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  • @easygoer1234
    @easygoer1234 Рік тому +267

    It's the male chromosome that determines the sex of the child. So maybe those husbands and families should check the facts.

  • @Emily_Rose2
    @Emily_Rose2 Рік тому +8

    I wish MORE scholars preaching about this issue, cause it's all about culture not islam at all..

    • @I.m_old-_-
      @I.m_old-_- Рік тому +1

      It is about islam but he is also talking about culture and in both cases he is right

  • @TabarkDiaries.
    @TabarkDiaries. Рік тому +46

    You know the prophet (صلى الله عليه و سلم) said Whoever has three daughters who he shelters them, provide for them, and show mercy to them, jannah is absolutely obligatory for him
    عن جابر رضي الله عنه قال رسول الله (صلى الله عليه وسلم): من كان له ثلاث بنات يؤويهن ويكفيهن ويرحمهن فقد وجبت له الجنة البتة

  • @triplea6261
    @triplea6261 Рік тому +114

    Yet they forget that they need women to make other human beings

    • @thunderturbine8860
      @thunderturbine8860 Рік тому

      Exactly

    • @dooremieke.janssens1240
      @dooremieke.janssens1240 Рік тому

      Amen to that.

    • @kalims2775
      @kalims2775 Рік тому +4

      ​@akmelot shli mgtow what shame? like men don't bring shame to the family? grow up. learn Islam.

    • @ShogunLazo
      @ShogunLazo Рік тому

      @akmelot shli mgtow you can't bring shame to your family you only bring shame to your self

    • @ShogunLazo
      @ShogunLazo Рік тому

      @akmelot shli mgtow and men don't ? 90% of criminals in this world are men. They not only destroy their families but the families of the victim. If you want to play this stupid game men bring more shame to their family ... now go and apologize to your mother for making such ignorant statements

  • @dlosha
    @dlosha Рік тому +32

    I m disturbed since he has given lectures in Pakistan.some ppl r saying he is misguiding ppl.May Allah guide us and keep us firm on the path of religion ..bec I understand NAK so well and he has been a saviour in my hardest times ..Ya Allah guide us plz ..

    • @hudatufail5850
      @hudatufail5850 Рік тому +4

      Plz listen to your heart. People say whatever they think is right. If you find his lectures driving you closer to Allah SWA, do listen to him, inspite of what others are saying. And if not, then there are many other scholars you can find. His goal is to make Allah's words (Quran) easy and in reach for every lay man.

    • @booll5571
      @booll5571 Рік тому

      Please, search on UA-cam:
      “Reaction: Nouman Ali Khan on women’s leadership in Islam”
      May Allah guide us all

    • @someone931
      @someone931 Рік тому

      actually he takes the side of women as islam is and Pakistani are unable to bear it so they will not open their mind

    • @goldenxyoon702
      @goldenxyoon702 Рік тому

      Jahilyat in desi people what's new .

  • @kindness_is_the_key3888
    @kindness_is_the_key3888 Рік тому +23

    I’m disturbed that this mindset still exists
    Literally in the Quran, in the Surah 16, it says about pre-Islamic fathers:
    - 16:50-59=
    “Whenever one of them [pagans] is given the good news of a baby girl, his face grows gloomy, as he suppresses his rage. He hides himself from the people because of the bad news he has received. Should he keep her in disgrace, or bury her alive in the ground? Evil indeed is their judgment!”
    Hating baby girls is haram and the action of a khafir

    • @scave8893
      @scave8893 Рік тому

      allah was talking about how they used to bury baby girls

    • @aysha.s2566
      @aysha.s2566 Рік тому

      ​@@scave8893And what is he talking about? Even those pagans didn't like girls and used to frown when they get the news of a girl child. The difference is they used to bury them alive and today they don't. But they oppress their daughters in every possible way. And if they do this to their daughters then imagine how they treat their wives. Misogyny is a serious problem in the Ummah even today.

    • @scave8893
      @scave8893 Рік тому

      @@aysha.s2566 ur comparing the pagans to the muslims?

    • @goldenxyoon702
      @goldenxyoon702 Рік тому

      ​@@scave8893when culture over Islam happens Muslims aren't any better than pagans

  • @paradise4213
    @paradise4213 Рік тому +12

    Never understood how women could be disgusted at other women having daughters. YOU ARE ALL DAUGHTERS

    • @ShogunLazo
      @ShogunLazo Рік тому +1

      also why are they mad at the woman ... if they want to be mad they should be mad at the man... female eggs only carry the X chromosome its the male that will add the X or Y chromosome to it making it male or female... so if someone keeps having daughters or sons its not because of the woman its because of the man

    • @Souchi-ito
      @Souchi-ito Рік тому +4

      It's called societal upbringing. Men hate on other men too.

