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9 types of people not worth helping.
1. People who live in false realities.
2. The opportunist.
3. The self absorbed.
4. Those who don't acknowledge their own flaws.
5. People who do not prepare for the future.
6. Chronic pessimism
7. Those who absolve themselves to blame.
8. Expectations for privileges
9. Resistant to change
Well, that covers just about everybody. No wonder Stoics are loners who don't have any friends.
"Don't help women or children, help other men who are responsible, and leave them accountable to determine how to best help the women and children under their care."
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"To live a good life. We have the potential for it. If we learn to be indifferent to wwhat makes no difference." - Marcus Aurelius
Thanks for sharing!
Embracing what truly matters and letting go of the rest can indeed lead to a fulfilling life. 🙏
8:04 - I was 18 when I landed my first major job (I thought it was major back then. let's say😅) I excitedly called my sister up and gave her the good news. She just said "hmpf...well don't make a career out of it. Uh, I gotta get going - call you back later" and that was her version of "best wishes"
Such a polite way to describe a narcissist. ;)
Wise counsel!
Essentially, beware of individuals who are still egocentric and unaware of their inner power.
The one who is still in the grip of fear will cause even the best of swimmers to drown.
The stoic is described in different language by different wisdom traditions. Laozi, in the tradition of Daoism, calls him one who practices Dào discipline, also known as the sage. In Dào 33, Laozi calls him one who has conquered himself, also mentioned in the Dhammapada by the Buddha. Jesus alludes to the stoic in the Garden of Gethsemane as one who is willing to do what is right both in spirit (in mind) and in action (in carrying it out bodily.)
The stoic is simply one who lives a wisely disciplined life.
😮there is a price to pay being a good Samaritan.
But the good comes back.
You can be helpful, and not be sorry about it. You have to act wisely.
It's not about helping or not helping, it's about protecting your energetic field, and that requires wisdom.
@@DonTheMoron716 your supposed to be doing good even if it doesn’t come at a benefit that’s helping people.
@@DonTheMoron716it doesnt. That is why Jesus said dont let your right hand know what your left hand is doing when helping others.
The idea is to be so sufficient you dont need to be reciprocated, and to be able to give without feeling loss.
@@StoicCaringbutColdandFierceIfNyes it roes
I always say this - I will always give compassionate kindness and loving boundaries to all.
"We cannot choose our external circumstances, but we can always choose how we respond to them." - EPICTETUS -
I am soooo thankful to have come across this channel.. through childhood and young adulthood.. I’ve witnessed every example of human behavior this video describes.. like I was aware that these kind of people exist..but the narrator explains it so eloquently… this world and it’s inhabitants is a circus..I WANT OUT!!!
You should check out Vernon Howard
You create your own reality!
I can really relate to this. when "working with others" ...
"Direct experience of the consequences of their unrealistic expectations may be the most profound lesson they can learn."
It definitely was for me💯
i love learning from stoicism its helped me so much in recent times.
Same it Save my life 🤛🏼
This is a very timely posting!
Wow! Thank you for pointing out this path. I have been working very hard on clearing my life with introspection and understanding of what is my business and what is not. What is healthy for me and what is not. I feel that I have crossed a healthy bridge. Walking away from the trash heap I used to call home has Been and will continue to Be Freedom for me. I aim to help when and where I can. I maintain my new Stoic self..
I truly agree with this video. It is the price of living these experiences with myself and so many others.
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Ask yourself one question. Would they do it for ME, too? Odds are less than 15-85 against. Be SF Strong. No prisoners. Empathy steadfast always.
Thank you for keeping me updated on ways to evolve my time/life.
Thanks for modern day technology..the Internet. Words of wisdom.❤
I have come to respect my own level of emotional energy. There are many times I can't give someone what they need from me. I have had to learn how to convey that. I have also come to respect what other folks may have available to offer me.
It takes mindful daily practice !!
Like exercising your muscles in a gym...
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Right effort right Action
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I still believe it pays to help people because we reap what we sow. God will Bless 🙌 us in our giving. However yes I do believe there is a time to draw the line. That's why I'm listening to these videos. There can be extremes either way.
