I was going to say the same thing.. I think that of Jared too! Both men are awesome with being a husband and father to their children! Every woman's dream husbands!
My husband had a vasectomy and we’ve closed that chapter in our lives as well. We have three children and feel so blessed but it is still bittersweet. When you’re in the pregnancy/baby phase you don’t realize how fast it will go. At the same time I’m excited for what the future holds and the next chapter.
The beginning of the video is hilarious! I love how you both make these life changing decisions with compassion, trust and confidence. What an amazing representation of how you work together as a team! Thank you
I think that was a very sensible solution. Like Joel said, it can always be reversed...unlike a tubal ligation; and birth control pills can be hard on the body. I support this decision.
My best friend's husband had a vasectomy when he was with his first wife. Then they got divorced and he met my friend. They wanted to have a baby together, so he had it reversed but somethig went wrong during the surgery and long story short no baby for them 😣 So sad for my friend because she is broken-hearted. It has been several months by now and she is still broke-hearted 😣 They are talking about adoption but will see how they will decide...
I was sterilised at 24 years old due to reasons out of my control but we knew we wanted another when the time was right, so had ivf to get her ! Best decision ever , shes 9 now and awesome 💜
@@Charis6540 awww thats awesome !! My 2 boys have a genetic condition thats meant they both had to be transplanted hence the young age sterilisation and using a donor and ivf 😀💜
Make sure Joel gets tested afterwards to make sure it works and then get tested again in 3 or 4 years. My husbands friend just had a failed vasectomy baby!! He had it 11 years ago and it grew back! Her oldest is 20 and his kids are 18 and 14 was quite a shock. They are starting over!He did not know he needed to get checked periodically! I warned all my friends after that!
My husband never got tested to see if it worked we are at 7 years post op no more babies yet . Our youngest was 6 weeks old when he had it done and we were only 25. I'm just going to say we like to live life on the edge 😆
Kevin & Jenifer V.A it will be 7 years in March since my Hubby’s vasectomy and like you so far so good ! My youngest was 3 months old at the time. We were in our early thirties though when he had his done 🙂
Watching you two get emotional in the car on the way just really touched my heart. I can really, truly, see the love you two have for each other. And despite ALL of the nasty things people say on your videos... despite all of the hardship you've been through... you two love each other and THAT is what matters most. You two are wonderful examples of what it means to put your spouse first and I am grateful that you share your lives with us because I learn something new all of the time.
The relationship you two have is literally goals. So supportive of each other. You love each other so much and it shows! Thank you for sharing that with all of us❤
You give me in knowing there are genuine loving men still out there. Praying for a speedy healthy recovery Joel and thanks for showing the real what love is. Wishing you both well 💕
Wow Joel is one of a kind. What an amazing man. Bonnie is also one of a kind and an amazing woman. Together you guys make an amazing couple. The bond you both have is incredible. I watch all the Griffith’s family channels but the love you both have for each other really shows through the most. Relationship goals right there!
Seriously “This vasectomy is gonna be lit” made my day! Started the Keto diet to help with my seizures and it’s hard so Bonnie you’re the best! Thank you!
I have two girls and I have been blessed to get pregnant fast! I am extremely fertile. My husband is getting a vasectomy too. We both cried! But we know it’s the best decision for our family. Big hugs Bonnie and Joel!
Your love is indescribable!! As an 18 year old watching you guys for quite a while now, I pray that one day I can be able to be lucky enough to have even a quarter of the love/connection/journey you guys have ! 🧡✨ such an awesome, amazing family
How can anyone not love Joel and Bonnie. They are about as real as any vlogger out there. No pretense, they just show it all. I love how both of you show your emotions to all your viewers and make us feel like we are part of your family. Joel, hope your doing fine by now and that you took it easy for a few days, I also know that's hard for you to do. Love you guys!
