me its the he says every word and the 1960s' vibe i get while watching.
Lincoln I get an astronaut vibe from this idk why
Falling in love with someone who is already with somebody else is pretty painful
I know how u feel. Same thing is happening to me right now
Isbel Soto
God always has a plan for everyone. Trust me, I’ve been there. Even though I haven’t really loved anyone, I’ve lost friends and God always had a plan for me. When a door closes a new door will always open, always remember that. 💞
Pretty Reckless yeah ok👀 I’m a minority within a minority being black and gay, and your telling me your god has a plan to keep me from a 4 year depression I’ve been in? I see these successful UA-cam couples who can travel the world to see each other but where is that for me? Where is your god then?
i’m going through this right now :,)
I feel that
Having to force yourself to not love someone anymore since this person no longer needs you.... is by far the worst feeling for me
If life is hard... dying must be easy💔
Come on down here to hell. It ain't all that bad. We get our daily punishments around 3AM and the rest is just free time to haunt ppl or spend in the bar
Word of advice don't watch this while on your peirod 😭
wait what can happen
Lmaooo I’m abt to start so it hurts!!!!!!!!!
@@kadencepierce2930 lol the first few days are the worst 😰😣
@@user-zl3bd8uz3i what do u mean?
RIGHT!!!!
I legitimately cried at the end not because of love because it’s true life is crazy I can’t put it in words what I feel.
TheMrMussolini I know exactly what you feel, I can’t describe it either but it’s freakin overwhelming
i’m so glad you said that. i’ve been feeling that way for so long and i cant explain to anyone how i’m feeling. so i just keep it inside and it’s killing me
Whem you fall in love you lose yourself obviously you find a new version of you but you lose your old self too thats why it hurts so much whem it ends. We have not only lost the old version of ourselves but also the new one they built for us
I love the comments under this sorta video’s it is always so sweet and ‘happy’ but also depressed so you can relate to things❤️
I’m going to take a huge leap of faith. I’m going to tell the person I like that I like them. I’ve fallen and it’s their choice to help me up....
or not.
Edit: They helped me up.
Congrats man. Good job
If you’re for for real I wish you all the genuine best seriously fu*king nice one congrats 👍
The edit killed me I’m so happy for you😭
:)
Hope you guys are doing well
The song is "Get You The Moon By Kina(ft. Snow)" for all of you wondering💙
love is an act of surrender and that’s why it hurts so bad when your left broken and alone
The first time I watched this I was single and I damn near cryed myself to sleep that night and now months later I am in a relationship and rewatching it makes me think about how much this audio has impacted my life for the better
You know what’s strange? I don’t think of anyone when I listen to this. I’m not tied to anyone or longing for anyone. I’m content being by myself. I’m okay with just me. I loved the audio when I heard it and wanted to listen to the whole thing.
Love is something we can’t live without on this earth. We wouldn’t survive without it. However, being loved by the right people is what is most important and the fact that no one comes to mind when I listen to this means that I’ve finally reached the place I’ve longed for the most. That place is being brave enough to say that I have to love myself before anyone else and I think I’ve finally found that.
Brittato I wish I can relate
You are amazing thank you for this
This is beautiful
I thought you were lying at first by saying you were content by yourself, but that statement was well explained. As an extremely introverted person who always wanted to live on an island by himself, I can say, that this view is naive and everybody wants to have the super strong human connection with another person that exceeds the connection with your own blood family. I hope you come to love yourself and then love another.
It's fooled me once. I feel in love with you, but you lied, tricked, and betrayed me. I moved on
It's fooled me twice. I fell in love and you wanted to 'just be friends'.
It's fooled me thrice. I fell in love, she lost interest in me, and fell for someone else.
Love could be a gift, but for me it has been endless pain. Yet I still wear a smile, even if it's fake. I pretend to be strong, even when I'm weak. Because I'm a guy so I "can't show weakness"
So I keep my pain locked away. No one sees it, but I have to deal with it. Dying a little more everyday. Sitting. Watching. Waiting. For what you may ask? I'll wait for love in it's truest form. It may never come, but I'll be here.
Waiting...
Dead_Memezz this was deep man
Man i m exactly in the same situation and can not tell anybody cause i m a boy and need to be strong... :(
I feel you. I fell in love with a girl who played with me because of that love, for 5 years she strung me up and tortured me and it’s taken this long to be okay thinking about it. Recently I fell in love again with a guy who was everything to me, he lost feelings and now stares at me from the back of class rooms. We broke up about a month ago now and I haven’t even looked him in the eyes since, I can’t look directly at him. It’s hard, going through all of this, trust me I know. It’s such a common saying but it will get better. As time goes on you’ll be able to look back on these loves with your soulmate in your arms and it’ll be okay. I promise.