Thank you for the inspiration 🙏
I've been manipulated several times every time I wanted to lend a hand and help even if I'm being understanding my mom would tell me others may might not be as nice as me.. I felt like I felt into chaotic relams of hell being around those who were too ignorant to accept suggestions, be too full of themselves and not accepting accountabilities when their wrong.. I thought it's ok to be right but it's ok to be mistaken some times I was so concerned with being perfect when I was burning myself out I had responsibilities and there were things I couldn't refuse if it was my job..needless to say understanding other's mindset led me to believe that someone who may twist my words around and end up acting like they know more then I had to learn if others think everything evolves around are crazy and delusional...no one owes anything you gotta work for it...having a mindset can exhausting to think you know it when you really don't know nothing...a little advice don't accommodate anyone who's willing to use for their benefits not to help you out in return...if they are put negative faults on you distance yourself get away from these people they are not good for you...if they are refusing to take full responsibilities then don't make them leave to God and you don't entertain those individuals that like to be ignorant as them do behave like them...they want power to get you to react, self awareness and self care is always important if they are liars living in a false world leave them where, focus on you it's good to see good in people but one thing you should know just because they act good doesn't necessarily mean they are good some do it for attention and validations.
It's not our jobs to change anyone's behaviors their will always be bullying assholes all around us it's our jobs to learn from them and how we should and should not react when fools over exaggerate about stupid stuff I've made those mistakes by defending myself against their negative criticisms where it give them more fuel to attack me more cause I was engaging iin their drama when I should have ignored it and not explain nothing...others are gonna think what they want cause that's them but it only matter if we choice to believe it or brush it off.
If someone tries to upset you or try to put themselves above you don't pay them anyone their jealous and immature be yourself and stay true to yourself if you know who you are don't feed into it cause that's what they want lead an example to others they ain't all that...you can try and help others but if they don't want help then forget about it an take care of yourself misery likes company I lost my mind doing that don't make the same mistakes.
You were manipulated because you allowed it.
@DonTheMoron716 and that's what I'm paying for I had to learn not to trust others who are liars manipulators and psychotic assholes...it was my fault for being too nice to those who were up to no good and not be trusted..even though I sometimes had to be disciplined in order to learn my place without being caught up in craziness that's what I get for beefing with evil so much but there's things and certain sacrifices I had to make choices to stop it without losing everything I worked hard for ain't no body was gonna destroy me na huh I've gone through enough and I'm emotionally drained I've had enough I was too weak to set boundaries with toxic enemies but it ain't happening again I refuse to be a victim again.
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@@michaelciccone2194 huh? am I going to Crossville Alabama?.
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Yes good inspiration. I am loving this app. I watch it everday.
Yes good inspiration.THANK YOU
Good stuff, thank you for the lessons.
Exactly it’s come in different form . ❤✌️
The first one describes the senile and cynical transgender and non- binary community who are pushing false accusations of others not wanting to date as bigots rather than see themselves as different and respecting people’s personal spaces and lives. This is not all but a high percentage who are doing this and as a result rape, suicides, disenfranchised friendships have occurred. BTW, I am a lesbian who sees this behavior from them through and through. Love this channel! ❤
Well stated. They are horrible people.
I should have listened to this in my 20’s . I would have made much fewer mistakes
Should of. Would of *
And don’t I know it. But I have to do it because it is family that needs me.❤
So true, I made these mistake. Never again.
These Times we live in feeds peoples ego.
They pretend to listen
But they don't.....
Best wishes 🙏
I found this video very helpful and relaxing to watch.
Thank you 🙏
Twisting the concept of empathy for the "easy " result is a real problem for the 21st century man.
Thank you!❤
❤❤❤❤ I will forever clap for others until it's my turn🎉🎉🎉
Thank you 🙏⭐
Thanks!
Very interesting set of videos. I had no idea! I totally get it.
This video's information ties up and trims the frays. A conformation that there will be those who never come out of their fantasy.
Spot on, once again... great content without a doubt!
Beautiful wisdom
So happy to hear this even though i got it late now i know its never too late its hard work but i am willing i have done a lot of work through the book the secret i also love psychology i have been used and abused by individuals starting with my family
Bright Blessings ~
Gratitude
Thank you...
Very Good Ty
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Superb.