These are my favourite kind of vlogs from you guys! Just raw and real and once again showing us how strong and loving your marriage and relationship is, I was totally tearing up with you guys over the sentimental moments! XO
The sun is setting on your ability to have children omg I laughed so hard I just knew u were gonna say that when u had the camera in the sun 🤣🤣 I laughed a lot at this vlog even tho its serious lol x
Im happy for joel for making this decision, my husband REFUSES to get one, and i REFUSE to get on birth control. 27 years no birth control and i dont want to mess with my body in anyway 😬 I wish more husbands were more understanding and less selfish
Charis Calhoon y yeah i think im gonna be the one to get fixed, bc i dont want anymore kids and we dont need #4, although i do wish my husband could do this procedure. Ive labored 3 kids his junk is gonna be sore what a week?
Kevin & Jenifer V.A see thats what ive been trying to tell my husband, i birthed our kids its the least he can do so i dont have to go through the roller coaster of emotions of baby #4 or birth control 😒
My husband took six years to follow through on the decision to get a vasectomy. When he finally went, he didn’t even tell me he had an appointment until it was over!
Katelynn McDonald soo selfish of me to not want to get on birth control 🤦🏻♀️ 🤷🏻♀️ Soo selfish of me to not want anymore kids . So selfish of me to not want to gain anymore weight being pregnant, you’re right i am the selfish one. thank you for pointing that out 😂😂
my husband had one a year ago. We were at peace when he did it. Its a life changing decision indeed and it truly feels like it bit when you are ready its not that hard. We have three beautiful children and we feel complete. You have a beautiful family and I wish you many more blessings in this next chapter of your lives!! ❤️❤️❤️
This brought me to tears...I'm 32 year old and my husband and I have two beautiful little boys. We were debating bringing one more baby into our lives, but God had other plans. I found out I had cervical cancer and was rushed to have a hysterectomy. The door closed on having anymore children, so it is sad that our baby journey is over. But, I'm so blessed to have my two boys and to be alive!! Thanks for sharing your life, it means more to all of us more than you probably know. Xoxo
The day my husband got his vasectomy was the best day of my life! Hahahaha the surgeon was so funny and I was able to sit there and watch the whole thing (which was fascinating) and the next day he was up and about and absolutely fine. But yes, make sure you get tested after 3 months to ensure there aren’t any little swimmers left. It’s a big decision, but once it’s done, it’s nice to know that I don’t ever have to go on the pill again and I can’t get pregnant. 🙌🏻 But I was totally sad and a little regretful the first few days after it was done because I was like “this is it, we’re done” but 3 years later, it was the best decision. Big hugs from my family to yours from Melbourne, Australia xx
Glad you guys feel better. Congratulations on your first employee. Joel and Bonnie you guys made the right decision. You have a beautiful family. Have a blessed day!!
Seeing Joel just before the procedure made me giggle. My hubby was so spaced out on his pre meds he was dancing in the waiting room (he doesn't dance) welcome to the next chapter in your lives guys xx
I never comment on videos, but oh my! I’m on a busy train right now, and I laughed out loud while watching this video. I love you guys so so much. Greetings from Germany.
Bonnie you are such a good mom. You are so kind and such a strong mom. Joel you are such a good dad and you are such a strong person. Your kids are going to grow up knowing they have such cool parents. I love you guys so much!!!!!!
Everybody needs a Joel and Bonnie!!!! 😍❤️ The way you love each other is so beautiful to watch. Your love is inspiring! The best part is you’ll have each other for time and all eternity!!❤️ Bonnie, your highlighter was on point today girl, you looked beautiful 😘
I saw the title of this vlog and I don't know why I got emotional about it. I am so happy that you guys can make a decision like this and feel ok to share it! I am sure going to miss seeing Bon with little tiny babies! I started watching you guys a loooong time ago, YEARS ago... lol! It just makes my heart kinda sad but, it's okay! Bonnie, I think this decision is VERY wonderful for you and Joel. Best luck to you Joel! ♥
Aww God bless you both! So much love ❤️ 🥂 to the next chapter and all that is still left to enjoy with one another. God bless you and your family always 🙏🏼❤️
Oh I feel your emotions!! I had a tubal after my 4th C-section in May 2018, primarily because of my doctor telling me I should not have any more C-sections. I still struggle with my emotions on this daily and even more every month my baby girl gets bigger. You have a beautiful family you have created! Feel better soon Joel!