    • @paradise4213
      @paradise4213 Рік тому +3

      @@Souchi-ito yeah, but not for having sons, lol.

    • @rogerahier4750
      @rogerahier4750 Рік тому +1

      it's the Man's fault. Do you not know how it works? It's the male sperm that determines the sex of a child.

  • @nidaafreen4315
    @nidaafreen4315 Рік тому +7

    He is saying the absolute reality of today's world even its 2022 sadly such people yet exists and as i have gone through with this, i pray may Allah help each and everyone who go through this every time they gave birth to a girl child 😭😭

  • @rabinayasmin5498
    @rabinayasmin5498 Рік тому +4

    Well said so true

  • @NiceGuy88
    @NiceGuy88 Рік тому +11

    In my Family, everyone expected a girl, even before my birth and being a boy, I also expect a daughter from Allah and my future wife because when a daughter is born in a family, it is Allah's blessing upon that family.

    • @hello_there206
      @hello_there206 Рік тому +1

      Subhan Allah brother but is a little correction okay?
      Saying that Allah سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَىٰ blesses is everywhere in the Quran and Hadith but saying that the Prophet صَلَّى ٱللَّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَآلِهِ وَسَلَّمَ blessing is a daughter, is not what he himself directed us to neither would he love to hear such.... Jazak Allah Khair

    • @NiceGuy88
      @NiceGuy88 Рік тому

      @@hello_there206 Thanks for the information😊👍👍.
      Jazak Allah Khair.

  • @momofchampions7293
    @momofchampions7293 Рік тому +17

    So Many backward cultures exists in the muslim world, subhanallah it makes my heart ache how they didnt progress or gain knowledge about their own faith or the outside world..i noticed that this is more extreme in certain communities like south east asia sub continent, not much of islam there but alot of culture and parents of the men ruling the power exist..alhamdulilah i have 3 boys and inshallah i hope to have one more baby after the youngest starts school, either boy or girl, as long as they are healthy baby, we will love them .Allah gives you what yoi can handle and he knows whats best for you. May allah strengthen our faith and protect us all from fitna

    • @Souchi-ito
      @Souchi-ito Рік тому +4

      Not just Muslim world. This kinds of views are also present in Christian, Hindu culture too. It's the lack of basic biology knowledge.

  • @mohammediyoub4705
    @mohammediyoub4705 Рік тому +4

    Alhamdulillah brother you have given a excellent advice May Allah swt bless you Ameen

  • @rosmarry
    @rosmarry Рік тому +1

    Is he eye are dark blue?
    Masyaallah Subhanallah Allahukhabar

  • @elmiranuriyeva
    @elmiranuriyeva Рік тому +3

    My sister was abused from her first husband while she was 8 months pregnant. She never told us until one day we received a call from the hospital that she had broken nose with severe injuries, but Alhamdullillah, the baby, survived now she is 10 years old. My sister got divorced, and my parents and all our family supported her. She is now married with a wonderful man and has 2 more daughters. She is now a business owner and lives a very happy life. Alhamdullillah. Also, my parents have 4 daughters, and it is important to have boys in our culture too.but never once did my parents mention it. Alhamdullillah We were lucky to have such wonderful parents. May Allah have a place for my parents in Jannah Amin.

  • @Islamicgallery777
    @Islamicgallery777 Рік тому +4

    I suffered more than this during my pregnancy

  • @pmik1154
    @pmik1154 Рік тому +2

    I'm astonished to see that a women giving a birth despices his Daughter who is also a women

  • @easygoer1234
    @easygoer1234 Рік тому +26

    I hope people know that the WOMAN does not determine the sex of the child. And I'm glad that I found your videos again. I didn't see them for a while and I miss your words of wisdom. I am a female and I live in the US. I would be terrified to live in a country where a woman can be abused or even killed because she gave birth to a girl instead of a sin. Only to know that now that little girl is going to grow up to face the same fate.

    • @phoenixonfire101
      @phoenixonfire101 Рік тому

      I know it’s terrible and shouldn’t happen. And the same people that oppose such things are those who get blamed. (I mean even when muslims hate this we still get blamed) Also if you wanna keep watching the videos you can subscribe. I did this and always get them.

    • @As-go6ho
      @As-go6ho Рік тому +6

      Actually Allah determines the sex of the child. which makes the complaining way worse than insulting your spouse.
      May Allah forgive us

    • @phoenixonfire101
      @phoenixonfire101 Рік тому +4

      @@As-go6ho Of course and rather than thanking Allah SWT on the blessing he gave you (in the right circumstances) you get angry.

