Thank you for sharing this beautiful video. There's so much toxic masculinity out there and it's hard to find media where trans people really confront the gender boxes and talk openly about mental health and clarity and how important it is to maintain that self love, and if possible depending on the person's circumstances to work from internal recognition rather than external pressures.
Yes the forces can sway depending -- saying it doesn't matter is like saying the wind cannot blow a lesser man off his feet (lesser than the winds strength). As of late more conversations are centered around not BREAKING the binary but letting it be and acknowledging everyone we witness is not of the same experience nor interpretation. I always wanted to be me. Not someones ideal category of a man. I never imagined I would please or pleasure anyone with my personal honesty - I just wanted it to exist. I see you
I like to hear you allow what works for you and your attention to peace is similar to mine. For me its not about allowing thoughts as ive experienced no control in my thoughts but what i can do is to question any of my thoughts to genuinely explore them so when 'bad' thoughts appear they have less of an impact or no impact and what remains is a step closer to my peace. Best wishes for your way
I hear what your saying and I can't relate. But I see your point very clearly and I understand. I was off T for a year to listen to my body. Because I had the benefit of passing I could take this journey alone. It was my time to relax from the transition and look at it. I became incongruent again because what I had to do my body wasn't giving me. I didn't have the physical strength for my job, my emotions was overbearing to my gf, I noticed in conflicts I retreated when it was not only okay but it was necessary. That's when it clicked. My body needed the female privileges that I hated before I started testosterone. The female privileges I did not want. And because I pass I cannot exercise those privileges anyway. I should not access these feelings. They serve me no purpose as a man. To sever that connection I think is necessary. Each surgery is more than the surgery. I dont need that literal female energy attached to my body. In some ways I need that confirmation. When I got my hysto I understood I wasnt sexist for feeling that. Its your life.
I just love your view and outook on things, A lot of the topics you cover hit home in a lot of ways. We have so Much in common. I pray for your continued growth and I hope you continue to rationalize your internal thoughts verbally and publicly its truly refreshing to watch. Much love.
I asbsolutely vibe with your understanding and I'm glad to see you've come this far and grown so much.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful video. There's so much toxic masculinity out there and it's hard to find media where trans people really confront the gender boxes and talk openly about mental health and clarity and how important it is to maintain that self love, and if possible depending on the person's circumstances to work from internal recognition rather than external pressures.
Yes the forces can sway depending -- saying it doesn't matter is like saying the wind cannot blow a lesser man off his feet (lesser than the winds strength).
As of late more conversations are centered around not BREAKING the binary but letting it be and acknowledging everyone we witness is not of the same experience nor interpretation.
I always wanted to be me. Not someones ideal category of a man. I never imagined I would please or pleasure anyone with my personal honesty - I just wanted it to exist.
I see you
I like to hear you allow what works for you and your attention to peace is similar to mine. For me its not about allowing thoughts as ive experienced no control in my thoughts but what i can do is to question any of my thoughts to genuinely explore them so when 'bad' thoughts appear they have less of an impact or no impact and what remains is a step closer to my peace. Best wishes for your way
I hear what your saying and I can't relate. But I see your point very clearly and I understand. I was off T for a year to listen to my body. Because I had the benefit of passing I could take this journey alone. It was my time to relax from the transition and look at it. I became incongruent again because what I had to do my body wasn't giving me. I didn't have the physical strength for my job, my emotions was overbearing to my gf, I noticed in conflicts I retreated when it was not only okay but it was necessary. That's when it clicked. My body needed the female privileges that I hated before I started testosterone. The female privileges I did not want. And because I pass I cannot exercise those privileges anyway. I should not access these feelings. They serve me no purpose as a man. To sever that connection I think is necessary. Each surgery is more than the surgery. I dont need that literal female energy attached to my body. In some ways I need that confirmation. When I got my hysto I understood I wasnt sexist for feeling that. Its your life.
I just love your view and outook on things, A lot of the topics you cover hit home in a lot of ways. We have so Much in common. I pray for your continued growth and I hope you continue to rationalize your internal thoughts verbally and publicly its truly refreshing to watch. Much love.
Fist bump to those words of affirmation. That's love. It's appreciated. Respect, Jojo.
This is great
Thank you for sharing
Well said. :)
So well said.
another great hope I can gain half of the intelligence self knowing speech in toon ment u have