It is far safer than birth control. My 27 year old daughter just had an extremely large tumor and most of the right half of her liver removed that was caused by taking birth control for her acne issues for just shy of 9 years. I am proud of Joel for doing this for, not only you, but for the good of the family. You are blessed. Prayers and hugs for your wonderful family.
Joel You made a Great decision! Bonnie, I am so happy to hear that You are supporting Joel! Now You both can enjoy Your family & blog on how much You enjoy Your family!
Joel , you are definitely brave, ive seen grown men that had it done that acted like babies. You and bonnie are amazing ,and ive watched since day 1, i watch all of u because i think your family is amazing. ❤
I had my two kids and got myself fixed. It was a hard choice because I love kids. But it's a decision medically I had to make. But you did awesome Joel! And Bonnie was such a great support. I pray for a great recovery.
lol... you guys are such a bunch together.. funny, yet emotional.. I feel that I laugh and cry with you two!! Have a super new year, full of Health, Love, and Peace! lots of love from Athens, Greece.. 💗💖💗💖💗
For those that don't know vasectomy isn't without risk of pregnant right away. You have to pass a certain amount of time and get the sperm tested before it will work.
Kassi , you would be surprised how many men go to the Dr. Alone and don't pay attention to after care. The just think after a snip no Babies. Their are a lot of people after a vasectomy their wives get pregnant.
We have four children which was an incredible blessing. The vasectomy was my husband’s choice and both of us felt it was the best decision for our family. It was and has been so incredibly freeing.
Way to go Joel’s! I had a tubal ligation when my daughter was pregnant with my first grandchild, no pregnant Grandmas here- It is soooo freeing not having to worry about birth control. I was back up a day later, was a very simple procedure- Heal quickly!
Oh Bonnie thank you both for sharing this personal decision and experience. I cried with you today watching because met my hubby in high school too! Had 5 kids and my tubes tied. It’s hard to let go of the most beautiful chapter of a marriage I believe of making children together and opening a new chapter. It’s been hard for us as I referred having my tubes tied and tried to reverse but still adore my hubby and our children and our future. You guys are the best and you validated so many of my feelings! Wish we were friends😘🙋♀️👍
Joel you're a Super Hero! Hey if at some point you feel that a little spirit is needed in your home you could adopt. There are children that are not always meant to grow under your heart, but within your heart!
I share a room with my three year old (single mama) and I am sitting here trying not to laugh SOOO loud at the “this vasectomy is going to be lit!” “NOT TO LIT, not too lit!!!” HAHAHAHHAAHAHAHA I am dying. That was SO funny! Way to make me almost wake my kid up from laughing so hard, Bonnie. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He came out of there like a champ! When my husband came out of his he was white like a ghost and not laughing lol!!! 😂😂 you guys are amazing love your family so much
My brother had one and then had it reversed and then had my niece. We thought they would end up with another boy and have 4 boys in but, we finally got our little princess. I cried right along with you two.
My hubby just had his in December, it was a piece of cake. I watched the whole procedure! We only have 2 kids, but I’m back in school, our house can’t fit anymore kids, we can’t afford more kids...like you said this chapter has closed.
Everybody should have a Joel in their life. Bonnie is a lucky lady 🥰
Facts 👍
Joel is a lucky man too!
I was going to say the same thing..
I think that of Jared too!
Both men are awesome with being a husband and father to their children! Every woman's dream husbands!
My husband had a vasectomy and we’ve closed that chapter in our lives as well. We have three children and feel so blessed but it is still bittersweet. When you’re in the pregnancy/baby phase you don’t realize how fast it will go. At the same time I’m excited for what the future holds and the next chapter.
“This Vasectomy is gonna be LIT” Bonnie I died😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😃😃😂😃
I CRACKED UP
Man. I was at work listening to this! I cracked up so much. Do you know how hard it is the laugh quietly? 😂😂😂
Aww i got emoitonal when bonnie cried ive been watching them since thw very bigginng
The beginning of the video is hilarious! I love how you both make these life changing decisions with compassion, trust and confidence. What an amazing representation of how you work together as a team! Thank you
I think that was a very sensible solution. Like Joel said, it can always be reversed...unlike a tubal ligation; and birth control pills can be hard on the body. I support this decision.