Dead_Memezz same 😥
and that’s okay, we’ll wait together. only genuine love is worth waiting for. and all that agony and pain, builds you for them
i’ve never been in love.
i don’t believe in it honestly.
i hope that one day i find someone who i can share the special feeling with.
or just someone to feel alive with.
cuz right now i’m all i got
You gotta fall in love with yourself first
:(
*I thought he loved me back but instead he was just playing with my feelings..*
Mood, with 2 different boys this year. Does someone gonna love me ? Like falling in love with me or idk. Currently in bad mood af
Same here. Played with my heart
Never has the line “in madness, lies sanity” made sense before watching this video
I fell from a chair while filming and I used this audio. And when I fell the part of the audio was: “falling”
I hate myself for laughing every time I listen to this..
It is crazy honestly. You expect them to love you back but yet they don’t want you. They leave you when your most vulnerable, and it hurts. I’m someone who has experienced it too many times and I have given up myself. But it’s ok together we can blow through. Your better than this it’ll be ok bby ✨
I lost the girl who I truly loved, doubt she’ll ever come back, miss her and what we used to be every day, I still believe (and really hope) we are destined to try again some day ☹️🤞🏻
I was just about to search for this audio and it randomly came into my recommendations... *Fbi open up*
•-• 😂🤣
this video made my friend and I realize we are deeply in love with each other. Thank you.
Elyse Meyers awesome. Happy for you two. Wish you two the best of luck
How has it worked or didn't work out
This just made life a little bit sweeter
@@julesking8355 yeah weeeeelll. Didn't work out. Let's just say that. I was in love with the person I thought he was, the person HE thought he was, but getting to know him more intimately I realized he was way pettier and needier than even he realized. Soon, I was his _sole focus_ rather than him trying to grow and better _his own_ life for _himself._ He moved from one addiction to another until I became his new addiction and I couldn't deal with how dishonest he was towards himself, so I broke up with him. For the later parts of our relationship, I didn't feel I could be honest with him about things. I had to walk on eggshells all the time to not hurt his feelings. I learned more about myself and in doing so learned I was worth more, my love was worth more, and it wasn't his fault, he just needed to grow too, but I outgrew him.
It was a leap of faith. I took it. And he caught me, held me close.
Then the hold got tighter. got longer. _He wouldn't let go when I said enough._
He held me down until I couldn't move.
Would get between me and anything else I was focusing on when we were together. I was always honest about who I was from the very beginning, how independent I was, and that I was looking for someone just as independent and self-assured, and in the beginning, _he was._ Until he became nothing _but_ his insecurity.
I felt free when I left him. Felt bigger and stronger and more independent than when I first fell for him.
*_I don't regret it._* The time we spent together was genuinely happy and good. But it was one of those loves where you were only supposed to meet and be together for a certain period of each other's lives, you know? We needed each other in that moment and we worked, _but it wasn't forever, and that is _*_okay._*
I gave myself to him, but recognized when it was enough for me. Now I know more fully what I want in a partner, and will be even more ready to _take that leap of faith again, someday. I know it_
@@EthalaRide beautiful story 😢
She wouldn’t see me all of 2021 cause of “covid” and my gut told me in February that it was over. But I tried to tough it out, just for me to wait till May for her to break my heart. I can deal with losing a girlfriend, but I can’t deal with losing my best friend. I hope one day thinking of her and our memories no longer hurts. I wish I knew that we were making memories the whole time, I was too busy having fun.
dose it still hurt?
Act of faith
Act of gamble
Falling into an act of faith
Falling into an act of gamble
Whether you're going to fall in love
or have your heart broken
No matter if there is loads of hatred but love will always be there
Love will never be destroyed
“In madness, lies sanity” 🤧😶
I gave everything I had to a girl even changed myself for her. She left me for her ex through text, that was 2 years ago and I will never be the same.
Edit: 2 months ago I made this coment and in those 2 months a lot happend. Thank you all for ur support and kind words but for about 1month and 17days I have been having the best relationship of my life so far. That ex did try to get with me again but I kicked her to the curb. Things couldnt be better right now. Thank you all.
You'll find someone, sorry that happened
William Moore same boat buddy
i'm so sorry :( i promise not all girls are like that and you'll find the right person ok?
William Moore almost the opposite for me my boyfriend said I was the only one till I found him sending nudes to his ex
William Moore i am so happy for u 😉😉
this is the song that always makes me think of my bff, and the mix of this speech and the song is so beautiful, i absolutely love it
Love that combination between tha calmness and travelling in mind in the same time, thanks for this good feeling.
Why am i addicted to this??
it have been on repeat the entire day 😂✊
it’s really hard to know that you developed feelings for someone that you’ve never talked to and they don’t even know you exist. i’m pathetic.
edit: thank you all so much for the loving replies, i am in a little bit of a better place in life, i love you all :}
totally tubular I get it trust me
totally tubular
hey, if they don’t notice you then fuck them. They don’t see how amazing you are and if they can’t see your amazingness than they’re lost. 💞
Ik u don’t know me but ily:)
totally tubular no, you’re not pathetic. They are for not noticing you. Sis you’re a badass and don’t let them change that
I can relate to this 100%
i think i love him and im terrified.