  • @hebahegazi3673
    @hebahegazi3673 Рік тому +2

    "لله ملك السموات والارض يهب لمن يشاء اناثا ويهب لمن يشاء الذكور او يزوجهم ذكرانا واناثا ويجعل من يشاء عقيما انه علي كل شيء قدير" والله لو انت الناس بهذه الايه لان حل ثلاثه ارباع المشاكل الزوجيه.

  • @mirfanhassan4020
    @mirfanhassan4020 Рік тому +1

    ❤️

  • @mouhsin1966
    @mouhsin1966 Рік тому

    جزاك الله خيرا

  • @simple_desserts
    @simple_desserts Рік тому +7

    Subhannalah. When i always got boys. They family in law always said Ahh a boy again.

    • @NiceGuy88
      @NiceGuy88 Рік тому +1

      In my Family, everyone expected a girl, even before my birth and being a boy, I also expect a daughter from Allah and my future wife because when a daughter is born in a family, it is Allah's and Prophet Muhammad's blessing upon that family.

    • @simple_desserts
      @simple_desserts Рік тому

      @@NiceGuy88 well very good👍. alhamdollilah i also have a daughter.

    • @NiceGuy88
      @NiceGuy88 Рік тому

      @@simple_desserts MashAllah.👍

  • @gewoonik4335
    @gewoonik4335 Рік тому +1

    Daughters is better then sons
    Daughters help there parents.

  • @Eilma427
    @Eilma427 Рік тому

    SubhaanAllah, Alhamdulillah, la ilaha illallah, Allahu Akbar, Astaag feerullah wa bihamdihi...

  • @shaaz78
    @shaaz78 Рік тому +4

    Now a days if women is a working thn there husband and in laws snatched her salary plz make some vdos on this tooo

    • @NiceGuy88
      @NiceGuy88 Рік тому +4

      According to Islam as far as I know, a husband is not allowed to touch his wife's earning income, not even his in-laws without her permission.

    • @shaaz78
      @shaaz78 Рік тому

      @@NiceGuy88 yes u r right

    • @NiceGuy88
      @NiceGuy88 Рік тому

      @@shaaz78 👍👍.

    • @pinkflower6872
      @pinkflower6872 Рік тому +1

      @@NiceGuy88 that’s a fact! But sadly it happens in my family. 😔 may Allah protect us and guide us all Ameen.

    • @NiceGuy88
      @NiceGuy88 Рік тому +1

      @@pinkflower6872 Then tell your parents about it.
      May Allah protect all of us.
      Ameen.

  • @genjutsu3053
    @genjutsu3053 Рік тому

    the point here in discussion is not to breach the institution of marriage by asking such questions.

  • @northeastsouthwest1
    @northeastsouthwest1 Рік тому +1

    Allah is the creator death, life, he created everything from water, in pairs male and female, lord of all the worlds

  • @hana-jq3uh
    @hana-jq3uh Рік тому

    Full vedio pls

  • @misbahnoreen370
    @misbahnoreen370 Рік тому

    I still live with asy husband, he still thinks wo mughy bardasht kar raha hy

  • @adamasrinsky
    @adamasrinsky Рік тому +1

    وَاللَّاتِي تَخَافُونَ نُشُوزَهُنَّ فَعِظُوهُنَّ وَاهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِي الْمَضَاجِعِ وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلَا تَبْغُوا عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلًا إِنَّ اللَّهَ كَانَ عَلِيًّا كَبِيرًا.
    Why bother? You have a license to beat her into submission, Mr. Islamist.

    • @Rain_21
      @Rain_21 Рік тому

      You're seriously brain dead if you think this ضرب is beating in the sense of harming.
      Thank you for showing us how shallow and uneducated you're about Arabic and the Quran and how we understand it.

  • @piqueny8872
    @piqueny8872 Рік тому

    It’s a irony game for those people who wants sons.
    Elders had mostly daughters the few
    Sons they had were completely failures and losses and nothing but burdens.
    The daughters had given birth to the grandsons, rich successful intelligent yet they end up having the great granddaughters too

  • @ahtishammir1260
    @ahtishammir1260 Рік тому +1

    Namat

  • @AbdulJabbar-br6rq
    @AbdulJabbar-br6rq Рік тому

    Sir the case is reverse with me. I want a girl so that I can be eligible to go to Jannah.

  • @shehrey4628
    @shehrey4628 Рік тому +2

    what is the purpose of marriage? in islam specifically?
    and what are islamic rules for a marriage where one partber chooses to fornicate and refuses to stop, what is islamic teachings for that?