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Eli :] finals can be reversed also
My best friend's husband had a vasectomy when he was with his first wife. Then they got divorced and he met my friend. They wanted to have a baby together, so he had it reversed but somethig went wrong during the surgery and long story short no baby for them 😣 So sad for my friend because she is broken-hearted. It has been several months by now and she is still broke-hearted 😣 They are talking about adoption but will see how they will decide...
I was sterilised at 24 years old due to reasons out of my control but we knew we wanted another when the time was right, so had ivf to get her ! Best decision ever , shes 9 now and awesome 💜
@@Charis6540 awww thats awesome !! My 2 boys have a genetic condition thats meant they both had to be transplanted hence the young age sterilisation and using a donor and ivf 😀💜
Make sure Joel gets tested afterwards to make sure it works and then get tested again in 3 or 4 years. My husbands friend just had a failed vasectomy baby!! He had it 11 years ago and it grew back! Her oldest is 20 and his kids are 18 and 14 was quite a shock. They are starting over!He did not know he needed to get checked periodically! I warned all my friends after that!
My husband never got tested to see if it worked we are at 7 years post op no more babies yet . Our youngest was 6 weeks old when he had it done and we were only 25. I'm just going to say we like to live life on the edge 😆
karbear26 I’ve heard of this but it wasn’t her husbands child.
Same with my coworker. 2 years after the V she was pregnant. For 2 months she thought she had a stomach bug.... surprise.
Would they be, The Brummels Bunch?? Or something like that. They have a UA-cam, channel.
Kevin & Jenifer V.A it will be 7 years in March since my Hubby’s vasectomy and like you so far so good ! My youngest was 3 months old at the time. We were in our early thirties though when he had his done 🙂
"Whatever snatched means I don't want it" DEAD 😂😂 aww this is the closing of a chapter but a huge opening for the next adventure in your lives!!
Dang it, I knew it was going to be a tear jerker. The journey has been beautiful. God Bless you guys.
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Joel I love how much you love Bonnie. What a great love story.
Watching you two get emotional in the car on the way just really touched my heart. I can really, truly, see the love you two have for each other. And despite ALL of the nasty things people say on your videos... despite all of the hardship you've been through... you two love each other and THAT is what matters most. You two are wonderful examples of what it means to put your spouse first and I am grateful that you share your lives with us because I learn something new all of the time.
You guys make me laugh and cry at the same time! EVERYDAY! I'm double subscribing for the vasectomy videos 😂😂😂
So time for a Dog :D
AlpinQueen Bonnie loved your comment....IS THAT A YES!? Hahaha
Anna DiMartino who knows 😂
The relationship you two have is literally goals. So supportive of each other. You love each other so much and it shows! Thank you for sharing that with all of us❤
You two are adorable!! You make me laugh and cry all in the same video. Prayers for a speedy recovery Joel.
When I heard the story of the promise ring I cried. That’s so genuine
This video deserve a big thumbs up! Your love and sensitivity is so touching!
You give me in knowing there are genuine loving men still out there. Praying for a speedy healthy recovery Joel and thanks for showing the real what love is. Wishing you both well 💕
I love how emotional Bon gets it's so sweet what a beautiful thing I am so proud of you two for making these choices and Joel speedy recovery.
Wow Joel is one of a kind. What an amazing man. Bonnie is also one of a kind and an amazing woman. Together you guys make an amazing couple. The bond you both have is incredible. I watch all the Griffith’s family channels but the love you both have for each other really shows through the most. Relationship goals right there!
Bonnie we need another make up tutorial you look AMAZING!
Seriously “This vasectomy is gonna be lit” made my day! Started the Keto diet to help with my seizures and it’s hard so Bonnie you’re the best! Thank you!
Joel is so cute saying you should have done whatever makes you happiest. It truly shows he loves you more than himself.
I totally already commented but when Bonnie started bawling I lost it. You guys are the best! I love your heart so much!
OMG! Those mountains are SO beautiful behind Joel driving! I’ve never seen mountains in person but they are Gorgeous! Especially with the snow.
DID JOEL SAY YEET?!?! OML THAT WAS HALARIOUS!!!!