If this is a true feeling than know you are not the only one
Alan watts is superior. He is the best honestly
If this video put you in your feelings like it did for me drop a like.. Well done!
hella promoting the new vid i just put up bc it took me two weeks to make but check out my new vid “what’s the content of love” it’s got alan watts too hehe
Ali Caringola seen it!
Jillian Winfree yeah for sure
Ali Caringola stop fucking up his philosophy teachings with your fucking wackass edits and music
1 hour version of this please
@@WithoutHesitation bitch stfu and fuck off
Why am I just now discovering Alan watts? So many words of wisdom that I wish i heard years ago. But I’m glad to hear them now
This hits crazy looking back in review over the past events that lead you to where you are right now in life
I hurt the girl I'm in love with. She is with another man, and I keep my distance out of fear of hurting her again. We spent years together, and I never loved someone so hard.
Kyle Hartman stfu and tell her
Go after her idiot
I’d suggest you go after her if you feel you’ve bettered yourself. But if you’re not in that place, don’t do that to her. Leave her be. You gotta wait until you can love her to the fullest extent. I hope it works out. Genuinely. Love her in the way you should’ve. And love yourself even more than that.
Good luck! I hope the turn out is good! I really hope you guys get back together. Stay positive and keep your head up
Ned Flanders any updates?
it’s 12:01 and i’m falling in love with someone who isn’t interested.
Loving someone and willing to do anything for them, and them not feeling the same way, Is the worst pain ever
listening to this made me realize just how lonely I am
Katgirlsings same 💔
Hey I hope you’re better :)
You know what the sad thing is that you’ll never know if someone loves you
Yep :(
Happend to me, had crush on someone she had crush on me and yeah did not tell me....
Banny Means well why didn’t you do it it’s not her job to start it
@@Potatoman-ye1ci idk man i am a shy guy and yeah
i’m in love with someone who lost feelings for me because i didn’t admitted how i felt about him sooner
It’s hard to cry for these years of keeping it all in you just get used to it
I fell in love with a person and I can’t stop loving that person and it hurts
Imagine looking stars at Night and listening this. How beautiful.
ydin pummi wow yeah.. :,)
Love can be such terrifying, sad and a amazing thing
The worst feeling is falling for a person who exists only on the screen.
The worst feeling is wanting to hug this person so bad but you can't.
The worst feeling is wanting to talk to this person with tears in your eyes because it's the only one person who makes you feel happy but you can't.
The worst feeling is when you want to do something more than anything else but you can't.
falling in love is setting yourself in a most vulnerable situation. putting all emotions and thoughts out there. we yearn for the other to love us back.
This is so good omg I love this ahhh I’m in love
You see I’m in love with this boy, and I never wanna lose him, when I younger I always said “I’m not gonna let a boy control my happiness” but I am and Ik it’s stupid but he’s the best he makes me so happy, I wanna spend the rest of my life with him and I’m only 14 Ik it’s stupid, but I know I love him, I really do, 100% I do, and I don’t think I’ve trusted anyone that’s not in my family like I trust and love him
Gimme da food Bæ literally the same thing with me. i’ve never met someone like him and i’ve never been this happy with someone and had so much hope for our relationship. i really don’t know what i would do if we ended like i’d be so heartbroken and i really don’t want anything to happen like that. i’m so much in love 🥺
Don't give up on him, I almost lost my forever... We had it Rocky but you have to give yourself and let him hold your heart in his hands and give him the power to crush it but trust him enough not to.... If he loves you he'll make sure he's there
Me too😌 I had a crush for a while but it turned into me falling more and more for him
Gimme da food Bæ my aunt and this dude fell in Love at 14 they are now In there 20s with 2 boys (3years apart) and are getting married in August
I remember I used to cry to this everyday in 6th grade. That was 2 years ago and yet I still am
I’ll love you forever, you don’t need them, I’m here❤️
This literally made me cry for no reason wtf?
For some reason my favorite line is “between the fall, and the creation”
I added this song to a playlist for my sweet, loving, and caring boyfriend who loves me more than anything in the world. we've known eachother since 7th grade and were in highschool now, and finally together as a couple, i want to say i love you and i always will. on the 18th we will have been together for 3 months, and i know that's not a long time, but it feels like a life time, thank you for everything my love and have a wonderful day!
This was the most beautiful and wholesome thing I've ever read. This makes me so happy.
Congrats on 3 months.
@@stopplayingthegame thank you
What song is this! Beautiful ❤️
May Klis get you the moon by Kina. It’s a beautiful song