Great stuff
Great advice
Well presented and concise, thank you! The speech-to-text rendering has some errors which are sometimes jarring, but more often amusing. The engine seems to struggle rendering Epictetus' name in particular.
So.good...love❤
We all engage in self-deception to some extent.
Thanks so much for sharing, this is a great place to learn from..
Much wisdom on this.
Its fair enough, yet superficial too. For example, your motive in 'helping' somepne, may not be to ' see change'. It might be to manipulate them in another way. Unhelpable people may have something you want. Infact it may suit you that they are 'stuck'. Look at your motives to being part of their life. If you are getting what you want, you might want to keep the bond. If you want to change another person, is it to suit your own objectives?
In my experience, as a street musician, sometimes people come to 'help' me. A young teenage girl came, determined to give me water and a bag of crisps, neither of which I particularly wanted. I explained to her, in the freezing cold, that street people need electrolytes to keep warm. Such as juice. And that the last thing i wanted was to carry a bottle of water about. It was wet and my feet were wet and cold. The last thing i wanted was more water. And tap water here is free and accessible. I would rather the m9ney. Thats why i put the hat out. Many people will not give money to baggars and homeless. But i was busking. Its totally different. Anyway, point is....helping is sometimes an attempt by the helper to control the projected 'victim'.
Beatyfull ❤
The language should be easy and simple to comprehend
Good job
brilliant.
The video is interesting and
beautiful
No good deed goes unpunished
Now i see how people get away with murder.
Who got murderd,it cant be me!,can it?.am i dead?,i do feel sorta numb inside..( sorry just being idiot).. i find its sad how ppl say they wouldnt do something in that position,then suddenly they are in that situation,and they always choose to get away with murder,as aposed to killing soneone with kindness..😮😮
I have destroyed many people. All regrets.
How would I get a transcript of one of the nine. So as to memorise?
Yes.
Especially FAMILY!
You can't help someone who won't help himself.
Thanks brother ❤
Thank you from your video I learned to say no.
That's about everyone. Anyone else wouldn't need your help in the first place.
It's humbling to see that I still engage in such childish ways.
I am afraid i am also one of em.... but i ll try to improve
Some people are Hopeless. They go from one catastrophe to another !!! You can advise them to do something ridiculously easy, but they won't do it !!! Then they come back to you with the same problem !!!
Beautiful melody ❤️
I must think this over.
Unsolvable situation….Trying to open a locked door.
I agree
Beautiful but could not focus due to The New Years music in the background. For me doesn’t fit the wisdom of the words.
Silence is golden when it comes background sound of any type! That is what helps me focus! ❤
I loved the Auld Lang Syne Music…we are all different after all 😅 lol
Sometimes the missionary impulse feels irresistible. It's hard to see friends and loved-ones suffer, but you can't force them to accept your help or advice, if they don't want it.
What if your mother is the first type? Who has been creating a ‘positive’ world away from my father’s and my harsh, reality based one?
Be grateful you have her.
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i need this translated into regular speek
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I am a music lover, but maybe a better mixing job will fair better for many of your listeners. Constructive criticism, that is all.
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Too much explanation sir pls come to the points faster
Wow this video described me well I'm the first he describes 😢 I need professional help 😢.
Stoicism is a mental state of self-worth but not always correct in reality. All respect but not worthy as truth. TJ
Good, but must we endure music? Isn't the information enough?
😂 Really , is that mean I don’t feel confident about myself or what’s the point 😂❤✌️
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Hi. There's a saying...before you seek to change the world, change yourself. People concerned more about orher peoples issues rather than those people themselves...will only lead to more issues and cause a rift and division. Some people just want to be left alone and those who want / need help...should be vocal. I've learnt over the years that sometimes helping people and beckoning to thier every call...ends up making you exhausted and those people actually don't care about anything or anyone..accept themselves and how they can benefit ftom a situation and other people...thus they do not see the need to change...i mean why would they...when they are favoured because of thier corcumstances and have people at thier disposal..knowing no matter what they do..those people will keep showing up to bail them out of the situations and perhaps even the drama they have csused.
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I would help anybody. Even the worst person.
I need your help, please can I borrow your car for a month? I promise not go street racing with it