Feel better Joel! We watch for you guys too not just the kids!! 💖💖
I could barely even listen because I was too busy staring at the BEAUTIFUL backdrop on your drive! How lucky to live in such a beautiful place!
I have two girls and I have been blessed to get pregnant fast! I am extremely fertile. My husband is getting a vasectomy too. We both cried! But we know it’s the best decision for our family. Big hugs Bonnie and Joel!
Your love is indescribable!! As an 18 year old watching you guys for quite a while now, I pray that one day I can be able to be lucky enough to have even a quarter of the love/connection/journey you guys have ! 🧡✨ such an awesome, amazing family
Congrats to you two! It's so nice to see a man take part in this kind of matter and act on it ! The best to you all!
How can anyone not love Joel and Bonnie. They are about as real as any vlogger out there. No pretense, they just show it all. I love how both of you show your emotions to all your viewers and make us feel like we are part of your family. Joel, hope your doing fine by now and that you took it easy for a few days, I also know that's hard for you to do. Love you guys!
These are my favourite kind of vlogs from you guys! Just raw and real and once again showing us how strong and loving your marriage and relationship is, I was totally tearing up with you guys over the sentimental moments! XO
Change is always hard but you guys handle it so well! I laughed and I cried along with you. Hope Joel has a quick recovery!
Reached that stepping stone 2 years ago . Congrats on your new Chapter! Welcome to the club♡♡
Way to go Joel. I feel that is one of the most loving things you can do for your wife once you have completed your family. Love you guys!!
Love how you guys are together! It’s so amazing!! Praying for a smooth recovery Joel.
Your so special guys!! Literally in tears watching you both and the love and deep connection you share.... here’s to the next chapter xx
Thumps up Joel!!! I laughed when you (bonnie) said "are you okay? And he looks down!! It was a very wise and reasonable solution.
The sun is setting on your ability to have children omg I laughed so hard I just knew u were gonna say that when u had the camera in the sun 🤣🤣 I laughed a lot at this vlog even tho its serious lol x
Im happy for joel for making this decision, my husband REFUSES to get one, and i REFUSE to get on birth control. 27 years no birth control and i dont want to mess with my body in anyway 😬 I wish more husbands were more understanding and less selfish
Charis Calhoon y yeah i think im gonna be the one to get fixed, bc i dont want anymore kids and we dont need #4, although i do wish my husband could do this procedure. Ive labored 3 kids his junk is gonna be sore what a week?
My husband wasn't even sore a week he was back to " Active duty " while on bed rest 😆
Kevin & Jenifer V.A see thats what ive been trying to tell my husband, i birthed our kids its the least he can do so i dont have to go through the roller coaster of emotions of baby #4 or birth control 😒
My husband took six years to follow through on the decision to get a vasectomy. When he finally went, he didn’t even tell me he had an appointment until it was over!
Katelynn McDonald soo selfish of me to not want to get on birth control 🤦🏻♀️ 🤷🏻♀️ Soo selfish of me to not want anymore kids . So selfish of me to not want to gain anymore weight being pregnant, you’re right i am the selfish one. thank you for pointing that out 😂😂
This was such a vulnerable, raw and sincere moment. Thank you for sharing something like that with all of us viewers!
Such a beautiful story, marriage and family you have. What a blessing!
my husband had one a year ago. We were at peace when he did it. Its a life changing decision indeed and it truly feels like it bit when you are ready its not that hard. We have three beautiful children and we feel complete. You have a beautiful family and I wish you many more blessings in this next chapter of your lives!! ❤️❤️❤️
you’re a trouper joel!! i started tearing up, because what you two have is TRUE 💕
This brought me to tears...I'm 32 year old and my husband and I have two beautiful little boys. We were debating bringing one more baby into our lives, but God had other plans. I found out I had cervical cancer and was rushed to have a hysterectomy. The door closed on having anymore children, so it is sad that our baby journey is over. But, I'm so blessed to have my two boys and to be alive!! Thanks for sharing your life, it means more to all of us more than you probably know. Xoxo
Totally support what you guys did!! You've made the most beautiful children, and that's a blessings in itself!! #itsgonnabeLIT hahaha.