  • @nusratjahan6620
    @nusratjahan6620 Рік тому

    My husband is continuesly abusing me....not physically but mentally....i am literally tortured by his words...his way of speaking,,his arrogance...i can't leave him..because leaving him or run away of this relationship is not a solution for me...i want him and i want him as a better person..i wish one day he will chang his thought and behaviour... And change himself as a good person.....All i want is that i need peace right now...i really want peace...which i can't find anywhere.....I wish something miracle will happen in my life which wash away all my sufferings,,, all my sorrows 😞😞

    • @kinndah2519
      @kinndah2519 Рік тому +1

      You NEED TO LEAVE. Abusers never change, if he did it once, he'll keep doing it. Stop thinking primitively, you're strong and smart enough to get away from that. Stop disrespecting & hurting yourself by staying. Allah will bring you someone worthy of your kindness. I left and am at more peace than ever. I found someone SO much better. Don't tell him, just pack and leave to a safe place.

  • @sadafahmed9563
    @sadafahmed9563 Рік тому +2

    These old jahil fashioned aunties of that generation are the worst.

  • @amaarbaburahmed6221
    @amaarbaburahmed6221 Рік тому +1

    I love his work....unfortunstley you show this kind of videos to the older generation and many of them blatantly ignore it and go......"he is not the right scholar to go seek this info from"...or hes "young and does not know what hes saying".......really makes me angry😡😡😡😡

  • @scaryfactswooo
    @scaryfactswooo Рік тому

    is this still a thing?

  • @muneebkhan4631
    @muneebkhan4631 Рік тому +1

    when the child called girl grow then father mother takeing out frustration on her, they said not supposed to be born if you born called boy then life for us should be very good just becouse of you called girl insulting us. my parents told me till now.

    • @muneebkhan4631
      @muneebkhan4631 Рік тому +1

      my older sisters my younger brother is also is same keep girls are coming if not mother in law or others people matter is more important the parents kill me my hole life i stay with them now Allah help me sand me far from them. i stop talking with them now only me my Allah who born me.

    • @muneebkhan4631
      @muneebkhan4631 Рік тому +1

      sir im requesting you to tell the people not to kill there girls when they born dont called them manhoos dont give them very bad galli tell them to stop stop for that. sir pleas...

    • @bait5257
      @bait5257 Рік тому

      May Allah help you through this tough time !! Let them sin , you can only warn them , not stop them from their will to do it.

  • @pannyvet92
    @pannyvet92 Рік тому

    Question: my fiance was once married for a brief period. Got cheated, divorced, no kids luckily. Now he wants children with me, but no marriage. For me would be the first time, I want the marriage, I feel children born out of marriage have more risk to be mistreated, and I don't want also to look like some sort of concubine. For muslim perception how is seen this situation?
    The father of my bf is an orthodox priest, and is blowing my mind that his son wants things to be like this.

    • @Sas-rf9sy
      @Sas-rf9sy 11 місяців тому

      I will tell you to run. Finish off this so-called relationship because if he doesn't want marriage but wants kids out of wedlock, when he is supposedly a Muslim, then he doesn't respect you. In Islam children born outside marriage have no rights over the father with regards to maintenance and child support or in his estate(inheritance). If you want marriage then be with somebody who also wants marriage. Your bf doesn't sound like a Muslim. Fornication is equal to adultery and a grave punishable sin in Islam. It is prohibited.
      You can do better.

  • @dboot8886
    @dboot8886 Рік тому +1

    You know a lot of people go about their daily lives just sort of *knowing* not to be a jerk without the magic sky dad books.

    • @momofchampions7293
      @momofchampions7293 Рік тому

      Magic sky dad? Why are you here anyways? I hope you find the right path

  • @phun1901
    @phun1901 Рік тому +1

    Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle, that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church.

  • @nailabegum4559
    @nailabegum4559 4 місяці тому

    Am I just the only one noticing that his clothes and hat color matches his eyes . How I dnt know?

  • @anneswag4928
    @anneswag4928 Рік тому +1

    Its the sperm that determine the gender of the child so maybe its the husband fault lol

    • @I.m_old-_-
      @I.m_old-_- Рік тому +1

      What do you mean by maybe its really

    • @scave8893
      @scave8893 Рік тому

      @@I.m_old-_- no man can pick which gender he can bring if i could i would trust me😂

    • @I.m_old-_-
      @I.m_old-_- Рік тому

      @@scave8893 yeah

  • @TehMomo_
    @TehMomo_ Рік тому

    Uh....wtf is he saying....
    It's the male that determines the sex of the child....

    • @scave8893
      @scave8893 Рік тому +1

      its allah but ok

    • @Sas-rf9sy
      @Sas-rf9sy 11 місяців тому

      Well this is is basic biology and science, so anybody who went to school should know this. It is the father's chromosome that determines the gender of the child.