You all make me laugh and cry everyday. Thank you for sharing your journey with us! Love ya Bonnie & Joel :)
The day my husband got his vasectomy was the best day of my life! Hahahaha the surgeon was so funny and I was able to sit there and watch the whole thing (which was fascinating) and the next day he was up and about and absolutely fine. But yes, make sure you get tested after 3 months to ensure there aren’t any little swimmers left. It’s a big decision, but once it’s done, it’s nice to know that I don’t ever have to go on the pill again and I can’t get pregnant. 🙌🏻
But I was totally sad and a little regretful the first few days after it was done because I was like “this is it, we’re done” but 3 years later, it was the best decision.
Big hugs from my family to yours from Melbourne, Australia xx
My husband and I were just talking about vasectomy last night and how know one talks about it especially in videos thanks for sharing.
Laughing and crying all over the place. Love the way you shared your honest processing of this decision and appointment. ❤️
Glad you guys feel better. Congratulations on your first employee. Joel and Bonnie you guys made the right decision. You have a beautiful family. Have a blessed day!!
the love that you two share together is so special and it just melts my heart❤️
I love watching you and Joel laughing together. Its impossible not to laugh along with you❤️
Seeing Joel just before the procedure made me giggle. My hubby was so spaced out on his pre meds he was dancing in the waiting room (he doesn't dance) welcome to the next chapter in your lives guys xx
Y'all are the cutest dang couple EVER! I love how much you love each other. It's truly an inspiration to my husband and I!
I never comment on videos, but oh my! I’m on a busy train right now, and I laughed out loud while watching this video. I love you guys so so much. Greetings from Germany.
You two are so funny. You always find joy in every hardship. And you can tell just how much you both love one another.
This video had me cracking up! You can see Bonnie radiating joy 😂
Bonnie you are such a good mom.
You are so kind and such a strong mom.
Joel you are such a good dad and you are such a strong person. Your kids are going to grow up knowing they have such cool parents. I love you guys so much!!!!!!
Everybody needs a Joel and Bonnie!!!! 😍❤️ The way you love each other is so beautiful to watch. Your love is inspiring! The best part is you’ll have each other for time and all eternity!!❤️ Bonnie, your highlighter was on point today girl, you looked beautiful 😘
I saw the title of this vlog and I don't know why I got emotional about it. I am so happy that you guys can make a decision like this and feel ok to share it! I am sure going to miss seeing Bon with little tiny babies! I started watching you guys a loooong time ago, YEARS ago... lol! It just makes my heart kinda sad but, it's okay! Bonnie, I think this decision is VERY wonderful for you and Joel. Best luck to you Joel! ♥
Such good rolemodels of what love in a partner/spouse should be like ❤ You always make me cry.
Aww God bless you both! So much love ❤️ 🥂 to the next chapter and all that is still left to enjoy with one another. God bless you and your family always 🙏🏼❤️
Whatever snatched is I dont want it 😂😂😂 not to lit not to lit 😂😂😂 this is why you two are my favorite!
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I just cannot get enough of the Bonnie and Joel love story! You guys are the cutest! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Oh I feel your emotions!! I had a tubal after my 4th C-section in May 2018, primarily because of my doctor telling me I should not have any more C-sections. I still struggle with my emotions on this daily and even more every month my baby girl gets bigger. You have a beautiful family you have created! Feel better soon Joel!
It is far safer than birth control. My 27 year old daughter just had an extremely large tumor and most of the right half of her liver removed that was caused by taking birth control for her acne issues for just shy of 9 years. I am proud of Joel for doing this for, not only you, but for the good of the family. You are blessed. Prayers and hugs for your wonderful family.
Joel You made a Great decision! Bonnie, I am so happy to hear that You are supporting Joel! Now You both can enjoy Your family & blog on how much You enjoy Your family!
You guys have such a beautiful story. I really cherish and value your guys’s journey and relationship, even as a family. ❤️
This video had me laughing and crying. What a beautiful journey you guys are on together. Thanks for sharing with us.
Your little jokes crack me up. I adore you two together!
Joel , you are definitely brave, ive seen grown men that had it done that acted like babies. You and bonnie are amazing ,and ive watched since day 1, i watch all of u because i think your family is amazing. ❤
I love Joel, he is so laid back and he's not afraid to show his emotions!
Hilarious! Loved this video! Joel, I hope you’re healing and your “boys” are happy and pain-free!
I had my two kids and got myself fixed. It was a hard choice because I love kids. But it's a decision medically I had to make. But you did awesome Joel! And Bonnie was such a great support. I pray for a great recovery.
Joel hope you get better soon, enjoy the nieces and nephews and your four children. I’m so happy you made agreeable choices!
Gosh darn it when Bonnie started to cry, I did too. xD
kisekina cuz we are invested and care
Me too.😢😭
lol... you guys are such a bunch together.. funny, yet emotional.. I feel that I laugh and cry with you two!! Have a super new year, full of Health, Love, and Peace! lots of love from Athens, Greece.. 💗💖💗💖💗
For those that don't know vasectomy isn't without risk of pregnant right away. You have to pass a certain amount of time and get the sperm tested before it will work.
Eliza Britton I’m sure their doctor has given them all the information they need. I really doubt they are going into something like that blindly.
Kassi , you would be surprised how many men go to the Dr. Alone and don't pay attention to after care. The just think after a snip no Babies. Their are a lot of people after a vasectomy their wives get pregnant.
Happy healing Joel!!Love you guys and these chatty vlogs.Thanks for bringing us along on your journey.
We have four children which was an incredible blessing. The vasectomy was my husband’s choice and both of us felt it was the best decision for our family. It was and has been so incredibly freeing.
my head: is this soemthing i should watch in the car with my parents??
*googles vasectomy*
me: nope wait til i get home
I hope you have a quick and not to painful recovery Joel 💖
Way to go Joel’s! I had a tubal ligation when my daughter was pregnant with my first grandchild, no pregnant Grandmas here- It is soooo freeing not having to worry about birth control. I was back up a day later, was a very simple procedure- Heal quickly!
Oh Bonnie thank you both for sharing this personal decision and experience. I cried with you today watching because met my hubby in high school too! Had 5 kids and my tubes tied. It’s hard to let go of the most beautiful chapter of a marriage I believe of making children together and opening a new chapter. It’s been hard for us as I referred having my tubes tied and tried to reverse but still adore my hubby and our children and our future. You guys are the best and you validated so many of my feelings! Wish we were friends😘🙋♀️👍
Joel you're a Super Hero! Hey if at some point you feel that a little spirit is needed in your home you could adopt. There are children that are not always meant to grow under your heart, but within your heart!
I share a room with my three year old (single mama) and I am sitting here trying not to laugh SOOO loud at the “this vasectomy is going to be lit!” “NOT TO LIT, not too lit!!!” HAHAHAHHAAHAHAHA I am dying. That was SO funny! Way to make me almost wake my kid up from laughing so hard, Bonnie. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You guys are the cutest! Hope Joel’s recovery goes well. Love you guys 💝
I enjoy you two and watching your chemistry & love for each other!! Its so endearing!! ❤️
I love how both of you are so sentimental love love love.
Once again I'm laughing and crying , you guys always make me feel my emotions dang it, get some rest Joely.
He came out of there like a champ! When my husband came out of his he was white like a ghost and not laughing lol!!! 😂😂 you guys are amazing love your family so much
You guys are literally couple goals I love how you love and support each other I can’t help
But smile when I watch your vlogs
Everyone deserves the love you two have.
My brother had one and then had it reversed and then had my niece. We thought they would end up with another boy and have 4 boys in but, we finally got our little princess. I cried right along with you two.
My husband had a vasectomy and it’s been the best decision so far! We are younger but I truly feel so content with our family of 3 ❤️
I love u guys! I cried and laughed at today's video...u guys are the cutest! Thumbs up for Joel and his lit vasectomy 😂😂
My hubby just had his in December, it was a piece of cake. I watched the whole procedure! We only have 2 kids, but I’m back in school, our house can’t fit anymore kids, we can’t afford more kids...like you said this chapter has closed.
I’m dying...”YEET” Hahahaha Joel 🤣
You guys are the cutest 💜 I love seeing you guys so in love still after all the years. Its ADORABLE
Totally support your decision as a family, big thumbs 👍 for you Joel xx, remember you can always adopt if you want anymore children..